ki0diattributi Archive

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1	Would you be ok if your SO asked for nude pictures or would this strain the relationship? lucky man	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 03:43 PM
1	CMV: When a woman wants an “open marriage” or “open relationship” it’s based on a subconscious desire to see if she can find a better mate Its possible that you are making it too much about you, in the way you look at the problem. Feelings of inferiority. "Better than" or "worse than". The crux of things may lie elsewhere. A slightly less passionate, slightly more birds-eye-view might help. These words - better, worse, inferior - can magnetize our minds, feeding deep subconscious fears about not being enough. There are very few situations in life that present such a sheer and gob-smacking affront to our concept of self-worth, as be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/18 11:04 PM
1	Can an Alpha get tired of spinning plates and want a LTR or was he always a beta? I concur. That category has apparently been thoroughly discredited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/18 04:25 PM
2	What is the biggest issue in your opinion that's leading to the fractured relationship between men and women in the modern dating world. Each of our viewpoints is anchored to a very specific, special part of reality that is unique to us. If you see male/female dynamics in terms of brokenness, dissatisfaction, and conflict-ridden relationships - its because its reflecting a part of your mind that already wants to see the world this way. Each of us is viewing a very, very tiny piece of reality - and generalizing up from there. Like generalizing for example about 'women' when we have only seriously dated 5 women - this is just an ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/18 08:00 PM
1	Why losers always lose, or why we should accept the tallest as our benevolent overlords This to me is the conclusion necessarily reached by someone who is not connected much to their heart or their Spirit. People inveigled by this viewpoint may not even believe in the existence of heart or spirit, much less their primary importance. These two things I have named are the main determinants of human life. In these things we are all equal. We are in fact different faces of one Being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/18 02:38 AM
8	Does making men wait for sex leave only desperate betas? Ideally you are building a connection to a person that goes deeper than "sex". Its all about how interested the man is in you as a person. Does he want to hear you talk about your job? Or is that not interesting to him? Does he want to hear you talk about your struggles? or is that not interesting to him? Does he want to spend time doing your hobbies with you, or talking about them, or is that not interesting to him? Does he want to go places with you? These are the things that will make a perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 07:51 PM
5	Does making men wait for sex leave only desperate betas? What constitutes a super awesome and interesting girl? i would say that people on a similar wavelength, but with slightly opposed characteristics, tend to find each other interesting. One thing is for sure, no two men will agree on what girl is interesting. Even if you think someone is a really incredible alpha female, most men would not at all be interested in her. So its very specific. Connections are more specific than people often realize. And its just finding that guy who sees you in that l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 07:39 PM
3	Does making men wait for sex leave only desperate betas? Basically you have a blindspot, or several. Over time, you learn what that blindspot is, and how you are contributing to the 'pump and dump' phenomenon. What you are assuming, projecting, what you are putting out there - and what thoughts within you prompt you to do so. You are not seeing the people you date clearly. With time and effort, you will upgrade the realism of your method of relating, so that eventually you can be with someone who will have a sustained interest in you, rather than a fl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 07:29 PM
1	Why We Pick Difficult Partners Yeah it will be an interesting test of the theory. It will make the truth or falsity of it glaringly obvious to everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/18 04:13 AM
1	Why We Pick Difficult Partners I believe in reincarnation, so I think we have a mind and soul that persist through time. This mind can receive and play with an idea in one lifetime, be profoundly impacted by it, and wake up in the next lifetime, wanting to explore and re-examine this same idea. If you see a bias within the mind whose origin cannot be traced to childhood, it may be pre-existing within that mind, prior to its incarnation here. Similarly, many of our childhood events are unconsciously 'staged' by these biases, s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/18 03:30 AM
1	Being a Chad isn't really that impressive Whoever feels he is inferior, needs a person who is superior. Its part of the story. Its the only way the story makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 07:51 PM
3	The Drain-Circling of RP Dating Fascinating. It was many years ago and he has never apologized for all the cruel words. I think you may be past the point of needing or seeking consolation, but let me offer one, however strange it may be, coming from me and not the man who you knew... The women who "threw themselves at me" are, for me, the source of tremendously cherished memories and a deep, deep teaching about the power the love. In my next life I'd like to be their servant or, if I was worthy, a loved one; they are basically…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/18 10:53 PM
4	The Drain-Circling of RP Dating If a person doesn't mingle enough in society that he has to reject interested women, that itself indicates a rejection of society as a whole on the part of that man. Women will find you and express interest in you, regardless of who you are, where you are, or what the situation is. If not now, give it 5 years. Most of these acute problems are temporary in a man's life and the person will not resemble their younger self very much after 10 or 15 years. Life changes you. (But thats no consolation t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/18 10:07 PM
5	The Drain-Circling of RP Dating Thank you! I had to circle this drain for 10+ years to be able to write it! Everything turns out well in the end, though. ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/18 08:07 PM
16	The Drain-Circling of RP Dating I love the lack of judgment in your post. My perspective is kind of unaffiliated, its only mine.. former RP man, ditched it many years ago.. RedPill is a very special thing, even though it elicits contempt. Its a time in a man's life, or a phase in the life of a certain kind of man, who is really going through some difficulty in his perception of relationships, and how he views them. Going through a growing phase, that he will emerge from, with a different viewpoint. It may take 3 months, or 30 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/18 07:02 PM