kidcodien Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Women Don't care about your sex life Sounds like you just had a conversation with a girl you have been friend zoned by (ie, you're not actually friends) in order to get some sympathy, and it failed, because she might have seen some potential in you at some point, but now you have ruined it by being whiny, and she is totally bored and frustrated by you. Next time, spend $500 taking a sweet vacation and having fun, rather than trying to buy your way into a girls pants.	/r/seduction	08/10/15 07:28 AM
1	How do I get out of a continuous curse of the friend zone 1) You never would have broken up their relationship, get over yourself. 2) Stop caring so damn much, go make out with one of her friends, if you are actually her friend I'm sure she will put in a good word for you. 3) You probably aren't actually her friend, you are some annoying dude who keeps sending questions marks every 20 minues after she ignores your message on facebook. Stop being a creep. 4) Read the guides BEFORE posting	/r/seduction	08/07/15 12:56 AM
1	Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now... Nice work dude, 14 approaches in a night is some solid effort. Dont feel shitty, just laugh about it, it wasn't your night, go do it again tomorrow. Just remember, the best way to come off as not a creep, is to look like you are having fun, and not thinking about what you are doing, big smile, big body language. Clear intentions. Good work, and good luck for next time.	/r/seduction	12/01/15 08:52 AM
1	KINO: putting her legs over yours while sitting? What does this mean? works better on a couch where she is sort of lying over you, pretty comfortable way to chill and watch a movie. Usually I just scooch up close and put a hand behind her knee an she gets the idea.	/r/seduction	11/01/15 09:10 AM
1	Shit Test: Girl tries to friendzone me subtly This whole shit tests thing does my fucken head in. OP: You are too emotionally invested for a second date, she can see this, she's suggesting that you need to reign it inm relax and have fun with her, she can probably smell your nervous disposition. How I would have responded. her: "haha you're funny. it's good to have a fun friend" Me: "haha, you're not bad yourself bro. But favour for a friend, could you hook me up with (name one of her friends, pick the one she the most obvious rivelry with,…	/r/seduction	11/01/15 08:10 AM
1	I couldnt kiss her...need advice for kiss closes Kino here kino there? When walking between places (back to the train station) were you holding hands, or did you have your arm around her etc? I think you may be underestimating the level of escalation required for a first date kiss. I've used the mystery method tactic only once, with a girl a few years older than me who was an outspoken (as well as respected and published) feminist. And it worked like a charm, incidentally this aligns with the Mark Manson theory of honesty and vulnerability. So…	/r/seduction	18/12/14 09:14 AM
1	Does being friends with a girl(s) group of friends help to get her? In my experience if you are actually friends (have good conversations, they dont think you're a creep, feel comfortable about telling you about their lovelife etc) then that girl is probably your GREATEST POSSIBLE ALLY. I've gotten laid simply by telling a female friend that I thought one of her friends was hot, she passed it on and the one I was after initiated everything. So theres that. tl;dr: If you're into seduction you should start friendzoning girls who have a large social group, it pays …	/r/seduction	15/12/14 11:11 AM
3	The Second Date and the bigger dilemma poor girl waited for 4 hours and you didn't even kiss her good night? You just friend zoned her, and she feels like crap. Call her, dont txt, say you want to thank her properly for sticking with you in the waiting room. And ask when you can next catch up, kiss her as soon as you see her this time. She's losing attraction because you are not ESCALATING	/r/seduction	14/12/14 12:49 AM
1	In need of some help. How you should handle it depends on the specific case. Low value girls who NEED you for something will usually agree to date fairly early on with a direct approach to the subject. However this, in my experiance, leads to a relationship where she the girl is more likely to needy and clingy. However, if you are dealing with a high value woman then it will probably be to your advantage to play it a bit cooler, my golden rule is that a girl will agree to being in a relationship if she is has already…	/r/seduction	24/01/14 09:09 PM
3	Handling orbiters when they are your friends? I liked her, but knew she wanted a relationship, which wasn't going to be coming from me, I dont do the exclusive thing. They both liked each other and I knew they would be good together. Now they are both happy and in a loving relationship. And I'm still fucking other girls, whats wrong with that?	/r/seduction	23/11/13 09:33 PM
4	Handling orbiters when they are your friends? Set up a situation and hook them up, Its gonna fucking kill you for a little bit, but it will leave you forever one step further from one-itis, and maybe it will make them both happier. Hooked my best friend up with my fwb, they have just had their first child and are still 2 of the most important people in my life. Let it go man.	/r/seduction	23/11/13 07:01 AM
3	Help, hindering myself, intimidating females too much. Dont rely on them approaching you. If they are intimidated by your value you just need to approach them and prove yourself friendly. Unless you are mis-representing the situation here it sounds like you are just rusty. Start with short approaches, make conversation. The rest will come back naturally I'm sure.	/r/seduction	31/03/13 04:09 AM
2	Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat? Be a fucking gangster.	/r/seduction	31/03/13 02:46 AM