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Your tl;dr literally proves my point. If you need permission to open a bank account you are not a full financial being with agency. This is encompassed in the sentence "women could open their own bank accounts" a single, unattached women could not open an account of her own free will which an single unattached male could. hence, women could not open their own bank accounts. If you need MALE PERMISSION to open a bank account, you cannot open you own bank account as usual misogynists prove the poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:23 AM
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You haven't shared any sources, you've just speculated. Should my burden of proof be higher than yours? Yeah I go on tiktok to know/learn things like recipes, interior design, fashion and styling etc. Its just a social media platform. There are divorce and estate lawyers on tiktok giving and sharing advice or interesting cases. There are online communities and groups for people going through divorce. Its not that stranger. LawyerTok isnt too different from r/askalawyer. Yes, there are some liars…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:28 PM
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I know this because I listen to divorced women on TikTok and women currently trapped in marriages with men who refuse to divorce them. People talk about their experiences firsthand, which can supplement statistical research and help explain some of the things we're observing. I'm not using the same logic as you. People cited reasons above why lesbians might divorce at these rates but it looks like you've chosen to ignore them and promote a reason that massages your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:15 PM
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Have you heard the phrase "correlation does not equal causation" before? Truly wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:39 PM
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this part ^
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:13 AM
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Most men are too lazy to divorce lol their wife being unhappy is typically not enough reason for a man to divorce her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:11 AM
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whatever you say "sweety" "I'm so healed and evolved that's why I dont act like you bitter women" okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:30 PM
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I'm sure women only seem "cynical and bitter" to him because he cant relate to our struggles if men typed the same thing he'd think they'd be righteous in his anger and understandably pissed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:11 PM
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If theyre low quality and not intentional who cares? When's the last time you craved a shit sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:05 AM
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When applying for jobs, do you not read most job descriptions because your likelihood of "matching" or being chosen by any single employer is low? Dating app bios are shorter than that and have pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:55 AM
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😭😭😭 I'm sorry you posting this is genuinely so funny I have nothing of substance to add. its so candid, I love it feels like late night sleepover convo on girls night 🌙
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:55 AM
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That's comical from someone who wont even Google sources and legislation. I dont humiliate men for free so I guess we're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:01 AM
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I just cited the year the relevant legislation could be found. Now it's your turn to engage with the legislation and decide if it's relevant to my argument or not. Or perhaps cite some legislation that backs up your point-- are you even making a point here? Are you not capable of Googling? I'm not sure how much more additional work I could do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:07 PM
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Right but its not like men handle the pressure better inherently because thet are male, they just handle it differently. Sometimes that looks like drinking excessively, gambling, OF addiction, being on video games 24/7 when not at wkrk, road rage, taking it out on their family or loved ones by being emotionally or physically abusive, etc Also your boss yelling at you or your workplace being toxic can affect men and women differently. A male boss is shouting at a man or a woman may feel different…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:21 PM
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If you couldn't be bothered to read the first 2 sentences I cant help you. If you dont believe a source by an internationally accredited banking institution, that is your decision. No idea who MLloyd is, but you should tell him that the link to his CV is broken. Kind of hard to validate who the hell he is without it. See how I read the source you linked? You should try it. If there was no issue, why do you believe the Equal Credit opportunity Act was passed? Why do you think its cited as being i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:04 PM
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Women in Wealth Throughout U.S. History | Chase https://share.google/XakVwa4sqabDkSknY
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:43 PM
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Which one of us doesn't know the rights again? I cited the rights above. You're the one who refuses to help yourself and Google your own question. I am not your free source of research labor. There are websites like that. You consider pointing out that there are free research tools as your disposal "getting bent"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:39 PM
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Did you mean to type this into Google or r/askalawyer? There is landmark legislation on these things if you are truly curious. Google and Wikipedia are free. The years are above for your reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:31 PM
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But when did women get equal access to all stuff? You should check out the years. It makes it easier to understand why politicians are looking to roll back women's rights. THEY'RE STILL BRAND FUCKING NEW Women couldn't have their own BANK ACCOUNTS until 1974. MARITAL RAPE wasn't made illegal nationwide in the US until 1993. You should really start Googling when women were allowed to enter the workforce, go to school, get "the same" income as men, etc. You may be surprised. We expect men to not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:40 PM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:03 AM
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OP is asking a leading question: It makes the reader assume the premise that people care by asking "why do you judge" imo it's still important to point out that some people dont. The premise of the question is flawed. If people who didn't care never spoke up, OP might have a more warped ideal about what percentage of people answering actually care/agree with him premise a more neutral question might be "are x and y comparable. they seem like the same thing bc a, b, c, plz debate." longwinded exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:23 PM
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Liberals dont want to raise a new generation of people when they themselves arent being treated well Who wants to raise kids when there is minimal parental leave, no protection for kids in schools from maniacs with guns, and a society that allows children to carry school lunch debt? People are voting against free meals for children in schools and funneling that money towards police and military. Military recruiters are popping up in middle schools-- who wants their child to die for some damn oil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:31 PM
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There are. They want whatever protections, benefits, or normalcies that were promised only an unflinching, stoic man could deliver or whatever they were told a real man is This is why women are threatened over men "acting feminine", trans women existing, little boys liking princesses, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:28 PM
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I'm about to read the first one again, I miss the universe so much. The books made me appreciate the movies more as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:24 PM
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Yeah I'm referencing your example of a friend sleeping with a rich/hot guy once. I think many women do have friends who do that or have done that themselves. And yeah guy fucking a hot guy in Egypt is a flex if hes beautiful are you kidding me? We're not trying to marry them, just get a taste lol If your friend went to Croatia and fucked a beautiful girl there for a week would they not be over the moon??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:21 PM
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Did you mean to reply to my comment or the guy above me? I think the 2-10 situation is the same as sugar baby situations. just mutually beneficial transactional relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:17 PM
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Lots of people go to China and Korea to teach English so plenty of women go there solo on teaching contracts Conservatives outbreak other groups bevause theyre Christian fundamentalists and believe in Quiverfull theory. They believe its their job to overwhelm and overpopulate change public opinion and politics. A few visible figures are also pedos who want access to children and child brides without disturbance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:13 PM
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Anyone who is outside the prescribed beauty norm endures this. Fat, black, brown, ugly, short, whatever. Its meant to be an exclusionary thing thats a blow to our self esteem. There are more of us than them since their standards is really unachievable for most and intentionally so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:08 PM
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I'm not sure I understand this comment I'm just asking about the levels since you seem to think its an injustice or improper for 2s to tip the scales with money and good treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:04 PM
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You're correct and men getting the same treatment overseas. But youre not correct about the Chad Stacy thing. I didnt start getting chased by Chads in the 6/6/6 with 6 pack range until I reached 200 lbs weirdly and not when I was skinnier. But I also weightlift and am in lots of majority male spaces so it night be a coincidence? Met most on dating apps though, its not hard when you live in a big city. This Chad Stacy bs always sounds like small town HS bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:58 PM
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Yeah youre conflating banging hot men with marrying hot men. And then conflating marrying rich men. But maybe its because OP is talking about women having access to the top 2% of men so we might just be talking past one another. I'm just saying that women can pull a lot of different types of men, especially if they go somewhere where theyre deemed exotic. And most women know that they can kind of gain access to any space they'd like if they just tried hard enough. Look at Lauren Sanchez-- plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:53 PM
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Do they actually mean a "loyal" woman or do they mean a submissive and subservient woman? And what would a woman like that even ask them to change or challenge them on I wonder... Why do wives nag? If chores are done and equally distributed, if both parents are equally active and involved in their childrens lives, what is there to nag about? If both people are adults managing their personal and professional lives where does nagging come in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:51 PM
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I feel like this kind of gets to the root of it. Women dont want to change for men who they feel dont see them as equal even though they make equal income and have the same education or higher. Many vocal men seem to want women as submissive and docile bang maids capable of bearing lots of kids they wont parent while also keeping their bodies from age 16. And men dont want to change for women. I dont think they want to treat women as equals or do the emotional work to have deeper relationships w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:42 PM
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What was the rest of his plan? Just a placeholder gf to soothe his ego til he finds something better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:35 PM
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I think youre underestimating the range of men that the average woman can pull, especially if you travel abroad and are deemed "exotic" in a country. Even your average Becky can be seen as a little exotic in India, China, Korea, Turkey, Egypt, and pull higher numbers than back home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:34 PM
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So you believe that 2s should only have access to 2s? 10s to 10s, etc? Is this like assigned wife theory but without the forced assignment? Essentially you believe everyone would be paired happily at their own level if someone at their "own level" was available?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:30 PM
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I wish more people would just accept realities like this. "If thats someones dating priority while they claim to be searching for a romantic/life partner then I'm entirely not compatible with them" and move on. let people be shallow. let people want to be spoiled. whatever. its fine to not be compatible with what other people want in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:27 PM
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Most do so silently but many of the vocal women are on tiktok is ironic? Notice that you failed to engage with any of my other points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:24 AM
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Why is going -cel anything the only option in your mind? Women form community and strengthen bonds. They fill their time going back to school, strengthening friendships, exploring new hobbies, traveling, etc. Most dont stew in hate. Most women who abstain from dating men do so silently. Tiktok is full of women who claim to do this. You'd find these easily if you simply looked. 4B movement is a thing in Korea which you'd also know if you bothered to research. As cited by potsmoking_princess below…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:42 PM
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Tea App started in response to mens online dating behaviors and interactions from dating men. Its also not a hate group and isn't meant to enable or cause harm. Only expose truth. People who are not afraid of their behaviors being outted do not care about being on these apps. But men are using private apps and chat rooms to enable harm and exploit others, see Gisèle Pelicot in France who's husband arranged her repeated mass/group rapes via chatroom on the Coco forum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:35 PM
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Because women are expected to birth children for men and need the legal protections for themselves and their children
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:36 PM
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What? "Hot felon" is a nickname for that guy. Google it and see what I mean. I never claimed that was the headline. I said "Hot Felon" went viral because he did. I'm asking where you remember witnessing the example youre referencing. Youre saying you have a "gotcha" and I'm wondering if you recall where you got it from
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:44 PM
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where is this "gotcha"? are you citing like a buzz feed article or something? You also dont know how many women matched vs how many women reported the profile. hot felon went viral so the profile might have gotten attention for a myriad of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:42 PM
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why do you hear "all men" when I say "men who struggle with" or "men who are incapable/unable to" or "incels"? I think its disingenuous to say that youre lonely and want connection but you wont even put in the effort to connect or relate to other men or build your support networks and community. being horny is not the same as chosen isolation and blaming women for it. I'd argue that incels dehumanize themselves. they want to forfeit and remove themselves from contracts of humanity and community …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:43 PM
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What is dehumanizing about my statements? Pointing out that loners who struggle to relate to and put active effort into relating to people of any gender are disproportionately male? Have you been to the incel forums? Or had incel friends irl? Many are NOT INTERESTED in making male friends but complain about loneliness (they mean lack of SEXUAL, AND THEN romantic attention from women, though, not male companionship). When asked, a lot of these men admit that they dont have hobbies that get them o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:53 PM
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Move on w life implies separately. OPS post doesn't specifically mention dating even though we're all interpreting it that way bc he asked the question to women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:13 PM
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I'd argue that women experience more violent rape and familial rape. They also probably experience more rape from teachers and mentors then men. Men do successfully commit suicide at higher rates than women so thats not a point of contention. I think both sexes can feel suicidal after experiencing rape-- women's only protection might be that we expect rape and while devastating, we still have more community because we know rape is common and know others who have experienced rape. Are mens rapist…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:31 PM
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some women like toxic men and some like more emotionally available men. welcome to Earth. women sre not a monolith. Sometimes you want chocolate and sometimes you want vanilla even if you know too many sweets are bad for you youre getting many different types of relationship interactioms mixed up here women are telling men online that stoicism is dumb and wont do them any favors (stranger to stranger) (friend to friend, casual interaction) women are asking their male romantic partners to open up…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:50 PM
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maybe due to patriarchy, sexism, relationship abuse, incest, sexual abuse, rape etc women experience this all more then men lots of women were raised as domestic slaves growing up having to cook, clean and care for younger siblings while their brothers hust fucked off and got berated and criticized the entire time. or worse beat. rape, molestation, and incest is also very common. disturbingly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:43 PM
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That's also because a lot of these people posting haven't even figured out who to make male friends and connections yet expect female friends and connections and are confused why they dont have them They don't/can't relate to men and they dont see women as human beings. Just an abstract thing that will administer dopamine and emotional validation to them one day (even though they have little to none now and wouldnt be attractive to most women as a result)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:38 PM
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Romantically lonely and socially lonely are not the same thing. (Most) friends don't hold you at night, kiss and caress you, tell you them love you daily etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:37 PM
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So "ugly" people are fucking for charity and creating "uglier??" (using OP's logic) for zero reason? People want kids so badly that they dont care what they look like or who they procreate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:52 PM
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"He had no bad experiences!" like omg the catfish who never showed up for the in-person potion of online dating has never had a bad online dating experience--bravo! we love that for him. this must be the true baseline for female dating experiences and all those whiny bitches online are lying! checkmate, atheists! just because he happened to swipe on men who didnt sexually harass his catfish or call it slurs doesn't mean that hes mimicking the actual online dating experiences of women en masse. h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:19 PM
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What do you mean "no bad experiences" since it was a fake account the dates never actually occurred, correct? and since the catfish was fishing for dates, he was being amenable to whoever asked for a date or seemed interested, which is not how normal women date there was a guy who created a fake female dating profile and managed to secure multiple dates without any really bad experiences this is completely flawed and biased, luckily there are actual academic (self reported, focus group, survey q…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:21 AM
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You haven't explained how/why this links to your end of marriage theory. Would you be willing to expand? It kind of just feels like you threw in that conclusion at the end without any supporting evidence or theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:07 PM
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Are you insinuating that my comment doesn't address that already? Did you mean to type this to OP? I didn't say, "and experts are stumped! there's no known cause to this phenomenon!!" OP is asking about society and gender so I'm assuming they know the word sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:28 PM
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Historically, majority female fields are devalued. The first computer programmers and phone line operators were primarily women, but they weren't considered STEM powerhouses, just desk workers. Teaching used to be an all-male field but when women joined en masse and it became majority female, salaries sunk. WFH jobs used to be seen as lazy scam jobs for stay at home moms, only. Now everyone wants a WFH job, because who wants to leave the house if they don't have to. Now that college applicants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:20 PM
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OP are you well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:34 PM
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We have no idea because the friend wasn't told directly in this sceanario. All we know is that he made time 5x in the last but wasn't able to reschedule or communicate this specific week
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:24 PM
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bio kids pull this line to shitty parents too fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:10 PM
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Hate to break it to you, but biological kids pull this line as well to deadbeat parents hahaha Blood won't save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:09 PM
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What part did I misunderstand? Please tell me since you're looking to be understood so badly. Something tells me that you know my perspective is correct, and you can't think up a good way to refute it, so you just resort to feeble insults. The lack of reading comprehension would be funny if it wasn’t so depressing. The attempt at an insult would be funny if it wasn't so weak and tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:22 AM
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Also, what is she bring to the table? If this hypothetical woman is a Brazilian supermodel whose favorite activities are cooking and blowjobs, of course she’d want the best. Plain Jane meanwhile needs to cool it. who is this fictional "she"? women are not Sims characters that your swipe right on. if you're romantically interested in them then you should be invested in them and trying to meet their standards within reason. You don't sounds interested in "Plain Janes" compared to Brazilian supermo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:12 PM
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the amount of males who are single between 18-35 is higher than it ever has been in US history this means that the rate of single eligible straight females is identical~ish, right? But now women want guys to "check all these boxes" before they even go out on a date. This does not give men a fair shot. you'd only be upset about women raising their standards if you're afraid of not meeting those standards. Men having lower standards than women doesn't make men right or correct. Women seem more obs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:02 AM
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why are you pretending that you don't know what "intteresting" means
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:51 AM
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right, that's why your point above feels unrelated imo it's about not wanting to date bi men and weaponizing biphobia (and it's associated myths which says bi people have lots of sex or are sexually indiscriminate/slutty) not the actual sexual freedom of bi men imo, just a the potential threat to straight women as the only sexual partners for bi men I think it's more about not wanting partners who may enjoy penetration (because penetration is "feminine" aka WEAK aka LESSER [this is internalized …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:05 PM
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I think they're just used to men being dogs and cheating with other women and know it's extra easy for men to cheat with other men + run of the mill biphobia but idk tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:42 PM
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it's not that bi men are "too free" it's the fear that that sex is too available to them from other men should they choose to seek it. in ways that it wouldn't be available if they were straight and only seeking women. not saying it's rational or true, just that it's a fear
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:40 PM
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well, no these are women talking about being in monogamous relationships with men, so they'd be expected to be sexually and romantically loyal to just one woman they'd have to be monogamous to be viable partners with these women regardless of their sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:39 PM
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yeah thats bc men are the #1 killers of women who cares if women are more selective in the men that they date compared to the women that they date? they HAVE to be. those men are statistically the person most likely to end their lives so men can take it on the chin if women are more selective in ways that are shallow or that maybe you don't understand. that's okay, you'll survive (statistically, anyway) holding men to higher standards of height( understandable but you would expect the to be open…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:38 PM
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do you care to know? if you could press a magic button and automatically find out every every aggressor in your life (qny gender) and their specific infraction...would you press it or rather live in ignorance? would you be willing to stir the pot and put aside your discomfort to know hard truths about people you potentially associated with? I think the biggest issue for women is knowing that most men care wouldn't care to know. they dont want to disrupt the status quo. they don't want to disrupt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:02 AM
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Men abusers don't advertise it and people protect those male abusers (see Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie, see Diddy and Cassie, see Dr Luke and Ke$ha, see Matt Lauer, Chris D'Elia, Harvey Weinstein, Jeffrey Epstein, R Kelly, and Bill Cosby) People don't believe the women who do share their stories and doubt them but them also shame women who were silent and didn't speak up sooner. There's no way to win bc the goal is simply to protect men and discredit women I don't know anyone that's done that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:54 AM
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You don't know what's hearsay and what's my actual lived experience, way to maka a supreme ass of yourself truly what a bold and mind boggling assumption to make about a person also people literally write these comments on news articles when sexual assault allegations come out (see Cassie and Diddy). You're just buying into what people say on the interweb. you're giving me permission to disregard your comment and opinion since you're just a random on the interweb btw good job women have proven t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:47 AM
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those are women you're not compatible with. hope that helps. lesbians do first date picnics all the time for romantic reasons. it's well though out, planned, and catered to the individual. it will have her favorite foods, favorite music, and a shared activity for them to do together. this isn't an exaggeration either, I've seen wlw tiktoks w exactly this (yes for first dates) Men typically do low effort, cheap dates bc they don't want to invest much in 1 woman and want a quick path to sex. they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:06 AM
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I agree with this. Every woman knows a rapist, sexual assaulter or abuser who is male but most men claim to not know one or that theyd never associate with one. meanwhile it's yall and your friends or relatives! and when women do make sexual assault allegations it's men and pickmes always peddling the "what did she do to deserve it question" in the form of: how much did she drink? what did she wear? -was she promiscuous? did she try to break up with him? why was she alone with him? did she humil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:18 PM
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I think you just proved his first statement in his post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:14 PM
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Oh I want my man to cook for me 100% of the time in my Ideal Fantasy World. I'm not dating anyone who can't cook at least 50% of the time, I hate the mental load of meal planning. Cooking and grocery shopping isn't terrible for me. I've literally stayed in a relationship with a man who was verbally abusive bc he was a super good cook and I justified it as his substitute love language the week he stopped cooking lunch for me (pandemic nesting, we both had remote wfh jobs, cooking was his hobby) I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:47 AM
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this is such a normal dynamic in so many relationships I've had men approach me on dating apps and the first line they've hit me up with was "what would you cook for me on our first date??" and bullshit like that. Just delusional. obv its an instant block today, but in the past I used to interrogate them and those mfs couldn't even boil an egg. it's great that they wave their red flags and state their priorities early on though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:20 PM
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A man who cooks is seriously so underrated they have no idea 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:17 PM
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He was never sweet and kind. He wore a mask to trick you. I hope you block him forever for mishandling your love and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:51 PM
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If men swiped earnestly (all men) women wouldn't be flooded with 1000s of choices and would do better than swiping left as indiscriminately as men swipe right. Women are only so selective because they have lots of options to select from. Are you selective about what you put into your shopping cart at Dollar Tree, or do you have more flexibility there to try new products, be experimental, be judgey, waste time/money on products that are shiny, potentially harmful, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:23 AM
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Yeah that's cutesy fun girl autism, in line w men who like Legos and sports stats
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:39 AM
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Sure, that doesnt mean that neurodivergent men dont struggle because of it tho I didn't say that they didn't. ND women experience the same struggles (or worse I could imagine).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:01 PM
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"you're not breaking up with me, I'm breaking up with you" I'm dead hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:58 PM
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women sleep with autistic men all the time and birth their autistic children you just haven't noticed bc men being into trains, video games, Legos, sports stats, and niche watches/cars/vinyls is normalized in society not all male autism is train schedule obsession, mickey mouse memorabilia, and sensory stim caves or whatever stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:06 PM
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the destiny argument is too small you can't have no personality, zero hobbies, zero same or opposite sex friends, never leave your hometown and call you never meeting someone compatible "destiny". you can't even have 3/5 of those things and still claim to be trying. you forge your own destiny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:01 PM
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this is just run of the mill sexism and misogyny so there's not much to engage with here, this isn't a good faith remark see how I can just make any claim without evidence to support it and pretend my feelings are facts? "This mentality is pervasive in most modern men. They're growing up absorbing all this shit on social media. And males are very susceptible to groupthink." like great chat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:10 AM
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nyc and big liberal cities are not the norm, and JD Vance called Taylor Swift a childless cat lady. Calling women childless is a common R insult online to say that "radical liberals" are undesirable and that men "pine for" rightwing/trad women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:31 PM
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Not everyone feels humiliated by rejection. Does a good fisher feel humiliated when he loses a fish on the line or does he cast again? Once again, a dehumanizing metaphor. What does complaining on this sub change about your situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:35 AM
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No risk, no reward. This is a very dehumanizing way to speak, but do you wanna complain that you never catch any fish or do you wanna get out on the water and start fishing? One takes commitment, planning, optimism, and courage. The other is just negativity and nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:24 AM
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who is saying this? also they're not talking to you so who cares? let these women keep searching for that guy or get burned in the dating game delusional (non-existsant) people aren't actually candidates in your dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:54 PM
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marriage, particularly in traditional heterosexual relationships, provides them with something that society often denies them: consistent emotional care, support, and encouragement for healthy habits. If a man can only get this through marriage, why do they even bother to have friends? What role do a man's friends and community serve in his life? Instead of using men’s longer lifespans in marriage as proof that relationships are a biological necessity, we should be asking why men’s emotional wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:02 AM
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That's not true at all. Your brain only finished developing 5 years ago. Half of the time you're complaining about being sexless was your literal childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:44 AM
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women doing this are usually complaining amongst themselves and they're not killing people in real life over it the same cannot be said for men. Men have podcasts full of violent rhetoric to support their ideals. They write manifesto. They take lives over it. Women do not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:42 AM
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Then they leave you, the way in which that's happened 3 out of 4 relationships there has to be something to it 3/4 of your own personal relationships? this doesn't make it the universal experience that you think it does most women looking to break up with a man can bring themselves to even see him sexually anymore. sex revulsion is real
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:25 PM
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this law is about non human animals you didn't quote the actual law - actual law here what does sexual fulfillment mean? what did it mean in 1930 when he was active?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:22 PM
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women have these emotions as well the thing is that women don't like being scapegoated or punching bags for men's negative emotions (or anyone elses). hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:27 AM
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At some point though it is exploiting a biological need for their own personal gain. what is the biological need? procreation? this is an online woman, she's not actually available to you or anyone else there are actual women that men know in real life that they could partner with instead of pretending to have a relationship with this woman bc they visually perceived her with their eyeballs felt entitled to her attention and time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:15 AM
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red pilled ideology inherently blames women for all of men's faults and frustrations in life but also promotes make supremacy in general. it's "men's right activism" through the suppression of women and children aka plain Ole misogyny some reading: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09589236.2023.2260318#abstract
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:01 PM
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always zooming right past the point lol dad #1 abandoning him is women's fault dad #2 abusing him (and likely his mother) is also women's fault. okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:55 PM
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I'm 100% confident that I would have "stepped up" and accepted a single mom with her 3 kids" like a "real man". Or got married to the wrong woman and divorce raped. ...this is a fantasy you've crafted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:18 AM
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I grew up without my father. And spent 12 years with an abusive stepdad. yet you chose to blame women for your misery lol lists two vital male role modeled who failed you and somehow it's women's fault. mmhkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:20 PM
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masterclass summary and logic shakedown, instant follow lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:48 AM
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So did you google female gential mutilation or no? Please confirm "women are shamed for seeking sexual pleasure" they are shamed if they are sluts/whores not if they seek sexual pleasure with their partner (notice the BIG difference). wrong. women are slutshamed as girls in childhood before they even become sexually active (see dress codes about girls not being able to wear shorts, tank tops, skirts, and sometimes even ponytails in school because it's "distracting to boys"). girls are called who…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:26 AM
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Thats because men know the inherent nature of women, how they desire to get one over on you and dip out. This is literally how men operate, why do you think there are so many fatherless homes and single moms who can't get their baby daddies to pay child support for their own children? If women are taking advantage of men, why are Republicans in the US trying to end no fault divorce right now? The goal is to trap women into marriages that they cannot legally exit. If a man wants a "loving relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:11 AM
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Google female gential mutilation and report back. Tell me how sexual you'd feed after getting your dick tip chopped off. Many women literally don't know how their body functions or what it's capable of because women are shamed for seeking sexual pleasure and also our pleasure buttons are internal/hidden. You feel yours any time there is a strong breeze and handle it every time you pee. There are also regions of the world where women are shamed for being sexual before marriage or outside of "mari…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:55 AM
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this is a fantasy excuse that you created in your brain ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:43 AM
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I meant that woman pay to be house elves by splitting rent and becoming house maids also I also spoke in transactional terms bc this is a transactional convo inherently. there is a reason why men don't want women have this sort of financial agency over them aka "I'd never pay my gfs mortgage or let her be my landlord but she should pay into mine" sex isn't what women have to offer. it's something in relationships can be pestered for or have to use as behavioral treats to get manchildren partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:41 AM
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So 90% of couples have an unemployed woman in the household? Does that statistic sound correct to you? Additionally, that would mean that most women with a job that you encounter in the world are going to be single women, with only 10% of them in partnerships? And once they have a partner they quit those jobs? does that sound realistic or feasible to you truly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:11 AM
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I'm not sure I believe that or would even know what that looks like. do you genuinely believe in that expense breakdown? like could you map it out for me? I do feel that women move in with men and essentially pay to become house elves in some worst case sceanaris. their rent might not even get cheaper, but their domestic workload increases I think this is why single moms with kids report that household duties oftentimes get easier post-divorce. they don't have to deal w weaponized incompetence o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:08 AM
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So do you agree than women actually do all of this labor or do they just rub men's back's at night? If the labor is so minimal, why don't you research the cost of childcare for 2 children from 9-5pm in your city and report back on the costs? ^even though SAHMS do childcare 24/7 with no holidays or paid vacations and do way more than "childcare" as outlined above
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:13 PM
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If a woman is a SAHM and stupid enough to believe that homemaking is the financial equivalent of a full time job then that's on her. Do you know how much having daily childcare costs for 1+ children? SAHMs are expected to provide 24/7 childcare, personal chef, cleaning service, maid, and home managerial duties. thats not even mentioning the sex some husbands expect every day or multiple times a day on top of it all. Just say you don't understand the duties that go into building and maintaining a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:51 PM
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I got into a debate like that on this on either this sub or r/ exredpill, I believe. It was a sceanario where a female partner didn't want to move in with her male partner. they were both homeowners and basically trying to figure out which residence to live in. A man said, "I don't get why women are hesitant to move in with male homeowners, pay their partners their portion of the rent (making their romantic partners their landlord) and only the males name is on the mortgage. It's like investing …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:47 PM
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We don't know if OP has tried dating. They haven't disclosed. We don't know if they've tried anything at all which is my entire point. Re-read their post. They don't mention trying anything. Not one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:36 AM
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You're doing better than most people who post here-- thats a good amount of hobbies and weekly social commitments! I had to try a bunch of real world hobbies/rec leagues for about a year before finding a partner irl. I was really active on the apps so I expected to find someone there and was surprised to meet someone "the old fashioned way." I just dressed well, smelled good, was funny, and got lucky at the end of the day, but it's easier as a woman because I prefer confident men who will pursue…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:42 AM
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did you even read my comment? I was talking about what men on this sub would say if a woman made the same comment I never said that women dating promiscuous men was men's fault...I said "this is how men react when women make these statements"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:28 AM
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ikr, theyd be calling a woman who did this a slut who went for Chad's while single and denied sex to normal guys but who ultimately settled for a normal guys years later they'd be mad that the sex they feel entitled to from women now would be a gratification they'd have to delay for years while women sleep with "superior" men today. a fictional scenario where they've been denied something they're owed, like an animal foster parent (Chads) taking too long to deliver the dog (women) they wanna ado…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:45 PM
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OP what are 2-3 hobbies that you're into right now that get you surrounded by other people on a weekly basis? Run club, DnD night, karaoke? There's gotta be something that you're doing to meet people your age. If you don't like bars, don't try to find people in bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:14 AM
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omg wait I love this and you're so right bc the first thing they'll say if a guy tries to shame them for paying for dinner (if they were "successful") is: "at least I had sex!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:04 AM
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He is literally submitting to his past desperation. He is yielding to it. He is saying "I am undateable and this is a correct and unchangeable fact of life" Its not true, but it's easier to pivot and reframe this in some bullshit positive monk acceptance way of, "Well, I'll always be who I am and that's sort of peaceful" than to actually make active efforts to be a better human being for yourself I urge you to point out where OP said they tried dating, tried something new/different or tried to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:53 AM
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How/where does this relate back to women as you originally stated?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:43 AM
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Right. So are these female psychologists not allowed to have male patients? Are male psychologists not allowed to have male patients? Are you trying to say that the field was different or better when it was more male dominated, aka when women were barred access from degree granting institutions and unable to get formal schooling? this is when they were giving people lobotomies and calling women hysterical for being stressed out about being primary caretakers, homemakers, SAHMs, and unable to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:34 AM
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I don't care if I come across as condescending to a blackpilled guy. It's so weird to actively identify a problem in your life then be like, "oh well, I just decided to live with it and accept my fate. I know I HAVE cancer and it hurts sometimes, but other times I forget about it for months at a time 😅" its sad. it's sad to see men settling for lesser lives. its one thing to be okay with being single forever because you choose to be single. it's another thing to swear off of an entire sex becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:26 AM
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I put ugly in parentheses because you claimed dating apps are only a playground for attractive people. I have not said that normal looking people are ugly. I'm making assumptions about what you mean by attractive and you're making assumptions by what I mean about ugly. But your assumptions are wrong, I used the phrasing I used in reaction to your phrasing. I don't think that apps are a playground for pretty people, but I do think that they likely have an easier time getting attention (not romanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:29 PM
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"Wal-Mart is now an institution by women for women." See how you can just say anything on Earth with zero evidence to back it up and you just sound stupid? Fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:26 PM
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it's called a negative thought pattern for a reason. it doesn't make it true even if you convince yourself that it's true therapy isn't talking about issues endlessly, it's challenging and confronting your beliefs and belief systems because you understand that they haven't been working for you or contributing to your happiness/quality of life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:25 PM
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this doesn't make sense. "ugly" people have kids all the time, this is why "conventionally unattractive" people still exist and and walk this planet today there is a reason why people joke about poly people "all looking that way" and EDIT - here's a hint; it's not bc they think all poly people are attractive. they're literally saying, "what's going on, why is this crowd of uggos having so much sex so easily?" (their words/implications, not mine) and yet they fuck and live and have children all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:35 PM
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When I was in my early 20s, I had anxiety attacks and depressive episodes about being invisible to women. I really questioned everything about myself and realized I was a failure in every way. It was very hard on my mental health. I never thought I’d get over it. But somehow, my mind just..adapted over time. chat have you ever had a negative dysfunctional thought pattern simply take over your life and then just yield to you? you literally created your own boogeyman mentally then said, "Hey guys,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:32 PM
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This instant power of validation, free meals, and ability to use men for entertainment is conflicting with her desire for a relationship. wrong. the premise of your entire argument is wrong. as a serial dater and fwb-er I had all of those things and they still rang hollow compared to the relationship I have now. I knew this would be the case then but it's staggeringly clear now. I'm not sure if there is some huge overlap between girls who are dating and fcking for fun and girls actively seeking …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:59 PM
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Live with parents, Any noticeable physical issue, Not masculine enough, Taller than him in heels, Has kids, Unkept, Doesn’t have a career, Not enough intellect, Not fit enough, One weird pic she found, Conflicting religious or political, No friends, Walks funny, Not her “type”, Doesn’t like your voice, Etc… replace "not masculine enough" with "feminine" and congrats, you have a women's pov about men who won't date her lmfaooooo yeah some men don't care about career and living with parents but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:51 AM
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It sounds like you're starting with a baseline assumption that women should be less assertive, independent, and feminine compared to men. Is this correct? If so, your baseline assumptions are already too seeped in sexist gender role hierarchies. That stuff is a fairytale. Yes many people today subscribe to it but you will always be left scratching your head at the end of the day if your baseline assumption is "every person with X trait should act X-Z way" The reality is that people with X trait …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:38 PM
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But the least they could do would be to acknowledge the pain, loneliness, isolation, and mental and emotional damage that is literally killing men and leading men to kill themselves, instead of constantly dismissing, erasing, downplaying, minimizing, and/or mocking men's pain, and gas lighting men about it. I see that I see more women acknowledging this than men tbh. I see more women talking about this online and in person (in positive and negative ways) more than I see men talking about this ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:33 PM
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You said in one comment that younger women are harder to get and are now saying they're easier to get. Which point are you making? if it's easier compared to older
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:04 PM
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People aspire and aim for many things that are difficult to get in life, what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:00 PM
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This is even fine for 5'8" I know volleyball players and soft all players with these stats. They've got thighs and ass that people kill for in the gym. Big arms, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:53 AM
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💗🥹🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:17 PM
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sounds like a bad relationship with poor communication and like she wasn't being realistic about finances sounds like you had different values and expectations about money, labor, how big partnership decisions are made that's a bad partner to make a life altering financial change without consulting you first and getting on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:16 PM
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💗💗
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:14 PM
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I don't look at porn online, my sample size is other men who have big dicks that's I've fucked lol trust me I've taken a few and I know what a big dick is. I've also dealt with super thick guys before, and I wouldn't call a thick guy small. I'm not a size queen BUT I do like to partake from time to time. I wouldn't have had an issue with this guy of he hadn't billed himself as size queen friendly on the reverse side, I've also had men who clearly didn't need magnums pull them out for play and us…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:18 AM
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half of them are liars, too! just despicable lmfao this guy was delusional, he said he needed to order special sized condoms from amazon...he was avg sized 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:21 PM
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thanks one of the mods has it as well. I think(?) she snagged it from me and I love it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:29 PM
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does OP not know that gay men were the first to call themselves size queens 👀 let's see how he spins this to reincorporate his hatred of women (the true reason for this post) If you're jealous and wanna try big dick just sit on some and leave us out of itttt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:04 PM
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they actually don't on kink friendly apps/sites and that's kind of the only place where ppl say those things hookup apps, twitter porn, and OF
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:02 PM
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it's used on hookup apps like feeld but guess what the guys there are calling themselves size queen friendly aka advertising that they have big dicks ask me how I know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:01 PM
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saying you prefer big dicks isn't any different than men preferring BBWs/thicc women touch grass there is no shaming or implication that smaller is worse, your own brain is adding that part in. Does liking chocolate mean that you automatically shame vanilla lovers...or do you just like chocolate? TAKE A LAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:00 PM
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I literally clicked like.. has this ever even been contested lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:56 AM
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Men leave their spouses 6x more when their wives get sick source 1 Men will bring their families to other countries, take their passports, then abandon and trap them there source 2 On men who have second families: "Fewer than one in 12 say they see the children from their first family every day and nearly a third say they do not have a close relationship with them"- Government’s Economic and Social Research Council. You can do the rest of the homework yourself and come back with questions and ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:19 PM
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Well don't apologize just yet. I was saying that men have a history of leaving perfectly good families due to general life dissatisfaction/new pussy... and that we don't need the abuse framing bc men are doing this absent of abuse in most cases tbh. Obviously women abandon families as well, but the rates for men are much higher. I'd also imagine that women's reasons for family abandonment different than those of men generally, but I haven't done any research on this. however I do think all peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:24 AM
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I would argue that many more men have "escape funds" than you realize, but they're more like "upgrade funds." Money to squirrel away and hide from their spouse in case of divorce. I knew a bartender who religiously took any $50 bill he got while working to stash away and hide from his fiancée in a seperate account. He'd only squirrel away $50s, no other denomination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:18 AM
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Women are genrally the hub of community, warmth, life. They literally create and sustain life. They cook, plan, orchestrate. They are family and community managers and executors. They tend to be the ones raising kids, planning meals, connecting with relatives, and preparing for important events in their families and friend groups. Men usually aren't actively really trying to build community the same way beyond Dnd night, planning a fishing trip, or tailgating. Men will have friends for years and…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 06:13 AM
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men leave their spouses and families all the time lol are you saying men as an entitity should be more prepared to do this or where do you think the meme about Dads leaving for milk or a pack of cigarettes came from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:46 AM
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It's hypocritical bc they're equally as promiscuous. So funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:28 PM
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So if you sleep with someone disgusting are you not also disgusting afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:27 PM
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incels are literally (erroneously) mad that "all women" have "easy" access to sex (aka the ability to be sluts) while they do not. I feel this is a pillar of incel rage Men hate women because their hypothesis is that women only want to be sluts for "Chads." They directly place their anger only all women and their fantasized sexual activities instead of a few men and their fantasized activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:27 PM
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But that's the whole appeal of OF. The girl next door could be a literal porn star. Aren't you jacking off to her because you want to have sex with her or someone like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:22 PM
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Most of the men who pay for OF are lonely or in bad marriages. the porn industry existed before OF. Brothels existed before OF. Sed work is the oldest profession in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:21 PM
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amazing point lol everyone "hates" sluts yet sluts are everywhere thriving ppl love us. if ppl hated us we'd never be able to grow into sluts hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:20 PM
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Consumers actually do lol they do all the time thats why scams work, they make unrealistic promises compared to legitimate options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:18 PM
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NY is kind but not nice CA is nice but not kind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:27 PM
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You couldn't care less yet you made an entire post/analogy on bodycount titled: "Yes - your past does matter"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:46 PM
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Why are you asking about bodycount if you know the answer may potentially upset you? The aim of the question is to figure out how "used" your goods were before given to you, right? Why can't you just be in a happy healthy relationship without speculating how many dicks have been inside your partner? It screams insecurity. Instead of being happy and grateful you're ripping your hair out over her experiences with men before she even knew that you existed. She's not actively thinking about those me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:15 PM
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Why would I care about a proposal trip that my ex took his ex fiancée on? Same vacation, same villa, same ring is low effort and a problem imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:12 PM
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She is insatiable for my cock – it’s her sleeping pill, her wake-up pill, her anxiety pill, her sad pill, her happy pill – she is an extremely well-fucked woman 😭😭 it hurts to see another woman living your dream
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/24 02:10 PM
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algorithm comment so I don't lose this thread
/r/ExRedPill02/10/24 04:25 PM
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You're implying in this comment that the good guy only gets long term relationships and marriage, but not casual sex. I'm not. I was working from your premise which I already said I disagree with. I'm asking why do you as a woman get both options (casual sex with one type of men and marriage with good guys They're not different men much of the time. They can be, but they're not. incels only notice when these groups differ and not when they converge. Have you been on tinder or feeld lately? Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:27 PM
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Why might that be? Neurotypical men have lots of incentives to predate on mentally ill women of all types. Mentally ill women are also more likely to be hypersexual compared to neurotypical women. They could be doing more risk taking behaviors, potentially self medicating, and gambling with their safety, similar to some mentally ill men. The reasons why it's "easier" for neurospicey women to date are the same reasons why any societally marginalized status like being homelessness is harder for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:19 PM
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Why is it harder for majority of men to be the casual sex guy and easier to be the long term guy? Who is making this argument? I don't think this is true. You say this bullshit but then we see your casual sex fuck buddies who are absolute winners and tower above your long term partners in terms of looks, height, physique, dick game, confidence, charm. The guy who just left my bed was 6'2" and 260. Very husky guy. Cute enough but I only fcked him bc he said he had a big dick (lie) and said he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:32 PM
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Why would you assume that the husband has never had casual sex before? What are you even talking about? Also lots of women have casual sex with men who are normal attractiveness levels lmfao My #1 trait for whether I'll get along w a fwb or not is whether they hike or watch anime hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:26 PM
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No guy obviously wants to be in a situation where his long-term serious partner finds him less sexy than the booty call she fucked for a few weeks. He's not less sexy. He's differently sexy because he loves, cares, values, and cherishes her beyond her ability to be a warm hole. He's a whole new level of sexy. Your premise is flawed. It's like how Moms say that seeing their husbands in Dad mode makes them sexier. Your partner supporting and taking care of you makes them hotter because good treatm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:45 AM
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Are you in therapy?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 02:41 AM
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Any man who is approaching you early on into dating with a sob story is using it as a primer to justify future abuse towards you. That way you think, "Oh no, he's only treating me this way bc his inner child/past trauma isn't healed." This should give you the ick immediately. Any man who resents women also resents you and men who resent women are dangerous to women. You are not an exception.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 02:09 PM
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Do you have any female friends? Understanding the value of non-sexual female companionship and figuring out the traits you admire in your friends will help you value their personalities and the personalities of others in the future
/r/ExRedPill31/08/24 10:00 PM
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May I ask what leads you to believe you're a 2? And if you believe you could take steps to make yourself a 5? Hasan Piker says "Every man can be a 7" and has a whole rationale about it 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 09:17 PM
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Men know that other men are unsafe because they too are afraid of confronting other men. The sex convo is just used to gaslit women. They feel entitled to women's bodies and harbor disregard for the consequences for women.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 03:26 PM
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Abusers are manipulative and typically socially competent. And even though they have low self esteem at the end of the day, many appear charismatic and charming in the beginning. Desperate people do not have an aura of confidence, esteem, etc. These are two different audiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:03 PM
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Block him
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 02:46 AM
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He's in too deep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:38 AM
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We dont think this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:30 PM
1

I have no idea what your second statement means at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:35 AM
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I adore men. But women are better and more charismatic friends. Women's friendships run deeper imo. I see who men call their friends. And how they treat each other. I do not envy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:27 AM
1

Go Commodores!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:24 AM
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I revised my comment, hope they helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:22 AM
1

Have you been to the club? A rooftop bar? A family game night? An intramural game? A family holiday gathering? Women are the backbone of a lot of the fun that occurs tbh Women set the mood, the tone, the vibe. I think women are into shy guys, I know I am, but that's obv my personal opinion. Creeps and losers are Andrew Tate/Adin Ross types. Fakeass loudmouths pretending to be alpha males.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:50 AM
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Apparently Sheera Seven has been active since 2013, but I didn't start seeing her content til 2013 She doesn't feed into the RP prop machine. She exists outside of it. When did the manosphere/rp online content mill begin? She's in the women's dating/advice/sugarbaby sphere, not the RP sphere. The fact that she promotes golddigging is kind of just a seen as joke imo but that's just my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:46 AM
0

Sure buddy! (from a fellow bi bitch lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:42 AM
0

Sorry your friends are boring but the gworls are hilarious and vibrant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:37 PM
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Newsflash,: most women already have hobbies and dress well AND are charismatic That's why all these incels and seething and whining about not being able to get with them. Because they can't match up. You're creating a false premise while ignoring the confines and realities of the false premise here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:30 PM
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Do everyone a favor and break up with this girl
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 07:08 PM
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Sheeran Seven is just fun, if you watch her recorded livestreams most of her content is just her telling women how to comically reply when BROKE guys acuse all women of being golddiggers, which RP does to many women. RP don't date women for their personalities AND overly sexualizes them, so RP assumes women aren't dating men for their personalities (and therefore it must be their money).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:53 PM
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Ah, i see. Thank you for digging thru your post history to find and share this with me!
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 04:54 PM
1

Ah, i see. Thank you for digging thru your post history to find and share this with me!
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 04:54 PM
1

Ah, i see. Thank you for digging thru your post history to find and share this with me!
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 04:54 PM
1

Wait can you share it with me please?
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 04:01 PM
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They're not confused. I literally said in my post that the young men aren't relationship material, and that they know that (this is a part of their frustration on dating apps). You seem to be the one conflating the two things. I haven't said what you seem to think I'm saying and neither did those women. I've stated this repeatedly. We seem to be talking past one another so not sure we'll see eye to eye here even though we're not saying super dissimilar things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:33 PM
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Okay player lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:11 PM
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So you admit that it is happening (aka they're not delusional) but you think that it's not important/relevant? That's fine that you feel that way but that's not the same as the women describing this trend actually being delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:58 PM
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That's not really an argument but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:50 PM
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The opposite of love is apathy, not hate. You mention hurt, sacrifice, revenge. You're clearly still very invested whether you realize it or not. You could be putting that energy into bettering yourself or finding a new partner or something productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:30 PM
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Wait this is legit true everyday some girl is in tears posting "girlies what do I do my man is addicted to porn and weed and steals as money from my purse but I love him so much and it's not his fault bc he has adhd and was abused??? last night he got blackout drunk and said he hates how my body looks and always has. please don't tell me to leave him, he's a good person and not himself when he's drunk" I wish I was even exaggerating. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:29 PM
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As you can see from my post history I'm here far too often (but this is my first daily megathread)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:20 PM
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I think a lot of these men hate themselves and consume content from the manosphere and toxic masculinity that makes them hate themselves even more. I think many of them have shit personalities but find it easier to blame physical traits like their height or hair patterns. These are real factors, but after a certain age/maturity level a man with honest intentions, employment, and hobbies who is upfront and treats women well should not be struggling that much romantically or sexually Regular men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:51 PM
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Okay but the fact that's she's still running through your mind rent free proves that you aren't over the relationship ending and that you haven't progressed anywhere, though You keep coming back to her mentally at the end of the day which isn't really a resounding marker of success or happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:46 PM
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Your flair 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:40 PM
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You just conflated two different qualities here. Hot and rich are not synonymous. I'm not sure what your point is. You listed: Average women and Hot rich dudes, then Average dudes and Hot (not rich) women Lots of normal looking rich dudes date/partner/marry average looking women (Elon Musk & Grimes, Zuckerberg & Priscilla, Bill & Melinda Gates) Lots of normal looking rich dudes also date/marry "hot" women (Bezos and Lauren Sanchez, Trump and Melania, Serena Williams [who is independently rich an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:47 PM
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You just did the meme here aka "You criticize society, and yet you participate it one, interesting"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:21 PM
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Where is the delusion, I literally said in my post that older women reported younger men soliciting them to mess around and not as life partners lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:17 PM
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This is a huge hot button topic right now, please don't act dense This is partially why the US is trying to ban and buy TikTok (#5 or #6 app in the WORLD atm), they literally don't want China having all this precious data bc the US is used to being the Big Boi on the block
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:08 PM
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Googling SSS and gender exemptions or "women and the draft" might help you answer this very random question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:25 PM
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It was coined by the expat community in Asia from the sources I see around 2017-18, not American women. The relationship between the observer and subject is literally stated within the term itself. Notice the phrasing /back home/ implying that the subject is being observed outside of their home country. You don't call where you currently are "back home" because you're already home. You use the term "back home" when you're away from home or interacting with someone who is away from their home. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:33 PM
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I've heard of women partaking in sex tourism and in their Eat, Pray, Love era of hooking up with foreign men to get their groove back. But women don't need to go abroad to find husbands, finding a husband isn't the issue for most women Finding a husband that means their standards is the issue for most women. Another commenter on this post said it best. Men are looking for A WOMAN (just one single woman who will tolerate them). Women seeking romantic love (not green cards or money) are looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:25 PM
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So you admit the scenario isn't realistic or even happening, glad we agree The entire topic is bait
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:21 AM
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I'm from the Caribbean lmfao Marrying a loser for more freedom in your home country makes sense (i.e. Rose and Big Ed from 90 Day Fiance) American women divorce for freedom or to rid themselves of a man-child. Its not for money, plenty of former trad wives end up destitute after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:18 AM
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Who do you think has access to the man in your hypothetical scenario? Is it your average Jane at the sip and paint or Paisley who's a legacy student at Vanderbilt and summers at Nantucket and who also has a trust fund Pbffr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:28 AM
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And the ones who don't know that they're losers so??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:09 AM
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We know from the nursing and geriatric care professions that women are the least likely to be alone in aging and death. If women are alone, men are alone-r And that's why I said that the demographics are having different problems. Young men are complaining about not getting enough sex while you claim older women are being used for easy sex. Older men aren't being used for easy sex either. But women are always called upon as sexual partners, our sexual currency doesn't really drop with age due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:02 AM
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It's meme'd bc its ridiculous and unrealistic and vapid. Women tell jokes, too. We can do jokes, humor, sarcasm, banter etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:55 AM
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I never said that incels were passport bros, ever I'm first gen, my family is from the islands and I have backpacked Europe solo 2x and been to Iceland, China, and South Africa along with a dozen other countries (check my post history lol) Where have you been? I know what women in Mexico, Japan, Vietnam, Thailand, Philippines and other common passport bro countries say about the foreign men who move there to find wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:51 AM
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I don't know if this is true. Older women report being solicited by younger men routinely who wanna mess around etc (not be life partners) and have solid established friend and family groups Theyre also dealing with delusional men in their 40-60s still "figuring out what type of relationship they want" or who think they can still have kids or want to have young wives to have kids with even though they'll be dead before their 30th bday Imo they're not having the same dating troubles, but in fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:40 AM
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It's just a meme. No one wants to date a coke head alcoholic who works 80 hrs/week
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:36 AM
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Yes 💯💯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:35 AM
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Women abroad know that passport bros are losers who couldn't score with their own women. They even have phrase for it "LBH" or Losers Back Home A man who have to leave his own home country and social customs just to find partnership with one single woman who would tolerate him...it speaks a lot to his persona and outlook on life if he moved specifically to date a different population of women (who oftentimes have less agency and financial resources than him, and who may or may not be more compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:34 AM
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Securing dates is not at all the same as finding lasting, longterm life partner material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:29 AM
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Why specifically would men be quitting their jobs again? And in this system where women choose to date down, will men also be dating down to maximize their partnership chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:58 PM
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THAT PART
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:56 PM
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This part lol I'm like, "Somehow he found a way to blame male sexual desires on women"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:56 PM
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Being the "cause" or reason behind a thing is different than /creating/ an entire sociopolitical ecosystem over a thing One is an action/actor and the other thing is being acted upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:54 PM
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2x/month seems healthy/normal if you live in a big city and are actively trying to be sexually active and have new experiences with new people And yeah, if you're hitting the refresh button every 14 days, it's definitely gonna take effort. I tend to have more long-term fwbs/rosters I'd get too exhausted pursuing someone new every 2 weeks 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:09 PM
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Is this really true in the age of dating apps etc? "A hookup"? One single hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:58 PM
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What if I told you that your opinion and experience is subjective and not the objective neutral truth of the universe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:53 PM
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The cashier didn't decide who paid. They just gave her the illusion that her input mattered. Remember she Venmo'd him back afterwards. Sometimes you just choose the path of lease resistance and "smile and nod" for nosey people to preserve your sanity. It's a non-issue tbh. That cashier decided for them as long as you choose to believe she decided for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:36 AM
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Whats sad about it? They chose a path of lesser resistance after a nosey stranger entered and commented on their life. That person and their comment was insignificant to their life so they treater them as such and did whatever they wanted when they had a private moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:19 AM
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Women actually love straight men despite the fact that straight women's #1 killers are straight men. And yet we bend over backwards to partner with yall repeatedly even against our best interests. Women are still giving Nick Cannon random ass babies knowing their kids are gonna have 28.675 half siblings. Nick Cannon is not insanely rich and clearly needs mental help and yet women spread their legs for him. Don't say it's just for money, because it's money and a lifetime of headache they're signi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:00 AM
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No one thinks a shirtless guy is going to take them to museum lol But if I like museums and he wants to go then I assume he's interested in me enough to pretend to share my interests
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:08 AM
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Yes, are you me? But jk I honestly just wanna be a literal cum dumpster slut for my ONE person. I think many people want that at the end of the day. I just wanna give it up every day multiple times a day for that special person tbh. It's exhausting having to maintain fwb relationships etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 AM
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"Green flag behavior" or "green flag husbands" is a tag that talks about women's positive experiences with men
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 11:34 PM
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Have you shared your source yet? I've seen a few folks ask
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:38 PM
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30% of male users are married are you kidding me 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:27 PM
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Only if both parties agree to this metric
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:25 PM
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Women with small breasts are still actively sexualized and desired. There are entire subs dedicated to small breasted women. Men aren't sexualized the way that women are, so I'm not sure baldness is the proper comparison here. Small penis would be the proper comparison imo (which is also sexualized, even though there is way more degrading language for men with smaller penises) Small penis subs and men who are proud of their small penises or who enjoy the fetish scene still exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:02 AM
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I'm not pornaddicted so I don't know what that phrase means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:43 PM
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Nothing you said made sense but work on it, you might get somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:32 PM
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You literally read one reddit post on a random day and then decided all women want the traits listed in that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:12 AM
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What principles of the laws you cited do you feel would resonate most with rp men? Just wondering your top 3 since you introduced this wacky sneararo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:11 AM
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What? I was in a monogamous exclusive relationship so I'm not sure where you're inventing that information from.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:06 AM
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Okay so one person with a Reddit account wrote this and now everyone else needs to defend/debunk it?? 😭😭 It's bullshit, just scroll lol (like I should have w this post tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:33 AM
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The 6 traits you listed, where are you pulling these traits from? What woman has said this? Does she speak for all women? What is with this weird ass scenario you're shadowboxing??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:10 AM
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What does lowered inhibitions mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:06 AM
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I was actually in a 5 year relationship and ready to marry and he cheated but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:02 AM
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I asked a follow up question btw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:44 PM
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He's talking about women sleeping around as a man. I countered with men sleeping around as a woman and offered my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:09 AM
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Sorry you're asking how many ppl I've slept w, right? I kind of only started keeping track in 2018ish. Lemme know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:08 AM
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I'm not getting that from your reply bc you haven't really laid anything out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:29 AM
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I asked for someone to make sense of OP's point, so if you're answering my question with another question I'm not sure we'll approach an answer. I'd wager its relevant because OP is complaining about their inability to have sex with their desired cohort of women. So OP wants to sleep around, shouldn't they pursue women looking go sleep around as well? Not courting/selecting for women who sleep around seems antithetical if one wants to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:28 AM
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You only think it's bad because of sexism. Men fucking a lot of good. But women aren't supposed to get fucked a lot. Who are men having sex with then in this golden ratio, each other? This ratio only works if men fuck each other. A lot. Then men get lots of sex and women get little.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:22 AM
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If she wants to and she's safe and the men treat her well, why not? It's her life. You gotta be wild and free for a bit while you're young. Sex is fun, it's a part of being an adult. Why would I care what two consenting adults do of they're treating each other well and not harming one another? Believe it or not you have have multiple casual partners who understand consent, treat you well, court you etc. In the age of apps like Feeld it's really easy to be transparent and open about sexual wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:19 AM
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No one mentioned money at all, wtf are you talking about? I find fwbs on tinder, bumble and feeld btw so try diversifying and being honest about your intentions on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:15 AM
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Most men who are promiscuous date promiscuous women It sounds like they have found a population who likes them according to the scenario/perspective you've shared here so I'm not sure what your point is the original comment in replying to presents a different premise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:10 PM
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I'm not sure where you're picking up whining, I'm pointing to the fact that the math doesn't add up. Why do manwhores reject woman whores is the question I want answered. I don't know what you're talking about with women shaming virgins so I can't comment on that. I think women would find a guy waiting for sex to be endearing and an easy lay bc you could blow his mind v easily. It'd be such a huge ego boost as long as he's presentable, sane, courteous etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:52 PM
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Where did I say that? I didnt say that men are wildly successful, I said that they have a hoe mindset. Being open to sex and actually getting sex are not the same thing. Men would accept way more sex if they were offered it. I'm not pretending that they have opportunities or offers all the time. But when those opportunities do present themselves, they jump on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:49 PM
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You misread. I said I AM okay with him having casual sex. And if he wasn't okay with me doing that we wouldn't be a compatible match as the person below expressed. Instead of trying to control all women, try finding women that share the same values as you and are compatible. Women should never put all their eggs in one basket for 1 man esp while dating seriously. Too many risks and too many liars to commit so early on. It's not reality to pretend that that's a part of modern dating. Everyone sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:48 PM
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Why do women need to be one size fits all? The rationale for the behavior was explained, so if you think women aren't rational creatures I can't help you. Why can men sleep around, commit whenever, get married whenever and not women? He's literally the one not being consistent btw. He is presenting premises where he imagines he needs to trick and deceive women in order to manipulate them into a desired outcome instead of just being honest. He is seems to be soliciting fwbs from women who want re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:45 PM
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Have you ever stepped onto tinder or feeld? Bumble even has a seeking "intimacy without commitment" category now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:42 PM
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Where did I say this? My post is specifically referring to men who have and are seeking casual sex. I also think it's disingenuous to act like most men would reject casual sex if offered. I'm not sure that's true. My post literally says "Men who are whores"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:41 PM
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See you don't want a relationship lol You can view women as sex objects all you want, it doesn't mesh well with western relationship and dating practices for true romantic relationships, which people engage in to find love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:25 PM
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At least for women it's just a phase. Men act this way as a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:24 PM
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You see it as disrespectful because you believe you are entitled access to a woman's sexual attention. You feel disrespected because you believe you are entitled to physical acts of sex just because you invested attention into a woman. If you believe your romantic interactions should be that transactional, just find a sex worker. It doesn't sound like you want a relationship, it sounds like you think men should receive sex from any woman they invest in emotionally and make the object of their ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:23 PM
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You can act on your carnal desires respectfully. The fact that you cannot imagine consensual sex between two people without one party being degraded or seen as lesser is truly the bigger issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:18 PM
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As a woman who dates seriously while fucking casually, I'm okay with my male serious and casual prospects doing this. Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:13 PM
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Wait why can women only have a limited about of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:09 PM
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No you want to be a cool ass person who is clear and transparent about just wanting fwbs/casual That's literally it. You don't need to act, pretend or add any element of deception or toxicity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:08 PM
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I dont understand this. Men who are whores want to conquer and plunder countless women, but only virgins. Males whores deserve virgins and female whores deserve shaming??? Make it make sense. Men who have casual sex: I want casual sex with women Women who have casual sex: hey Men who have casual sex: not you. boo you disgusting whore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:58 PM
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Medal for you, correct 🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:54 PM
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Exactly, it sounds like he is seeking out casual sex with relationship minded women instead of seeking out casual sex with fwb minded women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:47 PM
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Just make a Feeld account and say you want casual sex, are you near any big cities? Meeting folks shouldn't be that hard if you are presentable, sane, courteous and good conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:46 PM
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This is because men LIE to women REGULARLY to gain access to them for sex. Women DONT NEED to lie to men to gain access to them for sex. Men know that fewer women are interested in casual sex, but most women are very interested in long term romantic partners. So they will string multiple women along pretending they want to be their bf, while waiting to see who gives them the sex they're actually looking for. So, when navigating serious relationships, women wait to have sex. Because we don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:45 PM
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Whats the correlation between cities and girls being less attractive? Never heard this one before. Edit: I'd assume the opposite since there is more access to gyms, salons, wellness activities
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:00 PM
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False. I've had rich men do shit that sent a shiver up my spine. Everything in my body told me to stop interacting with them immediately. He was not ugly. He was just so supremely creepy (he kept asking to see pics of my mom).
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 06:11 AM
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Just dealt w a few on dating apps earlier today. They may mention wanting a woman who is "respectable" (I asked him to expand and he said that meant "a woman who is reserved, has good morals, respectful and non-combative"). Ask what they mean when their profile says vague things, people are always telling on themselves. Lots will also say that they want a woman who is active, despite they themselves having zero active hobbies or photos of them being active. So they mean fat bitches need not appl…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/24 06:33 AM
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Name one institution that would give funding to a study that might lead to an unflattering view of women. The basis of an experiment is a research question. Ideally one that can be replicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:25 PM
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"I spit game"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:33 PM
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Hehe they don't like facts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:32 PM
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Are you upset that you're single, upset that you're still hung up on the relationship, or upset at the loss of the relationship? I'm not fully understanding.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 06:47 PM
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💯
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 03:47 PM
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Its about effort. They're putting in effort and want a partner who will match that. You're looking for excuses to play women because you basically had a depressive episode and stopped putting effort into your appearance (like a lot of other people during covid). Just make sure you're only pursuing women based on personality tho, okay? Since appearances don't matter here 😇
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 03:45 PM
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That's not a research question dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:43 AM
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Thats so good to hear! I feel like the regimented and static nature of these tactics really stunt the ability for natural conversion to flow. It can be tricky to move at a natural conversational pace when you have a hidden agenda tbh. Even unconsciously the person is picking up tells and signals that you're letting off. Most conversations won't be the most enlightening one of the week/month/year. But the feeling of connecting with someone naturally and genuinely (no bullshit, just common sense a…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 05:30 AM
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Why are you mad that you got served with the same exact energy you dished out lol
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 10:08 AM
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Women have mental health issues and struggle w social skills. Neither of those prevent us from acknowledging personhood in men. It's the misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 08:47 AM
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Are you arguing that women not initiating is comparable to men executing mass murders? I made the exact opposite point of what you deduced btw. Just read their manifestos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:33 PM
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W peace and love you need to delete #3 Signed, All Disgruntled Male Mass Shooters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:28 PM
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Do you think that maybe no women look like marriage material due in part to the fact you are not particularly inclined to marriage or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:03 PM
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Are you sure you're marriage material my guy? Thats my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:47 PM
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I dont think that casual dating is dangerous or results in bad sex and I guess I wasn't aware that a lot of women felt that way. We've all had bad experiences but I haven't heard this sentiment widely. Idk what men on OLD means. Also I think all types of people want romance and love but settle for casual dating. I never wanted to date a fwbs pr hookup or enter a relationship w them (I've had under dozen probably) but I've had men get angry/hurt that I didn't want to turn a casual arrangement int…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:42 PM
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I'm agreeing that women dont interpret passes at them as affirmations of their attractiveness oftentimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:38 PM
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It is not relevant whether this example was a false equivalency, It does tho like a cheater, I used the edit button like a save button, so you definitely might have read my response like 2 mins before I was actually done writing men still do think/plan/prepare for parenthood This is just not true. Men know they have their entire lives to impregnate someone. Women know they aren't fertile forever. The first time you get your period you're literally doing the math to try to figure out how many mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:31 PM
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Right but either you knew she wanted that when you married her or you agreed to it as her partner who decided to/happened to impregnate her. Or your financial circumstances made it so that it had to be done, one parent will not work bc it made financial sense in your household or was a personal preference idk Tell me where you were duped?? Your marriage didn't work out and its normal to feel bitter about it. But no one tricked you at any stage of the agreement. Even if she was working, you'd sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:21 PM
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I have a twin brother, try again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:18 PM
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I just said Pete does nothing for me physically. Therefore not attractive TO ME. You'll never convince my that Cumberbatch is attractive, that man was made to wear prosthetic makeup/costume only (just kidding). But hes an alien seriously. And some people do think Adam Driver is hideous. Just because you dont agree doesn't mean you're objectively right lol People have different opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:17 PM
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/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 02:33 PM
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Oh, these are just JP talking points why didn't you say so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:48 AM
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Like I said this is back breaking projection imo but I've only been active here for <12 months
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:47 AM
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Dunno, Pete Davidson does absolutely nothing for me physically, but knowing that he has a big dick and that people find him funny makes him more attractive to me. Some people think Adam Driver is hideous. I think Benedict Cumberbatch is an alient and Steve Buscemi is the type of alien I'd fuck. Everyones different. Different traits charm different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:16 AM
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When custody is 50/50, why does one parent get comped by the other? That's a question for the courts, I'm sure there are 10s of 1000s of pages of legal doctrine and precedent, but I'm not a lawyer Do you think that the working dad somehow has fewer expenses than the non-working mom in terms of child support? What is this working and non-working scenario you've introduced? Do you wanna talk about gender, income, job status, expenses? You've introduced a new factor here. This fairytale land where …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:11 AM
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Not sure I fully agree w this but why is what happens at the earlier stages of dating relevant exactly? Like even if this were true why does it matter? Either they break up in which case who cares, bad couple/match Or they stay together and it doesn't matter, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:04 AM
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Do you know the thing about experiments? Unless their able to elicit the same results repeatedly, their conclusions dont mean much. You can tell something is from the era of quack psychology whenever the psychologist includes themselves within the fucking study lmfao (think the prison experiment).Talk about neutrality and objective results. Also I can tell you've never taken a single psych class before because what part of someone who has a PhD in psychology pretending to be mentally ill success…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:34 AM
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Okay so your advice applies to anyone dating/being sexually active then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:25 AM
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Yeah then "improve your personality" is a dogshit advice. How did you come to this conclusion based on what I said? I'm not following.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:24 AM
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What traditional roles of men are you talking about, are you able to be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:22 AM
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This is the last time I am posting on Reddit. Why do you guys even waste your time lying and typing this shit lol women can adopt a baby out Point me to a woman who's breastfeeding and wants another baby. Rn. Quickly. Dont worry if she cant breastfeed she can just pay for the formula. Once again ignoring the social shame/ stigma and societal consequencesof women doing this besides that, just because there are greater societal consequences as you say, does NOT mean that women do not have to prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:21 AM
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...do you know how expensive children AND childcare are? Do you think people should be able to sire children and then...not take care of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:22 AM
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"I've had sex with over 50 women" x "marriage has been dead since women _______"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:21 AM
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Women dont have to prove they'll be good mothers because there are greater societal consequences for women, who must carry the baby to term, to abandon the baby. Also, women learn motherhood by trial and error like all parents, but the growing upnyour entire life knowing yoi can produce life + 9 month gestation period + soon imminent death if the baby doesn't latch to you every 2-4 hours gives women a lot more time to think/plan/prep to become parents in ways that men just dont HAVE to do if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:05 AM
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Well of course we think we're worthy of production. If you enter menses and that egg drops monthly we're automatically worthy. Its a club, you see. Members only.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:58 PM
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What traditional roles? Are you making the hunter gatherer gender argument thats been debunked?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:57 PM
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5: Wait are men not naturally attracted to what trad women do bc if some then all the manosphere chuds w podcasts are lyiinnggggg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:56 PM
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You're gonna have to explain #3 for the class/me bc I'm gully lost
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:54 PM
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Regarding #2 I think dad bod refers to Chris Pratt in his parks and rec days or even Ron Swanson but what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:54 PM
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...you think that older...married...women...like all three of those demogrpahics/traits...are on the sub my guy? Imo you could not bend reality harder to have come up w this conclusion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:50 PM
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manosphere mindrot babble is flowing like lava today I see 🌋🌋
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:47 PM
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Personality is a web/matrix and how you respond to it is different based on every individual you interact with...I don't think what you're saying is very nuanced at all. Also "town bikes" is just...wow. says so much about your views on the world lol This entire post reeks of bitterness but I guess this is the thread for that lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:44 PM
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I'm American, so yes I would google nude beach etiquette and have before as they aren't common here. I've also googled "adult only resort etiquette" , bdsm munch etiquette", "bsdm dungeon etiquette" and "dungeons and dragons rules/etiquette (idk something about the dice rolling, roleplaying and dungeon masters is confusing lol) Because I'm not a fuckwad and I want everyone to have a good time. Watching someone break social rules is cringe and can be harmful to communities in some scenarios. I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:42 PM
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Right but thats also because men are supposed to be intiatitors in Western culture. But as receievers, women are also more likely to give a shot to someone who openly displays interest in them imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:37 PM
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We only have so many options bc y'all aren't very picky 🤧 its a circular argument. Chicken meet egg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:35 PM
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Check out my comment above it might explain why. If you dated someone who only ever talked about liking you because of your status, money, what you could give them, etc...do you think you'd feel confident and secure in that relationship? Remember, tha bulk of their positive comments about you make mention of your income, possessions, what you can do for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:34 PM
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Exactly, and man making a pass at you sexually or even calling you beautiful in the streets is literally making remarks about you based on your physical vessel and nothing about you as an actual human being. Also saying what you would sexually do to me or expressing that you find my attractive in a public sphere is not the same as actual emotional validation and doesn't mean that those men want true romance or connection with me. Girls who get hit on and catcalled can still feel lonely/ugly. Esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:32 PM
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I dont think Number 2 says what you think it says.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:23 PM
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Why is the second piece of advice only aimed at women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:22 PM
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Are you fking kidding me 😭😭😭 can I have him when you're done? Sincerely, 5'9"* *I am willing to let a 6'0" woman line jump me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:21 PM
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Probably because you're comparing them to Lizzo for thr wrong reasons, like solely based on them being a plus sized Black woman, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:19 PM
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Spark can totally be manufactured. Have you never developed a crush over time towards someone you weren't intially attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:17 PM
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Or...wait, it only applies to men who aren't "cOnFiDeNt", right? No, men have the dominate power in society. "Fuck men/kill all men" means men as an entity, power structure, and oppressive force. It's like someone saying "fuck white people." It's not a solely a remark about individuals who are white, it is more about the concept of whiteness and racial superiority, history of racial violence and trauma orchestrated by white people en masse, as an entity in power, and supported/tolerated at a soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:42 PM
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Thanks for typing this out, great reply.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 05:53 PM
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Just because there wasnt a word for something before doesnt mean that it didnt exist. Also, words change over time. A word used in the past was probably "self-worth", decency, or self respect. Stepping stones to a concept like self esteem. Aka "any man worth his salt, a worthy man does X." You would be seen as worthy by others for performing in whatever gender prescribed way was relevant at the time. Also, this all cropping up in the 60s wouldn't be coincidental. The world was becoming more inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:44 PM
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So they're projecting that hateful men are projecting? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:40 PM
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They're saying you can't produce super hateful rhetoric unless you also have a large degree of hate or contempt for yourself. This tracks imo So you don't need to be a mindreader. Because they're already telling you how they feel about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:40 PM
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Can you explain your those at the top versus the bottom point more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:24 PM
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Yeah its our bodies and your desire to be a parent doesn't trump our desire to not be parents AND not cook a baby to completion and break our bodies getting the thing out. You have the right to remove a parasitic tumor and so do we. Women got the right to vote in 1920. White men have been voting since 1775. And white men decided that women don't need to enlist for the draft, so don't blame women lmfao These shelters exist because women are more likely to be KILLED from intimate partner violence …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:23 PM
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This was so evident in the "I wouldn't let my girlfriend be my landlord, but I can be her landlord" thread that presented the scenario: would you move in with your homeowner girlfriend if only her name was on the mortgage? A few sensible guys said "yeah ofc I love her and we're saving $$" but a lot of guys didn't like the scenario
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 08:00 PM
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Good analogy
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 07:57 PM
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Yeah that comment still stands lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:42 PM
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"Most women on this thread"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:03 PM
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Do you know how expensive childcare is? It can be pricier than rent/mortgage in some states depending on your situation. Easily. All of the perks that exist in the SAHM scenario exist in this scenario. So why wouldn't women be open to it? Would you be open to being a SAHD, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:40 PM
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The premise of the question is about which settings are appropriate. Grocery store isnt. You can bitch and moan about it but most WOMEN in this thread have already said its not appropriate. Nothing you say, think, or want will change that. You can take that valuable information and use it, or continue to ignore it and be...just as "successful" w women as you are today. I'm not sure why you're still arguing that point as we've both expressed our thoughts on it already. Its not adding anything to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:17 PM
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The issue is how men respond to the no thank you. Whats not clicking And the argument is about which settings are appropriate for a cold approach, pbffr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:28 AM
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My original statement was "these settings are weird because women are busy/preoccupied/task oriented and doing our own thing and its also hard to get away from undesirable people who are trying to solicit you." But if that's what you took away from my statement that's your interpretation/prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:48 AM
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I said this is why women don't like cold approaches. You don't know what you're gonna get. Its a mixed card. You may be sane but the next 5 men who solicit us might not be. At LEAST every 1/10 men will act aggressively/rudely if you don't accept their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:52 AM
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I listed 4 categories of men who are difficult to get away from in public. You're choosing to hyperfocus on 1/4 for some reason. Whats not clicking? What part do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:52 PM
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...I didn't say you said it was okay. I said this is what women experience and in these settings its hard to get away from men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:42 PM
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For some reason some men would rather listen to men about how to approach women instead of listening to women, who are the ones being approached all the time and can tell them what they're doing wrong. Wgo and hardheadedness. Can't explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:12 PM
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No, these places are weird because like everyone else, we're there with an objective/task. So we oftentimes can't leave/get away if you're creepy, aggressive, socially incompetent, or can't handle hearing the word "no."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:01 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:59 PM
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So you men who have causal sex not feel powerful, too from that lens?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:34 PM
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If it doesnt happen enough because less women are interested in causal sex compared to men. Men might be open to casual sex and/or a relationship etc. But most womens interests rates in causal sex are less than men. The risk for casual sex is also much greater for us and the societal shaming for being sexual falls solely on our shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:33 PM
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This is just false and wrong hahahah I promise you some women care more about dick size, proximity, attentiveness etc than looks Also I've had double digit fwbs. Only 1 was incredibly hot. Average women are fucking average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:29 PM
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Yeah your "refuting" isnt engage with an argument its just being obstinate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:16 AM
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Also, I'm not saying all men are nerds, I was just giving examples of things men spend money on that some might seem frivolous. I could have said Steelers tickets and Coors Light memorabilia but idk anything about sports and beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:32 PM
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You didnt call the argument stupid. You didn't address the argument. You just attached "feminazi" imagery to it. Triple quotient intelligence, huh? Your last paragraph is so friggin patronizing that it's funny lol "I'm cueing you" to abandon this argument aka "I can't refute your argument so please pivot to something less scary I hate losing!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:27 PM
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Ah. Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:22 PM
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Where did you address the argument in your "poking fun" lol You tried to delegitimize my argument with weak attempts at insults, but you didn't address it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:22 PM
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Enjoying and consuming media is...devolving? Also, do you think all animes are marketed created for children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:21 PM
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Its literally the exact opposite in my experience. As an adult you get to invest in your childhood interests and hobbies. A bunch of crazy Pokemon bidding happened in 2021 and 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:20 PM
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You're old enough to pursue a masters so I assumed you knew what Gundams were. Sub it with "rare Pokémon cards, anime figurines, and FunkPop dolls"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:09 AM
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I directed you to your comment in another thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:56 AM
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Re-read the first 2 sentences since you're having trouble keeping track of threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:55 AM
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You called my "speech" that. What was your intent behind those words? Am I misinterpreting compliment here? /s As I said, you aren't arguing in good faith. You won't even own up to your feeble attempts to offend me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:53 AM
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Where did I say I wanted to drive them out? I literally listed positive emotions and just said they're like air and that they "just are." Do you wanna accuse me of trying to get rid of oxygen too? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:50 AM
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Right, I forgot that you're "debating me" "because you dont care what I think" as you said in another thread
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:45 AM
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Rosie the Riverer, Suffrage, blue haired whatever the fuck was just said for flair and not insult then? Gotcha /s "I'm 3x your intellectual quotient" I LOVE when yall go ape shit with the meaningless patronizing and feelings = "facts" shit lol its so entertaining please never stop And my entire point is that a gf being her bfs landlord shouldn't matter but many men wouldn't accept those positions bc they dont want to yield power But yes dismiss my many examples about male voting rights , us pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:37 AM
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Then what would you call gundam collections and anime body pillows hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:36 AM
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You operate within the agreed upon boundaries of conduct while in a relationship. Because you're not just representing yourself anymore. Your actions reflect onto your partner and how people perceive you them and you in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:35 AM
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Wow, this take is so nuanced /s 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:34 AM
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Phuckin freely, but this works for all genders
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:33 AM
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Okay my argument still stands but maybe we're saying the same thing. You say emotions run the world and I say emotions are just a part of, or tax of, living in this world. They just are. Just like air just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:30 AM
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I'm definitely not trying to change your mind. You're too committed and therefore too far gone imo. But maybe the casual browser will reflect and have a diff conclusion. You also said that the last woman saw you a specific way, but if you carry that and harbor it in you, that affects how you see yourself and your capabilities navigating the dating world. Also, are men not manipulative, selfish, and cutthroat? We just talked about school shooters, family annihilators, and manifesto fucks. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:27 AM
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Sounds like you're at the end up the line with your argument, lol. Maybe next time, champ. You "dont care" and yet here you are, continually replying...to me...about this...astounding Side note I love when people lose arguments, so they just crumble into attempting(??) to insult you. Classic sign of submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:11 AM
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Emotions dont ruin the world. Emotions just are. You're forgetting that positive emotions exist: excitement, orgasm, attraction, delight. Also, plenty of women face sexual harassment, invalidation, bullying and sexism at the hands of male bosses, but okay, lets play in the anecdotal evidence tide pool for a bit. Ever think that men treat you better because you're a man/bro lol There's a reason this shit is called a boys club.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:10 AM
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Okay but do you see how all of those worries stem from internal self esteem issues and a lack of self worth? They speak volumes about how YOU see YOURSELF, yet you assign this viewpoint as one women might have towards you to deceive or take advantage of you. Every guy in a relationship is a chump being cheated on and taken advantage of? You're the only smart guy in the world dodging the manipulative wiles of women?. You can list all the things you don't have to worry about, but its also importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:00 AM
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I reject your premise, and I'm saying even if it WERE true, if you were actually arguing in good faith, you'd examine why. The roots are still patriarchal. And you're the one who wants to die on this hill, so you should at least examine why these women you seem to have so much contempt for act the way that they act. Who looks at the supposed end result, complains, then staunchly declares that they refuse to examine things from the beginning? Its not a debate or argument in good faith. You're lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:40 AM
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You said women are too emotional to be trusted, implying that men have the "right" amount of emotion to be trusted. But I just gave a bunch of societal examples in which male emotions hurt individuals, societies, and communities and have done so historically, often ending in a loss of life. So are you sure they're really the less emotional ones bc they're def not regulating their emotions from a history of mankind standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:31 AM
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Why might women historically be drawn to economic attractiveness? Get your head out of your ass and open a gender studies book lol No idea what correlation you're attempting to make between woman earning pay and eligible bachelors Women date down literally all the time, its just not always in the realm of finances PBFFR
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:27 AM
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"We shouldn't value womens discretion" "women are way too emotional to be trusted" This is why you're single and struggle in your relationships with women, btw. Women are just people. Women make decisions with the same exact neurological structures as you. You're acting like we're brain broken meanwhile you sound hella brainbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:25 AM
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The fact that you think men are not emotional and furthermore that that "fact" makes them more rational and therefore more equipped to problem solve...the premise and baseline assumptions I reject fully lol Have you met men lmfao Yeah, lets give the nukes to the emotionally stunted man babies who cry at sports games and can't even remember their kids' birthdays. Oh, and they can't stop trying to sexually assault anyone whose skirt happens to land above their knee. Btw their insurance rates are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:13 AM
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Yeah are are you still ignoring the historical context of this +25 year study? If you're in the US, this shit reaches all the way back to the US Constitution when only white landowners could vote. That's our starting point for personhood in the US. That is who has historically always been a person alloted inalienable rights a throughout US history (I don't know other nations histories). So we need to start with white men in 1787 if you're in the US and start examining WHEN different demographics…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:45 AM
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Hm. This rationale falls in line w some peoples ideas about dates. I sometimes see women saying that whoever asks the other person out should pay, which transparently still favors women as not paying due to dating traditions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:36 AM
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Wait womens mating strategies are incompatible with familial success? Its the men going block to block to deposit sperm 🤣🤣 Even if a woman tries her DAMNEST she cannot conceive again whilst pregnant. Women are literally on the bench for 9 months if impregnated. They cant do anymore damage. Men are benched for 15 mins and can therefore do a lot more damage SINGLEHANDEDLY as free agents lol A woman fucks the entire block and has 1 child, maybe twins. A man fucks the entire block and has 30 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:31 AM
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Wtf is there a factory producing more people like you out there somewhere 😭😭🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:07 AM
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Yassss King I'll pay my rent in blowjobs, head scratches, homecooked meals and pantyless summer dresses please tyyyyy adds lingerie to cart 😘😘😘 In all seriousness my brother has done this for his gf in med school for like SIX YEARS. I was like, "Damn, maybe I should raise my standards" lol my brother does not like to spend frivolously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:06 AM
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The power structures they've created, invested in, and upheld certainly do 😖 Can't lie I do love 🍆 tho so imma fake fan 🤧🤧🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:02 AM
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Wait whats the 'that' you're referring to, I'm lost I think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:00 AM
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You can say that people dont like to put themselves in compromising situations, but men oftentimes expect women to concede in this realm to prioritize and protect male egos and male personal comfort at their own expense. There are men in this very thread who have voiced oppositiom to this sceanario saying that they'd never let themselves be put into this situation and their reasoning is all centered around power, however, very few of them choose to use that word. There are men saying, "I'd never…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:59 AM
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Is a feminazi anyone who disagrees w you or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:50 AM
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What "laws everywhere" are we talking about again? Cite your sources for the class, don't be shy. Also there are men in this thread expressing exactly what I've said, just from a mens pov-- take a scroll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:48 AM
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I love how yall give your literal musty opinions and always claim its objective "truth" lol never gets old Never heard these stats about men leaving relationships before but I think the prevalence of single parent, female led households probably speaks otherwise Women are more selective from the jump, usually if we're upgrading its because men arent actively parenting/helping to run the household and your competition is. Also, men are more likely to leave committed, but aging and terminally ill …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:43 AM
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Are women "literally" hypergamous or is it that women didn't have the resources, rights, or power to be single property holders until the mid 1800s 🤔🤔 And now with a college diploma equalling what a GED meant in the 50s, women are more educated and able to step into their rights, invest, and own in inherit property that they were literally BLOCKED from doing for millenia? Men only have more resources because they've had MILLENIA to acquire inheritance and property purchasing power, as well as LI…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:39 AM
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The premise of the scenario doesn't make too much sense with that background, does it? Y'all love to act dense lol Also the scenario is that you're doing this to split costs and bills, implying you want to spend less money on housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:26 PM
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The voice of reason and common sense 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:14 PM
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Smells like projection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:13 PM
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In what universe is your partner asking you to live in their house with them a sign that they don't see a future or shared future goals with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:13 PM
3

So if you were a homeowner and had a gf of say, 3 years...you wouldn't ask her to move into your house with you? You'd expect her to live at home with her parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:11 PM
2

Baseline assumption: women are unhinged Write that down!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:10 PM
1

Glad someone was honest and outright said it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:09 PM
1

What do you mean? Why would you "not worry" when living with the mens family? The scenario isn't about living with families. It's about romantic couples living together as a pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:09 PM
2

The rules aren't being changed. It's clearly a scenario where the woman is the homeowner and you aren't. Its called a hypothetical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:07 PM
5

Its because men want the power to trap women financially and legally and to have the power of the head of household. Many don't want partners. They want live-in bang maids. And most would never put themselves in a compromising position willingly where they might not have the power or finances to leave someone. They're self-conscious, have low self esteem, and are insecure so they need to have that power over their partners to feel like they've got something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:06 PM
3

I could write several dissertations about mens emotional and fickle nature, as well as sexual strategy. PBFFR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:01 PM
2

I think what you actually mean is: "As a man I prefer to have the power in the relationship, and I would never willingly wield that over to a woman, especially not in the realm of my accommodations. But I expect women to do this for me."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:00 PM
2

Define "expectations to do things I don't enjoy" pleasw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:58 PM
1

Hmm, with all the baby mamas, children in multiple households, and secret families/wives....we def care about their pasts lol
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 06:06 PM
1

Wait, are these female friends you made organically or are these women in your friend circle because they are dating your other male friends? Bc imo that is a different type of female friend. That wasn't quite intentional or sought out friendship.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:01 PM
1

🫂
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:58 PM
3

What's the worst thing that happens to you if you try therapy, btw? Oh wait, it's nothing. Literally nothing. Maybe a few wasted hours and $$s. What's the potential reward? Becoming a better and healthier version of yourself who is more self-assured and introspective. Gaining a better understanding of yourself and your outlook, learning about your potential blindspots, areas of needed growth, and having a trusted connection with someone Low risk, high reward. Give it a try. And btw, women like m…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:55 PM
3

This isn't relationship anxiety. This is a personal insecurity and a self-worth issue. All of your fears, everything stated here revolves around the premise of you not being good enough to maintain a woman's attention. Get into therapy ASAP. You make A LOT of false and toxic assumptions here, and I can def see the redpilled roots. The idea of a woman leaving her partner because she makes a higher salary...is that the kind of partner you'd even want? It's not. It's also not realistic. Please put …
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:44 PM
0

Read OP's last sentence. It clearly doesn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:34 AM
0

What does my seller profile have to do with my personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:33 AM
2

You seem like the type of disillusioned person who should not be giving advice on this specific post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:18 AM
1

Plenty of women like hairtmy chests, a bit o' fluff and belly, and strong powerful thighs and arms. Beards are also ideal and attractive for man women. BFFR. Lots of women like Dad bods (this ranges from Nick Offerman to Chris Pratt btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:50 AM
8

YUP
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 07:05 PM
5

I feel like this is the most nuanced perspective I've seen on this subreddit
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 08:53 PM
3

Blame, as Brenee Brown explains regarding the clinical perspective, is "the discharging of pain and discomfort". It is, in essence, a coping mechanism for people who are not resourced enough to begin the process of taking responsibility for their suffering, so the response to being overwhelmed is to "offload" some of that "pressure". Blame effectively does this - it makes someone or something else responsible for circumstances we may feel powerless to change. Damn, wow!
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 08:50 PM
3

male sexlessness of the bottom 20% of men is justified because 100% of men were never meant to pass on their genes. I'm dead, I love this point
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 08:49 PM
1

I screenshotted the guys, no presentation yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:29 PM
1

Yeah but most women don't wanna meet irl with someone who can't put any effort into crafting a bio. There are entire groups and forums dedicated to discussing womens experiences on dating apps on multiple social media platforms i have a presence on. Obviously, the most vocal and likely active women are on these forums. If a man can't even give a damn enough to promote and sell himself am I supposed to trust him to give me an orgasm or be a good communicator or potential love interest? Nah. Why w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:10 AM
0

Yeah I hate that shit. Blank bios go left unless you're incredibly hot (not A&F, all american boy hot, either my own brains version of hotness lol) and even then you go left 60% of the time bc we likely aren't going to match anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:44 AM
2

Eternal Sunshine, Scott Pilgrim Versus the World-- I'm thinking manic pixie dream girl tropes? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:59 PM
-1

Dude establishing a hoetation is hard and theres lots of trial and error even if you possess a vag :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:56 PM
1

Yeah the fact that its even a debate for you to get involved in the problem. A room of 9 women, hell even 3 women would say something and stick up for the 1 girl getting harassed by one guy. Why wouldn't you get involved? There are 8 other men aside from you and the abuser. 8 other men who can intervene and say "this isn't right, stop." and yet all too often men act powerless when these scenarios play out in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:43 PM
6

Yeah but why does this turn into womens fault. These threads also devolve into aggression towards women for having countless options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:37 PM
2

Tinder, Bumble or Hinge? Pick your poison. I'm commuting so I might not be able to get to this now. I'm sure this could be a ppt presentation tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:35 PM
2

Where is this 80% number coming from? Also my standards differ from lots of other women I'm fairly certain. I know certain standards of mine are much higher and also much lower than other women as I'm open to both casual sex and a serious relationship at this time. I'm also only want to be fwb with folks who have similar values with me or who appear to be high libido. Its a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:38 PM
1

Yeah thats weird tbh its sad that that girl didn't have family and friends around her that could recognize the signs or that she could disclose her situation with. She needed people around her to protect and shelter her. Its nice that you two did that, but very different from the example above. Also thats how abusers work. They isolate you from friends and family and wear down your self esteem. You literally have been trained and conditioned to feel useless and unlovable without them. Its a tact…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:35 PM
1

Yeah but it makes me wonder if these men are in these forums complaining about 1-3% match rates. Its so astoundingly common, it boggles my mind. Like why even download the app, it would appear that they're just there to look at girls? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:41 PM
2

Line 1- all facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:38 PM
2

Agreed, just outlined a short formula above about the 9/10 men who think women are overgeneralizing them as creeps and how their complicity enables future bad behavior from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:35 PM
1

Btw, we walk away thinking "men are jerks/useless/not worth the time" because while only 1/10 men in the room harassed us: 2 looked away and acted like they were deaf/mute/blind 3 just watched and looked embarrassed for their sex 2 looked like they would harass us in a different setting if given the chance 1 thinks that post-attack is the right time to try to cop our # MAYBE 1 spoke up to try to help diffuse the situation So it is not just the men who are actively being oppressive, entitled, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:34 PM
4

This is the first time I've heard a guy agree with me/concede on the point that right overswiping leads to inflation!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:26 PM
1

Women avoid for all sorts of reasons including mistrust of apps, fear of jeslously/competition, bad past dating app experience, taboo of meeting thu a "hookup app", concerns for physical safety and sexual health (what if a guy is lying about how many girls hes sleeping w) There are so many reasons why there are less women on apps. Men can already act creepy, entitled and overtly sexually inappropriate in person. Now imagine encountering that but your aggressor is behind the safety of their own p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:25 PM
1

Imo you are assuming here that women rate men the same way that men rate women. I am constantly seeing women lower their standards to be with men and its honestly stunning to still see men complaining that we should lower our standards even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:21 PM
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I never understand this point. Ive heard countless guys say that they swipe right on everyone but then they bitch that girls get 100-1000 matches a day. The problem has always sounded like mens standards and behaviors to me. Its literally yall inflating the market and providing us with the luxury of excess choice through over right swiping because yall dont care and your standards for choosing to engage with women are often low and superficial. Then you whine about getting lost in the crowd and.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:20 PM
4

Hehehehe trueeee
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:11 PM
4

I would say a good 20% of men on tinder have blank profiles. Meaning pics loaded but zero text. I instantly swipe left on stuff like that. Women have a lot of shared instant red flags which might sound really arbitrary to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:11 PM
3

Yup.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 10:15 PM
12

Do supermarkets and fast food restaurants prey on hungry people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:17 PM
1

It wouldn't be hard for her to find a husband...plenty of strippers, escorts, sugar babies and phone sex operators are partnered... I think a guy would be looked at strangely if he said he was seeking rub and tugs at the local massage parlor (trafficking is more likely in that situation). But meeting up with an appropriate provider in a consensual setting? Who cares-- obviously there is a market of available clientele because these women are making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:16 PM
3

Society. Lack of seeing the men in your life value the women in your life growing up. Your parents not explicitly teaching you to value women and what that does and does not look like.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 06:12 AM
1

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:47 AM
2

Yeah I'm saying that in extreme cases men act violent out of entitlement. Thats why I specifically said in "extreme cases" above
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:57 AM
2

I didn't say that men snap more than women do, I said they are more prone to violence when they do snap in extreme cases, which you appear to agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:25 PM
3

Glad you saw the light, friend. The preying on broken and disillusioned men is 100% correct.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 09:51 PM
2

Okay but women have bad dating experiences as well. And they don't do what men who have bad dating experiences do. We don't have female Elliot Rodgers posting manifestos online. That is because there is often a degree of entitlement that men feel they are owed something sexually and romantically from women and society at large. Men literally mourn and rage because they feel they have been denied something that was promised to them. And in more extreme cases they then get violent. Women do not ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:06 PM
1

So zero force. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:16 PM
3

Cap is not consent lol Its literally work or die
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:41 PM
1

Gov mandated gfs, I'm dying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:41 PM
-1

Usually we're saying that they're entitled because there is something in the language they are using that indicates entitlement. No one is mocking anyone for wanting love, intimacy, and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:39 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:37 PM
1

You likely wouldn't try to marry someone who has different sexual values w you. Just like how you and I disagree on sexual values. You seem to think your insecurities about measuring up to other men your partner has slept with is universal for all men. I think its common, but not as universal as you are acting. I do lots of tinder and bumble dating. I've never once had a guy ask me about # of people I've slept with. I have dated and am open to dating Dad bods and most women I know do as well-- w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:32 PM
3

See, you just did it! You just did the dehumanizing thing. Women are giving you their opinions. But you're labeling our opinions as "talking points" as if we're some sort of monolith. You're literally complaining that you don't understand women and then FIGHTING actual women for trying to explain shit to you. And then you sit there and wonder why you'll never understand 🥺 Listen. To. Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:07 PM
4

Lol I just decoded what you actually said above. Great tactic, though. The calm rational male always keeps his cool tips fedora
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:04 PM
3

Well you clearly haven't ignored me, so you're off to a great start already. There's nothing compelling to say, your argument is shit and even most of the men here don't agree w you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:03 PM
3

Cosigned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:59 PM
1

Its men giving them that attention and following them on social media so idk how your logic is to blame women for that. Take it up with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:57 PM
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From the way you're describing women, yes, it does come off that way. You sound like a loser who has never left the basement based off of the conclusions you've presented here today my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:56 PM
3

This is a very charitable analysis of men. Most of yall are just thinking w your dicks actually, which you are well aware of. You're just repeating dumbass manosphere talking points. "GUYS I CRACKED THE CODE-- WOMEN ARE ILLOGICAL AND OVERLY EMOTIONAL AND ITS ALL THEIR FAULT. THERE'S ZERO WORK TO BE DONE ON OUR END, THEY'RE THE BROKEN DUMB IDIOTS." smiles proudly Grow up and quit with the Andrew Tate talking points. You sound like a 12 year old. If women are so illogical then get out of line and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:55 PM
1

Why does any universal phrase exist. This is such a weak argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:50 PM
0

Height totally matters for men as well, are you kidding? A lot of men would be slighted and less masculine dating a significantly taller woman. Have you ever seen those couples where super tall men pair up with super petite and short women? My theory is bc it makes them feel even taller lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:49 PM
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Confidence is really the most attractive thing. If you feel and act like an ugly ducking, people will also subscribe to that. Every girl I know has slept with a guy who they normally wouldn't because they were funny, charismatic, passionate, or the life of the party. But sure, srop trying completely and then complain about how impossible things are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:44 PM
1

Cosigned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:39 PM
0

Cosigned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:39 PM
4

who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:39 PM
1

You seem to view women as a foreign species that is completely seperate from men. So of course you're having trouble dating women-- you don't even see us as human. Plenty of men are fickle, flaky, and indecisive. Girls get ghosted after makeout sessions, sex, amazing dates. Please join reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:38 PM
1

Inbalance? What the hell are you even talking about? Adults dont care about that shit are you f-cking 5 years old? Jfc. Feminist spaces def care about women's actions lol the left is literally always eating itself 3 is your opinion Idk men get Dad bods and No Shave November. Its up to MEN to create body positivity in real life and online. That's what women did. For themselves. Its up to MEN TO DO IT FOR THEMSELVES.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:08 PM
1

Does that make it any less shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:45 PM
2

Does that make it any less shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:30 AM
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No ones sexual history is anyones business. Get tested regularly and have safe sex. There are conversations about older women being predatory towards younger men. If you were actually in feminist spaces you might be aware of that. The body positivity comment is just...your opinion, congrats. Dont even care to about your opinions about ethnicity. Height, yes the current beauty standards can benefit men, too. Should we call it glorifying height and men are trying to shame women into accepting thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:23 AM
1

Last sentence: "Is it still his wife's fault for not choosing better?" That was the prompt you provided to "the manosphere."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:59 PM
2

How did you manage to blame him cheating on the wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:12 AM
1

Your point about men perceiving politeness = interest is 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:04 AM
4

Women get approached by men a lot more than men get approached by women. So yeah, we're tired. And no one owes you niceness. You are not entitled to nice interactions from anybody, esp if you are interrupting their day. Men interrupt women's days a lot more than women interrupt men's days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:02 AM
4

Yeah, but before GIFS and videos existed or were even commonly accessible Playboy and Hustler mags were flying off the shelves as top sexual literature for men, or maybe just top mens magazines in general aside from like Sports Illustrated mag I'd imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:20 PM
4

I like this take!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:18 PM
2

Yes & yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:17 PM
15

YES. The seperation between physical & sexual attraction is real!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:16 PM
3

That too, its such a dishonest argument. We've literally seen footage of soldiers' mothers breaking down on camera over the loss of their sons. Obviously the war is real and the effects of the loss of life are real and salient. Posting young women vs dead soldiers is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:26 PM
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You already get extra benefits and privileges inherently by being male. This is why words like sexism and misogyny exist. To describe systems and concepts in society designed to benefit men. Also insert evolutionary biology answer about human gestational periods, human child development and breastfeeding averages for adult human women. Add in legal studies about parental custody arrangements rates and you get the gist about why women aren't inscripted into combat. Btw, are you also advocating fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:51 AM
0

Note: Dating apps are NOT completely safe (for anyone). Plenty of people get unsolicited dick pix, experience online harassment, and even stalking. I understand you have an argument to make and its definitely a safer alternative to other forms of dating. But its also a lot easier to end up in conversation with an unvetted psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:50 AM
0

Honestly so many men are committed to these false narratives and realities that they've created in their heads about what women have done, what theyre owed and what they deserve, etc. So much bitterness they've developed over non-real things. I agree, its not worth the time and energy to convince anyone anything. Just live life and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:18 AM
2

Why is his goal to have lots of sex with lots of different women? Like why is this goal specifically important to him jw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:02 AM
3

Paragraph #2 is wrong imo. And maybe confirmation bias from my perspective. Perhaps its your experience, but it doesn't ring as truth at all based on my experience. You seem to think that women think masculine men should treat them like shit. Therefore slighted men adopt toxic viewpoints to...treat women like shit in the way they "want" to be treated like shit by mirroring "masculine" men??? Like all I see is a weird negative feedback loop here. I dont know any men who treat women with good self…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:20 AM
2

jw, did your wife use to enjoy receiving flowers or pricey/flashy jewelry? Are y'all short on cash? Are there any external factors that might have led to a response like this?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 04:30 AM
1

not me being a self-professed ball drainer and personal shopper :')
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/22 04:27 AM
3

At least you're willing to admit it you said "relax" in spite. That's more than most folks can yield to. I don't understand nihlism. It is just "we;re on a floating rock through space so none of this matters anyway?" I should research this separately but philosophy stuff is kind of boring to me aside from the cave allegory shiz. I know there's good shiz there but I refuse to engage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:19 AM
-1

I didn't say "what are asking OP". I literally said that I fail to see the point of these studies and what these studies (not you, OP) are asking/suggesting/positing. Citation: "I fail to understand these types of studies. We already know that men tend to swipe more indiscriminately on dating apps. Is the complaint that women don't swipe as indiscriminately as men?" I was asking you to examine your position a bit as posting in a pilled forum about dating on tinder is kind of inherently complaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:17 AM
1

In short, I posted the question bc I wanted OP to answer (insert "Answer for your crimes, OP!" meme here). I was confused at your comment because I had assumed you had replied to me to defend OP's honor, ya know? Instead you said something really different and egalitarian from what OP said. I'm asking OP to internally investigate and challenge why he thinks it's women's responsibility to be chaste without holding the same expectations for men (big ask, lmfao). And you're over here giving him ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:05 AM
4

What makes you think I'm...not relaxed. You broke down my comments point by point and I...replied in turn. Weird. Yeah of course men shouldn't give a shit about what other people think (and maybe no one should) but they...do. So no solutions found here tonight. Back to the drawing board.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:55 AM
1

wait what's fuckzoning? like someone ghosting after using then for sex? Also if women are more likely to get "fuckzoned" by men then OP needs to be giving his speech to OTHER MEN. Not women. Do y'all blame men for getting "friendzoned" by women? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:50 AM
-1

Woman: starts 1 single sentence with "I feel" Man: "you went off about your feelings" I know that my opinions are not facts, hence leading with "I feel." You don't need to reiterate your point. I understand your point and I disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:46 AM
4

I didn't say or insinuate that men are socialized due to TV so I'm not sure where that's coming from. I think this happens in home and school environments from a young age. Sure, domestic violence is complex. But men are still the main perpetrators of it, so what's your point? I never said that the factors you listed were not reasons or contributors to the statistics. You're agreeing with me and justifying the agreement through your reasoning, which is fine. I wasn't talking about "beta" identif…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:38 AM
2

Okay, that's what you think. That is not what OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:34 AM
2

Your lesson is that tinder is useless for men. My lesson is that swiping indiscriminately is ridiculous and not fruitful. It looks like they swiped indiscriminately in the study and women had more matches, but thats also because men tend to swipe indiscriminately. So of course all the indiscriminate people matched with one another. Women do not just choose men based off of looks. Women do not swipe indiscriminately irl. There should have been a decent profile to accompany these "average" attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:30 AM
1

I didn't assume anything? I said that I failed to understand the point of these studies. Your comments were, "for the average man...its basically useless...its broken" + "happy hunting." Seems like a complaint. Also, are women prey to he hunted? I feel like these surveys tell us things we already know and tend to solidify the concept in mens minds that womens standards are too high or that women are too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:25 AM
3

I fail to understand these types of studies. We already know that men tend to swipe more indiscriminately on dating apps. Is the complaint that women dont swipe as indiscriminately as men? How do we take into account the different types of behaviors that men and women exhibit on dating apps? My guy friends all joke about how they just swipe right continously without reading profiles. Even my male friends who claim to want genuine romantic connections don't read profiles. Even the ones who just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:11 AM
9

I didnt say that men should be mindreaders. I'm saying that men as an entity seem to think the "absence of no" = yes (because it benefits them to think as such). Obviously a man can be confused about signals. Men are human beings. But men are also socialized to feel entitled to womens bodies and to intentionally ignore women's boundaries. Thats why domestic violence, sexual assualt, groping, molestation, and cat-calling happen. Obviously any gender can be an offender. But men are disproportionat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:25 AM
14

Guys do understand hints. They just feel entitled to womens time and space and know that they can sometimes get what they want when they push boundaries. Because they care more about their wants than your discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:03 PM
2

The girl should be clearer (except women deal with the reality of physical violence for rejecting men every day) but Raphael should also understand that the absence of NO ≠ YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:02 PM
6

Why would you only teach girls not to have sex in the first month without having the same expectations for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:00 PM
1

Sis why u think im a male
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:28 PM
1

I listed 4 different things in agreement with OPs comment. So if you discerned "rage" (1/9) when I agreed with 8 other things...can't help you, sis.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:18 PM
1

sis
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:27 PM
5

YES! THIS IS THE ANSWER. yes. Insecurity, entitlement, rage, and revenge. So common.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 02:49 AM
1

Okay. Plenty of women want that, too. Whats your point?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 05:28 AM
1

Women don't feel the same societal need to plow through men tbh. Also a woman bragging about a high body count would be slut-shamed to high hell. Think about how sex workers and anyone working in any proximity to the sex industry is labeled a slut (OF girls, strippers, Hooter's waitresses). Women are not rewarded societally for being sexual. It is considered morally loose for women to be sexual and morally fine for men to be sexual.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:57 PM
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This is dumb as fuck to aim at women because all people struggle w dating, personal interaction, conversation, etc. Men LOVE to tell women to lower their standards and honestly it's tired as fuck. I'm sure there are a bunch of partnered people and happy couples that you've observed in your life. They all made it through the minefield of dating, so obviously this shit is not impossible and I'm sure most of them did it without lowering their standards. Learn from your mistakes and get better. Don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:39 AM
14

No And men say that to impress other men, not to attract women. They're also lying. And even if they weren't the reality of that would be psychotic.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:24 AM
1

Okay but why would they be sexually incompatible with a women who has slept with more people than them? Literally please explain how, definitively. What is the basis of the sexual incompatiblity? How is the conclusion that they are sexually incompatible come about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:34 PM
1

Great bc I was tipsy typing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:18 PM
1

Okay. But the issue is WHY are men in the example you provided looking for that specific type of woman. Your point seems to imply that women who are experienced in their twenties don't want LTRs at the same time men their age do...or something? It doesn't even make sense. Its literally just male insecurity about not matching up to the last dude. If you can't commit to a LTR because you know your GF has had other sexual partners in the past then you're literally just insecure and once again, want…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:15 PM
5

An experienced guy wanting a virgin is a hypocrite seeking "unclaimed land." He is looking for an conquest. An experienced man looking for inexperienced women is looking for someone to mold and manipulate. I dont think anyone has a problem w inexperienced people wanting to be with inexperienced people. The issue is that they want to lay stake in "virginal" or "uncorrupted" territory that they then lose interest in shortly afterwards in sight of the next conquest. Its predatory. Its literally say…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:26 AM
2

How does this statement add to the conversation? Rhumel just said that above.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:09 PM
3

I wish more men could see this response. A lot of women are really accomodating and open-minded for someone they like a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:42 AM
2

I'm a literal footseller so theres no need to discuss the importance of accommodating mens kinks to me lol I am constantly telling men that they should disclose their kinks. Most aren't a big deal and more women than one would think are VERY ACCOMODATING. Men will be happier finding someone in the same kink community as them and women are happy when they can please their partners sexually. I hear a lot from men who have closeted their own kinks and are miserable even though they love their wives…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:30 PM
9

Hmm, this is a good point! I have high libido for a specific person, not men overall. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:57 PM
2

Yess! Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:52 PM
2

I didn't say that I didn't understand the dictionary definition of the words you used. I said that I don't understand what you mean, what your argument is, why you feel how you do, or what you're trying to say with the words you used. You have a typo above.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:53 PM
5

Idk what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:21 PM
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They just don't see woman as human beings. Point blank period. They don't recognize us as fully sentiment beings with our own thoughts, amibitions, priorities, goals, faults, distractions, etc. It feels like there is very little desire to emphasize with and understand women as people. Men seem very focused on their own quests, checking off their boxes, finding what they want, and not interested in being interesting or fully formed people for the women that they claim they want to attract. I see …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:36 AM
4

Oop, that too lol
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 12:12 AM
1

For additional context, OP has also said that he isn't sure he's ready for a longterm relationship. Hes 35. That would likely be a huge red flag to a lot of women his age. LOTS of women are looking for long term stable partners starting as soon as 25. So OP is could in theory be like, 10 years "too late" for the casual dating scene. He's not because there are plenty of 30+ single women, but in theory lets say. His current dating pool IS restricted to available women his age who are also not look…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 09:03 PM
1

OP could be a virigin for 1000 reasons but it feels like you're trying to insinuate something else here. I'm not being paid to be here-- if I didn't think OP was genuinely attractive I would have just...not commented. See how that works? Its fine if you don't think OP is hot, but I do and I said what I said 💖💖💖 Also, you're asking a Black woman this question. I grew up in very white areas and didn't realize I was considered hot until I moved to a large, diverse city bc in my hometown no one was …
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 08:30 PM
3

YES 1000%.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 05:08 PM
2

Also, if you have close relationships with women as you mentioned below, than you do have chemistry with women. You have something about you that makes women want to be around you which means you've figured out something that 90% of RP'd men have not. Its either your humor, personality, wit, something that allows you to have close friendships w women. I don't know if I believe chemistry can be inspired but I think it can be organic Were you pretending when you made friendships w your female frie…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 05:04 PM
2

When you say, "never be loved ever again" does that mean you had a past situation that didn't work out?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 05:02 PM
1

Jealous prude 😇
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 05:33 AM
2

So well said
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:06 PM
3

I am so glad you are away from that relationship and your body is literal goals! I'm tryna get like yoouuuuu You didn't deserve the shit he said to you.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:04 PM
2

Omg yess!!! 1000% percent agree.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:02 PM
8

Hard agree
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:01 PM
5

I think you make a great point about control stemming for fear. You've given me something to think about and I think I agree! In addition: Only weak men are attracted to weak women. Rp'd men reveal this about themselves all the time without realizing it, even though they're obsessed with looking not weak. The majority of men openly looking for a weakwilled + pliable + submissive partners are looking for someone to exploit and manipulate. End of story. They are looking for easy prey. People who a…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 10:59 PM
1

Why are my panties wet rn? 🥵 But also, thanks for posting +1
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 10:50 PM
3

Your uncle probably just hates himself and his life and sees how full you are of light and potential. Misery loves company. He tried to indoctrinate you while you were young it seems. Glad you're seeing the light at the end of the tunnel with his mentality. He definitely noticed that you were getting attention from girls your age and threw a hissy fit about it. Kinda gross considering you're still kids, he shouldn't be worried about your business like that
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 01:21 AM
9

You're also the first poster I've seen (I'm v new here) that understands that you cannot attract women that you want a genuine relationship with by pretending to be someone else. You can not. You need to be yourself to find someone who is compatible with you.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 01:12 AM
5

Oh god rollo tony is such a fking clown. Glad you learned some valuable lessons here.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 01:10 AM
2

My comments on your rateme got deleted but thats fine, I was thirsting pretty badly You're literalllly hotttt holy shitt
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 10:11 PM
2

YOU'RE LITERALLY HOT, I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW 😭😭😭
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 10:03 PM
1

I actually love this comeback hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:59 PM
-1

It kinda sounds like you're the type of person to say it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:51 PM
2

Pretty sure gay for pay is one of the the top male porn categories and some straight pornstars have opened up about that fact that they do gay porn for money in documentaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:36 PM
1

You also dont have to project your limited beliefs and worldview onto me and come to the conclusion that I'm "just acting" and yet here ya are. Im not claiming that my friends are attracted to bums, I said that money is not the only thing that women in my friend group are looking for when dating. Our statements are not in disagreement with one another so its interesting that you found a point of contention there. "A provider is attractive" can be true WHILE "money isn't everything women look for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:17 AM
1

Why would anyone put on an act in an anonymous forum? None of us have to be here commenting. Why act?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:15 AM
1

I'm not saying why you do YOU think they're less happy. Your answer being: they told me so. I'm trying to ask WHY do you think they're less happy, as in what factors in their lives as women contribute to them being less happy than men in the same economic bracket?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:08 AM
1

Wdym? Did you even read my post? I didn't want more, so obviously being offered more was unappealing to me. We were two people who agreed to have sex only. His feelings voided that original agreement. And he was my friend, not a shameful thing. Also we had plenty of sex and our libidos matched. I just didnt want to take advantage of my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:28 AM
2

Those aren't partners. That's a man with his sugarbaby. And the reverse does exist, women are just not as flagrant with their displays. Cougars/sugar mamas definitely exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:08 PM
1

Holy f-ck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:22 AM
0

I am very romantically inclined and can attach very easily. Just not to him because I was looking for sex only and I was under the impression that he was as well. During this time period I had like 6 other tinder flings and no one else got attached the way this guy did. It had to stop, it was hurting someone who I had grown to care about. And the chemistry wasn't right ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:39 AM
2

I wasn't looking for a relationship. If I was looking for a boyfriend, different discussion. I was not looking for a committed relationship. I literally did not want or need more. I wanted and needed less while he needed more. Which is okay, but it made the arrangement incompatible. He claimed he wasn't looking for a relationship either, but a relationship was what he ultimately grew to want. There's nothing wrong with that, but it made us less compatible. We only agreed to meet up for sex. I da…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:32 AM
-2

I don't know what type of women you aim for, but very few of my friends care about income as long as the person they're dating has motivation, drive, passion, etc. Me and my friends have our own incomes so currently we care about whether or not a guy is a tender lover, would be a good father, knows how to cook or fix things around the house. We are looking for men who know how to divide labor equitably around the house. I think a lot of women would be willing marry a man who treats them well reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:49 AM
2

So, women fuck chads AND betas according to this example? - And during the same time period where gestational timelines align? - And they both look similar enough to pass each others' kids off as one anothers' in this unrealistic (let's be honest) sceanario?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:42 AM
2

Why do you think that rich and attractive women are less happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:18 AM
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oteReplyGive AwardShareReportSaveFollow level 3anonymous- pretty sure the "provider" in that fantasy wants to come home to a clean home, food on the table, pantry full, and likely wants to continue his legacy w a few jrs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:16 AM
1

lmfao, right! Women are living life on easy mode, yet they chose to choose to be men every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:15 AM
3

Men make money on OF, too, their audience is just primarily other men 🤠🤠🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:13 AM
4

I think she's more likely to get raped and victimized by the men around her, but sure, a Cinderella story could happen and any attractive poor person might try to use their looks to get ahead if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:12 AM
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An attractive rich woman will be able to hoe around just like a regular girl, but the population of men who she can actually look up to and respect will be miniscule. You can flip this around for men, too and the sentence is still true, "An attractive rich man will be able to hoe around just like a regular guy, but the population of women who he can actually look up to and respect will be miniscule."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:10 AM
5

your last sentence lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:09 AM
1

He was short but I've dated shorter men before. Like 5 diff guys who were shorter than me lol. I don't care about body type that much esp for casual sex and fun dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:16 AM
9

I'm not talking about "the one" when I say "the right person." I mean that we shouldn't try to force shit that isn't for us. You shouldn't be interested in someone who thinks that you're cringey and desperate when you're expressing genuine romantic or sexual interest. You want someone to match the enthusiasm that you have. Getting your dick wet shouldn't be degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:28 AM
3

I just made an argument above about how this wouldn't be advantageous from a genetic perspective so clearly that is still my stance, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:11 AM
3

Men can still compete til like 45 whereas for women it falls off at around 35 ??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:10 AM
1

You said that men are able to compete until they're 45. I'm asking if you personally feel like you are in competition with men in their mid-forties. And "why or why not" you feel however you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:04 AM
1

If you mistake normal friendliness for flirting, then no, you do not understand when someone is trying to flirt w you. That being said, sometimes people, specifically women can be excessively flirty for fun and to tease. That is definitely a real thing that exists and occurs and can be confusing to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:56 PM
2

I just explained why a woman wouldn't even want to date a chad in the first place. It's not advantageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:47 PM
2

What's the breaking news here-- that fat women hypothetically fuck? That men have "lower standards" than women? Your argument is FAT = BAD but here you are providing evidence against that. Yes, fat women are on the market. Yes, fat women have sex. If you listen to fat women talk, you would know that many of the men who denounce them in public are pining for them in private. The same thing happens to trans women btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:44 PM
1

r/MensRights Do you feel like you are competing with me in their mid-forties? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:39 PM
1

AntiFeminismAU Better off without idolizing OTHER men** bc that is what they are truly doing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:37 PM
5

Do you know what happens when catcalling by randos goes wrong--when we don't react the way they want us to, or if we ignore them? Encounter the wrong guy and you end up raped, assaulted, dead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:52 PM
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sarkington Sex w a different girl every other day is sex addiction and maladaptive and you shouldn't be jealous of someone who makes their body a living petri-dish for STIs. Also most women don't like have sex with strangers so this seems really exaggerated. It's funny how men will try to use evolutionary excuses to frame why men should cheat, or why they feel one guy gets all the women etc but fail to see things from a woman's perspective. Most women don't like sharing. Hoping onto community di…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:39 PM
-2

what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:29 PM
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It's not. And the "right" person won't think that you're being too desperate. Even if you are just seeking sex, the "right" casual fling won't think you're being desperate bc ideally they want to hook up as much as you do. When you worry about coming off as desperate, you start to come off as desperate. You have to do what feels right, normal, and natural to you. No bullshit xx-hr waiting periods. No bullshit negging. Just talk to people when you want to talk to them and don't when you don't. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:28 PM
5

They didn't mention sex so we wouldn't know, would we?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:22 PM
8

Yeah-ish w/ caveats. I was physically attracted to a fckbuddy, but not seeking a relationship as I was still getting over an ex. "Hookup only" (said in cuter way) was clearly stated on my Tinder profile. After ~3ish months of weekly sleepovers I knew that he wanted more, having sex and touching started to feel icky because I knew it was beginning to mean more to him than it did it me. Knowing how he felt and continuing to have sex would have just been using him. So we stopped but I know it was p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:21 PM
1

And from a fellow 27 y/o, we are still very much young. You're gonna wish you could kick your knucklehead self for saying this when you're 83. But suicidal thoughts and ideation is no joke, I'm not a medical professional so I can't offer help there. Have you ever called a hotline for resources before?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 12:20 AM
1

One last thing, it is evident from your language that you seem to kind of despise yourself. You don't sound happy with yourself and the list you've constructed speaks to the negative self image you harbor. You're asking someone to endure your company when YOU don't even seem to be able to endure your own company. How does that make an ounce of sense? You want people to find you attractive when even though you don't find yourself attractive. You have to work on your inner self before you can even…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 12:18 AM
1

Do you want to change? If you want to change, you will. If you don't, you won't. Change is scary. What we know is comfortable. You're going to have to abandon the impulses you've developed and lean into what is uncomfortable. You haven't said, "I want to change. I want to be a different person tomorow than I was today. You are in a downward spiral of rumination. You need to pick your head up, get out of your room, and actively be a different human being today than you were yesterday. Go for a wa…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 12:05 AM
1

Ty 😇 💕hehe
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 06:26 PM
2

I dont have an opinion here but maybe its bc so many RPs base their mental hierarchies about chads, beckys, sex, etc off of claims about evolution, strength, domiance, spreading seed. Like saying human men are ape brained so obv they feel entitled to sex and status and women or harems the way male apes do (which nature than equates to lots of offspring). I feel like these arguments are also used to denounce "loose" women. Women who are "used up"/have had lots of sex are evolutionarily more dange…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/22 03:26 AM
1

Unsolicited thought.... With those RP tactics you attracted Insecure people who were in many ways activated by your distant and unpredictable ways because its how they're used to being treated in relationships. Basically you were acting like a chaotic negging fuck, so you attracted Insecure people who are used to chaos and needed validation from external sources. Secure people are...secure. They don't need that. They had their needs met growing up and they themselves internally have everything t…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 04:20 AM
1

Journal Yeah, so the fact that these men are meticulously logging their interactions with women is creepy. This is what I meant when I said that women can tell that you are not looking to interact with them in genuine ways. Men who are running around logging this shit, trying to talk to a bunch of different women with the same rehearsed lines and scenarios (pretending to ask for direction to eventually tell someone that they're cute) it's giving very much predator v prey. Women can tell. Women c…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 05:29 PM
1

I think this is false. To me, that's like saying "there's no such thing as a common televangelist belief." The market that the PUA has constructed and the consumer base that the PUA community has attracted inherently assigns specific beliefs and mindsets to the community. You can literally see the same toxic advice and beliefs in viral PUA and "dating coach" vids online.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 05:21 PM
1

I am honestly not sure what you are complaining about. You said yourself that you have not tried to approach a woman or expressed attraction to her, ever. Yet you claim to not understand female sexuality. But how could you understand something you've never even tried to do before? It sounds like your confusion could be coming from conflicting information or trying to implement techniques from PUAs.You identify as having "zero success with women" but it moreso sounds like you're frustrated that w…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 05:08 PM
1

Wait, so you've never approached a woman in your life, ever (and I don't blame you, it's hard!) but you're convinced that Mystery is the best PUA ever. But you don't even have a shred of personal or anecdotal real life experience where you've but that belief to the test? If you believed his word was as true and effective as you say, wouldn't you be eager to try it out? I've also heard this critique of rp'd people before. An overwhelming feeling of loss and rejection, even though many do not even…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:11 AM
1

there's no such thing as "what pickup artists say". Do you not see the irony is saying " there's no such thing as "what pickup artists say" and then going on to recite what your fav pickup artists says for a whole paragraph or...
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:06 AM
1

I got 3 mins into the video you posted and clicked out. What you and other rp'd men see as logic and formula resembles borderline schizophrenic ramblings to normal women. The fact that a man has attempted to analyze, deconstruct and develop a formula for human interaction is CREEPY. The fact that you don't understand how that is a turn off is concerning. Men like you in the RP community claim to want "genuine connection or interaction" with women, but you go into interactions with women as if yo…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:05 AM
1

The root of all of this though is that you do not view women as people such as yourself. You see women as a foreign, alien species to decode and decipher. This is not the case and the men selling you the snakeoil make a pretty penny off of your insecurities. I'm curious: do you seek out social scripts for your interactions with men? If so, what resources do you use? And have they been successful in the past? You seem very married to the idea that PUAs have the answer and will lead to your succes…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 02:06 AM
1

I don't think that men understand that PUAs are not your friend. They are salesmen preying on your insecurity. They are not on your side. No one wants to be insulted in any sort of interaction. But if this "PUA" was successful at a drunk beach party in Thailand (edit: Brazil?) thru all his ramblings then good for him I guess?? There is no 3-second rule. There is no 3-minute rule. There is no formula. And back to my base thoughtL Your basis of assumption is flawed.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 01:59 AM
1

I didn't say that he was mocking pick-up artists in the video. The example at the time stamp I provided was a TikTok video of someone satirizing tactics that PUAs explicitly instruct men to perform. You don't need to explain what a PUA is to me-- assume I have the same set of knowledge that you do unless I ask for clarification (aka don't mansplain simple shit on exredpill community, c'mon now) further edit: your "awesome and recognized" experts are self-titled as such within your rp'd community…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 01:56 AM
1

I'm confused. You say you're demi and seeking a bond, but you have a fixation with virginity loss. Wouldn't you care more about having a loving relationship and partner overall compared to sex? Like, wouldn't finding a fulfilling relationship take priority over a concept like virginity at this time in your life? Edit: You can also have fufilling relationships with casual sex partners, but since you're seeking a mutual (I assume) bond it sounds like you would prefer relationship > just sex.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 01:35 AM
1

So I just said that women are not sets or collections of sexual switches. And that interactions are not Black+White. You didn't really engage with my point except to reiterate your past views. Edit: I am saying that I believe your basis of assumption is flawed. So going into interactions with that basis of assumption will always render negative results. I also don't see what this copy+pasted blurb has to do with my comment about trying to create formulas and hack dating
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 01:30 AM
1

In addition, would you want to be approached like this? The manipulation tactics are sad and tired. They show women that the man they're interacting with is insecure, malicious, and desperate.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 01:13 AM
1

Lots of bi and queer women and femmes don't give a fuck about gender roles. There are plenty of straight women as well. As a baseline, women care about having a partner who is safe, attentive, reliable, affectionate, equitable, and dependable. Notice how none of these traits are correlated with gender. Also, out a million women, 35% is 350,000 women. So, like, by your estimates, A LOT of women actually don't care about gender roles that much. Multiply according to your country's population.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:56 AM
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Thinking that their is a formula to "hack" human interaction Think that this formula will allow them to "unlock" a prize or "reward" --> that they are now "owed" something from a disingenuous interaction they had as a means to an end.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:51 AM
2

You are clearly looking for some sort of formulaic hack. But human interaction is not that black + white. You seem really deep in the lingo with this talk about "sexual switches." It's not healthy to engage with yourself in such a hyper-analytic way, or to think about your interactions with women in that fashion. You are a human being. You are not a collection of sexual switches. You are varied and multi-faceted. You should have interests, hobbies, friends, meaningful relationships in your life.…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:40 AM
1

They don't get women. They SAY that they get (or "bed" women), but if they don't. And even if they did they're definitely not mentally stable women their own age. The PUA community has been really successful at marketing to and convincing men to believe that their tactics work. That does not mean that the tactics truly work.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:36 AM
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they don't work. just because a pickup artists claims something works and wants you to pay to learn more (buy courses, e-books) does not mean it works. I find it so strange that men get dating advice about women from men that act like used car salesmen.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:34 AM
2

Women are responsible for rewarding the wrong men with sex Who are the wrong men? Please define "the wrong men" for the group. If the "wrong men" are having sex with right women (can we assume there is a right woman?), why is the onus of policing or punishing the "wrong men" being put onto women? Are men able to identify the "wrong men" the best? If so, how are the "wrong men" continually permitted access to the "right women?" Sex is not a "reward." Sex is a mutual connection between two consent…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 11:56 PM
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