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Dont listen to this chick. In the context you mentioned, I wouldnt say its flirting but if its a date or similar context I definitely would. Ive done it a few times to varying success. I use any excuse to touch a girls hand, a ring, a tattoo, a birthmark, nails, etc. This is with the understanding that we've been flirting and seeing that she's reciprocating in some way. I never start out with that, its only once I see we are vibing. Its a sort of test to see how comfortable she is with me touchi…
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:16 AM
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I dont like dinner dates, barely leaves room for anything physical, even if you sit side to side. Hard to say without being there but 3 hours in is also too long, probably cuz of dinner but by then ive already been touching her a few times. Grabbing / holding her hand, checking out her earning, talking about her eyes, moving her hair etc. Any combination of those normally happen if we are vibing.
/r/seduction26/01/26 05:46 PM
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Thats fair but its not his dirty fridge thats making strike out. Probably just taking too long to escalate. Making it seem a little too casual/ friendly.
/r/seduction19/12/25 07:31 AM
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Lets ignore your current girl "friends." That boat has sailed, focus on any new interactions. Like anything else in life, too much of anything can be bad. Seems like thats the case with your silliness / goofiness. You gotta learn to balance it with some seriousness to be taken seriously. Use that silly side to creating an opening / opportunity to talk to a girl but then let her know by flirting or whatever that you have some sexual interest her. Once thats communicated, you can continue being si…
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:37 PM
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Absolutely. The other way around would be better. A variation of can you check out my form? It's mainly to open up a conversation and see the vibe, not to actually learn or teach.
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:02 PM
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I'll double down. People (women and men) are attracted to fun. Your goal should be to enjoy yourself and a possible outcome of that is you'd get laid. Going out to get laid is a very unrealistic reality, even to the best of dudes. If you set that standard for yourself you're gonna be very disappointed. Talk to people (again women and men) and try to find a group. That makes things better for having fun and for increasing your odds of finding someone
/r/seduction21/07/24 11:16 PM
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I don't think it's hypocritical. Having sex is night and day for most men and women.
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:48 PM
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Alright let's assume you're a 9 but are you dancer? If dude has some moves that easily adds some charm to any person even if they're attractive. Either way simply being an attractive dude isn't enough, you gotta have more but it definitely makes it easier. The uglier you are the more work you gotta put it.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:52 PM
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Relax. We all have insecurities, some bigger than others.
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:38 AM
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If what you're saying is true then you're doing is pretty good and easily above average in terms of what girls do. That said, if I had to guess it seems there's a disconnect in the goals of both parties. Seems like when you like a guy, you're looking for a relationship while the dude might just want to have sex. Learn to be clear and say what your intentions are. Some guys will lie, sure , but you'll weed out most.
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:03 PM
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I disagree. Sure, less men simp. I think that's a fact but I'd say maybe 5%, maybe 10% less. Most people (women included) are average, I don't mean just average looking, but overall. There wouldn't be so many girls doing twitch or OF if dudes weren't simping.
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:54 AM
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Looks is important but isn't the most important metric. Being average on other things is what hinders most guys. Personality, charm / swag, money, etc.
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:22 PM
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I have and probably will but overall I don't. Without context, I'll most likely say no. And for the most part they might be butter hurt for a day or two but will respect you in the long run.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:09 PM
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Date ? Probably not. I'd mess around with her, sure. Honestly depends on your intentions, if you're looking for a girlfriend / wife, nah. If you're just gonna be casual, then it's like whatever
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:36 PM
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That's fair and nothing wrong with that but likewise there are people on the opposite spectrum. How you look at them they look at you. Simply look for what you're looking for. Make your intentions known and that'll filter what you want or not
/r/seduction25/04/24 05:54 PM
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I agree men need to improve their profile game but to say women get it right is a joke lol. We don't need all these boxes checked to like a girl.
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:42 PM
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You're blessed man. You're 6'2, it's a nice physical advantage most guys don't have. I can't go to the gym and get taller. That said, start with the two things you mentioned. Your mindset and eye contact. One is easier than the other so start with eye contact. For both of these I'd suggest just doing it all the time. When talking to people men or women, look at their eyes. It might feel weird at first but it's something you should be doing anyways. We tend to look at what we're interested in / f…
/r/seduction20/04/24 12:08 PM
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That is in itself frame.
/r/seduction18/04/24 05:25 PM
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To an extent. You gotta read the room, that skill is essential with life and with women. If she's looks uncomfortable already then definitely don't. Yes be respectful, that is true above all. You're either young or naive but as with anything else, practicing social interactions with men and women will help.
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:33 PM
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Shut up. Your words are true yet wrong. No women likes a guy who asks for permission. Don't be an asshole or aggressive and pushy and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction14/04/24 03:01 PM
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I agree that he is expecting too much but there's always time. If someone wants to talk to you, they'll make sure they do.
/r/seduction23/05/20 04:39 AM
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If you dont know yourself then yeah, you gotta find yourself. Find what you like and do that, others with a similar mindset will gravitate towards, Male and female
/r/seduction20/05/20 04:57 PM
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following the advice on this sub would destroy a ltr. Following the bad advice, plently of good here, its not the sub for LTR but used more for hooking up. I've read plenty of great posts about working on yourself, respect people (male and female), honesty and of course game.
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:28 AM
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harder for me to get into those situations again, at my age women expect me to initiate more and be aggressive with my sexuality and tbh I just dont know how to do that. If you are with a girl and see likes you, you should tell her that you don't know. Some will appreciate the honestly, either way its a win. If they don't mind then you can continue but if she's not about then you'd lose someone who you wouldn't be able to match with.
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:24 AM
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Its not tough, if you go outside, people will be there. Trails, parks, beaches, random spots. The only question is if the girl is down. Also as other have said, your house or their house. Either of you make some food, the either brings drinks. Or watch a movie/ Netflix
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:15 AM
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You underestimate how horny people are. Also younger crowds don't give a shit, they ain't got much to lose.
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:11 AM
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If they're using it as a way to not go out and talk to people then that's a different issue but to say its ineffective or useless would be silly.
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:07 AM
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Im not saying this should replace inner game. Im saying theres a place for both. ACTUALLY, you are. Look at your title.
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:06 AM
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A big part of it is also that if you are being genuine and a girl doesn't like you, that's a good thing for you. It means you guys aren't very compatible and that's fine, you want a girl who loves the stupid/ silly shit you do. Same applies to "regular " people not just girls.
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:02 AM
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I just said the same thing in an r/askmen post. "Just be yourself," is such crappy advice that stunts so many people's growth. What does it even mean? Who is "yourself," is it some exact set in stone set of traits you are born with? You can change and improve yourself at any time. You're only as much as you think you are. Its definitely not BS. The problem is people are just too unsure of themselves. They don't need dating tips, some need to figure what they actually like vs what other people li…
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:00 AM
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It's great if you find people who want to talk to you. And I agree that no one is as scary as they seem, we're all just people. But don't assume someone wants to talk just because they are a woman and they are alone. My time is valuable too. But how would we know if we don't ask? Its a wierd dynamic. How does one put blame on someone for going after what they like or want?
/r/seduction20/05/20 07:57 AM
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Take some responsibility, you were in a shit position and found the wrong answers.
/r/seduction19/05/20 01:23 PM
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Why is it so hard for guys to internalize this? It feels like no matter how times I try to tell myself this I still feel like less of a man for not getting laid on a regular basis Its nothing to with guys, it's a people thing. Lack of self confidence is a big thing and is something you have to work for so by default it stops certain types of people.
/r/seduction13/05/20 01:42 PM
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i do all of this (in good shape, go to gym, good hygiene, good fashion) except i don't talk to people enough i guess. i am a 3/10 after maximizing my looks. That's good man but I do gotta say theres one thing being realistic and saying you're a 3/10 and an other just putting yourself down. Looks do matter but not as much as you think. As long as you're a good person who can communicate their thoughts, ideas, wants, ambitions, hobbies, etc can go a long way especially on how you show this. Just t…
/r/seduction02/08/18 07:58 PM
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Start with the basics, dude. For now work on yourself and forget girls, they will fall in line with the rest of your life once you're in check. Work out, take care of hygiene, get new clothes(even if you dont care about fashion, it's important, if you look good you feel good), and start talking to people. At this level talking to anyone and everyone helps, no expectations.
/r/seduction02/08/18 07:06 PM
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Cute girl at work: "Hey Happy Birthday" Me: "you too" Aaah, I see you approach. Enjoy your birthday together, nice.
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:39 PM
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yeah but shes an employee. its her job to reply to you. doesnt mean she likes you True but for a "rookie " this interaction will warm him up and getting feeling good. I don't recommend but it does help.
/r/seduction16/10/17 05:37 PM
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"Everybody like a compliment." - Abraham Lincoln As long as it's genuine. Don't give compliments if you don't mean them or are just trying to get someone to like you. You can smell the bullshit from a mile away .
/r/seduction22/08/17 11:01 PM
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You might not know this but a lot of people drink before they have sex. A lot of people smoke pot before they have sex. This doesn't equal rape. He really like likes this chick, he wants it to be somewhat special I guess. He's not trying to fuck while drunk, that's not that point.
/r/seduction26/07/17 05:50 PM
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i would have just said "No girl wants to get fucked by something that they already have, you cunt". True! I gotta remember this, it sounds so what familiar. I read it in like a Bill Burr accent.
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:47 PM
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Annnnd, now we know why you can dance with 10+ girls and not get anywhere. I might be wrong but it looks like you over think the situation, if she dances with you then most likely she digs , make a move or someone else will. Also you seem kinda aggressive , I get a cunty vibe from you.
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:15 PM
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How do you always find a way of including the most shy, awkward, party-extinguisher into a real conversation? What goes through your mind? You simply ask them, if there's a conversation, you ask for their opinion. At least that's how I try to involve people, if we're alone I'll just ask them about stuff that they're interested to get em talking and feel a little more comfortable.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:22 AM
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tbh mostly making music - not really a social activity tho..... Dude that is fucking awesome. I assume you work too right? I think you're putting too much though into your physical appearance. Okay so you don't like how you look, you gotta realize there's not much you can do to change that. Hopefully you're keeping atleast decent hygiene, like washing your face, brushing your teeth, maybe some cologne if you're about that, nice clean clothes.
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:09 PM
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so my face is a problem too then? Sure, if that will make you feel better. What are your hobbies? How do you spend your time?
/r/seduction16/06/17 06:46 PM
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Strangers smiling at you or you smiling at them is a concept that sort of baffles me... It's kinda weird I guess, but if i see a girl I like, I get happy. Happy because she looks good/ has a good presence and also cuz I wanna try to get at her. Whatever attracts you should make you smile even if it's a little bit, just me I guess.
/r/seduction16/06/17 05:52 PM
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ive read models like three times hasn't made me feel better cuz I'm unable to put initiating into PRACTICE I don't know you but based on this post and your responses , it's not just your face my man, it's also your attitude.
/r/seduction16/06/17 05:44 PM
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There are attractive women over 30 with kids who are just looking for a guy to hook up with as well. For the most part it's a good thing that they have kids. (If you're just trying to bang) Most, not all, are usually horny as hell, and busy with their kids. Although OP said he has issues with kids altogether.
/r/seduction24/05/17 06:05 PM
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How about we agree that it's not as important what you say compared to how you say it??
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:44 PM
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no I highly doubt that. You can lie to us but not yourself. If you're not "scared" talking to random people/ strangers, then talking to women is the next logical step. When others mentioned "find yourself" they are referring to understanding yourself and your emotions. You have to realize that everyone is human, we all go through shit and we are all self conscious about certain things. Until you are able to understand things like that, women specifically, people are gonna be intimidating. At one…
/r/seduction25/04/17 05:59 PM
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You are just talking to the wrong people! There are people out there looking for the same thing, find those people. Not everyone's definition of fun or a good time is the same, you just told me your social entertainment comes from intellectual conversation. I do understand that you asked how to make people more comfortable around you so all I can add is don't try to please or try entertain whoever you are with, just focus on enjoy yourself someone will be attracted to that.
/r/seduction25/04/17 05:50 PM
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Seems like you're on the right path, keep it up
/r/seduction10/04/17 07:43 PM
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Put it this way, she's probably tripping out even more than you are, and you're the man.
/r/seduction28/01/17 04:04 AM
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How do you keep yourself busy? I'd recommend a hobby but I'm not sure what you like. It might be kinda hard but try to think about some but you could set goals for yourself, like maybe start working out, shit I'd even recommend a game to take your mind of things. I'd also say get a job even though you're 16, work 10-20 hours. Having a job gives you a great deal of self worth.
/r/seduction28/01/17 04:02 AM
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Dude that's awesome. I'd simply suggest keep a side job so you have some sort of reliable income. Live your life and follow what you just told me. Plan it out a bit and make it your goal. Fuck working for someone else, it's easier to work yourself. That being said, the music industry is challenging and huge. Best of luck, work on your career and woman will literally fall into place.
/r/seduction14/12/15 04:25 PM
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What's your hobby? It seems you've already made up your mind.
/r/seduction14/12/15 01:59 PM
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I guess some of us don't have a clue of what a "man" should be. Confidence definitely comes side by side with those traits.
/r/seduction14/12/15 01:56 PM
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Congrats man, continue this self improvement. You will only get better and better. In no time, you'll be posting all the numbers you're getting. Have fun :)
/r/seduction04/06/15 09:45 PM
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An overall great read for improving your public relations is "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.
/r/seduction17/05/15 02:01 AM
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Also, the machine balances out the weight for you as opposed to doing it yourself. Same applies to the other machines.
/r/seduction15/05/15 09:16 PM
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He is an asshole tho haha.
/r/seduction04/05/15 12:23 AM
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Who likes normal?
/r/seduction02/05/15 01:09 AM
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