| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 32 | PSA From mild noob. | kfudgingdodd | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 02:20 PM | |
| 5 | Drinking advice. | kfudgingdodd | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 09:00 PM |
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| 34 | Is blowjob parties a thing?I bet you do my friend | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to be dominant without conflict?You have a confusion between being a "alpha" and a douche bag. The way you understand the word dominance doesn't apply to what you are trying to achieve. Based on your understanding of the term dominant, being dominant isn't what you are trying to do. Your trying to be a leader, an alpha, the prize etc. Dominant in your understanding is being un challengeable, powerful, controlling, scary, macho etc. Those aren't the traits people are describing in the articles you are reading. | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 6 | Is there anything to do on a Friday/Saturday night besides going to bars or clubs?Open your mind a bit, doing interesting things like what was listed will already put you in a more interesting light to any girl you may meet there. | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 04:14 AM |
| 14 | Tried talking to a girl and failed miserably. Need advice on how to keep a conversation going?Started good ended ended kinda fucked up. | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Did I have a chance?Would you hold a girls hand and ask her about her sexual experience if you had no interest in her? | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Drinking advice.You understood exactly what I was asking for and what I was describing. I wont have a problem not drinking, I can go weeks and weeks with a beer in the fridge. It's that I wanna train myself to party better without it! I wanna have just as much fun when I'm the DD at the club etc. Thanks for your tips and Insights! Went to the bar for the super bowl and didn't have a drink and still had a fun, social time so I'm off to a decent start! How long did you find it took you to keep up your charisma an… | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Drinking advice.Thanks man. Wish me luck. I think this will be good because it's gonna force me to actually rely on skills and not sloppy drunk luck. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Drinking advice.Thank you. That sounds like a method id be willing to check out. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Drinking advice.Being a dick isn't the problem, I'm an emotional wreck when I'm blackout. When I'm just very drunk I'm fine and fun, but the reason I wanna stop drinking isn't what I'm asking, I wanna know some steps to being a better sober guy you know what I mean? Thank you for reply brother! | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | FR - advice for asking a girl to come to your placeYour learning though man and the fact that you knew in your head what the right thing to do was - you were just scared to do it - is leaps and bounds past some people's social skills. Some guys on here will take few months to even understand that saying that is an option. So if your just at the nervous to do it part, your not far off of results! Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | After a breakup that is pretty devastating, do you get on the horse and force yourself out there? Or do you wallow around and process your emotions?Neither. You reevaluate where you are in your life, now that that obstacle is gone and spend a few days making your new priorities and ensuring your staying on a healthy track. That doesn't mean don't goto the club the day after, go ahead. But don't dedicate your life to rebounding immediately. Focus on making new or sustaining old, healthy habits, and making sure your happy outside of just your relationship/sex life. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetThe 3rd person mind is so incredibly helpful, as is the rest of your post. Well put. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Any advice to start finding a girlfriend if you have no friends to go out with?New friends that enjoy going out. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | I feel stuckIf youre getting all the contact info and they seem eager to give it, not you seem eager to get it, then your doing plenty right. Your gonna have to find a nice transition from "We're all having fun." To a more personal sexual approach. I usually do this gradually, over the course of an hour, once the basic rapport is made. This helps you get past the "slut defense" of a girl realizing he just wants to hook up. Once you two are "friends" and the rapport is made, it can be easier to re calibrate.… | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 02:22 PM |
| 4 | “Game as a 15 year old”I came to percieve* (Should actually be "Came to realize." You knew from the GET GO. Not the gecko. An animal Do not lie about your age in some places you could be causing that "smoking hot 22 year old" to commit a major fucking felony. Using and attempting to strengthen your pickup skills at any age is fine. Lying about age is pretty fucked up unless your trying to get beer or smokes. Reconsider your moral path here. Use the skills your attempting to learn to approach girls at school. And be ca… | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Going to the bar with some guy friends tomorrow. I've never had guy friends before. What do people talk about when they are hanging out?Find things you can relate to them with. Exchange funny stories etc. This is really easy stuff and your definitely stressing over it far too much. You will probably connect with them and become atleast acquaintances without even realizing it or trying. | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Why am I not getting girls?Ya this really was a completely stupid comment. Race is not your problem, interR is really fucking common everywere that theres a mixed community. completely ignore that guy lmao. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Why am I not getting girls?First guess based on limited information is that your friends are stealing them. Maybe they have more interesting conversations or are "more fun". | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Going back to hersYes. Come to the dark side. We have welts and pending lawsuits. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Being drunk ruins your game.Inception...... | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with someone who won't make eye contact at all?If every other sign says there interested and they are very oddly missing just one or two, chances are the reason isnt becuase of you. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl agreed to go out, but never got back to me. Is there a way to reach out in a classy way?Just reach out once. Bottom line if you know full well your not doing it of desperation and you aren't sacrificing your dignity in doing so, then why the fuck not. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Where can I meet girls as a teenI got kicked out in grade 12. It was like getting kneecapped. So much easier in highscool and you got another 2 years to enjoy. Kill it. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 02:00 AM |
| 8 | How to get over the GirlThe unpopular but completely correct answer. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Don't nibble on the barrel, pull the trigger. (metaphorically, of course)Dude you were in the same toxic manipulative controlling relationship i was in except you were only friends.... If a girl i wasnt LTRing tried to have any say where i go what i do etc... Jesus Christ your lucky she rejected you and luckier still that you woke up and ditched her. girls like that will spit you out a shell of who you used to be. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 09:47 PM |
| 1 | anyone use NLP and/or street hypnosis to pick up women (or men)?Very creepy. Stay away from the mind control techniques ... | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | help with responses to this playful accusationThis is all attributed to her trying to make you feel more comfortable. That joke is what you call an inside joke. Inside jokes only happen between friends and acquaintances (at bare minimum, people who enjoy conversation together.) The premise of this joke is just to poke fun at how well she feels she knows you, and she hopes you find comfort in that she knows you that well. Of course all of this intent and hidden meaning is highly subconscious. She never walks up to your table with these thoug… | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | help with responses to this playful accusationAlso i think its important to say this! She was not shaming or talking down on you by telling people what you called her. She genuinly found it funny and was sharing it! Dont oversweat things like that good sir! If she knew you could hear her "complaining about it" then the intent was probably to also assure you that your welcomed and that she enjoys the little banter you guys have between each other. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Will i ever find a girlfriend? (Please Help!!)I read 4 lines of this and i already know your only real way to pull yourself out of this dump is two things. Inner game. Fucking learn to love yourself. I am a massively depressed and anxious person. But even at my worst i still Love myself. I love myself enough to atleast try to make myself happy. Goto the gym, start a diet, start a hobby. If your depressed then im sure you have no problem identifying issues with yourself. Now identify which ones you can control and start doing something about… | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Help a newbie in needThis is a game thats played with practice. You have yourself at a major disadvantage if you havent kissed a girl yet. I would start by gaining overall social skills aside from females or in a platonic way with females blah blah blah until you feel that charisma is coming to you naturally. Try and be a fun person to be around. Take it from me, i have seen many different versions of my self and the only one thats getting laid is the charismatic/ fun to be around version of me. The Edward Cullen Tw… | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | highly effective inner game stratWhat the fuck. I feel like i know you personally now. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 06:52 AM |
| 5 | [College] Snapchat vs texting?Can personally attest to the accuracy of that statement. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Should I come back?It is possible for the "fade" your talking about to happen. Lord it's happened to me a dozen times. But, that usually means the girl was A) A Whore, and already found someone else to entertain her in 10 minutes. B) So hammered you have no buisness trying to get them in bed at that time anyway or C) You re approached and absolutely blew it somehow. Ive had all of these happen and only consider C) to be a loss. But even at that its a chance to re consider your skills. A) is no ones fault. You had … | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I come back?Its not impossible for that to happen but it's also not really likely. Glad i could help :) | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 08:52 PM |
| 17 | Should I come back?Cmon use basic social etiquette. If you become friends with someone at recess are you allowed to be friends with them after school? Of course you are becuase people arent goldfish. Dont be weird and just walk right up to her and continue right where you left off (tongue down her throat) but yes by all means continue talking to her, the attraction was already made, and unless shes blackout drunk the attraction is still there. Obviously use your brain over some internet advice, becuase I can't be … | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Any good books, videos or courses that teach you how to fuck and pleasure a girl well in bed?I mean literally, every single girl, has different kinks or lack there of. What just about every girl I know (besides one, who is a lesbian with intent to become a male) likes, is to get fucked hard. So use that God given dick, and give it to her with everything you got. Missionarys basic, so if she seems a little bored with that, see if she's open to turning over. There's nothing wrong with a girl leading for some of the interaction, especially considering you prolly don't know her sexually. Th… | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | First minor successAt this point it doesn't matter to much, you can try your luck, or you can leave it. My gut tells me it might be a no for the answer, but at this point it's sort of a what do you have to lose situation. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | First minor successIt doesn't matter what she's expecting. Frankly it doesn't. If your feeling courageous and she wasnt the small town girl your friends described I'd take the hint at the "Wear whatever I want" thing. That sounds like it might be a flirty attempt on her part. But bottom line, you basically say, oh that's cool, (more enthusiastically) and then cut to the chase and layout the plans. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 11:20 AM |
| 1 | First minor successNah don't giver the satisfaction. Drop it, on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | First minor success6 is best. Gives you a chance to escalate before she pulls some sort of "Got work tommorow" type shit. Can pull your best moves and hope she is willing to stay the night with you. Also don't text till Friday, and if it's some sort of excuse, don't answer. Go out and have a good Friday without her. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 10:10 PM |
| 1 | 4th date trying to get the lay.. how to play itCertainly | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | First minor successAbsolutely don't ask if she's seeing someone, you don't care remember? Another pickup. If she hits you with that shit test make sure your ready for it. If you can say it playfully I might suggest something like "Haven't seen you since elementary and you already wanna talk about your problems?" or something of the like. Only of you trust your voice to not butcher it, and that it will make her smile. | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | 4th date trying to get the lay.. how to play itI'm thinking he means in a cute play fight sort of way. Like light hip check while in the kitchen, leading to a little play fight or whatever. Or he's extremely creepy. | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Think I may have messed up with the 'DiCarlo Escalation ladder'. Can I get some advice?Your fine. Literally fine. You'll prolly fuck her next time buddy. | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Inner Game to the Fullest?Douchey. I liked it. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Dudes using tinder, get that phone number immediatelyElaborate. Ops logic is sound and has worked for me before. | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you build instagram do get more social proof?Plenty | /r/seduction | 28/06/17 05:29 PM |
| 2 | How to close the awkward couch space.I get you, but my drunk ass had to point it out lol! | /r/seduction | 27/06/17 05:30 AM |
| 4 | How to close the awkward couch space.I totally get your point but this sounded a tad morally Fucked | /r/seduction | 27/06/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.I ate my cigarette cause of your witty ass. Try checking the "meetup" app for writing groups. I've made friends with randoms because of writing. I'm too young for clubbing till October and even then I wouldn't pass there dress codes. I'm also sorry for your incredibly shitty sounding community, I had no way to assume that. As the titles suggested I'm no expert by any means, and because of my very unique situation (age town friendgroups interests, reputation in small town) I am experiencing succe… | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 11:28 AM |
| 5 | Chickened out from approaching a girl with her parents at a packed art gallery. What in the actual hell was I meant to do...?Can't even hold it against you. Fuck a parent sitch. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 11:14 AM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.I choked on my cigarette reading this. You have a job I assume, or interests, i mean there's even tools to meet other people from this sub who already have the common interests of getting laid. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.Very solid point. However, despite me not having this issue, I think there's a myriad of tools to get through this barrier. We meet people everyday. If you (not you specifically) can't apply some of the social skills this sub teaches to even make FRIENDS, with the same gender, then the issue is more deep rooted then I can help with. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 10:59 AM |
| 2 | PSA From mild noob.You really gotta go for those kisses, cause girls will hold it against you if you don't. I like the line, "I hope you can forgive me for this" as I'm reaching out for the back of there head, with a huge grin. It has the anxiety calmer, of you still technically asking, but without sounding 12 and saying "cAN i kIsS yOU" | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 10:55 AM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.Best of luck. Remember to not over do it. You ever tried to remember something so hard you couldn't think of it until you stopped trying? Food for thought. Put your own fun and life first and the ladies will come. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 02:48 AM |
| 2 | PSA From mild noob.Very fair, for me the term "studying" rubbed me the wrong way. Makes it seem like someone learning to defuse a bomb a 4 years. I believe the inner game advice is the single most important thing, just develop ALL your social skills and your skills with women will improve /u/TheCuriousDude | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.No. I was being a jackass. Any number that seems appropriate. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 11:38 PM |
| 2 | PSA From mild noob.I am not however advocating for cold contacts on Facebook. I tend to/prefer to see someone around, but never really have any sort of friendship or acquaintanceship (if that's a word) and then take the initiative to message them. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.Yes. For example, that girl who has 900 mutual friends with you on Facebook, etc. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.People I atleast know of, and know of me. I'm in a fairly tight community. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | PSA From mild noob.Too many to mention. I mostly read everything in the sidebar, applied my own personality and commen sense to it and I tend to read the reply to every question asked here, just to see what information is being passed along. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 09:44 PM |
| 2 | PSA From mild noob.I think I'm a bad judge but I'd say I'm maybe a 7 to 7.5? Fairly average. If I lost more weight I'd proudly be an 8. Age and social group means a lot to imo. I'm 18, and hang out with guys who hang out with girls. I get most of my "dates" which are more just hanging out, by messaging people or getting messages through facebook and Instagram. Studying PUA wasn't my method though. I read a shit ton, and then apply what I can remember in the moment, reflect improve read more and so on. Also, a big … | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Somewhat ResponsiveWhen a girl r bombs on snap and then hits you either a mass snap later, this is bad. Means she had zero fun or interest in the conversation. Best course of action - R Bomb that snap. Go out and live your life, take snaps of it, mass snap it, include her in the recipients. She might r bomb again, even so, the point is to get out and live your life and showcase it. R bomb all of her snaps unless she directly engages with you. Girls take r bombs seriously as hell. I get bitched at 4 to 5 times a da… | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 09:35 AM |
| 1 | What's on your playlist while you're getting laidThis literally worked a matter of hours ago | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Sexting tips help!Guy here, biggest tip I have for you, don't sound quite so formal, your wanting this to sound natural, it's really easy, for me at least, to pick up on when somethings forced when sexting. For example "I would then" could be, "then I'm going to". Also basic writing formalities count, and they exist for good reason; to make reading something more fluent. Repeated uses of "and" or repeated words at all create that, "endless monotone story" vibe. The contents good though so props to that hunny. Sex… | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 10:26 PM |
| 2 | I became awesome and the girls didn't comeI was making money... Lucratively, and no matter how many keg dinners I brought girls out on, it was good times that made the difference. Excess money doesn't mean much, but obviously not being able to afford to buy yourself a drink.. Thats not productive | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Need advice: failed number close, but she's still interestedWhen my clever ass pulls out jokes like this I'm usually more pissed I'm talking to an idiot, then that I said it | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Need advice: failed number close, but she's still interestedVery clever, and if a girl understood it, and appreciated it, you'd definitely get the digits. But it 747d that girl, right over her head | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 10:06 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do you talk ?Sounds like they thought they were ready to flirt it up, and then remembered how much the wedding cost. No fault of yours brother. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 08:58 PM |
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