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Women are actually quite predictable in their preferences, which is, ironically, why a lot of men struggle today. They think that "just being themselves" is enough to attract an attractive partner, but it's not. They fail to realize that there are factors outside of their control that can make or break attraction for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:20 PM
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I'm sorry......what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:15 AM
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Explain the terrible divorce rate in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:13 AM
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Don't care if they dislike being called fat. Their feelings are irrelevant. Do you want to die younger, or live longer? The choice is theirs. If I wanted to be an asshole, I'd say far worse things than "you are fat." If being called fat triggers them on an emotional and mental level, that is their own fragility holding them down. It's the same with a short person being upset for being called short, BTW. That shouldn't even be an "insult." If you're short....then you're short.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:55 PM
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Yeah you're not gaslighting, you're just wasting that poster's time instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:49 PM
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Explain why Gen Z men went for Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:47 PM
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Rare, true, but not necessarily "impossible." I suppose it's technically not "impossible" to grow taller. But it involves an incredibly expensive and painful life altering surgery that may or may not even work, just for a few measly inches even if it is successful. And those few inches won't guarantee you anything if you start off well below average height to begin with. At least getting rich won't cause me physical trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:45 PM
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Be worth the effort and most (young) men wouldn't complain. I don't care that Boomers/Gen X/Millennials as a whole dance like jesters for women who don't give equal energy and/or effort back. Times have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:36 PM
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.....What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:38 AM
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Being fat is objectively a bad thing. You cannot dispute that. Obesity leads to a lower quality of life and reduced lifespan, proven with data. Whereas being short isn't a bad thing whatsoever, it's considered a "bad" thing by society due to artificial standards of beauty. There are no negative health markers for a person that's shorter than average. So, in a way, criticizing a person for being fat should be a sign to said overweight person that they need to change their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:38 AM
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The divorce rate in America suggests otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:51 PM
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Or you just don't play at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:47 PM
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You yourself are a mindless consumer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:16 PM
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Gen z women are far worse than millennial women. I don't know where you live, but older women tend to be much chiller than gen z. Of course, all women are hypergamous to a certain extent, but gen z women are the most hypergamous of them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:39 AM
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I dont know how it is for older men, but for gen z men it's because the juice isn't worth the squeeze. They actually have to add something positive in our lives to make the effort of approaching worth it, and a lot of gen z women just aren't worth approaching. Or worse, they're an active detriment to our sanity/happiness/comfort etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:35 AM
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You're not most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:39 AM
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Alright, so we have no argument, so that's good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:34 AM
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I couldn't imagine rejecting someone over this. You having this as an "ick" is an ick and a red flag in and of itself. Oh, and it obviously is a flaw for you if you consider it a deal breaker. Let's try to curb the gaslighting please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:33 AM
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He's perfect in all things (height, wealth, looks, personality), except his mattress is on the floor. You'd reject him based on that one "flaw?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:52 PM
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Money and consumerism are one of the worst things that have ever happened to the human race. It's not just about the soulless pursuit of wealth and resources, but the impact it's had on our mental and physical wellbeing. The world would be better off if we lived in a post-scarcity world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:47 PM
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Yes, but most women rather date a guy with a body count of 100 than a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:44 PM
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Counter his data with data of your own, or accept you have no counterpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:35 PM
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There's a lot of critical differences between millennials and gen z, notably that the young men of z are much more conservative than millennial men, which is a bit unprecedented.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:27 PM
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Our standards for you guys are "don't be fat". Not really asking for much else, although maybe we should. Men take a lot of shit from a woman just because they find her physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:22 PM
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You're the exception. And when I say "exception", I'm not using that term lightly. The vast, overwhelming majority of women do not approach or propose to their SO. And please don't respond with "but I did, so therefore it can happen to you", because that's a bad faith argument. Statistically speaking I could win the lottery and get struck by lighting on the same day, but the chances of that happening are almost non-existent. I'm exaggerating, but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:09 PM
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Sounds like the only winning play is to just not be friends with women. Most of them don't seem like fun company anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:09 PM
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You seem pretty awful to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:08 PM
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Women act like weak victims, why can't men do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:41 PM
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You think a high maintenance woman understands crime statistics? Or any kind of statistics at all, for that matter? Most of the women on this sub don't understand statistics, so I'd be shocked if a high maintenance woman knew what a shithole Paris really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:52 PM
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Yes, but presenting an unrealistic option as a valid option is disingenuous and bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:41 PM
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Nothing is stopping him except the statistics he just showed you (that I doubt you even read) demonstrating how unlikely it is that he'll find a woman willing to provide for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:36 PM
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I don't think anyone agrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:34 PM
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It's not manipulation on my part, mostly just spite and malice. I don't care about manipulation, I'm just giving back what women do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:05 PM
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You literally came into this thread projecting without presenting any arguments or counterpoints. You haven't said anything useful, but that's pretty typical of a self-righteous redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:16 AM
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Most Gen Z can't afford to buy a house or have children. You're out of touch and a prime example why so many of us don't take you guys seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:25 PM
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Why are you so insecure? Why don't you respond with actual sources or data if you don't like what a person is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:24 PM
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I'm glad you had fun back in the day, but I know you're over 40 and times have changed. The economy has gone to shit. I'm one of the few gen z'ers who own their own place supported by their own income. There are people who dont even have a place to put shitty lawnchairs for a shitty party. And what's even the point? To aura farm for status?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:48 AM
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That's not the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:32 AM
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"Just have a friend who has the disposable income to host a rooftop BBQ party guys, it's that simple!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:06 AM
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I guess men could start telling her that she's ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:02 AM
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Likes from single mothers and/or fat women aren't impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:39 PM
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Because race matters a lot in sexual attraction, which is supported by marriage stats (people overwhelminglytend to marry their own race) and online dating statistics (which shows that white people recieve the most likes and matches from people outside of their own race, whereas asian men struggle with matching even with other asian women). "JBW" is a term for a reason. If the above information bothers you; too bad, welcome to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:39 PM
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You're being baited. Why even debate further, when she's just going to keep attacking an imaginary straw man? This is pretty much her m.o.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:32 PM
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This advice is pretty terrible. The skill issue is you not realizing this. "Just do drugs and drink, both of these vices which can harm your body and lead to addiction just for the sake of attracting some vapid woman! Just be be a DJ bro." This reads like something an out of touch Gen X'er would type out. I won't engage further because I know it won't lead anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:25 PM
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What women really want is resources, money, power, and social status (aka "aura farming"). They never initiate because they know there's a horde of simps falling over themselves willing to dance like a monkey and burn money for the "right" to a chance at a relationship with them. And it seems like a lot of younger guys are starting to catch on to the game and dropping out of the circus completely, so props to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:16 PM
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The short guys have actual data and statistics backing up their claims. So do the ugly guys, for that matter, since it's not exactly unknown that more attractive people are treated better by society than less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:18 AM
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This is regarded, because if women want protecting, they can use a weapon, assuming they live in a country that allows its citizens to bear arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:52 PM
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I feel sorry for the guys who chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:38 AM
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"Chad or no one!" - a random woman, circa 2025 They're saying it, not me, folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:44 AM
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No; you're just being baited. Which is what most women do on this sub, blue, purple, or red. Troll and bait for responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:39 AM
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Uh, I'll take not getting stabbed over having sex, the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:32 AM
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Some of the most vile harpies I've ever seen are in relationships, though that's usually because guys have lower standards than the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:35 PM
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Please don't get baited by obvious trolling my man. If you believe self-reported polls on male virginity are in any way accurate, I have a beachfront property in Wyoming to sell you. Shit, you're gullible if you also believe the (also self-reported) low rates of female virginity. Women lie, all of the time, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:11 AM
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Evidently you do, else you wouldn't respond at all.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:03 AM
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I feel sorry for the people who have to interact with you in real life. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:25 AM
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They wouldn't be missing out on much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:10 PM
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TL;DR Like the person you responded to said, they didn’t think you were worth the effort. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:22 AM
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Yeah, it’s pretty bad out here, especially if you’re a short man. I’ve been told by multiple people that I should just roid up to increase my mass, but I refuse to fuck to fuck up my health and hormones just to look like a buff troll for the sake of superficial and insecure women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:03 PM
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I’ll give you fat and unsymmetrical faces, but explain to me why being short is “ugly.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:33 AM
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What do you consider to be “ugly?” Genuinely ugly people are statistically rare. So I’m curious to know what is “ugly” in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:00 AM
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It’s funny because he’s flaired as “red pilled”, but he spewed out some of the most generic blue pilled slop I’ve ever seen on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:34 AM
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Their girlfriends are also typically fat and ugly, unless the fat guy is well above average height. No one here is despairing over not being able to get fat girls. They just want their looksmatch. Plenty of guys would be in relationships if they drastically lowered their standards, but why should they, if they put in the work to stay healthy and fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:33 AM
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I have read and heard multiple women state that looks don’t matter as much as personality does. And I’m sure you have too, but you want to gaslight instead, which is typical of a blue piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:25 AM
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Of course. Not being fat/being fit automatically improves your facial features. Less acne, better skin, not having a bloated face, etc. Anyone who stays in shape in an overweight society should be hedging their options, of course, even if they don’t have top-tier facial features. Unless they have an extreme facial deformity, people who aren’t overweight should have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:20 PM
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White people will still be a plurality in the future, and that future is still decades from now. Also, Hispanics (who are considered white adjacent) lean Republican and will probably keep shifting further to the right. You have to refute what people are actually saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:09 PM
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You actually believe this girl when she says she dated a “below average” looks guy? I’d be very curious to see what she considers “below average”, because women tend to overrate their own looks while underrating men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:00 PM
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I weigh about 40lbs less than the average woman in the US, not to mention I’m shorter than the average man too. Women (in America) aren’t too fond of dating a man that’s short and weighs less than themselves. Basically, unless I can find a partner below 130lbs, then I’m being punished for being in shape for my height. And the girls who are actually fit have their pick of the top percentile of men in terms of looks, height, fitness, income, status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:58 PM
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Even in the mocking, the short guy got shot with an arrow, and she still ends up with the tall guy. It’s exaggerated, obviously, but there’s a truth to the madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:13 PM
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As a bisexual, you should know and understand that there is data out there showing that heterosexual women, no matter their political affiliation, prefer to not date bisexual men. That is to say, your experiences are the exception, not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:12 PM
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Even the artsy liberal types expect/prefer certain traditional norms. Such as the man being taller, or making nearly as much money as her. They’re more chill than the traditionalist conservative women, who tend to be more ruthless, true, but even liberal women are hypergamous to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:28 AM
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It’s not bad faith, I just want to see how badly you truly crave sex. Obviously it’s not that bad if you have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:01 PM
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Why do you think most men don’t want primary custody of their children? Don’t respond to me if you’re going to continue to be dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:00 PM
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So you’d fuck any woman that propositions you? You have no standards or requirements? They just have to have a pussy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:16 PM
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Then she takes half your resources and the kids too. And you’re on the hook for child support as well. And she immediately finds a new partner while you might not have anyone for years. Yeah, what a lovely existence that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:12 PM
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All relationships are transactional. All. You need to get this idea out of your mind that women get into a relationship for “free.” Even Chad has to offer something to her (and that’s usually social status). If you’re a bum with nothing to offer, you will get nothing (unless you’re in the top percentile of looks, which would make you a Chad).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:59 PM
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I’ve got some bad news for you my man; most men have to pay for sex. And don’t give me the “but muh desire” spiel; most women don’t give it up for free, not unless you’re a top percentile man. You’ll have to pay for dates, clothes, gifts, earn more or at least as much as her income, etc, for her to even consider “desiring” you. If anything, you’re paying less than the average man is if you simply pay for the sex outright. Women love to extort men for their resources, you better get used to that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:56 PM
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<image> Him: “Most women are attracted to taller men.” You: “Okay, I’ll just tell my shorter man that I’m not attracted to him then.” It’s seriously like arguing with a child. It’s exhausting. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:46 PM
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And yet they still almost never date “down.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:55 PM
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I guarantee you that there’s a lot more men into flat chested women with no hips than there are women into broke, short dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:51 PM
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Your gaslighting isn’t working.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:04 PM
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He can get a passport, go overseas, and pay less for higher quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:00 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:54 AM
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That’s also true, lmao. Or a fucking knife. To be honest, most people should arm themselves, tall and short, men and women alike. You never know what a stranger has packing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:53 AM
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Also, you call her “hot af” but both men and women vastly overrate the appearance of the average woman. You sure she’s not just mid? Just because she has a healthy bmi doesn’t automatically mean she’s “runway model” tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:51 AM
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You’re engaged to a parasitic leech my guy, that’s not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:18 AM
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It really is infantile logic. Like they think their 6ft+ boyfriend stands a chance against the likes of Floyd Mayweather or Khabib Nurmagomedov just because they’re taller than these guys. It seems like the average (Western) woman just lives in a delusional fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:15 AM
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Nobody is competing for you. At least, no one important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:04 AM
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A woman will tell you that there’s no universe in which a 6’4” trillionaire is a “2/10”, that’s just not how their brains are wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:45 AM
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I’m imagining someone with blue hair, unshaved pits, and overweight told you that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:12 AM
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That’s fantastic, but you’re the exception, not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:30 PM
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“Taller than me” in the minds of women means “taller than other men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:31 PM
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Nope. Because I want to be with someone that I genuinely like, and whether or not they pay for a date for me does not factor into if I like them physically. Though, I guess it’s different for women where they can keep exploiting dudes until they finally get the guy that they actually want (and this man doesn’t have to spend a single dime on her, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:36 PM
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I know right? She typed out a whole lot of nothing, but she’s objectively chasing the top percentage of earners in the country. Wtf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:38 PM
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Not really. We have data that shows that most women prefer a man taller than them, and one who earns more than them as well. Those are general trends. Now, yes, some might relax those standards in certain areas, but if we grabbed some random women off of the street, statistically speaking, “taller than me and richer than me” is what they’d respond with if asked about what they seek in a partner. It’s a straw man to respond to this by saying “not all women think the same”, btw, because that’s not…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:31 PM
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It honestly shouldn’t be too much to ask for someone to not be fat, because weight is entirely controllable, unlike height. And asking for a woman with no kids also shouldn’t be too much of an ask as well, but I guess that’s where we’re at right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:26 PM
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An escort at 19 is insane my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:24 AM
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I live in a shitty state, true, but my experience is statistically closer to the norm than the person you’re responding to. Most women do not support themselves by living alone. We have these things called “trends” and “data” you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:41 AM
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Gaslighting and straw manning is their specialty my guy. I’m shocked your a “blue piller”, most blue pilled dudes on this sub refuse to argue against women, whether they’re blue pilled or red pilled, they just won’t argue against them and will agree with most things that they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:38 AM
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Well there’s certainly nothing stopping her from paying for the date herself. If the man can’t afford it, why can’t she pay, assuming she has the disposable income to afford it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:31 AM
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The thing is tho, if you don’t want to pay for a potential partner, then don’t? Like yes, it is expected of you and you will lose out on dates. Stopped reading after this, because it’s the truth, but for some reason a lot of women refuse to acknowledge this fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:29 AM
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Where the fuck do you live? Most of them around me are either unemployed and popping out kids, or employed but still living with their parent or their SO. And all of them have crippling debt too, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:36 PM
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And they shouldn’t, because it’s none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:42 PM
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You’re arguing against like 10 different people in this thread alone, rambling over nothing. I don’t even understand the central point you’re trying to make, aside from the fact that you just admitted to being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:18 PM
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You’re a crazy person, and I should probably just block you, but I’ll indulge your bait; I’m not attracted to men. Yes, I’d choose a loyal 6/10 over a terrible 10/10. That’s not even a hard question for me to answer. Shit, give me the loyal 4/10 so long as she isn’t fat or on drugs. You are waaaaay too obsessed over looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:06 AM
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Ma’am, this is a Wendy’s. Also, you just proved the red pill’s take on hypergamy. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:27 AM
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Yup. Does that fact bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:13 AM
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Still worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:20 AM
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It would benefit no one, and would be a moronic idea, but it would amuse me to watch everything burn. Might as well enjoy the collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:22 PM
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I’m going to assume you’re telling the truth and not lying (which I highly suspect that you are, btw), and I’ll just respond with “keep trying.” What is an “average man”, in your book, btw? Height, income, intelligence, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:53 PM
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Because they are hypergamous, yes. There’s quite literally millions of short men out there that would gladly give a tall woman a chance; they just won’t give a shorter man the same chance. The data doesn’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:51 PM
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It’s a sad day when even blue pilled women call out other women on the broken state of dating lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:49 PM
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Your advice is literally useless; “just be Chad lol” is what people have been saying the entire time. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:44 PM
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Well I’m sorry that you’re not getting approached more often (though you yourself can approach, you’re a grown adult just saying), but the reason you, as a tall woman, aren’t getting approached more is because of the actions and attitudes of other tall women. If you want anything to change, you’ll probably have to take some more initiative. And maybe understand that you might have to settle and compromise in certain areas if you want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:11 PM
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lol he doesn’t have to fly to Mogadishu, he could fly to the Philippines or Singapore and find a much more attractive partner there than he’d ever get in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:08 PM
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“Chad or nothing!” You just heard it here folks, the rallying cry of modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:54 PM
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Being tall is not a “turn off” to men. Men care far less about height than women do, statistically speaking. The reason men don’t approach taller women more often is because we assume you’ll auto reject us if we aren’t your height or taller, which the data suggests is true. So we don’t even bother, because we don’t feel like feeding into the egos of women by giving you the satisfaction of rejecting us for something out of our control (unlike weight, which is completely controlled by yourself).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:39 PM
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Post your physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:34 PM
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Women with mental health problems with have more issues attracting a mate, though it seems most women are on some form of medication these days, so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:44 PM
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It’s a targeted gaslighting campaign, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:29 PM
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This rarely happens. Like, almost never.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:28 PM
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Then you shouldn’t have much trouble attracting a mate of equal value, assuming you have no major mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:36 PM
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Literally just don’t be fat. You may not be a Stacey, but you’d still be above average in the US by virtue of not being overweight. That’s 90% of most guys’ standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:45 PM
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He’s saying that woman are disturbed by a man’s lack of ability to attract attention from women. If they realize you get no bitches, they want nothing to do with you. It’s the same reason they use “incel” and “virgin” as insults (it’s almost as if women place value upon men based upon their ability to attract the opposite gender 🤔). Men, on the other hand, don’t give a shit about a woman’s ability to attract a man. We just care if she looks good to us or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:43 PM
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I pity them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:39 PM
3

That is gaslighting. In fact, most of your post here is gaslighting, except for your last paragraph where you inexplicably decided to state the truth for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:38 PM
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It is when women gaslight people into thinking that personality “matters.” It matters, sure….when you pass the minimum looks threshold first (which is usually “just be taller than me”, short guys are fucked for things out of their control even if they’re facially attractive). So, really, in the end, looks matter waaaaaay more than anything else. To the point that personality almost isn’t even a factor. Hopefully you have some kind of constructive counterpoint to this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:33 PM
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No, it doesn’t. I’d rather be single and happy, than miserable and partnered. In fact, being stuck with someone just for the sake of being with them sounds hellish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:28 PM
2

I guarantee you the boomers and millennials in relationships aren’t particularly happy either. A lot of them would be better off single too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:23 PM
4

Well I can’t grow my leg bones, nor can I turn my skin white or make my jaw bone wider (well, none of these things can be done naturally at least). I can increase my bank account, sure, but the question at that point is whether or not it’s even worth the effort. And for most women, the answer is “probably not.” The fact of the matter is that they have more stringent rules for certain guys, versus the guys that they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:07 PM
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Always get a prenup my guys. You never know when she’ll try to destroy your life’s work over a Chad/Tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:04 PM
3

I’d do the same as well, the problem is fat girls can easily get dates/sex, just probably not with the guys that they actually want. Fat dudes aren’t getting dates unless they’re 6ft+. I’ve never seen a short fat guy with a woman who was fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:44 PM
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Most women in America are not in shape. In fact, they have, on average, a higher BMI than the average man. Now granted, women tend to carry more fat, that is true, but my original point still stands. Where is this notion that men must “get in shape” for “self improvement” coming from if women don’t also have to do the same? I’ve seen a disturbing number of fit guys with overweight girls, most of these guys being short of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:52 AM
1

Well most clubs are trash so….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:46 AM
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I’m glad people are starting to wake up to this shit. Even blue pilled normies are starting to raise their eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:20 AM
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I hope no one actually believes the drivel you typed out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:18 AM
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He’s not winning at all. He’s an out of touch boomer with little meaningful advice to give that’s applicable to the modern age. If I followed his advice, I’d be shooting myself in the foot for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:16 PM
2

Hordes of simps, yes. I pity them. Perhaps they’ll grow out of it one day and pursue a parter who’s actually worth their time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:01 PM
2

You are not a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:22 PM
2

This is the reason women don’t like bisexual men. You guys have too many options, they know you’re less inclined to put up with mind games/bullshit. They’d rather a simp with little options (average man) that they can control versus a man with self-respect and plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:32 AM
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Wit and gab? Then explain to me why there’s so many more famous male comedians compared to female comedians? And don’t take the lazy way out and say “muh sexism/patriarchy.” There’s a reason the stereotype about women being unfunny and men actually being funny exists. Men are wittier than women. Women just repeat the same shit over and over again, usually by attacking a man’s inability to attract a woman (hence why they constantly use “incel” and “virgin” as insults), or they’ll attack a man’s h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:26 PM
6

Uh, no, most women are not good conversationalists, lol. I don’t know why women vastly overestimate their own social skills. The average guy will have to carry a conversation, because women expect to be “entertained” and “earned” as if they’re a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:07 PM
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And it has been true for me. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:45 PM
1

I’m not cutting off my foot to be Chad, my guy. That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:32 PM
1

Political affiliation is why a lot of people DONT pair up. Yes, I know…..I literally just said that. Read the posts you’re responding to before you hit “reply.” Cause why would they cock block themselves while young like that? Because they’re not desperate simps, they have honor and integrity, and they’re not willing to forgo their beliefs just for a crumb of (statistically speaking) mid af pussy? Especially since there are guys out there who won’t have shirk their beliefs for women because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:15 PM
1

People don’t give unbiased answers about themselves. An outside perspective is often far more valuable than a person who deluded themselves into seeing something that was never there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:05 PM
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I know you’re only on this sub to rage bait, but I’d just like to point out that political affiliation is actually a big reason why people tend to pair or not pair up. Compatibility and all that jazz, that shit matters my guy. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:03 PM
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Because he was forced to settle. Which is what a lot of men without options do. Although, your description sounds like the average woman in the West nowadays (doesn’t cook, clean, provide emotional support, etc). So maybe that guy is just the typical (average) male experience now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:30 PM
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Fine, I agree with your last point. This country is probably right of center (by our standards) on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:27 PM
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Bro, I hope you understand how regarded you sound right now. “Bah, young women don’t care about architecture, engineering, or neuroscience, that shit won’t get me laid so why should I care about that useless stuff?” Thank God almighty you hold no power, lol. If you did, you’d have everyone taking mandatory classes on Coachella, zodiac signs, and how to prepare Starbucks lattes. Who needs roads, doctors, electricity and functional government when you could just be attracting some vapid girl? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:21 PM
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Who cares if young women are horny or not? Do you base all of your opinions and actions around if young women like said actions and opinions? Because if you do…..that’s some pro-level cringe simping right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:08 PM
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Trying to link political parties from different continents with their own histories and demographics just because both or considered “left” or “right” in their respective cultures is certainly a Reddit moment. Europe is more conservative than America in some regards, and more liberal in others. These views are expressed across all of their parties in different ways that can’t really be compared to any of the major parties of America. Saying Bernie is “right of center” in Europe just because he s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:57 PM
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I’m tired of saying the is over and over again. Women. Are. Not. Attracted. To. More. Muscle. Period. That’s not how the “female gaze” works. That’s how the “male gaze” works. Women are attracted to lean, athletic, physiques, which is not necessarily “more muscle.” I’m talking male model types, your Justin Biebers, your K-Pop stars. So yes, the “scrawny” guy who doesn’t even pick up a weight will probably do better than the jacked guy who’s bulking up with dialed in nutrition and progressive ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:41 PM
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watching movies/shows Most of this is NPC slop, good movies are becoming more and more rare eating out Expensive, high maintenance shit, usually paid for by a man because most American women loathe going Dutch. being on social media Vapid ego boosts, and more NPC slop, let’s just be honest with ourselves. something almost everyone does Well, yes, but not to the same extent that the average woman does. Yeah it's not like male interests of being hateful online and whining about not having girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:32 AM
4

How does it feel to know that pixels on a screen are more interesting than the average woman? Men wouldn’t play video games as much if women were more entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:27 AM
2

Unbelievably based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:25 AM
4

For all we know your friend could have a horde of fat chicks and/or drug addicts that he’s messing around with. Why is this supposed to be impressive without more context? Is he banging supermodels?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:21 AM
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I don’t even know what point you’re trying to make here. Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:14 AM
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I don’t. I’m getting a passport and pursuing higher quality women than the ones in America. They don’t workout and yet expect me to do so (on top of the other hypergamous expectations such as being taller than her and making more money than her)? lol, nah, it’s not going to work like that. You need to be desirable in order for me to put in effort to chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:13 AM
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You don’t go to the gym to attract women. I constantly have to tell dudes (and women) this. Going to the gym to attract women is going to quickly disappoint you when nothing changes. If you couldn’t already attract them before the gym, almost nothing else will change. You’re better off just changing your diet, and losing body fat, but even that isn’t a guarantee. “Genuine attraction”, oh please, don’t make me laugh. You have to pay for it in the West too, it’s just more expensive. Women don’t da…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:09 AM
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I mean I’m not just sitting at home rotting in misery. I’m getting a passport and going overseas in the next couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:33 PM
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And I see them in good relationships all of the time. We can both play the anecdote game all day long. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:24 PM
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And then the girl is always half the weight, always younger, and always prettier than the creep that went over and bought her. Correction, the appeal is that the girls are slimmer, prettier, and less of a financial burden than the women in the West. That’s the only reason why they’re traveling overseas in the first place. It’s not like prostitutes and escorts don’t exist in the West. But most men don’t want to participate in that. I understand western folks also have ridiculous requirements on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:52 PM
8

Literally just a Chad with glasses and maybe slightly messy hair lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:41 PM
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I workout to maintain my health and live a long life. I refuse to workout to attract a woman, especially when I know the average American woman is overweight and doesn’t workout. And that there are guys out there who also don’t workout, but have no trouble whatsoever attracting those same women (usually by being tall, white, and/or rich). Working out with the expectation of attracting women will only lead to disappointment if you couldn’t already do so before you started hitting the gym or doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:38 PM
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You could tell these men to go get a passport and travel overseas, where they’d have better chances. Why not suggest that, if you know they’re cooked in the west due to being short, ugly, bald, ethnic, etc, instead of endless empty platitudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:25 PM
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Vast majority of women want a partner that’s their height or (preferably), taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:22 PM
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Also, you’re over 40 with visible abs? Are you on TRT? I’m not judging you, btw, I’m considering hopping on myself once I reach my 40’s too. I like my abs too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:16 PM
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I’ll be honest with you my guy, I’m not looking to impress moms at schools, but younger women with no children. But we all have our preferences, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:36 AM
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I don’t see the correlation, but whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:30 AM
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You think oiled up men posing and flexing next to each other dressed only in tiny thongs is “homoerotic?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:24 AM
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You’ll get compliments from women if you’re lean. Happened to me after I stopped being a fatass. More muscles will get you noticed more by men though, yes, because of the larger than life physique. Men understand the effort that goes into building that level of mass, even with roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:22 AM
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More interesting than clubbing and tiktok every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:19 AM
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I know they’re it in for the money. As if girls here don’t do the exact same thing. I’m saying they’re cheaper, less annoying, and nowhere near as fat as a woman from the West is. And we both know that I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:51 PM
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We want them to not annoy the hell out of us and take all of our money, which women here are prone to doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:15 PM
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Ok, so some counterpoints: We’re discussing heterosexual men here, not gay men. Gay men having sex with each other is a statical irrelevancy to the average straight man, who obviously only cares about attracting women. Gay guys can fuck hundreds of parters a year, that doesn’t matter because the vast majority of men aren’t gay, so their data isn’t relevant to the average man. Regarding gay men, men as a whole have lower standards than women, this includes gay guys. Gay men don’t impose height or…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:06 PM
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Babies and kids need touch or they will die. Look, I don’t want to hand wave your post away by saying you’re full of shit, but a source on this would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:54 PM
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There is one more option. Passport broing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:53 PM
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The reason for this being most men (yes, even Chads) can’t get sex as easily as women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:50 PM
3

So Chad then. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:44 PM
3

You cuddle with children?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:40 PM
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Straw man, straw man, straw man, gaslight, gaslight, gaslight Create an actual argument please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:31 PM
5

Oh, and change your flair from “purple pilled”, to “blue pilled.” This was the most rabidly pro blue-pilled post I’ve ever seen on this sub. And that’s saying a lot. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:18 PM
2

Stop responding to him, you’re being baited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:14 PM
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Sounds like you’re a racist, not gonna lie my dude. Healthy bmi = “malnourished” in your eyes? Not every woman is as fat as a girl from America, some of them are actually at a reasonable weight. Not being a materialistic consumerist fuck = “impoverished” in your eyes? Not every woman in the planet is obsessed with buying shit. Though, I will admit that most are. Just, not to the same extent as women in the West are. You can catch an STD from a girl in the West, wtf? lol And you still pay for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:55 PM
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They have to buy women in the West too. Women here statistically don’t date down in regard to income. So please tell me what’s the difference if a guy chooses to spend his money on a foreign girl instead of a Western girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:31 PM
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Well, also the fact that those foreign girls are less likely to be fat, and nowhere near as high maintenance as a Western girl. I mean, if you already have to pay for both, you might as well take the more attractive option, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:26 PM
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Fair enough. Just saying what I’ve observed. Lilith is one of the worst ones here though, it’s not exactly a point in your favor that you go against her, everybody does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:10 PM
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Have you ever disagreed with a woman on this sub that wasn’t purple or red pilled? I’m genuinely curious, every time I see you post, it’s usually just you disagreeing with whatever the man says, and agreeing with what whatever the woman says.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:23 PM
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So still better options than what’s available here then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:41 AM
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Except you're completely off base. You're taking a socially frowned on behavior of men and trying to rationalize why women don't also do it? It’s “socially frowned upon” because Western Women don’t like anything that could potentially take away their power over men in regards to the dating scene. It’s the same reason they frown upon prostitution (legalized and regulated in many countries btw), AI girlfriends and sexbots. Women don’t do it because of hypergamy. That’s the short answer. And Wester…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:00 AM
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According to pew data, research, and statistics, no, no they do not. If you’re talking about men of all age groups, then most men are partnered (whether or not they’re happy in their relationship is another matter for debate). These boomers/gen x/millennials definitely do not have a rotation of women that they string along, only the top percent of of these men do this. And as for Gen Z men? lol. Most of them are single, a huge chunk of them haven’t even approached a woman ever. Literally not eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:27 PM
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When did I “shame” them? I’m explaining why women don’t do it. If you interpret it as “shaming”, that’s on you for projecting, not me. 🤭 Way to tell on yourself though! Glad even you recognize how toxic hypergamy truly is. Okay, so what “deplorable” traits of men are you even referencing here? You could be talking about a million different things, I just want to be sure so that I can counter your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:20 PM
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You did it, you solved the case. Because you see broke dudes in relationships (and your wife makes more than you), that means that women don’t actually tend to date upwards. Thanks man, your personal anecdote really did put to rest all of those studies and statistics that demonstrate women’s tendency to only date upwards! Do you have any other platitudes for us? Did you see a black doctor the other day too? Or a black engineer? That clearly must mean that black people aren’t really underrepresen…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:16 PM
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No, it’s about showing off her tall boyfriend to her other girlfriends. That’s it. So long as he is taller than her friends’ boyfriends, she gets an ego boost. Same thing for income too, btw. He just has to make more money than the other guys. This is the reason why Western women don’t passport sister themselves to countries like Thailand or the Philippines. The men (aka hordes of simps) they have access to at home are both taller and richer than the men in these South East Asian countries, so w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:05 PM
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It’s called hypergamy. And it has no political affiliation, it’s a biological phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:45 PM
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Women cannot handle the brutal truths of the world. It’s the reason why a lot of men have to mask themselves in order to pretend to be someone that they’re not just to attract a woman (like throwing away their life savings on a sports car just to impress a woman, or wearing lifts to boost their height because women can’t comprehend that most men aren’t above 6ft).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:31 PM
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Fuckboys are obvious because the average man isn’t a 6ft+ Chad/Tyrone with the unlimited options that can even afford to be a fuckboy. You didn’t have to type all of that stuff out, all one has to do is open up their eyes and you’ll the difference between a fuckboy and your average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:19 PM
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Lmao you are nowhere near as smart as you seem to think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:16 PM
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She’s also a racist. And doesn’t deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:42 AM
1

I trust their word over yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:40 AM
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lol Kirk did not in any way lose to Sam fucking Seder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:35 AM
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Alright, because what you described (women using men for resources) is known and accepted in the black community. Like, it’s not even a topic that would come up, it’s just an understood implicit rule that the man will provide for the woman, even if she makes more than him, because that is the man’s job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:54 PM
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Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:59 AM
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Your anecdote doesn’t change general trends or statistics, which show that in most households the man still earns more than the woman. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:51 AM
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I’ll be honest with you my guy, if the men were short and/or ugly, I don’t think she would’ve been as turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:28 PM
2

Was it Daemon vs Criston Cole?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:37 AM
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*You’re
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:19 AM
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This is the most based take I’ve ever seen a blue pilled woman make on this sub. Nice, op legit doesn’t even have a response to what you said. To be fair, this thread is pretty topic is pretty stupid, so it’s not exactly hard to deconstruct it, but props all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:15 AM
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I’m picking the Asian woman, because she’s statistically more likely to not be fat than the blonde woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:19 PM
1

What a horrible fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:01 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, after all. Sweeney isn’t beautiful though, I personally reserve that word for 8’s and above. She’s a 7, barely. And that’s with the pounds of makeup on her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:00 PM
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What I’m saying is that she’s giving the realistic, pragmatic answer, while you’re giving the “vibes and feelings” answer. There’s this weird trend with blue pillers that I don’t understand, where someone will go “well, here’s what the data says the average man/woman is like”, and then you guys (I’m assuming you’re blue pilled, apologies if you’re not) will respond with “but you can’t speak for everyone!” I mean yes, factually, you are correct, I can’t dispute that, because obviously not every s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:49 PM
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The woman you’re responding to is more in line with the average woman than you are. Just saying. So yeah, she can “speak” for the average woman, if her mate selection follows the general trend of most women (i.e. always dating up, never down). You can feel the way that you do, but understand that your view doesn’t align with the average Western woman. Dating would be a whole lot easier for men if it did, I will say that, but unfortunately it doesn’t work out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:09 PM
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He’s literally asking you to hold women accountable, and your response is “idc lol”. That’s….not a good counter. Hence the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:00 PM
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But I literally supplied you data that outright says 70% of New Yorkers are overweight. Do you have a response to that? Ad hominems aren’t a counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:32 PM
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I live in the South. I know the statistics, better than you almost certainly. I don’t care that there are more fat people in the South, that’s irrelevant to what I said. I provided you a link that demonstrably proved that New Yorkers are no more “hot” than your typical average American. You have no counter to this. Everything you said applies to all major cities in the South too, but that doesn’t change the fact that most people in the South are fat. New York isn’t special. “But I see hot people…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:47 PM
2

Tbf I do prefer higher body fat on a woman, I can’t stand anorexic girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:41 PM
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You are vastly overrating the attractiveness of New Yorkers. Vastly. Why are you talking about them as if they’re Miami influencers? “People are hot here.” No, princess, New York is just as fat as everybody else in this country lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:07 PM
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Women have higher bmis on average though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:00 PM
1

Looks >>>>>>>>> personality. My own experiences prove this to be true, and the data shows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:24 AM
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Nope. It’s not, sorry, you’re wrong. Nothing about my “confidence” or “demeanor” changed when I went from fat to fit. Literally nothing. But then, all of a sudden, people started to treat me better. lol, my “style?” No dude, miss me with the word games, (physically) attractive people are just treated better. That’s an objective fact, there are numerous studies on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:54 AM
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You could cut out all of the fat and say that looks are the most import thing in initiating a relationship, and that if someone is struggling then they should work on conforming their body to what society deems is “attractive” (I don’t want to say this, but it is the brutal truth). Or they could try nichemaxxing, but you have to physically appeal to someone first and foremost. Your personality is irrelevant before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:27 AM
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No, your response is a lie. Numerous people have said it’s “all your personality”. And then it’s looks. When it’s the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:13 AM
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Blue pillers are just going to conveniently not respond to your post here. I have the exact same experience, but still no dates, because despite the fact that I went from obese and out of shape, to lean and ripped, I’m still 5’6” in shoes, and smaller than most women (5’4”, 170lbs being the average size of an American woman), so still no real luck unless I severely drop my standards. Which I refuse to do so, because if I had to work this hard to be treated even marginally better, I’m not accepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:11 AM
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Because he’s not actually purple pilled, he’s a blue piller that’s astroturfing. There’s a lot of them that do that on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:50 PM
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I know what you said. I (and plenty of other people in this thread) are just telling you that your argument is dogshit. But I try not to engage with you a lot, because I already know how that goes down, so this conversation is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:46 PM
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Ted Bundy had numerous women drooling after him, and that was after it was proven he was a sociopathic killer with no remorse. The Colombine shooters have plenty of fangirls. This happens more often than you think, it’s not just a couple of examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:06 PM
-2

But notice how you didn’t deny it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:31 PM
2

Okay well don’t give low effort responses on a debate sub then, if you don’t want the low effort to be called out. And to answer your last sentence, yes, I unironically do just have random stats on hand to spew at people, but only if they insist on asking me about political, socioeconomic, or religious topics. Why? Because people are either waaaay too comfortable giving low effort responses (see your above “idk lol” post), or they just make shit up and start believing the lies that they’ve const…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:20 PM
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Don’t respond to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:19 PM
3

Your friends’ husbands sound like middle to upper middle class white boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:09 PM
2

I mean we have things called “data and statistics.” For example, I can absolutely tell you what the average man wants in a woman. I can’t tell you what every man wants, obviously, but I can tell you what the average guy wants. I can do this because of the aforementioned data and statistics. If I was giving advice to a woman about what attracts men, I wouldn’t give a meaningless, non-response like “idk I’m not a mind reader, every guy is different teehee.” Because that is a meaningless, low-effor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:06 PM
5

“Allowed” in this context means “being seen as attractive in general by the opposite sex.” If you don’t espouse traditional masculinity, most women don’t want you. But you already knew that. Most of your response is irrelevant, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:55 PM
1

Consider what a woman thinks is “ugly”, and that’ll answer all of your questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:56 PM
2

Some of them are short and not 6ft+. Or they’re balding. Or Indian. Or a janitor. Or all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:54 PM
12

I love how you answered your own question with your last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:47 PM
3

My sister in Christ, you can cover up tatoos with clothing People do it, all of the time. There’s nothing to disagree with here, you just made an objectively silly statement without thinking two seconds about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:36 PM
1

It’s not a “trad” thing. It’s a “woman” thing. Women, conservative and liberal, want to feel “protected” (whatever that means, as OP has asked). Because, shocker, men and women are different and are attracted to different things as a general rule (the keyword there being general, so whatever anecdotes you have don’t matter).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:32 PM
2

She’s trolling, there’s no other explanation for her responses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:19 PM
8

I’m not sure if you’re deliberately trolling here, but women on Reddit have said, numerous times, that a man being tall gives them a feeling of protection. In fact, there are women on this sub alone who would tell you the same thing. Your semantic word game here is laughable, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:18 PM
1

He didn’t ask you for your life story. He asked you if you or your husband initiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:20 PM
1

Moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:15 PM
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Men harass you all of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:09 PM
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You’d be content being alone for the rest of your life if men didn’t approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:23 PM
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Correct, but that’s not a counter to anything that OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:16 PM
0

Oh it’d change a lot of things, we’re seeing the change happening right now in countries like Korea and Japan where men don’t simp for women. The women are forced to put in more effort in order to attract someone, or they just dip out of the game entirely. That’s why I love these countries, they’re always ahead of the curve when it comes to shit like this. There will come a time where this is the case in America as well, the Zoomer men are already starting to trend that way. Also, I don’t know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:10 PM
2

Can you actually respond to what’s being argued, or just don’t respond at all? Strawmanning a person’s point isn’t a valid way to argue. If you don’t have anything to say, then don’t respond to me, I don’t like having my time wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:59 PM
7

Just don’t be short then. I never said life is fair. Men have low standards, and will put up with a lot of bullshit. I mostly blame men for the state of modern dating. Waaaay too many simps that are willing to be treated like dirt just for any crumb of pussy. Even if you or I decided “fuck this shit, we deserve to be treated better” and ignored women altogether, you’d still have hordes of clowns ready to slot right into her rotation. That’s just the way it is, sorry, even if the girl is an absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:42 PM
8

Discord meet ups, it happens all the time. What the fuck do you mean “wtf dude?” Do you think it’s some great secret that men prefer women who are at a healthy body weight? That’s not exactly some shocking revelation. Would you also be shocked if I told you most women prefer (require, really) that a man be her height or taller? Everybody has preferences, get over it (though women can change their weight, men can’t change their height).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:54 PM
9

Rising rates of single motherhood compared to previous decades. Average iq going steadily going down (but height going up, shocker). Zoomers are tech illiterate and the average American can barely read? The US is not going down a good path right now, but I don’t care, I’m just here to watch it all collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:50 PM
6

A lot of men would love a woman who did that, so long as she wasn’t fat. I can’t say the opposite is true for most women, even if the guy himself was also a healthy body weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:45 PM
0

I don’t think your response here was in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:55 PM
0

That’s what passports are for, go overseas to Asia. They’re cheaper, better looking, and more pleasant to be around than your average Western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:57 PM
1

K, well, you can keep saying that, but passport bros are going to keep winning by having a low maintenance thin girlfriend, meanwhile men in the West will continue to languish with the quality of the women here. Men are waaay to quick too settle for anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:31 PM
-9

Oh no, the absolute horror! Anyway, I’d still smash. :) Unless she was fat or something, then the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:25 AM
1

What do you call a “10/10?” Describe that girl to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:11 PM
0

Strawmen are so boring. You’re better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:04 PM
0

You aren’t most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:52 PM
0

I mean that the average woman in America, who, yes, is overweight or obese. Not that I agree with this schizo post, but the elite billionaire doesn’t necessarily have to tolerate American women, he could just have a handpicked selection of slim Asian/African/Latina women if he so desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:51 PM
1

If only you were most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:43 PM
1

No. Accept me for who am I am, or move on. I’m not changing myself for any woman (especially not for the women in the west), I’m not going to pretend to be someone that I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:33 PM
0

Because you constantly gaslight us about experiences that we see with our own eyes, not to mention your tendency to reject data/statistics in favor of “feel good vibes” personal anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:29 PM
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Nah. I have plenty of friends, I don’t “need” women to be any of them. If I’m approaching you in public, it’s because I see you as a potential romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:53 PM
1

Nah, he could passport bro himself. Or pay for hookers. Why didn’t you bring up those two points? Do you just want the guy to suffer from the quality of the women in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:57 PM
-2

He honestly probably does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:33 AM
-1

Lol, so you gained a bunch a fat and all of a sudden you think girls are into you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:30 PM
2

Damn, even the blue pillers are starting to wake up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:08 AM
3

So just follow rules 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:56 AM
7

I don’t envy them, especially since some of those morons are felons paying child support. I’m more baffled as to how they managed to get multiple women pregnant, when women claim they can “sense” red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:10 PM
3

You got called out for living inside of a sheltered bubble (which you only reinforced with this response), just admit “yeah, single motherhood is a rising issue” and call it a day. It’s okay to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:07 PM
1

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:48 PM
4

What about gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:06 PM
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Tell that to the blue pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:48 AM
4

Except blue pillers perpetuate the Just World fallacy and “women are wonderful” effect all of the time. There are a few of you on this sub who outright refuse to criticize women in any capacity, even to point of contradicting yourselves when you defend things women do in one thread, but then criticize those very same actions in another, depending entirely upon the way the opinions of the women in said threads happen to be swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:02 AM
2

Well they’re attracted to hot men, not necessarily their intelligence. And before you bring up Stephen Hawking, he met his first wife before his diagnosis. And anything after his paralysis was a combination of his status + money (which came as a result of his great intellect, but the intellect itself isn’t what most women want).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:56 AM
3

Had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:11 PM
-1

That’s not a flex, queen; we don’t remember you either. Unless you said some out-of-pocket shit that makes us remember you. But you absolutely have a reason to despise low value men being happy, it’s how women maintain a stranglehold on the dating market and dynamics. It’s looking like that hold is starting to shaken with zoomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:01 AM
2

No, I think you’re projecting and seething over the fact that men who were supposed to be “ousted” (short, balding, unfit, ugly, brown, etc) from the dating market now have the same control and power over who they want (much like younger women have), and this obviously makes you upset. They aren’t supposed to be happy and satisfied, they’re supposed to be perma-miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:48 PM
-1

I mean, that’s subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:40 PM
3

That’s why I said “athletic.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:54 PM
1

Wait a minute, I had a woman on this sub tell me that it’s not racist to not want to date certain races, and she was pretty adamant about that when I pointed out her racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:03 PM
2

Nope, I’m fairly honest in what I’m attracted to. Just don’t be fat. Or a drug addict with missing teeth. I don’t require income, status, height, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:37 PM
7

To be fair, most women prefer a lean, athletic look, not a bodybuilder physique. Of course most of them will take athletic over skinny twink. Most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:33 PM
1

“Handsome” being a euphemism for “be tall” of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:07 AM
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I’d be mad, but less mad if he were rich. I’d rather she date a rich 40 year old, than a bum 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:34 PM
11

What would it take for you to blame women for anything? I’ve never seen you do it once on this sub, I’m genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:18 PM
12

No, you need to stop white knighting and just flat out admit that a large portion of women have godawful social skills despite what society tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:11 PM
8

There’s probably like 50 different women on this sub alone who’d tell you the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:26 AM
2

Why shouldn’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:24 AM
2

Brother, that’s straight from the CDC and census. The average American woman is a late 30’s something, 5’4”, 170lb woman. If you just count younger women (18-30), their average weight is still around 160lbs. That’s average. I never said the average is “good”, I’m just stating what it is. Yes, the standards in this country have vastly gone down. It is what it is. It’s eye-opening, I know, but if you aren’t aware of the data educate yourself right quick. You’ll see just how bad it really is right …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:30 AM
1

It got me more matches than listening to women ever did, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:42 AM
0

I’m talking about mammals, which we are, in case you didn’t know. I’d honestly prefer if you didn’t respond to me again, I can already tell how talking to you is going to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:05 AM
3

Gladly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:40 AM
2

If we’re talking about mammals, they won’t reject the females, but they will kill the offspring of the females first to induce heat. No mammalian male wants to raise another male’s offspring (though there are a few exceptions, but in general it just doesn’t happen). Obviously, humans don’t do that because we’re not feral animals. Well, most of us aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:35 AM
1

We’re above the other animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:30 AM
5

I don’t disagree with what you said, but I’ll just say that we have data that backs up what I’ve observed in real life. Height conveys power and attraction, objectively, this cannot be disputed. Personality does not matter after a certain point. The fat orange man in control of the US is proof enough of that. He’s tall, white, and is rich, and a lot of people respect that because of those physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:08 PM
0

“Be assertive and possessive, but not too assertive and possessive, okay? Else I’ll be repulsed by you.” Lord help the men you’re with. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:52 PM
6

I’ll assume you’re not lying and counter with the fact that you are one person, and indicative of the average man’s (especially one who’s below average in height) experience. I can just as easily counter your anecdote with an anecdote of my own about my coworker, who’s about 5’3” and has never had a girlfriend before, despite the fact that he’s well groomed, in perfect shape, has a great personality, makes decent money, etc. But we both know why he struggles attracting women. Maybe he’ll get luc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:48 PM
6

All she has to do is lose weight and she’ll be golden (as opposed to height, which can’t be increased without surgery). Hell, there’s men out there who’d like her as she is right now. Plenty more than the opposite example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:39 PM
13

5’4”, 170lbs, makes around 35k to 40k, these stats are from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:36 PM
16

That doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:34 PM
5

What is your height and race?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:30 PM
1

You live in a country with significantly taller men than the global average, your mindset is warped by the tiny bubble you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:12 PM
1

The main reason, besides the fact that they view it as un-masculine, is because bisexual men have waaay more options than most dudes (even more options than Chad does). Which means he’s less likely to put up with any gaslighting/bullshit/childish games. That makes him harder to emotionally control/manipulate. And that’s obviously unacceptable in the eyes of most women. They’re used to average heterosexual men simping over them like slaves, bisexual men have a bit more self-respect than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:36 PM
2

Maybe facially, not in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:24 PM
0

I mean, to be fair, they’ll claim you’re lying because they’re basing their belief off of data, versus your own personal anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:26 PM
1

Does the man always have to initiate sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:25 PM
2

Bear mode physique, above average height. I got the information that I needed (and already assumed was true).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:24 PM
1

Perfect post. You need to copy and paste this text to the blue pilled women here, they reject everything you just said as false.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:01 PM
2

Notice how you didn’t counter his point on being attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:47 PM
1

Would you tolerate a man who was submissive in the bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:46 PM
4

Anything to remove responsibility and accountability from the woman, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:41 PM
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Learn how to not straw man a person’s position, and more people on this sub would take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:30 PM
2

You should ask yourself why women don’t approach these men. Nothing’s stopping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:27 PM
4

Too much rejection is not a good thing. It warps the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:20 PM
3

How tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:15 PM
1

She’s an out of touch boomer bro, just stop responding and save yourself the headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:26 AM
1

*By Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:25 AM
0

You’re 40 years old and hitting up bars with your other millennial/gen x buddies, what works for you doesn’t work for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:15 AM
1

Bro, please stop telling people to go to bars, most of them are garbage, and you’ll most likely just end up wasting your time and/or money. This “works” if you’re tall and white (and even then, sometimes it doesn’t work for them), but for everyone else if you’re looking for your looksmatch, good luck. You’re better off cold approaching elsewhere, or grinding it out on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:01 AM
2

Brutal. Most dudes are cooked if a doctor is struggling to find his looksmatch (I’m assuming you’re in shape, if you’re fat then get in shape).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:58 PM
1

It’s not ludicrous to call you a racist if you don’t find certain races attractive, what are you smoking madam?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:59 PM
2

To be fair spam approaching is the best option for a lot of men. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t get anything. I don’t do it because I don’t have the mental fortitude/patience to deal with most women these days, so I kind of respect guys that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:52 PM
-2

You’re in the minority of women. Approaching a stranger to ask them out just because you find them attractive is pretty normal behavior. That’s like, the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:43 PM
8

Cold approaching is a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:38 PM
1

Okay, so now you’re becoming defensive and going into gaslighting mode. You should’ve just said “yeah, you’re right”, and left it at that. I don’t care about the rest of your petulant rant, you are absolutely disqualifying people based on immutable facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:55 PM
2

A person can’t change their race. You’re disqualifying people on something they can’t control, regardless of their intelligence, personality, maturity, etc. I don’t care that you find no issue with that, 99% of people would call you a racist for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:09 AM
2

I respect the honesty tbh. A lot of women here would lie about having racial preferences. I can still judge you for it, of course, but the respect is still there. At least you’re not gaslighting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:39 AM
1

Anecdotes aren’t data.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:39 PM
3

Wait, so you’re just a….racist, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:14 PM
0

Not everything is about appearance. Just saying. Also, the guys fucking ugly women aren’t the ones complaining the most. It’s the guys trying to find a woman who isn’t ugly but can’t, they’re the ones most likely to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:51 PM
0

Physically unattractive? No, there are men who do that, as much as that might surprise you. There’s different levels of “unattractive.” Well, maybe they don’t “date” them, but they’ll have sex with them, under certain circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:44 PM
5

Not everyone that’s partnered with a woman is confident, what the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:36 PM
1

Completely and utterly untrue on every conceivable level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:09 PM
44

To be fair, a few of them are starting to say the quiet part out loud, even the blue pilled ones. That, or they’ll disguise it with “don’t be shorter than me” or “of course there’s an attraction threshold, we never said otherwise.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:08 PM
12

No, we’d believe you there because we’d watch your actions of preferring taller than average men. Lol No way to gaslight us there, even blue pilled women admit it. And their actions show it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:53 PM
6

To be fair, that seems to be accurate. I live in one of the fattest states in the US, it doesn’t matter the race or gender (well, aside from Asians), everyone just seems to be overweight. I’ve seen plenty of fat dudes with fit women (though all of those fat dudes were noticeably tall) because the pickings here are aren’t that great, so if you want a partner you’ll have to be willing to compromise (in terms of appearance).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:09 PM
8

I don’t know, the rising rates of depression, loneliness, the fact that men (and women) are losing their virginity at older ages now, all these things seem to disagree with you. But, to be honest, I’m not shocked that you’re not aware of them, since you seem to be on the older side and older people tend to be out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:06 PM
-5

It means she becomes delusional, and will start to reject men who are actually in her league because “I’ve done better than that.” And when she can’t find that high value guy to commit to her, she either becomes bitter and jaded, or she “settles” with her looksmatch while still being unsatisfied (which is a recipe for disaster). You don’t seriously think that just because a guy is willing to have casual sex with a woman, then that means he’s automatically willing to risk it all with a LTR, do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:04 PM
7

If you don’t include Hispanics and black women in that figure, what do the numbers look like then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:53 PM
8

We don’t care that boomers/gen x/millennials don’t struggle as much. There clearly is a problem with the newest generation. Older folks are arguably why we’re having problems to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:52 PM
-2

Their looksmatch is their league. A man who makes six figures, is in shape, and is tall/handsome is not in the same league as an overweight single mother just because he decided to have sex with her one night. But the woman will absolutely think she’s worth that now, if she can get it once, then she can get it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:49 PM
-1

Don’t respond to me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:22 AM
2

So, do you genuinely believe that a significant portion of men are just in “situationships”, and that they aren’t really “single” as is traditionally understood? Only respond with yes or no, don’t respond with anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:48 PM
1

Of course, your 5 second google search proves that every young man is in fact a Chad who can cycle women in and out of his harem. Yup, totally accurate. This must explain why 63% of young men report being “single”; they’re not really single you see, it’s just that they have a roster of women that they choose from! Totally accurate data btw
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:50 PM
5

Average men don’t get into “situationships”, let alone zoomers. I don’t know what reality some of you blue pillers live in, but it’s not this one. There aren’t enough men in sitautionships to skew the data this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:07 PM
1

Lilith is a troll. I applaud you for engaging the bait, but her whole shtick is rage baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:50 PM
1

That graph shows you that there’s a fuckton of men (and women) that are virgins above the age of 22. And that’s an older study, with how awkward male zoomers are (and how hypergamous gen z women are), that number is probably much higher now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:37 PM
2

What were their heights?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:20 PM
0

Somehow I knew you’d respond like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:16 AM
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You’re not even saying anything or addressing his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:21 PM
1

Women on this sub tend to not argue in good faith, as evidenced by your responses here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:17 PM
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Women initiate most divorces. Objective fact. Can’t wait to see how you’ll spin that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:15 PM
13

Settling is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:35 PM
1

Respond in good faith please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:29 AM
1

It depends on the age of the woman. A body count of three by the age of 19 would make me raise my eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:23 AM
3

Get a better response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:45 PM
2

63% of men ages 18-30 are single, seethe harder Most of my friend group is single, we can play the anecdote game all day long, except the data supports my experiences more than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:42 PM
3

He’s telling you to gain some introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:50 PM
7

Yeah, it’s easy to see that a guy is short, which is why he has a harder time than the “machiavellian” tall guy (who has a million red flags that women somehow overlook).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:48 PM
5

That may be true, but never underestimate the pull of a tall white dude with glasses and flannel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:35 PM
8

So they’re Chadsexuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:19 PM
1

Argue in good faith please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:01 PM
2

So you had one bad experience and now you give “zero” chances even to dudes who are completely normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:24 PM
2

You. And before you throw a hissy fit; weight can be changed and managed. A woman who is 300lbs has only herself to blame, barring some debilitating injury (and even then, 300lbs takes a lot of effort to get to). Height cannot. Well, at not without lifts. Or expensive, painful, life altering surgery. Also, I find it hilarious that you would compare dating a man shorter than yourself to a man dating a severely obese woman. Says a lot about the modern dating scene. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:55 AM
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Damn. I wish the rest of the women on this sub were as level headed and rational as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:45 AM
14

The common denominator here seems to be you, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:32 AM
1

Okay but could you please answer my question? Your answer is irrelevant to what I asked, I know a dude shorter than you, but that’s also irrelevant information. Just answer my question, in good faith, to the best of your ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:59 PM
2

Would you and most women you know be willing to date a man shorter than yourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:47 PM
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Projection. To any lurkers here who don’t comment, this is what projection looks like. No logic or argument, just blanket statements with no reasoning behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:44 PM
1

No blue pilled advice ever worked for me. Didn’t do jack shit. I leaned into the red pill (aka pretended to be someone that I’m not) and all of a sudden I started getting more attention from women. I don’t know, make it make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:46 AM
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To be fair, the quality of the women matters to me. I don’t care if you can attract a horde of crackheads or obese single moms with 3 children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:52 PM
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What you said is true. But men’s standards are much, much, much lower than a woman’s. Men are much more likely to date “down” on average, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:39 PM
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I ignore what they say and watch what they do, sorry. Are you saying autistic dudes should start emulating the felons with harems of girls….????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:34 PM
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Starving to death is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:31 PM
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Women could approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:29 PM
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You’re a woman though. Most men don’t care if you’re extremely neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:27 PM
6

Guys aren’t saying that women prefer larger dicks because of porn. They say that because of the polls where women themselves say they prefer larger than average dicks (and the average woman has zero idea what an “average” sized dick is btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:10 PM
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Yeah, your personal anecdotes make you a psychologist and analytical data savant. I’ll start ignoring peer reviewed research and decades of studies on the human psyche in favor of your “personal experience.” 🤨 I wonder about some of you guys sometimes. Go outside more. Exit your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:26 PM
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I’m not doing all that. I’m just going to keep cold approaching and/or using dating apps. It’s not a crime to just ask for a phone number to a random on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:02 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:51 PM
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Is it wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:43 PM
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You literally have no idea what you’re talking about. I know you’re just phishing for responses, but I genuinely hope any lurkers here don’t take your posts seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:35 PM
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Then women should start marrying down more often than they do now then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:18 PM
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What are you even trying to say with this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:15 PM
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And she would be wrong for thinking that. ….Right? Please tell me you don’t actually agree with that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:32 PM
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Mask off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:59 PM
8

I mean I’m not giving them passes, because these women refuse to go out with me in the first place. And even if I did manage to land a date with one of them, I’m not one to tolerate shitty behaviors, I’d sooner remain single. I’m still hitting and quitting though, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:18 PM
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I want her to be attractive and not fat. That’s literally the bare minimum. And I don’t fault women who have that as a bare minimum either for men. I’m fit and workout 6 days a week, the problem is that because I’m well below average height, women seem to think that my equivalent is an overweight single mother. That I should just accept that reality and move on. And I don’t vibe with that. Finding a partner for myself is easy. Finding a partner that is young, fit, and with no children is hell on…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:07 PM
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I mean I guess in regards to puberty you’d be correct. I thought you meant more along the lines of “dating experience.” There are men and women who don’t start dating until they’re in their 30’s, as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:41 AM
1

This is the issue I have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:28 AM
2

You weren’t a “late bloomer” if you landed your first gf in high school. That’s pretty typical. Or, at least it was. 45% of zoomers haven’t even approached a woman yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:27 AM
1

Stop responding to her. She only chases Chads and assumes all men must be like Chad. Average guys don’t get the option to “play around.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:27 PM
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Stop. Approaching. Women. Don’t give them the attention, that’s how they win. Some of you guys will never learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:16 AM
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No, you responded exactly how I thought you would. I asked a simple question, and you needlessly added multiple caveats on top. A lot of women do this on this sub to avoid directly answering a question. But I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:01 PM
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So you don’t initiate. Women do the “no indication that they want it” game all of the time, and they absolutely expect men to “read” nonexistent signals or else they quickly lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:42 PM
1

Does he have to initiate, or are you comfortable doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:18 AM
1

Don’t give her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:29 PM
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Men prefer younger women. That’s how it is in countries all around the world, that’s how it’s been throughout the millions of years humans have been on this planet, and that is how it will almost certainly remain in the distant future. At 18, you’re a legal adult in the vast majority countries around the world, sometimes younger. Basically, I’m saying get over it, because men hitting on younger women is how the real world works. Humans are primates, male primates prefer younger partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:15 PM
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An army of simps/orbiters that she’ll have dancing like jesters, while she pursues the 3 or 4 Chads interested in her? Because I’m not disagreeing with you here. But are you saying that this is a good thing, or are you just making a statement on objective reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:57 PM
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I’m not sure what your last point is trying to make, but all I’m saying is that if a woman is put off by a guy bringing up reality, it says more about her than him. And if he can’t get into her pants because of that then he wasn’t missing out on much to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:28 PM
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Yeah, women are repulsed by….basic mathematics…??? Maybe the Zoomers are right. The future is cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:17 PM
3

Honestly not really. If I had a shitload of options, I don’t think money would play that much of a role. Maybe if all the girls were equally hot? Then I might consider money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:36 AM
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Only if she was attractive enough. And even then, I’m still not sure I would go out of my way to pursue wealth over physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:12 AM
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You live in one of the fattest sections of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:05 AM
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The sole biological drive of every living creature is reproductive Maybe for you It’s the most base, powerful biological drive we possess. That’s just like, your opinion man. Also, sources please?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:45 AM
2

Most reasonable woman here tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:42 AM
2

Women find plenty of things that aren’t that big of a deal “unattractive.” A lot of men would be better off not obsessing over what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:41 AM
0

Only because they come off as unapproachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:09 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:49 PM
1

I said a “huge chunk”, not “all”, so you need to improve your reading comprehension and don’t strawman your opponents too. And I stand by that statement. A huge chunk of women (especially white women) just coast by on pretty privilege, then when they get checked and get told “no” (especially if that “no” is coming from a minority), they throw a fit. Tell me I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:28 PM
1

What a great counter. I can tell you’ve taken debate classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:19 PM
9

Or women need to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:27 AM
1

Be something, as opposed to “bland nothing” like a huge chunk of women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:23 AM
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