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the average person is fucking a lot fewer partners than you think they are… actual promiscuity is at the lowest rate it’s been in decades, and the average american adult fucks 1-2 people a year and under 10 in their entire lifetime euphoria is fiction, it’s not real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:53 PM
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There is only the illusion of varied taste; blond Chad, vs emo Chad, vs Chad with glasses, etc. ur telling me that gerard way, jeff goldblum, and dwayne johnson are all the same physical 'type'? word
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:14 PM
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who you are matters a whole lot, look at short king martin scorsese of course in that sense who you are is closely related to what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:24 PM
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please finish the story i need more fanfiction in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:48 AM
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i don't think you can really compare entering the workforce in 2010 to entering the workforce in 1965 lol, just compare salaries against the cost of a house and an education and you'll see what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:07 PM
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Tennessee Bill sounds like a real tough character
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:27 PM
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I would not buy Margot Robbie dinner. She's not only a movie star, but a rising Hollywood producer. I make good money, but she's very, very wealthy – I would split the check, but would not offer to pay for an expensive dinner. I'm also not a Hollywood star or anything. But whatever, I assume if she wants to get dinner with em she knows what she's getting into. If I take a grad student out to dinner, I will offer to take the check unless she absolutely insists otherwise. I make more money than a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:51 PM
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gj u discovered pragmatism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:12 AM
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the double negative makes for a confusing sentence construction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:09 PM
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"undatable" and "late bloomer" are contradictory terms. a late bloomer is by definition at least datable, or else you can hardly say they've "bloomed"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:21 AM
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[Brad Pitt] is not hot anymore lmao, imagine thinking this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:16 AM
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cross out "doing chores" and put in "having to clean up after someone all the time". And it starts to seem a little less crazy how "having to clean up after someone all the time" would have an effect on that part of the relationship. As another commenter mentioned, it's about resentment. You'll grow to resent someone you have to clean up after all the time, and you're less inclined to fuck someone you resent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:04 PM
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"blue pill" isn't an ideology, it's just normal people. nothing to vent about let the incels blow their load, it's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:18 PM
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u watch urself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:39 AM
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this is missing the point? I'm 5'11" and wouldn't want to date someone who found me unattractive because of my height, but I'm 5'11" so not a lot of women are going to have any issue there. but if you're a shorter guy and lots of women discount you based on height, i can see how it would be frustrating.... it's not that these guys want to date a woman who judges them by their height, it's that judging by height is so commonplace and they're losing out for something they have no biological contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:25 AM
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Hillary supporters and "the left" are not the same thing. If you're talking about the "ranks of the left" you're talking about DSA, the Sanders and Warren campaigns, Justice Democrats, and other activists But if we're talking about Hillary vs Trump, Trump won men by about 10 points. That's a lot for the sake of an election, but the demographic reality there ends up pretty close to 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:03 PM
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And the left wonders why men aren't joining their ranks. Except this isn't the case at all? Every leftist organization I've run into is predominately male and white, and actively preoccupied with how they can become more diverse and welcoming to women. The biggest leftist stereotypes are Bernie Bros and Chapo dirtbags, and that's not without reason. I don't think what you're saying here is in line with the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:44 PM
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If ur gay than yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:13 AM
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Something like 40% of millennial now have at least one tattoo - it’s mainstream. It doesn’t say anything about who they are as a person. So is debt and not being a virgin lol. 80% of millennials have at least some debt, and over 90% have had at least one sexual partner. That brings OP's dating pool down to 1% of the population, and that's before you add any other factors to the mix. Me, I'd rather have somebody who's smart, honest, and has a compatible personality. Hell, I'm vain enough to throw…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:37 AM
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This would explain the CS majors I knew in college who partied but still had time to party, exercise, get involved in clubs, and hang out
/r/seduction28/11/17 12:11 AM
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Specifically educated women who consider themselves too smart for the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:19 PM
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Pennsylvania ain't the Midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:39 PM
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have condoms don't have a fucking twin bed you're an adult no stack of dirty dishes on the bed don't live at home hopefully have at least 2 beers, shitty vodka and stale OJ or something on hand don't fuck it up ok, you already brought this girl home
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:33 AM
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If you're moving to a new city, I would even encourage not worrying much about girls for a while, and focusing instead on building up a circle of friends. I moved to NYC 1.5 years ago, and one of the biggest mistakes I made was diving headfirst into the dating game: lining up multiple first dates a week for a while and eventually getting into a couple semi-serious relationships. Things went well on the dating front, but I didn't end up with very many dude friends, something I'm working on now. I…
/r/seduction18/09/16 01:38 PM
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No. You can't have your cake and eat it. You can easily look at the other side of the fence. Those idiots that spent all their time in frat parties and never bothered to learn anything useful in college are probably all asking if they can ever recover and turn his career around. Did we go to college in the same universe? I know a TON of guys doing competitive, moneymaker coursework (engineering, cs, comm school, pre med) who still had time to party and kill it with the ladies. If you are spendin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 12:27 PM
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It's 2016, Pope just came out as contraception 'not absolute evil'
/r/seduction26/02/16 06:55 PM
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R u engaged yet
/r/seduction26/02/16 01:33 PM
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Who bro. Ur not gonna get engaged via snapchat. Try for meet irl 1st
/r/seduction26/02/16 02:12 AM
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Why does everything have to be a value judgment? The fact that I stopped counting after ten seems way more significant to you than it does to me, for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 05:48 PM
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I think we're making huge sweeping judgments here? I know people who keep a documented list of the people they've fucked. On the other hand, guys like me and the poster above stop counting after ten. Is that so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 02:08 PM
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Sensitive man =/= nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 01:48 AM
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You mean this Roosh? I find his multiple documented rapes particularly troubling: The first of the very many girls that Roosh V describes raping: "While walking to my place, I realized how dead drunk she was. In America, having sex with her would have been rape, since she legally couldn’t give her consent. I was sober, but I can’t say I cared or even hesitated. I won’t rationalize my actions, but having sex is what I do." The second: "I got down her bra and panties, but she kept saying, “No ! No…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 06:49 PM
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What they want. They say they want nice guys, and then sleep with asshole. They say height doesn't matter, and then they reject anyone under 6'0. They say looks don't matter, and then becomes disgusted when a fat smelly neckbeard approaches them. They claim to want personality, and they sleep with men just as vapid as they are. Never heard a woman say any of these things lol But I guess I'm a reasonably tall man who shaves and showers Aka white Jesús
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 04:20 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:32 AM
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flabberghasting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 12:33 PM
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Lift
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 02:00 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 02:27 PM
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Lol you're being ridiculous. But yes this is one tack you can switch to after calling on people to refute some dude's angry rambling got you nowhere Emotional statements are generally fine, they just don't always call for a response or argument. And yes, I'm generally more sympathetic to emotional statements that I agree with, and so are you. It's just the statements I agree with generally don't involve misogyny or some dude crying about how hard it is to have a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 01:53 PM
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The guy's making an emotional statement, not a rational one. There is nothing to refute. He projects selfishness onto her because she's a woman, and follows that with his own misgivings about being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 01:40 PM
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... this is just a dude spewing ridiculous vitriol and doesn't really need to be refuted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 12:37 PM
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Also don't take AWALT literally. It's a TRP maxim used to generalize misogyny. I don't think you can just dismiss it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 02:45 AM
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nice one GLO u lynch dat strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 04:12 AM
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This is a sublime misinterpretation of European politics
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:57 AM
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Fuck 50 new people and fucking new people won't be that fun or exciting ymmv I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:20 AM
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Anyone arguing a lack of great female writers is out to lose. Elizabeth Bishop is widely regarded as the best recent poet, but then there's classic writers like Woolf, Austen, Emily Dickinson, Gertrude Stein etc. And uh the most successful writer of all time is a certain British woman with mo money than the queen It's also bizarre to ask for women with 100+ year old financial legacies or jazz composers when women have had restricted financial power until recently, and jazz has been out of style …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 12:25 PM
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This. TRP uses the bullshit 'anger phase' excuse to cover an awful litany of nonsensical misogynist horseshit that gets posted and upvoted, often by long-term posters and endorsed contributors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 12:16 PM
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It did to me too, until I realized how many of my own friends were either monogamous or just not getting laid that much -- nearly all except a handful of guys
/r/seduction04/09/14 12:38 PM
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The average American man bangs like 6 chicks in his lifetime, I think it's easy to develop a distorted perspective about how much sex everyone else is having, though. But seriously, it's worth looking up studies just so you can realize that even in college the average dude bangs like 1-2 girls a year
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:01 AM
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Do you live in the south or Midwest? I'm curious because it's hard to tell whether this traditional setup is simply an acquired ideal of yours or something you actively experience. I live in the Midwest and spent 5 of the past 10 years in the south. So go ahead and tell me all about how people fuck & live round here. It's hard to generalize mainstream perspectives, but as a general rule, we treat women like people, not children or dogs. Read up on your terp. The red pill is itself an ideological…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 11:29 PM
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Again, it depends on whether we're talking about the subreddit or about mainstream western sexuality, which TRP often v describes as 'blue pill' in contrast to the v red pill ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 06:21 PM
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The subreddit itself is a response to /r/theredpill. RP and mainstream western sex attitudes are at odds. Most people reject the red pill. Yours is a very circular logic. Technically RP is just a rejection of BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 03:39 PM
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Blue Pill is not an ideology - like it or not, it's the mainstream attitude towards sex, as characterized by the Red Pill. Red Pill is perfectly ideological, as are some forms of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 01:34 PM
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RP works for RP relationships, but A.) Having been there, I'm not interested in strictly RP relationships and B.) The drivel in /r/theredpill vastly outnumbers the good advice. I see way more blatant fantasies, overinflated sexual anxieties, and needless misogyny over there than constructive content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:59 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 03:34 AM
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NYTimes and the Atlantic have both run multiple pieces on the subject, I'm sure I've seen other outlets talk about it also but can't recall which off the top of my head though. Haven't seen it on TV news, but I don't watch TV news and it tends to focus on current events rather than broader issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 12:58 PM
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New question: would you marry a wealthy, muscular 6'9" manbeast with a Ferrari who works on Wall St if he was an abusive, hateful piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 09:14 PM
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RedPill is ideological in nature. You have to radically change your perspective for any of its ideas to make sense. For instance, a 'bluepiller' wouldn't even necessarily think in terms of alpha/beta, wouldn't adopt the hamster/betabux/etc lingo outside of joking on the RedPill. To begin thinking RedPill, you have to accept a set of ideas (specifically about women: women are childish, women are irrational, women are mostly motivated by dick and money) that necessarily distance you from others. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 02:00 AM
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Not sure this is a good comparison
/r/seduction02/04/14 06:14 PM
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I'm not sure the 'college' movement is that significant - there was a slight uptick in the 2000s, and now it's just gone back to where it was in the 90s, which is still higher than it has been
/r/seduction01/07/13 01:31 PM
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No more downvotes! I am aghast at my mistake
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:44 PM
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I'm guessing it was nothing special, or else he would have mentioned it. Probably some combination of 'hey'/'how's it goin'/'you have a wonderful smile'/'saw you lookin at me'/'we should hang out sometime'/'what's your number'. Seduction isn't all pick up lines or even all conversation, and as long as your confident, you can actually succeed with pretty mundane conversation. OP probably chose to focus on the pre-conversation because from his side (and it's his report) that is the crucial part. T…
/r/seduction24/06/13 07:35 PM
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Well they both tried to fuck him
/r/seduction08/04/13 12:53 PM
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Now if only I could have sex with myself
/r/seduction03/08/12 09:19 PM
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More or less the same thing I posted above (to AnUnknown) but - I've been initiating also, we both have. A little trouble reading, but to clarify, also trouble writing if that makes any sense. I make my moves (which have worked for me in the past) and her responses generally aren't good or bad but inconsistent.
/r/seduction27/01/12 11:40 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I guess the question I'm asking though is how to go forward with things if she doesn't respond to basic escalation but still seems interested. It's really not a matter of overthinking things here; it's a bit of being unable to move forward physically in most situations (and she's an exception here - still seems interested but doesn't typically respond will to kino ie after some basic escalation I put my arm around her but she doesn't lean into me, kinda hard to describe bu…
/r/seduction27/01/12 11:38 PM
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Have you considered yet that she might actually have a boyfriend? Look, I won't deny it's possible she just wasn't interested. But I actually think it's likely the case she was being honest, does have a serious boyfriend, and isn't interested in other prospects.
/r/seduction07/12/11 12:25 AM
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The other thing is that to give you have to have. I don't know. Social value works a lot like karma. By giving it out you get back more than you had before.
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:33 PM
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I'm not arguing for giving up jargon; what I'm saying is that Sedditors should be careful not to go overboard. Spelling out 'bait hook reel release' is the sort of thing I'm talking about, because BHRR is not commonly known, even around here (as far as I know).
/r/seduction24/07/11 02:19 PM
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I don't mind using jargon and abbreviations for some things, but there is a point where it's all too much. Common terms are okay, but there's a problem when you abbreviate everything making the subreddit significantly harder to comprehend for people who aren't big into it. I've had this place frontpage'd for a long time and I still don't recognize at least a quarter of the terms in the glossary without looking there. It's way easier to just write things out, and it makes things so much more read…
/r/seduction23/07/11 10:52 PM
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I will say that although I know PUA, this is the most jargon-heavy subreddit I've been to and it's pretty typical for me to see a random combination of letters and have to look it up. It'd help to spell some of these out sometimes.
/r/seduction23/07/11 05:21 PM
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This... She should properly introduce you. Otherwise, you can always pull the "So, how do you two know each other?" to quote an earlier poster.
/r/seduction23/05/11 04:39 AM
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This... She should properly introduce you. Otherwise, you can always pull the "So, how do you two know each other?" to quote an earlier poster.
/r/seduction23/05/11 04:13 AM
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This... She should properly introduce you. Otherwise, you can always pull the "So, how do you two know each other?" to quote an earlier poster.
/r/seduction23/05/11 04:13 AM
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Different theory: if it's on the dance floor, why aren't they dancing, not talking? I'll interact with a girl on the dance floor, but it's usually too loud for me to actually talk with a girl at all. I've used text on a phone before with girls I've been dancing with, but that's different.
/r/seduction23/05/11 03:55 AM
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True but even then, a lot of his insights into relationships are dead-on in my experience.
/r/seduction12/04/11 02:57 PM
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Honor is an abstract ("existing only in the mind") concept created by men. It's not strictly speaking 'real', which is why someone who doesn't understand it simply isn't going to in the same way.
/r/seduction12/04/11 02:52 PM
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cocks. dead giveaway
/r/seduction23/03/11 08:12 AM
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This. It should be obvious from the "Even friends do this for each other" line but I guess not. Get the fucking 'I'm not buying drinks' shit out of your head because sometimes it's nice to buy drinks for friends. They'll probably hit you back. Point being there's a world of difference between buying some random girl you just met a drink out of nowhere and buying someone you know (a friend) a drink and expecting them to hit you back. Really. I understand the point of not buying girls drinks out o…
/r/seduction27/02/11 10:11 PM
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He realized what was happening the entire time and was basically expecting it, but went along with it because he was having a good time. Maybe she'll call him back, but either way he had a good experience.
/r/seduction30/01/11 10:05 PM
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These are some bullshit downvotes. If you have something to say, say it to someone's face.
/r/seduction09/01/11 09:31 PM
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definitely had to hit 'context' when I got this in my inbox
/r/seduction07/01/11 02:36 AM
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GFTOW?
/r/seduction06/01/11 10:46 PM
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the microphone is (subconsciously?) sexy
/r/seduction04/08/10 07:40 AM
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