| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1300 | Pro tip: it’s usually AFTER you’ve moved on/cut him off | NICE FOR WHAT? | kiksuya_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:08 AM |
| 1098 | Ladies... | NICE FOR WHAT? | kiksuya_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:56 AM |
| 575 | I ain’t sitting there | NICE FOR WHAT? | kiksuya_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 09:01 PM |
| 388 | Excellent... refuse to make your self small for a man, let him meet you at the top | MOOD FOR LIFE | kiksuya_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 11:35 AM |
| 293 | Demand accountability | QUEEN SH*T | kiksuya_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:35 PM |
| 106 | Never forget it sis | QUEEN SH*T | kiksuya_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 12:48 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 203 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!*all American presidents have been male | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:32 AM |
| 49 | I'm sick of pop music!thank u next album (the breakup era) was great, this new stuff she’s all in love again and vom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:11 AM |
| 18 | Why would my ex from years ago reach out to via Snapchat?He’s fishing. Blocka blocka blocka block. | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 01:43 AM |
| 38 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactIf they can’t respect me with a serif font, I don want em | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 16 | wOmEn ArE tOo eMotIoNalMares require a special touch, I know so many people who refuse to ride/own them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:11 PM |
| 27 | Is this a red flag?Holy shit that is horrifying. Block and delete. Do not say another word to him. And your last question, seriously? You know the answer to that. | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 07:43 PM |
| 10 | Trailer for "Kevin Can Go F Himself"; between this and Promising Young Woman, it feels we might be in the middle of a cultural reckoning.I haven’t seen PYW yet, but The Assistant left me feeling this way. I went into it expecting to see some justice for these women, and the ending was so bleak yet realistic about the hurdles we face when reporting sexual harassment, especially in the workplace. It was a tough watch and I’m still thinking about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:35 AM |
| 25 | #YesAllMenI just saw this on her page and I was like yesss this belongs on fds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:29 AM |
| 7 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.I was always a Sam connoisseur myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:29 AM |
| 10 | WHO is teaching us? Maybe the sky high rates of rape and murder? The abuse women receive on a daily basis? Nah, #notallmen! But please don't dress like that to the party.The men who lied to me taught me. The men who threatened me taught me. The men who cheated on me taught me. The man who raped me taught me. That’s who taught me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:25 AM |
| 70 | 18 year old radfem standing up against sugar baby culture and the exploitation of minors. Proud of my generationSplenda Daddy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:40 AM |
| 24 | 🙏I got what I wanted... but at a massive price lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:16 AM |
| 56 | Neurodivergents & the Manic Pixie Dream Girl TrapEternal Sunshine was way ahead of its time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:07 AM |
| 11 | What factors are associated with recent intimate partner violence? Findings from the WHO multi-country study on women's health and domestic violenceI hadn’t drank for years until I found out about his extra curricular activities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:58 AM |
| 14 | I had a gut feeling about this one... glad to find out sooner than later!This is some @beam_me_up_softboi material lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:44 PM |
| 13 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?Came to say this. I’ve been riding for (holy shit) 30 years now and it’s always ridiculous when people (always men) comment “you just sit there, the horse does all the work etc etc etc” like ok bruh get on my greenie who doesn’t steer yet and spooks at the wind, have fun sitting there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:09 AM |
| 7 | What’s a compliment you received from someone that made you feel like a HVW?A woman mentor at work told me that the work I was showing her was senior level, even though I had just started dabbling in this tech three months earlier. My academic program chair(also a woman) told me my undergraduate work was master’s level and that our class discussions were on a whole other level. I struggle with accepting compliments, but these I took to heart from these HVW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:30 AM |
| 32 | The men (and women) in the comments are LOSING IT 😂Bc if you “need” them you won’t leave them. And that’s the tea sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:50 AM |
| 52 | I highly doubt that most straight men are capable of loving somebody romantically.Lol that was me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:54 AM |
| 184 | Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one.FDS porn lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:46 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else follow Awards for Good Boys on Instagram?I LOVE swipes4daddy! @beam_me_up_softboi is great too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 20 | Where being a pick me will get you.A little louder for the people in the back: COERCION IS RAPE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 108 | BrilliantI LOVE a good long blank stare, really makes things uncomfortable for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 47 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.He hit The Wall 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:58 AM |
| 158 | Lol“False advertising” Bruh I am not marketing myself to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 44 | What a beautiful story! This is how us women should look out for each other!🥺❤️❤️❤️Qanon believe (among other things) that Hollywood is made up of pedophiles who bathe in the blood of children etc etc and Trump is the only savior... referring to the meme, not your comment of course if there was any confusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:49 AM |
| 63 | What a beautiful story! This is how us women should look out for each other!🥺❤️❤️❤️Reeks of Qanon bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:38 AM |
| 14 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.The dogpill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 58 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉For those special moments in some field | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 6 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesLmao literally happened to me. It’s all fun and games until your wife meets someone better. Who wants to bet he was cheating on her initially too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:42 PM |
| 19 | The comments section is a bunch of LVM twisting the conversation to victimize themselves, and pickmes/cool girls slut shaming, as usualYes, coercion is rape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 28 | who’s gonna tell ha...My sil is married to a dude who did jail time, choked her while pregnant, can’t keep a job bc of his bpd and alcoholism, disappeared to a strip club for 24 hours on Valentine’s Day... she still babies the hell out of him and “loves him”. Just waiting for the day he ends up killing them all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 12:54 PM |
| 12 | who’s gonna tell ha...Yep. I did this and it got me nothing but abuse in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 12:51 PM |
| 11 | Is this what hitting the wall is like?Moisturizer with sunscreen. Water. Sleep. Exercise. Diet. I’m 35 and have had people think I was early 20s this past year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 11:43 AM |
| 21 | “MeN dOnT hAvE a wALL”I’m 35 and get carded all the time still. I had a coworker think I was 22 lmao. Moisturizer, sunscreen, and drink your water queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:38 PM |
| 41 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.Ugly on the inside | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 02:39 PM |
| 8 | It's never too late 🤝The “unrealistic” goals were getting a promotion/raise/full time status, and obtaining a specialty certification in my field. The third was writing a university course in my field of expertise (which I am hoping to be hired to teach next year as well). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:13 PM |
| 35 | It's never too late 🤝I smashed three major goals this year... two that my manager called “unrealistic” at my review earlier in the year. Now scheming up plans to overshadow my own self in 2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 11:34 AM |
| 8 | Leveling upMOOD FOR LIFE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 09:23 PM |
| 34 | Men can't meet basic expectations in a relationship, blame women for demanding too much. At the same time they blame them on wasting their youth on losers.We’re also objectively worse looking, don’t forget | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 08:19 PM |
| 9 | This last line speaks to my soul after my last post 🙌🏻 I don’t have to look pretty or smile for youI work in the horse industry. Makeup is generally frowned upon and at my workplace there’s no men. Yeehaw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:28 AM |
| 44 | Lurkers, here is the secret amoral and toxic strategyThis is hilarious bc the point of FDS is to weed out LVM who will pretend to be HVM. If you stick to the FDS recommendations, the LVM will expose himself even if he thinks he’s “doing the right things” it’s basically NiceGuy strategy. We will always spot the fakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Just a reminder that taking care of yourself comes firstLearned this one the hardest way possible lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 06:43 PM |
| 15 | Watching the subscription number go up and up makes me so happy!I first came here because I saw comments on how toxic it was and I was curious. You know what they say, no publicity is bad publicity. Even the ones trying to drag us are driving more women to find us and subscribe. Thanks scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 01:19 AM |
| 18 | OopsLove after lockup gang where you at | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Excellent... refuse to make your self small for a man, let him meet you at the topWow EXACTLY I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 16 | Excellent... refuse to make your self small for a man, let him meet you at the topYesssss that’s literally just his insecurity showing, he’s afraid of you bc he KNOWS he’s not at your level. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 04:51 PM |
| 41 | Almost every single dead bedroom involving LL men is related to porn use and compulsive masturbation. Be advised, ladies.I guarantee a lot of “LL” women are just sick of their SOs shit. I have a db due to my husbands rampant infidelity, zero help with kids/house/animals and otherwise abusive nature. He honestly has no clue why I don’t want to fuck him. He thinks his behavior is fine and that I should applaud his efforts at being faithful for one out of ten years. Oh he also put away his own laundry for the first time in months so I guess he wants a cookie for that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 11:29 AM |
| 15 | MGTOW whiner whining about how young women on Tinder are whores. Why hasn't this scrote gone his own way yet? username checks out.Yeah that was the line that really got me YIKES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | The Dumb Fox CredoI’ve made this connection in my life before...dealing with men(and most people really) is just like training horses. Make it seem like their idea, and they will be a happy and willing partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 03:50 PM |
| 12 | FDS doesn’t mean not being a loving partnerMatch effort and energy. It’s literally that simple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 318 | Pro tip: it’s usually AFTER you’ve moved on/cut him offMy husband cheated on me for eight years. EIGHT YEARS GUYS. I had two children. I almost died during an emergency c section. Our son went to the nicu. He later fought cancer. I was a sahm with no family. My husband watched me scream and cry and express suicidal ideation. And he never stopped. ANYWAY I went to college, finished my degree at my sick child’s bedside. I got a part time job. In this time I emotionally processed and moved forward ALONE, and now that I am fully over it guess who has su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Well, I got playedSource: me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 02:09 AM |
| 56 | "Friends with benefits" benefit men only.Sis. Drop the convo. Get a new friend. He’s being clear with you. Be friends if you want, but stop showing interest when he’s blowing you off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 08:59 PM |
| 70 | Remember this anytime someone gives you a hard timeAND THATS THE TEA SISSSSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Demand accountabilityBahahahhaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 24 | Dating for three days does not equate to getting sex.Sounds kinda rapey to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Ladies...I honestly haven’t seen any TERFy or femcel content here, tho I have seen people accuse this sub of that. I have no idea where they got that idea lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:14 PM |
| 13 | They don’t deserve your precious beautiful body! Confirmed!It’s so bizarre that sex is their (red pills and men in general) major driving force. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it til I’m dead, they are such simple creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:09 PM |
| 15 | Is this male dating strategy? He use to work with me and got fired. He came back to look for girls to hit on. I’m the third coworker and he doesn’t even know my last name!Mom-digger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 72 | 😝My stupid ass lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:03 PM |
| 8 | Rude moid calls me a bitch because I can't decipher his typo. This is dating in 2019.Any dudes with J names are assholes lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 86 | Men who are intimidated by women who make more money than them aren’t intimidated because they feel like inadequate providers. They are intimidated because they feel that won’t be able to domineer the relationship nor get away with doing less housework/ childcare.“I can’t trap her as my domestic slave if she’s financially independent” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 09:53 PM |
| 17 | Say something nice about Alexandra and Keanu 💖I literally can’t wait to be a silver fox | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 22 | I dated a rich guy and screwed it up - a case studyOh yeah he’s definitely a narc. I totally fucked myself over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 11:39 PM |
| 56 | I dated a rich guy and screwed it up - a case studyOk BUT my husband also pursued me relentlessly and begged me to date him exclusively annnnnnd then serial cheated on me and abused me in all kinds of other ways so I’m not so sure that it’s always a good indicator | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Emma Watson: successful and happily single. MGTOWs: upset that she is actually living the lifestyle they advocate for, complete lack of self awareness and extreme projectionGot emmmmmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Glad I didn’t lose my virginity to this loser.Lmao vomit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 01:49 PM |
| 28 | FDS Discussion: How are you working on yourself?• Eating healthy and working out • Working in an industry that helps others and utilizes my lifelong expertise • Obtaining industry certifications • Doing things that are scary and exciting (writing a university course) • Graduate school • Keeping my space clean and organized • Pausing and reflecting before reacting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 12:27 AM |
| 10 | “Heyy I know I ghosted you when you called me out on my shit, but don’t worry - I forgive you. Would you like to stroke my ego some more?”Ew he actually said that out loud? What a doof | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 11:27 AM |
| 15 | Why do men on dating apps not have pics?No pics is the characteristic cheater flag. Other cheaters will notice and match with them. Sometimes trolls too. @swipes4daddy regularly matches with no pic dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 28 | This. After he cheated on me & ruined our 15 year marriage. I am happy! Happy I got away from you.Me soon. Can’t escape fast enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 11:20 AM |
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