either we return to nature and abandon the idea of marriage and supporting a wife and kids. have them fend for themselves, living with their fathers family. or we go back to when the men worked and supported the women financially. it is up to women ultimately what they choose; marital fidelity to one person, and housework/child rearing in exchange for not having to have an actual job. or not have marriage at all and have no responsibilities for fathers. they cant have their cake and eat it too
