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2	Escalating on a coffee date Because unless we also specifically want to get laid, it’s a turn off and it won’t get you laid. That’s it. Edit because this might not be clear enough. You can (maybe) get laid once if the other person wants a one night stand if you don’t risk chasing them away. Or you can get a girlfriend and get laid a lot. Which do you prefer I guess?	/r/seduction	25/10/20 05:49 PM
2	Escalating on a coffee date There are two pieces of advice I think might help. First is to not make your goal ‘getting laid’, but instead to build a relationship. The second is to not be as negative as the guy I responded to. When meeting up with a woman, unless she was specific about also only wanting a one night stand, she is considering entering a relationship with you. This is the time to test it out. To begin any relationship, it starts with talking to each other. Find similar interests and hobbies to talk about. Talk…	/r/seduction	25/10/20 04:02 PM
1	Escalating on a coffee date Speaking as a woman, you sound like you must get laid a lot /s Don’t be a jerk. If your only goal is to get laid you’re doing it wrong and women will be able to tell from a mile away.	/r/seduction	25/10/20 02:31 PM
2	Escalating on a coffee date Get your coffee to go and walk around a park or the neighborhood. That way you can talk about things you see, so there’s less likely to be a lull in the conversation. You can always stop somewhere for a snack too	/r/seduction	25/10/20 02:30 PM
1	How To Talk To Hot Women Without Coming Off As A Creep As a woman myself who just found this sub and has been reading a lot of it: PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS. WE ARE PEOPLE TOO.	/r/seduction	25/10/20 02:22 PM
1	Slightly different approach I like the question but only for the directness of it. It’s too easy for people to misunderstand what ‘getting dinner’ is. This is a nice direct way of letting the other people know your intent. I wouldn’t agree with the fact that you’re more likely to get a date because it’s harder for her to say she’s busy. That seems sort of manipulative and creepy to be honest. If you ask someone out to dinner and they say that they’re busy, it’s a VERY nice way of them declining so they don’t have to say to…	/r/seduction	25/10/20 02:18 PM
2	Women treat me like I'm not even there, why? Do you have any hobbies you’re passionate about? And I mean it can be any hobby, from playing Magic the Gathering to beekeeping. If the answer is no, go figure out what it is you like to do. Do you like hiking in the woods or are indoor activities more your thing? Playing video games? D&D? Making music? Discover what it is that you love and that you’re passionate about and it will become so much easier to make friends and develop relationships. Once you find something you love, look for clubs ab…	/r/seduction	25/10/20 02:04 PM

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