khowabunga Archive

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15	How To Get A Woman To Ask You For Your Phone Number I hate the whole "you must be attractive" argument... its a lazy excuse. Any guy can be attractive. I'm not talking movie star quality.. but certainly more attractive than 80-90%... Have acne? Accutane Skinny or fat? Work out. Eat right. Unsuccessful? Do something about it. Women value potential almost as much as success. Lazy eye? Wear an eye patch or sunglasses. Don't have nice clothes? Get basic clothes that fit... see #2 - most anything will look good if you're fit. Shy / not confident? Work…	/r/seduction	28/06/18 01:41 AM
16	How to get a girl to stop ignoring your texts (I think it was submitted before but Its still good) Have a more meaningful encounter that makes the person want to talk to you / text. If they don't return your texts.. move on to the next girl. There's no magic pill to this...	/r/seduction	27/10/16 12:08 PM
1	I tend to get girls very interested in me in the begging... but somehow attraction is gone after couple of minutes. Or was never there in the first place. Maybe try groveling instead.	/r/seduction	28/08/16 01:19 PM
3	How to hook up w/ girls while commuting to college campus..? Just make an excuse.. you could probably use any number of excuses. If you get her to the point that she wants to sleep with you, she's looking for you to make an excuse to take her back to your place or hers..	/r/seduction	28/08/16 01:16 PM
1	I'd like to hear the thoughts of all of you fellas approaching or past 30 on being single. 32 here. You'll probably find yourself being attractive to less people... But by no means not attractive to all. You sound exactly like me from your post / comments. 30s are amazing - esp being fit, successful, attractive, with money to spend. It's especially easy in a big city. 18 yr olds will still want to jump you (though less and less as you age) and you'll literally have your pick of any older women. I wanted to stay single for a while, doing what you are doing (dating a ton of diff women a…	/r/seduction	27/09/15 03:33 PM
2	[FR] she flirted with another guy on our date So lets take a step back: She deliberately mentioned you while talking to another dude... That should qualm any questions you have. She wanted to make sure the other guy knew she was taken. She wasn't showing off her social skills.. she was talking to another human being.. Christ, stop over analyzing everything. You're good man, sounds like shes super into you. Ball is in your court. Don't fuck it up by being jealous and misinterpreting every little thing. Be confident and have fun with her. Fuc…	/r/seduction	24/09/15 04:52 PM
14	[FR] she flirted with another guy on our date Sounds like you're insecure. It doesn't seem (from what you described) that she was overtly flirting. Who cares. She's clearly into you. Going down this jealous path will only make you less attractive. Why are texting other people during a date...?	/r/seduction	24/09/15 02:58 PM
9	13 Things Confident People DON'T Do (Watch this if you're shy/nervous) Huh? Waste 20 minutes listen to a person talk on a subject I don't care too much about when I can get someone to type up the synopsis? That my friend is efficiency, not a lack of confidence....	/r/seduction	04/02/15 06:17 PM
61	13 Things Confident People DON'T Do (Watch this if you're shy/nervous) TLDR?	/r/seduction	03/02/15 08:04 PM
1	Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub. Man, people have written books on answering this question. To put it simply in a short reply: Have great inner game. (Google this to see what I mean) Be a fun and interesting person. Conversation wise: Body language. Active listening. Solid eye contact. Triangle looking. Seductive stare / grin. Hate the word, but kino is HUGE if you're looking to escalate to sex. Not big pointers here except keep it natural and not forced. I just kind of do it now on reflex.. Read how to win friends and influenc…	/r/seduction	01/08/14 05:30 AM
5	Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub. How to act? Dude, be yourself. Do what you want, what makes you happy. Stop worrying about what a random girl thinks. You can compromise when you're in a relationship.	/r/seduction	31/07/14 02:50 AM
7	Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub. Just stop caring. If a girl doesn't respond the way you want... There are tons more. If you can't stop caring with a stranger over text, you've got bigger issues to work out.	/r/seduction	31/07/14 01:47 AM
4	Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub. Could be anything. Do you live in a densely populated area? What kind of pictures are you posting? Are you attractive? (this last one is the most important on tinder). I chat very little on tinder. Maybe one or two quips, then get the number. Don't want to bother with more effort than that. Getting laid isn't a guarantee either if that's what you're looking for, you have to have good game in person ( I abhor that word though ). It's absurdly easy though. She isn't with friends like at a bar wher…	/r/seduction	31/07/14 12:46 AM
4	Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub. Ironic. Just got your email about online dating.	/r/seduction	30/07/14 10:58 PM
5	Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub. Bingo. Tinder makes it frighteningly easy to get laid. Now that the "having sex with attractive women" part of the seduction equation no longer matters, I can approach women much more easily with the mindset of "Yeah, you're hot, so what?" Before, my AA and confidence were leaps different than they are now. Think of it as... You have better options if you get blown out from some random.	/r/seduction	30/07/14 10:51 PM
3	[FR] First FR - Easy night out 2 #-close 1-K close (bar games and trick to entertain a set + easy kino tricks) My thoughts exactly. Might be real... it's all about demographics and setting though too. You might be able to get away from that at a college party, rave, or low end bar where people aren't trying to look good. Or hell, maybe in a set with high energy already (but I feel like this is a huge risk / low reward game). You try that shit in a higher end bar, club, or hell any event where a girl is dressed to impress - you'll be that asshole who drew on her arm that she has to spend 10 mins in the ba…	/r/seduction	02/03/14 06:48 PM
18	[FR] First FR - Easy night out 2 #-close 1-K close (bar games and trick to entertain a set + easy kino tricks) Impressive. You ever get resistance from girls when you try to draw on their arms? Seems like something that would turn a girl off fairly quickly early in a set like that.	/r/seduction	02/03/14 12:25 PM
19	The downward spiral of being single for too long (inner game). I'm coming to realize this. Im 30 with one failed marriage, a couple serious girlfriends, and who knows how many randoms to finally realize that you make your own happiness. Don't go looking for it in others. Easy enough to say, hard enough to actually believe. I finally realized this when I started staying in when friends wanted to drink and pick up women because, hell I'd rather just read. Or when a set of hot girls deliberately position themselves next to me with sideways glances and I don't …	/r/seduction	12/01/14 07:01 PM