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Red Pill Theorykhxddr/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 09:02 AM
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khxddr/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:26 AM
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You only liked him when he was successful and undefeated. Branchswinging slut Why the hell is everyone piling on OP in this thread? He said: If i'm feeling so amped up for something i'm not even involved in their [sic] must be something missing from my own life. This is 100% correct. That it took a major defeat for him to come to this conclusion is not all that interesting. Personally, I've never been super invested into sports, but on the occasions that I did watch I eventually noticed that I w…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 03:40 AM
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You're ignoring the obvious option: she doesn't know anything about you, but likes TRP so much herself that she's trying to bring it up.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 09:09 AM
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They tell me if I worked I could be the best I tell them why would I want to work harder if I'm already above average. What? I understand if you're referring to yourself as a kid, but you almost sound like you still believe this. If you're happy with being "above average" and don't want to work hard, why are you posting in TRP?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 10:34 AM
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Education level doesn't mean anything. In my experience, it just means they're good at remembering stuff. Many are unbelievably stupid under the surface. I'm not disagreeing with your general point, though. I find your idea interesting.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 08:29 AM
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Run, do not walk. Yeah, and on top of that he should lose the extra weight so he can attract a normal woman. Who cares if she can afford a personal trainer? That's no excuse for him to be fat.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 06:22 PM
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I agree. This sub fetishizes entrepreneurship way too much. You could be incredibly skilled and still end up with nothing. The percentages are nowhere near 80/20, like with women. They're much, much worse. Most people will end up miserable if they go down that path just because of red pill ideals rather than having a genuinely good business plan. And even then it probably won't make you rich. Trying to become Zuckerberg is like trying to become an NFL quarterback.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:44 PM
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they are constantly looking for that new, exciting stimulation The emphasis placed on "new" really hits the nail on the head. I used to know a woman who had traveled maybe half as much as I have, yet she seemed to look down on me because I'd actually go back to my favorite places. She thought it made me boring.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 02:09 PM
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I hope this does gain popularity, at least for a while. It's going to be hilarious when someone scrapes the ratings and the progressives backing this discover that blacks are rating lower than everyone else. Prepare your popcorn.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:05 PM
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It really, really depends on the circumstances. The OP's thread is getting a bit derailed by all these posts offering good advice. It's clearly not a good idea to return to defend your kayak after you've already escaped. His wording in the post was unfortunate.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 08:00 AM
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No, that could have been good too. The real reason it started to suck in season three is that they changed the main characters rather than raising the quality of their opponents. Instead of Frank failing due to insurmountable challenges, he starts failing because he turns into a moron who lets his wife pull the strings. Then, after Claire's emotional bullshit ruins everything, at the end of the season he finally snaps and hits her. I initially cheered, because I thought it signaled the old ruthl…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 07:57 PM
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A lot of girls just go out for dinner and a few drinks. You're right, I generalized too much. I was only thinking about a certain kind of party. (Note that you're actually quoting the person I was responding to, though.)
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 09:06 PM
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A lot of girls just go out for dinner and a few drinks. You're right, I generalized too much. I was only thinking about a certain kind of party. (Note that you're actually quoting the person I was responding to, though.)
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 09:06 PM
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While I’m sure most men know their cock size, what men are strolling around with an accurate measurement of his girth? I do. I spent decades thinking I couldn't be conceited enough to need extra large condoms. I finally did some research, and now I'm sitting here facepalming about how much more comfortable everything would've been. So yes, you should measure your girth. Just not so you can give it to this chick. (And I'm not trying to brag, I just needed something slightly larger)
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 09:00 PM
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If you marry and let your wife have a bachelor party (emphasis on the party) you've lost already. No kidding. Disregarding the original OP for a while, this comment from the thread is preposterous even out of context: I actually think it's really important for the bride and groom to stay the hell out of each other's parties. The entire point of the party is that it's a last night where you don't have to answer to anyone. No, bitch. The last night where you didn't have to answer to anyone was bef…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 06:48 AM
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Don't know why you thought I was disagreeing with you. I started that paragraph with "I've had about the same experience as you".
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 08:11 AM
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Maybe due to my "betaness" I always thought sex should be a little more than humping and leaving. So I always made the effort to talk a little bit with these women and to know a few of their motivations and what made them tick. The only beta thing about that is that you think it's how sex "should be". It has nothing to do with the sex. If you enjoy having conversations, then you have them. I also like talking, and escorts are better at it. I hate talking to women at bars. If I go home with a gir…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:04 PM
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This is also the one Bond film where he's supposed to be a rookie. An amazing rookie, yes, but not infallible. You can't look at it that way. And the girl was being extorted.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 01:46 PM
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There is some idiot who posted a TIFU today which involved him showering gasp...without a bathing suit on at a public swimming facility in the mens changing room. I read that and wanted to punch everyone involved. The poster for thinking that being naked in a shower is a fuck up, the teacher for looking disapproving, and the kids' parents for apparently sheltering them from locker rooms. The next generation is going to be so fucking beta it'll make our generation look like Genghis Khan.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:08 PM
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Have you ever heard of nudist colonies? I understand this is different, but lets remember that colonies of naked people raise families together with the purpose of removing current cultural notions of nudity. I kinda agree with you, but not entirely. I do think America's obsession with sexualizing any kind of nudity is creepy and damaging. The thought that some parents would manage to avoid having their kids ever see them naked is mind boggling to me. And it's certainly going to warp kids' views…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:53 PM
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Their inability to appeal to logic and listen to argument makes my blood boil. I don't know how he remains so patient with those two cunts. Yeah, Jesus. This part especially: M: Women on average work less F: Are you saying *I* work less? M: No, you're not average. F: He's trying to flatter me to deflect my argument! The entire conversation was like a live demo of how hard it is to deal with women. Like 10% of the audience might realize it, though.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 07:36 PM
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See my point? While idealistic, the coffee shop thing is boring and not conducive to having a good time. I get what you're saying, but at the same time, that's not how I feel. To me, what's boring is being in an environment where the music is so loud I can't have a conversation. I realize not everyone is like me, but I've never understood why such a large portion of the population seems to need alcohol and hyperactive sensory stimuli to have fun. If I wanted to be mean, I'd actually say the ones…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 08:07 PM
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Go to/make the right environment: has alcohol at night, other girls hooking up I think I've said this before, but what bothers me most about the CC is not n-count, but the way they do it. I could respect a girl who says she just likes sex. But no, they all have to do it in the most contrived and unsafe way possible. If it were up to me, one night stands could be had by going to some quiet cafe and having actual conversations with people. 99% of girls seem to be fixated on the pattern of getting …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:48 AM
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The root of SJW logic is the following: 1) Every person and every culture has equal ability 2) Therefore, success can only be explained by people doing something unfair/shady. Attributing it to anything else would necessarily conflict with #1. 3) Conversely, the failure of self-destructive people and backwards cultures can only be explained by discrimination. Attributing it to anything else would likewise conflict with #1. 4) Thus, the SJW will invariably end up championing failed behavioral pat…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:33 PM
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It's not just about that. IMO they're actually creep shaming him. I don't see why we should be on his side. That letter is the rejection equivalent of showing up under her window to serenade her, and his writing makes him sound like a 14 year old who likes English class a bit too much. "I'm a man... With all the red hot lusts of a man and all the failings of a man and I'm sure of my own body and its needs. Please try and forgive me." I'm going to vomit. That said, this shouldn't make an adult cr…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 12:16 PM
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The few women who do compete are going to get super special treatment and training - they'll just zoom through to the top. I've already seen this myself on a lower level. I graduated some years ago in a bad economy, and one of my less competent female friends was getting job offers left and right from large IT consulting firms. She later quit because she couldn't handle the stress. It was infuriating and it took me years to reach the pay level she got as a recent graduate. Pay gap my ass (she st…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:25 AM
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I find it very telling she says he's TRYING to be like a gorilla, not BEING like a gorilla. She's projecting and assuming he'd also put on a show for effect rather than simply being calm most of the time and then showing anger when it's real.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:55 PM
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You're right, if it's done just economically. A necessary first step is to start giving higher social status to mothers that sacrifice their careers for a few years, rather than telling women that status is earned at work (like men). They will respond to that. Men have a different set of issues that's equally solvable.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:07 PM
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Correlation =/= causality. Economic factors are the strongest drivers of birthrate. Importing immigrants keeps wages low for the benefit of large employers; it is NOT for the benefit of average citizens. The root cause doesn't actually matter, because it's feminism that's preventing us from solving it. You can't have a discussion about how to get educated, secular women to have more babies when you're instantly interrupted by someone claiming you want to force women to stay in the kitchen. You r…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:30 PM
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Surprise surprise the fertility rate drop more or less corresponds to the explosion of Feminism in the 60's and 70's. I'm currently watching the documentary, and of course they get to a point where they lament the fact that men don't want to get married now that the sexual revolution means they can get sex without having families. So close to the truth... yet so far away. If sex used to be the only reason for wanting to get married, then it was a sham the whole time. The real problem is marriage…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:26 PM
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The hypocrisy doesn't even matter. She forced him into a situation where he had to say he's not attracted to the friend. The only polite choice for him is to not even discuss the topic, which she denied him. His attraction is not dependent on whether the ham has legitimate medical issues, and to suggest otherwise is female entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:01 PM
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Did I say there was anything wrong with her changing her mind? You're assuming shit. Your post sounded pretty bitter, but ok. And if it's not about your history, aren't you basically just asking "I'm not going to have an LTR with this branch swinger, please internet tell me if I should want to do her though"? Cause she deserves to be treated like any other girl I've just met? I know this girl's dark side, how ruthless she can be, so I just have to open up and act like a little bitch and preempti…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:01 AM
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Now, keep in mind, in high school, this bitch destroyed my confidence, made me look like a fool to some of my friends by telling them I was needy and obsessed, but now, 8 years later, she's dumping her boyfriend to set up a drunk branch swing on St. Patrick's day. So you're basically mad at her for telling you the truth 8 years ago. And you also think it's wrong she's changed her mind about you now that you're actually attractive! Stop holding a grudge and treat her like you'd treat anyone else.…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:40 AM
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I've actually started thinking about whether I should lie about my job and make it sound worse than it is.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:39 PM
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On a recent date that went nowhere, I got a woman to admit she did sleep with someone just a few months ago, but "he was super fit and fucking everybody". Yeah, ok...
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 06:52 PM
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What bothers me here is the parenthetically enclosed phrase: playing cards (sort of). They were playing strip poker. Seriously though, the MIL is a gigantic drama whore, the wife doesn't respect her husband, and the husband is too spineless to tell her that having drunk men over isn't acceptable even if there's no fucking.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 06:48 PM
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How do you know he keeps his home in order? Because it was five dishes, not a sink full of moldy pots. I guess he could be lying, though! if I came home from a day of work and my wife left dishes in the sink and food out, I'd be pissed. So collecting dishes during the day and doing them all at once in the evening isn't ok in your book? And to the extent that you'd be pissed? Are you OP's girlfriend? It's not like he put the dishes in the sink and food on the counter and sat down to play a video …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:46 PM
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Idk you or your relationship, but why should she apologize to a man who had an entire day to himself yet still couldn't install a door handle or clean up after himself. You want her to be operating at a standard you don't seem to be reaching yourself. What the fuck? Who are you to tell him he can't have five dishes in the sink or some leftover pizza on the table? Why does he need to install a doorknob on this exact day? OP, I've seen this behavior before. It's not enough that you keep your house…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:25 PM
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Get your religions straight. It's fairly obvious that OP is Muslim. No shit? It's an expression. Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 09:13 PM
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I figured. Just wanted to make sure you now have.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:31 PM
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Did you actually read his examples? She has bad boundaries because she took off her headscarf somewhere and lost her virginity to him.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:13 PM
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EDIT: details of breaking boundaries includes, sometimes taking off her religious headscarf in certain areas or places, dating me without her parents knowing (big no no), and having sex with me, losing her virginity for me (biggest no no). I'm not going to try to change your opinion, but I'm also not politically correct enough to pretend that I support your judging her for taking off her headscarf. I don't know if my attitude on this is "red pill", but I don't care. There's "traditional gender r…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:03 PM
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Hah, this article doesn't devote one sentence to trying to understand men's needs. The number of college-educated women now outweighs the number of college-educated men, which in turn has diminished options in the dating pool. Men aren’t ready to accept being second in the bread-winning competition and this is causing women to either settle or stay single. Christ, I never used to have a problem with the thought of earning less - until I observed how women behave in such a situation. Now, I indee…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 08:01 AM
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There's another difference too. Usually if I tell a girl to wear less makeup, it's because she's doing it excessively. Or I've already seen her without and genuinely think she's better naturally. I don't say it to girls with zits and pretend it's universally good advice.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:43 AM
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Yeah, it doesn't really concern me anyway. If you enjoy it, that's good enough. I just pictured myself getting a sponge bath in bed and it didn't sound nice.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 07:12 PM
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Locking the door on you is not a shit test. It's a red flag. And it is not red pill to write "of" instead of "have" six times in one post.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 06:03 AM
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I don't quite understand this post. If you're well enough to go to work, you're not sick enough to want a sponge bath. How does that even help you? Take a 10 second shower and then have her massage you. But yes, I've noticed that many people believe men don't deserve loving care when they're sick. Wanting help makes you less manly, so you deserve ridicule instead. Maybe you've got a "man flu" etc. Some people would say that the problem is that you've set your expectations based on how your mom t…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:44 PM
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a part of me respects the women who recognise their assets and use them to get by This is pretty much how I feel. I don't particularly like all those comments shitting on her. There's a difference between a crackwhore and a high class escort. I refuse to look down on someone who can probably make three times my salary (which is not small). At that point I genuinely don't care how much bukkake she's taken. That said, that reasoning evaluates her like a man, not a woman. There are several red flag…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:51 PM
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Do you talk to the other girls like this? I'm sincerely telling you that you sound like a whiner. Ha, thanks for being sincere. But no, I don't. I obscured the conversation before posting, and now that you mention it I made myself sound really negative :D Her lines are pretty accurate, though. I'm just not used to women being anywhere close to this forward.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 08:09 AM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP22/01/15 06:45 AM
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Yeah, I guess that's the smart thing to do.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:35 AM
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Yes. She's attractive enough. My gut just tells me something's going on.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:38 AM
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Can confirm. I matched with a woman whose first photo hid her obesity on Tinder, and felt repulsed when she messaged me. I wasn't able to have a neutral reaction (didn't take it out on her, of course).
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 12:20 AM
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I'm a man, and want to point something out. I'm perfectly willing to remain calm, collected and supportive. In fact, I want to do it. I was, however, very disappointed in my ex girlfriend when she just took that for granted without offering anything in return. There's a good chance he's rattled too, and while you shouldn't need to be his rock, you can still do things that you know make him feel good + show appreciation. I'm not saying you don't. This was just not covered in your post.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/15 02:02 AM
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This is an obvious virtue. I don't agree. Spending recklessly is obviously disastrous, but I wouldn't want to be with a girl who wants to get on a bus instead of flying. That's not just frugal, she's too ashamed of her money to live comfortably. She's trying to find the opposite of "private jet" instead of the middle ground. If this isn't about the environment, her emotions are controlling her spending - it's just in the opposite direction than usual. Red flag. Try to figure out whether you'll g…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 01:29 AM
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Are you trying to say you couldn't have banged her like at least three times before getting to the wine?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:16 PM
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"Next!" Given the nature of this sub, I thought this was the end of the story until I realized there was more text.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:32 PM
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This is a rationalization. Superscribing morals onto sexual politics in this way prioritizes females wants (feelings) over males wants (sexual satisfaction), and that is the fundamental problem with all blue pill behaviours. You are not responsible for ensuring she makes sound relationship decisions I agree with this to a certain extent, but not entirely. If she sleeps with you and gets emotionally hurt, that's all on her. HOWEVER, if she's so messed up she starts crying after sex, I don't under…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:44 PM
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Its sad how predictable these things become. You wouldn't even believe how predictable. Just during that one date, I already found out girl 2 has at least two orbiters. One of them was fixing her car, got upset about her driving skills, and bought her chocolate to apologize for getting upset. He basically paid her to get to fix her car. I laughed at her and she let me fuck her. Don't think I could've gotten that far without TRP, btw. I'm pretty new here, so thanks, guys.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:26 PM
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Yeah I don't understand why being alpha should mean you can't be subtle. Giving someone a list of sex tests is not sexy. Just find things you can gauge her reactions on. Not everyone will grab your hand and put it back on their throat, but the next one might smile a bit too much when you walk past her and pat her ass firmly... You can eventually be direct. Once she'd shown me she liked choking, I waited until we finished and then directly asked her if she likes spanking too. (She did)
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:39 AM
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When you're fucking her from behind and fondling her breasts, let your hand wander around a bigger area. Eventually caress her throat swiftly, but not abruptly. Don't stay there, because if she doesn't like it, it becomes really uncomfortable. Last time I did this, the girl grabbed my hand and put it right back on her throat. If you mean signals before sex, I have no clue. I'd like to get tips myself. Also, be careful. If she likes it, but you do it incorrectly, it's fucking dangerous for her.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:42 AM
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I'll use some recent dates as examples. 1) One minute into the date, I failed to maintain frame just because I started explaining my taste in beers after she said something weird about only drinking wine herself. She was ok, but I wasn't enjoying myself enough to want to improve my game. 2) The girl was really easy to talk to, and I had a great time. She was low on IOI:s and even gave me accidental LMR, but I just pushed through it because we were both having fun. Once I got her to my apartment,…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:49 AM
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Yup. It's actually what bothers me most about the CC. I don't think I'd really have trouble respecting an intelligent girl who just loves sex, but they all seem to expect it to happen in an alcohol-fueled environment full of bad decisions and questionable men. After I've noticed them taking the wrong kind of interest in me, I've asked several wall-hitting women why they're so intent on being celibate while looking for beta bucks. The usual answer has been that if they want sex, they can just go …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:44 PM
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Damn, that's harsh. Here's a feeling-based mistake I made last month that I won't repeat. It's nowhere near as convoluted as yours, but sends the same message. Went on a date with a divorced single mom. (I know, I know. But I was pretty sure she was DTF.) Then she says she doesn't want anything serious, because she's still messed up from the divorce, and she especially doesn't want to get emotionally involved. So I'm thinking "ka-ching!!" and basically tell her I'm also hurting after a relations…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:08 PM
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Sounds like an actual physical problem or a genuine mental block. I wouldn't jump straight to dread game. In fact, I'd say it's downright cruel towards someone battling a medical issue. You can still leave her for real, of course, if you're not satisfied with the relationship. Don't let anyone guilt you into staying in an unhappy relationship. (Let's say someone gets cancer and starts treating you like shit. So what if she got cancer - she can still be nice if she wants your support.) The part a…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 12:17 PM
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You're getting downvoted because it's visible everywhere if you start paying attention. Here's a good start: http://www.theguardian.com/uk/2009/may/07/muslims-britain-france-germany-homosexuality "None of the 500 British Muslims interviewed believed that homosexual acts were morally acceptable." Notice that even when they say French muslims are more tolerant than British muslims, that really just means French muslims are less conservative, not that they're actually open minded.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:11 AM
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Fuck academia. Bad money to bullshit ratio. I once had the following argument with a future PhD: Me: X is a really harmful part of that guy's culture P: You can't say that, you need to be objective. Me: What? I'm saying it's objectively bad. P: No, we must refrain from passing judgment. Me: WTF? P: [Lots of bullshit about remaining "objective"] Me: You realize we're not writing a paper, right? In the real world, we have to judge what's bad and what's good. Plus, even as an academic, once you've …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:05 AM
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using people's suffering to further their particular agenda Even worse, if we were to actually stand up for the values they claim to uphold, they'd be more than happy to attack us for being racist. And the world slowly but surely becomes a less tolerant place.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:10 PM
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The Rotherham bit is especially galling. It's all fun and games shit testing college boys, but when it's time to call out real rape culture they stay silent so their multiculturalist friends can't one up them on tolerance. I don't give a shit about radical muslims or even the rape gangs. They're an insignificant minority. But the fact that the average third world immigrant gets to spread atrocious values unopposed terrifies me. Why aren't all the RP-hating feminists shitting their pants over inc…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:20 PM
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What we need is an intelligent and capable woman who is able to give another viewpoint on things, provide sound advice, and willing to follow us when we lead. The only problem is that far too many women are willing to give that viewpoint, provided that sound advice, but are unwilling to follow where we lead. Related to this, I think feminism is behind a lot of this bitchy behavior. I've met women who seem like they'd be happier letting someone else lead, but something else in their heads tells t…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:25 AM
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It’s Not Fear Of Rejection, It’s Fear Of Punishment This is something I've been thinking about a lot lately. A while ago, I said "hey, you've dyed your hair" to a woman at work and she complained about me to my boss. He didn't really seem to think I'd been offensive, but her behavior was validated and I was left with the impression that it's my job to make sure I don't make others uncomfortable. Worse, I found out she'd already badmouthed me to the other women before she talked to my boss. A man…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:18 PM
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