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Pff. Why do you say or do stuff which is embarrassing in a first place?
/r/seduction16/12/23 04:13 PM
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Technically, you do have a choice in what you believe. But person can’t just switch to something like hedonism. It doesn’t work like that. All who I am is based on the believe that life is meaningless. Pretending that is not and just indulge in pleasures will make me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:51 PM
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Consequence of it, that you will be removed from gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:45 PM
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Humans are the consequence of evolution. So if you would not have self awareness you would just go along with it like any other animal. I do agree that there is no purpose in going forward. But you still “technically” do because you chose to live. So then by what means do you decide that live is worth living but reproduction is not worth the trouble?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:42 PM
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Lol 😂. I was surprised as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:33 PM
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Because those two things are unrelated. You can believe that life is meaningless but still be curious. And still want children. Etc. Because this is in our DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:32 PM
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Yes. But if every individual within a species decides that is not worth it, then the species will extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:01 AM
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Maybe “purpose” is bad word to use in this context. But think like this: You born as a consequence of your parents they born as a consequence of their parents and so on. So, if you do not do anything you will break a chain. This consequence chain does not have the purpose, but it does exist. So by breaking you annihilate all possible variations of your kids, grandkids and so on. Which is just sad 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:57 AM
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The purpose of life is just that. Continue living. Nothing else nothing more. We can’t live forever individually that’s why evolution found a way to do it by passing genes. There are other ways. Like cloning, or freezing etc. But as humans we live by reproducing. The pleasure of sex is a consequence of that. The reason why it is so pleasurable so that we could reproduce and continue our lineage. Imagine if sex would be “yack” the life would not exist. P.s. I don’t want kids, hence the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:28 PM
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Hmm. I really like it. Sounds like a sacrifice for better of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:18 PM
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Cause they are wrong. If you are a chad with good photos there is no better place for you than Tinder. If you are an average. Then real life would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:11 AM
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I was thinking exactly the same way like you before I had experience. Like I will use PUA tactics to get what I want and will dump her. What kind of monster I am? And once I had my first couple lays I felt really bad. But not because I used them. But because I felt that they used me for their own satisfaction. Why? Because I did the most of work. I approached them. I made conversations funny and engaging, I figured out all the logistics. And even in bed I had to be dominant. And make sure she ha…
/r/seduction28/08/23 06:48 PM
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Totally agree. I used to go to the pub alone and approach women. But it was disastrous. They looked at me like a creep. Until I learned that is better first to build social proof by talking with guys or mixed groups and pretend that you are part of their group. Once you do that. Then when you approach other women they are so receptive. This is so stupid. I hate society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:28 PM
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Well. At first I was embarrassed and I have lied. And made up stories. But maybe 2 years in a relationship I came up clean. It didn’t really matter at that point. Cause past was past. Especially that she herself had crazy past where she cheated on multiple boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:00 AM
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Yes. I have told.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:56 AM
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It’s not just confidence. It’s the philosophy of life. Your mindset. All these skills transferred to other areas in my life. It taught me that you can improve anything. You don’t just born with depression or shyness. All things are fixable. I have been rejected literally 100s of times. I made fool of myself multiple times. These lessons make you stronger mentally. I learned how to demand respect from people. And someone who was bullied all my childhood was life changing. And all thanks to RedPil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:57 PM
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When I started PUA I was 25. Kissless virgin. 0 experience with women. Well technically I had 4 escorts. But I don’t count them. Once I started do cold approaches. I got rid my social anxiety and I have managed to sleep with 3 women in 6 months time. And then I got into relationship which lasted for 5 years. So PUA, literally changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:34 PM
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I like petite women because they are small and easy to pick up and hold. Which makes certain sex positions doable. It’s strictly sexual preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:07 PM
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You have started this nonsense with your bullshit comment. I am atheist and liberal and you are religious conservative. Why don’t we just leave it like this? And go on with our day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:02 PM
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This is exact reason I don’t like close minded people. They always make you feel like you’re bad person just because you believe in something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:54 PM
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Why people making money and love always exclusive? There is nothing preventing you to have millions in your bank account and having genuine relationship with a person who you love and who loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:04 PM
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Interesting. Never thought about it like that. But yeah. That make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:54 PM
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Hair: Brunette, personal preference Eyes: Green, because it’s rare Height: 5”0-5”5, because I am 5”7 Build: petite, I am fat phobic Earnings: less or equal, because I want to feel like a man Job status: better, because I want to be proud of her Min max exes: 2 - 5, with virgins there is higher possibility cheating, she has to know what she wants Min max sleep: 10 - 30, I want that she would be experienced. So that I could show to her that from all the men she had, I am the best at sex. Religion:…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:32 PM
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It’s like one of those things which exists in nature but is not common. For example homosexualism. There are documented cases where animals engage in this act. So is not really specific to human social behaviour. When it comes to finding a partner. More common is for males to take the active role, which includes human species as well. That doesn’t mean there are no species where females are fighting for males. So, there is nothing wrong if woman approaches the man as long as it is done only by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:06 PM
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I do believe that in order to get something in life sometimes you have to be dishonest and morally flexible. However, when it comes to relationships. I don’t believe this rule applies. Because one of the reasons to be in a relationship is to be honest with your partner. And not saying the truth about height or weight is a form of lie called “lie of omission”. This makes an act of looking for a relationship totally pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:49 PM
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You do have a point. And it does relate to self esteem. However, it’s not easy to overcome the fact that you are somehow inadequate. And yes you can be happy. Pretend that everything is okay. Until once in a while a thought comes to your mind that you are not good enough. However, you are wrong about getting validation from women. I don’t care about that. It’s more about being a man or feeling like a man. Because no matter how you look. Body count is connected to your masculinity. You can ration…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:47 PM
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If what you’re saying is true, then You would be okay dating a 40 years old man with 0 count and one with 100 or even 300? For some reason I find it hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:16 PM
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Thanks. It’s good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:04 PM
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It’s not the point who asks who doesn’t. The question is how little is too little and how many is too many? In general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:02 PM
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Probably I should not have put my own stats. It distracts from the actual question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:59 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:52 PM
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You would be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:44 AM
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These examples are not manipulation. It is just simple lying. Manipulation is way more evil and sinister and almost invisible to someone who is being manipulated. For example. You meet a guy who gives the best time of your life, but then distances himself. Wanting you more of what you had. Then he reappears. He repeats this cycle until you are totally dependent on him. Once he creates a fear in you of loosing him. Then he starts to modify your behaviour to suit his needs. And if you don’t comply…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:11 AM
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Once I had a friend which was a Red Pilled. We were walking late Saturday evening in the city centre, and observed a random guy. That guy bought like 20 flowers and was walking around the city and giving them to "party" girls. At first, I was so impressed by this guy, and his courage and I thought that is really cool. Girls were so happy, when they received a flower. So polite "thank you", "you are so cute" and so on. And the guy, you could see from his face expression was also happy. Now, once …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:47 AM
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It is when you have a FWB and you call her.
/r/seduction13/08/23 03:02 AM
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The fastest method as far as I know is Booty call if you have. Escort if you don't.
/r/seduction13/08/23 02:58 AM
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Sometimes women call me "cute" when I say something cute. Couple of women called me "sexy", when during the date I took of the jacket and was only with a T-Shirt. I do have 47cm biceps. So it could be something to do with that :)
/r/seduction13/08/23 12:49 AM
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You don’t read it literally. It’s symbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:10 PM
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I don’t believe all women in 30s are like that. Some of them might be in the same situation as me. Like all they life spent for career, studies etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:54 PM
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Well. The plan is to find younger around 30y.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:51 PM
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Man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:48 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:46 PM
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Shit. This thread is scary. I am hitting 40 and still single. But want to get married and have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:39 PM
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Don’t know much about autism. However, social situations and even romance are all based on logic and rules of inference. Lets for example take a greeting “Hi” and “Hey” They seem like same word. However in reality there are subtle differences. “Hi” is more formal than “hey” but is less formal than “hello”. Why is that? Well it depends on many things such as common usage, context, symbolism and more. Let’s do some logic. Formal statements are using full length of words. “Hi” is a shorter version …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:07 PM
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As a person who haven’t left a flat and didn’t spoke to a real human in person for 3years. I definitely was looking for something like this. If you combine with physical RealDoll you get very good results. And yes, I can see myself being satisfied both physically and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:46 PM
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If not RP I would still think that women don’t like sex as much as men do. Or that women only like vanilla sex. Or that in relationship sex is given by woman as a favour. Or that romantic movies are the way love works. And other stuff. Have to say that I didn’t had a good man role model growing up. So RP opened my eyes to the truth. There are a lot of misogynistic bullshit but some things are truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:20 PM
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My ex gf viewed our relationship as magical. She even told me that. Once I dumped her she viewed it as investor and sad that she wasted best five years of her life. So it really depends…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:23 PM
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I believe “sexual compatibility” is one the most important criteria for healthy relationship. So if you have to wait for marriage in order learn about it. Then it is the same as buying a new car without actually going for a test drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:20 AM
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I don't know if it is the truth, but people in the spectrum tend to be very logical. If that is the case, then you agree that: People who are really good looking and have great social skills has a good success with women. They go to the club, social event etc. and they find someone without much of the effort. So by that logic if the person is lacking in any of those areas then he would have to put more effort in order to get same results. On the other end of the spectrum we have individuals who …
/r/seduction29/07/23 03:52 PM
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Good stuff. I would also add that a guy has not only dick and fingers. There are lots of other body parts. Knee, elbow, palm, cheek etc. All of them could and should be used. And if you run out of options there are literally 1000s of other objects to use. Once I found a feather from the pillow lying on the floor, and made her cum with it.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:02 PM
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Flirting is an attitude. And I can't explain. It is like explaining "how to walk". It is not possible to deconstruct, too many things going on at the same time. But you learned how to walk. So you can learn to flirt. Just talk and talk and talk and talk with women. And you won't even notice how your attitude (flirting) towards them will change.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:55 PM
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Well. This was expected. First of all cold approaches work on low self esteem women in a first place. Second, you don't have much of experience with women. Combined those two and you always end up in this position.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:47 PM
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You don't get it. People don't like you of who you are. They like HOW you make them feel. He didn't make her happy so she cheated on him. Simple as that.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:35 PM
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First of all if they are happy together and she is faithful, it won't happen. It is not possible. The only way she will cheat on her bf if something is wrong in their relationship. It can be anything. There was a guy in my town. He was a restaurant owner. He was average and she was really hot. Obviously, they got married and had a child and looked very happy. Couple years later he divorced her, because she was cheating on him with a guy who she met in a gym. All town was talking about it. The th…
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:12 PM
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You are good looking but don't have a game. Just look at other guys who seem successful and copy.
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:55 PM
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Go to a club and start chatting with girls. If you are foreigner, you will get a lot of attention. You can also open Tinder.
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:51 PM
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There are just too many red flags from this post. "Don't talk to people too much" - which sounds you are loner and not social. There is a high possibility that your colleagues and even she thinks exactly that. "I am double face" - basically, what it means that you act differently when with friends/family and when with other people. Which indicates that you have insecurities, most likely social anxiety. "I like girl in my office" - dating coworker is just never a good idea. Because rumours starts…
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:47 PM
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Location. Country. Culture. Time of the year and day. Age. Pace. Race etc goes under "Context". And of course Context matters. The reason it is not talked about, is the same reason we don't have a formula to predict financial market. There are just too many variables. Probably there are not enough hard disks to write all the permutations of possibilities. Hence, we generalise. Most books for the game were written by white male in USA to seduce white woman in USA.
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:18 PM
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Get a therapy, not a surgery.
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:08 PM
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Think of interaction with you and her like a train. There should always be one driver, otherwise it will go off the rails. Of course, you can give a driver seat to her, but is more like teaching a kid to drive, you are still responsible and you are in control. For example, if you see that she gets distracted by the mess in a room, don't stand and do nothing, because now she is in control and moving train off the rails. Instead, take back charge. Like catch her, and pull her close and say "Don't …
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:59 PM
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You need to create a sexual tension. If you won't, it will just show that you are not into her or you are afraid to express yourself. Either way, she won't reciprocate as well. Think about woman as a mirror. She is a reflection of your own feelings.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:45 PM
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I guess they are not interested in you.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:52 AM
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Most likely you give the "weirdo" vibe. And like all weirdos you are too focused on yourself. Instead of asking "How can I get women to talk to me" ask, "What can I do to help other people?" If you focus on other people, you will become more approachable and your problem will be solved.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:49 AM
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Just do it yourself. It is like asking for a mom to hold your hand while learning to walk.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:40 AM
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Cmon. You can find 1-2 hours per day after work to approach. Used to do it, and had time for work, gym, salsa lessons etc. Basically anytime you are in public. You see someone you approach. It is not that hard. Once you get into routine.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:26 PM
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Depending where you live. If you live in a big city than it is totally doable. Also, once you approach 10-15 in 30 min. Then you reach the stage where you don't give a fck anymore. You start approaching everyone and you loose count.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:19 PM
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It will take you forever. Aim for at least 10 per day.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:26 PM
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The people who make the "enlightened" statements that pussy is overrated statements are the same people who jerk off five times a day in their moms basement I think it is the other way around. For people who don't get regular sex, it seems like holy grail. But once you start getting regular sex it becomes not important. I strongly suggest to google Maslows hierarchy of needs.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:22 PM
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Ask friends or even better your friends girlfriends for help.
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:46 PM
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Fuck it. You can go for it. As long as you are honest, and if someone asks you "Why are you here?" You say the truth "I don't care about hockey, I am here just to meet hot girls".
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:24 AM
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It is a dump reason. You don't need to take classes you don't like, you don't have to lie, nor you have to become someone else to fuck hot girls. You can do the hobby you like and still fuck hot girls.
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:03 AM
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She was interested in you, because she agreed to meet with you. 2 times. It is very big indication that she was into you. She didn't order anything for whatever reason. On diet, don't have money, who cares. It does not matter. You didn't escalate during those two dates, hence she lost interest. She thinks "I like him, but I don't want to sit again at a coffee shop, and do nothing. Hence, I ghost him."
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:50 AM
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Idk, how did you made this conclusion. I literally sad that you should not wait for a moment. You should create one. You can't kiss while you are walking. And you can't kiss in a public place, I mean you can, but she might not be comfortable, and she will reject you just because you don't have social awareness.
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:44 AM
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I get what you are saying. But still If I have choice to be a woman or a man, I would still choose to be a man in this age. And I bet you would do it too. Women has way worse. Yes, they do get easy sex, but most woman like relationship. And because they are choosing a guy which is in 5%. They compete with 1000s of other women for one guy. But this guy has such a high value, that he will choose the best one for a relationship. Hence, she won't get what she wants. And she will get dumped and used …
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:05 AM
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It does not matter, whether I am being serious or trolling. It can be interpreted in either way. It really depends on a person, and how he thinks about himself and other people. My answer got upvoted, therefore most people think that I am being sincere. You on the other hand, look at the word from pessimistic point of view, therefore you think I am trolling. Like a sad, change glasses (perspective) and your life becomes a gift rather a burden.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:59 PM
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Dude. Facial expressions are called "expressions" for a reason. They literally express your mood. So, in order, to smile without being a creep, you have to be happy, you have to feel joy. You are happy that you are going to a gym. You are happy that sun is shining. You are happy because this is HOW YOU FEEL. So focus of being happy instead of thinking how to smile.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:49 PM
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You know in the movies, they always show first kiss somehow special. Usually, they are in a moment where everything slows down. Although, movies are not a reality, but in this case they have a point. Meaning, that you won't be able to kiss if you are not in the moment. So either you can wait that moment which may never come, or you can create it yourself. Like stop walking, look at the sea, stars or whatever. Sit down, put her on your lap. Then when talking slow down your voice, look at her lips…
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:41 PM
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So you stop her by running in front of her. She stops, there will be this 1 second moment of the surprise. Where she thinks "What is going on?" So, let her calm down. For 1 or 2 seconds. Then look at her eyes, make sure she looks at you as well and then say "Hi". When saying that you have to be happy. I am not talking to smile like a clown. But you have to feel happiness, a real joy. Your face expression of happiness will calm her down. Will make her at ease. At that moment she will realise that…
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:25 PM
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Can you believe that out of 7 billion people you are the only one. There is no other you. You are unique. Embrace this though and love yourself. Once you do this, women will love you as well.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:46 PM
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Its like asking "Should I eat if I am hungry?"
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:10 PM
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Say the truth. If you lie to her, it means you are trying to impress her. Which means you are needy. Those are not my thoughts, but Mark Manson author of "Models". And I agree with him.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:07 PM
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I see why not. Most girls, even crazy religious ones, don't really want to get into relationship before having sex with you. What I am trying to say is that you don't have to lie in order to sleep with them. It is like starting dealing drugs in order to get rich. It is stupid, it is dangerous and eventually you will get caught.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:03 PM
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That's sounds total bs. A year has 52 weeks, so you fucked different woman a week. You need to have literally 100% success rate to achieve this. Meaning that every time you meet, she will fuck with you on a first date. No matter how hot you are, this is not achievable. Unless you go out every day including weekdays. But the type of lifestyle should have negative impact on your work. You can't just go to sleep at 1 am, wake up next morning at 7 am, do this every day for a year without burning out…
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:48 PM
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If your game is solid, usually it is around 7 hours.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:28 PM
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If you have a high libido your best chance to be satisfied is to find a gf. Casual sex is a hit and miss even with the skills. If you don't have skills then you will get even more frustrated. It is sad way of living the life. So find a gf with same high libido as you, and fuck her as much as you want. This strategy is the best if you are aiming to get most with least effort.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:27 PM
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Same thing. 90% of time tinder shows all hotties to me while swiping. But when someone's likes me is always fat, ugly and asians.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:08 PM
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It doesn't matter what you say.. it's HOW you say it. Actually it is the INTENT behind your words what matters the most.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:05 PM
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Leave her alone. Start talking and being with other girls, until you solve your insecurities. Then, once you are confident enough, come back and try with her.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:09 PM
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If you need to "keep interest" you already failed, because your are already more needy than her.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:10 AM
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As long as your value is higher or at least equal to hers then you will "get" her. If you are 4/10 going for 10/10 then, not matter how much social skill you have it is impossible. If you go for 4/10 or 3/10 then most likely you will succeed.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:54 AM
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From where you get this statistics? Because, women's profiles are no better. Duck faces, wearing sunglasses, doing shit which does not show, or cover their face etc. And the most popular is a group of girls and you have no idea which one of them is she.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:47 AM
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I look at relationship as a friendship with a spice.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:45 AM
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I don't agree with this statement. You can talk about past relationship, as long as you say good things about your ex without making seem that you are still into her/him. If you do it right it could be the best way to DHV.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:43 AM
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I had and I don't recommend. They charge you insane amount of money. But the worse, they brain wash you with toxic misogynist bs. Took me years to realised that I was scammed.
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:52 AM
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Of course it works. I go with at least a watch and a ring on my hands. Also, tattoos are one of the best ways to peacock. As for looking like a magician also works if that is your style.
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:45 AM
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Great. I actually haven't read the book yet.
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:45 PM
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You don't have to apologise. And thanks for advice. You are right. But also I am right. We are just looking at the same thing from different perspectives. It is like you and I sit opposite side of the table, I see 6 in a middle, and you see 9. From our perspective those are different numbers, however objectively we are both right.
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:29 PM
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Idk. This does not sound right. You should not become a leader to attract woman, nor you should become one just to be the leader. Instead do what you like and become so good that other people start listening to you on what you have to say on the subject. And soon enough you will be the leader for that particular demographics. As for woman, they like man who has mission/passion or just knows where he is going in life. And that is nothing to do with him being a leader or not.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:04 PM
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Politics, cyber warfare, sales, advertisement, show and other business would not agree with you. There are always bad, good, better and the best way to talk and influence people. Women, are people. Therefore, there is always better way to speak to them.
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:39 PM
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Most likely trans.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:39 PM
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I see what you mean. But let's think about couple of scenarios. First of all, let's assume this is not a shit test, and she actually being a "bitch". In that case, her answer will just confirm your suspicion and you can end it there. If it was a shit test. Then it means she already likes you. Cause, shit tests by definition are thrown only towards people who you like. Therefore, I find it very hard to believe that she would shit test you again. Especially you were honest about the answer. Meanin…
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:16 PM
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Technically, once you redirect the question to her, it is YOU who are testing her, now. So, her saying this, she fails the test, and you can find someone better. Remember. It is not you who is hitting on her. It is BOTH of you playing the game. It is two way street.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:52 PM
8

Give her space for few weeks or a month. Meanwhile chat with other girls. And then you can try again.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:04 PM
15

It is a dead end with this one. As for next time don't be desperate. Women can smell desperation from miles.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:54 PM
78

Very good advice. What I would add and what actually helped me is "Don't do things you like, instead do things which you hate." It will make you get out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:30 PM
2

Be social at bus stop. Don't just talk with girls, but guys as well. And when you are talking, grab people's attention. By moving around a lot, loud laughing, dominant and confident body language. Make sure you are the focus of attention. Once you have this, girls will start noticing you, and then you can approach them. p.s. Just don't be an asshole or a bully.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:15 PM
3

At school bus stop a lot of people know each other. So, it is like social venue/circle game. And as in any social venue game you have to first build the SOCIAL PROOF. Without it, you will be considered as a creep.
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:44 PM
12

This actually good answer. However, it does acknowledge the fact that she shit tests you. And you are just passing those tests. There are no consequences for her, so she can just keep going with those tests. So, I would just be honest with her and redirect question back to her, because this is the actual truth. <pause> "Honestly, I have no idea. I think it is for you to answer. <pause> <strong eye contact>So, <her name>, tell, me, why?"
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:32 PM
1

You are totally right. This is exactly what I have realised as well. You can't predict her state of mind, it is impossible. However, you can adjust yours for the maximum success rate. For example, if you are horny, there is chance that she is horny as well, so sending first sexualised message could work, but those are outliers. Bigger success rate you will have if you have normal fun conversation, because this is the most common expectation. So your state of mind should be happy, have abundance …
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:14 PM
13

Woman will choose you if she thinks you are better or at least at the same level than she is. In other words, if she thinks you are a "catch". You have to rise your own value, or go for women with lesser value than you.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:49 PM
7

flirt with them without having them expecting more Good luck with that
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:33 PM
1

You just have to rise the attraction towards you. Simps will chase her, she will chase you. You can use the most obvious tactics: Qualification Push & Pull Preselection etc.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:31 PM
2

Isolate her and escalate one on one.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:25 PM
8

Had women wanting split bills and still had second dates. And had women who didn't want to split bills and it was the end. Therefore, from experience, I didn't find any pattern which would indicate her attraction level based on wanting splitting bills.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:38 AM
1

Just pretend that you are thinking of her only as a friend. Usually they give you number.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:23 AM
2

She is teasing you back. So it is a good sign. But wether she will sleep with you, we can't tell.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:20 AM
2

The best feedback wether she wants to meet again or not. If yes, then you did good, if no, then you failed.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:08 AM
14

Man. WTF is wrong. I see so many posts about this height shit. I am 5.7, and never thought that I have an issue, because there wasn't. But once I came to this sub, apparently I have the issue as well.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:35 PM
1

At least he tried.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:17 PM
1

"Hi guys. Do you mind if I join?"
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:03 PM
8

Talk to the guys first, then include girls and everyone else in the conversation. Once you are part of the group, then you can talk alone with the girls.
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:51 PM
1

Personally I don't really understand the "cheating" thing. If you are in a relationship, then you love and respect the other person. If you want to have sex with another woman than either break up with current one or ask if she would be interesting in threesome. Why cheat? And if you do cheat, then it means you were not actually in a relationship, you just pretended to be. So why do you lie to yourself that you are in a relationship? It is illogical...
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:42 PM
4

It is indication she is not into you. You finish conversation and move on.
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:39 PM
1

It is a "slut defence". She does not want to appear "cheap", in front of your eyes. This, is such a bs, in my opinion and it is really annoying, but every women has it. Just respect her decision. And try again later.
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:34 PM
2

I try to give as little compliments as possible. So that when I DO give they actually mean something. When it comes to photos. Women send them in order to get validation from you. However, I rarely give them that. No matter if she is my gf or not. The best reply is to say something funny or just say something nice about the photo itself. "Wow, I like the angle of the photo, good job", instead of "Omg, you look gorgeous"
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:31 PM
5

The way I interpret confidence is a lack of fear. E.g. Initially most of us are afraid to sit in front of the wheel and drive car. We have fear, or in other words we are not confident. However, the more you face the fear, or the more you practice you gain the confidence. Eventually you reached a point where the fear is non-existent. However, just try not to drive for 10 years. And the fear is back. And no matter what action you try: driving, sky diving, public speaking, approaching woman, being …
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:20 PM
6

I can tell you what happens. I have dated a woman for 1 year, she was 43 when I met. She was really hot when she was 21. And at 43 she was 9-10 in her age group. Now, the interesting thing was her relationship with social media. She did post a lot on IG. The content was not very sexual, just normal stuff. However, when it came to our relationship, she used to post everything. If we go for holiday, we didn't even left the flat she already posted something about it. Always taking photos of us toge…
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:09 PM
1

Obviously not.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:29 PM
2

Porn does replace sex, surprisingly to high degree of success. However, it does not replace emotional connection. Although, some high end dolls can do that as well. He has illness, until he admits and will want to change, there is nothing you can do.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:26 PM
-1

Nah, man it works for all kind of women. Everyone has weakness and desires which can be exploited by someone else. However, it does not mean the honesty, sincerity, respect does not work. They do work. It is up to the person to decide what kind of person he wants to be. Neither you, nor me nor anyone else are saints, and we can not say what is wrong and what is right. If we do, we will be hypocrites.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:53 PM
1

Is there any other stage?
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:42 PM
2

Asking to go out.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:34 PM
3

The answer is in the title. I will rephrase it "Why do girls say they like "fruits" but never date them?" "Liking" and "dating" are too separate things. So, I don't see what is the problem.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:27 PM
3

wanna wing each other Is it me or this sounds way too gay?
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:24 PM
-1

Gas lighting, starting a fight or argument, not responding for a long time. These are literally the one of the best tactics. Worked in politics and in love for centuries.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:22 PM
0

I am actually. But this is not a party and from your post it didn't seem like this is a joke post.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:44 PM
0

I see. Then the answer is "neither".
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:37 PM
7

Most likely she is emotional/physical type of woman. Talking is pointless, just do more kino, be assertive and dominant.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:36 PM
1

Does not really matter. I got single day lays before afternoons.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:30 PM
5

Woman smiling at you in parties while you are approaching, are not indication of interest. They are just being polite. Stranger women looking at you and smiling, for no reason, it COULD be considered as indication of interest.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:28 PM
0

Car and home buying decisions should not be based on how much those things will impress her. There are other, way more important things to consider "Sustainability", "Carbon footprint" etc.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:25 PM
5

Unfortunately, that's what the game is when it comes to getting laid. I went to seminar, and PUA showed infield video where he got laid in 4 hours or something. The PUA was quite famous in the London community. However, what was really sad was the woman he approached. She was around 7. Was siting on her own. She didn't talk much, was more introvert. However, this dude run the game on her like crazy. I didn't even see the need to do so much. Most likely she would just said yes anyways. And this i…
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:40 PM
3

That is really good post. Finally someone sad it. However, the only thing I would add is that women and men are not that different when it comes to logic and emotions. Where women wants things like anger, happiness, fear, uncertainty, validation etc. Men crave for ego boost, control, recognition, power. And both sides can play that basketball game as good as they want. I never forget my first lay from gaming. I was so proud of myself that I did it. I finally managed to score. However it lasted o…
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:10 PM
11

Well. Some women are really mean. However, I see it more as defence mechanism rather than actually being evil.
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:47 AM
4

Nah, man. I have seen with my own eyes. Skill and experience do matter. However, what really striked me is their ability to select a woman to approach. I remember, was hanging out with PUA who has written lots of books, and has the whole business around this subject. We went to the pub, and there were literally 10s of hot girls. He just looked around and said. "Let's go somewhere else". I was like "Why, what about those two?" He looked at me, "Nah, they won't sleep with you. Let's go" The thing …
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:34 AM
0

The post breaks the rule "No beginner topics". And you literally just repeating, what I have sad. Which is talk to her like a person. find something in common, maybe something related to the class.
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:20 AM
3

Read technical old school PUA books. Such as "Mystery Method", "Day game mastery" by Nick Krauser etc. Although, I really like inner game books like Models, unfortunately they won't give fast results. Keep the journal and reflect on your mistakes. Lastly, be consistent.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:37 AM
12

Yes. It is a truth which books and PUA's don't tell you. You fail at approaching her. You fail at getting her number. You fail at texting. You fail at asking on a date. You fail at date. You fail at kissing You fail at asking to come over. You fail at making a move. There, are just too many points of failure. Hence is 500.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:29 AM
-2

The whole post is stupid. You know how to talk with people don't you? She is a people, so go to talk to her.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:25 AM
-4

Try English.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:22 AM
7

5 girls, are like nothing. If you are beginner without social skills, then on average you need approach 500 till you get laid. If you are experienced PUA, then you would average 1 in 10.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:17 AM
9

Balls are balls. Ass is ass. And, the area between is a gooch or perineum (anatomically). So, no bro. she liked your gooch not your ass.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:13 AM
2

The part of insulting strangers and getting away with social skill is actually hilarious haha 😂 hopefully i can get to that level too Lol. You clearly missed my point.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:16 AM
5

Also what are some general indicators that someone is happy to be approached? She is walking slowly. It is very strong indicator. Not to be approached but that if you do she will talk to you. She is not on her phone but, she is looking around She is checking out people She looked at you and then turn her eyes down She is sitting at the most visible place in the venue. E.g. Restaurant - first tables, or outside Pub - in front of bar Park - front benches She is not a leader of the group. Or is les…
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:06 AM
5

She is 38. She does not have a lot of options. Most likely is horny and wants to fuck. Make sure the logistics are good this time. No interruptions. And close it.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:46 AM
1

Yeah :)
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:40 AM
7

Proud of you man. I know how tough it is. The only suggestion I can give for you is to be mindful. You know that feeling after approach. You are shaking, adrenaline is rushing, and it feels like you are on drugs. If you do this more and more. This "rush" feeling will disappear. And you will start looking for more difficult social situations, just to feel "the rush" again. I remember, I started to insult random strangers, just to see wether I can get away using social skills. Or approach couples …
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:37 AM
7

I had a friend in college. He was very slim, average height, didn't talk much, and he drunk a lot. And when he was sober he couldn't even talk to a girl. Obviously, he had bad grades, no money, and he literally was a total looser. However, when it came to hooking up, he had sex with probably 100s of women in campus. I never understood how he did until now. You, see the difference between him and me, was that he actually MADE A MOVE. Chick is drunk, he is drunk and he goes for it. I, on the other…
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:28 AM
3

You don't have to say anything inappropriate in order to flirt.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:18 AM
1

34 and 10 months
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:15 AM
1

What have you already tried?
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:20 PM
2

"Hey. Do you speak English?" Depends on the country and your nationality obviously.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:02 PM
1

Sure. Go for it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:58 PM
1

It is impossible to say without seeing the actual messages.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:29 PM
1

By importance in the exact order: First and for most, game skills (inner and outer). Your looks (muscularity, masculine face, height) Body language, voice tone Style Important as well, but order does not really matter Social intelligence Linguistic intelligence Logical intelligence Emotional intelligence Money Power Outliers. If you have you don't need anything else. Fame
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:27 PM
11

"Hey. Do you speak English?"
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:15 PM
1

The latter.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:15 PM
2

You just have to learn day game.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:03 PM
1

It is not alpha, it is beta. No alpha will ask. He will just do it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:38 AM
2

I don't really consider this is as being that hot. But, more like, it is confirmation that she is comfortable.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:36 AM
1

Focus on sex itself. The better the sex, the bigger possibility she will want relationship with you. Once you give her the best sex. Then start being less available. Cancel appointments. Eventually, she will start thinking about relationship with you.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:32 AM
25

Very subtle signals. Appropriate in the public settings like restaurant. Looking at his lips Licking your own lips Leaning towards him Friendly touches Laughing at his jokes Sitting very close to him Asking to fix the necklace on your neck Friendly punches to his shoulders Asking to scratch your back Talking about sexual experiences Making inappropriate jokes Holding hands Fixing his tie, or a shirt Asking to zip or fix a dress on the back Asking for shoulder massage Less subtle. Appropriate bet…
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:13 AM
2

"Honestly. I don't know. I didn't expect to hear from you. Why did you reach out?"
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:28 AM
0

Good indicator is if the eye contact lasted longer than usual. Another indication is how she ended eye contact She looked to the side. Usually it means she is not interested. It is like saying "Thanks, but no." She looked down. It is good sign. It indicates submissiveness.
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:34 AM
7

It’s hard to think the majority of girls I meet are just submissive. I don't see why not.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:56 PM
2

I doubt it will work. Unless everyone will be staying in the separate rooms, then maybe. But most likely, it will be bunk beds. Girls with girls boys with boys.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:44 PM
36

I don't see how her being topless is relevant for your decision to approach or not.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:37 PM
77

From what I remember from my college years, there were girls who like to party, and there were those girls who were "nerdy". Here couple of suggestions how to spot them: Most likely they will sit in front Will ask questions and be good students Lots of them have glasses Will sit on their own, or will have their own circle outside of "party" girls circle Obviously, won't do partying much Likes to go to and spend lots of time in the library Participates in other activities such as being class pres…
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:32 PM
2

Does not seem that she liked you in the first place. So it is not jealousy. It seems that she just likes attention, wether from you or from your friend it does not matter.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:27 PM
1

Right. Still is the same thing. You need social proof. You can try to goof around with your friends. Be loud, lough, push around each other etc. This will give you some proof.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:18 PM
5

Build some muscles and loose fat Increase your income. At minimum you need to have your own place. Improve your fashion style Improve your social life. Find friends. Lastly find passion in your life. Answer the question "Why are you on this earth?"
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:34 PM
1

Sit at the bus stop. Once an old lady or mom with child comes. Stand, and let her to sit in your place, and start conversation with her. Everyone in the bus or bus station will think of you as polite and social guy. In fact, you will have the highest social proof from all the people. Once you establish that. Then you can start conversation with her, by "Hey. Are you going to <name> school, I think I saw you before." Etc. You can do the same thing without establishing social proof. But trust me, …
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:11 PM
1

From experience, I can tell being a player usually attracts low quality of women. It does have some benefits, and maybe it is okay when you are starting, But eventually you want to tune it down.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:36 PM
1

By having a woman.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:31 PM
1

Maybe you have great body, but ugly face?
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:30 PM
3

I am 172cm. Even shorter than you. And never had an issue. However, I always go for shorter ones like 155-165cm. If a women is taller than me I find her less attractive. So unless you specifically want to date high street models, you should be just fine.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:26 PM
1

I find saying 1000s of times "Good morning" to be more awkward. I mean, what is the actual point? What you will accomplish if you say good morning every single day? It is total waste of energy. Even if you are having bad morning, you still stay good morning. This is so stupid. However, dating is totally opposite. It makes sense. The purpose of the dating is to get to know the stranger romantically. You say that you can do this while you are friends. But it is not always the case. If you find som…
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:20 PM
3

If you are in a date with her, then it is implicit that you like her. However, when it comes to "love" then you say when you feel like you do.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:14 PM
28

I totally agree. What I like about honesty is not only it gets you laid more, but it makes you more happy in general.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:53 PM
2

You put way too much of focus into "saying the right thing". Truth is, there is no such line which would work all the time. Therefore, instead of wasting your time on finding that line. Focus on saying the first thing what comes to your mind. As long as you are in a good mood, they will work way better than any rehearsed line.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:42 PM
0

Technically you can do only Reward/Reward/Reward in on interaction and Absense/Absense/Absense in another. I see why not. But it may not be most optimal during first interactions. In fact the longer you spend with her the more Absense will become dominant. Especially with long term gf or if you get married. As long as you throw Rewards, once in a while everything should be fine.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:18 PM
-7

That's actually the opposite. Those things will do for you a lot, but it may not be enough. The emphasis on word "a lot". While post author says like these things are totally unimportant and only the game matters.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:09 PM
2

I think you misunderstood. She was 29 when she had a baby. I met her when she was 35. She told me that she wanted to be a mother, hence she found a guy when she was 29 only for that. I was with her for 5 years and then broke up. We are still friends tho, well more like fwb.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:53 PM
1

Both. You apply P&P at micro and macro levels. Micro is when you are with her. This is a third point in your post. Macro is when you do this between interactions. 1 & 2 points. For example, on the first date you did Reward / Absense / Reward / Absense. But on the second date you can do Reward/ Absense/Absense/Reward/Absense/Absense etc.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:45 PM
0

Although, it won't be the correct definition of P&P, I do it like this. Reward / Absense / Reward / Absense / Reward / Absense ... Reward can be anything. Like jokes, kino, flirting, compliments, being interest in her, listening, comfort, teasing, and so on. Anything which brings her emotions UP. Absense is not the opposite, but a time interval when I don't do anything positive. There are no rewards, there is nothing. Here emotions either goes down (cool down) or stays at the same level.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:34 PM
6

My ex gf, literally did exactly that. She found a guy only to have baby and then left him. Because her motherly instincts kicked in. I guess this is more common than it looks.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:26 PM
0

How to get the guy to want me I don't think this is the best place to ask this question. The whole point of this community is to have abundance rather scarcity mentality. That is, the advice is not to learn "how to get" specific person, but to learn to don't care about specific person. Because there are literally million of others. So the best thing I can say is that you just have to talk with him and explain all your questions, doubts and feelings to him, the way you did in this post. I think t…
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:23 PM
8

Because biological clock is ticking for them. The more they wait, not only is harder to have kids, but also to find a partner.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:11 PM
5

This sounds like some mainstream dating advice. Some generalisations without any value. Even title is not correct. If you do have conventional traits, women WILL be drawn to you. Who does not want successful, good looking, high salary man? I mean, cmon. I guess, where guys fail is to see that all those things are great and will open more doors. But once you enter the room, you need to have more than that.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:08 PM
1

I don't want to be the guy who shows up to her "out of nowhere." If you don't have lots of social value, then build it up. That is, start with the guys, then girls until you reach her.
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:50 PM
3

She is not interested in you. Just move on.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:36 PM
1

You just don't have the game.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:33 PM
2

Does not matter. She is into you. I would tell her. It will make my consciousness more at peace.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:32 PM
5

3rd one. It is more bold, and it can be interpreted as anything, not just sex.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:30 PM
1

Most likely you haven't build enough comfort. That is, rushing too fast.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:27 PM
27

Any opener which decreases yours and increases her value not gonna work. Because her value is already through the roof just by being on the app. Imagine a scenario. You are in a club, there are 100 guys and she is only one girl. 50 guys hit on her one by one and get rejected. You go as 51st guy. So, unless you do or say something that no other guy sad, you will fail. Because she still has 49 guys in a reserve. In OLD it is even worse, because she has unlimited amount of guys.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:20 PM
3

Does not matter what you say, as long as you qualify her it should be fine. How to do it, I will leave this for you to figure out.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:08 AM
58

Yes. You just don't have enough value to act like celebrity.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:04 AM
2

Most likely you have 100s of problems. But let's focus one at a time. I have trouble when it comes to getting a woman interested The whole sentence is just wrong. You have this belief that you have to make women interested in you. And if you fail, it hurst your self esteem. So if initially you make a wrong statement/fallacy, then everything what it comes after/ conclusion it will be a nonsense as well. So let's fix it from the beginning. First you are lonely. Because of that, you want to find a …
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:57 PM
1

Instead of asking these questions over here, you should ask yourself: "Why am I using those apps?", "What do I want?" "Do I want casual sex?", "Am I looking for relationship?" , "Do I want to improve my SA?" Answer those questions and use the Dating App appropriately. E.g. If you want to have just casual sex. Then, what is the point of talking about hobbies, politics etc, ask the most important things like his size, whether he will go down on you, stuff like this. You tailor your questions and y…
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:31 PM
1

Man. You are missing the point of texting, the game and just common sense. Texting is not for keeping the interest. Nor should you want to do it in a first place. Think about dating as food. You hungry, you cook something and you eat. If you are not hungry, then you don't even think about eating. You just do something else. Dating is the same. If you are not interested in her, then don't text, just wait for a date. If you actually want to know how her day went (same like you have a thought to ea…
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:15 PM
3

This post made me to ask a question "Who I would be if I would not be masculine?" And I can't imagine anything. I would be nothing. Therefore, same goes for people who are the opposite. If you are a guy with feminine features, then embrace them, rather hide.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:07 PM
5

You want good quality product without willing to pay the price. I don't think that's how economics works.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:55 PM
-1

Putting some fake profiles is not actually "knowing how to play". The looks are important, but as in real life gaming it is not everything. You should know that. I can compare you to someone who just made first approach. Failed. And says PUA does not work.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:49 PM
1

I haven't tried to pickup at game stores, and have no idea what DND night is, but it does sound like a some kind of community activity. So, you can apply the same tactics as you would do in any other community. There is always some commonality which gathers communities. So you can start conversation about it with them. You can start talking before activity or after activity. "Hey. How do you like it here?" "Hey. Did you enjoy the game?" "Hey. I have seen you before. Do you come often?"
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:40 PM
2

Isn't this the same as her having good wash down there? Seems more simpler.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:35 PM
1

As a general rule you should at least have one make out session before even suggesting going home.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:33 PM
3

It is different game. If you have the looks and you make great photos, then online dating will always win against real life. You just don't know how to play it.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:30 PM
1

I will agree with you. But, I did have cases where teasing was bad idea. Either she didn't speak good english, or she just didn't get it, or was very shy.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:24 PM
1

Stop her.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:26 AM
0

That's true. Men going crazy for the most feminine energy. Women going crazy for the most masculine energy.
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:50 AM
8

I have tried teasing and roasting. However, those are not the best tactics. Because they usually bring the person down. Instead, you want to bring the person up. Better is to be respectful, considerate and honest. This works way better than cheap roasting or teasing.
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:46 AM
2

How do you tell whether two people, who just happen to be talking but are quite close, are a couple? Body language. Usually if she puts her head on his shoulder it is good indication she likes him. They may not be a couple, but she likes him. ​ Should you care when deciding to approach her or not You should not. However, in practice 100% of the time you will get rejected by the couples. Unless you will hit on them both. :) ​ Second, just how close and touchy and feely can a non-couple be They ca…
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:52 AM
4

Obviously sex. Marriage is just formality, and you can be in a relationship without it. However, there is no romantic relationship without sex, just a friendship.
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:41 AM
2

Interesting. For me it is the opposite. The more attractive she is the more pumped I get to approach her.
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:23 PM
4

Old man approach people because they are desperate and lonely. They just want to talk with someone. But you approach her because you are the most handsome, confident and funny guy and you are interested in her. And if you like her personality, then maybe you will ask her number. If not, then you will cut conversation short and leave.
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:47 PM
3

So what? Go for it. During the dates I literally talking about "Dragon Ball Super" and I am 35 years old. Who the fuck cares.
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:39 PM
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As long as you are not weird, confident and good looking it will work like a charm.
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:38 PM
2

I don't really agree. In terms of mechanics there is no limits for a man. Maybe in your sixties or something you start having some issues due to weak heart, diabetes etc. In terms of money, then 30s and 40s is your actual prime. You don't have to count or be cheap when it comes to dating. Also, you have your own place. How many times young guys fail to have sex just because of logistics. When it comes to women themselves. It is way easier to seduce older one than younger. The only thing what is …
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:55 PM
2

You are talking about spontaneous approaches. I like those the most as well, when you don't force yourself, but "just happens". So, if you are more comfortable like that, then just go to beach, do your thing, and if something happens then happens.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:46 PM
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You sad you have done cold approaches before. So I assume you know. Anyhow, for that particular scenario you can go with: You: "Excuse me" She: "Yes" You: "Would you mind putting suncream on my back. I honestly don't know who to ask"
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:25 PM
17

Lol, this post is hilarious. When you will be 41 you will say that you have wasted your thirties. And when you will be 51 you will say that you have wasted your fourties'. This is so stupid.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:15 PM
0

You sad that you don't like to pretend, then why did you say most cheesy compliment ever about her eyes? Just be honest, and say what you actually want or like about her.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:11 PM
32

Just say what you like about them.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:07 PM
8

Don't see any different than approaching in parks.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:06 PM
11

I think your "values" and "beliefs" are way more important than the confidence. Because confidence you can gain relatively quickly, just practice any skill until you are confident. However, to grow correct beliefs and values takes years if not decades. Nevertheless, confidence is important. You can show the confidence by changing your body language and your attitude. Always lead and be assertive Walk in front of her Always lean on sofa, chairs Lean away from her Take as much space as socially ac…
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:03 PM
10

If you ever went to gym, you should know what is "Progressive overload", apply the same technique for approaching.
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:48 PM
4

It is not possible to see a person as a blank state due to "halo effect".
/r/seduction07/08/22 04:57 PM
1

Assertive and confident. Lead her, walk in front, while stoping in front traffic lights put the arm in front of her, like you are protecting her from cars. Ask her to hold your phone while you tie your shoe laces. Try to lean away from her all the times. Lean on sofa or chair. Take as much space as socially acceptable. And so on. Push & Pull. Alternative between everything. E.g. First sit opposite her, then find a reason to sit next to her, then go to toilet, and sit opposite again, then sit nex…
/r/seduction07/08/22 04:28 PM
1

Lol no... Most important, being assertive and confident. Second, push & pull. Third. Create secretive sexualised environment in public. Fourth. Making out helps.
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:58 PM
1

When she starts herself.
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:31 PM
1

I have to agree with the post. As someone who approached thousandths, you can fall into very dark place. Where approaching itself becomes a game. And in that game the only goal is to have as many ONS, or get as many numbers, or just to compete with others like minded people, no matter the cost. What SHE feels or wants becomes irrelevant. However, if you can do it healthy, where you actually care about HER, then it is fine to approach. I just never met any PUA who actually care about someone else…
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:26 PM
1

Well, if you make her horny enough during the date, then the location becomes less relevant.
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:13 PM
1

That's the whole point. Peacocking. In that case you say something funny and bring her into the game. For example, you are "Brad Pitt", then you can assume she is "Angelina Jolie". And start playing, She: "Is this your real name?" You: "Of course. Wait a sec, is it you Angelina? I see you haven't changed, still have trust issues?" She: "Lol, no no" You: "Are you sure? You definitely have that look." and so on
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:09 PM
2

I know it sounds "magical". But this is what happens. I used to do cold approaches. 100s per day for few months. It was before COVID. But in general, you just have to talk with women as much as possible and get laid. Does not matter wether it is cold approach, or whatever. Just do that.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:47 PM
5

It is a skill. The more you practice the better you become. Actually it even changes not your mental state but your body adapts and you start to notice these subtle micro expressions on your face. For example, Your eye pupils become dilated all the times even on the light. Lots of times women said to me "Are you on drugs?" While I never ever used nor I drink. Talking about eyes, they also become "dreamy". Your face is very relaxed. Even your voice tone becomes slow and "seductive". It is very ve…
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:46 PM
1

Pretend to be rich and famous. Or even better, become rich and famous.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:28 PM
4

It is nothing to do with your money. It is your fashion style.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:26 PM
1

Just write down some guy celebrity name. This will definitely will capture everyones attention.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:24 PM
41

100% agree. The most underrated comment.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:22 PM
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Why do you think he is trying to embarrass you? In fact, most likely he thinks of you as a friend. I know it sounds weird but this is how "alpha" type of guys express friendship. However, your low self esteem making you see things totally differently. As long as you respect him, he will respect you. Obviously, the hardest part is to genuinely do that, especially when you think lesser about yourself. If you would be truly confident, you won't even have those thoughts. You would just enjoy his com…
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:35 AM
7

I think you are mixing things up. Being direct Being indirect Being confident Being hesitant Are separate things. First two direct and indirect has no correlation between her attractiveness level towards you. You can achieve the same results using both methods. More important is that the approach you take is congruent with your personality. If you are someone more like bad boy, then go with being direct, if you are more like gentlemen type of the guy, then be indirect. Neither of them are turn o…
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:23 AM
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In this particular order Trust Excitement Comfort
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:35 AM
3

It literally does not matter. The only thing what matters is your vibe.
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:58 PM
1

You don’t need to compliment in this case. Just send only those photos were she actually looks good and delete other ones.
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:56 PM
3

In OLD I barely get matches. And if I do usually with 5. However, during cold approaches I can pull 9. I am around 7. The reasons for these results are the following: 1) in OLD you are competing with 1000s of guys 2) in OLD is very hard to DHV yourself 4) in OLD is hard to do peackocking 5) in OLD everything is slow, in real life you already met her, and you can straight go for insta date However, I do believe that if I can make better photos I could pull 9 or 10 in OLD way easier than during co…
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:41 PM
2

PUA style is like clothing style. You need to master the basics and once you have it then you can incorporate some sprezzatura.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:42 PM
13

American girls are human, while British girls are empty space. Adjust your strategy accordingly.
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:27 PM
0

Make her feel special and give her lots of positive emotions. You must be assertive, you must listen to her, you must be for her. You must be her ideal person. She must feel happiness and joy when she is with you. Then when she thinks she has you, you fall back, and start to show less attention. Meet less with her, talk less etc. She must be in emotional pain, and confused. And when you see she is broken, you come back to her and do the first step, give her positive emotions again. And you repea…
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:21 PM
2

You are getting there :)
/r/seduction24/04/22 06:17 PM
1

Haha, aww, maybe next time bring some rope so that they can tie you to the seat. It’s not bad response. I would remove “aww”. Personally I avoid anything which makes her think that I see her as cute, sweet or whatever. It’s just too soon. In a relationship is fine, but not in attraction stage. Also, you should change it into “Haha. Just tie yourself to the boat and the problem will be solved.” The difference is that I removed word “maybe” cause it shows uncertainty. Remove these words from your …
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:53 PM
1

The first example about susser. You replied 8 days after. She already forgot who you were. You should have gone for a number or a date. Now it’s pointless. Second example. You didn’t give her nothing to go on with. You just said that your mom dog, which basically you are ending the conversation. Instead you should have asked the following question like “what about you. Do u have dog?” Or something. Also you doubled texted that you are waiting her reply, making her to feel like a bad guy. Instead…
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:28 PM
1

Approach. Get the number. Wait for 1 hour. Call her. Arrange date.
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:00 AM
1

To build trust is simple. Change locations. It gives illusion that she spent more time with you hence will trust more. Ask for a small favours. Like “can you take a look for my bag, phone?” “Can you hold me for me this?” Etc Open up, and share something personal.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:57 AM
2

Just send something engaging, personal as a first message. Then qualify her. Then relate, reward. Then ask for a number. 10-15 messages in 2-3 days.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:50 AM
18

Nah. Don’t like it. Her response will be “hi”. And you have to start from the beginning. No difference than saying “hi” or “hi, how are you” Using proven “Hey. How spontaneous are you?” Or any variant of this works for me better.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:42 AM
3

Give examples of the text. Will pin point mistakes.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:39 AM
5

Download tinder and put in the bio “looking for someone to take my 🍒 “. Wait for couple of min and you will match with someone who can do it for you.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:52 PM
0

It’s good that you have not done it. Because it would have been disaster. Train is very sensitive social environment where people don’t expect to be approached, so if you don’t have high social intelligence most likely you will make fool of yourself and worse embarrass her. Usually what you want to do is to wait for her to leave the train and approach her on the station. Cause people will be moving and no one will look at both of you.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:34 PM
2

Nah. Already burned like this. Was gaming one chick, she didn’t show much of attention so I thought will send her similar message. And what happened she got offended, like I was playboy or something and blocked me.
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:06 PM
3

In Eastern Europe
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:03 PM
6

In a club, contrary to tinder, pick up line “Hey. How are you “ actually works.
/r/seduction22/04/22 05:00 PM
28

Just listen other person and adapt. If one person likes to talk about himself, then ask questions about him. If other person likes to show how smart he is, then ask him to teach you. If other person doesn’t like to talk then take initiative yourself. If there is a leader in a group then let him lead. If there is no leader then lead yourself. If someone talking some bullshit about someone, then change topic. You get the point.
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:36 PM
2

It depends on experience. The more he is experienced with women the more likely he will be better in bed. If he hasn’t done this before he won’t do it. Personally I have learned everything from my gf, who was 10years older. She showed me what women actually likes. So the best you can do is to pull him yourself in a dark corner and show him what you like. Next time he will do himself, hopefully.
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:18 AM
24

It’s not a scam, it’s capitalism.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:16 PM
0

Btw. Guys get aroused through mind as well.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:37 PM
3

Always go to his place.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:35 PM
1

Male. And what I mean by “direct” is that I prefer show my intent using body language instead of doing that through vocabulary. For example, I stare at her ass while she gets up from the table, and make sure she sees that I am doing that in a reflection of the window. This is way better approach to show a sexual intent than to make some sexual joke.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:06 PM
1

I am not the best person to give you an advise about technicalities. Cause I don’t like PUA. It helped me to get laid, but fucked me other ways. During that time I have met, maybe 50 guys. However only few of them that I know had any success. And the reason is that game is a grind. You need 100s if not 1000s or approaches. Day after day. Every step is a challenge, approaching, getting a number, going on a date, bringing home, escalating. In every step I failed multiple times. Hence most guys can…
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:51 PM
1

Neither. Trial and error approach. Learned myself.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:29 PM
1

Daygame. Just apply theory in practice.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:16 PM
-1

I totally agree. Before a game I was dating virgin. No normal experience with women whatsoever. However, I had couple of actual friends. Once I started to game, I lost those friends, cause in my eyes they were “losers, dragging me down”. Although I improved my social skills and had success with women, I always felt that I have to pretend to be someone who I am not. I have to trick them into liking me. What’s worst every social situation became like a battleground. “Is he a amoging me, bastard?” …
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:36 PM
2

I was in similar situation as you. And that “lost time “ mentality really bothered me for a long time. Wanted to feel what means to seduce and have casual sex with lots of women. So did cold approaches. And in fact had some successes. Compared to hookers the experience were better, although not much. In other words, I didn’t like it. First time I used condom, and I didn’t go down on them. Which really sucked. Second time, I sad fuck it, will go raw and will eat her. I really do like to do it, fo…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:09 PM
1

Nah. Don’t agree. Innuendos are too direct for my liking.
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:54 PM
2

All dating coaches were pick up artists. I have no doubt that there are some mainstream coaches, which doesn’t teach PUA material, but can’t say much about them.
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:22 PM
20

I did. Not worth it. Because those guys are very fucked up and out of reality. And u don’t want to end up like them. If you really want to spend money then do it on actual therapy.
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:09 PM
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Most likely you have misread the signals or your approach was bad. For example. I was cold approaching lots of sets. 95% women were very receptive and liked what I have sad, however couple of instances got very rude responses. And I could make a conclusion that she was a bitch, after all most of approaches were fine, so it can’t be me. However, if u take into context that I was approaching in the women’s shop. When they come here just to buy some clothes or just spend the time with their friends…
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:30 PM
1

Dude, stop stereotyping. Although I do know in real life some people who fit perfectly in those two categories. But that is a minority, out of 1000s of people who I met during my life, only few were like that. Most people go into somewhere in between. And I bet u have the same experience.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:22 PM
1

It’s all about emotions. Women crave strong emotions. They want them as bees want honey. Those men give them those emotions.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:16 PM
1

Dating is a social interaction, hence it can be as simple and as complicated as you wish. You can compare with another social interaction “exchange”. Back when I was younger, I used to exchange video games with friends. I find it so simple, I give one game to you and you give me another one to me”. In fact, I didn’t even know that I am doing exchange. The only thing I care is to get my hands on that new game. That’s it. However, now when I grow up I am in the sales. And damn, that simple concept…
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:11 PM
2

Dance game is not that hard. Just learn the basics Especially dancing with partner. Just remember that you have to seduce during the dance rather just dance.
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:20 PM
3

First he is not your friend. Second, if you really want to be good at night game, then learn dance game.
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:11 PM
26

Have values, beliefs and don’t compromise them no matter what.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:27 AM
30

Evolution. Guys are forced to be original, due to demand and supply issue. So their text game evolved. For girls there is no need to do that, cause no matter what they reply there will be a guy who won’t care.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:06 AM
1

I doubt it gonna work on a single woman. However I always wanted to try the following routine which I came up myself , just never had a chance. But it should be done on the group of girls, otherwise I doubt it will work. Basically, you see a group of girls having good time, you come and say to one of them “I know you” She should be confused or deny “Yes, definitely I know you. Just can’t remember from where” Now pretend that you are trying to remember and then “Ah right, you are that girl from m…
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:48 PM
10

“Hi. Your hair is on fire.” For redheads. “Hi, ShaKira right?” With serious face expression and then smile. If she has curly blond hair. But honestly best openers are not canned but spontaneous. E.g. In the tube train was coming, wind blew her hair just exact moment when I was passing by. I stopped in front of her, put the hands together like taking a photo, and said “click” Was walking on the street and she was eating chips. I just stopped and sad “Can I?”, like I want to try it. And she gave i…
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:34 PM
2

Don’t do it.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:52 PM
1

If she asks you say the truth. Otherwise, keep it to yourself.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:50 PM
24

90% of the time they actually have a boyfriend. 9.99 % they want to reject you 0.01% they are testing you
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:02 AM
1

Like I sad. You have to match their energy and social value. So in your situation they should see you dancing like crazy in the middle of dance floor. Once you established that then you can go and join their circle. They will be more than happy, cause your social value is the same as theirs.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:13 AM
2

Sleeping around is a lifestyle. And as with any lifestyles you either like it or not. So I would say try it out and see how it goes. Just don’t be sad if you were not able to do it. Cause this type of lifestyle is not for everyone.
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:43 AM
2

It can be seen impossible but night game is way easier to get laid. It just has different set of rules. First of all it is a social venue. Meaning that once u enter the venue, you have a social value. That value can increase or decrease depending on what you do. If u enter with friends then initially that value will be higher, however you still can manage to go to zero value, for example if all your friends just standing at the bar and doing nothing. Here is the things you need to do to increase…
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:25 AM
1

Around 20 dates. 3 single day lays.
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:20 AM
4

She seems really into you, so I would be really surprised if you could fck it up. As for texting: Never use this emoji, just forget it exists 😅 Be more assertive. Know what u want to do and have plan, where and when you want to hang out with her. Everything else seems fine
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:23 PM
3

Yes, she likes you. First she initiated conversation herself Second she initiated a kino, high five. She wrote her name on your hand. Before phones, writing was primary way to exchange phone numbers, so it could be that she hopes u would ask for her phone. Also, writing owns name on something indicates a possession. Like saying”you are mine, now”. I do so something similar with my dates as well. She wants that u would do good at your test. This indicates that she cares for you. Also could indica…
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:10 PM
-3

After 1000s of cold approaches I have realised a thing. Approaching a woman on the street is creepy and no matter of amount of denial will change that. It’s exactly the same thing as a beggar or salesman approaching you. They want something out of you and they will use your insecurities and even good nature to get what they want. You when approaching a woman to get her phone number, or to go on insta date, or to have sex, or just to find a gf, doing exactly the same thing. You are a sex beggar. …
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:34 PM
2

Return a favour and ask for cooking stuff.
/r/seduction16/04/22 04:48 PM
1

It reminds me the time when I went to PUA seminar, and the artist was talking how he slept with 100s of women, Russians, Ukrainians etc. However, the culmination was the story of how he slept with some famous porn actress. I mean, he was literally proud of that. Sleeping with porn actress for him, was better achievement than sleeping with an average first year uni student. Maybe I am getting too old to understand, but dude bdsm, orgies, sleeping with different women every night is a fucked up sh…
/r/seduction16/04/22 04:10 PM
1

Women who needs plausible deniability are very weak, and is not even worth the effort. When it comes to sex topics, I usually never start and never encourage. Even if she brings it up herself, I try to change topic. When it comes to consent then it depends, if I know she will say yes then yeah I do ask, it gives extra points. If I don’t know, then I don’t ask cause it is hard to get out of this.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:09 PM
80

Some people are angry about gays. Some even about different skin colour. People are crazy. Just ignore them.
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:25 AM
3

Usually this happens when 1) she initiates herself 2) me being in charge when having sex Never tried to ask her. Feels weird.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:05 AM
3

It’s a night club, people are looking to other people, and they usually don’t stand in one place. It’s nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:21 PM
2

U have misread the situation.
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:19 PM
9

The same type as any other number girl.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:31 PM
36

These posts get ridiculous more and more.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:25 PM
84

At first, yes. I was disappointed in them. But then you realise that is a human nature to always want better.
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:16 PM
3

It’s good for attraction but not for comfort. I order words, at some point u need to start talking.
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:24 PM
2

Go to different gym where no one knows u hit as much as u want
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:03 PM
2

No one knows. And who cares, focus and what u want. If u don’t feel comfortable being explicit then don’t be, it’s stupid.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:39 AM
1

Does not matter. People will see you as they did before your transformation.
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:28 PM
4

Couple of technical mistakes Don’t ask her out two weeks in advance Don’t over text during waiting period, especially first days of getting number. Don’t even keep convo going. Just say that u don’t text cause u like to enjoy holidays without any distractions or other bs. She didn’t open“gn” message, cause she might saw it in the notifications and just didn’t want to bother to say “gn” as well, cause it is implied. She opened in the morning because she wanted that u would see she received your “…
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:06 PM
3

These are great examples how conversations should look like. The main point is to create your own reality and pull her into that reality. If your reality is a desperate guy who is looking to get laid then your conversations will suck. However I don’t believe that u need to apply that mental jiujitsu every time you talk with a woman. In fact, keeping grounded and being genuine is much better. For example, She: “So what do u think bout religion?” Most likely she is asking cause this topic is impor…
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:47 PM
1

It is not possible. If u approach as u are now, the i guarantee u will be considered as creep and u will make certain women uncomfortable. Not always but will happen. If u want to avoid this at all cost. Then before even starting to approach u have to improve your social intelligence.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:09 PM
3

Save your energy, bro. You can’t even make proper sentences.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:04 PM
1

Basically u have only one shot. If u approach a table and get rejected every one in the venue will see that, your value goes low. So u can’t approach second one and have to wait when people will change. But you also have to remember about recurring customers, and there are lots of them. For example u approach a table, a woman saw it, and thought it was funny at first. Then next day she sees u a second time doing the same thing, now she thinks about u not as funny but as creep. Worst if u continu…
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:16 PM
3

Go to the gym
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:57 PM
1

These type of situations is a signal that u are doing something wrong with your approach. Possible mistakes include: 1) u don’t assert whether those women want to be approached in a first place. For example, people who want to be left alone most likely will choose to sit at the back of the coffee shop. They will also be into their phones, laptops or read books, or will be deeply engaged in the conversation. So u definitely want to avoid approaching them. 2) you make too much of noise. The genera…
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:56 PM
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If a cockblocker is a female friend, then she is the leader of the group. Leaders require an attention, otherwise they will push you out of the group. You have to engage her 90% more that the girl u like. Once u have her approval, then u can go for the girl u like. Is just how it is. Usually you would have a wingman who would deal with her, but if u are alone, then u have to do it yourself. If a cockblocker is a random beta guy. Just ignore him or destroy him. Beta guys don’t have social intelli…
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:58 AM
2

Seduction is about being bold without actually being direct verbally. You need to use your body language, social status, intelligent and everything else, except directly telling a woman u like her. Be that guy who lots of women wants, yet he is totally unaware about it.
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:45 AM
1

No it is totally fine.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:21 PM
2

Treat dating as any other area in your life. Research. Learn. Apply. Fail. Reflect. Improve. Repeat.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:20 PM
1

Find new friends
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:15 PM
1

Humans are social beings and there are rules around social interactions. E.g. you have to say “Hello”, “good morning “ but can’t say “what’s up” when meeting a potential employer. If u are the person who always says “what’s up”, then “being yourself” will lower the chances of getting the job. But if you say “Hello”, then technically you will be seeing validation. Which is true, because you want that employer would like you. But I bet u never thought about saying “hello” as seeking validation. Ca…
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:06 PM
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She: hey You: hi, sry can’t text now. And text her later in a future. She: how are u? You: horizontal (if u lying, and vertical if standing), and you? She: how are u? You: strong💪, you? She: how are u? You: I was born, you?
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:02 PM
1

I want to fuck your brains out. Are u up for it?
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:43 PM
2

Hi. How spontaneous are you?
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:36 PM
5

Don’t text. Just ask them out when u want to meet for a second date 1-2 days in advance. If she was interested in u your absence will drive her crazy. If she was not interested then you will safe your time.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:31 PM
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I will answer your question in a funny way using multiple techniques. Look at each of them and try to understand how did I derive them. Misinterpretation (autistic): “It is not possible. Cause a human can only have 5 senses” Misinterpretation (religious freak): “There is only one way, son. God’s way” Amplification (word watching): “No, just keep watching. It will be funny once you become a potato” Amplification (word watching and comedy): “Sure, and if you watch Marvel long enough u will become …
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:21 PM
2

You: No way. Do yourself. She: what do u mean? You: I thought u asked me to do mini can for u?
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:05 PM
2

U don’t have to flirt nor say the right thing to get laid. U can be polite, shy, nerd and still get laid. The only thing u have to do is to show an intent. Ask for a number Ask for a date Kiss during the date. Invite her Have sex If she likes u then it will work. If she doesn’t than no matter what u do it won’t work.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:05 AM
2

I am 35 and body count is 4. So u ain’t doing that bad. Way above average.
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:22 PM
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Lol. So much loads of crap. Smile or not has no correlation with the results. It’s the intent of that smile what matters. If u genuinely feel happy all the times then smile and u will have great results, if u do this because you want to look more appealing to her then, change your mindset. When it comes to compliments then is nothing to do with women. It’s people in general. U get compliments when u earn them. Whether it’s a woman u like, wife, your colleague, your child your boss, it does not m…
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:00 PM
4

Lower your expectations
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:43 PM
1

It’s hard to answer this question cause the question itself is wrong. Remember, seduction is being direct without actually saying it. So in this regard u did good and bad at the same time. Good because u didn’t say that u like her with your words, and bad cause you didn’t say with your body language.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:34 PM
2

You have missed your window, move on
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:12 PM
0

Seem that for some reason you are afraid to be rejected, that’s way you are playing so safe. However, she gave you her number, so everything is fine. Do some texting, nothing which indicates that u like her, but u can tease her. Ask her to hangout for some logical reason, again as a friend. During a date tease her and do kino, but again do it like u are a friend. Hangout with other girls. Hangout with her. If she starts texting you, show high interest, asking to hang out it means you seduced her…
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:09 PM
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Insecurities: I am too old I am too fat I have big nose My breasts are too small I am damaged Etc High expectations He wants only sex He is not showing any interest in me anymore I love him but he doesn’t I am looking for “superman” Etc
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:45 PM
2

Go sing on a stage. This is the single proved method to get laid through centuries.
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:33 PM
0

Listen to your psychologist. He has a point. The only way to get rid off your insecurities is to face them.
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:25 PM
1

The only thing u need to do is to make yourself comfortable so that u can relax. It includes everything from clothes, shoes, the venue, food you eat, where u sit, how u sit, the items you have in your purse etc. for example, if u eat meals which have seeds, you may be afraid that food will stuck between your teeth, preventing u to smile, and making u uncomfortable. I can’t stress how important is to relax, if u can’t do it the whole date then 100% the date will fail. Another thing is to avoid se…
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:21 PM
2

You are changing the context. Curly hair, and rabbit hat make very good sense on a woman (normal context). Yet you are applying the same thing on yourself (different context).
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:46 AM
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Memes, puns, pick-up lines or whatever you call. Is just a humour. Which can be learned. By applying few simple principles. For example, I will take your title as an example and will reply something funny using multiple of techniques. "How to stop being boring" Amplification. Just pick the meaning of the sentence and amplify it to extreme magnitude. Hence, the answer "Just drop dead". It is funny, because the answer is amplified to extremes. Misinterpretation. Due English language being ambiguou…
/r/seduction30/08/21 06:40 PM
6

You are going alone to the bar is an achievement on its own. Even if you just stand and drink on your own is a 100 times better than to sit at home. Just keep doing every weekend and you will see how you will start talking with other people in no time.
/r/seduction30/08/21 06:00 PM
10

She was dishonest, bro. No matter how much you want to justify yours and hers behaviour. The lie is a lie.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:29 PM
1

The purpose of flirting is to indicate opposite sex that you are interested in her sexually. It comes naturally when you are into her. If you can't do it then there could be multiple reasons: You are actually not into her. That's totally fine and is quite often the case. So just look for someone who you would "click" You have low self-esteem. That is again, normal if you don't have lots of experience. The only way to increase is by practice. You have social anxiety. You care too much of what oth…
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:05 PM
7

So you are prising a woman who literally cheated on her boyfriend...
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:46 PM
0

Face is more important.
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:45 PM
2

Maybe 8 years a go, I had a job. I had a colleague guy, a bald, muscled with tattoos, you can clearly see you don't want to mess with him. Anyways, there were also a manager who thought very high off himself, used to make us work overtime etc. Once, I was walking with my colleague. That manager came and sad to my colleague "You will work today until 8pm, we need to finish this". My friend, sad "I can't do. Have stuff to do". Then manager got little bit angry, and rised his voice. It was not like…
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:32 PM
64

What a fucking cry baby. I lost my virginity at 25 who cares.
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:14 PM
2

Most likely you have entered incorrectly. It is very easy to make a mistake while typing especially when alcohol is involved. What I do, I give her my phone, she types in. Then call her so that she would add my number, cause my name is hard to spell.
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:10 PM
1

Yeah. It is definitely to do with your origins and most likely average face. Arab people are not looked positively due to all kinds of stereotypes. Unfortunately, you can't do much but try and try again. Cause you have no other options.
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:38 AM
3

don't know how Use words, bro.
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:32 AM
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Very embarrassing. In fact, failure in performing sex act can be so traumatising that it can take years until he will try again. Talking from personal experience. But in reality. This is person's insecurities taking over. He may also avoid contact with you, due to you being the reminder of his failure. Also. There could be a possibility that he just wanted sex and nothing more.
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:30 AM
2

It is when people "scramble" your head with this type of nonsense.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:54 PM
1

It could mean that she wants to have sex. Or, It could mean nothing, and she just can't do daytime.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:16 PM
3

Nah man. The GAME boils down to being at the right time and and the right place with the right girl. That's basically all. You driving a cab and meeting strangers is no much different than a PUA going on the streets to talk with random girls. If she is horny, and she likes the guy you get single day lay. If you want to to get better at recognising those which would be willing here are couple of things to look after: 1) Clothes. The less conservative the better. 2) Confidence. The more confident …
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:09 PM
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Yeah. Once went to the club. Saw really nice chick, went to her, danced little bit, tried to talked, asked her name, what she is doing etc, she was really into me. Anyways, I had no idea what to do next and just left her. After, literally a few minutes I saw her making out with another guy. It was definitely not her bf. Got very depressed and just went back home. Fuck those clubs.
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:57 PM
3

Yeah. Body language is THE MOST important thing in seduction.
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:51 PM
7

She was horny and you had a dick. You have to understand, that when chicks are horny, they don't think clear. It is much more powerful than for a horny guy. Although, this is some kind of nympho shit.
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:49 PM
1

His focus is on others instead of himself.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:54 PM
1

Yeah. Chicks like when you make assumptions and observations about them. In other words "showing attention".
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:22 PM
16

What I have realised that I have never liked casual sex. The only thing what I have wanted was the validation you get when you have sex. Basically you feel good that you increased your lay count, or that you "seduced her'. Either way is a stupid reason to do it. To have sex with multiple people is a mindset and a lifestyle. People who practice this lifestyle they enjoy it, and they don't really care about possibility of getting STD, and probably most of them had at some point on their life. They…
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:33 PM
2

You should take advices from reddit as grain of salt. 99.9% of cases people give advices based on their personal experience. Dates when she really insisted to pay herself usually ended then and there, while dates where I paid, did not. Although, it was not always the case. You have to check for other cues as well. But, I still believe that, if you don't want to meet with someone again, you also don't want to feel that you own anything to that person. At least I woudn't
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:20 PM
5

Yeah. It is the porn who messed you up. Also, escorts are the worst when it comes to sex. Quit porn and find a partner. For me, the former was much more harder than the latter. It will take some time, but everything will go back to how it supposed to be.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:00 PM
8

Basically, the less woman is into you the more likely she will want to pay for her own drinks. Cause she won't want to own anything. You just accept, don't make big deal about it, and move on.
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:00 PM
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This is unexplored territory. I doubt anyone has the expertise to advice you on this. The best I can say is that YOU should use trial and error method to figure out what works and what does not. And write a book about it. There are millions of people in the situation as you. It would be very helpful.
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:24 PM
2

I haven't met a person who would not be into something. Either it is a movies, music, books, MMORPG, star wars, comics, manga, football, gym, gardening, travelling, whatever. And when that person talks about that thing he is really into it, you can see HIS TRUE SELF. The confidence, the knowledge, the humour, the excitement. So to be/enjoy yourself is to feel exact same feeling in any type of situation.
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:18 PM
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Why wouldn't? Mystery one of the most famous PUA. Whether you should use it or not. It is a different question.
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:14 PM
7

So I am guessing your advice is in that 1%?
/r/seduction28/08/21 12:22 AM
5

Been there and did that and I know how it goes. The whole mindset about "pushing to yourself to the curb" or "making girl chase you" is just poisonous. You start simple with being cheeky which is very blur line. And end up of lying and manipulating people around you. "Instead of thinking how to make girl chase you" you should think "How to find someone who accepts me of who I am". Trust me, this works much better in the long run.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:06 PM
5

I know what you mean. Does not matter how you rephrase it. The meaning stays the same. And that often boils down to: Either you just want to superficially increase the attraction by not telling the truth. Which as you mentioned is a manipulation. Or, you are just afraid what she will think of me if she will find out that that she is the only one girl I dated in past 3 years. None of those reasons are good reasons to do it. If she asks the question "Are you currently dating more women?" or someth…
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:51 PM
6

I agree with all of the points just want to add some clarifications, so there won't be any misinterpretations: #1 - Become less available I does not mean you have to pretend to be busy. Instead you have to actually be busy. #2 - Rock her world in bed This one of the most underrated things in the relationships. 110% agree. #3 - Keep her guessing It is totally unnecessary. If you don't have anyone and say you do have just to make yourself look attractive is stupid. Just be honest without being a w…
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:56 PM
4

This is one of those which goes into the bucket between: Money = Girls Muscles = Girls Height = Girls Fame = Girls etc.
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:48 PM
2

Although I agree with some of the points, but some people including me can go into deep rabbit hole by interpreting these advices too literally. So here is my word of caution: Number 10: Start a stimulating conversation That's true that you should talk about interesting subjects. But where people fail, is that they start to think "You have to talk what SHE likes", this is totally bad. Instead you should talk "What YOU like to talk about but make it interesting". So if you don't like to talk abou…
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:42 PM
1

If you don't like it. Then why do you do it?
/r/seduction27/08/21 11:41 AM
1

Some definitely do. Some don't.
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:57 PM
3

I would say from puberty till your death.
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:32 PM
11

Not really. You are doing nothing.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:34 PM
1

- she "What kind of tattoo you are thinking about?" - you "I think I will go with a huge person's face with an agony due to lack of air. All over my back" - she "Yikes. Why?" - you "Cause you took my breath away"
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:02 AM
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I agree with everything. Except ▪︎Talk about your fears/insecurities or anything that put you in a negative light used properly this could be one of the best ways to build comfort, as long as you won't make it a session with a shrink.
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:54 AM
1

There are lots of character traits. But if I were you I would focus on Assertiveness. This bay far most important to be perceived as masculine
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:50 AM
6

Acting like an immature 20yr won't give you a score. She is with you cause you are mature, smart and funny. Just give her more time, be patient, and have more options not just her.
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:47 AM
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Girls send nudes for the same reason they post any photos on social media. They want validation. They want that you say "wow, you look so sexy" and shit like this. The only time she wants to see your dick is when she is about to hold it in her hands. Hope you will learn something from this.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:44 PM
2

You need to be attractive to pull this off correctly. If you don't have the face, right settings and especially right mindset, would advise against it.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:08 PM
3

I think what the OP wanted to say is that women love when they feel being desired. Just badly chosen words.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:03 PM
7

Been doing game for a while. And I remember my first times. I was so proud of my single day lays "achievements". Used old the tactics, DHV, Push and Pull, showing disinterest, negging etc. But for some reason, always after sex, I could not get rid of the feeling "Is it me who is seducing or the one being seduced?". And realised that it was the latter. She was horny, wanted sex, and I just gave it to her. So, it is not really a GAME who got me "success" if you can even call it. But rather the fac…
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:46 PM
-2

"Oh. Sorry. You must have misunderstood. I am looking for friends" It is actually highly effective to get the number. Although, didn't go very far after getting it.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:20 PM
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Ah. Sorry missed the context, she is being playful not angry. In that case "Someone who will soon get lucky"
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:50 PM
-14

"I can't think when I am with you"
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:47 PM
2

Maybe slow down... First couple months just enjoy each other's company. And then think about these things.
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:20 PM
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It is like a story from some cheesy teenage comedy, where a nerd becomes the cool guy. I am happy for you that you improved your game, but you literally comparing yourself who knows how to actually pick up girls with someone who does not even know what the "opener"means. It is like a math teacher would say to primary schoolers "Hey loosers, I know calculus and you don't".
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:35 PM
1

It is hard to tell without seeing the actual messages.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:52 PM
1

Not really. I try to make date fun and not a session with a shrink. Just say the facts, so that she would not feel gaslighted later on. And move on to more fun topics.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:44 PM
2

Google it "Topics to talk while on the date" and learn it Practice story-telling Practice improvisation
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:31 PM
2

Depends on the age of consent in your country. Obviously, you will get judged by other people. So take that into account as well.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:29 PM
1

As long as you can make your insecurities sound positive you can share on the first date. For example, I am suffering from severe social anxiety. Usually, they always ask me "Why are you single?" or "Why did you not have relationship for so long?" So I say the truth, and add like "Most guys are too embarrassed to share these things, but I have learned that sharing actually helps immensely. Besides, honesty is one of those things which I really appreciate in any kind of relationship" The last sen…
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:21 PM
1

Dude... You have still long way to go.
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:11 PM
5

That is actually very accurate stereotype.
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:01 PM
2

Yeah you are right. I use this technique very often and is very effective. Usually, the more physical the favour the better the effect. Examples: "Let's go here where are less people" "Can you please hold my back" "Can I borrow your pen" "Can you please look after my bag, while I go to restroom" - this also builds trust etc.
/r/seduction23/08/21 12:55 PM
6

What I have noticed that people will first make opinion about you, and then your actions. This especially noticeable in more "mainstream" reddit. I can write down the most disgusted thing in a way that I would look like I was the victim, or I can write down the most innocent act and yet be a bad guy. Everyone judge you first, and then your actions. If they don't like how you sound, your actions are bad. If they do, then they become okay. For example, we have two sentences with exactly same meani…
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:21 AM
1

Looks like you are the one who she is playing
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:18 PM
4

If she asks you say half truth: "I am not looking for a relationship" If she does not, then don't bring this by yourself.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:11 PM
10

This is some kind troll post. It is like 'Why birds fly?", or "Why women say one thing but mean another?" In any case will give you an explanation: You are attractive woman almost naked lying alone on the beach. So, obviously guys will want to chat you up. There is a reason why muslim women have to wear hijabs and burkas. Any naked flesh or even slim silhouette of the women can make a guy excited.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:03 PM
2

Basically it depends on your social skills. If you are total beginner and you still want to pick up girls in the gym. Then buy one day pass to the gym which is not the one you are going to. And have fun embarrassing yourself. If your skillset is good, and you know how to navigate social situations like fish in a water. Then you can pick up girls in your own gym.
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:50 PM
1

If she starts to go on rampage about something negative. I just say "Okay. Will stop you here. I don't want to hear about this. And trust me, you don't want to talk about it either. Maybe tell me your first most happy memory from your childhood". If she starts talking about politics or other boring topics "Yeah. You know what. Let's not go into that now. Better, let's imagine you have all the money in a world? What would you do?"
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:44 PM
1

What I found that people who text a lot literally don't have else what to do. It does not matter whether it is a woman or a guy. To me texting is just fast way to exchange information which requires persistence. For example, arranging a date is much better through text, cause date and location is saved inside text and you don't have to remember. It a waste of time to use texting for anything else. 1 min with a person in real life worth a week of texting in terms of building attraction.
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:27 PM
1

There are multiple techniques to use of not running out of what to talk about: Google it. "Best topics to talk about on first date" and learn those topics Use the technique where you choose a word from previous sentence, and then use that word in a second sentence. Practice of talking random stuff. Choose any random item like a "pen" put on timer and talk about it for 2 min.
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:19 PM
1

Yeah it is. From practice usually it means she is ghosting you. But if she initiates a conversation. Then, yes. I would keep talking.
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:48 PM
2

If she starts texting me some texts which is not related to date I often reply: "Let's save it/talk about it on <Monday>" Monday being day of the date. Usually they get the hint
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:14 PM
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Once we agreed to come back to my place. We were drinking wine and talking. Didn't do anything. And she suddenly sad "So are you gonna take off my panties?" I definitely not advise to do nothing. But it illustrates that some women know what they want and they may not be as straightforward but will give some kind of signal. If you really have no idea, you can ask her "How far do you want me to go?"
/r/seduction22/08/21 03:07 PM
1

Go to park, shop, street, whatever. Find a girl/woman who preferably alone who sits or stands Approach her Warm your opener by saying something "Hey." Wait for her to look into your face. And capture full attention. "This is totally random", pause again. Look into her eyes. Deliver opener "I think you are really cute" She will say "thanks, chi chi chi" starts giggling blah blah blah Then. "What are you up to here" If she waits for her friend then you have around 5min to get her number. If she sa…
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:19 PM
1

Well if you want to go with this route. "Mystery Method" is probably the most technical book out there still. "RSD" stuff also good. But personally. I would avoid it. Even you learn all the stuff and start getting success it won't make you happier, but just more fucked up. Have normal friends. Be social. Meet new people. Go to parties. And for god sake JUST MAKE A MOVE when a time comes. That's basically all what you need.
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:55 PM
48

Lol. Next time don't talk stupid shit.
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:32 PM
2

It means that you are worth looking at.
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:05 PM
54

It is everything to do with social conduct. Bars or in any other social venue usually you go not alone, but with friends, colleagues, classmates, family etc. When people say "have fun" they mean. Have fun by being and talking with those close people. Also, alcohol plays very important role in those social settings. What I found that it is just a way for them to "FORGET" about work or other troubles. The reasons behind extrovert going to the bar and socialising are the same as for introvert going…
/r/seduction21/08/21 04:14 PM
2

You are just having what I like to call "Confidence rush". It happens when suddenly you gain huge amount of confidence and that start to cloud your judgement about the situation. While you may think your actions are appropriate, but in reality you are just making fool of yourself, showing off, and being rude. I would suggest to slow down and do more reflection on your encounters to fix social calibration.
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:31 PM
1

Maybe read some theory about it. Cause what you are doing is just a waste of time. Also, making people uncomfortable only for your own benefits is selfish.
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:26 PM
0

It is like "I want to be a pilot, but I don't want to learn how to fly the plane". How would you help to that kind of person yourself?
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:46 AM
1

So you kissed her. And you have met again. Seems she likes you and you like her. Ask her out again, and move things to next level.
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:43 AM
2

It is fine to approach. But do not do it with an intent. Approach to make friends not to have romantic relationship with her. If something happens then is fine. Don't pick up women in collage campus especially if you are student there and you have no experience in PUA. It is bad idea.
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:01 AM
52

If you don't want to make people uncomfortable then pick up is too advanced. Build your fundamentals about body language, social cues etc. By just talking with strangers and having normal conversations without romantic intent. Otherwise, be prepared to burn bridges.
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:53 AM
7

What do you need some photos when you can have a real thing? So, instead ask her out.
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:49 AM
2

I would not say it. But give 5 - 10 years it will become. It is same like social media. You can find someone without it, but it is considered weird. So the dating life is going in the direction where not having the profile will make you weirdo in near future.
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:40 AM
1

You are in his "Only for one time sex" category. I would move on.
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:37 AM
3

You are misunderstanding: "MAKEYOUR INTENTIONS CLEAR FROM THE START " Imagine you are walking on a street and some girl stops you. 100% your first thought will be "What does she wants from me?" This is a totally normal reaction. So the first thing you need to do is to explain to her "WHY" are you talking with her. "Making intentions clear" is just one way of answering the question of "Why?". The reason it "works" because it is HONEST answer. "You find her beautiful, therefore you want to get to …
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:31 AM
1

"Hi" - works the best. Woman are not stupid. She knows why are you talking with her at the bar/club. If she likes you she will reciprocate if not, nothing will help.
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:04 AM
2

I see over and over these kind of questions with all kind of stupid rules like "You must kiss her during the date", "ask if she wants to", "no, do not ask just do it", "do the following 10 steps" etc. All these answers are correct and wrong at the same time. It all depends on circumstances. To actually know when to kiss and when not to do it, you need experience. Go to 10, 20 or 100s of dates and you won't need to ask this question ever again.
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:59 PM
1

Flirting is an attitude. If you are happy attitude to life? What do you do? You smile. You have lots of energy. You walk confidently. You talk loudly. Etc. If you have a business attitude? What do you do? You work long hours. Often you are stressed. Most of your thoughts are towards your business, your customers etc. If you have a platonic attitude? What do you do? You talk with her like you would with a colleague. There are lots of small talks. Subjects are work, politics, holidays etc. Anyone …
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:39 PM
3

Gym is a social environment. So whatever tricks you do at the club/bar/class/workplace etc works there as well.
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:02 PM
0

One hour after approach during day game.
/r/seduction20/08/21 10:59 PM
2

Sounds like an excuses. You don't need to go out for the purpose of approaching. In fact, this is weird, makes you to lie of what you are doing, and just makes encountered "forced", "unauthentic". You go to shop to buy food, you go to gym, you go to school with bus. I mean whenever you are out. You can approach. If you are having trouble to approach with an intent then approach without it. There is nothing wrong to say a genuine compliment and just walk a way. Or have small talk with cashier. Al…
/r/seduction20/08/21 10:51 PM
2

Had the same problem and these are the stages I went through during the years: Learned the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder and applied in practice. I always came up with a reason to touch her. Like if I see she has a tattoo I ask if she can show me, and then just touch the tattoo. Or I tell her a story how I bought the jeans and how soft they are and say "See touch it". Basically I had an arsenal of routines and other tricks to apply Dicarlo Escalation. This is good for a beginner. And if applied corr…
/r/seduction22/04/21 08:17 PM
3

That's not true. If you want to get laid then night game is much more effective and requires much less of work.
/r/seduction17/04/21 03:05 PM
1

Of course you can blame alcohol. Good luck.
/r/seduction17/04/21 12:23 AM
1

You live just one life, man. If you want, go for it. Just be prepared with consequences. If you fail, you make it weird and your relationship won't be the same. Also, your friend may not like it. If that is okay with you. I see no reason why you can't try. As for sexualising conversation, just one advice: get drunk with her and make a move.
/r/seduction16/04/21 11:21 PM
0

I don't think you understand. Either "you are yourself" and you talk what you WANT. This will reduce your chances. But it works better for a longer game and is more fun. Or, you "are not yourself" and talk what is NEEDED. This will increase your chances. But it works better for shorter game. Is not optimal for a longer game. You can have both. It happens when WHAT you want to talk is the same what is NEEDED. But it takes lots of time to change your beliefs and internalise them.
/r/seduction16/04/21 08:10 PM
1

That's weird, someone who does not want "anything manipulative" should never ask a question like this. Just talk what you actually want to talk about. You like games, then talk about games. You want to know if she ever had a threessome then be honest and ask her. You get the point. Anything else, would be considered as "not being yourself" and "manipulative" to some degree.
/r/seduction16/04/21 08:00 PM
2

Be dominant. In most Europe women like manly men. But in those countries that becomes even more important. Also in those countries compared to UK for example, the social intelligence of people is much lower. So you can take advantage of that as well. For example, smiling, being polite with strangers, knowing how to chit chat, is rare and would be considered very social behaviour. While in UK that would be considered as nothing special.
/r/seduction16/04/21 07:38 PM
1

Neither. Date sounds too official, while "hang out" sounds too immature. I just ask if they want to have a drink with me.
/r/seduction16/04/21 07:34 PM
1

Troll is back!
/r/seduction13/04/21 09:17 PM
2

As cool as it sounds it won't help you to be a great man.
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:16 PM
7

I have shorter and more generic answer: "Cause you took the shitty actions till now"
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:55 PM
1

Get rid of your social anxiety first. That would be a good start.
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:53 PM
1

It is possible. But you need time. Lots of time. And lots of changes to yourself. She needs to see you as a different person. The way are you now. It is dead end.
/r/seduction13/04/21 09:06 AM
1

Lol. Well. That's the art of seduction. Also. I think you are misinterpreting "Sexual desire" thing. You don't need to show YOUR sexual desire. You have to BRING OUT hers. She has to feel sexual desire for YOU not the other way around. At least for attraction stage. For this instance you could have played longer game. You knew she is into you. Due to IOIs. So why not to tease her more? For example. Ask her when she will finish with the machine. Now you have a reason to be next to her and just wa…
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:54 AM
2

You went in interview mode little bit there at the beginning. And at that point she realised that you are really into her and hitting on her. Maybe few sentences there and there. Some touches. And then repeat the same thing next time. If you could have played without showing that you like her. Then would have more chances. Although, who knows.
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:55 AM
2

Looks pretty good to me. Good opener. Good conversation. You reached the social hook point. My best guess is that she was not comfortable to touch you at the gym. Her leaving you shows lack of interest. Maybe she has a bf or she just didn't like you that much. Social hook up is just her being polite. You asked questions, she asks you back. It is a dead end.
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:42 AM
0

It is good that you are doing something. But with this pace it will take years until you have results. Just do bigger challenges like. 1st day I approach 30 people. 2nd day I approach 10 women. 3rd ay I approach 5 groups. Etc.
/r/seduction12/04/21 08:57 PM
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What a waste of time.
/r/seduction12/04/21 08:44 PM
1

Depends. First of all don't say anything what you are looking for, unless she REALLY wants to know. Secondly, if you SEE that she is potential gf material, and you can say this without sounding like a pussy, then that's fine. Third, if you SEE that she is only for sex. Then I leave it up to your moral standards to decide what to do.
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:26 AM
5

Cause your advice is just a plain nonsense.
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:16 AM
4

Literally anywhere.
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:19 AM
1

Yes. Go to the club.
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:18 AM
0

"Argumentum ad hominem" You are judging their ideas based on kind of people they are.
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:15 AM
1

This is the precise reason why she wants to know. She likes you. And she knows that. But because it was just one date she does not want to come off as "desperate". So, that's why she asks this question. To test the waters.
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:15 PM
1

No it was not a test. She is into you and wants to know if you are on the same level.
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:09 PM
1

"Yeah. It slides better."
/r/seduction10/04/21 06:13 PM
3

Just do silly things confidently and no one perceives you as immature.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:42 PM
2

I saw some videos on youtube. Didn't hear nor read any advice which I would not agree myself. They are just looking at the same apple from a different side.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:38 PM
1

So how does usually your conversations go?
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:33 PM
2

Personally. I feel bad, cause I know that at some point will have to break up with her.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:33 PM
1

Most likely your text game needs improvement.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:28 PM
1

"Game" is your skills to attract opposite sex. "Value" it is a person's worth. It is a sum of internal attributes such as confidence, humour, charm, honesty, conversation skills etc and external such as appearance, money, status, followers, style etc. "Abundance" refers to the mindset where you think that world is abundant of things instead of scarce of them. For example, rather of thinking, "I can't find any woman" you think, "I can't find lots of them"
/r/seduction05/04/21 09:51 AM
1

The Mystery Method. Why? Cause it was technical enough to apply in practice.
/r/seduction04/04/21 08:59 PM
2

First. I always sit across. This is because I don't want to make her uncomfortable. After 15-30 min I find the reason to relocate next to her or even better as her to sit next to me. Usually it happens after the meal. Cause I like to have my space when I am eating.
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:45 PM
1

You do realise that your opinion as a coach is totally biased.
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:44 PM
6

All those coaches were loosers like all of us at some point. I believe they started with a good intentions and actually wanted to help. But once they had the taste of the money, they started to treat you like a walking wallet. Anyone who bought the courses or went to training just fooling themselves thinking that it was worth it. And you have to think like that, otherwise you just threw away 1000s of pounds for nothing. Avoid at all costs. You can learn everything yourself. It will take little b…
/r/seduction04/04/21 02:52 PM
1

People admire things which they want to posses themselves. If you demonstrate those personality traits to them. Then they will think you are endearing.
/r/seduction04/04/21 01:27 PM
1

Oh man, you have no clue, if you think like this. Just go read some basics.
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:15 PM
3

Lol. You need to read their body language. They clearly didn't want to talk with you. So had to leave sooner. As for winging is simple. Try to always approach 2-set. And never approach 1-set with a wing. The guy who opens chooses his target, as unwritten rule. Second person wings him. At first there is always one person talking and everyone is concentrating on that person. And it is fine for couple of minutes. Little by little position your body to the side. And start talking with second girl wh…
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:10 PM
1

Hi, I have an answer for you Same approach.
/r/seduction03/04/21 09:58 PM
8

I just close myself in my flat. And order everything from amazon. If you don't see, it does not hurt.
/r/seduction03/04/21 07:58 PM
1

Don't get it. How can you feel confident if you are building confidence...
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:15 AM
7

Who knows maybe he found someone else. Maybe he took your phone number by accident. That's actually happens :) Maybe he thinks you are not interested. Maybe he changed his mind. Maybe he does not want to appear too desperate. Whatever the reason, if you want his attention back, you can either wait or text him. Remember that woman's desperation is not a turn off. Some guys like it. At least I do. Saves me headache and my time.
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:33 PM
1

I use techniques: Observation. Look at her and say what you see. For example, if you see "White shoes", "Oh, you have white shoes". Or "You have freckles". "Oh, you have a tattoo", "Your teeth are very white" Interestingly, this simple technique can lead into flirting. Once I looked at her face, and sad "You have freckles. And then automatically started to count them. And sad, wait a sec. One side have 1,2,3 while another just 2. Lol" Abstraction. Find commonalities between her and something els…
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:41 PM
8

Most likely I will be downvoted, but whatever. If you really want to change and be respected, then you have to get rid of fear of conflicts. It is related to your #3 point. But taking classes won't really help, you have to put yourself in the situations where you might be in physical danger or/and make other people uncomfortable. And try to get out of them using social intelligence without any violence. When you don't have this fear, then no one will fuck with you and you will have your respect …
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:51 AM
8

This field report as accurate as it can get. Especially when you are starting. 22y chick you were not interested in her. It happens. IG chick, wanted to snoop you around due to lack of trust. Not much you can do in these cases. Either push for Insta date or have social media. In online dating don't go straight for the number. Exchange 10-15 messages in 3 days, and then ask her out. The chick at your place just needed time. You were too fast. If you see that she is uncomfortable don't even try. F…
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:38 AM
5

It is like driving a car. At first you always have to think what to do. But with time your body itself starts to do what needs to be done and you can focus on something else. The exact same process happens in seduction.
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:45 PM
1

Few days ago I was peeling a mango with a peeler. Was holding it an a very weird way and I cut it in my nail. So I put a plaster, it did hurt little bit, tho. Next day I bought again a mango and wanted to peel. But the problem now it was even more difficult, cause one of my fingers hurt. And yet I still did it. And you won't believe, I cut myself again, but now it was upper part of finger. It is ridiculous. So do you think, I bought a mango and tried to peeled next day? The answer is "yes". Why?…
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:32 PM
1

This is exactly why we are very bad at predicting our reactions. Let me guess, when you thinking about that kind of encounter you are imagining that is let's say Monday, you are going somewhere with a destination in mind, from work to home to see your boyfriend/husband. You are tired. It is evening. There are not many people around. And then suddenly some random guy jumps aggressively in front of you and blocks your path. The interesting thing I never mentioned those details, and yet your brain …
/r/seduction01/04/21 07:55 PM
9

It is your vibe man. If you are sad, desperate, angry, tired, not into it, or whatever. They will feel it. You can do and say the same thing, but the result will be different. Need to fix the vibe.
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:09 PM
4

So you think I am just talking about this only hypothetically? Dude, I am talking from experience. Take it or leave it.
/r/seduction01/04/21 01:13 PM
0

Let's go through basics. If she is moving your first priority is to stop her. I won't explain why we need to stop her, cause it is just too obvious. Therefore, ask a question "HOW do you stop a woman, so that you will have the biggest chances to succeed?" The answer is totally BLCOK her path. That's it. The less options she has to move physically, the bigger possibility she will not move. It is like someone jumps in front of you, what do you do? You STOP, cause you can't walk further. But the th…
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:59 AM
2

Man, seriously. How you can get laid if you literally neglect woman? It is like saying. "I spend 2 years of not driving a car. And, guess what, I am still bad driver"
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:44 AM
0

I neglected women for 2 years, just working on myself, and guess what, I got laid ZERO times during those 2 years. No comments.
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:21 AM
3

You have few good points but is not that simple as just being hot. I saw profiles of old, fat dudes with beards getting lots of likes. I saw profiles with skinny emo kids getting likes. Damm, I even saw profiles without face getting likes. So, clearly. There is more to it, than just being handsome guy.
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:10 AM
5

It just takes practice. First, you don't filter your targets. It is just so easy to tell which girl will be receptive which not before even talking with her. Pay strong attention to her walking speed and clothes and environment. Based on this you can deduce with good accuracy of what kind of person she is and what she is doing at this moment. It takes 1000s of approaches to develop this skill, tho. Secondly, you either giving too much energy or not enough when opening. Remember your energy level…
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:03 AM
1

This is gold. Keep it up.
/r/seduction31/03/21 11:24 AM
1

Lol. I do like the attitude, but that approach won't work. Being masculine is not enough. She probably would text you after 1min of interaction. But the longer she will wait the less initial emotional impact she will feel. And by the evening someone else will be filling her emotional needs. And you become just a distant memory. That's why INVESTMENT is more important than the shock effect. You have to make her invest in you during interaction, so that when her emotions disappears she would have …
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:46 AM
1

Flirting is an attitude. Believe that every women who you talk wants you.
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:33 AM
3

Always trust your guts. You are right, she is not into you. Just delete and move on.
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:29 AM
1

You are talking about natural. Who learned this stuff without his own awareness. In other words you are comparing apples with oranges.
/r/seduction31/03/21 09:00 AM
-11

Depends on the other guy. If he is beta you can just dominate him. Eventually he will retreat himself. If he is another alpha, then you can throw shit tests to him. Like "So, where is your gf?". Or, "Wow, you both would be such a cute couple". Etc. If he won't pass, those tests, then he will be devalued.
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:59 PM
10

If you don't want to go into pickup you can learn it by yourself naturally. It will take longer, tho. Talk with girls. 1000s of them. Try to analyse your conversation by writing Field Reports, like a diary. Look for mistakes, think how and what could you have done better. And next time do it better. Repeat the process. Eventually, you will find out what PUA community already knows for decades. But contrary to reading books, you had that knowledge already internalised.
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:11 PM
1

Most often shy people are introverts as well. In that case, take things slower than usual. Build a stronger connection. Otherwise you will scare her off.
/r/seduction30/03/21 05:59 PM
1

For the first one, definitely YES. Deep strong gaze has powerful effect over woman. Flirting is not a display of vulnerability is a display of sexual intent. And it is a prerequisite to get her number. I mean, I had 100s of friendly long conversations which ended without her number. But once I learned how to flirt, everything changed dramatically. Girls giving numbers, girls fighting over you. Girls cheating on their bf/husbands with you. It is powerful shit.
/r/seduction30/03/21 04:22 PM
0

Many guys do mistake when it comes showing an intention. Yes, you DO HAVE to show the intention. Show that this encounter is between MAN and WOMAN, and not just between friends. But you have to show that INTENT using your body language, voice tone, incorporating sexual words etc. People call this FLIRTING. Verbalising your intent, and saying that you find her attractive is NOT a flirt.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:53 PM
2

Honestly, I have tried that. Her reaction will be the same as you would give the compliment and she will say "thank you". And if she is single, and you are her type, then this will work. Otherwise, is not a game but a gamble.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:36 PM
3

Happens sometimes. Used to be that I would still try and give my best shot. But that would not lead anywhere. If you don't click you don't click. Now, I just say "Okay. We both know that this won't gonna work? We never be a couple. But do you wanna have sex?" Most of the time it does not work. But had couple of successes as well. Idk why but given right circumstances being so honestly straightforward and blunt with woman just works.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:33 PM
2

As a guy. If I see pretty face, I swipe right. That's basically it.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:27 PM
8

I agree with you. Compliments are weak openers. Took me 1000s of approaches to realise that, lol. And if a woman don't find you attractive, she will be disgusted by you. Unfortunately, got few bad experiences with that as well.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:19 PM
2

Idk why but people forget that a gym, class, pool etc are social venues. The same principles which applies in a club or bar applies here as well. First build a social proof by talking shit out of everyone, and then you can approach whatever you like.
/r/seduction30/03/21 02:14 PM
42

This is very beginner advice. And in general, "yes" if just starting complimenting and don't know what you are doing then go for some detail in their style. But eventually you realise that this not always work. And HOW to compliment depends on many factors. I think two of the most important are Her age Her sexual experience For younger woman better is to compliment her body. Mainly cause at younger age they still don't get compliments from the guys, cause they are immature to give them. Plus eve…
/r/seduction30/03/21 01:15 PM
8

You are not approaching cause your brain protects you from the imaginary danger.
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:54 PM
21

You are misunderstanding what "Alpha" is. What you said to her is totally not "alpha", but a douchebag.
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:50 PM
2

You are asking her out too soon. Text with her for 2-3 days couple of messages before asking her out.
/r/seduction30/03/21 09:21 AM
1

If you are good at talking in person then you should not have problems in texting. Just text to her like you would talk to her in person.
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:35 AM
3

It is not about what you say is about HOW you say it. Talking about sexual topics won't help if you will talk like doctor. So focus on things which are important. Learn how to talk about math while making her wet.
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:32 AM
1

Sorry mate, but your answers are horrible. In fact, you are not even with a girl and you already failing a test with this "defensive macho" attitude.
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:33 PM
11

Buy new phone.
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:28 PM
2

In short. Yes. Always approach. Don't wait for perfect time.
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:28 PM
3

First date: You have already answered. You were afraid to make a move, and she picked that up. Also, don't even try to make a pull before a kiss. Second date: Same mistake. Also solve your location problem before going on a date. Or be prepare to do it outside.
/r/seduction29/03/21 07:11 PM
11

You already doing push/pull in your day to day life. Few examples: You alternate between doing exercise and resting. You alternate between eating and not eating. You alternate between talking and listening. And so on. Apply the same concept in your dating life. Alternate between showing and not showing attention. Alternate between texting and not texting. Alternate between kissing and not kissing. Here is the formula: Alternate between doing <something pleasurable>, not doing <the same thing>.
/r/seduction29/03/21 06:39 PM
9

No. It is bullshit.
/r/seduction29/03/21 06:30 PM
5

Build social proof by talking, being friendly with everyone in class. Teachers, girls even guys. Then when you approach random girls, everyone will think that is a normal thing for you to do. You will see, how guys instead of laughing at you, will start to be jealous of you. The hardest part is to break that psychological barrier (other people perception of you), especially if you are that silent guy in a class.
/r/seduction29/03/21 06:22 PM
32

It is just your perception. It may sound crazy, but you can actually control what you like, what you think, and what you feel. It does take some practice, tho. Be always aware of your thoughts. When you notice negative thoughts, STOP thinking. Turn everything off. Then start thinking about something positive.
/r/seduction29/03/21 06:13 PM
2

Social media definitely helps a lot. Especially for day game. Usually 20% of encounters I blew just because I don't have any social media. There are mainly three reasons why a woman will insist of exchanging social media. She does not like you, and it is her way to say 'no'. This is the most likely reason. She likes you, but does not want to give NR to the stranger. She wants to know more about you. Possible, but unlikely. As you can see, social media presence does help for 2nd and 3rd point, bu…
/r/seduction29/03/21 04:30 PM
1

I like to sit down away from her. Make myself comfortable, like sit at the end of sofa or/and put my legs on the chair. And for 20-30 min leave her alone and just watch a movie. Then if she does not join me by herself, I just say "Come here, it is more comfortable". When she comes I put my arm around her. After few min start to play with her hair or/and scratch her back. Touch her neck. While still watching a movie. Like to tease also by touching the front of the neck. Literally play with it. Yo…
/r/seduction29/03/21 04:14 PM
1

You are going too soon. Slow down. It happens for me as well, especially with a new person. One minute everything is fine, hard as rock, but once pants are down, everything goes down. Just don't get embarrassed, keep in control. Do more cuddling, do more kissing. You can try some games. Even talking helps. Eventually it comes up.
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:35 PM
37

It is a double edge sword. When you are the one without options, you don't have much, but you value what you have. When you are the one with options, you do have a lot, but you don't value what you have, everyone becomes replaceable.
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:08 PM
1

Girls are chasing guy not because of the guy himself, but because other girls are chasing him.
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:02 PM
1

This is how your brain rationalises your fear. And it is a master of coming up with all kind of excuses. Although it depends how long the date was. If the date lasted around 1-2h and for some reason you had to finish soon, then is better NOT to kiss. Then, if the date was good, most likely you will meet again. But if it lasted around 3-5 hours or even longer. Then if you don't kiss and try to pull, you won't have second date.
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:58 PM
4

It will sound crazy but try to avoid talking about things which you really like. I blew few dates because of this. Like she was into philosophy, which I like as well. Or she was studying computer science. So I was talking about these topics cause I found int very interesting. And because of this I just carried away and forgot to seduce her. It is very good to make friends this way, but not good if you wish to make lovers.
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:44 PM
1

I used to do a bet where if she looses she has to kiss me on a cheek, and if I loose then I will pay for a dinner (although be careful with this one, cause some women expects you to pay for a dinner in either case). So then play a game, where you always win, like the "laying" game. Then you lean AWAY from her, so that she has to lean into you. Point to your cheek, say "Come on". Let her kiss your cheek, and when she leans back away, then catch her back of her head with your hands, and kiss her i…
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:35 PM
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The problem with yours is that is too needy. If you really want to use this, then at least make it sound better: Get rid of phrase "Come on", cause it is a synonym for "Please". Get rid of phrase "now I have to", cause it indicates your frustration So rewrite it into: "Hello, miss. I am an IG story inspector. You must upload a story, so that desperate guys could like it. Otherwise you will be fined.
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:15 PM
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It does not really matter what you say in the DMs. All those social media games are based on the status. If your profile, photos, followers count is better or at least similar to hers. Then she will reply even you send her "Hi, there".
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:56 PM
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I had the same problems, mate, when I have started. So the way I used to do is to come up with the routines. I used rehearse couple of times the dates in my head before going into the actual date. I knew, how and when I will kiss her, where I will touch her. What reasons to give to her to touch etc. And of course there were situations, when my plan did not work. Like I tried to kiss her when there were children inside coffee shop. And she looks at me like "WTF, I am doing" :) LOL. I was clueless…
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:49 PM
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Here are the mistakes: Do not talk too long. 10-15 mins is enough, unless you are planning to go for an insta date Do not give her your number. Always ask hers. Make her invest more during conversation.
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:36 PM
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Assuming you did not have sex yet. In that case the rules are simple: The goal of texting is to arrange a date. If she already knows you in person, then just skip all the bullshit and ask her out. If both of you are strangers, then before arranging a date you must show to her that you are not a psycho. Do this by showing her NON neediness. That is, wait 2-3 times longer to reply than she. Leave her on read. End conversations in the evening. Do not resume or explain why you ended next morning, ju…
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:25 PM
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You are afraid. Afraid of embarrassing yourself. Afraid of other people opinion. Afraid of loosing her. Afraid of rejection. Etc. No matter what kind of fear exactly that is, you overcome it like any other fear. Just face it. Truth is, you will never get laid unless you will make couple of women "uncomfortable" at some point in your life.
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:12 PM
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Lol. Don't worry too much about it. I have been in many similar situations when started. Like misjudging her age, almost getting into a fight, hitting on a girl when bf/husband was standing next. And so on. Eventually you will start to judge social situations much better. Also you will learn things like: If a woman is standing in the mall she is waiting for a friend/bf/mom etc. Cause women like to shop together. If she is walking alone, then most likely she is alone. If she standing somewhere on…
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:02 PM
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You have friend zoned yourself. But maybe there is still a hope, cause she was attracted to you at some point. You can try to seduce her. But with this desperate "I wanna fuck" attitude you won't succeed.
/r/seduction29/03/21 12:28 PM
1

I would say smaller cities are better. Smaller cities have lower standards for guys. Therefore, it makes easier for you to stand out in the photos.
/r/seduction29/03/21 12:19 PM
2

Just follow this simple rule: "Sext only if you had sex at least once"
/r/seduction12/01/21 03:08 PM
2

As silly this sounds. But is so true.
/r/seduction10/01/21 07:24 PM
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People want valuable things. If they would have a choice they would choose 10 000£ worth of watch, rather 20£ worth. It is a fact. All society is built on top of that. We are attracted to things which we perceive valuable. The problem with outwards thinking that is VERY HARD to express your value. To do that you have to have a SELF-WORTH. And self-worth comes only if you are inwards thinking. You have to know what YOU want, you have to have YOUR goals, you have to put a time to achieve those goa…
/r/seduction10/01/21 07:11 PM
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It is an attitude. 99% of people thoughts are directed towards themselves. Every min they think "What should I say", "What I will eat", "I am so unhappy", "Does this guy likes me?", "I am so depressed", "Tonight I will watch a movie", "I want to meet with my bf", "I want that he would say I love you often", and on and on. Instead, your thoughts have to be directed towards other people. You should think the following thoughts: "What this person feels at this moment?", "How can I help him?", "What…
/r/seduction10/01/21 11:49 AM
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Instead of asking just do Push & Pull and 2 steps forward 1 step backwards. Kiss her. Then stop. Then kiss her, touch her. Then take a break. Then kiss her, toucher her more, make out. Then stop and so on.
/r/seduction10/01/21 11:14 AM
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As harsh the vocabulary sounds, this guy is right. You have to talk to her. And if things don't change then it is time to move on. If you are in a relationship where you don't feel satisfied. You will never be happy in your life. And an unhappy person makes other people unhappy. This is not good for everyone.
/r/seduction10/01/21 11:05 AM
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During sex and after sex onwards.
/r/seduction10/01/21 11:00 AM
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Your mindset has to be "The only reason why she is her is to pleasure me". It is totally not correct, and actually is the opposite, but you have to set your mind into this roleplay. Everything you say stems from this mindset. Here are the following areas you need to focus: Commands. Tell her how to position yourself, how to hold hands, legs. Tell her what she must do, HOW to do it, etc. You can go so far that you can EVEN control her orgasm. I have never had a woman who would not like to be comm…
/r/seduction10/01/21 09:33 AM
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All of them are valid reasons for her not to go with you. When she says any of them, not much you can do, but just to take her number. If you will push more, it will just show how needy you are. The best thing you can do in these situations is to ANTICIPATE them before she says anything. “I can’t leave my friends” - If she was with friends, you should win the friends. And then say to her, "Let's take you back to your friends", "I am not gonna keep you too long, your friends must be worry about y…
/r/seduction10/01/21 08:59 AM
0

Flirting is an attitude. Imagine that you had/having sex with any girl you meet.
/r/seduction10/01/21 08:44 AM
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Approach a woman in a 3 sec after you see her.
/r/seduction10/01/21 08:42 AM
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You can't change much of how you look, but you can increase WHAT you want to show with that look. Focus on DOMINANCE and CONFIDENCE. Most important are: 1) Be muscular. As long as your guns are visible through T-Shirts, that should do. 2) Haircut. Have a sharp haircut. Most importantly is to cut the sides. And make your remaining hair stand. DO NOT COMB TO THE SIDE. 3) Beard. Have at least a stubble. 4) Wear dark, one colour, fit clothes which would accentuate your muscular figure. 5) Jewlerly. …
/r/seduction09/01/21 05:13 PM
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Yeah, she won't give you a number from the first sentence. You had to talk more. Also, you did a mistake of not talking to her when you saw her while she was smoking. "Hi. Are you working in the gym?" Always remember 3-second rule.
/r/seduction09/01/21 04:34 PM
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Practice.
/r/seduction07/01/21 11:13 AM
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Routine is just something you do repeatedly, that's all. It is nothing to do with an attraction.
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:32 PM
0

With a good profile and gold subscription, as a guy, you can get 100s of likes per day. It is still not close to what women get, but out of 100s of likes, there will be at least 10 who you like yourself. Per week this is around 70 if not more matches. I think that is a very good addition to your dating life.
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:30 PM
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1000s words of text and you forgot to mention the most important fact: The goal of texting is to arrange a date. So, every message you send, even the opening message, has to LEAD to that goal.
/r/seduction06/01/21 09:36 AM
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Idk, man. If I could pull hundreds of HB10s. I, honestly, would not mind to go crazy after that.
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:57 PM
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Lol. This post gave me the motivation to read more books and improve myself even more so that I could find a job at a nightclub.
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:52 PM
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So, by your logic you would fail a driving test just because it is a test. Shist tests exist for a reason. It tests your congruency. Skipping a shit test is the same as, moving out to some African country, so you can still drive without a license. It is stupid.
/r/seduction03/01/21 05:24 PM
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Personally, based on two states I am, I do the following: 1) If I haven't approach for a while and have huge anxiety. I just remove all my emotions. And do what needs to be done. That's it. It is more, like, let's get over it. 2) If I did lots of approaches and AA barely exists. Then I literally just having fun with this. And do approaches just for may own entertainment.
/r/seduction03/01/21 05:18 PM
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It is definitely a shit test. To see how you will handle jealousy. The worst thing you can do is to start comparing yourself with him "I am smart as well". Agreeing with this also is not the best option, cause if you agree, then why she should be with you, and not with that other guy? You will shoot yourself in a foot. I would go along with her game and say: "Wow. I would have never taken you as a threesome person. Are you for real?" I mean if she likes you, and she likes that other guy. Then th…
/r/seduction03/01/21 03:04 PM
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You do realise that saying this you clearly show that it is bothering you. So you fail the test.
/r/seduction03/01/21 02:58 PM
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So your suggestion is to stalk her? I totally agree with you. If you can go to the shop and find her putting stuff on the shelf then yes. It is simple. You will be alone with her. But most likely, if the shop is big, this is not gonna happen. She may be working at the back, in the cashier or she might have a day off. So, instead of lurking around and looking for her, you ask someone for her. What else can you do? And asking for her number at the cashier is very socially awkward. It could work bu…
/r/seduction03/01/21 02:40 PM
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Check her name badge. Come back the next day during lunch hours, or when she is not on the cashier. Find anyone who works in the store, like a manager, or her colleague and say that you are looking for <her name>. I would go with a manger, cause more likely he won't tag alone with her. Plus it will huge DHV from your side. You are using "the manager" to get what you want. Make it sound like you know her, and you are a friend, and it is important and it is personal. And SAY THAT YOU WILL WAIT OUT…
/r/seduction03/01/21 11:15 AM
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Thanks, man. I just do what needs to be done. Whether I like it or not.
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:52 PM
1

I am Lithuanian, living in UK. Neither I am welcomed here, nor people find it okay to talk with strangers. Even so, I still do it anways.
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:49 PM
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You are mistaken. The fact that no one is approaching women on the street is a good thing. It means that you are different. And it is much easier. I always have better success in smaller towns, cause people are not used to it. They find it strange, but in a very positive way. When it comes approaching/dating/sex etc. is a linear process. You start from small and you increase the difficulty. Often beginners do mistake by starting to learn calculus while they haven't finished algebra. Everyone hav…
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:17 PM
1

I have been in your shoes. Maybe not exactly the same shoes, but similar ones. But I never ever asked for advice. Even when I didn't know much about seduction, I used to give advice instead of asking. Teaching someone else is a learning method on its own. I also used to approach women on the streets on my own. Some of my friends told me that I should go for a Bootcamp. But I sad fck that, I like to learn from my own mistakes. It takes longer, but also it sticks longer. And of cousre I had a plan…
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:40 PM
1

You didn't answer the question. What is your plan? Step by step.
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:11 PM
1

If I'm being completely honest, I want to sleep with A LOT of women So what's your plan?
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:45 PM
1

Just tell him to get the fuck off, or you beat his ass. And you mean it.
/r/seduction01/01/21 01:17 PM
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If you're on this subreddit looking for advice you have already taken a wrong step So it means I should not listen to your advice then, cause you are on this subreddit as well...
/r/seduction01/01/21 08:00 AM
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HER: "Wow! You're younger than you look!" YOU: "Don't worry. I am legal" EDIT: field tested
/r/seduction01/01/21 06:31 AM
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She: "I am too hot for you" You: "You are right. Let me call an ambulance". - say jokingly that you are worried that she has a huge temperature. You can even do kino, by putting a hand on her forehead. She: "Aren't you older than me" You: "Why do you ask? Are you interested in me?" - say like you honestly think that she is interested She: "You are too ugly for me" You: "I am flattered. But I am not interested in you THAT way" - say like you sincerely are confused, and when you say the word "THAT…
/r/seduction31/12/20 06:24 PM
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Just do warm-up sets for a 30-60min.
/r/seduction30/12/20 11:44 AM
1

Guys don't receive a lot of compliments. Dam, one of the best ways to win a guy over is to compliment him. If a woman compliments me. I know that she has VERY HIGH INTEREST in me. If she compliments my body, I now exactly how many hours will take to have sex with her. But, that's me. 99% of guys are clueless, and they will literally think that you like his biceps and not him. So don't be afraid to compliment. You won't lose anything.
/r/seduction30/12/20 05:59 AM
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I am foreigner as well. What I found that if you care about it, then other people will care as well. So just talk like your English is better than hers and don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction30/12/20 01:20 AM
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In dating, there is a rule "She feels what you feel". When we text, we transfer our mindset and current emotions. So you have to fix your mindset and put yourself in a positive emotional state, such as happiness. And then just have fun without any expectations. Fun and NORMAL conversations work best. Like you would talk to her if she would be in front of you. I call this NATURAL TEXT game. And usually, this is enough. But if you really want to go deep into this, then learn the meaning between ea…
/r/seduction28/12/20 10:52 PM
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Thoughts are like a river, they flow one directionally. You have to break the flow. The hardest part is to detect those thoughts. Once you have detected, stop. Think about something else. You can try meditation. It helps as well.
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:15 PM
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You are talking about expectations. You create a plan. Something does not go by that plan. And that makes you unhappy. So. Don't have expectations.
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:04 PM
1

I would do it sooner. She is HB9 new in town who is looking for friends. How long do you think it will take for her to find someone?
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:34 PM
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Seems not bad. But I have a feeling that after your first initial spike "I like your style" you did not do/say anything else and went into interview mode. Also. You looked too available. She said that she is new in town and you just straight away offer to show her around. Which is a little bit needy. Try to qualify her before a reward. Also. Text her or even better call her after 30min. And say some stupid shit like "Hey <here Name>. I forgot to ask you something important. Do you like coffee or…
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:27 PM
2

First, sit across each other. After like 15-30 min sit next to her.
/r/seduction28/12/20 10:24 AM
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Simple answer. LACK OF EXPERIENCE. They just don't know how to talk with women. When I broke up with my first and the only girlfriend, I went to dating apps. Had literally 100s of conversations, and none of them were successful. So I showed those conversations to my ex. I have never seen her laughing so loud. At first, I thought I will just be myself and texted "Hi. How are you?" Well, that didn't work. No reply. Then I thought, maybe I should be sincere. "Hi. You are very cute. What is your nam…
/r/seduction28/12/20 08:44 AM
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Flirting is an attitude. It is like having sex without actually having it.
/r/seduction26/12/20 09:47 AM
0

I have read quite a few books: Models, How to be 3% men, Mystery Method, Art of Seduction, Bad boy lifestyle, Carlos Xuma stuff, RSD stuff, Day Game Mastery, Texting game and many more... And if I would have to choose just one book I would go with MM. All books are good for general knowledge. But MM which actually got me results. Negging, Disqualification, Qualification, Storytelling, as fake and manipulative they sound they are Effective and they WORK.
/r/seduction24/12/20 10:34 PM
11

I may be stupid asking this, but "Isn't this a seduction?"
/r/seduction24/12/20 08:23 PM
1

Unless you have some mental illness such as autism, psychopathy etc, connecting with people is just a matter of practice. I know I was very bad at it, now I have not a problem with it. In fact, the stronger the connection/bond the better sex.
/r/seduction24/12/20 04:54 PM
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Definitely not the first one. The second one would be good. But your mindest and emotions are not right. Change your mindset/emotions into the right ones and be in tune with them.
/r/seduction24/12/20 04:44 PM
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I think you forgot to mention, "Men, whose feelings are not clear towards her, women find more attractive". I have read a long time ago this book, but this is what stuck to me.
/r/seduction24/12/20 12:52 PM
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Idk. The only thing what worked and still works for me is the desensitisation. Basically, I treat approaching the same way I treat any other thing which I don't like to do, but yet I still do. Like waking up 5am to go to work. Washing dishes after you cooked a meal. Going to the dentist. Etc. None of those things I like to do, they make me uncomfortable, and yet I do anyway. Cause if I don't, then there will be consequences, which I won't like even more. So approaching for me is the same. Its so…
/r/seduction24/12/20 12:43 PM
1

Focus on them. Not on yourself.
/r/seduction24/12/20 12:36 PM
1

If she will ask. "How long since you had your last sex/gf/whatever?" Say something stupid. "1000 years ago". If she does not ask. Then by no means DO NOT tell her. I did a mistake and told her, she did not believe me, and though I am hiding something. It is not worth it.
/r/seduction24/12/20 12:33 PM
1

I have read it. Liked it. But is more for general knowledge. It has very little practical application.
/r/seduction23/12/20 06:22 AM
1

Just tell the truth in the BIO. Also you can try swinger or bdsm communities as well.
/r/seduction22/12/20 04:35 PM
4

You have exceptional logical deduction skills
/r/seduction21/12/20 05:09 PM
6

Natural is someone who learned PUA without actually learning PUA.
/r/seduction21/12/20 03:16 PM
2

That's not true. Most of them end in non-abusive relationships. Those who end in abusive relationships have their own problems.
/r/seduction20/12/20 09:24 PM
1

I agree with this. I used to smile while approaching. But that didn't lead to too many numbers. Not smiling works much better.
/r/seduction20/12/20 05:46 PM
12

Agree with everything.
/r/seduction20/12/20 05:43 PM
1

Contrary to popular belief Dating is not something mysterious. It is governed by some rules and fundamental principles. Go to 100s of dates and you will realise that if you follow a specific blueprint it will work 90% of the time. At the moment you are doing too many mistakes and not following those principles, that's why you suck at dating.
/r/seduction20/12/20 05:41 PM
2

Let him open and lead. If you will be always dominant he will never learn. Also explain to him about the importance of appearance, fashion, hygiene etc.
/r/seduction20/12/20 04:26 AM
4

So you rather waste your time by messaging 1000 of messages instead of improving your photos? That does not make sense.
/r/seduction19/12/20 08:17 PM
1

The language is just an excuse to reject you. She is not into you. Move on.
/r/seduction19/12/20 08:13 PM
2

Change the attitude. Be more open and friendly with people around you.
/r/seduction19/12/20 08:09 PM
2

Lol. So you want to get matches without paying premium and boost? Good luck with that. Also, if you get 0 matches it means your profile is very very bad. You need to have some knowledge of how to play ONLINE game. Just putting some random photos won't work. p.s. I get 100s of likes per day, and 10s of matches as a guy. But I do spend money on this.
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:48 PM
3

Just talk with her when she is leaving the gym.
/r/seduction19/12/20 06:11 PM
0

I disagree. Dating was not easier. It was just different.
/r/seduction19/12/20 06:08 PM
1

I agree with you. It seems like the responsible thing to do. But, damm, that takes all the fun and excitement from the dates.
/r/seduction19/12/20 06:02 PM
1

So what, you on a second or third date ask her for a doctor's note?
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:59 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:57 PM
6

Totally agree with you. You just forgot one thing. "He doesn't take shit from anyone". Without this, your description is just a "nice guy".
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:55 PM
6

Sounds good. As long as you increase the difficulty, then you will progress.
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:49 PM
0

I agree with that you have to be comfortable with your sexuality but your examples are very bad. And they will backfire to you, big time. Condom example is just way too suggestive. And would work ONLY IF she is ready to have sex. Otherwise she will think that you are with her just for sex. Misinterpretation. I agree. That is a good thing to do. Making sexual innuendo. Is not good. This is what women do when they want to have sex. In other words, is like indirectly saying "Do you want to have sex…
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:42 PM
1

This is due to you not valuing yourself. Think of yourself as her lottery ticket.
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:19 PM
11

So what will be your Mission 2?
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:17 PM
1

Time to move on
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:14 PM
1

Lol. That's so true. You won't find such guys here.
/r/seduction18/12/20 01:41 PM
1

Just do it.
/r/seduction18/12/20 05:07 AM
2

It is like asking "Do people prefer oranges over apples?" Yeah. Good luck wasting time answering this question.
/r/seduction18/12/20 01:01 AM
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It is not due to racism. Is due to a sexual preference for the same race. In other words, biologically we are more attracted to the same race.
/r/seduction18/12/20 12:57 AM
2

Unless you are very religious, your question is totally pointless.
/r/seduction18/12/20 12:53 AM
2

Usually is never a good idea to flirt or even talk with a woman in a lingerie store. Is way too sexualised environment. The only time is appropriate if the woman is very confident about her body and sexuality. Otherwise, avoid at all cost.
/r/seduction18/12/20 12:51 AM
1

By socialising
/r/seduction16/12/20 09:12 PM
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You have to understand. This subreddit 99% focused on everything that happens before the first sex. That is meeting, arranging a date, the date itself. And this stage is very complex. Much more complex than a relationship itself. And the rules which would seem very simple in a relationship stage (honesty, communication, attention, affection etc) are not that simple in this stage.
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:58 PM
2

It is more generic than that. People want what they can't have.
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:47 PM
0

If you are a noob, then those channels are worthless. Guys in those clips practising PUA for years. It is like watching NASCAR driver when you don't even have a driving license. Just go do cold approaches.
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:42 PM
2

Don't really know in what sense they are "higher-level" women. Exotic dancers work in customer service. They are paid to be nice to the clients. Plus they are hoping for some tips. I see no difference in talking with them and talking with your waitress.
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:35 PM
1

By asking this question you already "care".
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:28 PM
1

Did around 1000s of approaches, and can count on my fingers occasions when the reaction of her was bad (ignored me or was rude). But never like this. p.s. that guy did lots of technical mistakes Not choosing who to talk (she was on the phone, she was not interested in socialising). Giving generic compliment instead of something specific Going so direct when there are lots of people around. In other words, he just embarrassed her. Asking her number straight away Very uncalibrated approach.
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:16 PM
1

You are investing too much already. Just "don't care".
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:05 PM
0

Yes. It is a good sign.
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:01 PM
1

It is impossible to answer this question without defining what "overly forward" means.
/r/seduction15/12/20 09:54 PM
1

There is nothing wrong to text, as long as you, know what you are doing. On the first day after arranging a date don't text anything. On the second you can text something using this blueprint. But only do this, if you think she might flake. If there is no indication. Then there is no reason to text. "Hi <her name>. <your experience>. <question to her>? <3-5 sentences of exchange> Finish conversation by. "That's cool. Let's talk more about this on <day of the date>" 3) 1-2 days don't text anythin…
/r/seduction15/12/20 04:29 PM
1

There is a difference when you are talking with your boss, parents, friend, stranger etc. You are adjusting your openness, sincerity, coldness and many other things. The same thing you do in a set. You are adjusting your communication depending on a set. If she is more slutty, then you give more "alphaness" if she is shyer, you decrease your openness, and so on. Same thing you should do with "smoothness" or "playerishness". Sometimes you need to add more "player vibe" into the set. Sometimes opp…
/r/seduction15/12/20 04:08 PM
0

At no point I wrote that you have to CONTROL her, I wrote you have to be IN CONTROL. How the fuck, everyone takes one sentence out of context and just misinterprets it. The point of all that was "BE NICE, BUT ALSO ASSERTIVE".
/r/seduction15/12/20 04:46 AM
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Assertive people don't ask. They know when is the right time to do the right thing. If you ask, it means you are not certain. It is nothing wrong with that. But uncertainty is not a very attractive trait in a guy. So if you are uncertain is still better to take an action and get burned instead of asking permission, whether that would be with women or other aspects with your life such as job. For example, is better to kiss her and get rejected rather ask "can I kiss you". But I agree, the languag…
/r/seduction14/12/20 09:09 PM
1

Yeh being confident and assertive is a good trait but if you try and boss a woman All this post is for being confident and assertive and treating women nice. At no point I sad "boss" a woman, I don't understand how did you make this conclusion.
/r/seduction14/12/20 08:50 PM
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The qualification part is hard without making yourself look arrogant. The classic examples are questions which would let her explain to you HOW AWESOME she is. "How spontaneous are you?" or "What are the craziest things you have done?", "Tell me three things you like to do during the date?", "How would you surprise me?" etc Build more banter with them days before. Don't just arrange a date and then just text to confirm. Let them type on the phone. It is a physical investment. As long as the resp…
/r/seduction14/12/20 08:07 PM
2

Don't see any technical mistakes. Even so, the flakes happen for a few reasons: Low investment from her side. Let's take an amplified example. Before you ask her out you say "In order to see me, build a house". She builds a house. Then you ask her out. She says "yes". Now, if she would flake, then all her efforts of building a house would be for nothing. So she is more inclined to proceed. In your example, she did not invest anything. So, to flake is easy for her, cause she does not lose anythin…
/r/seduction14/12/20 07:42 PM
2

You don't need to remove that "Label". You are who you are. Been doing a game for a while, and women still call me sweet. I am the nice guy, I always been and am. Any attempt to pretend just backfired to me. What you need to change is the dominance. You have to be the dominant one. You can be a nice guy but must be dominant and IN CONTROL. You decide where to go, when to kiss, when to finish, how long, everything. She just follows you. Your body language is dominant as well. You take lots of spa…
/r/seduction14/12/20 06:14 PM
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I disagree. You are probably confused about the phases. During ATTRACTION phase being clear won't work. No matter the age of the women. Cause attraction is the general concept. But during the RAPPORT phase then being honest is a way to go.
/r/seduction14/12/20 05:46 PM
1

Although as correct and valid this advice is. Is totally useless. Every guy knows that he needs to act/be like a man. But very few of them know what that actually means. That's way communities like PUA exists in a first place.
/r/seduction14/12/20 05:41 PM
1

Idk, where did you read about all those fallacies, but they are defo not part of PUA.
/r/seduction13/12/20 09:35 PM
1

There are plenty of ways to do it, but I won't say it cause it is a stupid thing to do anyway. Always assume that she is single. Even when she is with a guy, assume he is her friend. Unless, of course, they clearly display PDA.
/r/seduction13/12/20 09:24 PM
1

So what is your sticking point?
/r/seduction13/12/20 09:18 PM
3

"So are you gonna ask me my number or you just checking me out?"
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:29 AM
5

You don't.
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:26 AM
0

You have no awareness about group social dynamics. Here are a couple of reminders. In any social group, there is ONE leader. Is the person who makes decisions, has the most dominant body language, usually is loud and energetic. In that group, "KAT" was the leader. When you are dealing with a group, you have to pay 70% of attention to the leader, even the leader is not your target. If you won't, then the leader will push you out of the group. The only time is acceptable is to ignore the leader is…
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:15 AM
1

If you have a lower value than her, then instead of wasting your time in DMing focus on creating that value.
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:53 PM
1

You are right. During celebrations, people are happier, more open, and more willing to socialise. Similarly, you would have more success on Saturdays than on weekdays.
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:39 PM
3

Is good that you don't ask her out straight away. You are taking about the same BS for couples of days. Change the topic. You are giving her compliment "you seem pretty smart" for no reason. She does not seem into you cause you are talking about studies which she does not seem like. Nex time try to have a more valuable conversation instead of this nonsense.
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:23 PM
1

I am. You can't take her anywhere during the lockdown. If you wait, her "buying temperature" will drop. Just say that you want to make a "support bubble" with her or whatever BS. And ask her to come over to do stuff. Assuming you live alone. Or just ask her to go for a walk.
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:08 PM
2

LOL. Putting aside your expressive vocabulary "explore their vulnerability", "sweet guy" "PUA mode" etc. This tactic works. National celebrations are the best time to hookup. And is done by everyone, naturals, PUAs, and even AFCs.
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:02 PM
0

Ask her to come over to cook something togther.
/r/seduction12/12/20 10:55 PM
1

I would say really good results 3 lays out of 1000 approaches for a beginner. You have finished your first course on PUA :), which is basically do as many approaches as you can. Now you have to chisel your game and have a more structural approach. Focus on techniques themselves, push & pull, disqualification, disinterest, BHRR, investment and 100s of more. Choose one technique at the time and master it. This will up your game from the beginner to the intermediate level. Also, reduce the count of…
/r/seduction09/12/20 01:55 PM
0

Lol. She is not saying that she is cute. This is a reference to Guardians of the Galaxy. "I. Am. Groot."
/r/seduction08/12/20 09:23 PM
1

Your description is more technically correct. But mine sounds more motivational.
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:21 PM
9

Abundance mentality is just a belief that you can have "any" woman you like if you want to. You don't need to flirt, nor to sleep to prove it. As long as you truly believe in that. And your partner knows that. Then you can be in a relationship and still have the abundance mentality.
/r/seduction08/12/20 01:37 AM
1

Have correct values such as Honesty, Respect, Care and Fairness. And act upon them. These are the fundamentals. Don't take bs and learn how to demand respect. This is the second most important thing, I would say. Don't be afraid of confrontation. Learn to say no. Have a big-time goal and go for it. Have a masculine body language. Your clothes and grooming. Has to be sharp. Be a little bit selfish Have some muscles Have integrity
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:26 PM
1

Yeah hiding your intentions. It is your ultimate dating advice? She has to know that you desire her sexually. She may not want to look cheap and will resist. Or maybe not. In any case, this is a fundamental thing on the date.
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:05 PM
1

It means she is not that into you in the first place. This is much bigger issue, and no matter how often you will text it won't fix it. Focus on being more high value than her, in that case.
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:57 PM
1

I don't know how did you draw that conclusion. Intimacy is part of any romantic relationship. Any idiot would know that. My point is that you don't commit to a relationship without having sex. Unless you are dealing with religious freaks. Normal people just don't do that.
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:52 PM
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It can't get more simple than that.
/r/seduction07/12/20 08:56 AM
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You need to get your dating fundamentals straight. 1) The goal of the first hour of the date is to see if you want to bang her or not 2) If you do, then escalate and kiss in the middle of the date 3) Bounce in a second, more private location where you can escalate further 4) When she is ready, pull her to your home 5) Have sex 6) Next morning decide if you want to have a more serious relationship with her or not
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:31 AM
-8

So at what point do you kiss her during the date?
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:03 AM
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How much do I text them? Depends on interaction. But as a general rule as little as you can. On average 10-15 messages forth and back before asking her out. How often? Depends on interaction. But as rare as you can. On average once in 1-2 days. When do I have to ask them for a date? Depends on interaction. But as a general rule, you ask her out as soon as you "feel" that she will say yes. On average it is around 3rd or 4th day after first interaction.
/r/seduction07/12/20 03:29 AM
2

It is not effective. I have tried many things. Good guy approach, bad boy approach, comedy approach, lying approach, etc. None of those tactics are effective. And the reason is that you focus on approaching itself. In other words you become a performer instead of a seducer. The best results yields interactions which are as normal and natural as possible.
/r/seduction07/12/20 03:10 AM
1

For time being you can just pretend that you are really serious about COVID, so you never take the mask off. But eventually, she will start to suspect that something is off. In that case, you just have to tell the truth. But try to hold your mask as much as possible, you can even kiss through masks jokingly and even pull. The point is to make as much rapport as possible before revealing your secret.
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:58 AM
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Actually, these odds are pretty accurate. If you can get laid with 1 out of 100 then it is really good results. For beginner usually takes around 500-1000 of approaches to get laid. With zero social skills. For intermediate takes around 100 for one laid. But that takes years of serious practice. Know lots of guys who never reach this level, even after 1-3 years of gaming. For master PUA, takes around 1/10. But that's because not due to the skill itself, but more his ability to filter out. You ca…
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:49 AM
1

I think this is the best time for you to game. You can wear a mask, and no one will think you are weird.
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:31 AM
2

Yest. She likes you.
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:29 AM
1

"is that a problem? :)" - this is the stupid and confrontational answer "How else were you gonna find me :)": - this is the stupid answer, cause you are implying that she likes you so much that would always look for you. If this is actually a truth, then you will just embarrass her. if not, then she will deny and will be just awkward. Not sure if this is a question, is more like a statement. So the best response is just to agree with "Yeah. I live/work not far". p.s. contrary to what another guy…
/r/seduction06/12/20 02:16 PM
1

I do have a significant amount of anxiety with possibly coming off too strong and being perceived as a "creep" (this is due to negative past experiences) You have answered your own question. You will never find a line between what is perceived manly confident behaviour and asshole behaviour if you will never cross it.
/r/seduction06/12/20 02:04 PM
1

Is a bad idea. It is like eating junk food every day. After 20-30 years, you will have lots of health problems. Masturbation is the same.
/r/seduction06/12/20 02:00 PM
1

Just do what needs to be done.
/r/seduction06/12/20 01:56 PM
1

Is just a practice man. Had the same exact problem. I think that I am between 7 and 8. So approaching someone like that is quite easy. But once I saw 9-10 I got cold feet. The only way to beet this is to just force yourself to approach. Eventually, this "inferior complex" disappears. In fact, now is the opposite, the hotter she is the more motivation is to approach, cause the stakes are higher.
/r/seduction06/12/20 01:53 PM
2

You are rarely sexual with your language. But very often with your body language and the voice tone. In fact, you can talk about the most boring subject in a very sexual way. And it is impossible to describe "how" to do it without sounding creepy and misunderstood.
/r/seduction06/12/20 01:45 PM
1

Work more on investment.
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:15 AM
1

Enjoy yourself and don't stand in the death row.
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:10 AM
1

Thre is no reason to lie. Plain and simple. The best analogy I can find is between criminals and entrepreneurs. Both want to be rich, but criminals choose a path with lots of risk and relatively small gains. While entrepreneurs choose a path with almost no risk, but potentially huge gains.
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:06 AM
1

During the interaction you have to accomplish just one simple goal: Make her invest in you as much as possible. It could be an emotional, physical, time, money or any other kind of investment. What you say and what you do must be for this single goal.
/r/seduction06/12/20 02:50 AM
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Good job of having balls to approach. However, you did do some technical mistakes: 1) Giving her your number. You must take hers. 2) Very short conversation. You must talk with her around 5-10 min.
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:57 PM
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A woman will never have sex with you if she is not relaxed and is not comfortable around you. The best way to make someone relaxed and comfortable is to make YOURSELF relaxed and comfortable. So ask yourself a question. What makes you relaxed and comfortable? And then just do that activity. When this is accomplished, then instead of going into the bedroom, escalate where you are. If you are not alone then do it secretly. When you are at the point when you want to take clothes of, then just grab …
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:53 PM
1

You need to find a balance and know the line between being a man, "bad boy", and "asshole". But you will never know where it is if you won't cross it. And your fear of making people uncomfortable what actually stops you from getting results.
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:42 PM
1

Damm, man. Ukraine is one of the best countries to cold approach. You should feel lucky. Cause no one is doing that. Local guys are pussies in that regards, but they are more "Macho" type. You just need to bring that up in yourself. The good guy image won't work.
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:22 PM
1

From the way you write. What words you use and so on. People can tell many things about that person. Don't take it too personally. "I saw this angel girl" => This sentence or the word "angel" shows that you are thinking about a woman like some kind of DIVINE being. Which is wrong. Therefore you putting her on the pedestal. This is wrong. Normal, smart women don't like that. The conversation itself was too short. There were no spikes. It was too friendly. Instead, you had to talk with her like a …
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:01 PM
0

You are right. This is due to culture. Women in the UK have most of the power. I had many instances where British women DM me first on Tinder and just goes straight to the point. Never had something like this from any other nationalities. In other words, they know what they want, and they just take it. If you don't meet their standards, you will be rejected bluntly and no GAME will help you.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:26 PM
1

It could be for multiple reasons. She is in a relationship. She is not interested in you and was just polite. You seemed like a creepy GOOD guy (most likely).
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:17 PM
1

It means as it sounds. Exchange few messages in 2-4 days. And then ask her out. It seems that first part is accomplished. Now do the second one.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:13 PM
0

You have two options: First talk in person and then go for Facebook. First send a friend request on Facebook, and then talk in person. The first option in your situation is very bad. Because you go to talk to her, you don't know what to talk about. Will be awkward. And then you will send a friend request. It will show that you are neeedy. The second option is much better. When you will send a friend request she will accept it. Cause you are in her class. But don't dm her. Instead, next time talk…
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:07 PM
2

If you would keep messaging only for making dates, then you would not have this problem.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:01 PM
1

I would not call this "dead in the water". More like, "Shooting yourself in the head".
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:56 PM
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What a pile of crap. Instead of wanting to find a gf. First, try to find someone to have sex. Oh, wait, probably next post will be "How can I be Happy without sex?"...
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:50 PM
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I know that there's also the option to just ask him to hang out alone without the group but that I would like to avoid Cause you are afraid that he will say "NO" and you will be rejected. That's a good thing. Cause you will stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:47 PM
5

Sign up for boxing class. There is nothing better to face those fears as to literally be punched to the face.
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:40 PM
0

There is nothing wrong with taking a break from the game if you are 100% sure that this is what you want to do. The fact that you actually asked this question, shows that you are not sure about this. Most likely you don't want to feel guilty about your decision. That's why you are looking confirmation from random strangers. It would make you feel better. I ain't giving this to you. If you are not certain then don't do it.
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:56 PM
1

Indirectly.
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:36 PM
0

Sounds like an excuse.
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:27 PM
2

Just go with simple salt and pepper, usually, it is enough to spice things up.
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:25 PM
7

Stop encouraging. Next time approach her yourself. Get the number. Showing an example that is possible "rewrites" his beliefs and gives motivation.
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:18 PM
1

Just do what needs to be done.
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:12 PM
8

To improve your dating life, you need to have social skills. Therefore try to interact with people as much as you can per day every day. Until you can see a difference between "odd" and "normal" social behaviour.
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:09 PM
1

This is just a perspective. It is as much true as someone saying that "dating is something magical". And, as in sales you can be the best salesman, but the most "unsatisfied" person in a world.
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:45 AM
1

If you dress like a man and act like a man then women will think that you are a man. p.s If you think that being 24 on a market with no exp is hard, wait 10 or 20 years more and you will think differently.
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:35 AM
2

Don't know if he is interested in you, but he is definitely thinking that you are not interested in him. If you are then show it.
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:30 AM
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Physical beauty is important, but "be attractive" is totally useless advice. Therefore, I will only give advice which you can actually apply. Tips for looks: Your fat percentage. This seems quite obvious but by slimming down you can increase your chances to be approached considerably. Your outfit. Wear clothes which fits you well. Some general advice, if you are tall, dresses are fine if you short, then avoid them. Put more emphasis on your lower body clothes, cause they are more important to at…
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:16 AM
14

You are totally overestimating your investment in yourself. Every point in your list is external investment. You didn't even mention what is the most important: INNER GAME. Instead of saying that you have degrees, athletic body, social skills, career etc. You should say "I Have Confidence", "I can stand for myself", "I am independent emotionally", "I know what I want", "I always get up", and so on. Now, it seems that all your world was around one woman. She is gone, and all your world is scatter…
/r/seduction23/11/20 02:15 AM
1

You probably are right. Eventually, she will want to know. You can try to talk in her language. Most women usually understand "feelings" very well. So instead of justifying your decisions just talk about how you felt. But only do this if she will ask you that question. Eg. "At that moment I felt that I don't want to see you anymore. But now, I feel that I miss you. I don't know why. It is weird."
/r/seduction15/11/20 06:00 PM
0

Approach a convo without thinking of anything serious and that the last conversation never happened. E.g. Normal conversations: Take a picture of your meal and send "Just made a dinner, try to guess what it is." Go outside take pictures. Say "Guess where I was?" "Hi, just finished work. How was your day?" Stupid conversations: Buy 50 packs of toilet paper, take a photo and send to her. "Look, preparing for lockdown." "Hey, I have to ask you something. It is urgent!" wait for her reply, and reply…
/r/seduction15/11/20 05:34 PM
1

Just do it.
/r/seduction15/11/20 05:04 PM
1

I appreciate your time for expressing your experience. But you are misleading people of thinking that dating apps are not worth to try. The only thing what is apparent from this post that guys who you met are bad at dating. That's all. And they would be bad if you would have met them in person. Dating apps are just another way of meeting people.
/r/seduction15/11/20 04:50 PM
1

Her: "What you are looking for?" You: "I don't, I google. You?"
/r/seduction15/11/20 04:33 PM
1

I really want to seduce that guy (but not being to obvious !) It may be not the most popular opinion, but there is nothing wrong with being obvious. Just tell him what you want. E.g. If you want that he would take you out, then say "Take me out next weekend" If he asks where you say "Surprise me". If you want that he would kiss you, then say "Kiss me". if you want to have sex, then say "Do you want to have sex?". I think you get the point. Disclaimer: This direct communication through words can …
/r/seduction15/11/20 01:06 PM
1

For some women secret sex is very exciting. So would not worry too much.
/r/seduction15/11/20 12:59 PM
1

you
/r/seduction26/09/20 12:32 PM
1

Chill bro. No need to get personal.
/r/seduction26/09/20 01:00 AM
1

That sounds reasonable. But would you have balls to talk with a girl who is on a date with some other dude?
/r/seduction25/09/20 01:19 PM
3

Also. The kissing. The main rule of kissing is "You should always kiss her when you know she will accept it". Sometimes is hard to know. You have to see how she reacts to you. If everything is going by the plan. Usually, I kiss her at the end of the first location or while walking to the second one. In the worst case scenario, kiss her at the beginning of the second location.
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:14 PM
2

Move from one location to another. If your first location was a restaurant. After you finish suggest going for a drink in a cocktail bar. Preferably make sure that the second location is not far from your home. Why two locations? Because she will feel like she has been on two dates with you. PROT TIP: Avoid taxis and uber. Walk from one location to another or to your home. The process of "walking" with her could feel like a third date.
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:04 PM
2

Is a good sign. Duckface perceived as sexy. So she wants to be sexy in your eyes.
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:08 PM
2

Here are some rules: Learn escalation ladder https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ Bounce her at least through two locations during the date Always kiss her during a date, don't leave at the end Never bring her home if you haven't kissed You talk less, she talks more Always lead Have a masculine body language
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:04 PM
1

To have a business for the sake of having sex is a stupid idea.
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:49 PM
8

You are right in the sense that early twenties are the peak of dating, but is only fraction of all the life you gonna live. And if a woman misses that window, due to work, studies or other reasons, she will have a much harder time after that. So, for her is a trade-off as well. Guys don't have that big of trade-off. They can focus on "building empires :)" and really go into dating later in their lives.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:21 AM
1

For attraction phase: DO NOT COMPLIMENT. For the rapport phase: COMPLIMENT AS A REWARD.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:09 AM
1

Experience
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:05 AM
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For getting laid than for a woman definitely is much easier. I would disagree about dating life, tho. When it comes to dating, I think men have easier. For woman, the main problem is her age. The older she gets the less attractive she becomes. For a guy, this is not necessarily is true. A 30 years guy who took care of himself physically, financially and socially is much more desirable than a guy who is 18 as a long term partner.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:00 AM
1

I didn't prove anything wrong. Of course, she must like you back the same amount you like her. Otherwise, you would always choose 10/10 supermodel. And every guy would become a stalker.
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:35 AM
1

Fuck that. I haven't done anything wrong. They were not a couple, she is a fair game. And if you don't want that your date would be stolen from you. Don't be a fucking loser. I was not desperate. I just went for what I want. The guy was just an obstacle. And you would do shit unless you are 6ft and buffed or have friends around. Otherwise, you will just pussy out like the rest of them.
/r/seduction22/09/20 07:54 AM
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Message her next day, but don't ask for another one. Just say "that you had a great time" that's all. Don't imply that you will ask her out. You should keep the convo going every 2-3 days. After 1/2 weeks ask her out again. And, for god sake, on a next date close it.
/r/seduction21/09/20 06:13 PM
2

In that case there is not much you can do. Just wait and let things happen. I would not wait more than 4 months. You should tell him what you want. If he doesn't know by then, what he wants, then it is waste of time.
/r/seduction21/09/20 06:06 PM
2

He told you that he doesn't want anything serious right now. So if you say smth now, probably you will have an answer "no". If you want to speed things up, you need to create a stronger bond and then take it away. Only then, he can realise how good is to be with you. Kinda like in any romantic movie :) To create a stronger bond you have to reveal your personalities to each other. You can do this in a few ways: 1) Talking and sharing. You have to talk about serious stuff (family, fears, desires, …
/r/seduction21/09/20 05:44 PM
1

No
/r/seduction21/09/20 03:05 PM
1

You are asking her for a date too soon. Give her at least 1 or 2 days, maybe even more. To settle down. Let her think about you. Meantime, just send a few friendly text messages once in a while. Maybe even have a small convo. The small convo should have this template "Hi, <her name>. <some stuff about you/your day>.<consideration of her/question to her>".
/r/seduction21/09/20 01:02 PM
5

You don't have to verbalise intent. At least not at the beginning. Be direct with your body language and facial expressions, rather words.
/r/seduction21/09/20 12:55 PM
1

No. This is what I personally do. This is just for breaking the touch barrier. Some people have trouble and make it awkward when they try to touch. Like taking her hand without an emotional connection and without no reason. This is just awkward. But if you give the reason, crowdy, and you don't want to get lost then it is fine. Cause that makes sense. By having routines, and giving her logic reason to touch, you reduce the awkwardness and creepiness, as you say.
/r/seduction21/09/20 08:05 AM
1

No. A looser will be always a looser in one's eyes. Haven't you seen "Just friends" with Ryan Reynolds?
/r/seduction20/09/20 05:13 PM
2

I thought that you want to seduce and exploit men. So, that's why I made this list. If you want to have a long-lasting loving relationship, then those things don't really apply much and depend on the individual man and situation.
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:43 PM
7

Now it is easy to complain when you have so much attention. Wait for 10 or more years and you will think differently.
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:09 PM
2

Interesting. That's good to know. If you have ripped body when doing selfies you can reveal a little bit more. Or wear shorts little bit lower on the beach.
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:35 PM
0

You can break a touch barrier as soon as you met her, but with one condition There always should be a LOGICAL reason to touch her. Here are a couple of situations: a) When you just approached her: Handshake. Is just a friendly gesture. Push her to the side, when someone is walking behind her and say "Be careful" High five, when you agree on something b) When you meet on a date: A hug or a peck on a cheek. Just as friendly greeting. Put your hand in front of her chess, before the red light, like …
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:29 PM
1

You don't need to be drunk to have hook up. You need only 4 things: One person who is horny The second person who is horny A private place One of those people has to take the initiative If at least one of those 4 conditions are not met. There will be no hookup.
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:57 PM
2

Of course, you can try. But it will be waste of time. There are so many chicks who are more social and wants to be approached.
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:28 PM
2

Leave her alone.
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:10 PM
3

Guys have the tendency to spoil. I think it comes from father-daughter dynamics. They like to take them out, they like to buy stuff for them, just to win their approval and make them happy.
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:06 PM
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Looks and fit body is the most important factor. The style. It has to be feminine. Long hair, no piercing on the face, some small tatoots like buterfly is fine, but not too much. Demeanour. When you walk on the street, not only every guy look at you but women as well and get insanely jealous. Emotional. Your emotions has to be expressive. When you laugh you laugh hard, when you sad you cry. Affection. You have to display lots of affection towards him. Irrational behaviour. The more your behaviou…
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:55 PM
3

I just don't get to talking or dating or whatever This is your problem. You have to talk whenever you can. I used to approach when walking to the barber, or shopping, or even to work, everywhere. To the point where it started to have a negative impact on my overall daily life. So had to slow down. Every weekend used to go-to approach. Started in the morning, one wing joined me. Then afternoon another wing, And at night game with other wings. It had negative impact on lifestyle, but had huge posi…
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:57 AM
4

When I started this I already was going into the gym and had quite a good body. Many times received a compliment from the date that they like my body. The face itself not that bad looking as well. Unfortunately, all this is totally useless without seduction skills. In fact, you need to have not only that but social skills, and even common sense as well. Once I brought my date into a family restaurant full of children, and I tried to kiss her. For some reason, I thought it was a good idea. Or ord…
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:21 AM
3

If you will put lots of effort in your career you will have money like an average person. This won't have much impact on your dating life. The most impact on a dating life would have your experience with women. The more you have experience the better your dating life will be. Assuming you will learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:31 AM
1

I meant I knew what I was doing to not get into a conflict. You can tell which guy is a pussy which is not. When you observe body language, facial expressions every day, you can read anyone like an open book. Unfortunately, I didn't have enough game to get her number. Also, don't forget that to start a conflict a person needs to have more or equal level of confidence than an opponent. In other words, he has to feel, that he will win and wont get punched himself in a face if he would start a conf…
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:17 AM
2

Yeah, there is attraction from her side. (Complimenting your looks, and acting weird when you flirt with her). My guess is that she wants to avoid escalating this even further, cause she is in LDR.
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:11 AM
3

Lol. This is the stupidest and ignorant post I have read. I have never received or heard woman's advice which would not be correct. "Be yourself", "Be confident", "Show attention", "Listen", "Don't be needy" - all those are correct. Even, advice "To ask her if she wants sex, instead of making a move" is good advice if they have been on the many dates and woman wants it. Although, there is a pattern in their advices. They tend to give advice for the comfort phase. And rarely give advice for attra…
/r/seduction20/09/20 09:57 AM
28

I have been commenting on a relationships reddit for a past few weeks. Most OPs are women. And there were definitely some posts about abusive bf/husbands. But there are the same amount of posts about guys playing computer games and not showing attention. And I used to think like you, that only "bad guys" who treat a woman like shit gets them. But that's just misconception and not true. In reality, there are much less abusive cases than normal relationships. When you are not successful with a wom…
/r/seduction20/09/20 09:36 AM
4

Do warm-ups, man. When I feel like you. I just approach random people (promoters, charities, religious people) and talk with them. Or you can approach people with a dog and have a conversation. I even talked with grandma at the bus stop. She told me about the vegetables she grows in the garden. You get the idea, the main point is to loosen up your tongue. Then try to stop walking people and ask for a direction. Lol, I was doing like 20 front stops per day for few days. And became really good at …
/r/seduction20/09/20 09:22 AM
-1

I knew exactly what I was doing. The girl was into me. And the bloke was total pussy.
/r/seduction20/09/20 09:03 AM
0

Lol. Me too. I would just say "Get the fuck out of my face", cause it was so disrespectful of what I was doing. And would not even care to look bad in front of her. No wonder she was more into me than that guy.
/r/seduction19/09/20 11:08 PM
17

Actually there is, and I can prove it. If you take two women and I ask you a question "Which one you like more?". You would give me the answer. It means that you can actually COMPARE a person by how much you like/love her. Now, let's do a thought experiment. Let's take all the woman in the world. So if you line them up from one who you like the least to the one who you like the most. And THAT, my friend, will be the ONE. Of course is not that simple she must like you back the same amount. But yo…
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:34 PM
3

I live in the UK and you are right, is not a normal thing. The normal thing is to give a friendly peck to the cheek, but I find it too weird. But that is the point. You differentiate yourself from all other guys she met you before. The hug shows confidence. It shows that you are not afraid to be intimate from the moment you met her. It sets the mood. Also, because you went so close you can go even further and say "How nice she smells". I mean c'mon, some guys may complement a dress or hair, but …
/r/seduction19/09/20 06:38 PM
27

Open = is when you start talking with her Close = is when you have sex with her
/r/seduction19/09/20 06:29 PM
-1

The same can be sad opposite, don't worry about the guys who the girl is with. Once I opened a girl, sit down next to her, and she tells me that she is on a date. He just went to buy some drinks. I thought I should leave, but said to myself "fck it". And continued conversation. The guy came, and he becomes so protective of her. Like literally leaning, grabbing her. And she leans away towards me. Lol. She talked more with me than with him. But I noticed that the guy and me started to go on this "…
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:20 PM
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Totally agree. Also, I have noticed that out of 1000s of approaches which I have done. Only 5, I actually truly liked in terms of physical appearance and as a person. Still can remember their face and the interaction. And I always open the ones which I found attractive. Other ones, even those which I closed don't bring such feelings. So yeah, finding the one is harder than anyone may think.
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:07 PM
11

Nay. She will always be carrying that flower around. And won't throw away due to politeness. It is neither practical nor accomplishes anything. What really used to work on a first date is the strong hug, maybe even with a lift and spin. Which would set the mood. Now due to COVID not sure if that is a good thing to do anymore.
/r/seduction19/09/20 11:15 AM
7

It is not for your own pleasure nor for hers. Just do what needs to be done. You go to work, cause you have to and you approach her, cause you have to.
/r/seduction18/09/20 01:47 PM
1

Nah. This move is shit. Everyone gets offensive when you start touching their possessions. I would be pissed myself if she would do that to me.
/r/seduction18/09/20 01:34 PM
1

Just leave her and go play some video games or do other things. If she asks "why?", you can explain your reasons. If she doesn't ask. Then it is time to look for another date.
/r/seduction18/09/20 01:32 PM
3

Although it is an excuse. But he does give some valid points involving his grandma.
/r/seduction18/09/20 01:26 PM
1

You should buy more Nike stuff. They have great slogans.
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:27 PM
4

Put at least one good quality photo made outdoors in a social environment with clearly visible face and masculine body language. If you have a body to show then show it. Anything else is just extras.
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:16 PM
1

Gain confidence.
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:14 PM
1

They are attracted. Just not to you.
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:11 PM
1

I didn't say that. You need to escalate, if you don't then you definitely end up as a best friend.
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:07 PM
1

Some women are just bad at flirting or are shy or just don't know what to do on the dates. Don't expect that she will show you signs. From women perspective being on a date where you both acting like best friends (laughing, finishing each other sentences, fooling around) is a very good sign. There may not be any sexual energy, but she may think that she found a soulmate. Dates where it feels that this is a formal meeting between two colleagues usually fails.
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:03 PM
2

Who cares man. I wear glasses, I read books, I am watching Naruto/Dragon Ball. And I am 32. So, I do identify myself as a nerd/geek. One time had a date and she asked me what is my favourite TV series. I sad Dragon Ball. She gives me this weird look like I am a child. Yet, I still closed her that evening. So stop giving yourself excuses for not dating.
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:54 PM
1

Do you want to see her again? I had many dates, and I know what a good date feels like it. There were many instances when the date was shit in my view, yet she wanted to do another. Usually, I don't do it, cause I don't' want to. But if you are going only for the lay count, then go for it. p.s. When I say "shitty date" I mean that something I didn't like about her, lost all the motivation during the date, and just called it off. But it does not look like that this is case for you.
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:31 PM
1

If you feel "platonic" it means you didn't "click' or you are "incompatible". It is not very scientific and this is what you would hear from someone outside of PUA but it is true. You can become more compatible by adapting to the person, in other words pretending. But fuck it, too much of work just to get laid.
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:13 PM
2

Not everybody bornt to be Mr Olympia, and not everybody gained confidence in childhood. Sometimes you just have to work for it. So, stop whining and go to the gym.
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:06 PM
3

So you used dating app for few days, didn't get good results, and say now that everyone should stay away. Dating apps, like anything else (Dating, Cold Approaches etc) requires time to master. Took me years to build the profile which I have. And 100s of matches to nail the texting.
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:59 PM
1

When I started I used to use a lot of Direct openers. And the truth is they suck. "Hey, I think you are cute" or, "Hi, I like your dress", or "Your shoes look very nice", "I like how you matched your dress with shoes" and so on. These openers clearly show that you like her. The best openers which work are body language or situational. Body language is hard to pull off and depends on the situation. Like she is taking a picture while you were walking and you just pretend that she taking the pictur…
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:28 PM
1

Congratulations, you just popped your cherry :)
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:08 PM
1

With better social skills you will increase your success rate. With no social skills, you will embarrass yourself and her more often. Although, this has some benefits as well. You can always practice those skills simultaneously.
/r/seduction16/09/20 11:05 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:05 PM
6

Shyness and introverts are two different things. You can cure shyness but you can't become extrovert.
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:02 PM
1

You have just been awakened, my friend. Unfortunately, the real world is not as nice as the Matrix. Now you have to decide who will you be? Neo or Cypher?
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:27 PM
4

So basically, "Just be yourself"...
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:21 PM
2

First thing is to get rid of social anxiety just by exposing yourself to social situations. Next thing which I did was "edging". I coined the term myself :). Because I was same like you, never had a girl, huge social anxiety, what means to be "sexual" was totally foreign to me. So to learn to be sexual I had to not only go out from my comfort zone but also from social norms. I did this by going a little bit overboard (edging) when it comes to social things. Like starring people directly into the…
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:57 PM
4

There is a treatment for Social Anxiety called "exposure therapy". You can do it with your therapist, or if you don't want to pay, can do yourself. Just go out and talk with random people. Expose yourself as many social situations you can find. And you will get rid of social anxiety.
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:25 PM
1

I guess it depends on the definition of "social circle game".
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:07 PM
1

I haven't read anything about the social game but I think it works the same way as any group. You need to be a leader Have some bait (something exclusive and hard to get) for hot girls such as (yacht, mansion, tiger, VIP entrance and so on) When there are lots of hot girls, there are lots of rich beta guys who would spend and invest in that. Don't invite any alphas in the group Make stuff extravagant Increase value by making it hard to get into the cricle. I think those are the main principles.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:05 PM
1

Why would you say that geeks are of low value? Geeks usually have one thing that no Chad will have: brains.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:54 AM
0

Have a wing.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:47 AM
3

Not the greatest. Is too generic.
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:28 PM
3

You are right. If the girl is normal. But the truth is there are so many fucked up, low self-esteem, and other kind of emotional wreckages. And for those kind of women, normal rules don't apply anymore. Mine was ones of them. Just weird. Like she had a daughter, which she left at her country, and haven't seen her for 3 years. Or having 2 years of long-distance relationship with some dude. Some fucked up shit. So I ended up.
/r/seduction14/09/20 06:40 PM
5

Don't take this as a definite rule. I had a few instances when a girl was very into me, anytime I texted she replied instantly, and every time I ask her to come over, she would agree. And yet she never texted me first, except the same evening I got her numer. I stopped texting her, she never texted. And that was the end. But in your case, wait for a few days and then text her.
/r/seduction14/09/20 06:13 PM
13

Lol.
/r/seduction14/09/20 06:10 PM
1

It seems that she is into you. Although, her behaviour was a little bit strange. It might be she was feeling lonely and needed some company. But in any case, whether she actually likes you, or just wanted someone who can cheer her up, she wanted you. You had to make a move.
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:09 AM
8

No, it is not oneitis. Oneitis when she is not into you, but you are and you can't help it.
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:03 AM
6

First of all, self-development is not a "process" it is a lifestyle. Do you think that you just can read some books, improve your social skills which allow you to find a gf and you are done? WRONG! You still have to learn and improve yourself in a relationship. Be a better boyfriend, a better husband, a better father. You improve until you die. So saying that you don't have time is pointless. You are alive, so you have time.
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:58 AM
45

A woman motivating other women to approach men. You don't see this often. This post is GOAT.
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:51 AM
1

If you are a beginner coach is a waste of money. It is like asking a Kasparov to teach you chess when you don't even know the moves. He will waste his time to teach you something which you can teach yourself. Coaches have a great master-level knowledge. To understand that knowledge you need to have some basics already. Also if you buy something make sure you are buying his time and not the products. Cause, only this way you can actually question him.
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:43 AM
2

Actually in texting game, the less "game" and being straightforward works much better.
/r/seduction13/09/20 11:13 PM
3

Ask her out in the text.
/r/seduction13/09/20 11:12 PM
3

Who knows. Silly emojis and being enthusiastic is not a indication that he is into you.
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:26 PM
-2

Most women (asian, black, white, brown) prefer white men. Cause white colour means more money. You can observe this in most Asia countries, like Thailand, then in India, Africa and so on. I would have never imagined what power of skin colour has before I got into PUA.
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:21 PM
1

Guys approaching women are rare unless it is a very social context. Women approaching a guy is like 1 of the million. I get what you are saying, and I agree. But that's is very unlikely to happen.
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:18 PM
3

Depends where you live, in some countries to talk with strangers on the train, the bus is a tabu. Also, you will have more observers, than on a street. Observers I call people who are seeing and hearing your interaction with a set. Generally, you want to reduce the number of observers when opening a set. Although, in some circumstances, you want to have more observers, for example, late in the evening or at night. When you are opening you must make sure that she actually wants to talk to you. So…
/r/seduction13/09/20 09:53 PM
2

I believe when people say "vibing" they refer to the person's body language and other non-verbal communication. It is nothing to do with sexual energy. You can have "gloomy vibe", "happy vibe", or "sexy vibe".
/r/seduction13/09/20 09:12 PM
1

That's totally cool. People have a right to think what they want.
/r/seduction13/09/20 03:34 PM
1

I meant you were talking about philosophy for 5 hours instead of making a move. So you just friend-zoned yourself. And when you eventually tried to make a move. It was too late.
/r/seduction13/09/20 03:18 PM
2

Yes. But this is not the case.
/r/seduction13/09/20 03:09 PM
4

You have answered your questions yourself. assume accepting someone’s invitation to his place makes you think at least that she is considering having sex. and then we were laughing and talking about philosophy for 5 hours Those two statements contradict each other.
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:24 AM
4

Unfortunately, yes. The popularity of dating apps skyrocket and increases every year. Don't see why they would stop.
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:22 AM
1

Yeah. I guess it depends on a culture.
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:05 PM
4

Lips: "Interesting choice of lipstick" "You have very puffy lips" "Your teeth are so white" Legs: "How come you have such long legs?" "I like the shape of your clubs. They are very feminine." Waist: "You know that your waistline is very slim. It creates that feminine shape which you can see in the paintings." Neck: "Your neck is very slim. I can even see the carotid artery." ​ Most of those comments/compliments emphasise her femininity and definitely are sexual. The good thing is that they are n…
/r/seduction12/09/20 03:41 PM
-8

Smiling to a total stranger is an invitation. Just open with "Hi, what is your name".
/r/seduction12/09/20 03:29 PM
7

You need to give him directions, on what to do. Otherwise, he won't get it. Just say "I want to try this restaurant/bar.. Can you take me out this weekend?" If he will find an excuse, then he is not that into you.
/r/seduction12/09/20 03:25 PM
3

LDR is a waste of time.
/r/seduction12/09/20 02:49 PM
5

You are misinterpreting Dale views. That's true that you have to focus on other's needs before yours but remember by doing that you actually get the most benefit yourself (as long as it true). So, Use Mark Manson philosophy as the basis of your views. Use Dale Carnegie philosophy as a means to express those views.
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:44 AM
1

That's true. And it does work for a short period of time. But for a longer run, you may want to sort your inner game.
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:37 AM
1

Maybe try older (the useful) PUA material.
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:34 AM
1

Another post of 1000s of words which basically says "Just be yourself." ...
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:29 AM
0

You can't even make a few sentences which highlight your problem. You seem to have "loose connections" when you are talking. Meaning, you are shifting your thoughts from one thing to another without actually saying what you want.
/r/seduction11/09/20 01:32 PM
3

You like her, she likes you. So, what is the problem?
/r/seduction11/09/20 12:34 PM
5

Guys who are friends share stuff.
/r/seduction11/09/20 09:35 AM
1

You just didn't get the lightbulb, yet.
/r/seduction11/09/20 09:27 AM
10

You don't have to write 100s of words to say "Be yourself".
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:44 PM
5

Just walk through streets, malls and talk with people. Look for friends or potential dates. Anything will be better than being alone.
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:37 PM
0

I would lose weight first. There will be lots of rejections and this can damage your confidence even more. disclaimer: I have a body dysmorphia so, not the best person to give advice.
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:32 PM
1

Seems you have been friend-zoned.
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:30 PM
1

Doesn't look like he is interested in you. Once, I got asked a number as well. I found her really unattractive, yet I still gave the number. It just took me by surprised and didn't know how to act. Never replied to her.
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:27 PM
1

In a perfect world there shouldn't. Unfortunately, we don't' live in that kind of world.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:26 PM
1

When you feel doubt, start breathing deep and heavy. Make yourself little it dizzy. While doing that think about that time when you were confident. This way you will bring back that feeling of being confident and charismatic.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:57 PM
0

Any kind of experience is a good thing. Even if that experience was bad.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:53 PM
-1

Good thing.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:47 PM
1

From previous experience, I would say that is very unlikely. Coming too strong shows desperation and neediness. And this is a big turn off for them. But of course every situation is different.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:46 PM
1

It depends on how much you respect your friend. If he is your best friend then big NO. Even if he agrees and is ok with that. You should have more awareness and respect and don't do it. Otherwise, who cares. Women come and go, true friendships are for life...
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:40 PM
5

Just communicate to her that you don't like something. It is quite simple.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:38 PM
1

Ask her to bring popcorn.
/r/seduction10/09/20 03:37 PM
2

Yes, I have been there as well. What I have learned, that I did overestimate the amount of work I put in.
/r/seduction10/09/20 03:21 PM
2

The only music which could make you wet is the "sex sounds". Don't think any other is strong enough to provide that experience. Unless you are really sensual to the sound and practising some yoga, meditation.
/r/seduction10/09/20 03:15 PM
1

I saw lots of porn regarding this. One was a guy who treats a woman like a dog or chokes her or other weird kinky stuff. Find the first woman who has these weird fantasies. Film it, of course with a consent. Put on porn websites. And if you are good. Then other women will contact you themselves.
/r/seduction10/09/20 03:09 PM
3

I call songs "memory hooks" in this context. Basically how it works is when you have a sexual experience with someone, especially the first time, and if that experience was really good. The song played in the background becomes like a memory hook. So next time when you hear the song it brings back good memories. It is really important to create these hooks if you care and plan to stay with this person.
/r/seduction10/09/20 03:04 PM
-3

Nah. Don't do it. Let her text it first. How else can you assess her attraction level to you?
/r/seduction10/09/20 02:58 PM
41

You are right, she wants it. A small advice => trust your judgment more.
/r/seduction10/09/20 11:36 AM
-2

Yes, you should. Most women specify an age range. And you probably are out of theirs so you don't get a match.
/r/seduction10/09/20 11:20 AM
3

Kill the bf.
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:50 AM
0

Lol. Guys are hard almost all the times when they are near women and there is a possibility to have sex. I think they like to foreplay, the main problem is just not knowing how to do. So they just go straight away for a knockout.
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:42 AM
3

Yeah. Women don't do it. It is a self-defence. They can't say to your face she is not interested, or she does not like you. Cause 99% of guys will take it personally and will get angry. And will call her a "bitch" or even worse go for physical abuse. Instead of getting angry at her, you should understand her.
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:34 AM
3

When you are reading lots of posts on Reddit you start to see patterns. And just by the way people write, you can tell if it is a woman or the guy. You do write like a guy. "Short sentences", "To the point", using words such as "stupid, shit". Don't know how you look, but you seem very confident and say what is on your mind. Some people, especially guys who are pussies which basically most of them, may find you intimidating and hard to handle. There is nothing wrong with that and don't change. J…
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:23 AM
1

If you don't care, they won't care either.
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:04 AM
-1

I always find it strange, when women wants to be intimate she comes so close to you and starts to be touchy. It does work when you are really horny, but if not then won't. The reason is that guys are very visual, they need visual stimulation instead of sensual stimulation. That being said, showing him your pussy is 10 times better than grabbing his dick.
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:59 AM
3

I totally agree with subopener. If you are living in international city, such as London. You can go with "Do you speak English?". And after that, you deliver your actual opener.
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:50 AM
9

It is a good question. Don't know exactly why it is not working for "moving" sets. I do have a theory, tho. How we interpret a question and what is being said to us depends on our inner state. A sad person may see things through sadness glasses, happy person opposite. So when someone is walking, he/she has a goal to go somewhere. So he is in that busy state of mind. And the faster he walks the harder is to stop him. You have to create lots of emergency to stop it. Suddenly stopping and asking "W…
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:28 AM
2

Seems that they are into the dog and not the guy. But if that works, then why not.
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:28 AM
4

As someone who doesn't like advices, you do seem giving lots of them...
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:24 AM
1

Spend more time with her, talk to her, cuddle with her until you are ready. Anxiety comes when you are put on the spot, which is basically "Ok, it is time, do it now". Ovoid that at any cost, let it come naturally.
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:21 AM
4

Shee seems keen, but with that kind of text game, you won't go far.
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:16 AM
5

This guy is no different than a guy who attracts women with his car.
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:14 AM
1

Go for it, man.
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:02 AM
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The "What's your name" opener works only for static (non-moving) targets, such as in the shops, parks when sitting. There will be these scenarios: She gives her name without asking "why?". Usually this indicates high level of attraction, and 99% you will get the number. She will say her name, but then ask "why?". This is 50/50. Her level of attraction is not high. You have to put more work. She will ask "why?" without given her name. She didn't like you. The best thing you can do say "nothing" a…
/r/seduction09/09/20 11:59 PM
1

If you are good, then it takes just one eye-to-eye contact to assess not just if she likes you, but also how much effort and how long will take to close her.
/r/seduction09/09/20 11:50 PM
2

Just keep practising. In general, you want to avoid touching before opening, unless you are standing in the queue.
/r/seduction09/09/20 06:48 PM
1

If you are a fitness trainer you can always provide "private lessons", lol.
/r/seduction09/09/20 03:36 PM
2

Don't escalate in the gym, especially if you are working there. Go for a number.
/r/seduction09/09/20 03:29 PM
1

It is quite simple. Find someone who is looking for the same thing.
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:51 PM
1

Man can get "any" woman if he can be the manliest (masculine) man there is. So for you. It should be the opposite. Be the most feminine woman there is, and you will get any man.
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:48 PM
2

You can only gain confidence by practising.
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:45 PM
2

Like purposedly hitting on a girl, while her bf/husband is beside her. Or pretend you want to buy something from the stand, take the item but don't pay. Either pretend that you are an idiot. Or just say "What are you gonna do? If I just walk away?" Or just start eating if it was the food. Do it slowly, make other people wait in the queue. If you see a queue just purposedly go in front, make it obvious that you are doing on purpose. Or stand in front of the doors and don't let anyone in. You can …
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:03 PM
1

It is good to do warm-ups. Start with asking strangers for directions. This will get rid of the fear of stopping a person. Do around 10. Try asking couples and groups, women (if you can), anything would work. Talk with street people. Which includes, promoters, charity workers, street performers, religious people and so on. This will make your tongue a little bit loose. Talk about 30min -1h. Another type of people who you can talk about is the elderly. Which are sitting on a benches or waiting fo…
/r/seduction09/09/20 01:47 PM
3

I will be downvoted but fuck it. I found that the best exercises are those which provokes a conflict. Why? Because lots of guys in the community are afraid of conflicts, in other words, they are too nice guys. By creating conflicting situations you get rid of that fear. Also makes your brain work really hard, cause you are putting yourself in situations where you can be physically in danger. I tried personally and definitely works.
/r/seduction09/09/20 01:18 PM
2

Still don't get it. So what is your goal? Get nudes, to jerk off, or something else?
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:47 PM
0

Why do you want to have that kind of conversation in the first place?
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:40 PM
1

What is the point of that?
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:26 PM
-3

Maybe... Find one?
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:20 PM
1

Advice on hitting on coworkers Don't
/r/seduction08/09/20 04:18 PM
1

That's even stronger when you love someone, you want to make them happy. But if you can't, then you feel bad about yourself.
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:56 PM
1

Cause it makes them feel like they can't satisfy you. You make them feel less as a man.
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:39 PM
8

When I get my life set, I will invest in some hookers Sounds like a plan.
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:36 PM
2

After 500 of approaches in 1 month in a different context, you don't have much of the fear. But I started when I was 30, the older you get the harder it becomes to change.
/r/seduction08/09/20 02:44 PM
2

Yes, this is much more apparent when you just starting out. The reaction mostly depends on her nationality, your energy level and the context. On a busy street, you can be more energetic and most nationalities will be fine. Some nationalities will be more okay with that such as people from Russia, Balcans, Meditareans. For some UK girls, and Asians would not find that very cool. Not all, but the more you do you will start to see patterns. In the shops, you have to turn down your energy level. In…
/r/seduction08/09/20 01:06 PM
1

This is like the third post of this guy. He is not interested in getting help. Just wants to be pet like a puppy, and hear "good boy, you are good looking just change yourself and bla bla bla". At least for a minute, it will make him feel good about himself, before drowning himself in his misery once again.
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:06 PM
1

You don't need a penis at all.
/r/seduction08/09/20 11:24 AM
3

You have two choices: Ask her out, fail and try again, fail, again until eventually, someone says 'yes'. Don't do anything, waste your life, and regret all those opportunities which you could have asked her out when you will be 30, 40. You have all the power to decide. And when it comes to approaching itself. Just force it through. It becomes easier with each approach. p.s. I wish that someone would have sad to me this 15 years ago.
/r/seduction08/09/20 11:16 AM
2

You know what you do as a nice guy. So do the opposite.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:49 AM
10

Ultimate level of peacocking.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:45 AM
1

Same with me. I am into this stuff around 3 years. And yet I still don't feel like I am the man I want to be. I defo improved, but there is still much more work to do. If you are confused, then you haven't reached the end as well.
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:27 PM
1

As I sad you won't get it. People who go into PUA live in an entirely different world than some natural. I do agree with what you are saying, and you are actually correct. If PUA is the journey than your description of the man is the END of that journey. It takes years if not decades to reach that.
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:22 PM
2

Blasphemy. You should be ashamed.
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:06 PM
1

This is exactly what Chad would say. There is no point of explaining, you won't get it.
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:04 PM
3

Bad advice. There is no way I would invite a chick to watch something like "Avengers Endgame" if I haven't seen it. She would just distract me.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:53 PM
8

You can always ask your mom to bring some friends.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:42 PM
8

Thanks. Saved me time reading it. Most points I new, except the one with negative body language. That's interesting.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:34 PM
3

Just do what needs to be done. Or you will end up like that 30y virgin who posted a day ago.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:30 PM
1

Thinking that men and women are the same. Yeah... Good luck with that.
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:53 PM
1

You don't need to flirt to show that you are not the psycho.
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:08 PM
0

What works the best is to say "let's have sex", "I want to have sex", "I want that you would fuck me", you get the idea. Guys are more logical. When you will say like that, he will defo understand and will start making a move.
/r/seduction07/09/20 12:15 PM
1

If she says like that, ditch her asap, is BS.
/r/seduction07/09/20 10:52 AM
4

Texting is for making a date not for flirting.
/r/seduction07/09/20 10:51 AM
2

Like any other fear. Facing it. The more you do, the more confident you will become.
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:56 PM
3

They like the confidence which assholes have, not the assholness itself. You are just an asshole without confidence.
/r/seduction06/09/20 12:44 PM
4

Oh right. I thought that you are actually ugly, like deformed or smth. From the photo, you don't look ugly at all. You do however look like an asshole.
/r/seduction06/09/20 12:33 PM
1

Find someone as ugly as you. Everyone wants to be with someone better than them. It doesn't work like that.
/r/seduction06/09/20 12:08 PM
1

Totally agree with you. Unfortunately "to be yourself" is easier to sad than to be done. Most people don't even know who they are.
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:08 AM
1

If you are good at talking with her in person then you should not have a problem with texting. When you are texting, you have to imagine that person in front of you, like she is there with you, and then just start to talking. Would you say "Hi?" And then wait for her reply if that would be a real conversation? No, you probably would not even say that. You would just say what is on your mind. This technique works only if you are a good conversation in general.
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:06 AM
2

That nervousness is a fear of rejection. You think that he will reject you when he will get to know you. This fear comes from a lack of self-esteem. You think that you don't deserve a good looking guy. That's why you go for chubbier ones. You have to find the root causes of your low self-esteem get and rid of them. It could be your body image or something else.
/r/seduction06/09/20 02:54 AM
2

Let's say you want to go for a piss. But you find yourself in a situation that you can't do it. So you hold longer and longer. And the more you hold, the more you want to relief. Apply the same principle to everything you do with her.
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:48 AM
2

Rather writing stupid posts and wasting even more time. Go and fuck them.
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:41 AM
1

Just create anticipation. The stronger it is the more she will want.
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:37 AM
3

This shit is an art, man. But basically you have to text and talk until you have that "feeling", that when you ask her out she will say yes. Don't ask sooner and don't text more than needed. Cause you will have just one chance to do so. Keep practising, and wait for that hook point.
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:31 AM
2

Anticipation.
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:28 AM
2

You don't connect with her using your words you connect with her using your actions.
/r/seduction04/09/20 08:42 PM
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Honestly, don't approach men. Is just wrong on so many levels. By approaching you already showing that you are the one who is in charge. Don't do it. Guys are simple. They like just one thing: NICE SLIM ASS. As sad as it sounds. It is true. So your best tactic would be to lose weight, build that round ass and put tight leggings. When you have it. Post it on social media, and you will get guys attention. Don't approach them and ask numbers. Don't be pathethic desperate looser. ​ ​ p.s: I knew I w…
/r/seduction04/09/20 08:35 PM
2

Sure. Any women working at customer service and smiling to you.
/r/seduction04/09/20 06:52 PM
2

From her body language and context. Both are equally important.
/r/seduction04/09/20 06:20 PM
1

By making her do things. Standing and talking is a very low investment. Start with simple like pushing her to the side like "Careful", when someone walks behind her. Then you can make her follow you "Come her. Is too noisy." And walk out from the middle of the street. Also, you can say "Can you hold this, for me, please." Also don't say stuff about yourself voluntarily. If you ask what is her favourite animal. She answers. Then don't say straight away yours, wait for her to ask it. It is quite o…
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:44 PM
0

She is not investing enough.
/r/seduction04/09/20 02:26 PM
1

It is no different than picking up without kids. Do what you are doing. However, you can't know if she is a single mom, most of the time the bf, the husband is lurking somewhere around. So, try to figure out what she is doing at this moment and if he is still in a picture as soon as possible. Otherwise, is just a waste of time. Often, bf/husband. Will join the conversation out of sudden. Just say "hello" to him and explain why you are talking to her. Usually, I just go with "Hi. I was just telli…
/r/seduction04/09/20 11:31 AM
4

Solid stuff man. Thanks for writing.
/r/seduction04/09/20 11:20 AM
1

For every person is different. Most common are social anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, body insecurities (I have a small dick, I have a big nose), eating disorders, lack of social and communication skills and on and on. I meant Single Day Lay in 4-7 hours window. But even it is one or two days. You can't really know that person enough. And when your focus only to get her into the bed you don't really get to know her cause "know her" is not the goal "sex is". I am talking more about your own…
/r/seduction02/09/20 11:55 AM
2

When I was not in the game I was that first person who you describe. Talking about myself a lot, big EGO and so on. But that approach didn't get me good results. In fact, people disliked me. When I found a game, I realised that when you move attention from yourself to others. Ask questions about them. Talk about what they want to talk. Even help someone on the street, people start to treat you differently. It is easier to get a better job. Easier to maintain connections. Easier with women. But t…
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:51 AM
1

I don't know actually. In theory, you should be able to find a gf during day game, but in practice is not how it works. 99% of people who start gaming have deep underlying psychological problems. Finding that person from cold approach does not fix that. And from my experience this is what happens: Noobie finds a gf. But he does not have a strong inner game, so he starts acting like beta, and she leaves him soon after. So he goes back to the game. Noobie tries, and tries and fails and just gives …
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:32 AM
-4

This is bullshit. The guy who makes other people good about themselves is doing cause it is beneficial to him as well. Therefore he is doing for selfish reasons. He is no different than the first guy.
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:55 PM
2

Why do you want to stop? Learn to look at them without being a creep.
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:53 PM
2

On my first approach, I literally was shaking, I was sweating. I thought my heart will explode cause was beating so heavy. The conversation was awful. She was smiling and was talking just from politeness. I was so happy when the conversation was finished. Cause it was torture. Next one was similar. Third one little bit better. After 1000 I can approach like approaching a friend. Just do what needs to be done. Not sure what else to say. PS I am 32 years old.
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:24 PM
2

Pull her hair
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:18 PM
2

You are looking for problems where there are no. Yout text. She agrees. My bet she is not that into you as you may think. But you can test that by not texting her for a few weeks.
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:12 PM
5

Depends on your goals. Talking with random girls in public will increase your confidence, social skills, seduction skills, communication skills, boost your confidence, increase your style and so on. Occasionally you will have casual sex as well. But that's basically it. Think of it as a training boot camp before you actually go to war. Or driving school before you actually go on the real roads. If your goal is to have only casual sex. Then learn night game. If your goal is to find long term part…
/r/seduction01/09/20 12:28 PM
1

In different cultures and social groups, a word SLUT means different things. For most guys SLUT is someone who sleeps with many men. Which is very sad actually. To think like this. For women SLUT usually is a woman who has sex for the money. They can't take account the number of people, because some of them themselves slept with more men then an average prostitute. For a married woman, and in more conservative countries, a SLUT is someone who sleeps with someone else husband. So the number of lo…
/r/seduction31/08/20 02:10 PM
9

Here are your mistakes: Don't friendzone yourself in the first place. There is no coming back from that. Don't drop something so unexpected on people. Did you actually expect that she will say, thanks I like you too :D It is not a movie, man. Next time before saying something, figure out if she has a bf and how serious they are. Also, for god sake ask WHO will be picking you up before saying something :D
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:59 PM
2

She just had a baby. Some women who get married and have a baby are afraid of losing their "skills of seduction". She likes you. She just sharpening her skills, it makes her feel still a sexual and desirable woman. Unfortunately, that means nothing. If she is smart, but more importantly if you are smart you will not go any further. Cause this leads to a disaster.
/r/seduction31/08/20 05:52 AM
3

There is no better or worse. Cold approaching and social game, although both go under the same umbrella of seduction, they are very different. They sharpen different skills and their outcome varies. If CA is your chest muscles, then the social game is your back muscles. You should be working out both muscles to have an overall athletic physique.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:23 AM
4

So you asked what she does on a weekend (Qualify her). She answers that. And then straight away give up and just show how needy you actually are. Why did you show tongue :p? It just doesn't make sense. Why are you laughing so hard? And then you say that you can't afford 7$ a coffee. Then she asks what you do on a weekend. First of all, if you qualify her then be prepared to answer the same question. So you: Get out. So you never get out during a weekday? Get out where? Pub, bar? Grocery shop? Cl…
/r/seduction31/08/20 03:12 AM
0

Don't let her dominate. Next time find a reason to get close to her. So that you would be in a position where you can hold her head and kiss. When she goes on her non-stop talking BS. You say "Hey, Shut up" like you are literally tired of listening to her. Then look at her lips. Grab her head and pull her to kiss.
/r/seduction31/08/20 02:43 AM
6

Yeah that helps as well.
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:28 AM
6

You are right, "WHAT" to say is not as important than "HOW" to say it. Trust me, your guy knows how to communicate with a woman.
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:12 AM
7

It is so nice reading posts like this. If everyone would stop being self hated miserable fucks, and take an example from you, this Reddit would be obsolete.
/r/seduction31/08/20 12:43 AM
3

You just described 99% of men. Anyone who is not into a Game or a Natural will behave like that.
/r/seduction30/08/20 11:19 PM
1

Don't have any videos but here are few tips: Don't rush, but also don't walk too slowly Take as big steps as possible without looking weird. Don't look or give any attention to anyone, walk like you would be just one person on a street. Always have a goal, know where you are going. This gives determination to your steps. Don't put hands in a pocket, usually, this makes people hunch. Have a bag, for older man would be a suitcase for you could be a gym bag. Give little bit that swag through your s…
/r/seduction30/08/20 10:53 PM
1

You are right. If you are older you can pull this off better, plus you have money for that. In your case, you can do as well, but don't go for anything too classical, more youthful style is better. Depending on your body composition, face shape, height choose the appropriate style (copy the most similar celebrity to you in terms of age and other similarities). Figure out your face shape and google it celebrities with that face shape. This way you can copy not just their style but haircut as well…
/r/seduction30/08/20 10:18 PM
3

It is simple: Dress like a man of high status. Act as a man of high status First can be accomplished by looking at successful people photos, finding the one which is similar to you, and copy the style. Don't be cheap and buy quality clothes, same with a haircut. Also, you may wish to visit a tailor as well. Second can be accomplished by learning body language, there are plenty of books. Also observe the body language of `alpha` man such as James Bond, Clint Eastwood. You can also get some tips f…
/r/seduction30/08/20 09:37 PM
3

It was late at night. She was horny. The conversation got flirty. And that's all that happened. She has no feelings towards you. Read the signs.
/r/seduction30/08/20 09:11 PM
5

She is not into you. Move on.
/r/seduction30/08/20 09:07 PM
2

Meet once/twice per week. Do the business and that's it. If you are good in bed, then after a while she will 100% want to be MORE. If you are not into her, then cut ties completely with her. And don't forget the main rule: Meanwhile, hookup up with more women, not just her.
/r/seduction30/08/20 09:04 PM
3

So you can be either: Attractive to hookup Attractive to date There is no way of telling which one of those cases you are without knowing more details.
/r/seduction30/08/20 08:51 PM
1

You won't gonna learn how to talk with woman by reading books. It is like learning how to drive a car from the book. You don't have friends because you either are afraid to have them. Or you hate yourself too much. And you jeopardise any attempt to make them as a punishment. I can only explain as specific as your question. If you ask a general question you will get a general answer. Online conversations are the same as real ones. You need to be in a specific mood to be able to have a conversatio…
/r/seduction30/08/20 06:18 PM
2

Yeah, I know Self-pity and self-hatred are much easier than actually improving yourself.
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:54 PM
1

I mean if you do only bicep curls, you will grow just the biceps. And if you approach 1 set on a street you will get rid of AA for one set on a street.
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:31 PM
4

are conversations supposed to be fun and easy? Yes, always! ​ whatever comes to my brain i think isnt good enough to say First, learn to be relaxed around a girl. If you can do it then you won't even need to think what to say. ​ i run out of things to say or ask quickly. i dont know how to start new topics.. Every day do this exercise: Choose some random item, and try to talk about this item for 5 min non-stop. Make a story exciting. After a week you won't have this problem anymore. ​ i think it…
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:26 PM
1

To get over AA is relatively simple. Usually, it takes around 10-20 approaches per day. After 1 month you won't have AA. Please note approaches must be done in as many different settings (street, shop, metro and so on) as possible. Also they must include (2set, friend groups, couples, family, mother daughter, father daughter) and so on. If you will be approaching 1 set on a street. Even if you do 100 per day you won't get rid of AA.
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:12 PM
1

She is not into you. Block her number and move on.
/r/seduction30/08/20 03:14 PM
1

So, you took your colleague out for drinks... Trust me she knows what's going on. You don't need to say anything, next time take her out, don't be a pussy and make a move.
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:53 PM
1

Flirting is your attitude.
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:43 PM
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