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LOL I love the idea of paper plates it’s genius!!! Yes thank you after venting in this sub for what feels like a week now I think I am noticing what our bigger issue is and how to address it. Still appreciate your comment though 🤍
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 05:53 PM
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Thanks for your reply. You’re right that I really don’t think the friend is “the problem”. The problem really is mostly just me and my feelings of drowning. Lol. It’s tough that I don’t have any one to really talk about this stuff with too which is why I’m chronically online. In the past when I’ve asked for help (nanny, part time house cleaner) he has made some hurtful comments that I could do it all if I was more organized. After this last trip (and the fight beforehand, i addressed it in anoth…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 05:51 PM
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Ok that’s great advice. I really appreciate you reading through all of my posts and responding. Thank you💕
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 11:37 PM
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Yeah you make some good points. What do you suggest I do moving forward?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 11:27 PM
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Yes he thinks that a lot of the married men he looks up to (random inspiration podcast type guys) maintain strong male friendships and take breaks from running the family and it’s something he’s now expressing he wants to explore. I am very torn. I can’t “stop it” because it’s what he wants to do. He also had an extremely strict upbringing and wasn’t allowed to do anything. I worry I will come across like being like his mom telling him I don’t want him to go away. Also, it’s normal for men to wa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 10:57 PM
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Adding in to your last question, we are of faith but not part of any organized religion yet. We’re still exploring that as a family
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 10:49 PM
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I feel like on paper he sounds bad. But I’ve met him and we’ve known him a while. He is a tremendously good person, in a committed relationship and hoping to have kids and marriage soon. He has suffered some traumatic events that have made that delayed. He sounds bad on paper but in reality I do really trust them. He also is in the same professional field so they find the ability to bond on the pressure and stress. He’s had married friends but ultimately he doesn’t find the same bond because a l…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 10:48 PM
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Yes it’s the same husband. Up until now he has literally never gone on boys trips but he was unhappy that he had no male friendships so his new friend (who is older with no kids) goes on trips often and now he goes along too. I agree which is why I’m torn. I don’t want to be fighting over this if it’s something he thinks he needs. I’m just feeling very lost internally
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 10:43 PM
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That’s a great idea, I have family coming over to help with the kids today thankfully
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 08:16 PM
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Hey I didn’t comment right away but thank you so much for this. I read it and re read it and came back to read it again. I needed to hear this so much. I’ve gotten a foot massage, I’ve reached out to family for help. I talked to him calmy about needing more sleep. I really really appreciate this thoughtful response a lot. It really changed my perspective. Thank you so so much
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/23 03:48 AM
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He was incredible. He is an amazing father, and a lot of this post is just severe frustration and lack of sleep, lol. He was a lot more “there for me” after our first. Tbh it just feels like he thinks I’m a super woman that can do anything, the reality is I’m struggling but I don’t think he really is getting it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 09:22 PM
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I suggested I take a spa getaway after his trip but he thought it would be unfair because he works more and can’t work and watch two kids. The family business is his business, but we call it the family business. edit to ad I do it because he asks me to do it. But I’ll try to discuss and plan some breaks for myself like your last paragraph suggests, thanks for your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 08:27 PM
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Yes of course it’s normal. Love and dating is amazing but you’re also putting yourself out there and have no idea what the other person is thinking. I would say, really help yourself relax and enjoy this time. When I first met my husband I was always so full of anxiety and looking back I wish I would have relaxed and enjoyed those years more. You never know where the future will take you so be kind to yourself and your boyfriend, take care of yourself, and immerse yourself in this new journey!
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/21 11:36 PM
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Ahh thank you but I’d have to give the credit to my husband on that one. He really opened my eyes and saved me from that lonely journey
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/20 06:06 AM
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Thank you. I agree with you but I don’t think they realize they’re drowning. They seem to really believe - and I know this because I was questioning it myself when we got engaged - that getting married young and morphing goals together with a man is this horrible identity-crushing life. It was really embarrassing for me to admit to anyone for a very long time that my biggest goal in life was to have a successful and healthy family. I felt like I was a loser. Society and social media really push …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 09:49 PM
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Tweets and attitudes like this can make it so hard to break-out of the weird conditioning that women put upon other women. I started dating my now-husband at 15 when he worked as a dishwasher. Fast forward to now, we’re married with kids we run a really successful company that he’s the face of. I do all the back-end work. I lost all my friends because of their “don’t waste your life!!! Date around!!! Travel!!!” Mentality. A few told me they’ll be there to help me when he cheats and leaves me wit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 05:37 PM
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Can this be reported some how? The dating apps should not allow minors to be posted that’s absolutely sick
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/20 07:31 PM
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My baby sleeps through the night. I have never been so grateful for 8 uninterrupted hours 😭
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 05:23 PM
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So I love that you want to get better at finding the energy to work around your house. I absolutely hate the name calling on his part. Kids are stressful and even the cleanest most organized people (me, since I was a kid) have trouble keeping the house in order when the baby is born. If you’re working full time, can you afford hired help once a week? Get in the habit of putting things away right after you use them, and if you can afford a once-a-week deep clean it should hopefully take some stre…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 06:06 PM
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Just attended a covid wedding and the reception was us in a little bubble (of our family or whoever our date was) on a blanket in a field and we had little graze boxes delivered. It was soooo cute. I second the comment on here saying to do a picnic style with little jack o lanterns. Your wedding sounds so dreamy!!!
/r/RedPillWives04/10/20 04:40 PM
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I was autobanned from there too 😂 tried to reply to a comment and was like wtf?! So I msgd the mods and they messaged me back, basically saying to fuck off and they don’t want women like me in their sub LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:35 PM
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I KNO LOL. He said I “didn’t need to make him feel worse about forgetting” I was like “dude.... was I supposed to throw the flowers in the garbage??”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:48 AM
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Someone else recommended volunteering and I hate to admit I never even thought about that. Very very good advice and I’m actually pretty excited to start. Thanks for your advice ❤️
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 07:19 AM
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I just want to say you sound so incredibly strong and I’m giving you the biggest internet hug right now. I wish I could come over and babysit and clean your kitchen while you take a shower and catch up on rest. There is totally a difference between you and someone who complains and doesn’t want help or to fix any thing!!! And this was actually a big eye opener that I definitely dont understand how tough some have it and that could be where the disconnect is coming, so I shouldn’t be so self abso…
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 07:18 AM
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Flagging down women with strollers lmao I love that!! Thank you for these tips ❤️
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 07:14 AM
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Not being nauseatingly positive at all... in my “loneliness” I didn’t even think of something like this which is honestly a FANTASTIC idea and I can’t believe I didn’t think of it. Volunteering is a really good idea and I already have an idea what I’d want to do!! Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 07:14 AM
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This is good advice. I definitely don’t go for walks and it’s an easy solution. Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWives05/02/20 01:09 AM
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Thank you. I was excited when I got pregnant because I knew 2 other pregnant girls in the same circle as me. They’ve become so close but I feel like I’m the nagging third wheel always trying to be “part of the group”. Once baby is a tiny bit older I will try a mom group that’s really close by my house. And I considered joining some type of women’s fitness class once a week to socialize and exercise for some endorphins lol. I feel like such a nerd trying this hard for friends. :( I’m so glad to h…
/r/RedPillWives05/02/20 01:08 AM
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Never heard of the MOP group but I just looked it up and sadly none even remotely near me. I’m waiting til baby is just a little bit older before going to mommy groups around the area (he just turned one month) but I’m sure that’ll really help. Thank you for your advice. ❤️
/r/RedPillWives05/02/20 01:00 AM
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I know. That’s why I was in the sub to begin with, I figured it was just a gender critical sub and I actually agreed with a lot of what was being said. After this post (and the downvote shit storm I got for simply disagreeing) oh and the OP saying she felt harassed by my disagreement, I was out. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 03:30 AM
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Lol ya. I was in the sub and my comment on this thread got downvoted to shit and a lot of angry replies.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 09:31 PM
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Yes exactly. I actually didn’t care much about her view and thought it was pretty whatever until the end. Also the part that got cut off: “There’s just so much collective energy and intelligence wasted through motherhood. I know I know you are special and raising an amazing child. How narcissistic is that? If we ever want to get some shit done we have to stop reproducing. It’s nothing but a huge distraction” And also, the comments. I’ve literally never thought to myself “this woman is less than …
/r/RedPillWives31/08/19 09:13 PM
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Such a beautiful reply, I am so happy for you and couldn’t have said it better myself. I was the same way before I met my husband, actually he slowly introduced me into this and it was like I could finally be myself. I was playing a role when I was striving to be like men when I should’ve been myself and really let my feminine nature come out. I can literally see the night and day difference in my life, I finally feel true happiness and peace.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 08:54 PM
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Absolutely bonkers. The pure anger and spite in the tone of the post was literally astounding.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 08:51 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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