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| 15 | Wife started dating an older man as soon as she said, "I want a divorce"When you say there's been years of laziness, alcohol abuse, and anger issues on your end - during that time she might have tried to reach out to you to change and focus on important things in marriage. When it didn't happen- she started to lose respect for you and gradually checked out mentally and emotionally. Women needs are more emotional and needs constant attention and care ( I learnt it the hard way too) . At times we men tend to take the women in our life for granted and by the time we re… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Newly married, maybe newly divorced.Maybe you both should take a break for few weeks and then decide. You both are not in a good situation to take any decision. Her cheating is not justified at all and possibly she is taking you for granted and this online attention is distracting her from all the life realities including financial stress and the work that she require to do . Everyone deals tough situations in a different way. Maybe you should clearly express to her that you are hurt by this action and want to take space to think … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 06:55 AM |
| 7 | Don’t want anyone.I am in a similar situation and recently started therapy. I got to understand I still have some past emotional baggage which is still unresolved. I also met 2 amazing women however I pushed them away when things started to become serious ( even though I wanted a long term). Currently I have stopped dating as I do not want to add further confusion to these women's life and also to mine. Taking some space currently, working on opening my heart without fear and also rewiring my brain ( as suggested… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How could she have healed the hurt, or could she even do that?Every story and every situation is different. Only you know how much baggage you carry and if you would trust the same person who hurt you. Its really tough. Its better to heal on your own . Bu then miracles do happen at times and people do change. All the decisions has to come from a clear headed mind space. If happened to me, I would have taken space to sort out my baggage & understand the damage that has been caused on both sides. Then once I have taken everything into account then only I wou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Don't rush inIts always wise to take some time to sort and process emotions before finding another person. That's really a good thing. Sometimes part trauma does surface if not resolved in a healthy way ( as I am having now and trying to get through it). So I also put a stop to my current dating life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/24 11:29 AM |
| 1 | LonelinessI try to keep myself busy. Go for run , cook for myself , play with my neighbors dog etc. Although these are still not enough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Today is the day of my divorce and I'm just so sad.Sometimes two people are together but have a different journey in life. 15 years is a long time. possibly you both grew to be different people and can no longer relate to each other's life journey . People can be different in marriage however the value and what they are looking for in life should have some similar goals. Seems like you grew up to be a mature , responsible partner however she didnt .you are not worthless . you are brave to give it all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/24 08:24 AM |
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