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| 1 | How would you like someone to show interest in you? What would help you feel appreciated vs used?Perhaps as a homosexual man this might be a bit different, but a simple interest and non sexual intimate comfort comes from just sitting and watching something with my partner or making each other coffee. It's nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:11 AM |
| 7 | Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks.If you put power dynamics into casual sex I think you're missing it's point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Swinging? Would you or wouldn’t you and why? Is there a gendered component to this?I love my hubs for too many reasons to count but one of the ones that I think fits in this scenario is the fact that he can look at my scarred up legs and face and still find something attractive. (I was attacked by dogs as a kid, it kinda ruined my physical appearance or at least my self image.) selfish as it may sound, I wouldn't want to share him, nor would I want to share myself because from my experience dating before meeting him, finding people who don't mind my nerve damage and weird roas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 3 | My red pill view on the West Elm Caleb situation.My oblivious pill on the West Elm Caleb situation Who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Not a super knowledgeable historian, but to my knowledge it really depends on the culture you look at. The Romans were pretty apathetic till they fell and then reformed as the Holy Romans... Persians where surprisingly chill when it came for sexual progressivism surprisingly at least in the scope of Mediterranean cultures in the time. As for the Norse...they were strangely egalitarian to the point of having female graves with similar treasures that one would find in a mans, but there were MANY g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | People who actually have mutually healthy relationships but you just lurk here or post: Why are you here exactly?Tbf I thought this was a sub reddit for people who see themselves as cognitively sound to discuss why their own point of view in philosophical thinking is what it is, and perhaps for some why their point of view is supposed to be objective truth. I'd certainly like to think my relationships are fairly healthy overall, but I don't entirely know if that's true for all of them, and perhaps that's why I occasionally pop into this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of labeling people who wouldn't date transgender people "transphobic"?My mentality is similar to language barriers. Just because I can't speak Russian doesn't mean I hate Russians. I don't have to date a transgender person to prove I don't hate them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?As a man who likes men I can say it does have a SLIGHT help to you but only if the lady/man is shallow and that is all you have going for you. Typically in the real world that only matters to a small degree. What's really important is realistic compatibility. You can't hop on some dating/ hook up site and expect everyone to be interested in you or for your interest to be reciprocated... Dating based souly on appearance of your partner is also a recipe for disaster because let's be honest looks f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?Most of us will be 20 years older 1/12 people will be dead, 2/3 of the remaining will still be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?I actually watched some dude attempt to explain this recently... https://youtu.be/4EyqLTGcL_0 https://youtu.be/Q6qmm6NkLwY Here's the two different breakdowns that I watched half of before throwing up in my mouth from half the vitrial the dude was spewing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Gender professor claims men can never truly "Like" woman. Do you Agree?Feels like Sigmund Freud would have something to say about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Where does this hate for TRP come from?TF is TRP? My internet lingo/ dating lingo is so out of touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?I can say that I don't look at any of those in the top searched, but some people follow things they don't agree with which can skew your results in a stat like that. For all you know peeps here who look at dating over thirty or fourty are the most downvoted individuals in that thread... Which would imply their opinions are not shared with the thread is and thus shouldn't be lumped into the "red" or "blue" strictly because of their general association. That being said, it would take far more time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner?Really depends on who they are, why I they bought me food and how much money I have at the time xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner?I don't feel compelled to sleep with my coworkers when they buy me dinner or lunch so...imma say no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."That might be an appeal to some people, but more than just the physical aspects of it being off,the "haptics" don't exist as well as the investment past the monetary one for the equipment. While I enjoy chilling with friends in VR chat, an in person conversation is tangibly different...you can feel a presence and read emotions in reality that simply can't be digitalized... As for porn games it's basically just putting an E-skinsuit dick into an E-doll that lacks any real emotion or putting an E-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 13 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."As a person who's played with VR and also has a relationship I can say comparing the two is like comparing Spaghetti to Fajitas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | The Queen of FDS"mom I already told you, I like men" stupid video quote that weirdly kinda fits here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable?Everyone is focusing on this with a hetero POV so I'll put in my queer $2 opinion. No, no it's not. My man and I have been together for 4 years and it's been about the same since we got together. It's not a loss in attraction, just how relationships fluctuate and grow. We aren't fucking every 2 days, thank God, but we do occasionally have moments of intimacy being more desirable... Sometimes our desires don't match up but it doesn't mean we aren't attracted to one another... if sexual attraction… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | To the men who claim marriage is bad for men..Marriage is bad for both parties if you make more than 179k in annual joint income and you personally only make 10k of that. That don't matter if you are a man or woman, being used as simply as a means to drop a tax bracket is messed up. Least in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Fear of solitude is what often keeps many couples togetherFor unhappy couples maybe, or generally toxic relationships. It's only normal to not want to be alone, and it's pretty understandable if you are genuinely happy with someone to not want to be without them. In the context of abusive or toxic relationships it's likely ironically the feeling of seclusion that makes you want to stay with someone, as they become your only outlet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Men should make women wait for sex if they want to avoid high n-count womenNot familiar with the term n-count. :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?Probably same as creep women. Just there's a few more men in the world than women so the numbers look a little worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 02:14 PM |
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