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| 42 | The Gender Wars is really about money and no one wants to admit it | CMV | killacamron93 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Largely unrelated to TRP members here 😂 | killacamron93 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:47 AM |
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| 0 | State-sponsored prostitutionThis may sound bias since I am anti sex work, but state sponsored prostitution is just a no. Even prostitutes reserve the right to refuse clients. Honestly I wish I came to this conclusion before I got introduced to the red pill, but women do not care about our inability to get laid or get in long term relationships. Reflecting this even with myself I’ve had plenty of women would talk about how I’m a “great guy” but they themselves wouldn’t date me nor at the bare minimum refer me to their frien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Does virgin-shaming exist?I like Hoe math because he dumbs it down. We don’t need to be intellectuals when it comes to desirability politics since most of the time there’s a course attached to the advice with most influencers. Fresh and Fit try to be intellectuals about it but are purposely surround themselves with women in sex work, the one time they had a woman as a guest who had more than 2 brain cells they kicked her off for being “boring”. At second best I’d say Martin Sartain, but he has a course to sell and he oft… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Does virgin-shaming exist?Honestly I’ve never been in a serious relationship so there isn’t much advice I can give him except for staying away from women he was previously interested in. Also he doesn’t ask, never got the sense that he was worried about still being a virgin and tbh at our 30’s women detest HC culture since they typically are more experienced than us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Does virgin-shaming exist?Honestly I wouldn’t recommend any red pill content at its current state. Yes Hoe Math is pretty good despite not really talking about self improvement much but the issue is algorithms. You watch one Hoe Math video now you’re being recommended Entrepreneur in Cars, Anton Daniels and Fresh and Fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Does virgin-shaming exist?Hoe Math may be the only red pill influencer I’ll ever recommend even though he just talks about women. He speaks from experiencing being both a 3 and an 8 is willing to confront the issue and explain it without sexism. Women not knowing where they rank and women who know where they rank but shoot for the stars anyway. While yes we men are guilty for shooting for the stars too there’s a better reward for women who date/marry men 2+ notches lower than them than vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:52 AM |
| 1 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyI’m all for polygyny, as someone who is a bit tired of women all over chasing the same men who aren’t competitive about it if you are not at minimum willing to share how important is this checklist anyway? Yes there are major drawbacks to this but I’d rather let a few men take all of the women than have men except that it’s okay to have a shell of a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:06 AM |
| 7 | Does virgin-shaming exist?Red pill lost the plot when it strictly became about dating instead of focusing on Self improvement. Personally I can attest that books like Bachelor pad economics, Black Man’s Guide out of Poverty and 12 Rules for Life has changed my life for the better. However today’s red pill are just men who focuses on dating and exclusively tell men to avoid dating highlighting the very worst quality of women. Every post is the same from women who wants to finally give the nice guy a chance because she’s w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 10:59 AM |
| 15 | Does virgin-shaming exist?My best friend is still a virgin in his 30’s and I don’t even think he even discovered the red pill (I literally pray he doesn’t). Virgin shaming still exists And even speaking for myself as someone who’ve admittedly never been in a serious relationship in my 30’s women always look down on inexperience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:19 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandryBelieve it or not, most of the shame usually comes from men the women already slept with or mutuals. Men are typically adverse to dating women with a lengthy past seriously because it’s always rubbed in our faces and more often than not the women prove everyone right. From the individual man’s end the frustration mostly comes from men having access to women for less than what the individual man has to do. Some women sleep with men on the first sight just because they are there, some have to date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:05 PM |
| 39 | What if men were shown more compassion?Honestly, I think I’d be more optimistic in people in general if I had more compassion shown to me earlier in life. “A child not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth” The whole red and black pill are made up of men who grew up never feeling the warmth of the village, saw what it looked like, but never felt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?Never | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid.Why is this even a debate if you agree that being an asshole for most men repel women regardless of how attractive he is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Men arent rewarding bad men, women areIt’s not that we don’t reward it, it’s that men who are abusers know they can’t say anything about it cause they know they’ll at best get beat up. Being a victim of DV is completely different because they have 24/7 access to the victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 11:19 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid.As a former nice guy, this is a bit of a troubling opinion you have there. Although I believe that if you want a woman as from being a friend or a lover respect for her is a baseline and that does not guarantee anything. However if all a man has to do in order to stand a chance with you is to just be attractive your standards are pretty low, nevermind you that attractive man does not automatically mean asshole. People do need incentives with the opposite sex and that’s fine, that’s what being co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 11:13 AM |
| 1 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.I never mentioned anything about being drunk or wanting a party girls, especially as a man who doesn’t drink nor party. Did you actually read this before you responded? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 11:35 AM |
| 2 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.This is something. Just to keep it real a lot of men barely get it initiated in our relationships. My original point is that as men we don’t feel genuinely desired because everything we get out of a woman is worked for. There are some of us who receive desire from a woman which is true, but it’s kinda infuriating women fawn over men while being in a whole relationship with a woman who just think being present is enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 10:42 PM |
| 3 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.Okay, how do you act towards men you actually desire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 08:20 PM |
| 5 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.I’m sorry simple grammar mistake. When I say “us” I mean us men think bad sex is better than no sex. That’s why I put a lot of the blame on us men because we put so much shame on not having sexual access to a woman. I’ve seen with my own eyes what it looks like when a woman settles for a man vs a woman with a man she actually desires and I’d rather be the one she desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 06:42 PM |
| 5 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.I’ve literally seen what a woman acts around a man she actually desires vs when she’s settling. A lot of women settle because a lot of us think bad sex is better than no sex when in reality we have to do a lot more for a woman who just tolerates us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:40 PM |
| 8 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.I’ll give you a very specific version of what desire looks like but I’ll add some context here: I’m from the South Suburbs of Chicago and we had NBA All-star weekend in Chicago not too long ago. From what I’ve seen women act between the week before, during and after was a complete flip. Women looking their very best, initiating conversation on the slight chance that you may be a celebrity or ball player they don’t know about. For the first time I’ve seen women be so polite and initiate conversat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:12 PM |
| 7 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.That’s a fair point, but what does a woman desiring a man look like to you? Is it you offering your mere existence? Is it throwing yourself on him or is it paying just to take a picture with him? Yes I am willing to admit I love the idea of a woman lusting after me but as far as desire I honestly don’t have much to compare it with since even when it came to women who actually liked me if it was not obvious I couldn’t tell. I think everyone deserves to know what being desired feels like for once … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?As a former nice guy who never been on a date let alone a relationship I don’t think so, I do think women should be realistic with their expectations/standards but not just give guys a chance. I’ve witnessed through friends what women settling for a guy they often think they can do better than and it’s not a pretty sight. I personally believe that every man and woman should know what it feels like to be in a relationship out of passion rather than obligation. The only issue is that some women ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | During sex, what's more important to you: Your orgasm, or the validation you receive when you inspire sexual desire in someone?The validation. As a man, it’s the validation because it requires so much just to have sex with a woman. Even in hook up culture this requires a lot, but for myself I’m cut so orgasm is very hard for me to reach For women I do think it’s an orgasm since there’s no shortage of men willing to sleep with them not knowing anything below the surface. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?When it went from learning a skill and setting yourself up for financial freedom to the same regurgitated dating topics. Maybe it’s because my introduction to it was Aaron Clarey and I set my standards too high. It’s an eye sore seeing what it is today | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why would women want to be monogamous?This is a bit of a pink pill topic, but for the most part men (humans in general) are too territorial for polygamy. Even with rotational dating, instead of men competing to get the woman we are competing to get the most out of a woman while providing the least. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Why do guys not listen to women ?Lifelong of awful advice of women in our personal lives. Not to sound all red pill, but you gotta pay attention to the men who are getting the women. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Why you should NOT date a 30+ woman: The relationship arch for the average western couple.We get it, even myself late bloomers hate their dating options and would rather date significantly younger women vs getting our shit together for a woman who only wants us because the men she wanted in her 20’s didn’t want to marry her we can literally buy a sex toy and not interact with older women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Why you should NOT date a 30+ woman: The relationship arch for the average western couple.And this is why we should push the use of male sex toys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Why you should NOT date a 30+ woman: The relationship arch for the average western couple.Never heard of sarcasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 11:05 PM |
| -1 | Why you should NOT date a 30+ woman: The relationship arch for the average western couple.I personally still wouldn’t date a woman in their 30’s when I’m 30. There is a little validity on average men being locked out of SMP, but that comes with just trying to get laid. I’m so relieved I’m unplugging myself from the red pill, it’s full of lazy betas now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Why you should NOT date a 30+ woman: The relationship arch for the average western couple.Actually women often spend their earlier years trying to marry the men that they actually want. Do I personally plan on dating women 30+? Not at all. I can agree to the idea that women just settle in their 30’s but the gaping vaginal hole theory is complete BS. If you are going to put it that way then you should rule out women who went to college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Taking biological sexual attraction to its natural end, will a certain percentage of men always be inherently undesirable?Yes it’s a sad fact, in fact there’s a lot of men who are only married because of their resources. My advice is to find where you are as early as possible then work on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Are that many men really surprised that women like and respond more positively to attractive men?I’m not, I pointed this out in a group where a demographic of women feel like their counterparts didn’t like them because they don’t see that many praises going viral. The men who go viral are men who are physically attractive while average looking men who do it are looked at as “not counted”. Even in the group there’s men that even pander to them and that those men are only given 15 seconds of fame with the next post complaining about their men not valuing them. This is why I do not make a publ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 5 | What have we learned about women now that they have economic, social and sexual freedom?Duty booty is a real thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Wars is really about money and no one wants to admit itGust still are working on it but it’s only the extreme ones getting demonetized, you can tell mainly from who’s begging for money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 01:18 PM |
| 3 | The Gender Wars is really about money and no one wants to admit itSugar dating only weeds out toxic women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Wars is really about money and no one wants to admit itNot entirely, generally all you need to do is refrain from cursing, if the ads play it’s monetized unless you’re YTRed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Is there a problem with the marriage and birth rate dropping so low?Bad economies prevent children and marriages. You can’t expect the rates to go up when the average millennial and Gen-Z is $60k in student loan debt and most entry level jobs have a laundry list of requirements for pay that doesn’t match up. Also divorce laws deter higher earners to consider marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Largely unrelated to TRP members here 😂Are you high right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Largely unrelated to TRP members here 😂Only talking about the guys who just use TRP to cry about women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Largely unrelated to TRP members here 😂Largely a comment about most TRP guys having small penises but that too 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:50 AM |
| 0 | When she's finally ready to settle downGotta love penis envy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 07:05 AM |
| 0 | When she's finally ready to settle downBecause black men are the only ones having children out of wedlock, love stating statistics until: 70% of Out of Wedlock births in the black community only covers black women. Almost 40% of black men actually have children out of wedlock Couples who chose lifelong cohabitation over marriages. Biracial kids mixed with black are immediately labeled black as default. This is generally the same argument from white men who brag about being the most desired men in America yet spend all day crying abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 05:02 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.We actually have the same problem when it comes to interracial dating with my race of people. The women of my race hate when men date interracially because other women fetishize us, in comparison to waiting out being single for a woman who’s only with us to save her from yourself. If you are a man you have the choice between a woman of your race who will only be into you if you fit a certain racial archetype on tv and a woman of a different race who fetishize your race. It’s better to be the fet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 02:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.A lot of men are butthurt because this is actually true. It even started the stigma with body counts. Theres women that are all sorts of kinky, will want to have sex almost everyday, blowjobs and all but all that is for a small minority of men. A lot of men are only taken because the women are out of options. We like to point out that we (men) need to pursue women who are young, childless and not financially fucked up but hate to point out the reason why we say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years.I’m not gonna lie even though I’m 27, I heavily prefer someone young (20-25). When you are a late bloomer it seems weird dating women your own age who’s experience shadows yours, some are stuck in their ways to the point of not trying anymore. In my immediate area the older you are the more likely you have the stereotypical baggage; a habit of cheating, kids, debt, failing organs and not even 30 yet. And so far all the women I’ve dated proved that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Men who can't stand the degeneracy of westernized women why don't you move to a more traditional country?That’s basically why we have an immigrant problem, there’s legal immigrants not knowing a lick of English and illegal immigrants knowing English better than the people born here 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't stand the degeneracy of westernized women why don't you move to a more traditional country?Immigrating to another country is like pulling teeth when you compare America’s immigration standard compared to the world. Everywhere else: Do you have a particular set of skills? Do you have a criminal record? Did you serve the military? Can you actually speak our Language? USA: Can you pass a history test designed for 12 year olds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | There is literally no room in TRP ideology to perceive any action of a woman as positive.This is why I ignore the women part when it comes to TRP. There’s very little room for error and if you actually believe in it you might as well give up. Even though I have given up, I still find their criteria not even worth reading. There is a very small window for the women they actually want and the thing is that these types of women are impressionable as hell. My only advice to other TRP men is to find a woman that doesn’t have kids, debt, a dependency issue and impulse control. This whole … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 05:19 AM |
| 0 | If you have had sex with a lot of women, and have a high body count, why is it a turn off for you when your potential partner has a high body count as well?Promiscuous women tend to have tendencies to destroy a long-term relationship (cheating). Also, it’s an ego-driven turn off, having to invest/commit to a woman when men have had her at her best for nothing isn’t a great deal. As many men who claim “body count doesn’t matter” how many of them are married to women who have slept around, let alone married at all? I have also heard about women marrying men they don’t want to sleep with which isn’t fair either on both ends. This roles back to my phil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Men being "intimidated" by women and refusing to date them is exactly the same as a company refusing to hire someone because they're overqualified.You gotta be careful using overqualified. What it takes to be an entry level IT help desk person in my area: Bachelor’s degree one IT field 3-5 different certifications A minimum of 5 years experience working in that field. And to make it laughable you wouldn’t even get paid $14/hr. People want overqualified people all the time, they just want it at a discount rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that your SO has to find you somewhat physically attractive?Yes your SO has to be physically attracted to you. When they are not typically it’s because they want to be pampered. Men are just as much the prize as women are, don’t waste your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How many men can afford a stay at home wife?Even though I know I don’t, being able to afford a stay at home wife it’s mostly based on where you live. The higher the cost of living the less likely it’s gonna be. I live near Chicago where any apartment under $2k a month is a high crime area. Also in places where it’s cheap to live a lot of women have the opportunity to stay at home but they don’t want to live there because there’s nothing to do. Would you rather live in Chicago or some random part of Illinois no ones heard of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Q 4ALL: Why is there a red pill culture?I said it’s something I’ve been thinking about, not what’s actually fact. It’s just a low confidence theory. You know, like when people believed the government killed MLK, then found out is family won a lawsuit against the government for wrongful death? Or political parties wanting puppets in office? Just a theory I hope I’m wrong on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Q 4ALL: Why is there a red pill culture?Let me do a quick grammar check; upper-middle class. Simple access as in working in a nondead-end environment. Waitressing and whatever jobs when women were rarely working (due to the economy) they barely see any unmarried upper-middle class men. Working in that environment they are there: Hospitals, Civil services, corporations, etc. pretty self explanatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q 4ALL: Why is there a red pill culture?You’d be surprised how many women would be open to polygamy IF it doesn’t mean they don’t have to work and they are bi. Hypergamy and polygamy can both coexist. Sure, not Everyman is going to get multiple wives, but it’ll work itself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Q 4ALL: Why is there a red pill culture?Guess I won the sarcasm battle... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Q 4ALL: Why is there a red pill culture?Lol, in western society tho. A society based on religion ironically a hell hole. Legalize polygamy and I’ll take in some hot Iranian refuges in the future 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Q 4ALL: Why is there a red pill culture?Men getting fucked by the family court system, an unbalanced sexual market place and traditionalism is mixed with modernism. There’s too many men that would have sex with anything to the point where it is expected for us to be the best for ourselves while women can come to the table worse off. Have you seen those single mothers and sex workers talk about what they deserve in a man simply because they exist? I blame men on that one. And we compete for the same jobs yet we are the ones expected to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men being seen as a ''Safe option'' as a partner is an issue.Thank yourself for not meeting her. The one huge red flag I ignored with her is that none of her med school pals or any guy that’s actually friends with her wouldn’t date her or sleep with her. Good thing I didn’t either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 09:10 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Men being seen as a ''Safe option'' as a partner is an issue.I’ve experienced it before and went 0 to 100 on red pill rage. Was talking to this chick in graduate school (pharmacy) and lied about a close friend of mine trying to rape her. Here’s the kicker tho, it turns out she was trying to hook up with him, here’s another one, turns out she has a bf already, and I’m not done yet, she cheated on him with 7 other guys, dumped her bf for a guy she was having high sex with and played the victim when the guy she was having high sex with didn’t want a relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Are men desperate because women are picky, or are women picky because men are desperate?Men have lower standards, that’s why women are picky. I mean if women literally accepted any guy we would be picky as all hell too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:43 AM |
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