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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Men don't ask me out on a second date? What am I doing wrong? | DATING ADVICE | killawatt_9 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/23 01:01 PM |
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| 71 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesExactly. The problem is that the men most women want are often the ones every other woman wants too. So it’s a vicious cycle. And I am saying this as a woman, it’s a truth that’s hard to swallow for us. Women tend to look at the higher league men and hope for commitment with them, while those men will only want them for sex. The solution? Women should look at the pool of guys that are already interested in them, and choose the most suitable one from there. But this is something most women are to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:03 AM |
| 3 | How to stop being a plateI'm going to be brutally honest with you but sometimes we need a wake-up call: You're trying so hard to adapt to this guy's needs, even considering polyamory which is the most stupid thing to do if you want a monogamous relationship. Realize and admit that you have low self-esteem and that you are trying so desperately for this guy to accept and validate you. The first step is acknowledging it. Hooking up with someone early on is only going to get you that, the status of a hook up. You mentioned… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/23 04:11 PM |
| 10 | I don't know if my partner is good for me anymoreDear, you need to let him go. This man clearly doesn’t respect you and does not care about you. I hope this experience teaches you to never trust a man’s words, always look at his actions! If he truly wants to take care of you, from the very beginning he will be showing you. Wipe your tears, remove him from your life and move on, you can do so much better! Good luck💛 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/23 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Successful men wanting to me to get the bill occasionallyI agree with her. This man doesn’t sound like he has the intention of taking care of you 100% of the time and letting you relax and be in your feminine. You mentioned that the main issue here is that he wants you to contribute towards the bills because you have a good job, and that if he was dating a woman with a low earning job he would take care of it 100% of the time. He is probably feeling emasculated and he is resenting you because of that, that’s why I always advise to lie to men about you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?None of the things you mentioned are something you can do for your partner to bring value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?And what do you bring to the table? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How safe is it for a guy to get black out drunk in presence of girls?Just don't engage in sex with someone you barely know when you're heavily intoxicated, as easy as that. If you can't have sex with someone while you're both sober and sure there's 100% consent then I'd suspect you have other intentions in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 01:21 PM |
| 3 | How to know when he sees you as a forever girlfriend or as a future wife?When a man sees you as his dream girl he will want lock you down and take you "off the market" as soon as possible. It always has to be a man's initiative to want to marry you. The type of man you are describing is a time waster. A man who makes a woman wait for years and waste all her youth by being the "place holder". | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 02:53 PM |
| -3 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?And women are wired to take a man's money. It's NATURAL for us to want a rich successful man who can support us. But OH, are you upset now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Passport bros is the only optionAnd who do you think pays for Onlyfans? Who do you think rewards this promiscuous behavior of women? Your reasoning makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "The bar is in hell" is a true statement.......but only for modern women.Everything ok at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedThe same way you don't have a romantic interest in every woman that talks to you. Women are allowed to not like you, even though you "talk to them as people" like you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How can a man build confidence in his interactions with women if his experience is almost entirely rejection?Basically not viewing women as sexual beings and seeing them as people with life experiences, emotions and feelings like everyone else. You'd be surprised how the majority of men fail to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How can a man build confidence in his interactions with women if his experience is almost entirely rejection?As everyone says, confidence in yourself is key. But not the "I am the best" type of confidence, but rather the "I will be ok if they do not like me back" kind of confidence. I will also add, women can smell desperation from a mile away. Start talking to women in a friendly manner, without any expectations. Don't try to push too hard that you want something else with them, that comes with time. Girls want to be treated as human beings too above anything. A lot of guys fail to see that and that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 10:19 PM |
| -2 | Men don't ask me out on a second date? What am I doing wrong?Everyone can have different views, but as I see it relationships only work when the man is a lot more into the woman than the other way around. Otherwise you end up in a situation where you chase men, and sorry but I'll never do that | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/23 03:04 PM |
| -5 | Men don't ask me out on a second date? What am I doing wrong?I do understand that culture and social norms vary a lot from country to country. However, I tend to date mostly international men. Men from all different countries in the world who happen to work and live where I am as it is a big international city. Americans, mediterranean men, northern men... So I was quite surprised that I am being ghosted quite a lot lately regardless of culture and country. That's what lead me to think that maybe there is something I am doing wrong | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/23 01:59 PM |
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