khidhki97 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
967	Someone teach men how to have an engaging personality!	FDS HUMOR	khidhki97	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/20 04:43 AM
870	Something to send to the “Nice Guy”:	FDS HUMOR	khidhki97	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 03:37 PM
624	Start ostracising men who fail to be decent humans. That’s the only way to make the world safe for girls/women. Don’t excuse friends and family members either.	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	khidhki97	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/20 01:32 PM
38	The ‘Dirty John’ Podcast.	LESSON LEARNED	khidhki97	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 11:08 AM
1	How to Stop Caring About The Male Gaze?	SEEKING ADVICE	khidhki97	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 07:50 PM
1	I feel awkward when a man does pay the bill without even flinching.	SEEKING ADVICE	khidhki97	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 07:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
37	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? It’s easier to neg than to improve oneself. It’s an immediate sign of insecurity and is actually great during the vetting process. People who are insecure in a toxic way can’t help themselves and will often neg others in the first meeting, it usually confirms their inferiority. I mean everyone is insecure about something but people who project their insecurities outward are repulsive af.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 06:25 PM
285	At least the comments were telling him how big of an asshole he is. Alexa, play ‘Cool Girl Monologue’ from Gone Girl. I feel sorry for myself and other women. The paradoxical expectations put on us at the same time are crazy. Be skinny but eat. Be sexy but don’t come across slutty. Be skinny but not that kind of skinny. Be curvy but not that kind of “curvy”. Be fun but be professional. Take all kinds of responsibilities but keep your expectations at the minimum. Be assertive not aggressive. How dare you know less than the men that surround you, moron? How dare y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 08:46 AM
46	"Some women think because they look good, men owe them money" But waiting till after marriage for sex feels like torture to these men, they find it unacceptable and oppressive. And it’s not like they “respect” the women who don’t expect them to pay for dates or anything, they don’t go to their friends and brag about how “financially independent” the girl is. In my last relationship, I would always pay my share but I was also always coerced into having mediocre sex. He found nothing interesting about me other than the sex and would often stop responding to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 04:07 PM
31	DON'T chase a man I realise men, in general, even if you are just friends have a tendency to take up a lot of emotional energy. Like they expect women to fill the void that their shallow male friendships have left. So even though the relationship is platonic they still take time to reply and just lose interest if the conversation isn’t completely about them. I stopped responding to a guy friend who would keep leaving mid-conversation as if I should assume the conversation ends whenever he decides he is done talki…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 07:13 PM