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This is extremely true. I've been the woman in the scenario and the guy ended up actually leaving his wife before anything happened but in different circumstances I believe he would have just cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:18 PM
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Uh to be frank I'm just normal poly/ENM... I like variety. I'm also bisexual. I don't think I've ever wanted monogamy, or marriage. What I don't like is dishonesty. To me it's not about finding "the best" man, there is no best, there are simply many different men with many different things they can bring (in terms of looks, vibe, personality, skills, and so on). Same with women. I disclose that I see multiple people the very moment I become involved with someone else. I tell my partners everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:55 AM
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So basically a lot of people are non-monogamous but lying to themselves... truly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:48 AM
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Isn't that most men? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:25 PM
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I think I would much rather have a child with a man who's already a (good) parent for these exact reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:21 PM
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My current partner has admitted to this, he did it some months before we started seeing each other (we were colleagues)... I thought it was hot. I'm also an exhibitionist, so take what I say with a grain of salt. Most women would find it odd I suppose? I really don't care if random dudes jerk it to my pictures, I would rather just NOT know unless we are very close (like in this case, he's a partner).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:04 PM
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Because people are in monogamous relationships and use other forms of birth control (if desired)...? It's really that simple. Also, people get tested before removing condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:53 AM
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Basically they're saying that they find male sexuality repulsive and degrading... well well well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:58 PM
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I've never been more approached than as a tourist in Europe. Maybe it's just the North American culture that discourages that? In France/Switzerland, men will approach women everywhere (even to the point of annoyance). That's been my experience at least and I'm average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:08 PM
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Oh I mean I'm doing both. I'm also 25 and don't see myself being in a monogamous long term relationship at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:18 AM
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I don't think it's healthy to center someone else 24/7 in any kind of relationship including a parent-child one, so much less a romantic relationship. I genuinely don't understand how that's supposed to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:55 AM
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I have had very bad sexual experiences before (of the "r" kind if you get my meaning) and reclaiming my sexuality and having good/fun experiences both with more serious partners and with casual ones, has been one of the most healing experiences in my sexual life so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:50 AM
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I think there's a general aversion towards bisexual people by "monosexual" people (don't know whether it's a thing but basically gays, lesbians, heteros) because lesbians have been rejecting me (bisexual female) for very similar reasons. They cannot get over the fact that I have been with men, think I will cheat and think I want to sleep with everyone all the time (I do have a high libido and am into some wild stuff but sex is not everything either). I've had almost no luck with lesbians as a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:43 AM
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A lot of men engage in bisexual behaviors (aka sleeping with men or "fooling around" with men) while not identifying as bisexual, whereas women are more likely to identify as bisexual at the first sign of sexual attraction to women despite not necessarily engaging in bisexual behaviors. This is of course amplified by society's stigma around male bisexuality. IMO it's very sad. My stance is that I would love to date a bi man. Did you know that a lot of lesbians reject me for being bi too ? For th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:36 AM
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I totally get that! Honestly if I ever go down that route it's probably going to be OnlyFans or something similar and not physical sex work. I hope you can see though that lots of women actually enjoy or even prefer that type of work to sitting 8 hours in front of a computer or putting on a fake smile to talk to people you don't give a crap about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:46 AM
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I don't think it's okay either, my point was just that as someone who did it for years out of people pleasing, it's really not the end of the world either. Like I go to work everyday while I profoundly hate my job and find it boring/unrewarding as heck. If I could sleep with a dude and get 1k for 1 hour of fun I would actually much rather do that, if there was absolutely no stigma attached to it. I could sleep with a few men here and there and make a better salary then what I currently make (65k…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:40 AM
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That's the whole point of sex work though. I was once offered 1k to sleep with a man that I found attractive. He was married, which is what made me hesitate more. In the ended I ended up declining the offer, but 1k for a bit of maybe not the best sex ever would have been great. If he had respected my boundaries all throughout I'm certain I would have enjoyed it. I have willingly slept with people I wasn't that attracted to because of people pleasing, so making money out of it is actually way bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:33 AM
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If I have to be pregnant and birth the child you bet your ass it would carry my genes. Otherwise let's just adopt please. (I am on the fence about wanting kids, I think I would mostly be okay being a stepmom - my current partner has two kids and frankly I do not see myself raising a third eventually, two is enough).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:38 AM
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Hey sis sometimes they're pushing 40 and "don't know what they want". Luckily I know exactly what I want and it happens to be non-monogamy so I have a lot of luck. Most of the men who say they want something serious/committed/monogamous are lying and seem relieved when I tell them I don't care if they see other people. 🙄 Some of them only admitted it when I said I am poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:14 PM
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So will you simply pull a Leo Dicaprio and bail from the relationship once the woman ages too much and then find "new blood" to replace her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:53 AM
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I don't think straight women are attracted to butch women or pre-everything trans men generally and I fail to see where that's a controversial statement, regardless of whether they actually thought "he" passed. A man can be outwardly masculine (have a beard, an Adam's apple, a lower pitched voice, among other things) and yet exhibit feminine traits - that is typically what is desired, not an androgynous-looking person which seems to be what you think the female gaze is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:18 PM
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I would not date her either (I'm bi). I can't police random people's favorite porn though... I don't actively think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:30 PM
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I'm an out and proud bisexual. Never had a problem dating straight men, casually or long term. I've been sexually abused and it had absolutely nothing to do with my sexuality, just so happened that I met abusers. 🤷‍♀️ The fact that my dad was similar probably didn't help, it could have normalized some of that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:08 PM
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I've never done any of that shit and still get plenty of dates honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:57 AM
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I mean any type including CNC, I just hate that shit. Anything that depicts rape, real or imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:37 AM
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The only thing that really irks me is ''noncon'' content. As a SA victim, it's an absolute NO from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:39 PM
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Anything "noncon" would make me want to drop the guy instantly as a SA victim. It grosses me the heck out to even think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:52 PM
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I mean obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:39 PM
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I'm bisexual and would 100% date a bi man. Hell I would love a MMF threesome. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:26 PM
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And you think women in the 1990s were kind to butches ? Butches get treated like men oftentimes dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:45 PM
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I'm bipolar and I know I have put some people through a LOT because of it. The irritability/random bursts of rage (not necessarily directed at anyone), the psychoses, the apathic depressive states, the impulsivity... I'm currently on medical leave, trying to get better and get on mood stabilizers. I have always taken accountability for my actions and even if my condition can explain my behaviors, I strongly believe it doesn't fully excuse them. I am doing my best to remove myself from situations…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:44 PM
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I know some trans men who are in long-term relationships with women (whether they're straight or not is not known to me) and one in particular who got with multiple very hot women. He got engaged recently. He is my tattoo artist and he's very kind, funny, down-to-earth, not overly feminine nor overly masculine. If I hadn't known him before, I would never have guessed - he passes more than other trans men I know. The only thing is his voice is less deep than a typical male voice, however that can…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:23 PM
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I very much doubt this woman was passing 100% as a man if she had no hormone replacement therapy or surgical interventions. Her voice and speech patterns might have been very much of a give away. The likely explanation here is that the straight women sensed something was ''off'' but couldn't exactly tell what... and obviously straight women aren't attracted to females. I will counter this example by saying that males who are able to express positive qualities associated with both sexes tend to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:00 PM
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There are lots of debates around Anakin among Star Wars fans. Personally I love what they did with the character.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:00 PM
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That's actually good info to know. Thank you for taking the time to tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:37 PM
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Anakin is freaking dope. It wasn't a diss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:11 PM
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Well that's the thing, though, I don't know them specifically unless you talk about pleasure being reduced during sex (aka the most obvious one).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:31 PM
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With Anakin as a profile pic your comment makes so much sense. I'm really not doubting some women are like that... honestly I know I am not. My male partners have always been just as emotional as I am or even more emotional than me in some cases and I fully welcome it. It doesn't make a man weak to cry or to talk about his problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:30 PM
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I guess it doesn't matter exactly where it comes from... she would have a point though, patriarchy is not great to men either, far from it from my point of view. It's just that it benefits certain highly specific groups of men, not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:33 PM
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We agree on that 100%. I am against sexist women just as much as sexist men. I call out women who are against men being themselves if being themselves means not being 100% in charge and manly all the time (i.e. men crying/opening up, men liking feminine interests, men dressing more feminine, etc). Like sis please he's a human being just like you cut him some slack. What turns her off in the sexual sense can hardly be changed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:27 PM
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And how the fuck do you propose I do that ? I could ask you to please make your gender stop raping and beating us too, but I won't because that would be in bad faith. See how you sound ? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:16 PM
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Some women are indeed allergic to anything that makes a man "not alpha" such as being vulnerable or being bisexual, you do have a point there. And I think that's bullshit and those women are part of the problem and perpetuate outdated patriarchal ideals. Shame on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:04 PM
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Show me where... in real life I only see women advocating for men being more vulnerable and seeking help with their mental health for instance. Body positivity for men would be great too. I'm not doubting it happens sometimes in some circles though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:34 PM
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Wait what ? I've never even commented on your physique, but I think you look just fine if you really need to hear it. I think you got me confused with someone else who insulted your looks. That's not at all something I would do, even if you were actually ugly which you ain't imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:54 AM
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It's still a morally dubious one to admit to. I'm not even the most pressed about cheating and even I think it's a weird thing to flex about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:29 AM
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From my experience a lot of men don't care much about male-specific issues and don't advocate for them as openly as women do for their own issues. I consider myself a feminist in the sense that I advocate for women's rights, and I'm 100% against male circumcision in most circumstances (i.e. non-medical ones) and believe it's an outdated religious practice, but I don't think I as a woman should be talking about the downsides of being circumcized and all as I am not the one experiencing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:18 AM
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Wait men don't measure their penises ??? I for sure thought most men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:35 AM
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You cannot be saying this in good faith. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:33 PM
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Pretty much all men are stronger than me, what are you even on about ? Have you ever heard of sexual dimorphism ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:19 PM
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Warning : my comment is pretty graphic. I've been in that exact scenario, the ''not a morning sex person'' one, and the guy just decided that it didn't matter and he wanted it NOW, so he put it in while I was still dry as fuck, so not only did it hurt a lot, but it hurt a lot for 10 minutes (the time it took for him to come) and I couldn't do anything because he was way stronger than me. So imagine being pinned down by a man way stronger than you that penetrates your butthole without any prep wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:24 PM
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That too!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:43 PM
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A lot of women settle for subpar sex and shit behavior, and to be frank I wouldn't say it's any better than settling for looks. Like boo fucking hoo, you banged a 5/10. Do you want a medal for that, champ ? Just move on. Newsflash, most men suck at sex, even the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:48 PM
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That's your problem right there. You need to unpack why settling for something that scars you mentally is an option you're choosing right now. By the way, women do this too. Maybe everyone would be better off finding partners they're actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:36 PM
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I mean the very act of being a degrading porn-brained jackass in bed makes a man undesirable even if he looks like Chad. I've got severe trauma related to sex and I could NEVER be with someone violent in bed, ever. Not only would he turn me off, he would repulse me, no matter his looks. Violence makes me want to flee the moment I see early signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:17 AM
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I mean honestly good for you if you can find women who are okay with that ! I could never 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:39 PM
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Interesting ! I guess you would be best paired off with a woman that does not like to be eaten out at all. Personally I couldn't imagine anything long-term if I didn't get reciprocation in oral sex. I love giving, and receiving too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:25 PM
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I'm curious... do you expect women to give head to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:02 PM
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Something like 90% of people have a form of herpes so... she very well could have had it, probably not HSV-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:52 PM
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There are so many different possibilities besides ''one night stand'' and ''committed monogamous long-term relationship''. Personally I enjoy casual relationships where we have sex but also go on dates, have sleepovers and generally care about one another as human beings, without exclusivity or expectations for the future. It's hard for me to desire the mechanical aspect of sex without something else. I'm also non-monogamous and enjoy atypical sexual relationships from time to time (threesomes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:26 AM
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I guess this is all fair. What most women are trying to say is that they will be satisfied with like 95% of men (i.e. those who fall within a little below to a little above average) in terms of penis size alone. I've seen way more women being turned off by uncut dicks (that I myself prefer lol) than penis size, for aesthetic purposes...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:13 PM
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Some women don't care, that's very true and I doubt she was lying about herself not caring. Personally I care a lot about it, like way more than most physical things on a man. I would rather date a man with a hair system than a man who's bald, and I feel like most men would tend to agree with me regarding bald women. I care about height yes, but I have dated a man who was 5'6" and I'm 5'5" (so pretty much the same height), I care about penis size in the sense that I don't want a micropeen or a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:40 PM
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I don't want men with six packs though, like genuinely. None of my partners have ever had them, and I am not looking for a man with one. As long as he's 5'9'' and up, 5-6 inches for the dick and has HAIR on his head, then we're good. Hair is more important to me than almost any other criteria now that I think of it. And of course don't be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:19 PM
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The cool thing is that vaginas can be made to be tighter with specific pelvic floor exercises if it's a concern, whereas I doubt a man could make his dick bigger with exercises... or if he could all men would be doing it. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:56 AM
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How are you blue pilled ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:15 PM
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Uhhh honestly I'm into casual dating but I enjoy going on dates and when the men pay for said dates (which happens most of the time especially for first dates) and put actual effort into it. I don't think I would regularly fuck someone and not go on dates with them. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:27 PM
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Maybe some of us would like a partner that brings in a similar amount of money in the relationship. I don't think it's a crazy expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:26 PM
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Unless the man and I had an actual thing going on, no I wouldn't feel jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:50 AM
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He's had a shorter relationship with a 26 year old as well. I mean he is good-looking for his age, and well-groomed, plus he has a great sense of style. (But yes he treats me very well and he doesn't mind if I ''look elsewhere'' too and will respect if I want to end the relationship to have children although he has said that we could have one of our own if I want to settle down with him at some point - it's a somewhat complicated dynamic but it works for me at this point in my life where I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:36 AM
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It's unfortunately more common than you might think. I've been a girl in high school, visibly looking under 18, and was constantly hit on by much older men. A lot of women have had the same experiences. A lot of us have dated an adult when we were teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:36 PM
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I mean if let's say men 30+ years old target high school age girls that's problematic as fuck. I hope we can at the very least agree on that. Age ain't just some random number. It doesn't appear that you specifically targeted your partner for her age, so it doesn't apply here and I'm not sure why you would defend those that do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:26 PM
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I'm a 25 year old who is seeing a man who's 41 and as someone who is currently living the dynamic of an age gap relationship I feel like my input is particularly relevant here. We've been seeing each other for around 9 months now, and it is going quite well apart from a few minor issues (which pretty much everyone has at some point). I will preface this by saying that this relationship has been the healthiest I've ever been in and I have rarely been respected on such a level from a partner befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:14 PM
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Have you tried having phone calls and conversations in person ? I am terrible at texting and will have dry conversations over text but be much more interesting in person or over the phone. It sucks for the "talking stage" but I usually give out my number quickly if I'm truly interested to connect in a more meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:36 PM
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Well my answer is that some of us know that we would make terrible parents, so we intentionally try not to go down that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:37 AM
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Good for you, it seems like you're in the minority though. You are assuming that most people would be good parents, which is... wildly inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:22 AM
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I've always felt bad in encounters where there was absolutely no emotional connection... however it doesn't mean that I need to be "in love" to have sex with someone, it just means we need to connect on some level beyond the physical realm, be it intellectually, emotionally or in another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:09 PM
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Yes I'm perfectly fine. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:25 PM
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I'm not attracted to severely mentally ill people, does that make me ableist ? I'm also not attracted to people over 60, does that make me ageist ? I'm not attracted to overweight people, does that make me fatphobic ? 🙄 I could go on and on. I guess I should be attracted to basically everyone because I'm bi. Except, that's not how attraction works. I am in fact not attracted to everyone. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:54 AM
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That's the kind of thing you keep to yourself. Honestly most people will be attracted to people of their own race the most, since it's what's familiar to most people. Also, plenty of countries are pretty homogenous in terms of races. It's only in melting pots that this has become an "issue". The people I date/don't date have no correlation with whom I respect/don't respect because dating is about sexual preferences and long term compatibility, not virtue signaling. Preferences are inherently sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:30 AM
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A lot of the free erotica you can find on the web is fanfiction, and fanfiction has always been a thing that typically appeals to women and queer people, ever since the late 60s when Kirk/Spock became a thing and fan zines popped up. Look up the history of fanfiction if you want to learn more about it, I don't think I'd be the best person to explain it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:21 PM
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I'm going with a medium popcorn to share and some sour candy !
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:42 PM
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I mean all the men I've been with have said the same about me aka they know full well I'm no model and they love me just the way I am and value my personality too. Isn't that what you are looking for in a girlfriend/wife, a looksmatch that is decently attractive to you and shares values/goals/interests ? Am I supposed to lie to the men I'm with and tell them they're just as attractive as, say, Chris Hemsworth ? 'Cause I'm no Scarlett Johansson either 😂 I'm an average woman looking for average me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:10 PM
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IDK man, a 10 with a shit personality is gonna be in the "hook-up" category which I am not interested in at this point in my life. I am looking for men in the "boyfriend/marriage" category, which implies a personality that meshes well with mine coupled with a decent, but nowhere near perfect, physique. Since I am aware of the flaws I possess I try to be accommodating of the physical flaws of others, and when I truly like someone those flaws become endearing little quirks. For example the man I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:19 PM
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Yeah, most people are "looksmatched" with a few exceptions here and there so in theory about 50% of couples would be below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:10 PM
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Most men think my preferences are bullshit. 😅 I like skinny men with veiny arms and hands. I don't like big chests at all, or big arms. I do like a beard, but it has to be super neat and short. I don't mind if men aren't super masculine. Style plays a HUGE part in my attraction and I tend to prefer men who dress well, with suits and all (preferrably colorful ones).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:07 PM
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Great choices, especially Harrison Ford 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:02 PM
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Honestly I've hated all of the hook-ups I've had. They weren't even top tier physically, I just wanted affection/sex at the moment and ended up regretting sleeping with them so soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:01 PM
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I fear that ''making this a real thing'' would be too much too soon. What you want is to simply ask if she'd be down for something low stakes like going for a drink or going for coffee sometime soon, for example this weekend. If she says yes, chances are she'll want to go to dinner next time, and you can take it from there. If she says no, ask if she'd prefer something else (which she might), and if she says no to that too... welllllll you have your answer. Are you texting her on social media ? …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:54 PM
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I'm down to hear it. Seems like you're looking for ways to make it more serious ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:55 PM
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The stereotypes about bi women are slightly different and mostly centered around promiscuity. Straight men also find it ''hot'' to imagine two women together, which is way more common and normalized (see all the F/F porn categories). Some women also find the idea of two men together quite hot, but it's more of a fantasy whereas men would like to live out that fantasy and have an actual FMF threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:52 PM
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I think it ultimately has to do with finding them more feminine. or more likely to cheat or more likely to be promiscuous - I'm not saying bi men are like that, but those are the stereotypes. Some women are turned off by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:36 PM
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I have to say that your username is very fitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:42 PM
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