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I am an American male in his 40s and I always hated American football with a firery passion. I hung out with other guys who thought it and most sports were dumb and honestly the only people who ever gave me grief about not being into sports were women. What would make boys into men? Teach them how to organize a damn union, how to defend themselves, and teach them why and how to take care of their communities and themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 09:08 PM
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You're not a "real man" unless you're willing to either go down in the mines and die of black lung to make the mine owner rich, or get shot at in a desert for cheap foreign oil. I never felt this way or heard anything like this. Being a "real man" meant taking care of your family and all that when I was growing up
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 09:04 PM
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I agree. There should be more talk about how issues with global monopoly capitalism and the Epstein class effect men, and less talk about crap some purple haired drama club weirdo says mean things about men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 09:05 PM
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Your post wasn't about shaming
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 07:31 PM
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I'm 5'1, and I just gotta ass... WHO GIVES A FUCK?! Yes, I am at a disadvantage when it comes to mate selection. But I still have had a girlfriend and had opportunities for others and it is what it is. And guess what? There is NOTHING POLICY CAN OR SHOULD DO TO ADDRESS THIS. It is what it is. Life is unfair and there is nothing that can be done. Sooner or later the majority of men, no matter how short, who actually want someone and are looking for someone will find someone. Take it for what it i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 05:24 AM
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No, I did know my Mom, and I see her survivor every time I look in the mirror
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/26 04:01 AM
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OP, here is the easy way to refute these claims. There is one word that kills this idea: Michfest What was Michfest? It was the Michigan Womyn's (sp) Music Festival, a feminist event that was women founded and run by radical feminists women and billed as the "ultimate safe space for women." Well, guess what happened? A woman was raped by another woman and the organizers of the festival didn't report it and tried to cover it up to save the image of the festival. https://theterfs.com/2015/09/02/th…
/r/MensRights22/05/26 03:39 AM
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Overturn Hermesmann vs Seyer, which is the law of the land currently. It says that any boy who sires a child must pay child support upon reaching the age of 18, even if the boy was a victim of statory rape or CSA https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hermesmann_v._Seyer And I'd support reinstating Roe Vs Wade. No woman should have to carry her rapist's baby, and no boy should have to pay his rapist child support
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 09:27 PM
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I sincerely hope this was only at a bar type place where minors are mostly forbidden. Imagine a little kid trying to pee and seeing that.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/05/26 12:36 AM
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This sort of thing is pointless unless we acknowledge the rampant misandry unleashed by modern, bourgeois feminism. When most leftists are perfectly fine with messaging like "not all men, but always a man" and "misogyny kills, misandry only annoys," it will never win back young men. Also, what the hell is this "new masculinity" crap? That sounds like the Stalinist "new man" bs. The old masculinity of the left worked just fine, with men like Huey P Newton, Big Bil Haywood, Zach De le Rocha, Malco…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/26 06:21 AM
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A lot on this sub haven't, alas
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 11:44 PM
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Warren Ferrel is not the father of men's rights. That's this guy: Ernest Belfort Bax: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ernest_Belfort_Bax And Mary Koss literally says men's can't be raped by women, so I have no idea what she's getting at. https://toysoldier.wordpress.com/2015/09/05/mary-koss-doesnt-think-women-can-rape-men-and-boys/ That post has the year and date this feminist was asking for. Also, Amy Schumer joked about sexually assaulting a passed out drunk man, and feminists largely defended h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 07:43 PM
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Hasan Parker is a literal CCP apologists who called survivors or death camps for Ughurs liars and even did a Livestream with a CCP foreign official. Screw that scumbag
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 07:07 PM
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They'll claim it's satirical, but the weird thing is, we NEVER see any actual comments like this on any mainstream media or social media outlets when it's a woman victim. Maybe some dark corner of the internet like 8 chan or something, or some telegram group consisting of 30 nasty chuds or something, but literally almost no genuine human male in the first world would ever make such a comment like that about a woman in such a situation. They're really just projecting their own hatred of men into …
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/26 02:03 AM
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Ahem... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ernest_Belfort_Bax
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 08:59 PM
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I'm a feminist because there are alarming statistics which show male violence against women and girls is an epidemic - the police have recognised it as so Only if you don't count the violence mothers commit against their sons. Mothers are a lot more likely to be abusive and boys are more often the victims than girls. A single mother household is a Matriarchal system. What has feminism done to hurt you and men as a group of people? Misogyny continues to hurt and kill women by the hour. Because it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 07:23 PM
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First, sorry that happened to you. You didn't serve that. Second, I recommend male survivor . org.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 06:31 AM
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Most "rape porn" is faked and also fictional. And why would one think only men were into this stuff? Look at this article and read the 3rd thing she learned: https://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-1760-5-things-i-learned-infiltrating-deep-web-child-molesters.html There is no reason to think it would be different with rape porn that involves actual abuse and not just scripted grossness, that is bad on a personal and societal level, but not the same as rape
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 08:01 AM
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If more young women have a positive view on capitalism than on men, we know the propaganda has worked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 06:02 AM
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You better not look at who reads those awful "questionable consent" books...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 05:59 AM
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Motherless is just a site for amateur porn. Most of what's there is just stuff on other sites with a bit more amateurish content. And for the record, I only used it (before I gave up Porn) because they had a good selection of pegging videos, which is kinda hard to do if she's passed out... And 60 million also includes bots and web spiders and whatnot, plus redirects and people hitting the wrong link, following SPAM etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 05:57 AM
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Ironically, the only videos I remember fapping to on motherless, before I gave up porn, were some pegging videos 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 05:54 AM
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A big part of me hopes that people will look at this obviously bullshit take and realize it's obviously completely misleading and then learn to question such statistics next time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 05:51 AM
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Talking about the epidemic of what happens to women in the context of patriarchy is right, but I am entirely against the way that what happens to men is hidden. It isn't "the Patriarchy." It's humanity. Even in women only spaces abuse and cover ups happen (Michfest) Why are you and others centring men on this post rather than making another one about what happens to men? Because this post is about how this article says men are into "rape porn" and that it conflates watching sleep porn with rape.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 05:48 PM
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And black people are less likely to be murdered by a cop than by another black person. Does that make marching against police brutality invalid? And if you say that's because of systemic racism you are correct. And there is also a society wide refusal to even acknowledge women predators exist. The same can't be said for men. I was sexually abused by my Mom for years and nobody noticed the Paris Commune sized red flags she raised because she was a woman and a mom. If a father was the way with his…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 07:07 AM
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Literally half the "fangirl feminists" went ape shit over it and called it "ableist" because a guy just so happened to fall for a girl in a wheelchair, and they called it "proof of men's predatory nature." It was a whole depacle
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 06:55 AM
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Yes, women are victimized and I believe them. However, a cam girl who makes money doing "sleep shows" or most sleep porn, which is overwhelmingly fake, isn't that. Now, if you're saying sites should be forced to document stuff to make sure that it is consensual, I agree 100%. But it's unfair to claim all "sleep porn" is rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 01:05 AM
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https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-04-28/female-paedophiles-prevalent-says-leading-forensic-psychologist/6428710 Also, I fail to see how Josie, Tiger and the Fish contributes to rape, but whatev
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 01:01 AM
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But the same people also criticize men who like anime stuff, and that's entirely fictional
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 09:00 PM
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So I guess you say the same thing about all the feminists who bash anime, right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 09:00 PM
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I would love CNN to do a story on the explosion of the "romantasy" written porn that is for women, by women and about women. The "Milking farm," about a millennial chick fucking a minotaur, was literally a best seller.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 07:47 PM
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Nobody listens to "alpha male influencers." They don't have huge followings and most men and boys think they're cringe. The issue is, any man who talks to men without blaming them for everything is instantly labeled a "manosphere boy" regardless of what he says. They even call Dr K of Healthy Gamer a part of the "manosphere" and "red pilled."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 07:44 PM
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I didn't see any valid points
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 07:21 PM
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Yes but I think a lot of people on this sub are being weird and pretending feminism is completely baseless. I don't think anybody is saying that. It's modern feminism that's the problem Your ignoring the fact that the wnba is much less talked about than the NBA. I mean, I don't think it's quite as simple as "blame men" but it's clearly not equal so there is a conflict there. First, I don't care about ANY pro-athletes as much as I do regular working people. Second, more men than women watch WNBA …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/26 07:06 PM
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"Women's natural hostility to men". What the heck does that even mean?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/26 02:39 AM
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That's what I mean by the Bourgeois. Heck, even people who are "wealthy" in that they own small business and maybe some property, are also getting screwed by a system designed exclusively for the 1%
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/26 09:03 PM
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I would say "fine, but only if we also teach girls that boys also deserve respect and that we should also teach boys that they CAN be raped. Deal?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/26 08:49 AM
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Exactly. "Acted like she didn't want to," as in she was uninterested until he put on some music and dimmed the lights? What exactly is "Consistent physical pressure and verbal coercion" if it isn't restraint or drugging of force? And did these women explicitly say "no" or were unable to say "yes."? That is what's missing here. And is saying "hey, I'll go down on you for ten minutes straight" and her wanting to do it when that was offered, really the same as rape? I mean, that is "telling her wha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/26 08:28 AM
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Anything past 26 is fair game. I mean, a 40 year old and a 21 year old is not illegal and not being a pedo, but still, no matter the genders involved, it's somewhat creepy and pretty weird. But a 30 year old and a 50 year old? They are both fully mature adults at that point so whatever.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/04/26 10:11 PM
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It was more humorous than anything else. A 41 year old and a 36 year old is not exactly an Epstein Island horror story, but some people are just nuts. In another year some folks will insist they share proper Zodiac signs or something
/r/EverydayMisandry12/04/26 10:09 PM
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The hens at my old job called me a "pedophile" for pursuing a younger woman. I was 41 at the time...she was 36. Folks done lost their damn minds
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/26 02:15 PM
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I always bring up child abuse in single mother households and how children are more likely to suffer abuse from single mother homes than single father homes, proportionately. A single mother household is a matriarchal system by its very nature, and yet there is so much abuse therein.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/26 08:12 AM
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This is all based on conviction rates. Victimization studies show a completely different picture
/r/EverydayMisandry26/03/26 08:46 PM
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Easy response: Men account for 93% of all workplace deaths because we still work the most hazardous jobs. But having this conversation requires women to admit that we risk our safety every time we get involved with doing what needs to happen to make society function and pay the bills. https://injuryfacts.nsc.org/work/industry-incidence-rates/worker-injuries-and-illnesses-by-sex/
/r/EverydayMisandry23/03/26 03:51 AM
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They always quote that same BS based entirely on CONVICTION RATES. When you look at survivor surveys, you get a completely different story. Based on 17 samples from 12 countries, the current meta-analysis found that a small proportion of sexual offenses reported to police are committed by females (fixed-effect meta-analytical average = 2.2%). In contrast, victimization surveys indicated prevalence rates of female sexual offenders that were six times higher than official data https://journals.sag…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/26 04:17 AM
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How the fuck is this remotely funny?
/r/MensRights18/03/26 07:35 PM
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I would check her hard drive and search history
/r/EverydayMisandry18/03/26 06:59 PM
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I love the assumption that men aren't raped and assaulted ever.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 07:53 PM
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Well, at least this is one woman who won't be bothering me when I'm at a gay bar.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/26 05:04 AM
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A world without women sounds pretty awesome to me, tbh
/r/EverydayMisandry10/03/26 02:58 PM
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I respond by telling them about Michfest: It was a radical feminist event that banned men and was the ultimate "safe space for women". They ended up stopping it because of heat for being transphobic. Well, guess what? A WOMAN WAS RAPED THERE BY ANOTHER WOMAN, AND THE FEMINIST WOMEN WHO ORGANIZED IT TRIED TO COVER IT UP TO PROTECT THEIR REPUTATION AND IMAGE. https://theterfs.com/2015/09/02/the-cover-up-of-a-michfest-rape/ Right there, at a group of feminist women covering up a sexual assault to c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/26 05:20 AM
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What does this have to do with men's rights? There are plenty of incompetent dudes in the military, too, including the commander in chief
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:14 AM
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I don't trust anything that comes out of Canada and the UK in regards to this. It will be victim blaming BS that teaches boys to hate themselves
/r/MensRights28/02/26 04:45 PM
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I literally hear them say this about child abuse in single mother households I as a man shouldn't complain about that because men caused it. How? Well... because they "let women be the primary caregiver" 🤦🏽‍♂️ That's a literal modern feminist argument I hear for them blaming child abuse in single mother households on men. These people are sociopaths
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/26 09:11 AM
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What the hell does some right-wing influencer drama have to do with men's rights? But I will say "trad wives" are bullshit. Women have always worked and done things outside the house, especially working class women. There is nothing "traditional" filming one's self baking bran muffins in an evening dress while wearing a metric ton of makeup and using more filters than the average sewage treatment plant. But still, this has nothing to do with men's issues and this post should be taken down
/r/MensRights23/02/26 05:32 PM
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I am into this men's advocacy stuff because I survived CSA from my Mom as a little kid. Every other time I talk about these experiences online I get a DM from someone calling me a piece of shit, a liar, a misogynist, and of course, an incel. But hey, I'm a guy, so who cares.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 05:21 PM
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Dude, literally, this is for teenagers who have been through the absolute worst and never learned simple life skills because they literally spent most of their youth as if they existed only to be sexually exploited by adults. Yes, facilities like this also rehabilitate girls in the same way. Yes, that involves giving them chores. This is kinda a normal thing in life... Nothing they do is for profit, so I fail to see how this could be some scam, and literally nothing looks fishy. You just want to…
/r/MensRights22/02/26 08:57 AM
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Why would you say that?
/r/MensRights21/02/26 09:32 AM
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Depends on what you mean. If you mean getting called an "incel," the answer is simple: disagree with a feminist on anything. I've seen married men with babies on the way called "incel." If you mean the weird Internet subculture, well, that comes from guys who yes, have issues and may have been dealt a bad hand finding validation in echo chambers that are not good for anybody.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 05:45 AM
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Why would they support girls if it's a shelter for boys and young men? There are other shelters for that. As for NB, if it's a boy then sure, why wouldn't they?
/r/MensRights20/02/26 07:26 PM
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You can look up the time they had a scumbag advocate for the Duluth model, Chuck Derry I think he was named, who literally berated men in a thread saying they had been victims of IPV from women and insisting they deserved it. That was the day the gig was up and the last veneer of actual care for men in any way was dropped. Leftwingmaleadvocates is a much better sub that serves the purpose men's lib once may have
/r/MensRights18/02/26 04:22 AM
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Alas, if we did, it would soon be overrun by internet incel subculture weirdos who were banned on the other forums (and I am not talking about regular lonely men, in case I need to spell it out for you, but rather, as I said, members of that weird subculture)
/r/MensRights17/02/26 11:40 PM
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He was mentioned in the Epstein files ...and so was Bigfoot. There is nothing really incriminating there from what I've seen. They are trying to say the Dalai Lama is in the Epstein files, and he is, because they mentioned his book a couple of times. But ironically, a woman LITERALLY ACCUSED BIDEN OF RAPE, and these same people still won't admit that.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 03:25 AM
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I agree. Evie is an alt-right, bs anti-vaxxer platform that shouldn't even be allowed on this sub
/r/MensRights11/02/26 11:17 PM
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No, that's bullshit. Yeah, modern feminism sucks, but so does what's happening in Saudi Arabia, Iran or any other real Patriarchal country.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 11:16 PM
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People have no idea how the statement "not all men, but always a man" feels when it's heard by a survivor of a woman abuser.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/02/26 08:46 AM
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They would rather blame men than blame the same thing keeping everybody down: global monopoly capitalism
/r/MensRights10/02/26 01:22 AM
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By this same logic, Female Dating Strategy is a feminist group.
/r/MensRights03/02/26 11:46 PM
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The difference is Andrew Tate never self-identified as a men's rights activist. This person does self-identify as a feminist
/r/MensRights01/02/26 03:57 AM
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This is the least misogynistic generation of young men, ever.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 04:14 AM
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I saw a video where a YouTuber asked a group of 15 year old boys questions. He asked them about Andrew Tate. Out of 15 boys, two had heard of him and they didn't like him. Very, VERY few men actually follow that guy. Just look at his followers on social media, and how he's been basically deplatformed everywhere.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 01:28 AM
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LoL. they are such liars. Feminists are literally pushing to ban and defund what little men's services exist.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 12:12 AM
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Hey, at least they are helping folks with their New Year's weight loss goals, because this post just served up a huge serving of WORD SALAD I'll see myself out
/r/EverydayMisandry19/01/26 12:09 AM
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It's an open source dictionary like Wikipedia and it doesn't count as a valid source
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 07:07 PM
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I'm bisexual. I could get laid within ten minutes by going on Sniffies. And I could get a girlfriend within maybe a month. I'm single because I'm a caregiver to a dying parent and I have PTSD stemming from CSA. But still, you didn't answer the question. Put on your best shining ivory armor and answer it. Malady is counting on you
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 07:06 PM
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Do you say the same to women posting on r/blatantmisogyny ? And have you considered working at Regal Cinemas? That would be a good job for you considering how good you are at PROJECTION
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 06:54 PM
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Okay, so only focusing on 75% of sexual predators is also not adequate
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 06:50 PM
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Wiki is not a valid source
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 06:49 PM
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I literally just proved that isn't the case What percentage is a "vast majority" exactly? So if you called the exterminator to get rid of bed bugs and they only got rid of 75% of them you would be okay with that?
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 06:32 PM
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75% of sexual predators are male and 25% are female. https://canadiancrc.com/female_sex_offenders-female_sexual_predators_awareness.aspx What I can say for certain is that it's way more prevalent than people fully appreciate or understand," he told the ABC. "There's some research to suggest it could be as high as 25 per cent. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-04-28/female-paedophiles-prevalent-says-leading-forensic-psychologist/6428710 Men are more likely to sexually abuse kids and be predators, …
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 06:27 PM
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How do you define "the vast majority"? About 25% of sex crimes are committed by women, it's just that they are vastly underreported to police and hence they have a much lower conviction rate compared to men.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 05:39 PM
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They need to Google Catherine Stubblefield Wilson and get back to me And let's not forget Brittney Fortinberry https://www.wthr.com/article/news/crime/substitute-teacher-facing-nearly-50-criminal-charges-for-alleged-sexual-misconduct-with-morgan-county-students-brittany-fortinberry-misconduct/531-28a88e94-90d8-46cb-8738-0336c0efdb6c
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 05:35 PM
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Somebody needs to go read the NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER "The Milking Farm" and then get back to me
/r/EverydayMisandry16/01/26 03:42 PM
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So men benefit from women avoiding them?
/r/EverydayMisandry12/01/26 02:24 AM
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Why is this here? What does this have to do with men's rights? Someone needs to make a containment sub for this redpill/Andrew Tate immature BS. This makes this sub look bad.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 05:03 AM
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What are you talking about?! First, if he had sex with a man, he's not entirely straight. Second, if he wanted to feel wanted, or if you do, just either find someone organically here or go overseas. This has nothing to do with men's rights
/r/MensRights08/01/26 03:23 PM
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I guess this doesn't count: https://www.bls.gov/opub/ted/2021/men-accounted-for-about-75-percent-of-workers-in-protective-service-occupations-in-2020.htm
/r/EverydayMisandry06/01/26 10:35 PM
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I've never heard about a man falsy accusing a woman of rape, yet we're suppose to worry about misogyny
/r/EverydayMisandry02/01/26 05:27 PM
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Yeah, because no women ever commented about a shirtless Vego Mortison or anyy
/r/EverydayMisandry02/01/26 03:13 AM
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Why is shit like this tolerated on this sub? This has nothing to do with men's rights and whiny bullshit like this just makes this sub look bad
/r/MensRights01/01/26 05:33 AM
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Blaming The Patriarchy™ for men's problems is just the feminist way of victim blaming
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/25 09:24 PM
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An easy answer is the old Germanic tradition of named the sons the father's name followed by "son" and the daughters the mother's name with the suffix "dottir". So If Jordan and Samantha got married their kids with be Paul Jordanson and Bree Samanathadottir. The family name could be agreed upon later and that's the "house name". For example "Bree Samanthadottir, house of West End".
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/25 03:47 AM
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I love how they assume men aren't worried about this sort of thing too. With so many stories of men doing on Tindr dates that turn out to be robberies, so many men are indeed afraid when they meet new people, too
/r/EverydayMisandry22/12/25 04:53 AM
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I never met anybody IRL who ever bought into this 'alpha male influencer" garbage. And I work with younger guys a lot. These people just are not that popular and I think their influence is way, WAY overblown. Carry Bradshaw (although fictional) was an order or magnitude more influential than any "alpha male" podcaster, and her "lifestyle advice" was just as toxic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 08:01 AM
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They get points for honesty
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/25 02:44 AM
2

I remember that. It had 1950s style pin-ups on the shirt...and the funniest part was the shirt was designed and made by HIS WIFE who owned a small clothing business.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 08:57 PM
11

So a male astrophysicist shouldn't correct a woman flat Earther?
/r/MensRights14/12/25 02:17 AM
30

They'll say men die younger because of their "toxic masculinity" or "because of a system THEY created" or some other unhinged nonsense.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/12/25 04:27 AM
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Why do they hate men, and they do this bullshit concern-troll crap about "toxic masculinity"? And, for the umpteenth time, the only reason "men aren't getting raped" is because it is not considered rape if a woman forces a man to penetrate her, through violence or coercion. Edit: also, "man box"? I think what happened was a male feminist was cheating on his girlfriend and meeting his grindr date at a leather bar, and he quickly made up a story that "No! Honey, really! 'The Man Box' is NOT a gay …
/r/EverydayMisandry07/12/25 07:14 AM
50

"If you were hard, you enjoyed it," a feminist woman said that to me when I said I'd been SA'd by my Mom when I was a kid
/r/MensRights04/12/25 08:21 PM
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The rebuttal: "Women are afraid that men will falsely accuse them of being loose to his friends circle. Men are afraid women will falsely accuse them of rape to his entire social circle, job, and possibly the police."
/r/MensRights03/12/25 11:46 PM
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The problem is war and capitalism don't stay away from anyone as long as they exist anywhere. Hence, the best course of action is to follow the example of the great Marshall Tito: have gender equality in the armed forces. Assign soldiers based on their individual strengths and merits and weaknesses and not gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/25 02:48 AM
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Reddit got rid of a lot of red pill/incel subs and those chuds are migrating here, making it hard for those of us who actually care about men's rights
/r/MensRights30/11/25 10:05 PM
1

On this part of reddit, that kind of talk is counterproductive. Go to some Tate fanboy sub or something. This is not for immature "red pill" bullshit
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:50 AM
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please take that mess off of this sub. You are what gives it a bad name
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:29 AM
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I know. Mods need to clean this stuff up. Get this Andrew Tate, immature crap out of here. left wing male advocates is growing for a reason
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:28 AM
0

AMEN
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:27 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:26 AM
2

Ahh....dafag does this have to do with men's rights and men's issues? Men can gave kids into their 50s (not easy sometimes, but doable) and that's not really an issue for us and what does this have to do with anything? Let women deal with their stuff and let's focus on our issues! Why is this sort of thing allowed on this sub, anyway?
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:26 AM
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(laughs in Marshall Tito's booming voice) (He also had complete gender equality in his partisans, btw)
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/25 03:54 PM
1

Yep. And when you point to something awful a self described feminist did, they always use a No True Scotsman (or should I say "Scotts PERSON"?) and say "well, that's a TERF, so that doesn't count" or something
/r/MensRights28/11/25 03:53 PM
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Women who aren't bitches understand that the statement "women are bitches" doesn't apply to them. I mean, NWA explicitly made that clear.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 12:24 AM
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Exactly. Next some will be claiming Andrew Tate is one of us or something.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 09:57 PM
1

Number 39 has recently been proven false by science: "We expected that the beauty bias will be greater for women than men, primarily because prior research shows that consumers expect women, much more than men, to show more of those traits like likeability and warmth that are easily implicitly inferred from attractiveness," Goldar Chefor said. "But our results showed the opposite. It appeared that men's evaluations are driven more by their physical attractiveness, and the effect that attractiven…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/25 06:42 PM
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Never forget that an all-women, feminist music festival covered up a woman on woman rape rather than tarnish their image https://theterfs.com/2015/09/02/the-cover-up-of-a-michfest-rape/
/r/EverydayMisandry19/11/25 03:54 PM
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I wonder what would happen if I posted a picture of myself on social media chuckling over the gender pay gap?
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/25 03:56 AM
39

Men need modern feminism about as much as black people need the KKK
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 02:00 AM
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Okay, first of all, let me say that what you're doing seems rather fucked up and makes all kinds of awful assumptions about men and is really probably doing more harm than good for men. The vast majority of men are not the "emotionally disconnected toxic evil neanderthals" that the feminist establishment makes us out to be. Majority of men are fine with guys crying (as long as it isn't over something stupid) will support each other emotionally, and yes, they even hug. Crazy, I know. What the fuc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 01:57 AM
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I swear women hate seeing other women happy. All they do is rag on each other's dating choices. You rarely see men do this. Toxic femininity hurts women, too
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/25 10:45 PM
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I was sexually abused by my Mom as a kid, and have gotten nothing but endless invalidation from all feminists literature, movements and most individuals They never think what hearing "not all men, but always a man" as nauseum does to a survivor of a woman predator
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 03:04 PM
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I was sexually abused by my Mom as a kid, and have gotten nothing but endless invalidation from all feminists literature, movements and most individuals They never think what hearing "not all men, but always a man" as nauseum does to a survivor of a woman predator
/r/MensRights01/11/25 10:47 PM
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That's just a form of victim blaming
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/25 06:16 PM
8

Are you serious?! Between this and what happened at Twitchcon, that platform doesn't deserve to be around anymore.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 02:52 PM
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Literally the people pushing the Patriarchy conspiracy theory are the same people insisting men can't be raped by women
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 02:45 PM
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I absolutely HATE THOSE GUYS! That kind of shit really hurts. Sometimes men can be our own worst enemies.
/r/MensRights26/10/25 02:08 AM
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What does this have to do with Men's Rights? Also, this is a stupid take. I've had plenty of women friends in my life.
/r/MensRights25/10/25 12:15 AM
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Last time I saw that many strawmen in one place I was at a scarecrow building contest.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/25 10:05 PM
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Hashtag not all lesbians
/r/MensRights21/10/25 04:20 AM
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That's it's impossible for us to be sexually assaulted by members of the opposite sex.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 06:25 PM
21

Exactly Men can never talk about any bad experiences they have with women without someone assuming they hate all women.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/10/25 03:41 AM
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It's almost parody at this point 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/EverydayMisandry09/10/25 07:15 AM
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My cousin got out of prison recently. She said women pedos don't get killed or beaten outright, but nobody likes them and they are on thin ice from day one and the slightest thing will make someone go after them. There are fights and violence in women's prison, just not as much as in men's
/r/MensRights06/10/25 09:00 PM
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My biggest issue with this is that they have the nerve to claim men don't really like cats and that men who like cats are "performative" 😡 I loved my old cat so much and I can't wait to be able to adopt another old tom. How can anyone actually think men don't like cats?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/25 07:04 PM
1

You know good and well if a father was like that with his daughter you would have a completely different take. Often women who commit incest are like this in public because they know nobody will say shit
/r/EverydayMisandry29/09/25 08:32 PM
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NWA wrote a song to describe these women. I will not name it or post it but I am sure most of you will figure it out.
/r/MensRights29/09/25 06:58 AM
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Notice they never actually addressed the issue that the courts don't consider being forced to penetrate at rape at all. By the same logic, marital rape of women didn't happen before the 70s when it was finally made illegal
/r/EverydayMisandry25/09/25 08:31 PM
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Okay and black men will have a different experience than white men, and immigrant men will experience it differently than native born men, etc. They're all still men.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 04:27 AM
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If someone has a beard and looks like a man, he will be treated by society as a man. And cis just means not trans.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:26 PM
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If they look like men, they will be treated as men. That simple.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:25 PM
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I do. They go through the same shit cis men do after they transition, so why not?
/r/MensRights24/09/25 08:57 PM
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Can you give ANY examples of toxic femininity?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/25 04:56 PM
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Again, that's only the conviction rates. Victimhood surveys, as in looking at people who survived this but didn't report, show an entirely different story: contrast, victimization surveys indicated prevalence rates of female sexual offenders that were six times higher than official data Source: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0093854816658923
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/25 02:49 AM
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They're like the people who think protests against police brutality is wrong because more black people are killed by other black people than by police. This is basically #AllAbusersMatter
/r/EverydayMisandry07/09/25 08:49 PM
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I agree 100 percent
/r/MensRights06/09/25 01:21 PM
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Because they know society will give them a pass because they're women.
/r/MensRights30/08/25 03:55 AM
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I made a thread about this some time ago on another sub that was locked for some odd reason. I don't want to repeat myself so here's my take, as someone who survived CSA from a woman: https://www.reddit.com/r/rant/s/HvJTD3sGSS
/r/MensRights29/08/25 04:48 AM
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Ever notice how when a man grabs a woman performer, like Taylor Swift, it's a big deal and he gets arrested, as he should. But when the women literally tear the clothes off a male performer it's just a joke and they are called his "zealous fans" and not correctly called assailants
/r/EverydayMisandry26/08/25 03:14 AM
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There needs to be more studies on how this written filth impacts women's brains and development. There is no way a woman can consume that much smut and be mentally perfectly fine. We know what porn addiction does to men. Why should we assume women would be unaffected and "perfectly able to tell fiction from real life" And the worst part is all the feminists saying this wasn't a big deal and that the real issue is that it makes "romance" fiction look bad
/r/MensRights22/08/25 09:22 PM
1

I agree. Who cares if they're models. If it isn't consensual it isn't consensual and that's that
/r/MensRights22/08/25 09:19 PM
4

About as much as I read Playboy for the articles
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/25 07:17 AM
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Exactly OP seems kinda sexist to be honest. I believe in advocacy for men, but at the same time I am not against women and I won't equal rights for them too and I see them as people first. Plenty of women have sons and then end up advocating for men because they genuinely love them.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 06:09 AM
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She seems sincere and I think she's a lot better at getting the point across to those who need to hear it than a lot of men: https://youtu.be/m7MQjYCw5Jc?si=NErBXPOjCWNzlI00
/r/MensRights21/08/25 02:59 AM
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So you would rather women not advocate for men? As long as they are sincere, cool. Plus the people who need convincing are more likely to listen to a woman
/r/MensRights21/08/25 02:29 AM
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The reason it can't just be as simple as "some men have a hard time with dating because of their looks and other superficial things" is because of this obvious fact: Society believes women are morally superior to men and hence can't be superficial on any level, hence women would NEVER not be attracted to a man just because of his looks It's absurd. Yes, some men are just less attractive and yes, looks do matter to women. Now, are less attractive men doomed to be alone? No, but they will have a h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/25 06:09 AM
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I agree. It's disgusting. A big issue is a lot of people don't even know this is the case
/r/MensRights19/08/25 05:52 PM
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I hear you and it can be absolutely exhausting. And what makes it worse is how it's perfectly okay for women to assume the lived experiences of men and dismiss our suffering at the hands of women as "something that doesn't happen, only other men make you suffer." The biggest thing I can say is to be the change you want to see in the world. Always speak up for yourself and other men
/r/MensRights19/08/25 05:00 AM
1

r/xychromosomes has potential
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/25 08:06 PM
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People who can't be considered racist Every time one of these people tell me, a half black man, that "BlAcK PeOpLe CaN"T bE rAcIsT", I say this: if they are black I say "So you're telling me that if a black boy or black girl really wants to grow up to be a racist, you're telling me they can't? No matter how hard they try? That's some serious self hatred there." If they are white I smile and go on a (sarcastic) rant about how they are inferior and I call them ( not seriously) melanin deficient an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/25 08:04 PM
1

Michael Fanone https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Fanone
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/25 07:49 AM
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For the same reason people say "black people can't be racist," when a clip of Julius Malema and you can see that isn't the case. They love changing the meaning of words. Racism is about systems now, and hence because black people are (to them, apparently) too weak to ever build our own systems, we can't be racist. Women can't hate men because, to them apparently, women are too weak to ever do so. Hence, misandry never kills.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/25 07:26 AM
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What kind of parents let their child go over a teacher's house for an overnight "play date"?
/r/MensRights13/08/25 05:15 PM
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Just remember that if we do start our own thing, feminists immediately call it a "hate movement." This is the sort of organization feminists hate and I've heard nothing but attacks against it coming from feminists. Ask me if you find anything hateful here: www.1in6.org
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/25 04:48 PM
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Let's not forget that thread with Chuck Derry where he said all men who are victims of IPV are lying and the mods of men's lib just shrugged and said "well, we aren't a safe space for men so, whatever." I also saw someone on men's rights point out that the biggest overlap between r/men's lib and other subs is from misandry subs, like troll x chromosomes or 4th wave woman. r/left wing men's advocates is the real sub for men's issues
/r/EverydayMisandry09/08/25 12:00 AM
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But remember kids: mysogyny kills while misandry only annoys
/r/MensRights03/08/25 04:57 AM
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They are deluded into thinking that believing men are the source of all their problems is somehow helping them. Let's not forget a similar motivation lead to colonization
/r/MensRights02/08/25 07:00 AM
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Why don't progressive sources ever name the obvious issue here: Economics Men are still expected to pay for dates and need to have certain resources available to commence dating. With the way things are with this economy, that is less and less viable for a growing number of men. Go to a bar? With the price of drinks and food these days? Young people can barely afford to move out of their parent's home, so how are young men supposed to have a place to take their girlfriend home to? Not to mention…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/25 06:58 AM
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The first way to answer that one is like this: The gender sentencing gap is a clear example of this: https://repository.law.umich.edu/law_econ_current/57/ Also, child abuse by single mother households is a lot more prevalent, proportionely than abuse by single father households. Boys are abused more than girls. Abuse of a boy by a single Mom is indeed misandry and it is harmful and even kills. . the second way: "Oh, so hurt feelings don't matter? Okay. So will you shut up about Sydney Sweeny alr…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 09:32 AM
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So men are wrong for not wanting a relationship...but at the same time, we are too draining on women so we should avoid being in a relationship with them.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/07/25 12:43 AM
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I know. I am not asking anyone to brigade and please, don't even reply to this. Just look at this conversation about this subject and tell me this person doesn't have big time issues with men.. https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/s/kue3VNgXgI
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/25 06:26 AM
2

I know a man who met his wife on bumpy. She was in Kazakhstan and he was in the US and it worked fine. Majority of guys who go overseas usually live overseas. I dated a girl in Vietnam briefly, and if I stayed I may have married her, she was so awesome
/r/MensRights29/07/25 02:59 AM
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There is indeed systemic violence against males by women when we consider this: most child abuse is committed by women, like a vast majority of physical abuse and child neglect. They disproportionately affect boys. That's systemic violence There is literally no power dynamic more unbalanced than between a child and their mother, and that power is often abused against boys more so than girls. Also, the fact that it's only considered "rape" if someone is penetrated, and being forced to penetrate i…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 03:05 AM
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It's China. They treat all their citizens like garbage
/r/MensRights26/07/25 08:11 PM
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MODS, PLEASE STOP LETTING SHIT LIKE THIS POST ON HERE! IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MEN'S RIGHTS AND IT MAKES THIS SUB LOOK BAD
/r/MensRights26/07/25 05:30 PM
2

That's what I was thinking
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/25 08:51 AM
2

In theory yes, but modern feminism, overwhelmingly, refuses to believe men ever suffer anything, either collectively or as individuals, at the hands of women
/r/MensRights22/07/25 02:46 AM
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Lol, I've had so many interactions with feminists that were exactly like this.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/07/25 02:23 AM
10

Yes, the ability to provide for his family is a part of the measure of a man in American society. It is similar in about 99.9% of human societies throughout history.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/25 08:20 AM
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Masculinity absolutely is under attack. They have made it so a regular, high school educated man can't get a job that supports a family. That's the ultimate attack on masculinity and man's traditional place. People like Trump are absolutely responsible for that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/25 05:20 AM
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Do you really think it's an accident that social media pushes misandry so hard? Of course ruling class, who run social media want women to hate men. It's called "divide and rule"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/25 05:18 AM
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I've been to SE Asia. The guys there are doing fine. The issue is, they don't want to marry a woman over 26, 27 tops. That's what those women look for in foreign men: a chance. It isn't all about money. And I didn't date any of them, it was just an experiment. I actually don't want to date anybody.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 04:59 AM
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Dude, you are full of it. There is an international dating app that I tried, that I won't name, and I was very selective about my swiping, used a bad picture, and was honest about my height (5'2) and income. I did this just as an experiment and deleted the app a couple of days later In 24 hours, I had 15 matches, and those were just the verified accounts. That's the equalizer: men can go abroad to find a partner who has what most men are looking for, while women can't do that because what they a…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 04:19 AM
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WHY IS CRAP LIKE THIS ALLOWED ON THIS SUB!? This is not about men's rights. This is some dating BS that, btw is gross. "The Wall"? Who above the age of 13 talks like that? Nobody cares about your "options." You are not entitled to "dating options." Men are entitled to healthcare, job security and job safety, equal access to their kids and equal access to emergency services, etc. Neither they, nor women, are "entitled" to nooky of any kind. Allowing man-child crap like this on this sub just gives…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 04:13 AM
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In many strict Muslim countries, there is probably more SA of boys than of girls, because of the way the genders are set up. There is also a folk.belief among some, not supported by the actual religion, that Islam only forbids sex between two grown men, but not between men and boys. Again, this is not in the actual religion, but a lot of uneducated people in some of these countries believe that. There is that whole dancing boys phenomenon in Afghanistan and Pakistan, for example
/r/MensRights13/07/25 10:36 AM
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Good Lord! She goes on and on about how some men "just want to talk about how women hurt men" and then went on into a typical men's lib (really men's self hate) diatribe but never dares to circle back to the issue that brings so many men, myself included, back to places like this sub: a lot of us have been hurt and traumatized by women, and your side literally refuses to even believe it's an issue worth anything but dismissing
/r/MensRights13/07/25 10:31 AM
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Ironically the women over 40 dating sub has even MORE misandry. They literally never talk about dating as a positive thing, despite being a dating sub. It's like been taken over by femcels or something
/r/MensRights13/07/25 10:25 AM
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I will answer your question with a question: Why does Stormfront white nationalist forum antagonise non-whites so much and act like white people have no flaws? Yep. Same answers
/r/MensRights13/07/25 10:23 AM
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The difference is, with the way so many people, even seemingly educated people, think genuine men's advocacy is synonymous with "manosphere" and "red pill" types, that it's more like Spiderman pointing at Jason from Friday the 13th.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 06:01 AM
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I recommend attending events, lectures, etc. IRL if you're interested in actual discussions on feminism. Okay. Let's not define feminism by what's on an online forum for feminism. Fair. So at the same time, can we please not define men's rights and men's advocacy by what's on an online forum that has nothing to do with men's rights/men's advocacy? If "real" feminism shouldn't be lumped in with r/ask feminism, then can we at least not lump real men's advocates in with the incels and Andrew Tate?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 05:02 AM
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I bet you she's from a single mother household and never met her father and, growing up watching Darkwing Duck, a great single dad, gave her a kind of resentment against male mallards that she hasn't outgrown.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 03:46 AM
1

It starts off with a straw man argument. Yes, rape cultures exists. That's the part where I disagree with feminists: the word is plural, not singular The culture that says it's okay for men to be lewd is real. As is the rape culture that says women can't possibly commit sexual violence against men and boys. And if they want to see a real rape culture that harms women, they should really check out the middle east some time
/r/MensRights08/07/25 06:57 PM
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Feminism is not a single, unified doctrine. I will accept that to be true if you will accept the same about men's rights advocates. This is especially true since some of the worst people we get lumped in with (incels, Andrew Tate) don't even self identify as men's rights or men's advocates of any kind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/25 09:24 AM
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Feminists have a tendency to say that all gendered violence is due to The Patriarchy™ , and they hold onto this belief with a nearly religious fervor. The idea of sexual violence committed by women against men is the absolute counter to that notion, which is why they almost never bring it up. And it doesn't help that a generation of girls are being raised hearing "men only want one thing!" and are told over and over that boys are predators, but almost never hear that they can be predators. Next …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/25 09:22 AM
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There are better subs to go to go ask relationship questions. Your post isn't really about men's rights as a whole.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 06:48 AM
12

I can't believe this is real...
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/25 04:11 AM
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The issue isn't that women only commit 1% of these offenses. That's a lie. 1% is the conviction rate. Anyone who works in therapy counseling survivors of CSA will tell you that women do this A LOT MORE than are getting caught https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-04-28/female-paedophiles-prevalent-says-leading-forensic-psychologist/6428710
/r/MensRights07/07/25 03:30 AM
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Your numbers are completely off: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0093854816658923 Everything they base this on is the conviction rate. The conviction rate is not the same as the victimization rate because with women, it's very rare that victims come forward. When surveys of survivors in counseling for it are done, we find that between 12-25% of CSA is committed by women. It's literally the most underreported crime on Earth
/r/MensRights07/07/25 03:27 AM
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I still have not understood why so many MRAs are taking this so personally. The vast, VAST majority of infant kidnappings are committed by women. If women were banned from taking care of infants at a hospital, feminists would be in an uproar. It's discrimination That, and a lot of men, like me, were sexually abused by women as kids and this is personal. And yes, the abuse of kids by women is VASTLY underreported https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-04-28/female-paedophiles-prevalent-says-leading-for…
/r/MensRights07/07/25 03:23 AM
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On the child sexual abuse claims, they are simply full of shit First, I have maybe met one men's advocate who claimed women abuse kids more than men. Nobody is denying men do it more, we're just saying a hell of a lot more women are doing it than are reported and that it's probably the most underreported crime Experts in the field agree: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-04-28/female-paedophiles-prevalent-says-leading-forensic-psychologist/6428710 Saying "but men do it more!" in reply to someone …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/25 07:40 PM
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She's from Australia. So is this professor she may want to speak to: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-04-28/female-paedophiles-prevalent-says-leading-forensic-psychologist/6428710
/r/EverydayMisandry04/07/25 04:55 AM
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I had a woman flip out on me because I sat next to her on a crowded bus. I literally did nothing wrong but she explicitly said "I'm a woman!" I got up and sat next to a nice elderly lady who herself said the young lady was "rude." Honestly, what did I do to deserve that?
/r/MensRights04/07/25 04:41 AM
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My first ever intimate contact with a woman that I can remember was of being in the bathtub with my Mom. It wasn't until years later that I understand it was sexual abuse. It got a lot worse as I got older and finally my father got custody. She was emotionally manipulative and beat me and my siblings. My second and last intimate time with a woman was with my one girlfriend. It was nice until she did something that triggered me and I had a panic attack. She kicked me out of her apartment and phys…
/r/MensRights04/07/25 04:38 AM
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Fantastic! We should all support this.
/r/MensRights04/07/25 04:29 AM
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Also in Australia: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-04-28/female-paedophiles-prevalent-says-leading-forensic-psychologist/6428710
/r/MensRights03/07/25 01:36 AM
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"Misandry isn't real" Mothers are more likely to abuse their sons than their daughters and the large majority of child abuse and neglect is committed by mothers. That is misandry and yes, it kills.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/07/25 07:39 PM
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Coercion isn't violence but the threat of violence, and grooming isn't overt violence
/r/EverydayMisandry26/06/25 07:25 AM
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Something tells me there won't be a Netflix series about this one...
/r/MensRights26/06/25 01:57 AM
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I was sexually abused by my alcoholic mother as a little kid and I still have a whole lot of trauma from it. I had one girlfriend my entire life, and she reacted to my panic attack when she tried to kinda sneak up on me with the lights off (like I Mom would) by screaming at me and kicking me out of her apartment. When I went to see her and explain what happened and offered to take her to talk with my therapist about stuff, she called me a perv and pushed me off her steps and I nearly smashed my …
/r/MensRights26/06/25 01:55 AM
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I knew a woman casually who always posted misandry takes on FB and was really anti-male. Then her brother killed himself. Suddenly she realized men don't live in a state of perpetual bliss and she changed her tune.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 01:47 AM
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OP, porn is awful to men and women. These guys are barely paid anything, put at risk of all kinds of diseases, have no real relationships, have their reputations ruined, and get objectified and feel like crap, not to mention what all the Viagra they have to take does to their hearts and livers. .https://fightthenewdrug.org/3-male-porn-performers-share-their-most-disturbing-experiences-doing-porn/ The best sex is with some you care about. Work on finding someone and having a real relationship.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 05:11 PM
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This all day. Porn is awful for all people involved, men and women.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 04:59 PM
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FYI, violent rape is not necessarily "worse" in the long run. Most incest is not assault, even father on daughter, but studies show it's just as damaging as violent stranger assault and rape, if not more so. I was sexually abused by my Mom when I was a toddler until I was 11. She was never violent. But it still totally ruined a big part of my life and I still have nightmares, panic attacks, body issues, low self esteem, and nearly total inability to be intimate with any woman. I honestly sometim…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/25 04:57 PM
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Most of you blame women, feminism, and leftists for the very personal ans anecdotal ways you’re angry, and then pretend that anger is for “men’s rights”. I was sexually abused by my Mom when I was a little kid. At the time she was a single mother at the head of a single mother household. If you can explain how the fuck The Patriarchy™ is actually to blame and not her, I'm all ears. Literally MRAs are the only ones men like me can talk to and know we won't get shit on and told "well, it's mostly …
/r/MensRights24/06/25 06:55 AM
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Okay, again, if you actually looked through this sub, you'll see we talk about men's work issues all the time, including how men are more often victims of workplace injuries. I fail to see what the issue is. You seem to be angry that it isn't discussed with the exact verbage you would like. And again, the massive problem of underreporting of women and girls who are sexually abused by women is never brought up by any feminist subs, but I bring it up. One men's advocate talks more about a massive …
/r/MensRights24/06/25 06:48 AM
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Criticising womens behaviour and being fed up of it isn't the same as hating women There is a difference between social exasperation and genuine hatred, and I say this for men and women. A woman's sub with women in difficult dating situations rolling their eyes and saying "oh, men, I just can't deal with them" is not actual misandry. Likewise, men saying something similar about women isn't the same as genuine mysogyny.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:48 AM
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Autism women have it hard too". While I do agree, if you're hot and Autistic you'll be fine idc. The issue is that men on the spectrum marry at much lower rates than women on the spectrum, so obviously this is an issue that affects men more than it does women: https://crowncounseling.com/statistics/autism-marriage/ And that is the true crux of the matter: society just can't accept that any issue that hurts men more than it does women The only thing the modern feminists might say is that men do h…
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:44 AM
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Yeah but you also see me as a feminist right now to you say, OSHA is a crucial organization needed to keep that whole high death rate in male workers and large discrepancy between men and women down. It is undoubtedly a key piece in solving this issue you guys on this sub have regularly discussed. It should be protected and expanded. But right now, it's getting cut. This undoubtedly will result in this disparity for men becoming worse, as well as injure and kill more men. We should try to revers…
/r/MensRights23/06/25 08:09 PM
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I think a big part of it is that so many people lump PUAs, Internet incels, and other creeps with genuine men's rights advocacy.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 08:38 AM
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You see a lot of negativity against men on feminist subs, and it's a lot worse than anything you see here toward women. Nobody here is saying they're safer with a bear than a woman
/r/MensRights23/06/25 08:21 AM
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most posts and comments in this community show a very anti-woman sentiment where women are seen as only useful for sex Literally the very first post I saw today was about men's mental health, and another was about men dealing with sexual trauma. Basically, you seem to have a problem with men just talking about these issues. Do you have any examples of such rhetoric because I really don't see it. I could show you plenty of examples of outright misandry on feminists subs. Edit; you provided one ex…
/r/MensRights23/06/25 08:17 AM
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Does anyone else find it odd that men's mental health has become such a PRESSING CONCERN for society even though women attempt suicide more and have higher rates of mental illness? The higher suicide rates for women is mostly because women are significantly more likely than men to have Histrionic Personality Disorder, and people with HPD are prone to having multiple fake suicide attempts, which are really just ploys for attention. Those numbers skew the averages. Women are more likely to be diag…
/r/MensRights23/06/25 08:14 AM
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Women are afraid of being falsely accused of being loose to their friends. Men are afraid of being falsely accused of rape to the police
/r/EverydayMisandry13/06/25 04:46 PM
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Men in the United States are significantly more likely than women to be without health insurance https://www.census.gov/newsroom/blogs/random-samplings/2015/09/another-difference-between-the-sexes-health-insurance-coverage-3.html And they wonder why we don't go to therapy
/r/MensRights08/06/25 05:06 AM
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That's because liberal men are too afraid of radical feminist backlash to ever express any dissatisfaction with their dating lives. A ton of those guys are not lonely, but they're so afraid of being called "incels" that they won't ever admit it.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 07:58 AM
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The moment men start unionizing and protesting mass incarceration, the right will go ahead and declare it is a display of "Toxic masculinity."
/r/MensRights01/06/25 07:54 AM
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I just don't understand why the Democrats aren't promoting the daylights out of Michael Fannon. He's like the perfect answer to the issue https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-features/michael-fanone-biden-pardon-january-6-1235248478/
/r/MensRights01/06/25 07:49 AM
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It was the same thing with CSA in general until the late 70s, really. CSAM wasn't even illegal in all of western Europe until 1980. Or for that matter, we can look at marital rape: it happened all the time but folks refused to accept it, and now society understands how awful that is. It is slowly but surely turning around for CSA by women. We will live to see it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/25 05:02 AM
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I hear you, brother. I was sexually abused by my Mom as a kid and it totally messed me up and the double standards are awful. So many of the people who want to "destroy gendered expectations for women," but suddenly become angered when I or another person says that we should also remove the gendered assumption that women can't be perpetrators of abuse. The issue is especially bad in the UK. Things are a bit better here in the US, on that front at least.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/25 05:21 AM
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Seems like a bigger femcel
/r/EverydayMisandry27/05/25 01:28 AM
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I didn't say anything about being a man. I am talking about things that are masculine or feminine, and all humans are a mixture of both of those things. I'm just saying that obsessing over avoiding ,"toxic masculinity" is just as harmful as obsessing over avoiding "looking like a beta" or some other Red Pill buffoonery. Both are harmful thought patterns.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 08:41 AM
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No it isn't! It's just being. Think about it for two seconds man. No, I'm not thinking about that stuff at all. I have enough to think about without thinking of being either masculine enough or worrying about being toxically masculine. Both are unhealthy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 06:00 AM
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No, it isn't a standard. Who the heck ever said that? Military history is a masculine field. It isn't a "standard" or anything. Knitting is a feminine hobby. It's perfectly fine, too. I fail to see what's wrong with a guy lifting weights or growing a beard or whatever.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 05:08 AM
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This line of thinking is just as dangerous as Red Pill/Alpha Male garbage, just dangerous in the other direction Masculinity is a part of being a man. As is femininity. All humans are a mix of masculine and feminine. It's like Yin and Yang, how both have a little of the other inside them. It isn't something to obsess over and at the same time, it isn't something to reject.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 04:53 AM
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I have yet to hear an adequate explanation for how child abuse in a single mother household is the work of "The Patriarchy"
/r/MensRights25/05/25 06:32 AM
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I am still waiting for feminists to say anything about the lack of women sanitation workers, truckers, and HVAC installers.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 02:47 AM
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They literally are pushing to defund men's health and deny the very existence of male victims of SA, CSA, or IPV. This is pure BS
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/25 01:36 AM
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I don't think that's what they meant at all. What they meant was that the reply was clever, and not acting like they were triggered.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/05/25 06:12 AM
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I've said this a billion times on Reddit but just a few times IRL: My Mom sexually abused me as a little toddler in the tub and in private, and as I got older she split from my father and forced me to sleep in her bed and the abuse got worse. I got to be a bit too old for her interest, and her drug abuse got worse, so she agreed to let my father have custody. It totally ruined me. I have nightmares, body issues, low self esteem, and extreme difficulty being intimate with women. And the red flags…
/r/MensRights04/05/25 03:07 AM
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Now show her Female Dating Strategy...
/r/MensRights03/05/25 06:32 AM
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I was sexually abused by my Mom and my ex physically attacked me once unprovoked. I don't hate women and I call out people who hate women.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/25 04:23 AM
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The article I linked to and the table you're ignoring shows both abuse and murder https://childprotectionresource.online/mothers-are-more-likely-to-abuse-children-than-fathers-fact/
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:58 PM
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Again, look at the first table.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:55 PM
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No, I said murder and abuse. Where are your links proving anything?
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:55 PM
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I said kill.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:54 PM
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Just take the L
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:54 PM
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Lol, it literally does on the very first table that shows abuse by mothers and fathers vs fathers alone vs mothers alone.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:53 PM
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You are not answering the question. And I literally cited sources. Among offenders, while fathers were about equally likely to kill an infant, they were more likely to be the alleged murderer of children older than a year, especially when the children were adults (fathers were the offenders in 78.3 percent of those cases). Overall, fathers were the accused murderer 57.4 percent of the time. The data allowed the researchers to determine the most common filicide scenarios. A father killing a son w…
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:48 PM
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It literally does. Here's another one: https://childprotectionresource.online/mothers-are-more-likely-to-abuse-children-than-fathers-fact/
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:47 PM
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I love how anytime a man says anything about men's issues it's an "incel talking point" We should start calling their constantly repeated lines "femcel talking points."
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:42 PM
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So what else explains why single moms kill their kids more than men?
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:40 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6373254/ You're really going to argue that her daughter would remind of her of herself while her son would remind her of her ex because their genders match? Yes. A boy who looks like his father will remind her of her ex, and hence she will take it out on him.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 08:33 PM
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Okay, whenever you hear this crap, there is an easy way to refute it: look at families. Single mother households are a lot more common than single father households. Single mother households proportionately have more abuse, and most of that abuse targets sons. Think about it: she and her man split for whatever reason, maybe because he was a scumbag, who knows? But she's left with the kid and he is the constant reminder of her ex while her daughter is a reminder of herself. So who is she probably…
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 07:08 PM
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Reduce from countries to households. There are an order of magnitude more single mother households in the US than single father households, and the proportion of abuse in single mother households is a lot greater than single father households, and 70% of child abuse is committed by mothers. Mothers abuse their sons more than their daughters. That is misandry and matriarchy.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 01:03 AM
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This guy has literally been cancelled from all social media. So how exactly is he influencing young men? He isn't. Most young men don't know who he is and if they do, they think he's pure cringe. Still, I just wish Kevin Samuels had lived. Nobody would know who Tate is and Samuels was a thousand times better a human than Tate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/25 02:05 PM
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Unfortunately, you are another victim of patriarchy I will not yell, scream, or say anything aside from asking this one honest question: You would never credit the work of Jane Goodall to "the Patriarchy" would you? No. Nor should you. So why blame "the Patriarchy" when a woman commits a horrific crime?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/25 05:37 AM
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What’s strange is that I notice sometimes other male SA or abuse victims even sometimes tone police themselves by saying stuff like “I know my experince doesn’t compare to womens” and it’s generally frustrating because those experiences DO compare, they are all the same experience, but I hate that we are made of feel that it doesn’t matter as much just because as a man, someone that same hurt isn’t “as bad If I ever saw that I would have to put them in check. So then the male victims themselves …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 05:32 AM
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So, so sorry, brother. The good news is that things are finally starting to change. You are right, we do need to talk about this more, both for our own sake and for the sake of the poor boys going through this even as I type.😭
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 01:50 AM
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Okay, I am not watching that because of my own CSA and I don't want to get triggered. Was he joking about it or something? Maybe it isn't true but if not he really needs some help. I can barely talk about what my Mom did to me out loud without crying.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:43 PM
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Hey...maybe the boys aren't listening to Andrew Tate but are rather afraid that their teacher may be one of the many sexually abusing their male students? 🤔
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/25 07:02 PM
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This is a study of teachers, not a survey of students. They are taking the women teachers' word on it, and how do they treat their male students?: Results show that, when comparing students who have identical subject-specific competence, teachers are more likely to give higher grades to girls. Furthermore, they demonstrate for the first time that this grading premium favouring girls is systemic, as teacher and classroom characteristics play a negligible role in reducing it. Source: https://www.t…
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/25 07:01 PM
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The UK is one of the worst places in the world to be a boy or man. They even shut down the ONE hotline for male victims of sexual assault: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/clyzeqe1z22o But is that at all surprising when you consider this is the kind of feminist scum the UK has in their government: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/news/video-1225377/MP-Jess-Phillips-laughs-men-s-rights-debate-request.html First, feminists say men should talk about men's issues. But then when we try, that is wha…
/r/MensRights12/04/25 02:42 AM
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Exactly And of course feminist are the ones pushing that narrative. They have a thousand times more power than any troll in a comments section.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/04/25 02:33 AM
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No, it started long before that.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:54 PM
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Very good reply. Thanks 👍🏽
/r/EverydayMisandry11/04/25 06:23 PM
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I'm over 40 And yes, feminism has changed. It's been crazy like that since the early 80s when Andrea Dworkin's ideas took over..
/r/MensRights11/04/25 03:34 PM
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Dude, no. I've had some very good women friends, as have most men. Just take a break from social media for awhile and calm down.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 07:11 AM
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Dude, don't hate women because of the actions of a few. For every feminist there is a non-feminist and they are individuals first and foremost
/r/MensRights11/04/25 07:05 AM
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No, society and feminists have been consistent about what sexual assault is: A man does anything to a woman that she doesn't like, even if the actions happened only in his mind? That's sexual assault. A woman does anything, up to and including anally raping 20 toddlers and three armadillos to death? Definitely not sexual assault and you are problematic for simply saying it is.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 01:51 AM
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Exactly. Half of the hens on there are femcels
/r/MensRights11/04/25 01:06 AM
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😲 It's a miracle... Kevin Samuels is back from the dead!
/r/MensRights11/04/25 01:05 AM
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Look into female sex tourism, when white women with money go to developing countries to mess with local young men, most of whom have zero employment prospects and live in poverty https://www.newstatesman.com/politics/2013/08/meet-middle-aged-women-who-are-britains-female-sex-tourists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/25 11:48 PM
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No, pepper spray is still a weapon and a man can still get in trouble for using it. This opinion is far better: https://nebo.acgbrands.com/en_US/home-recreation/tactical-self-defense.html?srsltid=AfmBOopiIEfRUSo9G7zR4KB2EufBweMdVKh06E1dipAUulPGyyjQ7Ukf
/r/MensRights09/04/25 06:37 PM
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Doctor K, Healthy Gamer GG comes to mind.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 06:28 PM
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remember her. Immature men and feminists were laughing and defending her. It was so gross. But when an attractive male abuses a little girl, nobody says a thing
/r/MensRights09/04/25 06:27 PM
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No, MGTOW has Jack to do with Tate. Tate is a pick up artist who tells men "how to get girls." MGTOW tells men they shouldn't try to get girls or women's approval. PUA and MGTOW hate each other.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/25 03:28 PM
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It's funny because if you look for what feminists women say is a "positive male role model" and an example of "positive masculinity," you will inevitably find pic after pic of a shirtless Chris Evans as Captain America, or a opened shirt Viggo Mortensen as Aragon...😆 Yep. In order to be a "positive male role model" according to those feminist women a man must have a six pack and be unrealistic attractive. Anyway, the very best example of real manhood that I admired growing up was Captain Jean Lu…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 01:58 AM
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I just don't understand why opinions like this exist and are openly stated, and yet people look at me like I'm nuts when I say "modern feminists hate men." I mean, I was sexually abused by my Mom and physically assaulted by my one girlfriend when I had a panic attack when she tried to initiate sex because of the abuse. Despite that, I would NEVER say anything about all women. I do not blame women for what my Mom and my ex were like. I blame them. Does that make me a better person than the author…
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/25 01:45 AM
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Because many of the MGOTW were part of a desire to return to "men are men and women are women" type roles in society. It actually started with the exact opposite, saying men should be liberated from living for women's approval
/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/25 07:42 PM
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I once read an essay by some feminist intellectual that claimed gay men were inherently misogynistic because they actively excluded women from their sex lives 🤦🏽‍♂️ I think Trump should lift all tarrifs if the other countries will take our feminists
/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/25 02:10 AM
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You may want to cross post this to r/leftwingmaleadvocates
/r/MensRights08/04/25 12:01 AM
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I heard of it and somebody I trust said it was basically a romantic film that depicted the abuse as "hot' and was overall pretty gross. It was also directed by a woman and written by a woman 🤬 Yep. They always got to find a way to minimize what happens to men and boys.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/04/25 11:17 PM
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It happened with "cyberbully,". Oh yes, the 2010s, when people actually understood that girls can be awful too.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/25 06:51 PM
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I love how these feminist women project "male loneliness=they want women" when 90% of the time men talk about this they are talking about a lack of male friends. It's like these women just need to believe they are all men think about. They are the entitled ones.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/25 02:16 AM
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I said the same exact thing. There has never been a movie about women teachers raping boys that hasn't been a comedy. But there was a really good novel about it called "Boy Toy" by Barry Lygia
/r/EverydayMisandry05/04/25 03:24 PM
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I am not a fan of the president, but if he laid off Greenland and instead wanted to invade Iceland, at this point I'd be okay with that.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 08:27 PM
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It would be fine as long as they showed "Baby Reindeer" as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/25 08:02 PM
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Daniel Parson, the man who was arrested and held for a month and did absolutely nothing wrong. Literally a woman named Anjela Borisova Urumova thought he "looked creeper" so she reported that he sexually assaulted her. That's all it took. https://nypost.com/2025/01/21/us-news/woman-admits-she-made-up-rape-claims-that-put-innocent-man-in-jail-and-reveals-she-targeted-him-over-his-looks/
/r/MensRights31/03/25 04:35 AM
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I am so tired of hearing this shit. Most young men think these guys are pure cringe. Doctor K, the Healthy Gamer guy, actually has a larger following than Andrew Tate. I have yet to read an article about him by any UK paper. I wonder why? Oh yes: it's hard to make him appear "toxic," even though feminists say so all the time
/r/MensRights30/03/25 11:50 PM
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So they already forgot about that movie "Cyberbully" that quickly?
/r/MensRights26/03/25 02:55 AM
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Also meanwhile in the UK: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clyzeqe1z22o And when oh when is there ever going to be a film about teenage boys being sexually abused by teachers? Or at least one that isn't a comedy?
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/25 11:05 PM
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Child abuse in single mother households far exceeds what happens in single parent households. A single mother household is by definition not patriarchal. Oftentimes such women are driven by misandry.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 06:40 PM
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Really? This immature stuff makes me want to unsub. I am not a fan of modern feminism either but COME ON. How about we just ignore them as much as we can and just actually focus on men's issues and only bring them up when it's relevant? Otherwise we just play into their hand.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 06:01 AM
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And that says it all
/r/MensRights24/03/25 08:00 PM
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I love how the "teach boys not to rape!' get into a tizzy every time I suggest that they "teach boys that they can be raped" and also teach girls to respect boys.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/03/25 07:59 PM
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Deleted because no such film exists, as I just checked.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 03:40 AM
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And that same power disparity would apply to father and child too, that is just the power dynamic of adults vs children Having fathers in the picture reduces the chances of abuse: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0190740917304097 Single Father households have less abuse than single mother households.. Also, society grants mothers absolute power that is not granted to fathers. My mother constantly grabbed my rear in public, made jokes about my privates, and made me sleep in …
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:52 PM
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My question is, how can abuse in single mother households be chalked up to The Patriarchy™ ? Can you name a greater, wider ranging, and more absolutely accepted power disparity in any relationship than that of Mother and child? That is matriarchy to the core. The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:44 PM
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Question: are they ever going to make a film,. streaming or otherwise, about the sexual abuse of boys by women teachers and then give boys lessons teaching them that they too deserve respect and that older people shouldn't be touching them? I won't hold my breath on that one..
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:06 PM
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There's no systematic anti-male violence being perpetrated by women, and there are no female-dominated governments that deny basic rights to men. The flaw in that thinking is that it only looks at government and business power, never power in family dynamics. Single Mother households, where most child abuse happens, are indeed female-dominated by nature. My mother would constantly bash men while she beat the crap out of my brother and sister, and she would constantly talk trash about my father. …
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:03 PM
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How is 4b allowed on Reddit but not MGTOW? Granted, I'm not a fan of MGTOW either, but still, fair is fair.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/03/25 06:04 AM
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For every one boy in UK who does a stabbing attack, there are several hundred who self deleted. But what does Netflix make a series about?
/r/MensRights22/03/25 05:19 PM
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The director said it wasn't based on true events. And it wasn't about the internet destroying his mental health but about the murder of the girl. There was zero sympathy for any male character in that whole stupid thing.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 06:48 AM
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I'll just copy and past what I literally just said about this crap on the askmen sub: Basically, take "Joker," and cut out all the stuff about how he had mental illness that he couldn't get treatment for, was broke, was abused as a kid, was a social outcast in a cut-throat society and literally nobody was there for him. Cut all that out, and instead start "Joker" with Arthur Fleck in his apartment just after killing his Mother. That's kinda what that piece of shit was. It had no social context t…
/r/MensRights22/03/25 06:18 AM
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I'll tell you exactly why: look through the posts and comments. There honestly isn't much here that could be classified as "hateful right-wing incel" stuff. The mods keep that sort of thing out of here and most of the posters here just legitimately care about men and boys. I imagine a lot of angry feminists look at this sub and are surprised to find few posts that sound like they come from Andrew Tate and a lot about male victims of sexual violence.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 05:59 AM
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Here is a good study on this issue in the UK: https://www.research.lancs.ac.uk/portal/en/publications/oh-youre-a-guy-how-could-you-be-raped-by-a-woman-that-makes-no-sense(4b8befa9-5fed-4306-9d86-7d93ed5e566b).html.html)
/r/MensRights22/03/25 04:34 AM
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woman who does that stuff has to be an insane freak. Any human doing that stuff is insane, and that insanity has a name: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia I just wish the news would use it more often when talking about women abusers
/r/MensRights22/03/25 01:44 AM
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This shit isn't even about getting off for the abuser. It's about control. I met one guy who was abused by his older cousin who babysat him when he was seven and she was in her early 20s. She would perform oral sex on him and entice him to touch her, but that was it. She didn't have him "get her off" in the sense of regular sex. She just got off on messing with a kid and guilt tripping him later on. Yeah. This shit is that fucked up, no matter what gender does it
/r/MensRights21/03/25 07:56 AM
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Because there are no innocent kids on Tinder who they can manipulate and control as they see fit.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 07:51 AM
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Okay, yeah, I am being too harsh. I'm just tired of hearing them whining on all corners of the Internet. I mean, yeah, it isn't easy and yes, they have legitimate issues working against them, like the economy and all. But it's just the endless lack of self awareness and how it manifests with them is really irking me. But yeah, they do have actual problems and they do deserve some compassion, I agree.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/25 07:44 AM
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Let's say that I want to have a GF, and I do all the "right" things. Does that cast a magic spell over a random women I meet and force them to love me? Is it like a gacha game where if I fail X amount of times the universe gives me a freebie? Is it like baking a cake, where doing the right things in the right order in the right circumstances guarantees a specific result? Dude, it's like finding a job: you got to be qualified smart and keep looking and sooner or later you'll get one. Also, "incel…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/25 02:44 AM
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Go to Walmart and see all the chuds with their chuddettes on their arms. It is not a holographic image I put up, I assure you
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 11:03 PM
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No, like I said, I've seen women who actually were attracted to men who then hit on them and the men declined, and then went on to say "no woman wants them" 🤦🏽‍♂️ Every time I disprove this "incel" garbage people want to mince words or some other BS. There is no such thing as an "incel." They could get GFs but they have other issues.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 10:30 PM
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You are ignoring the point entirely. I've literally seen women flirt with guys who insisted they can't get GF. I've seen guys asked out by women who later insist they can't get a GF. It happens all the time. The issue is they've Internalized the idea that "no woman would want them" and that they must have a GF and that all men want a girl. They can't even fathom that they aren't ready for one.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 08:38 PM
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No, it's because he isn't ready for a relationship. I've seen it happen countless times
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 08:14 PM
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I was SA'd by my Mom when I was a little kid and there is no way in Hell I'm reading that. I'm triggered enough this month
/r/MensRights20/03/25 06:47 PM
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And the conclusion of the study: 95% of incels were cured by a combination of better personal hygiene, gaining a remote job, and learning the Thai language and relocation to SE Asia 🤣 Honestly though, I will die on the Hill that these guys are full of it. I would love to do an experiment where I ask one of these guys to be interviewed at a hotel room and tell him when he shows that I have an emergency phone call I need to have but he can go to the hotel bar and have some drinks and food on my ta…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 06:43 PM
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I've heard radical feminists make this claim.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/03/25 04:24 PM
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Actually, according to the data, women rulers start more wars than male rulers https://alumniandfriends.uchicago.edu/s/uchicago-review-story/a4X1U000000syMoUAI/the-wars-of-queens
/r/EverydayMisandry19/03/25 03:22 AM
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I think this really varies based on the generation of the people involved. Younger guys are actually more understanding of male trauma in general. Boomers are a lost cause in this regard. The issue is we're never taught that we can be victimized and so we refuse to accept it, even though all men know good and well there are plenty of women they would never in a million years want to sleep with. I often think our sexual vulnerability as men is kind of an "emperor's new clothes", in that we're all…
/r/MensRights18/03/25 02:46 AM
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So if a 50+ year old pale, sweaty, 300lb land whale, who smelled like a combination of Marlboro Reds and deep fried bologna, grabbed the average grown man by the head and forecably motor-boated him, you're telling me he would be okay with that? Because that's what happened to me once working at a restaurant. Not saying it was the same as rape, but it was utterly vile and I felt disgusted and grossed out, as would most men.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 02:30 AM
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I wouldn't be angry about them if it wasn't for how so often men say things about what women have done to them and they get called "Red pilled!" or "incel sexist misogynist"
/r/EverydayMisandry17/03/25 11:14 PM
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Here is the issue I take with "structural problem of society" line when people like this use it: it's only a one-way street. Society has a structural problem with ignoring red flags in women who sexual abuse kids, and society absolutely fails in educating kids that women can do this too. As a result, according to data, an order of magnitude more CSA (child sexual abuse) is committed by women than is reported. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0093854816658923 Yet, as someone who bring…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/03/25 11:10 PM
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He's absolutely right. It's like when Justin Bieber had his nudes leaked. Nobody said anything about it like they did when it happened to Jennifer Lawrence. Good on him for talking about the double standard
/r/EverydayMisandry17/03/25 06:22 PM
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A lot of the general women's subs have become kind of "radicalized" in recent years I've noticed and a lot of them have become rather toxic. I just don't understand how being against misandry means one automatically "hates women."
/r/EverydayMisandry17/03/25 01:19 AM
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I read in another article about her that one of the boys cried on the witness stand and said he was groomed and raped and he couldn't handle it. Poor kid. This happened to me when I was a little kid and I couldn't imagine testifying about it in front of everyone and how hard that must have been. And craziest of all she blames this on weight loss 🤦🏽‍♂️ I guess "turning into a pedophile" should be added to the possible side effects of Ozempic.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:45 AM
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How is this even allowed?
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/25 04:59 PM
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A topless woman is unsafe around men? Okay. That's news to countless women in Polynesian and African cultures where such thing is the norm.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/25 04:57 PM
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The gender sentencing gap: Overall, we find that female defendants receive more lenient sentence outcomes than their male counterparts. Legal factors account for a large portion of the gender differences, but even after controlling for legal characteristics a substantial gap in sentencing outcomes remains. Source: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0887403412466877 The gender sentencing gap is pretty well documented
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/25 06:11 AM
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And nobody talks about the elephant in the room: boys have only seen this decline in grades since 1) women dominated teaching and 2) the rise of single mother households. Once again, the problem isn't "toxic masculinity" but rather a lack of masculinity. Bring back the fathers and the male teachers and this will turn around fast.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 11:58 PM
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I suggest you check out r/adultsurvivors . There are a lot of cool people there. Also you may want to talk to someone from 1 in 6. It's an organization created especially for male survivors. They may have someone you can talk to. 1in6.org
/r/MensRights14/03/25 10:04 PM
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Feminists read this story and are more mad about fat shaming than the death of a kid.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 08:56 PM
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Protect you from what? I know from what: that spider you're so terrified of.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 08:19 PM
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Very good point
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 08:19 PM
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Okay, this survey of was done of teenagers themselves, so of course the answers will not reflect reality. Second, there is an obvious reason why boys are falling behind now more than ever: the rise of single mother households. They have no father or father figure to guide them, and most of the teachers are now women. Boys are growing up without men around them and that's causing the issues.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 08:10 PM
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Let's be fair, a lot of men perpetuate this shit too. They are too concerned with looking macho that they don't want to say when a woman is making them feel uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 07:59 PM
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Yes. Women abusers often disguise the abuse as "playing" or "cleaning." My mother would bath me until I was 8 years old and she would take a lot of time to do it. It was abuse.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 05:09 PM
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CSA from my Mom, ages 6ish to 11. I've also been groped by women and sexually harassed by men and women.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 10:40 AM
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I understand 😢
/r/MensRights14/03/25 10:39 AM
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Here is my question: Statistically, who is a little boy safer around: a wild jackal or a single mom? Jackals almost never attack kids. Single moms kill kids at rates much higher than single dads. So we choose the jackal.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 07:41 AM
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Jokes on you, honey, I'm moving to Asia where I'll be around average height
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 06:57 AM
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Can we lay off the MGTOW talk? It had interesting ideas when it started but now it's just plain gross. Yeah, fuck misandry, and yes, men shouldn't let women define them. At the same time I can honestly say that most of those online MGTOW spaces are not positive places for men. It's leaps and bounds better than incels, yes, but still, it's silly at this point.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 06:55 AM
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This all day. Also, Yaoi is borderline pedo crap half the time.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 04:13 AM
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4B is barely known at all in Korea and it's on the fringes of the fringe. But yes, both movements are dumb.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 04:12 AM
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That's how it started but now most of them are batshit crazy.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/25 04:12 AM
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It's interesting how the fetishization of gay men by women in "fandom" spaces is almost never talked about by the "Patriarchy Theory" people...I wonder why?
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/25 09:16 AM
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I love how when they see crazy incel posts, every CORRECTLY calls it out as being batshit crazy and outright dangerous thinking. But when this shit is posted everybody just laughs and says "just a joke, lighten up."
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/25 09:06 AM
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Honestly, I don't even like to call the stuff I have issues with feminism at all. I prefer to call it "Patriarchy theorism."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/25 11:50 PM
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The woman in that video was despicable and should have her license revoked. I saw two therapists as adults, both males, one was okay but overworked and the other was awesome. My second therapist was a specialist in trauma and worked with a lot of men who survived CSA like I did. You can still find good therapists but you have to look and get a feel for them during assessment.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 11:43 PM
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I had a post about it that was locked for some reason: https://www.reddit.com/r/rant/s/rjH7aqV8hi I agree. These guys are just immature and messed up in the head. The fact is teenage boys who have this happen to them, even if they do so "willingly," end up with all kinds of issues later. Ever see a crackhead prostitute walking down the street and wonder who would sleep with them? Men who were SA'd by older women as teens would, because many of them have sex addiction and literally can't stop the…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/03/25 08:58 PM
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Two words: Internalized misandry
/r/MensRights11/03/25 08:54 PM
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"Traumatize them back." These people are sick
/r/EverydayMisandry11/03/25 08:54 PM
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OP: you should delete this and repost with the usernames blocked out. You may get this deleted and you may get banned from the sub
/r/EverydayMisandry11/03/25 03:27 AM
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Now show a muscular man in a sleeveless shirt saying he dresses like that to "intimidate weak, fat women "
/r/EverydayMisandry10/03/25 03:55 PM
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Why does Reddit even allow this stuff? They'd never let a man call a women the B word, nor should they.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/03/25 03:05 AM
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She lived a really hard life and died a sad death
/r/MensRights10/03/25 01:38 AM
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Please, please, call someone. I am not a professional but this situation is just NOT SAFE https://rainn.org/ Please, it's anonymous, you don't have to let anybody know, but please call and talk with them.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 01:04 AM
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Hold on...are you working with the same sister that abused you? Tell me I didn't read that right.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:58 AM
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You have plenty of time for that. Just focus on healing first and then when you're ready you can try dating. I had one GF my whole life and it was a disaster. She was pushy, egotistical, and she dumped me when I had a panic attack during sex because I was kinda triggered by my abuse. I went to therapy after that and we both agreed it would be best if I healed first and didn't date until I was ready. In the meantime just focus on other stuff, like the gym or school or training or work or hobbies …
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:57 AM
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I understand. I was SA'd by my Mom from ages like six to eleven and it totally messed me up. You may want to talk in r/adultsurvivors because a lot of people there are cool. Have you heard of 1 in 6? The organization for men who have been abused? They may be able to connect with a therapist. 1in6.org And yes, you need therapy. There are male therapists who specialize in this sort of thing. I saw one for a while and it really helped. Just remember no matter what it was NOT your fault. You were a …
/r/MensRights09/03/25 08:26 PM
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How society, including men, doesn't want to take SA and CSA by women seriously and how there isn't enough help for men who suffer from SA and CSA. A meta-analysis proved that CSA by women is absurdly underreported and happens a lot more than people think https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0093854816658923 I was abused by my Mom and her red flags would have been obvious if the genders were reversed. I still suffer from the trauma of it.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 08:34 PM
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Exactly
/r/MensRights07/03/25 08:32 PM
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And you notice the people complaining about the lack of women in STEM never complain about the lack of women doing dangerous jobs,?
/r/EverydayMisandry06/03/25 11:10 PM
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The issue is society can't understand that men and women tend to have different interests. Yes, you'll always have some women into computers and engineering, but on average most just aren't as into it as men. I have never heard anyone complain about how most speech pathologists, like 90%, are women.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/03/25 06:43 PM
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But they never complain about the lack of women trash collectors or women exterminators. Yep. The Patriarchy is hoarding those jobs for men
/r/EverydayMisandry06/03/25 05:01 AM
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Exactly And they always have so much nuance about racial crime, like correctly pointing out things like the War on Drugs or redlining creating ghettos, but when it comes to gender in crime that all gets thrown out the window and it's just "men baaaaaad!"
/r/EverydayMisandry05/03/25 07:43 PM
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"Women are victims of men at a greater rate than men are victims of women. So that means that, even though society refuses to believe men can be victimized, we shouldn't talk about them because statistics." That is a perfectly acceptable statement by them. But the following makes them flip out: "Black people are victims of other black people at a greater rate than men are victims of the police. So that means that, even though society refuses to believe black can be victimized, we shouldn't talk …
/r/EverydayMisandry05/03/25 07:02 AM
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Okay. Fair enough. And you know what? I can only speak for myself, but if the people in that other sub acknowledged that too, everything would be okay. But the fact is too many people refuse to do so and truly act like denying women offenders exist is somehow helping women as a whole. That's the point I'm trying to make.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 07:20 AM
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How many seconds do you think a fragile women sub would last?
/r/EverydayMisandry02/03/25 10:05 PM
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That's why we need sector wide unions like in Europe or like back in the day and more independent unions like the IWW.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 08:54 AM
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I agree. Men shouldn't let the culture suppress them. They also shouldn't let global monopoly capitalism oppress them. Let's see how he and his boss react when young men harness that "toxic masculinity" and follow the traditions of their grandfathers and great-grandfathers and come together with other young men and Start a Union All of a sudden Vance would clutch the pearls and condemn them to the point that he sounds like a feminist
/r/MensRights02/03/25 06:17 AM
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Rapists are also our sisters, mothers, aunts, wives and best friends. Rapists are also the kindly old lady up the road who always babysits kids, and also the teacher all the students love. The rapist is the party girl whose boyfriend got a little too drunk. The rapist is the angry, lonely woman with a grudge. The rapist is the college girl on holiday overseas who sees a kid walking down a street alone at night, "selling flowers," and instantly knows what they're doing and says "why not? YOLO." I…
/r/MensRights01/03/25 08:30 AM
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💀 I've never seen that one before, awesome
/r/EverydayMisandry01/03/25 06:25 AM
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That says more about "actual news sources" than about the Daily Mail
/r/MensRights28/02/25 11:53 PM
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Okay, and do you know what else is normal for a boy to have fantasies about? Going to war and being a hero. We literally give little boys GI Joes and toy soldiers. So, does that make child soldiers, like the ones in the Congo or that ISIS used, are okay? Absolutely not. Believe it or not, there is a difference between what is normal and nature for a kid to have fantasies about and what a kid can handle in reality Yes, it's normal for kids to have fantasies about adults, but just as they can't ha…
/r/MensRights28/02/25 11:52 PM
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I wouldn't suggest that even. Please, don't hint at brigading or anything because that could get this sub in trouble
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 11:29 PM
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More like a salt mine
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 11:28 PM
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Alas, I don't think so.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 11:08 AM
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Big facts
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 10:16 AM
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I'll just leave this study here: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/ These people are disgusting. Next time somebody says "feminists don't hate men," I'll show them this
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 08:37 AM
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Here is the easiest rebuttal: for something that big, you need a meta-analysis, not individual studies by one group of researchers. A meta-analysis would be a survey of surveys. I recently one such meta-analysis which concludes that women commit about six times as much abuse as they're convicted of. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0093854816658923
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 08:05 AM
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Bad bot
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 07:52 AM
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4B is also absurdly dumb. Funny thing is, MGTOW is actually bigger in the US than 4B is in Korea. Nobody in Korea has heard of 4B and it's actually more well known in the US than Korea https://youtu.be/bCzw-ckKbGU?si=rSlZXEnqaPBbV_NR And why emulate radical feminists anyway? I refuse to stoop to their level
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 03:22 AM
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MGTOW is stupid. Yes, I advocate for men and all that and yes, society can be unfair for men at times, but at the same time I have to say this crap is foolish. They never talk about what happens AFTER a man "goes his own way" but still whine and moan about women and they're just silly. But yes, I think men should be okay being single and should look more towards other men for validation and friendship and such, but MGTOW takes it to an extreme that I can't get behind.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 02:57 AM
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No, this is legit. If you use dating apps, you will end up meeting a psycho sooner or later, and this goes for men and women.. But more men than women use the apps, so of course more male psychos than women psychos will be there
/r/MensRights26/02/25 05:05 AM
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A bunch of times, actually. Any man who serves alcohol for long enough has a bunch of stories about nasty women., unless he works at a private club or a gay bar maybe One drunk old lady motor-boated me against my will. It was disgusting and my manager, a man, just laughed. At least her daughter and law knew it was serious and yelled at her and made her leave the restaurant and gave me an $100 and apologized. Another time a girl who was WAY Out of my league at my job had a thing for me, but I was…
/r/MensRights26/02/25 04:16 AM
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It's always a "joke" when a woman does it.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 04:02 AM
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Same, only mine was my Mom
/r/MensRights26/02/25 04:01 AM
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First, I'm sorry you are going through this. Second, I suggest you try finding friends first, a partner later. If you're religious that's a great place to start, also any kind of volunteer work will help you connect with good people. In other words, meaningful activities are a great place to form meaningful friendships.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 03:51 AM
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Yeah, no. Any kind of BDSM should be clearly communicated and understood ahead of time. She should have made it clear in the beginning and been like "okay dear, I want to try something a little kinky, okay? Here is what I'm thinking and here are the safe words that will mean I will stop of things get a little too uncomfortable for you. Okay?" That's what needs to happen: conversation and consent. You don't bumrush somebody into BDSM And you know good and well if the rules were reversed...
/r/EverydayMisandry24/02/25 02:17 AM
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She mocked Terry Crews? That is so disgusting No male comedian would be allowed to get away with mocking a victim of Weinstein, nor should they This is why male survivors don't come forward
/r/EverydayMisandry24/02/25 02:11 AM
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Internalized misandry Okay, look, if you ever hear this stupid, immature "where were those hot teachers when I was that age, hahahha" crap, here is what to say in reply: Yes, if it happened to you at that age, you might have enjoyed it. But guess what else you would have enjoyed when you were a bit younger? Face painting with radium. Now, imagine if you played with radium at age seven and it was just fun and glow in the dark and everything was fine later. And then, years later, seemingly for no …
/r/EverydayMisandry23/02/25 08:34 AM
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I've actually answered this question before and the response from feminists was hilarious: https://1in6.org/trainings/research-on-male-survivors/ There. The largest organization for male victims of sexual violence, a group of people that many feminists insist don't exist or at least aren't worth talking about, does research into male survivors of SA and CSA. The response from feminists? "They aren't a men's rights groups because all they are doing is advocating for men " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Any time a men's o…
/r/MensRights23/02/25 08:17 AM
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I was SA'd by my Mom who was an alcoholic, my one GF ever physically abused me when I had a panic attack because the CSA left me screwed up. I never felt "all the affirmations I could need." It's like the mental health crisis hurting men just doesn't exist anymore
/r/EverydayMisandry22/02/25 08:29 PM
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"Shelley Serdahely, executive director of Men Stopping Violence, in Decatur, Ga., questions the validity of studies showing women are more violent. "Women might be more likely to get frustrated because men are not taught how to be active listeners and women feel like they are not being heard,” she said. “Often women are more emotional because the relationship matters a lot to them, and while that may come out in a push or a shove or a grab, all of which are considered dating violence, it doesn’t…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/02/25 08:26 PM
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I'm old enough to remember when women would complain about wanting to get sexual instead of complaining that a man wanted to get emotional. Can we go back to that timeline please?
/r/EverydayMisandry22/02/25 07:11 AM
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And why didn't Bernie ever say anything like this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 06:53 AM
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Good point
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 06:39 PM
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And if you look at https://www.reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny They have similar posts. If we can't "lust" over them...
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 06:23 PM
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BTW I thought looks didn't matter; they would all get a shot back then, right? RIGHT? 🤔 Very good point! I don't see them gushing over Danny Diveto like this.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 02:16 PM
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Even a mother abusing her child has to be spun to the point that the woman is the "real victim" 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 01:26 PM
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But men get called "rapist" by feminists for playing "Baby it's cold outside" or "Sweet Child of Mine"
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 03:39 AM
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Feminists will say that systemic issues against men are the result of The Patriarchy™ and nothing else. And what is The Patriarchy ™ you ask? Well, it's how men run the world. Basically, it's a low-key form of victim-blaming. The truth is a mess of complex issues that can't be easily explained in one word. For most modern feminists the world is a very simplistic place. There in lies their ultimate failing
/r/EverydayMisandry20/02/25 10:59 AM
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My all time favorite example of this happening is this gem I had to go to the wayback machine to find: it was so absurd that even they decided to take it down. A feminist man was angry about women being excluded from an event. The event in question? A gay orgy party! https://web.archive.org/web/20140531054553/http://www.huffingtonpost.com/eric-barry/international-mr-leather-_b_5413155.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices Feminists don't even want men to have a gay orgy without "equal representation for wo…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:02 AM
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The issue is he doesn't even seem to know that he's being used this way. The guy honestly seems to be thinking she really cares and then she goes behind his back like this and talks about him this way. And do you know what the scary part is? THERE IS LITERALLY NO WAY A MAN CAN KNOW IF HIS GIRLFRIEND IS LIKE THIS OR A PART OF ONE OF THESE GROUPS They are sociopaths. Simple as that. They just manipulate men and feel no real empathy, even if they seem to show it around him. No, I am not saying all …
/r/EverydayMisandry19/02/25 08:52 AM
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Honestly, don't counter it, because you can never win doing that. Instead nod, and say they're absolutely right. Then ask her if she knows why they do that. The answer? Simple: Internalized Misandry Consider this: the rise of loneliness in men in the US correlates perfectly with the rise of single mother homes. They never had men to teach them how to love and uplift other men, hence they can't do it themselves. They learned to hate men from their mothers, who also hated men.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 08:48 AM
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I seriously doubt he knows how she talks about him behind his back..
/r/EverydayMisandry19/02/25 04:58 AM
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Well I care and I'm a man. Other men do, too. Just seek them out and always advocate for other men and boys yourself. "Strive to be the change you want to see in the world"-Gandhi
/r/MensRights19/02/25 04:13 AM
1

The issue is fourth wave feminism is pure evil and insanity and they don't even care about helping women anymore, but rather just carrying a grudge. One can advocate for women and understand that yes, women do face awful issues, while still being against feminism I think America does an awful job of listening to poor white people and the white working class as a whole, but my half black ass sure as hell is not a white nationalist. Likewise, I support the rights of women, but I am not a feminist
/r/MensRights19/02/25 03:54 AM
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As bad as the US can be, I do believe it is the one place in the English speaking world where men are occasionally heard out, mostly thanks to the efforts of so many male advocates
/r/MensRights19/02/25 03:51 AM
1

Facts
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 07:56 PM
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No. I would never suggest brigading anybody. It was a few weeks ago anyway
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 06:45 AM
1

I disagree with a low effort ban. They don't have such bans in place on the feminist centric subs, so why should we? There are already places like LWMA and such that don't allow for this kind of "small talk" discussion. That is what sets this sub apart.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 05:58 AM
1

Same
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 05:56 AM
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I hope this is fake. If not, it's clearly child abuse. I just hope they aren't the owner operators of a hotel in the middle of nowhere...
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 05:31 AM
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This all day
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 04:34 AM
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Exactly! She ignored the substance of everything and just went right into outright abusive language and when I made it clear that such things are a rather sensitive subject with me, did she show even a shred of basic human decency? No. The opposite. Could you imagine the reaction if a man had dug in like that on a woman CSA survivor...
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 04:05 AM
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Notice this only started after feminism rose? I'm not saying feminism is to blame, but that right there proves it isn't helping. The relationship between Frodo and Sam was called "gay" by many, but the truth is men were close like that back in the day when Tolkien was a youth
/r/MensRights17/02/25 09:33 PM
4

I for one am fine with efforts to encourage more women to enter fields they usually don't consider. I'd only say two issues: 1) the opposite should happen. Men should be encouraged to get into teaching and nursing too and 2) Also push for more women to enter trades and "dirty jobs." I have yet to hear a feminist demoan the lack of women garbage collectors
/r/MensRights17/02/25 09:26 PM
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Absolutely not. I know because I was a victim of CSA at the hands of my mom and my simply saying that "I feel uncomfortable being intimate with women" is called "toxic incel misogyny" by many feminists.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/02/25 09:01 PM
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Exactly If only they would let us start shelters, hotlines and other such help for men. They hinder men's efforts to help one another and then ask why we don't help one another.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/02/25 01:40 AM
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That sub is a garbage fire. They will literally say "look at the misogyny!" and post a video of an attractive woman athlete and say it's so awful that men are commenting about her appearance in the comments section...and right after that they'll go to another sub and leave comments about how the football Taylor Swift is dating is "so hot." The hypocrisy of it all
/r/EverydayMisandry17/02/25 12:07 AM
4

I honestly think a lot of these white knights are just doing it in an attempt to get laid. They act like women's "allies" and like they want to defend them from the "evil men" who are doing so awful things as actually talking about male victims of abuse and bringing up issues like circumcision. But as soon as the women they are "defending" drop their guard, they pounce. Just ask Neil Gaiman's poor nanny about it.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 09:35 PM
3

It's so frustrating. I actually do empathize with women and admit that society doesn't treat them properly often and they do have their issues. But every time I bring up men's issues I get shouted down. The only time it's okay to bring up men's issues is to blame men for it, i.e., the whole "the patriarchy hurts men" crap. Here's something fun to do: talk about abuse in single mother households and watch the mental gymnastics feminist will do to blame "the patriarchy."
/r/MensRights16/02/25 08:37 PM
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That's just the feminist way of victim blaming
/r/MensRights16/02/25 08:34 PM
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I talked to a couple Koreans about it and they said nobody in Korea has ever heard of it and apparently it's a very, VERY small fringe thing, basically their equivalent of femcels or whatever. Most Koreans never even heard of it. In America it will be as successful as that "sex strike" some women pushed after Bush was reelected.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 07:07 PM
15

Mgtow is actually more culturally relevant to the US than 4B is so South Korea.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 07:04 PM
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I just wrote this on another thread like yesterday: Women do flirt with men, and I swear women, when they hit on men, are either A) too damn subtle or B) cringe inducingly gross This one woman at a Buddhist temple I went to would always smile, wink, raise her eyebrows at me, etc, but NEVER once just walked over to me outside after the service and asked me my name and if I wanted to have coffee or something. You just don't act like that IN a place or worship during service. And a woman at my job …
/r/MensRights15/02/25 09:53 PM
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You know, I wouldn't mind this AT ALL if they just showed ONE ad during some "Outlander" type show or a reality show or something, and in the ad they showed a woman pressuring a man into doing something and the announcer said "ladies, you don't like it when it happens to you, so don't do it to others. Girls can also be that guy so be respectful." Then I would forever shut up about ads telling men to curb their "toxic behavior."
/r/MensRights12/02/25 09:24 AM
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Let's put it this way: what if your husband wanted to do stage one FGM on your daughter's genitals? What is that, you ask? Well: In 1997, WHO classified female genital mutilation into four different types. These were subsequently subdivided to capture the subtypes of FGM in more detail. The four major types of FGM, and their subtypes, are: Type I. Partial or total removal of the clitoral glans (the external and visible part of the clitoris, which is a sensitive part of the female genitals, with …
/r/MensRights12/02/25 09:19 AM
1

What is more important to you: your comfort, your dignity, or the opinions of a few fools? If a girl taunts you, tell her to stop. If she touches you, report it and be assertive and if they say "they were just joking around" remember this: other people's bodies and comfort are NOT to be joked around with by anyone and your own comfort is NO JOKE The easiest way to deal with peer pressure is this: be very selective about who you consider to be your peer. Any kids who mock you for handling this is…
/r/MensRights12/02/25 03:54 AM
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Dude, no, DO report it. Being a man means being assertive, while doing so in a reasonable, gentlemanly way. And if you do not want someone touching you and they do then do the assertive thing and report it. Take a picture or ask some friends to record if it happens and show the evidence to the administration. If they don't do anything, talk about the failure to make you feel safe to their superiors. Be a man and do NOT stand for being made to feel uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 06:11 AM
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I honestly think a lot of men who say this do so because they themselves had things happen to themselves and they are trying to rationalize it. One man argued with me that this has no negative impact on boys, and he said he himself had a "fling" (as he called it) with a 30 year old when he was fifteen and he turned out okay. I asked him how his relationship life was and he said " every one of my three marriages were happy " 🤦🏽‍♂️ Never underestimate the power of bullshit, macho thinking and how …
/r/MensRights11/02/25 05:29 AM
2

Oh, I misunderstood, I bad
/r/MensRights10/02/25 10:35 PM
2

Exactly Quick story for context I was SA'd by my Mom as a little kid and it really messed with me. When the whole MeToo thing kicked off, I just saw video after video, headline after headline of how "you men are the problem!" and "you men are predators!" Meanwhile I was a man totally broken still because of what a woman did to me. And how did "the patriarchy" help me, I sure as hell don't know. Then something hit me: I realized that's what it must be like to be a poor white guy, with the media a…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 10:34 PM
0

For every one person spreading awareness, there are two people saying that isn't true and that "men can't get erections during a rape," and the people saying that are almost always feminists and usually male feminists at that.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 10:27 PM
2

I agree 💯, and I NEVER claimed it was only against men. I'm just saying that people generally don't look at a woman getting wet the same way they do a man getting an erection. But I have heard countless women say men can't get raped because they can't get an erection if they don't want it. The physics of a dry vagina being forcefully penetrated work, but not of a limp penis. Hence, it seems to be more difficult for people to believe that a man can be raped.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 10:22 PM
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What they mean is that people tend not to believe that it was forced because of it.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 10:18 PM
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OP, thank you for the added trigger warning to that because they actually have sound from the video and survivors of CSA can be triggered by that. I clicked that shit yesterday and it fucked with me. That being said...holy fucking shit. So many levels of wrong. Why oh why is it always okay to look at and shame naked males? Like that dumb Thor movie, or how it's always depicted as just a "prank" or an "embarrassing, funny moment." But with women it's CORRECTLY understood to be a gross invasion of…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 08:28 AM
1

Okay, I see what you mean and I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/25 12:11 AM
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No, the issue isn't gendered at all but another issue entirely that affects men, women and non binary folks: Lousy auto correct I fixed it to say "the lie that an erection is never involuntary." I have no idea why it deleted random words I just typed.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 11:28 PM
1

I dislike majority of "Red Pill" types, but I'm not going to hold most of them in the same category as the KKK. Rather, we should just make it clear that we aren't them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/25 11:27 PM
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I'm saying that if just about every study shows that more men then women commit sexual violence, maybe that is indeed the case? Again, I admit A LOT more women do this shit than people want to admit, and they get away with it a lot more than men, but still, I haven't seen any evidence that men and women do this at equal rates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/25 11:17 PM
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It should be considered sexual assault and/or groping, but not necessarily rape, same as if a man grabs a woman's breasts or touches her vulva without insertion. If a woman forces a man's penis inside of her then yes, that is rape. Unfortunately too many in the criminal justice system believe the old lie that an erection is never involuntary
/r/MensRights09/02/25 11:11 PM
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By actually running left of center candidates who can make it about the one distinction that can cut across the lines of identity politics: class. If they actually cared about working Americans and spoke to them as workers and nothing else, they would win back men and keep women and keep minorities because all these groups are working class folks. There is a reason Bernie Sanders won so many young men to his cause.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 08:05 AM
1

My issue with studies is when they look at criminal convictions and such and not surveys of victims, because we all know how awful the courts are to male victims and such. But these are surveys of survivors, which I feel are a lot more accurate. The most likely answer is that men just commit more sexual violence then women. Does this mean we don't have a big problem with the under reporting of women offenders? No. Does this mean women generally aren't treated with the same heavy hand that men ar…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/25 07:50 AM
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And if anything bad happens to a man, no matter who does it, even if it's done by his own mother, he is a "male victim of the patriarchy". It just makes no sense
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/25 07:37 AM
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The reason so many people talk about women doing this is because society needs to understand that women do this too so that all kids can be kept safe. But yes, men do more of this stuff and boys do get victimized by men, and also girls get victimized by women.
/r/MensRights05/02/25 05:08 AM
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I don't think that's the case. More men do so, but women are more likely to get away with it Society should recognize more women offenders and realize how big an issue this is, I agree, but at the same time we should be fair.
/r/MensRights05/02/25 05:05 AM
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"While experts agree the majority of paedophiles are men, Dr Sullivan says women are responsible for more offences than previously thought. "What I can say for certain is that it's way more prevalent than people fully appreciate or understand," he told the ABC. "There's some research to suggest it could be as high as 25 per cent. "However, when you look at the representation within the criminal justice system it could be as low as 3 to 4 per cent of overall convictions." Source: https://www.abc.…
/r/MensRights05/02/25 05:03 AM
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You need a new therapist.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 10:17 PM
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No, she is not hot. The moment I realized what she did, she lost any ability to be hot to me.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 03:49 AM
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I have to be honest here: not every culture is the same. Yes, in many parts of India, this is a problem, along with a general lack of law and order. This is particularly a problem for lower caste people in rural areas. The men get robbed and beaten and the women get robbed and beaten and raped. Nobody cares when things happen to poor dalits. In some cities, like Delhi, things are insane and unsafe for anybody. I know one woman who had a man grab at her from a tuktuk that sped away after he pulle…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 08:36 PM
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So: "American women are abusive drunks who can't control themselves and are immature and I'd rather have a foreign wife as a result" Response: "You are sexist! All women aren't like that!" (ignoring the "AMERICAN" women qualifier, as always) But "Only some men commit crimes and it's wrong to blame all men." Response: "Waaaaw! You can't say 'not all men' " 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:56 AM
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I'd bet everything I own that feminists in Congress and regulatory bodies will try to ban it
/r/MensRights02/06/24 07:06 PM
13

I was molested by my Mom when I was like nine till eleven years old. I had a total of one relationships with a woman in my life and it ended when I had a panic attack during sex. She pushed me down a flight of steps when I tried to talk to her about it and told me to never speak to her again and called me a "pervert." Society says her behavior was "empowering".
/r/MensRights15/04/24 02:52 PM
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Basically, if a man doesn't want to have a woman, he's a misogynist. If a man wants a woman but can't get one, he's an incel misogynist. If he has a girlfriend or a wife, he's a misogynist who is guilty of rape because, as feminist high priestess Andrea Dworkin said, "heterosexual sex is always rape." Oh, and also I've heard feminists argue that gay men are misogynistic because they only have men in their bedrooms 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/MensRights31/03/24 01:27 AM
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Because it does not fit into their narrow definition of what it means to be a man.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 06:35 AM
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I'd say it's all neutral, but it really depends. Most religions are pro-male, or at least not anti-male. I'm a Buddhist and all the "Buddhists feminists" I've ever met were nowhere near as bad as the secular feminists. Our feminists just want women to be able to ordain as nuns and whatnot, they don't want the Duluth model or any such nonsense. Atheism is associated mostly with man-haters and the far-left.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 03:24 AM
1

Posting pics of someone online without consent is never okay. It doesn't matter how bad the relationship got or how awful the person was, what is private should remain private. That being said, I always thought "revenge porn" should refer to movies or tv shows that are about revenge, like "Death Wish" or "The Crow" or something.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 02:23 AM
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Gentleman, word to the wise: never have anything to do with a woman who says "she needs a man who can handle her." That means she's verbally, emotionally, and possibly physically abusive and will refuse to change.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 07:35 PM
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I got one: One has to write their name in the snow, and all they have to write with is a full bladder. That's one situation where being a woman can be a big disadvantage.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 08:07 PM
2

What if the city is Singapore?
/r/MensRights29/05/23 08:06 PM
33

He should have said "it would have caused long-term damage, but at the moment it was happening it would have been pleasurable." That would be more accurate
/r/MensRights27/05/23 06:29 PM
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And when I was sixteen, I would have loved for a teacher to give me ecstasy or acid. So if a teacher was arrested for giving drugs to a kid, would that be okay?
/r/MensRights27/05/23 04:35 PM
1

Post her info on an "are we dating the same girl" FB group in your area. What's good for the goose...
/r/MensRights10/05/23 07:06 PM
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Countless times throughout history women rulers have sent men to fight and die and idiotic wars. Never have any male rulers sent women to die in wars. The only answer feminists have for this is to say "those women were in a Patriarchal society." Well, several of them were absolute monarchs, like Ulga of Russia. They were dictators. If a woman is the dictator of a country then that is, by definition, not a patriarchy but a matriarchy. Those women could have easily said that women should be sent t…
/r/MensRights07/04/23 01:36 AM
1

The reason women "attempt" suicide more often is because women are a lot more likely to have histrionic personality disorder then men: https://www.mountsinai.org/health-library/diseases-conditions/histrionic-personality-disorder#:~:text=It%20is%20diagnosed%20more%20often,late%20teens%20or%20early%2020s. And people with histrionic personality disorder often have many dramatic suicide "attempts" in their lifetimes https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/european-psychiatry/article/abs/personality-…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 08:54 PM
2

When I get married, I will ask before we even officially wed. I will ask for a prenup and a paternity test. In exchange, I will suggest she keep a private checking account and I'll give her a few thousand dollars to keep in it. That way, if she ever suspects me of cheating, she can use that account and that money to secretly hire a private investigator to look into it. If she doesn't agree, then I'm not marrying her. Those who have nothing to hide hide nothing
/r/MensRights20/03/23 04:59 PM
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There are groups like this for men. Check this out https://www.glamour.com/story/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-facebook-group "Deanna’s comments touch on a common debate: Would Are We Dating the Same Guy be considered appropriate if the sexes were reversed? Interestingly enough, this thought exercise was put to the test when a male-centric group called Are We Dating the Same Girl NYC materialized. The Facebook group used the same community guidelines nearly verbatim, and even added a disclaimer tha…
/r/MensRights15/03/23 07:43 PM
1

I'm not talking about the "men's rights movement," which could be a lot of things to a lot of people. I don't agree with a lot of what is on this subreddit, either. I'm just saying that modern, fourth wave feminism is, for the most part, bullocks. If you think saying the cause of anything bad that happens to a person within the context of sex is the result of "the Patriarchy," then you also have an issue with fourth wave feminism.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 05:58 AM
1

"Again. Families are not what defines society" How many members of society did not start off as children within a family? "And also you are gonna ignore absolutely all my points about patriarchy with emotional words against the mother?" Because "the patriarchy" is a conspiracy theory, like the lizard people or Qanon. And it isn't against "the mother" but simply stating the facts: majority of humans in the modern world began life within a matriarchal household.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 09:23 PM
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Notice what I said, modern feminism There is a difference between books like "The feminine mystique" and "I Hate Men."
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:43 PM
1

"even if there is abuse from your mother, your mother still lives on a societal patriarchy that has nothing to do with such evil behavior." That makes no sense. Again, society is not patriarchal. Society just kinda is. "Thats not matriarchy because society its not the hierarchy of your family." Again, in modern day, about a quarter of households are headed by a single mother, 8% are single father, and the rest are mother and father. That means, on the family level, matriarchy is the norm. When t…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 07:43 PM
1

It sounds to me like you're realizing modern feminism isn't about equality at all but is merely about hating men.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 07:38 PM
2

Well Said!
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:03 PM
3

Karma got her. She died after years alone and in pain and poverty.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:02 PM
3

Again, how is abuse by a single mother in a single mother household "patriarchy"?
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:01 PM
1

Actually, when I turned eleven, I went to live with my father. He was far, FAR from perfect, but he at least tried.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:00 PM
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"I am pretty sure they account for more custody than men. Can you count?" Yes, and that's thanks to the feminists you claim will change things for the better. "The question would be their intent though. I see what I believe to be real feminists making decisions and pushing arguments that would or do hurt women all the time. They really can't see two moves ahead." Yep. There's the inevitable No True Scotsman Fallacy. Oh, sorry, I should say the No True Scotsperson fallacy. Even though plenty of "…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 07:07 AM
1

"The Hell? Have you no concept of numbers? Have you no concept of non-feminine women? Have no concept of traitors and sell outs?" Okay, so let me get this straight: men are evil, and they invented this system in which a very few men on the top oppress everyone because they want men to rule, but only men like them. Those few men are the reason life can suck for a man, in very unique ways. And to stop them, women need to come into power. And not just any women, no. Most women are just as bad as th…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 06:55 AM
1

Betsy Devos, Melinda Gates, Janet Yellen, Kathleen Kennedy, Jane Frasier, Marry T Barra... "But the point is not their gender, but who they represent." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So how the heck is it a patriarchy if it isn't even men?! That's almost as absurd as the time some Leftist called me a "Nazi" to my African-American face because I voted for Andrew Yang.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 05:45 AM
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"Your mother's abuse damaged your masculinity. That's inconvenient for people who want it to be a bad thing. Don't be ashamed to reclaim it." Exactly. Masculinity is not a bad thing and I do strive to be a man in every sense of the word.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 05:37 AM
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"Because they will not lift a finger to fix it and in fact they are all for destruction of the nuclear family." 😂 🤣🤣🤣 💀⚰️🥀 You are avoiding the issue: who is to blame? Single mother homes have more child abuse than any other kind of living arrangement for kids. So, who is responsible, some imaginary white man pressing button that rule the world, or the women doing the abuse? Also, if you think feminists in power would change things, you have got to be smoking the good stuff. They'd do the opposi…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 05:06 AM
5

Okay, again: More and more women get into power, and yet things don't get better for men. In fact, they get worse. Also, the people advocating for feminism are NOT talking about helping men. The opposite is true. "But that is not a threat to the REAL patriarchy of mega rich old men." For the kids being abused by single moms, it doesn't matter who the president is, what gender dominates Congress, or how much wealth is controlled by whom. And there are millions of them. How the fuck is patriarchy …
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:56 AM
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Good, thoughtful reply. But there is one issue you are missing, and so are the feminists: in an age where more and more households are single mothers households, who actually has more power? Political and economic power are always talked about, but power within families gets ignored. I think the reason is because feminists know this is a loss, so why bring it up? Single mothers are essentially above suspicion and are seen as martyrs by society. Women hold absolute power over millions of lives, a…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:33 AM
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"A lot of this rides on how you define "Patriarchy". If you define it as "Most or all men have political and social power over and above women" then you will see a lot of outcomes that make no sense. But if you define it as "A minority of rich and powerful men in government and industry lording over EVERYONE else." then suddenly male homelessness, the draft, no funding for men's health, etc. starts making more sense." So basically, it's the Marxist concept of the bourgeoisie, but just adjusted t…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:27 AM
3

Sad to hear you what you went through. Keep in mind it wasn't your fault. People can be manipulative and awful. Just take your time, enjoy being single, and maybe see a therapist. Never forget that you're worth more than a crappy relationship and that you deserve better.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:15 AM
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Forgiveness isn't necessarily reconciliation. One can forgive silently and just let go of the BS and try to heal.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:57 AM
3

Thanks for the reply!
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:51 AM
5

Exactly. Patriarchy is for the far-left what "the lizard people pedophile conspiracy" is to Qanon
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:50 AM
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I don't understand what you're trying to say
/r/MensRights13/02/23 10:22 PM
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