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15

A mans job is to impregnate women and a woman's job is to remain pure and stay with 1 partner so that the man can be sure the baby is of his seed, then he will provide for her while she cares for his baby and caters to his sexual needs. lol do you live in the stone age?
/r/MensRights21/06/13 02:14 PM
4

Ahhh that's not where I was going with that haha. Anyone is allowed to refuse at any time, "privileged" or not :]
/r/MensRights03/04/13 02:46 PM
5

...How exactly is refusing a sex act a sign of privilege, or a "gatekeeper of sex"? Are you suggesting that women shouldn't be allowed to refuse?
/r/MensRights03/04/13 01:24 PM
2

Okay, I'm confused. How does it feel like male rape if you are having consensual sex with her..? She's a shitty person for doing all this stuff to you, but she's not forcing you to have sex with her, so I'm confused about your wording on that.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 05:30 PM
4

But you're a woman, so I understand why you need this to be about you. Dude. No need to be that rude to someone just offering another perspective.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 05:19 PM
1

I..think I replied to the wrong comment, sorry! :[
/r/MensRights27/12/12 05:17 PM
1

Birth Control pills for women are handed out like candy on halloween What? Birth control can be equally as expensive as condoms, and often more so. The least expensive birth control that I'm aware of is a $9/month generic from Walmart, but can be $50 a month (or even more) for some people. The Depo shot can be upwards of $500/year, and sponges and nuvaring up to $600/year. Not saying these are exorbitant in all cases, but if you're on a budget things can get tight very quickly. Many places hand …
/r/MensRights27/12/12 04:38 PM
4

...since when are most women overweight with multiple kids from multiple guys?
/r/MensRights19/11/12 08:16 PM
1

Hmm, interesting. Never thought of it like that, seems possible though. Thanks for the explanation.
/r/MensRights13/11/12 08:53 PM
1

...having STDs=Stockholm Syndrome?
/r/MensRights13/11/12 06:43 PM
1

Yeah, she's quite the right-wing extremist. I don't agree with..well, any of her politics, really, but I like reading opinions that vary from my own. However, I will give credit where credit is due, as that opinion was not meant in seriousness.
/r/MensRights12/11/12 10:22 PM
553

For everyone up in arms over number two..She was obviously trolling. Here is one there she's actually serious. Tumblr user communismkills.
/r/MensRights12/11/12 08:23 PM
1

I'm not insisting it wasn't. As I said, I was offering another interpretation. But, clearly there isn't any interest in differing opinions on this thread, so I digress. Back to the circular sexism/anti-make argument for you.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:52 PM
1

Please continue telling me all about my own life, it's fascinating. Why is it such a foreign concept that people actually help others when they aren't required to? Just because it's not something you would do does not make it true for me.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:38 PM
1

Ok, honestly I'm done with this because at this point you're just being rude. Have a lovely day.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:28 PM
3

I volunteered to help people outside of my job in which other people were in danger. PEOPLE. As in "Human beings of both genders". As in "if a man/woman/other is afraid, I will try to help". What on earth about this does not answer your question?
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:18 PM
1

I don't see what this has to do with anything..?
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:17 PM
1

From your perspective, sure. From mine, physically larger people are more intimidating, and that's often the case for others.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:08 PM
2

Ok honestly I don't know why you keep trying to negate every single thing I'm saying. It was just an alternate interpretation of events, nothing more. People get scared and irrational sometimes, and fear can get the best of anyone.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:07 PM
2

It wasn't my job to intervene. I just did because I was there, so, yes, I volunteered to help people outside of my job in which other people were in danger. I'm not sure why you keep repeating yourself as if I don't understand your question.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:05 PM
3

I have worked as a soccer referee for several years during summers, and have often broken up fights between parents, coaches, etc. Likewise with people who come into the library I work at, or if I see people getting rowdy around me at school. I just try and help if I see someone in trouble and don't really worry about why I have to, or if I'm obligated is all I'm getting at.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 08:56 PM
3

Fair enough. It was still good of you to help, though. A bigger person will generally be of more help than a short one :3
/r/MensRights14/09/12 08:48 PM
3

I also was bullied as a kid, but that makes me feel like interfering more because I don't want anyone to feel powerless. I'm just trying to point out that when you're afraid, you'll take help from anyone and she most likely didn't single you out because she expected you to be a protector due to your gener, is all.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 08:32 PM
2

It doesn't have anything to do with being an unpaid bodyguard, it has to do with being a decent human being and helping people out when they're in trouble rather than having a "well, that sucks for you" mentality.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 08:28 PM
3

So if you see someone in trouble, you just ignore it and go on with your day? Or is it just women?
/r/MensRights14/09/12 08:05 PM
1

I'm just trying to help you see the other side, is all. Obviously if you yourself were frightened, you were not obligated to intervene. I didn't gather that you also felt threatened, just that you did step in to help and that it was a kind thing to do for someone who was frightened. However, if that were the case then I understand your frustration, but it still was good of you to step in and I would imaging she really appreciated the help.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 08:04 PM
3

Uhm..okay? I never said it was an expectation because he was a man, but perhaps she thought he, out of the other people there, would be most able/willing to help him. It could have to do with height, strength, any number of factors, or none at all, and she just looked around for help. Personally if I'm in a situation that is intimidating, my first thought is to run for it, but if there is someone nearby who looks like (s)he could help, I'll ask for it regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 08:02 PM
1

I didn't interpret it that way, but I see your point.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 07:16 PM
5

Perhaps she simply thought you were more capable of helping than the other spectators, who knows? I don't see why you're getting all up in arms, not to mention rude ("Do it your fucking self") because someone needed help. Obviously if she could have handled it herself, she would have. I don't see why you're complaining about doing a good deed and helping someone.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 07:16 PM
4

He said "bystanders" not women, so it seemed to be a mix of genders. He never said he was the only man in the vicinity. Like I said, unless he was uncomfortable intervening, I don't see why he wouldn't. I would hope people would step in if it were anyone being accosted, no matter the gender. It's common courtesy, or at least it should be.
/r/MensRights14/09/12 06:50 PM
9

Did you ever consider maybe she was just looking for some help because she was scared, and not because she thought it was your duty because you're a man? I'd be grateful for anyone stepping in to help if I were in that situation because it can be scary to have someone up in your face, not because I think it's one gender's responsibility to be "the protector' as you seem to think was her idea. It's common courtesy to do what you can to help others, if you're comfortable with it. Edit: Just read t…
/r/MensRights14/09/12 06:10 PM
1

I'm confused on this one.. My dad has told me that before >.>
/r/MensRights17/08/12 07:18 AM
2

Don't really see how that relates to twox, though. It's a pretty gender-positive subreddit.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 02:50 AM
2

Er..why would someone saying wives should obey husbands belong in twox..?
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:48 PM
1

Yep. She's pretty snazzy.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 10:14 PM
12

Well considering he makes twice what she does, he agreed to pay the child support so she would still be able to stay in our house and we'd be able to stay in school, since up until they split she spent most of "her" money on school and he paid other bills, or however it worked out (if that makes sense). I'm not sure he has to, but he does so that my sister and I are provided for.
/r/MensRights21/07/12 07:33 PM
1

Ah, I see. Thanks for answering! I was just curious so I hope I didn't touch a nerve or anything!
/r/MensRights21/07/12 04:31 PM
13

Well, yeah. I do know they had a mediator that helped them reach a decision rather than just having a judge decide where we would go, so I guess "the system" really had nothing to do with it :c Too bad more people don't do that :/
/r/MensRights21/07/12 03:59 PM
1

Do you have reason to think something would happen if she were drinking? It seems like it would suck if you wanted to have a beer with your friends but couldn't just because she wasn't there.
/r/MensRights21/07/12 03:32 PM
10

Yep..I was always surprised at how..messy a lot of other peoples' divorces could get. I guess because my mom's top priority was making sure we were taken care of and had our father in our lives, not "making him pay". I think too many people lose sight of that :/
/r/MensRights21/07/12 03:30 PM
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My parents got divorced when I was a kid. My dad pays my mother child support because he makes about twice what she does at work, and the money he gives her goes to bills/school tuition for me and my sister, not luxury items (unless you count car maintenance a luxury item :p). When he lost his job, she didn't hound him for the payments, just accepted what he could pay when he could pay it. Also, they split custody of us down the middle so I never had to go without either of my parents. So I gues…
/r/MensRights21/07/12 03:00 PM
2

Sorry, I was just wondering: do you mean you two aren't allowed to drink at all if you have friends of the opposite sex around? I'm just wondering because a most of my friends are of the opposite sex, and my SO has no problem with me going out partying with them..or was it because of something that happened?
/r/MensRights20/07/12 08:51 PM
2

Er..aren't male runners generally significantly taller than their female counterparts? I'm really not seeing why this is an issue, since the men and women aren't competing directly against each other.
/r/MensRights20/07/12 08:46 PM
1

Yeah..but again, that's not something men (as in, adults), rather than boys (as in children) are expected to do. At least, not as far as I have seen.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 01:09 PM
1

Ooooh. Very true. Nah, it was just a suggestion for the girlfriend part that I thought of because I met my SO at a frat party :p
/r/MensRights18/07/12 01:44 AM
2

Good! I was pretty weirded out by the idea of meeting people online (too much news about people getting kidnapped, etc.) but I actually did find a lot of people with common interests! You can always drop by the frat parties, too..:p Best of luck to you!
/r/MensRights17/07/12 11:50 PM
2

Yeah..to be honest I never really talk to people at the gym either, haha. Most of my friends I met either in class or the dorms. Are you in college? Or perhaps try online? I was using OKCupid for a while to find a workout/sports buddy in my area, and it seemed pretty effective :]
/r/MensRights17/07/12 11:45 PM
10

Well..to be honest, when I hear the word "manly" I think more of being responsible and able to take care of yourself/your family, etc. (basically synonymous with "adult"), not someone who screws around getting high and abusing animals. I had a similar thing in high school where my friends were doing things I wasn't comfortable with, so I ditched them and focused more on school and other activities. Now that I'm in college, I've met a new group of friends that are all mature enough that I don't h…
/r/MensRights17/07/12 11:29 PM
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Er..I think this has more to do with your friends being jackasses than gender roles..I don't know any men who do that kind of stuff. Ditch those losers, and find some mature adults to be friends with; I guarantee you'll be better off. How old are you, out of curiosity?
/r/MensRights17/07/12 11:12 PM
1

I guess I should have been more clear; don't really care about the down votes. It's more the fact that I get attacked for having a female perspective on a male issue. I came to this subreddit because I am a child of divorced parents and was interested in the male perspective on things..unfortunately the mass majority of things here end up being a pissing contest and an anti-feminist/women=bad brigade. Feels bad :/ hha. Thank you for your insights, though. :]
/r/MensRights14/07/12 02:42 AM
1

Yeah, it's possible. I generally post under a different username which is gender-neutral when I'm on this subreddit because otherwise I get flamed..even though I write the same things and have the same opinions. I really need to stop subscribing here.
/r/MensRights14/07/12 01:28 AM
1

..I'm not arguing anything. I never said "OMG ALL WOMYN WOULD DIE B4 BEING RAPED!111". I stated that I, personally, would be unable to live with that happening to me. There's no argument there, just a personal opinion. The fact that you seem to feel the need to attack it just goes to show why I don't speak up in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights13/07/12 08:09 PM
1

I'm not trying to fit a narrative. I'm simply offering a different view point. Anyway, what makes you think I'm lying? The fact that I have an opinion that -gasp- is different from yours? What purpose would I serve by lying, anyway? Oh, right. None.
/r/MensRights13/07/12 07:38 PM
-1

Um..how exactly does it benefit me to say what I actually think? Sorry, I didn't realize a stranger on the internet knew me better than I do. I'm fairly certain I know my own tolerance to things as well as my capacity to live with them a lot better than you ever will.
/r/MensRights13/07/12 06:52 PM
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Well..I'd probably choose to be killed rather than raped, in all honesty. I personally would find sexual assault impossible to live with, so murder would be less heinous from my standpoint. Edit: seriously? Downvotes for being honest? Ok, then.
/r/MensRights13/07/12 07:36 AM
2

I got the impression that the author meant more that the girl in the story was sort of drawn into this, rather than deciding on her own to get into the relationship. At least that's how it was in Twilight, which is what this story is based off of. So perhaps the fact that there isn't really any equality in the relationship at all is why it can be seen as degrading? :x Anyway sometimes (often?) men are the submissive partner so it couldn't all be degrading women :p
/r/MensRights04/07/12 08:33 PM
1

Er..they take the guy's side..so I'm wondering what you're even trying to accomplish with this post.
/r/MensRights03/07/12 07:50 PM
1

Well, sorry, but you didn't have that in your post. The picture you posted by itself is not offensive, but that caption definitely is. Also, it doesn't say "of all women" it says "of women killed", which is true, as others have pointed out.
/r/MensRights29/06/12 11:27 AM
2

...you do realize that contraception is not 100% effective, right? Implying that all women only get pregnant via deceit is simply ridiculous and insulting.
/r/MensRights29/06/12 07:07 AM
8

Not to be rude/dense, but what is it that pisses you off about this? I thought people (not just women) were more likely to be killed by a significant other?
/r/MensRights29/06/12 06:58 AM
-4

I feel sorry for you.
/r/MensRights23/06/12 08:22 PM
-1

To me, women are like scorpions. Its in their nature to sting you. I don't hate the scorpion as I expect it to act the way it does - but I wouldn't pick one up for obvious reasons. You are smart to avoid them. < Seriously? That's a massive generalization and a bitter one at that.
/r/MensRights23/06/12 05:19 PM
2

No worries. My doc filled me in when I got my prescription, haha.
/r/MensRights22/06/12 02:00 AM
7

XX here- just wanted to add that there are even more reasons that we use birth control. They include but aren't limited to: less menstrual flow and cramping fewer ectopic pregnancies (those in a fallopian tube) fewer noncancerous breast growths fewer ovarian cysts reduced risk of cancer of the lining of the uterus and of the ovaries less iron deficiency anemia that results from heavy menses fewer premenstrual symptoms, as well as related headaches and depression protection against osteoporosis —…
/r/MensRights22/06/12 01:40 AM
3

Thanks for this response- you were excellently well-reasoned. I wish I had more up votes for you! :]
/r/MensRights22/06/12 01:34 AM
4

Agreed..exactly how are women the problem, OP?
/r/MensRights13/06/12 11:56 PM
3

openly a whore what?
/r/MensRights05/06/12 04:47 AM
3

The reason for this is that society wants all men to be tied down to a woman, or be punished with heavy child support payments Source? No offense, but you sound extremely paranoid and even deluded in your post. You might consider discussing this with a professional before you make a life altering medical decision. That, and perhaps head over to /r/childfree and have a look around.
/r/MensRights01/06/12 02:52 PM
1

Er..have you listened to rap music lately? Just a thought, but a vast majority of it focuses on the degradation of women, so one song doesn't really show much of anything. Everyone gets the short end of the stick at one time or another.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 02:37 AM
2

How does this relate to mens rights, out of curiosity? This is an example of one awful person..basically a female version of Newt Gingrich, not an example of women as a whole.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 04:21 AM
1

As a child of a single parent, I'd say you're full of it. It depends on the parent, not the marital status.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 10:32 PM
0

Uh..any particular reason?
/r/MensRights25/05/12 08:00 PM
4

Wanting to be single and wanting to have children aren't mutually exclusive..
/r/MensRights25/05/12 07:17 PM
4

No doubt. You might try going to /r/childfree for some more insights; I know they've covered this issue in the past.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 06:38 PM
4

Well, since I've never been a man I can't really say it's worse or better for women. Though any "perpetually single" guys I know are called bachelors, whereas the women are called spinsters :/ Guess it just depends who you hang around with.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:55 PM
16

You really believe it's more acceptable for women to stay single? I guess it's possible..but at least as a man you're mostly free from the "biological clock" argument. When I say I want to remain single/childless as a female, the main reaction I get is that I am somehow not fulfilling my purpose as a "breeder", and that once I hit 25 I'll feel some crazy need to put a baby in my belly, and if not, I fail as a woman/"future mommy". -.- But maybe it just sucks for everyone equally?
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:39 PM
1

Sorry, I meant that they both made the decision, not just him. I just think that, given what he said, the ex is handling the baby like an adult and not making excuses about it. Therefor I don't understand why he keeps whining (which, yes, is what he's doing) about how it was all her fault and he doesn't want his life ruined. I dunno, it just rubs me the wrong way.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 09:42 PM
3

I don't know if that's really the case..though he did say it was her choice to keep the baby, I feel like he made the conscious decision to have unprotected sex, and now he's whining about his problems when he's left his ex to basically go it alone, which makes him quite a scumbag in my eyes. The stringing her along bit just makes it all that much worse :/
/r/MensRights24/05/12 05:36 PM
2

In all honesty, it made no real difference to me what gender it was, I still can't stand the "arguments" :/ Thanks for your perspective :]
/r/MensRights24/05/12 05:34 PM
2

...what
/r/MensRights23/05/12 04:06 AM
7

That's quite the generalization..
/r/MensRights22/05/12 12:19 AM
8

I'm pretty sure it's because she's thirteen, not because she has a vagina. Minors are rarely, if ever, named in these kinds of things due to privacy concerns.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 12:09 AM
6

Noted.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 11:51 PM
9

This title was extremely misleading..you (OP) make it sound as if she ate poison solely to abort the fetus, when in fact she ate it in an attempted suicide.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 07:45 PM
-4

Agreed..I was with the OP up until this point. :/ Edit: down votes for agreeing with something that was up voted..? ok..
/r/MensRights19/05/12 04:58 PM
2

Hence using it to figure out how she feels about splitting the check before going out with her.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 10:08 PM
5

That's..really strange. I would have thought women at that age are put together enough to realize that paying their share doesn't mean the relationship is doomed. Perhaps a dating site? I've tried OKCupid trying to find people at school to hang with and it seemed pretty effective. That way, at least you could filter out the girls who you wouldn't be interested in before you put in any real effort. :]
/r/MensRights11/05/12 05:58 PM
5

If you've never met any girls willing to pay her share of the date, you need to meet more people who know how to act like an adult. :/ Pretty much all the girls I know don't expect the guy to pay for everything. How old are you, anyway (if you don't mind me asking)?
/r/MensRights11/05/12 05:40 PM
3

..only a rapist would be offended by a poster claiming they could be a child rapist? ಠ_ಠ
/r/MensRights10/05/12 11:02 PM
2

My father actually is better at a lot of "feminine" things than my mom is..he's the only dad I know that can braid hair any way we want it :] He's also the one who does a lot of the cooking, since my grandmother taught him before he moved out on his own. Hopefully I pick up some of his skills >.>
/r/MensRights05/05/12 04:59 AM
4

My thoughts exactly.. for some reason people are acting more and more entitled to things regardless of whether or not they do anything to deserve it. :/
/r/MensRights29/04/12 09:47 PM
7

Female here..I'd say you were on target with what you said. I thought at first she was just upset by someone being rude, but it seems more like she expects men to always let her have her way simply because of her gender, which is ludicrous. I don't think she really understands the concept of chivalry, which is based on honor and courteous behavior, and is not exclusive of men behaving towards women. Everyone should be polite and courteous to everyone because it's good behavior; men should not be…
/r/MensRights29/04/12 08:13 PM
2

I have a decent amount of skill in that area..if you would provide a bit more information I could perhaps help you out with this. :]
/r/MensRights23/04/12 06:47 PM
1

...attractiveness drops when having to pay for your own ticket? How on earth does that work?
/r/MensRights12/04/12 01:00 PM
1

Definitely true. :/
/r/MensRights12/04/12 02:01 AM
1

I'm sure that's true for many of us..but to generalize women that way comes off as extremely rude :/ All my friends paid for our own half of the ticket when prom came around (not a big sample, but it's something). :]
/r/MensRights11/04/12 09:17 PM
4

It's a bit unfair of you to say most women won't give an honest answer..as an XX I'd say it's perfectly reasonable for both people to pay for their own tickets.
/r/MensRights11/04/12 03:38 PM
2

Well, you've clearly got your mind made up about this so there's really no point in arguing if you're just going to tell me my opinion is wrong/stupid.
/r/MensRights06/04/12 01:41 AM
2

Why not?
/r/MensRights05/04/12 01:01 PM
2

Clothes-wise, I mean.
/r/MensRights05/04/12 04:21 AM
2

..what on earth are you talking about?
/r/MensRights05/04/12 02:15 AM
3

Well, I'm sorry you feel that way. In my mind the human body is so much more than a sexual thing; it's powerful and strong, which, in my opinion, is what these women are trying to demonstrate.
/r/MensRights04/04/12 06:09 PM
3

I look at the human body as an art form, from an artist's perspective. I don't see it as purely sexual- it's artistic, spiritual, strong, etc. Clothes are often designed to draw attention to the more "attractive" parts of the body, and sexualize them (i.e., women's shirts that draw attention to the breasts). In keeping them covered, it keeps the sexuality in because it makes it seem forbidden. In baring it all, the mystery is taken away and we are left with the pure beauty and strength of the hu…
/r/MensRights04/04/12 06:06 PM
2

Yes..?
/r/MensRights04/04/12 04:21 PM
1

Uh, Muslim women aren't the only ones who cover their bodies. To that extent, perhaps, but we all wear clothes. Again, in taking their clothes off and writing the message on their bodies did more to further their idea, that women aren't objects, but rather humans with their own thoughts, than make themselves into sex objects. But, maybe that's just the way I see it. Agree to disagree :]
/r/MensRights04/04/12 03:00 PM
3

I guess I have a different view point..as an art student, I don't really see the body as purely sexual, but rather as artistic. Seeing naked women doesn't phase me at all, since I draw them for hours each week. Agree to disagree, I guess?
/r/MensRights04/04/12 02:00 PM
2

More like "let's make them visible and take awake the stigma/shame that's always associated with showing them and make them commonplace", which would in fact make them not be objectified.
/r/MensRights04/04/12 06:08 AM
8

The problem is when they want human biology and reality to conform to their expectations of the world while denying their own role. How do you mean? They aren't really objectifying their bodies so much as exercising their freedom (from clothes, in this case) and using their bodies to convey the message that they are, in fact, more than sex objects.
/r/MensRights04/04/12 04:38 AM
2

Wow, I didn't realize the numbers were that close- thanks. I guess maybe whoever started saying the line had more experiences with men being the perpetrators, or something. Hopefully "Tell rapists (not men) not to rape" catches on to more people.
/r/MensRights04/04/12 12:13 AM
3

They're showing themselves in their simplest forms, without anything to enhance their appearances, thus nothing to objectify. Or at least that was my understanding of it.
/r/MensRights04/04/12 12:10 AM
16

Female agency? To me, this is saying that they are proud of their bodies, and that they are not objects. The human body is a beautiful thing deserving of appreciation, and is not something to be ashamed of. In taking their clothes off, they're taking away the ability of men or women to objectify them. What I didn't understand is why you added the "Now look how sexy I am!" when they aren't trying to appear sexual at all.
/r/MensRights04/04/12 12:09 AM
13

..what are you trying to say with this?
/r/MensRights03/04/12 08:20 PM
3

I guess more women have been raped by men than by women, perhaps? I'm not really sure, to be honest, but I agree with your point.
/r/MensRights03/04/12 08:13 PM
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That generally isn't said because women think all men are rapists, though. It's said in response to many of the males who suggest that it's the woman's fault for dressing/acting a certain way (see [here])(http://www.excal.on.ca/news/dont-dress-like-a-slut-toronto-cop/), rather than the rapist's fault for being a rapist. Obviously women can be rapists, too, but there you have it.
/r/MensRights03/04/12 06:04 PM
4

Or he just plays favorites.. :/
/r/MensRights02/04/12 08:55 PM
7

So..because you had a couple bad experiences, you have a negative outlook on ALL women? That's the same as girls being cheated on and deciding all guys are assholes. You can't generalize based on such a small sample.
/r/MensRights29/03/12 07:00 PM
7

I don't really consider myself a feminist..but my personal (female) perspective is actually the opposite. I'd prefer a guy with less experience just because it makes me self conscious when a guy really knows what he's doing and I don't. Then again the guy I just started dating has a lot of experience and doesn't care that I have none, so there's that.. It seems like this would be more of a case-by-case thing rather than a feminist perspective, though.
/r/MensRights29/03/12 06:54 PM
1

That wasn't my intention- I read this subreddit quite a bit (mostly just lurk) and I was curious as to what the male opinion would be on it, as I have seen a lot of discussion about paternal rights, and this sort of goes along with that. As a female I can really see both sides to the argument- I think the father should definitely have a say, but at the end of the day the woman is the one who has to carry the child..:/
/r/MensRights23/03/12 01:45 PM
0

Source?
/r/MensRights11/03/12 08:02 PM
1

I see your point. All I was trying to say is that I feel like this post was more about what people do as adults, whether they be male or female. You could easily say "Girls invent excuses for failure, women produce strategies for success." But, I tend not to take things very personally, so perhaps that's just my own view on this.
/r/MensRights09/02/12 05:14 PM
1

Very true. Though they tend to deal with it much more efficiently than women do, as we seem to have a need to discuss things several times before they can be put to bed. >.>
/r/MensRights09/02/12 05:10 PM
3

Speaking as a woman..this is really silly. My guy friends tend to be the staples in my life simply because girls like drama :/ Though I guess maybe everyone needs friends of the same sex to understand what they're going through sometimes?
/r/MensRights08/02/12 03:46 PM
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My point was that the thing just says what boys do when they're young, and then what they (should) do when they're grown. It wasn't comparing men to women and attempting to show them as inferior.
/r/MensRights07/02/12 09:29 PM
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Am I the only one under the impression that this was an attempt to point out the differences between a child and an adult, not to insult the male gender..? :/
/r/MensRights07/02/12 08:53 PM
3

Very true. I personally can't even begin to imagine what she must have felt living with this, and assuming his guilt was genuine (it seemed to be, however poorly he may have articulated it), he has probably a vast amount of bad feelings about it also. Unfortunately everyone wants to blame someone in this situation :/
/r/MensRights06/02/12 04:07 AM
1

I feel like this guy had almost a laundry list of things he wanted in a partner, though. He even says "I can't help wondering if there is someone out there who has all of her positive traits and is also in shape and an agnostic or atheist." It seems like he's not even sure he wants to be with her, whereas the one that the guy's wife just finds him unattractive is more of an easy fix. (She's still a bit shallow, but I guess you can't help what you're attracted to). Sorry if I'm rambling :/
/r/MensRights06/02/12 04:02 AM
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I thought he sounded sincere for the most part, but I found it extremely irritating that he insinuated she didn't do enough to get him to stop, like saying "no" wasn't enough. Obviously I might have a bit of a different view point as a female, but I thought it was very brave of her to contact him, and very good of him to answer her questions and apologize. Definitely a step in the right direction.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 02:46 AM
3

Your wife sounds like a nutcase.. reading this made me glad my parents' divorce is (now) so amicable :c Good for you for getting it sorted :]
/r/MensRights06/02/12 02:36 AM
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