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She's a gross predator & has made comments alluding to grooming men considerably younger than her. She also made a guide on how to get away with cheating. Total trashy behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:11 PM
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He seems like a real rude POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:59 PM
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Midsommar is great. It's about a girl finding peace, happiness & community after a traumatic event in her life & she dumps her LVM in the best way possible in the process. It's supposed to be a horror but idk I found it more comforting than scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:41 AM
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My ex was this. Unsurprisingly, he would go into fits of jealousy induced rage each time I so much as talked to another guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:04 AM
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Make coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:58 AM
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My family is full of pick me women like this. My grandma chose her boyfriend (a child molestor) over her grandkids. My aunt chose her husband over my cousin, after her husband beat up my 16 yo cousin in front of her & my mom. I could go on. Pick mes are dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:33 PM
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Thank you! I hope you find the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:40 AM
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I felt bad for him because he was bullied, but it was a lesson learned. I still give people benefit of the doubt but don't put up with as much bullshit as I used to. Getting better at asserting my boundaries as I'm getting older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:56 AM
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When I realised that I had to beg my boyfriend to be /nice/ to me on special days like my birthday and our anniversary. Last birthday he was sick (as he is half the time) and didn't make any effort to treat me. I had to look after him. And then get accused of cheating because I smiled at my phone when my stepdad messaged me happy birthday. Last anniversary he was tired from working. Didn't plan anything. Then said I hurt his feelings when I said that I was sad it didn't mean anything to him. And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:55 AM
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I tried telling our mutual friends but they just avoided it. This was years ago now, I haven't seen him since this and haven't spoken to him or any mutual friends we shared at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:31 AM
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You'd think they would be, since they should have learned empathy through being bullied and knowing what it feels like to be an outsider. But they are just as entitled as regular men, with an added victim complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:11 AM
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I'm an introverted person and I like being friends with & dating extroverted people, because they are exciting to me. I get along with other introverts but I'm never pushed out of my comfort zone with them. It's also easier for me to be around extroverts because they do most of the "entertainment", for lack of a better word. When I'm with introverts I feel a certain pressure to keep the energy going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:24 PM
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Proud of you, queen! I hope you're enjoying all that freed mental space & energy to improve your own life. It's crazy how much life LVM can suck out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:53 PM
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Damn, sounds familiar. My ex works from home. He lays around the house all day, doesn't clean unless I've asked, skimps on his health & hygiene, complains about the effects that his lack of healthy habits have on him (tooth ache, feeling tired all the time, sore back, etc etc etc). I tried to help him get out of his depression for years. I'd write lists of stuff so he wouldn't forget. I'd set reminders on my phone to help him remember important dates. I'd take on more of the work. I'd motivate h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:26 PM
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You're 100% right. I will work on severing the emotional ties. I won't lie, I still care about him. Which is why I'm still talking to him. But it's becoming more clear by the day that it's not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:24 AM
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It's soooooo hard to explain non verbal cues and body language to men... I wonder if they are actually that lacking in communication or if it's purposeful ignorance. Either way, thank you. I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't take words as face value with considering tone and body language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:23 AM
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Anger issues sound about right! Thank you. I think I'll just have to grey rock him until we part ways for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:21 AM
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Thank you. I do need to get a handle on how much this plays on my emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:20 AM
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I've tried this technique before asking, "Why would you say that?" Or "What do you think saying that communicates to me?" But then he'd shut down, say "why does it matter?" And not talk to me until I apologized. I'm really fucking glad he's my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:19 AM
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oooof. my ex told me that someone "hacked his tinder profile" and he "didn't know why he kept getting tinder profile confirmation sms's". I never questioned it. I didn't suspect anything, he just randomly mentioned it :/ beginning to think that I was played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:22 PM
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Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:43 PM
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Haha I was referring specifically about being molested as a child 🙈 that I can't take responsibility for. But I get what you're saying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:46 PM
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I love this. Focusing on the trauma I've endured made me bitter, focusing on how to rebuild myself and realizing how strong I was made me better. This quote gets that. I'm not broken, I'm strong, that's the mindset I choose to have. This is not to say I take any responsibility for what happened to me, or that I forgive the perpetrators, it's just saying that I've come out of it stronger because I chose to work hard on healing .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:21 PM
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Episode 2 as well. Patrice was definitely killed by her POS older husband. He was clearly trying to isolate and abuse her. What kind of man kicks his stepchild out THE DAY the mother goes missing? And then keeps the ashes, refusing to let HER CHILD have her ashes or even see them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:16 AM
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I had a great male therapist, but I definitely got lucky. One thing that stood out to me is how he wouldn't sugarcoat things. I'd tell him something about my family and begin making excuses for them and he'd say "no, they're fucked up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:16 AM
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I feel bad for his wife, if she really exists. Imagine a partner who constantly makes such a big deal out of your race. So dehumanizing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:32 PM
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As for your question: my male boss dated a girl from Ukraine for the reasons listed above. She made his life hell (probably with a lot of due cause) and he was genuinely perplexed that she expected not to work and for him to pay for everything, lol. They've now been broken up longer than they were together yet he still sends her money 🥴 Women from any country that will date a guy solely for material resources is not gonna be the subservient waifu these men are looking for. Only sex dolls will be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:20 PM
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I absolutely love how that picture on the original post puts a young girl in a school uniform as the ideal partner. Really telling on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:17 PM
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The F in male stands for funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:19 AM
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100%. My dad was a deadbeat who always made promises, so I was with a guy that put minimal effort into the relationship and made promises. I have an uncle who is a HVM that I really respect and he told me straight up to leave my bf and find a man that values my time. Glad he's in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:18 AM
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My ex did this as well. During our last argument he didn't speak to me for two straight days. We lived together, so he'd literally just sit in the same room as me saying nothing. It was torture. Usually when he went silent I'd end up apologizing, even if the original argument was about me being upset at his treatment of me. During those two days though, I woke the fuck up and the next conversation we had was me dumping him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:16 AM
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I think using your judgement is important, but in my case he was insulting them even though they'd done nothing to hurt me or negatively influence my life (apart from normal friendship disagreements, which happens with everyone). Pointing out a toxic behavior is very different from just being insulting for no good reason. Your boyfriend might be wanting to protect you, but my ex just spoke shit for no reason at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:13 AM
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Yes, definitely. He literally said "I'm the only one that cares about you, your friends and family don't." during an argument right before we broke up. During which he also called me a slut and broke my phone in half. I'll definitely take red flags of abuse and isolation a lot more seriously than I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:11 AM
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Yeah - the stuff in our relationship escalated to the point where he broke my phone in half while yelling at me about being a slut. Talking shit about my friends was just one tactic to get me to stay quiet about what was happening, I think, by making me feel they weren't trustworthy or good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:09 AM
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