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Y’all after commenting this I literally just got spammed with messages from LVM saying “that’s not the only standard there are physical standards too :( :(“ imagine if you put as much energy into loving yourself as you do harassing strangers on the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:44 PM
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I mean what’s the problem? All she has to do is WILL HIM into giving a fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:52 PM
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People really will give us shit just because our only standard is be a good person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:47 PM
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They will spend so much money on stupid car things then be short on rent 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:01 PM
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True! I was more thinking along the lines of vulnerability. Women are more established in their 30s than their 20s and less likely to become dependent on a man for security. I probably wouldn’t want to date a 50 y/o when I’m in my 30s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:30 PM
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Yes mam! I think once both people are over maybe 30/35ish then age gaps don’t have to be concerning. Until then, there will always be a reason people don’t date their own age—either he’s a creep, or women his age won’t put up with his shit. Usually it’s both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:44 PM
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I’m anxious and I hate every minute of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:06 PM
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Yes!!! I don’t need some pathetic jerk from the past telling me “you’re welcome”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:26 PM
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If he had a link like that I would be surprised he would even ASK hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:49 PM
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He means if you want to link up. Like meet up. Hope that clarifies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:39 PM
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It’s almost like violent fantasy is them fantasizing committing violent acts on you.......................
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:36 PM
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I hope this doesn’t come across as insensitive but.....girl y’all were never together. He was just some guy who sent you messages that made you feel good. Now I’m only saying this to highlight a couple points: first, a man who wants to be with you WILL. Second, LVM will say ANYTHING to get you to believe them. And third, you gotta demand more from men in order for you to even CONSIDER if he’s good enough to be with you. Some nice messages just aren’t enough. This is why FDS says never stop vetti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:33 PM
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Didn’t back in the day you needed a Facebook account to verify and use your tinder? And it purposely wouldn’t show you people on your friends list? Anyone else remember this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:56 PM
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I knew she was trash the minute I saw her. Such a shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:53 PM
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Children take both names, unhyphenated. That’s where the stereotype of Latinos having super long names come from haha. As far as I know this is common practice in nearly every Latin country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:39 AM
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Omg just reading this infuriated me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:31 AM
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This is why I love being Latina. I don’t have to change my last name for anyone, and if I have a child they would bear both names
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:28 AM
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Are you also Latina? I love this about our culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:27 AM
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D lives in her home country where this is the norm, correct? I gotta be honest, I feel like this is beyond FDS’ pay grade, with the cultural brainwashing to overcome and all. I think the best you can do for now is to continue being her friend, letting her know she deserves better, and pointing out all the red flags you can, including the WHY and HOW. However I do agree with your dad, be careful with the criticism—you want to let her know that you’re doing it because you care about her, not becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:04 AM
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I might take you up on that, please work your mentor magic in my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:41 PM
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Would you mind sharing a few tips for those interested in investing in real estate? Or point me to a resource that can?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:26 PM
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This might be a dumb question but how do I find a good mentor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:24 PM
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I noticed that bump in GameStop and was so confused! What do you mean when you say it was because of Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:23 PM
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I feel like pseudo-science is too generous of a term for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:15 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean by the “not like other girls” part? Like it’s easier to make male friends than female friends or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:06 PM
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Ooof I had someone who found my fb exactly how you described. “Hey we didn’t match but I just had to talk to you so I found you here” gee I wonder why we didn’t match???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:39 AM
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Making solid female friends is tough. Pre-covid I used to love the women I would meet tipsy in bar bathrooms lol. If you’re on facebook, I’m in a giant women-only group page called Girls Love Travel. Pretty often you see women asking about others in their area who would be down to hang, and pretty much every one there is kind and receptive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:37 AM
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Hey, I think all that you accomplished is impressive as hell. Don’t talk yourself down just because of the ~idea~ that we’re all somehow more put together. Thanks for sharing your story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:33 AM
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“If it’s not a yes, it’s a no.” I live by these words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:33 PM
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That’s nice and all but someone please tell this girl she’s using way too much product. You can get the same look with about half the amount. Looks good on camera but probably super noticeable in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:55 PM
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I also can’t stand her technique. So much wasted product
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:53 PM
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Looking back at all the cringy shit I did or said being an undiagnosed borderline......lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:00 AM
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I don’t think any man I was with ever truly liked me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:58 AM
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Ladies I met a LVM with red flags but I feel myself falling for him—please smack some sense into me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:06 PM
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Honestly. She is very pretty but what is going on inside of her that she felt the need to ask Reddit strangers of all people to validate that for her. I would give her a six just because she had to come here and ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:25 PM
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I saw this too!!!! The whole time he couldn’t figure out what the deal was. Holy fuck this shot up my blood pressure when I read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:08 PM
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I got that same message too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:47 PM
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*11 YEAR FIANCEEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:18 AM
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I think they’re her friends from college, not in college, not that it matters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:04 AM
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*11 year fiancé 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:12 AM
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Ohh I didn’t even catch that! Damn how sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:09 AM
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Right?? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:35 PM
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Yes mam!!! That first sentence is all you need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:09 PM
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That mac and cheese sounds nasty tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:58 PM
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Is he joking? He has to be joking. There’s no way I can believe this is real and not a joke. Is he joking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:19 PM
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It’s the way he goes about it. He says things like “maybe she can get something I would actually enjoy seeing on her” “she’s allowed to make her own choice” (DUH) “I changed for her when she didn’t specifically ask and now I’m bothered she won’t do what I want”. It’s one thing for her to ask his opinion and he says he doesn’t like it, but the framework in which he thinks about it is all sorts of messed up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:17 PM
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THANK FDS for showing me that this is NOT NORMAL!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:47 PM
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The way he talks about his gf and their relationship ALREADY IS CONTROLLING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:30 PM
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This dude STAYS in my DMs too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:14 AM
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Great quote, thanks for sharing ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:58 PM
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All the LVM gotta work somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:25 PM
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God why doesn’t he shut the fuck up, figuratively
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:56 PM
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I got you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:39 PM
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This dude don’t know what body language means 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:31 PM
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I get what you’re saying, there’s nothing inherently wrong with enjoying these things, but the problem arises when these are deemed “womanly” things. These are normal healthy people things. Women weren’t traditionally “good” at these things, they were forced into them. No one here is ashamed about these traits, I’m sure nearly everyone here shares them, but when it becomes expected of you by simply being a women, that’s a no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:28 PM
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Shut up Dave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:43 PM
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I second the martial arts suggestions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:02 AM
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Okay now this makes way more sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:39 PM
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I’m still learning how to but I think we can learn from each other. First you have to be honest with yourself. Take a look at your choices—who you choose to spend time with, how you choose to spend your time, etc. You have to cut off all contact with people who bring you down. Period. Don’t even keep them on social media because it will just remind you. You also need to pick up new healthy habits outside of relationships. I started going to the gym again and focusing on my health—it’s good for y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:30 PM
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My ex NVM has been reaching out to me since we broke up three weeks ago. That’s when I discovered FDS and it REALLY helped me push through and not message him back. I know I should block him but sometimes I still miss him and want to see him text me even though I’m going to ignore it anyway. I’m tired of not living up to my true potential and letting these LVM treat me with disrespect. Baby steps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:11 PM
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That’s how I found it too! And it couldn’t come at a better time for me. The past couple weeks reading FDS has relieved a lot of my anxiety surrounding men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:41 AM
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Looking back, there’s a massive parallel between the LVM I dated and the LV jobs I worked. No matter how hard I tried to be “good,” “non-confrontational,” “use good communication skills,” nothing ever changed in those situations. Ever. In the end I was fed up and left both the man and the job for not being appreciated in any capacity. Like a HVM, a good job will work to keep their good employees happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:57 PM
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I dated a guy that had no idea what he was doing, and I was nice enough (desperate enough?) to try to teach him. Of course he didn’t listen, he didn’t actually care, and when we broke up he tried to blame ME for bad sex!! Like sir you deserve a gold medal for those mental gymnastics you just performed 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ He also couldn’t do his own taxes. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:50 PM
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What’s wrong with “are you free Saturday night?” Is it presumptuous? Is it too indirect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:45 PM
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That yawn emoji is killing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:11 AM
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A lesson learned hard is still a lesson learned. Don’t hate on yourself too much for it, the cards aren’t in our favor to always behave like HVW we are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:08 AM
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Yo this literally happened to me yesterday. My FWB and I were cool, would chill and laugh and generally have a good time besides the sex. I knew he was moving out of state this week but instead of saying anything to me like a normal person he just straight deleted me off everything. Like ok?? I’m not heartbroken by your moving buddy I just want to be treated like a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:03 AM
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This is really great, I love processing my emotions with logical perspectives like this. Thanks for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:05 PM
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Yes, making new friends has only gotten more difficult for me as I’ve gotten older. I definitely should try to reach out to older friends or make an effort to connect more with acquaintances I admire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:04 PM
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You’re right, ever since I’ve found this sub I’ve been feeling almost fulfilled in some way. I realize that none of my relationships ever made me feel good and that feeling nothing from no one is still better than feeling bad from someone who’s supposed to love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:02 PM
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This is a really interesting point; my suffering is based off my own imagination. No one is actively hurting me, I’m not needing for much in my life, and I’ve never had a man worth missing anyway. In a weird way this is comforting to me, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:00 PM
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“Expectations are not fine” uh?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:54 PM
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