kingpinkatya Archive

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1	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Your tl;dr literally proves my point. If you need permission to open a bank account you are not a full financial being with agency. This is encompassed in the sentence "women could open their own bank accounts" a single, unattached women could not open an account of her own free will which an single unattached male could. hence, women could not open their own bank accounts. If you need MALE PERMISSION to open a bank account, you cannot open you own bank account as usual misogynists prove the poi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 04:23 AM
0	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands I know this because I listen to divorced women on TikTok and women currently trapped in marriages with men who refuse to divorce them. People talk about their experiences firsthand, which can supplement statistical research and help explain some of the things we're observing. I'm not using the same logic as you. People cited reasons above why lesbians might divorce at these rates but it looks like you've chosen to ignore them and promote a reason that massages your ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 06:15 PM
0	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Have you heard the phrase "correlation does not equal causation" before? Truly wondering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 05:39 PM
3	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands this part ^	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 02:13 AM
-1	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Most men are too lazy to divorce lol their wife being unhappy is typically not enough reason for a man to divorce her	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 02:11 AM
-1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. whatever you say "sweety" "I'm so healed and evolved that's why I dont act like you bitter women" okay lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:30 PM
0	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. I'm sure women only seem "cynical and bitter" to him because he cant relate to our struggles if men typed the same thing he'd think they'd be righteous in his anger and understandably pissed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:11 PM
2	Reading dating profile bios doesn't make sense if you're a man If theyre low quality and not intentional who cares? When's the last time you craved a shit sandwich?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 07:05 AM
0	Reading dating profile bios doesn't make sense if you're a man When applying for jobs, do you not read most job descriptions because your likelihood of "matching" or being chosen by any single employer is low? Dating app bios are shorter than that and have pictures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 06:55 AM
14	The only criteria to loving a man. 😭😭😭 I'm sorry you posting this is genuinely so funny I have nothing of substance to add. its so candid, I love it feels like late night sleepover convo on girls night 🌙	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 06:55 AM
3	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? I just cited the year the relevant legislation could be found. Now it's your turn to engage with the legislation and decide if it's relevant to my argument or not. Or perhaps cite some legislation that backs up your point-- are you even making a point here? Are you not capable of Googling? I'm not sure how much more additional work I could do for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 11:07 PM
12	Women don't have better emotional intelligence then men. Right but its not like men handle the pressure better inherently because thet are male, they just handle it differently. Sometimes that looks like drinking excessively, gambling, OF addiction, being on video games 24/7 when not at wkrk, road rage, taking it out on their family or loved ones by being emotionally or physically abusive, etc Also your boss yelling at you or your workplace being toxic can affect men and women differently. A male boss is shouting at a man or a woman may feel different…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 07:21 PM
3	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? If you couldn't be bothered to read the first 2 sentences I cant help you. If you dont believe a source by an internationally accredited banking institution, that is your decision. No idea who MLloyd is, but you should tell him that the link to his CV is broken. Kind of hard to validate who the hell he is without it. See how I read the source you linked? You should try it. If there was no issue, why do you believe the Equal Credit opportunity Act was passed? Why do you think its cited as being i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 07:04 PM
4	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Women in Wealth Throughout U.S. History \| Chase https://share.google/XakVwa4sqabDkSknY	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 06:43 PM
2	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Which one of us doesn't know the rights again? I cited the rights above. You're the one who refuses to help yourself and Google your own question. I am not your free source of research labor. There are websites like that. You consider pointing out that there are free research tools as your disposal "getting bent"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 03:39 PM
6	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Did you mean to type this into Google or r/askalawyer? There is landmark legislation on these things if you are truly curious. Google and Wikipedia are free. The years are above for your reference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 03:31 PM
7	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? But when did women get equal access to all stuff? You should check out the years. It makes it easier to understand why politicians are looking to roll back women's rights. THEY'RE STILL BRAND FUCKING NEW Women couldn't have their own BANK ACCOUNTS until 1974. MARITAL RAPE wasn't made illegal nationwide in the US until 1993. You should really start Googling when women were allowed to enter the workforce, go to school, get "the same" income as men, etc. You may be surprised. We expect men to not e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 02:40 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Yeah I'm referencing your example of a friend sleeping with a rich/hot guy once. I think many women do have friends who do that or have done that themselves. And yeah guy fucking a hot guy in Egypt is a flex if hes beautiful are you kidding me? We're not trying to marry them, just get a taste lol If your friend went to Croatia and fucked a beautiful girl there for a week would they not be over the moon??	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 02:21 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Did you mean to reply to my comment or the guy above me? I think the 2-10 situation is the same as sugar baby situations. just mutually beneficial transactional relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 02:17 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Lots of people go to China and Korea to teach English so plenty of women go there solo on teaching contracts Conservatives outbreak other groups bevause theyre Christian fundamentalists and believe in Quiverfull theory. They believe its their job to overwhelm and overpopulate change public opinion and politics. A few visible figures are also pedos who want access to children and child brides without disturbance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 02:13 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Anyone who is outside the prescribed beauty norm endures this. Fat, black, brown, ugly, short, whatever. Its meant to be an exclusionary thing thats a blow to our self esteem. There are more of us than them since their standards is really unachievable for most and intentionally so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 02:08 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I'm not sure I understand this comment I'm just asking about the levels since you seem to think its an injustice or improper for 2s to tip the scales with money and good treatment	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 02:04 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards You're correct and men getting the same treatment overseas. But youre not correct about the Chad Stacy thing. I didnt start getting chased by Chads in the 6/6/6 with 6 pack range until I reached 200 lbs weirdly and not when I was skinnier. But I also weightlift and am in lots of majority male spaces so it night be a coincidence? Met most on dating apps though, its not hard when you live in a big city. This Chad Stacy bs always sounds like small town HS bullshit	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:58 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Yeah youre conflating banging hot men with marrying hot men. And then conflating marrying rich men. But maybe its because OP is talking about women having access to the top 2% of men so we might just be talking past one another. I'm just saying that women can pull a lot of different types of men, especially if they go somewhere where theyre deemed exotic. And most women know that they can kind of gain access to any space they'd like if they just tried hard enough. Look at Lauren Sanchez-- plenty…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:53 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Do they actually mean a "loyal" woman or do they mean a submissive and subservient woman? And what would a woman like that even ask them to change or challenge them on I wonder... Why do wives nag? If chores are done and equally distributed, if both parents are equally active and involved in their childrens lives, what is there to nag about? If both people are adults managing their personal and professional lives where does nagging come in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:51 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I feel like this kind of gets to the root of it. Women dont want to change for men who they feel dont see them as equal even though they make equal income and have the same education or higher. Many vocal men seem to want women as submissive and docile bang maids capable of bearing lots of kids they wont parent while also keeping their bodies from age 16. And men dont want to change for women. I dont think they want to treat women as equals or do the emotional work to have deeper relationships w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:42 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards What was the rest of his plan? Just a placeholder gf to soothe his ego til he finds something better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:35 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I think youre underestimating the range of men that the average woman can pull, especially if you travel abroad and are deemed "exotic" in a country. Even your average Becky can be seen as a little exotic in India, China, Korea, Turkey, Egypt, and pull higher numbers than back home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:34 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards So you believe that 2s should only have access to 2s? 10s to 10s, etc? Is this like assigned wife theory but without the forced assignment? Essentially you believe everyone would be paired happily at their own level if someone at their "own level" was available?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:30 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I wish more people would just accept realities like this. "If thats someones dating priority while they claim to be searching for a romantic/life partner then I'm entirely not compatible with them" and move on. let people be shallow. let people want to be spoiled. whatever. its fine to not be compatible with what other people want in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 01:27 PM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Most do so silently but many of the vocal women are on tiktok is ironic? Notice that you failed to engage with any of my other points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 04:24 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Why is going -cel anything the only option in your mind? Women form community and strengthen bonds. They fill their time going back to school, strengthening friendships, exploring new hobbies, traveling, etc. Most dont stew in hate. Most women who abstain from dating men do so silently. Tiktok is full of women who claim to do this. You'd find these easily if you simply looked. 4B movement is a thing in Korea which you'd also know if you bothered to research. As cited by potsmoking_princess below…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 05:42 PM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Tea App started in response to mens online dating behaviors and interactions from dating men. Its also not a hate group and isn't meant to enable or cause harm. Only expose truth. People who are not afraid of their behaviors being outted do not care about being on these apps. But men are using private apps and chat rooms to enable harm and exploit others, see Gisèle Pelicot in France who's husband arranged her repeated mass/group rapes via chatroom on the Coco forum	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 05:35 PM
2	If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage? Because women are expected to birth children for men and need the legal protections for themselves and their children	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 08:36 PM
2	If a Guy is Toxic, Women Won’t Entertain Him (Looks Be Damned). What? "Hot felon" is a nickname for that guy. Google it and see what I mean. I never claimed that was the headline. I said "Hot Felon" went viral because he did. I'm asking where you remember witnessing the example youre referencing. Youre saying you have a "gotcha" and I'm wondering if you recall where you got it from	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 11:44 PM
1	If a Guy is Toxic, Women Won’t Entertain Him (Looks Be Damned). where is this "gotcha"? are you citing like a buzz feed article or something? You also dont know how many women matched vs how many women reported the profile. hot felon went viral so the profile might have gotten attention for a myriad of reasons	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 10:42 PM
2	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better why do you hear "all men" when I say "men who struggle with" or "men who are incapable/unable to" or "incels"? I think its disingenuous to say that youre lonely and want connection but you wont even put in the effort to connect or relate to other men or build your support networks and community. being horny is not the same as chosen isolation and blaming women for it. I'd argue that incels dehumanize themselves. they want to forfeit and remove themselves from contracts of humanity and community …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 09:43 PM
2	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better What is dehumanizing about my statements? Pointing out that loners who struggle to relate to and put active effort into relating to people of any gender are disproportionately male? Have you been to the incel forums? Or had incel friends irl? Many are NOT INTERESTED in making male friends but complain about loneliness (they mean lack of SEXUAL, AND THEN romantic attention from women, though, not male companionship). When asked, a lot of these men admit that they dont have hobbies that get them o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 07:53 PM
3	How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name? Move on w life implies separately. OPS post doesn't specifically mention dating even though we're all interpreting it that way bc he asked the question to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 06:13 PM
0	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better I'd argue that women experience more violent rape and familial rape. They also probably experience more rape from teachers and mentors then men. Men do successfully commit suicide at higher rates than women so thats not a point of contention. I think both sexes can feel suicidal after experiencing rape-- women's only protection might be that we expect rape and while devastating, we still have more community because we know rape is common and know others who have experienced rape. Are mens rapist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 05:31 PM
1	Women don't know themselves or what they want some women like toxic men and some like more emotionally available men. welcome to Earth. women sre not a monolith. Sometimes you want chocolate and sometimes you want vanilla even if you know too many sweets are bad for you youre getting many different types of relationship interactioms mixed up here women are telling men online that stoicism is dumb and wont do them any favors (stranger to stranger) (friend to friend, casual interaction) women are asking their male romantic partners to open up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 04:50 PM
-2	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better maybe due to patriarchy, sexism, relationship abuse, incest, sexual abuse, rape etc women experience this all more then men lots of women were raised as domestic slaves growing up having to cook, clean and care for younger siblings while their brothers hust fucked off and got berated and criticized the entire time. or worse beat. rape, molestation, and incest is also very common. disturbingly common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 04:43 PM
7	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better That's also because a lot of these people posting haven't even figured out who to make male friends and connections yet expect female friends and connections and are confused why they dont have them They don't/can't relate to men and they dont see women as human beings. Just an abstract thing that will administer dopamine and emotional validation to them one day (even though they have little to none now and wouldnt be attractive to most women as a result)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 04:38 PM
8	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better Romantically lonely and socially lonely are not the same thing. (Most) friends don't hold you at night, kiss and caress you, tell you them love you daily etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 04:37 PM
0	I feel like dating apps are brought up a little bit too much in these discussions. Are they really that popular? "He had no bad experiences!" like omg the catfish who never showed up for the in-person potion of online dating has never had a bad online dating experience--bravo! we love that for him. this must be the true baseline for female dating experiences and all those whiny bitches online are lying! checkmate, atheists! just because he happened to swipe on men who didnt sexually harass his catfish or call it slurs doesn't mean that hes mimicking the actual online dating experiences of women en masse. h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:19 PM
4	I feel like dating apps are brought up a little bit too much in these discussions. Are they really that popular? What do you mean "no bad experiences" since it was a fake account the dates never actually occurred, correct? and since the catfish was fishing for dates, he was being amenable to whoever asked for a date or seemed interested, which is not how normal women date there was a guy who created a fake female dating profile and managed to secure multiple dates without any really bad experiences this is completely flawed and biased, luckily there are actual academic (self reported, focus group, survey q…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:21 AM
–	In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for good You haven't explained how/why this links to your end of marriage theory. Would you be willing to expand? It kind of just feels like you threw in that conclusion at the end without any supporting evidence or theory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 03:07 PM
1	What are the effects of women increasingly attending college more than men and them being on the path to start earning more in the future? Are you insinuating that my comment doesn't address that already? Did you mean to type this to OP? I didn't say, "and experts are stumped! there's no known cause to this phenomenon!!" OP is asking about society and gender so I'm assuming they know the word sexism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 06:28 PM
1	What are the effects of women increasingly attending college more than men and them being on the path to start earning more in the future? Historically, majority female fields are devalued. The first computer programmers and phone line operators were primarily women, but they weren't considered STEM powerhouses, just desk workers. Teaching used to be an all-male field but when women joined en masse and it became majority female, salaries sunk. WFH jobs used to be seen as lazy scam jobs for stay at home moms, only. Now everyone wants a WFH job, because who wants to leave the house if they don't have to. Now that college applicants a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 04:20 PM
–	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation OP are you well	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 03:34 PM
1	Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceable We have no idea because the friend wasn't told directly in this sceanario. All we know is that he made time 5x in the last but wasn't able to reschedule or communicate this specific week	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 05:24 PM
2	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men bio kids pull this line to shitty parents too fyi	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 05:10 PM
3	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men Hate to break it to you, but biological kids pull this line as well to deadbeat parents hahaha Blood won't save you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 05:09 PM
–	I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here. the amount of males who are single between 18-35 is higher than it ever has been in US history this means that the rate of single eligible straight females is identical~ish, right? But now women want guys to "check all these boxes" before they even go out on a date. This does not give men a fair shot. you'd only be upset about women raising their standards if you're afraid of not meeting those standards. Men having lower standards than women doesn't make men right or correct. Women seem more obs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 12:02 AM
1	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed why are you pretending that you don't know what "intteresting" means	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 12:51 AM
1	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. right, that's why your point above feels unrelated imo it's about not wanting to date bi men and weaponizing biphobia (and it's associated myths which says bi people have lots of sex or are sexually indiscriminate/slutty) not the actual sexual freedom of bi men imo, just a the potential threat to straight women as the only sexual partners for bi men I think it's more about not wanting partners who may enjoy penetration (because penetration is "feminine" aka WEAK aka LESSER [this is internalized …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 09:05 PM
5	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. I think they're just used to men being dogs and cheating with other women and know it's extra easy for men to cheat with other men + run of the mill biphobia but idk tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 06:42 PM
0	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. it's not that bi men are "too free" it's the fear that that sex is too available to them from other men should they choose to seek it. in ways that it wouldn't be available if they were straight and only seeking women. not saying it's rational or true, just that it's a fear	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 05:40 PM
0	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. well, no these are women talking about being in monogamous relationships with men, so they'd be expected to be sexually and romantically loyal to just one woman they'd have to be monogamous to be viable partners with these women regardless of their sexuality	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 05:39 PM
–	Why does it seem like many women online feel entitled to so much from men? yeah thats bc men are the #1 killers of women who cares if women are more selective in the men that they date compared to the women that they date? they HAVE to be. those men are statistically the person most likely to end their lives so men can take it on the chin if women are more selective in ways that are shallow or that maybe you don't understand. that's okay, you'll survive (statistically, anyway) holding men to higher standards of height( understandable but you would expect the to be open…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 03:38 PM
1	Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decency do you care to know? if you could press a magic button and automatically find out every every aggressor in your life (qny gender) and their specific infraction...would you press it or rather live in ignorance? would you be willing to stir the pot and put aside your discomfort to know hard truths about people you potentially associated with? I think the biggest issue for women is knowing that most men care wouldn't care to know. they dont want to disrupt the status quo. they don't want to disrupt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 07:02 AM
1	Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decency Men abusers don't advertise it and people protect those male abusers (see Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie, see Diddy and Cassie, see Dr Luke and Ke$ha, see Matt Lauer, Chris D'Elia, Harvey Weinstein, Jeffrey Epstein, R Kelly, and Bill Cosby) People don't believe the women who do share their stories and doubt them but them also shame women who were silent and didn't speak up sooner. There's no way to win bc the goal is simply to protect men and discredit women I don't know anyone that's done that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 06:54 AM
1	Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decency You don't know what's hearsay and what's my actual lived experience, way to maka a supreme ass of yourself truly what a bold and mind boggling assumption to make about a person also people literally write these comments on news articles when sexual assault allegations come out (see Cassie and Diddy). You're just buying into what people say on the interweb. you're giving me permission to disregard your comment and opinion since you're just a random on the interweb btw good job women have proven t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 06:47 AM
2	Why does it seem like many women online feel entitled to so much from men? those are women you're not compatible with. hope that helps. lesbians do first date picnics all the time for romantic reasons. it's well though out, planned, and catered to the individual. it will have her favorite foods, favorite music, and a shared activity for them to do together. this isn't an exaggeration either, I've seen wlw tiktoks w exactly this (yes for first dates) Men typically do low effort, cheap dates bc they don't want to invest much in 1 woman and want a quick path to sex. they'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 06:06 AM
2	Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decency I agree with this. Every woman knows a rapist, sexual assaulter or abuser who is male but most men claim to not know one or that theyd never associate with one. meanwhile it's yall and your friends or relatives! and when women do make sexual assault allegations it's men and pickmes always peddling the "what did she do to deserve it question" in the form of: how much did she drink? what did she wear? -was she promiscuous? did she try to break up with him? why was she alone with him? did she humil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 05:18 PM
4	Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decency I think you just proved his first statement in his post lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 05:14 PM
4	Men: What do you bring to the table? Oh I want my man to cook for me 100% of the time in my Ideal Fantasy World. I'm not dating anyone who can't cook at least 50% of the time, I hate the mental load of meal planning. Cooking and grocery shopping isn't terrible for me. I've literally stayed in a relationship with a man who was verbally abusive bc he was a super good cook and I justified it as his substitute love language the week he stopped cooking lunch for me (pandemic nesting, we both had remote wfh jobs, cooking was his hobby) I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 02:47 AM
3	Men: What do you bring to the table? this is such a normal dynamic in so many relationships I've had men approach me on dating apps and the first line they've hit me up with was "what would you cook for me on our first date??" and bullshit like that. Just delusional. obv its an instant block today, but in the past I used to interrogate them and those mfs couldn't even boil an egg. it's great that they wave their red flags and state their priorities early on though	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 06:20 PM
3	Men: What do you bring to the table? A man who cooks is seriously so underrated they have no idea 😭😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 06:17 PM
1	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life He was never sweet and kind. He wore a mask to trick you. I hope you block him forever for mishandling your love and trust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 02:51 PM
1	I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question. If men swiped earnestly (all men) women wouldn't be flooded with 1000s of choices and would do better than swiping left as indiscriminately as men swipe right. Women are only so selective because they have lots of options to select from. Are you selective about what you put into your shopping cart at Dollar Tree, or do you have more flexibility there to try new products, be experimental, be judgey, waste time/money on products that are shiny, potentially harmful, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 04:23 AM
0	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves Yeah that's cutesy fun girl autism, in line w men who like Legos and sports stats	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 09:39 AM
-1	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves Sure, that doesnt mean that neurodivergent men dont struggle because of it tho I didn't say that they didn't. ND women experience the same struggles (or worse I could imagine).	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 10:01 PM
0	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves women sleep with autistic men all the time and birth their autistic children you just haven't noticed bc men being into trains, video games, Legos, sports stats, and niche watches/cars/vinyls is normalized in society not all male autism is train schedule obsession, mickey mouse memorabilia, and sensory stim caves or whatever stereotype	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 08:06 PM
3	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves the destiny argument is too small you can't have no personality, zero hobbies, zero same or opposite sex friends, never leave your hometown and call you never meeting someone compatible "destiny". you can't even have 3/5 of those things and still claim to be trying. you forge your own destiny	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 08:01 PM
2	Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men? nyc and big liberal cities are not the norm, and JD Vance called Taylor Swift a childless cat lady. Calling women childless is a common R insult online to say that "radical liberals" are undesirable and that men "pine for" rightwing/trad women	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 08:31 PM
3	Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it. Not everyone feels humiliated by rejection. Does a good fisher feel humiliated when he loses a fish on the line or does he cast again? Once again, a dehumanizing metaphor. What does complaining on this sub change about your situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 09:35 AM
1	Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it. No risk, no reward. This is a very dehumanizing way to speak, but do you wanna complain that you never catch any fish or do you wanna get out on the water and start fishing? One takes commitment, planning, optimism, and courage. The other is just negativity and nihilism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 09:24 AM
–	Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a family who is saying this? also they're not talking to you so who cares? let these women keep searching for that guy or get burned in the dating game delusional (non-existsant) people aren't actually candidates in your dating pool	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 10:54 PM
4	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. marriage, particularly in traditional heterosexual relationships, provides them with something that society often denies them: consistent emotional care, support, and encouragement for healthy habits. If a man can only get this through marriage, why do they even bother to have friends? What role do a man's friends and community serve in his life? Instead of using men’s longer lifespans in marriage as proof that relationships are a biological necessity, we should be asking why men’s emotional wel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 11:02 AM
7	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. That's not true at all. Your brain only finished developing 5 years ago. Half of the time you're complaining about being sexless was your literal childhood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:44 AM
13	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. women doing this are usually complaining amongst themselves and they're not killing people in real life over it the same cannot be said for men. Men have podcasts full of violent rhetoric to support their ideals. They write manifesto. They take lives over it. Women do not do this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:42 AM
1	You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly Immediately Then they leave you, the way in which that's happened 3 out of 4 relationships there has to be something to it 3/4 of your own personal relationships? this doesn't make it the universal experience that you think it does most women looking to break up with a man can bring themselves to even see him sexually anymore. sex revulsion is real	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:25 PM
1	You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly Immediately this law is about non human animals you didn't quote the actual law - actual law here what does sexual fulfillment mean? what did it mean in 1930 when he was active?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:22 PM
19	You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings. women have these emotions as well the thing is that women don't like being scapegoated or punching bags for men's negative emotions (or anyone elses). hope that helps	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:27 AM
3	Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than Men At some point though it is exploiting a biological need for their own personal gain. what is the biological need? procreation? this is an online woman, she's not actually available to you or anyone else there are actual women that men know in real life that they could partner with instead of pretending to have a relationship with this woman bc they visually perceived her with their eyeballs felt entitled to her attention and time	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:15 AM
0	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives red pilled ideology inherently blames women for all of men's faults and frustrations in life but also promotes make supremacy in general. it's "men's right activism" through the suppression of women and children aka plain Ole misogyny some reading: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09589236.2023.2260318#abstract	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 06:01 PM
2	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives always zooming right past the point lol dad #1 abandoning him is women's fault dad #2 abusing him (and likely his mother) is also women's fault. okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 05:55 PM
3	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives I'm 100% confident that I would have "stepped up" and accepted a single mom with her 3 kids" like a "real man". Or got married to the wrong woman and divorce raped. ...this is a fantasy you've crafted	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 12:18 AM
11	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives I grew up without my father. And spent 12 years with an abusive stepdad. yet you chose to blame women for your misery lol lists two vital male role modeled who failed you and somehow it's women's fault. mmhkay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 11:20 PM
–	Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapse masterclass summary and logic shakedown, instant follow lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 06:48 AM
3	Women and their Disgust for Prenups Thats because men know the inherent nature of women, how they desire to get one over on you and dip out. This is literally how men operate, why do you think there are so many fatherless homes and single moms who can't get their baby daddies to pay child support for their own children? If women are taking advantage of men, why are Republicans in the US trying to end no fault divorce right now? The goal is to trap women into marriages that they cannot legally exit. If a man wants a "loving relatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 02:11 AM
2	Women and their Disgust for Prenups Google female gential mutilation and report back. Tell me how sexual you'd feed after getting your dick tip chopped off. Many women literally don't know how their body functions or what it's capable of because women are shamed for seeking sexual pleasure and also our pleasure buttons are internal/hidden. You feel yours any time there is a strong breeze and handle it every time you pee. There are also regions of the world where women are shamed for being sexual before marriage or outside of "mari…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 01:55 AM
4	Women and their Disgust for Prenups this is a fantasy excuse that you created in your brain ✨️	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 01:43 AM
9	Women and their Disgust for Prenups I meant that woman pay to be house elves by splitting rent and becoming house maids also I also spoke in transactional terms bc this is a transactional convo inherently. there is a reason why men don't want women have this sort of financial agency over them aka "I'd never pay my gfs mortgage or let her be my landlord but she should pay into mine" sex isn't what women have to offer. it's something in relationships can be pestered for or have to use as behavioral treats to get manchildren partners…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 03:41 AM
9	Women and their Disgust for Prenups So 90% of couples have an unemployed woman in the household? Does that statistic sound correct to you? Additionally, that would mean that most women with a job that you encounter in the world are going to be single women, with only 10% of them in partnerships? And once they have a partner they quit those jobs? does that sound realistic or feasible to you truly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 02:11 AM
8	Women and their Disgust for Prenups I'm not sure I believe that or would even know what that looks like. do you genuinely believe in that expense breakdown? like could you map it out for me? I do feel that women move in with men and essentially pay to become house elves in some worst case sceanaris. their rent might not even get cheaper, but their domestic workload increases I think this is why single moms with kids report that household duties oftentimes get easier post-divorce. they don't have to deal w weaponized incompetence o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 02:08 AM
16	Women and their Disgust for Prenups So do you agree than women actually do all of this labor or do they just rub men's back's at night? If the labor is so minimal, why don't you research the cost of childcare for 2 children from 9-5pm in your city and report back on the costs? ^even though SAHMS do childcare 24/7 with no holidays or paid vacations and do way more than "childcare" as outlined above	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 09:13 PM
14	Women and their Disgust for Prenups If a woman is a SAHM and stupid enough to believe that homemaking is the financial equivalent of a full time job then that's on her. Do you know how much having daily childcare costs for 1+ children? SAHMs are expected to provide 24/7 childcare, personal chef, cleaning service, maid, and home managerial duties. thats not even mentioning the sex some husbands expect every day or multiple times a day on top of it all. Just say you don't understand the duties that go into building and maintaining a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 08:51 PM
45	Women and their Disgust for Prenups I got into a debate like that on this on either this sub or r/ exredpill, I believe. It was a sceanario where a female partner didn't want to move in with her male partner. they were both homeowners and basically trying to figure out which residence to live in. A man said, "I don't get why women are hesitant to move in with male homeowners, pay their partners their portion of the rent (making their romantic partners their landlord) and only the males name is on the mortgage. It's like investing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 08:47 PM
1	Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about? did you even read my comment? I was talking about what men on this sub would say if a woman made the same comment I never said that women dating promiscuous men was men's fault...I said "this is how men react when women make these statements"	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:28 AM
5	Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about? ikr, theyd be calling a woman who did this a slut who went for Chad's while single and denied sex to normal guys but who ultimately settled for a normal guys years later they'd be mad that the sex they feel entitled to from women now would be a gratification they'd have to delay for years while women sleep with "superior" men today. a fictional scenario where they've been denied something they're owed, like an animal foster parent (Chads) taking too long to deliver the dog (women) they wanna ado…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 12:45 PM
0	Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship. omg wait I love this and you're so right bc the first thing they'll say if a guy tries to shame them for paying for dinner (if they were "successful") is: "at least I had sex!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 11:04 AM
1	Many men losing interest in women I put ugly in parentheses because you claimed dating apps are only a playground for attractive people. I have not said that normal looking people are ugly. I'm making assumptions about what you mean by attractive and you're making assumptions by what I mean about ugly. But your assumptions are wrong, I used the phrasing I used in reaction to your phrasing. I don't think that apps are a playground for pretty people, but I do think that they likely have an easier time getting attention (not romanc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 09:29 PM
5	Many men losing interest in women this doesn't make sense. "ugly" people have kids all the time, this is why "conventionally unattractive" people still exist and and walk this planet today there is a reason why people joke about poly people "all looking that way" and EDIT - here's a hint; it's not bc they think all poly people are attractive. they're literally saying, "what's going on, why is this crowd of uggos having so much sex so easily?" (their words/implications, not mine) and yet they fuck and live and have children all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 02:35 PM
1	Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps Exist This instant power of validation, free meals, and ability to use men for entertainment is conflicting with her desire for a relationship. wrong. the premise of your entire argument is wrong. as a serial dater and fwb-er I had all of those things and they still rang hollow compared to the relationship I have now. I knew this would be the case then but it's staggeringly clear now. I'm not sure if there is some huge overlap between girls who are dating and fcking for fun and girls actively seeking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 07:59 PM
3	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Live with parents, Any noticeable physical issue, Not masculine enough, Taller than him in heels, Has kids, Unkept, Doesn’t have a career, Not enough intellect, Not fit enough, One weird pic she found, Conflicting religious or political, No friends, Walks funny, Not her “type”, Doesn’t like your voice, Etc… replace "not masculine enough" with "feminine" and congrats, you have a women's pov about men who won't date her lmfaooooo yeah some men don't care about career and living with parents but it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 10:51 AM
0	Why do men crave romantic interest so much? It sounds like you're starting with a baseline assumption that women should be less assertive, independent, and feminine compared to men. Is this correct? If so, your baseline assumptions are already too seeped in sexist gender role hierarchies. That stuff is a fairytale. Yes many people today subscribe to it but you will always be left scratching your head at the end of the day if your baseline assumption is "every person with X trait should act X-Z way" The reality is that people with X trait …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:38 PM
4	Why do men crave romantic interest so much? But the least they could do would be to acknowledge the pain, loneliness, isolation, and mental and emotional damage that is literally killing men and leading men to kill themselves, instead of constantly dismissing, erasing, downplaying, minimizing, and/or mocking men's pain, and gas lighting men about it. I see that I see more women acknowledging this than men tbh. I see more women talking about this online and in person (in positive and negative ways) more than I see men talking about this ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:33 PM
1	Infantilizing women in age gaps relationships is inherently misogynistic. You said in one comment that younger women are harder to get and are now saying they're easier to get. Which point are you making? if it's easier compared to older	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 03:04 PM
1	Infantilizing women in age gaps relationships is inherently misogynistic. People aspire and aim for many things that are difficult to get in life, what do you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 11:00 PM
3	Fat chicks This is even fine for 5'8" I know volleyball players and soft all players with these stats. They've got thighs and ass that people kill for in the gym. Big arms, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 12:53 AM
2	Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things? 💗🥹🌈	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 06:17 PM
2	Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things? sounds like a bad relationship with poor communication and like she wasn't being realistic about finances sounds like you had different values and expectations about money, labor, how big partnership decisions are made that's a bad partner to make a life altering financial change without consulting you first and getting on the same page	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 06:16 PM
2	Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things? 💗💗	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 06:14 PM
2	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" I don't look at porn online, my sample size is other men who have big dicks that's I've fucked lol trust me I've taken a few and I know what a big dick is. I've also dealt with super thick guys before, and I wouldn't call a thick guy small. I'm not a size queen BUT I do like to partake from time to time. I wouldn't have had an issue with this guy of he hadn't billed himself as size queen friendly on the reverse side, I've also had men who clearly didn't need magnums pull them out for play and us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 12:18 AM
5	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" half of them are liars, too! just despicable lmfao this guy was delusional, he said he needed to order special sized condoms from amazon...he was avg sized 🫣	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 10:21 PM
1	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" thanks one of the mods has it as well. I think(?) she snagged it from me and I love it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 06:29 PM
23	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" does OP not know that gay men were the first to call themselves size queens 👀 let's see how he spins this to reincorporate his hatred of women (the true reason for this post) If you're jealous and wanna try big dick just sit on some and leave us out of itttt	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 06:04 PM
2	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" they actually don't on kink friendly apps/sites and that's kind of the only place where ppl say those things hookup apps, twitter porn, and OF	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 06:02 PM
22	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" it's used on hookup apps like feeld but guess what the guys there are calling themselves size queen friendly aka advertising that they have big dicks ask me how I know lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 06:01 PM
2	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" saying you prefer big dicks isn't any different than men preferring BBWs/thicc women touch grass there is no shaming or implication that smaller is worse, your own brain is adding that part in. Does liking chocolate mean that you automatically shame vanilla lovers...or do you just like chocolate? TAKE A LAP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 06:00 PM
1	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work I literally clicked like.. has this ever even been contested lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 01:56 AM
1	Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse Men leave their spouses 6x more when their wives get sick source 1 Men will bring their families to other countries, take their passports, then abandon and trap them there source 2 On men who have second families: "Fewer than one in 12 say they see the children from their first family every day and nearly a third say they do not have a close relationship with them"- Government’s Economic and Social Research Council. You can do the rest of the homework yourself and come back with questions and ci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 03:19 PM
1	Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse Well don't apologize just yet. I was saying that men have a history of leaving perfectly good families due to general life dissatisfaction/new pussy... and that we don't need the abuse framing bc men are doing this absent of abuse in most cases tbh. Obviously women abandon families as well, but the rates for men are much higher. I'd also imagine that women's reasons for family abandonment different than those of men generally, but I haven't done any research on this. however I do think all peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 07:24 AM
3	Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse I would argue that many more men have "escape funds" than you realize, but they're more like "upgrade funds." Money to squirrel away and hide from their spouse in case of divorce. I knew a bartender who religiously took any $50 bill he got while working to stash away and hide from his fiancée in a seperate account. He'd only squirrel away $50s, no other denomination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 06:18 AM
2	Is there anything wrong with being traditional? Women are genrally the hub of community, warmth, life. They literally create and sustain life. They cook, plan, orchestrate. They are family and community managers and executors. They tend to be the ones raising kids, planning meals, connecting with relatives, and preparing for important events in their families and friend groups. Men usually aren't actively really trying to build community the same way beyond Dnd night, planning a fishing trip, or tailgating. Men will have friends for years and…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/24 06:13 AM
3	Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse men leave their spouses and families all the time lol are you saying men as an entitity should be more prepared to do this or where do you think the meme about Dads leaving for milk or a pack of cigarettes came from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:46 AM
1	If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place? It's hypocritical bc they're equally as promiscuous. So funny lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:28 PM
1	If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place? So if you sleep with someone disgusting are you not also disgusting afterwards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:27 PM
2	If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place? incels are literally (erroneously) mad that "all women" have "easy" access to sex (aka the ability to be sluts) while they do not. I feel this is a pillar of incel rage Men hate women because their hypothesis is that women only want to be sluts for "Chads." They directly place their anger only all women and their fantasized sexual activities instead of a few men and their fantasized activities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:27 PM
1	If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place? But that's the whole appeal of OF. The girl next door could be a literal porn star. Aren't you jacking off to her because you want to have sex with her or someone like her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:22 PM
2	If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place? Most of the men who pay for OF are lonely or in bad marriages. the porn industry existed before OF. Brothels existed before OF. Sed work is the oldest profession in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:21 PM
0	If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place? amazing point lol everyone "hates" sluts yet sluts are everywhere thriving ppl love us. if ppl hated us we'd never be able to grow into sluts hehe	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:20 PM
1	If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place? Consumers actually do lol they do all the time thats why scams work, they make unrealistic promises compared to legitimate options	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:18 PM
3	There is more to personality than being nice NY is kind but not nice CA is nice but not kind	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 06:27 PM
–	Yes - your past does matter You couldn't care less yet you made an entire post/analogy on bodycount titled: "Yes - your past does matter"	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 02:46 PM
–	Yes - your past does matter Why are you asking about bodycount if you know the answer may potentially upset you? The aim of the question is to figure out how "used" your goods were before given to you, right? Why can't you just be in a happy healthy relationship without speculating how many dicks have been inside your partner? It screams insecurity. Instead of being happy and grateful you're ripping your hair out over her experiences with men before she even knew that you existed. She's not actively thinking about those me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 02:15 PM
–	Yes - your past does matter Why would I care about a proposal trip that my ex took his ex fiancée on? Same vacation, same villa, same ring is low effort and a problem imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 02:12 PM
1	Field Report: I started MRP 3.5 years ago. My life is awesome now. She is insatiable for my cock – it’s her sleeping pill, her wake-up pill, her anxiety pill, her sad pill, her happy pill – she is an extremely well-fucked woman 😭😭 it hurts to see another woman living your dream	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/10/24 02:10 PM
3	Ex redpill guys in particular, what was your relationship like with your father? algorithm comment so I don't lose this thread	/r/ExRedPill	02/10/24 04:25 PM
1	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. Why might that be? Neurotypical men have lots of incentives to predate on mentally ill women of all types. Mentally ill women are also more likely to be hypersexual compared to neurotypical women. They could be doing more risk taking behaviors, potentially self medicating, and gambling with their safety, similar to some mentally ill men. The reasons why it's "easier" for neurospicey women to date are the same reasons why any societally marginalized status like being homelessness is harder for wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 09:19 PM
3	Hard time fully trusting women Are you in therapy?	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/24 02:41 AM
3	Advice on relationship with redpill guy Any man who is approaching you early on into dating with a sob story is using it as a primer to justify future abuse towards you. That way you think, "Oh no, he's only treating me this way bc his inner child/past trauma isn't healed." This should give you the ick immediately. Any man who resents women also resents you and men who resent women are dangerous to women. You are not an exception.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/24 02:09 PM
1	How to become attracted to someone based on their personality? Do you have any female friends? Understanding the value of non-sexual female companionship and figuring out the traits you admire in your friends will help you value their personalities and the personalities of others in the future	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/24 10:00 PM
2	How to become attracted to women in my "league"? May I ask what leads you to believe you're a 2? And if you believe you could take steps to make yourself a 5? Hasan Piker says "Every man can be a 7" and has a whole rationale about it 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/24 09:17 PM
8	Why women don't have sex on day one Men know that other men are unsafe because they too are afraid of confronting other men. The sex convo is just used to gaslit women. They feel entitled to women's bodies and harbor disregard for the consequences for women.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/24 03:26 PM
1	The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional. Abusers are manipulative and typically socially competent. And even though they have low self esteem at the end of the day, many appear charismatic and charming in the beginning. Desperate people do not have an aura of confidence, esteem, etc. These are two different audiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 11:03 PM
1	How to deal with a guy who is showing signs of being red-pilled? Block him	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/24 02:46 AM
1	Men and women don't really need each other anymore He's in too deep	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 10:38 AM
1	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? We dont think this	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 01:30 PM
0	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. I adore men. But women are better and more charismatic friends. Women's friendships run deeper imo. I see who men call their friends. And how they treat each other. I do not envy them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 05:27 AM
1	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating Go Commodores!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 05:24 AM
0	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. I revised my comment, hope they helps!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 04:22 AM
1	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. Have you been to the club? A rooftop bar? A family game night? An intramural game? A family holiday gathering? Women are the backbone of a lot of the fun that occurs tbh Women set the mood, the tone, the vibe. I think women are into shy guys, I know I am, but that's obv my personal opinion. Creeps and losers are Andrew Tate/Adin Ross types. Fakeass loudmouths pretending to be alpha males.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 03:50 AM
1	Ladies, what do you think of these women? Apparently Sheera Seven has been active since 2013, but I didn't start seeing her content til 2013 She doesn't feed into the RP prop machine. She exists outside of it. When did the manosphere/rp online content mill begin? She's in the women's dating/advice/sugarbaby sphere, not the RP sphere. The fact that she promotes golddigging is kind of just a seen as joke imo but that's just my perspective	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 03:46 AM
0	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. Sure buddy! (from a fellow bi bitch lol)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 03:42 AM
0	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. Sorry your friends are boring but the gworls are hilarious and vibrant	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:37 PM
1	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. Newsflash,: most women already have hobbies and dress well AND are charismatic That's why all these incels and seething and whining about not being able to get with them. Because they can't match up. You're creating a false premise while ignoring the confines and realities of the false premise here lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:30 PM
9	How do people date people they aren’t physically attracted to? Do everyone a favor and break up with this girl	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/24 07:08 PM
3	Ladies, what do you think of these women? Sheeran Seven is just fun, if you watch her recorded livestreams most of her content is just her telling women how to comically reply when BROKE guys acuse all women of being golddiggers, which RP does to many women. RP don't date women for their personalities AND overly sexualizes them, so RP assumes women aren't dating men for their personalities (and therefore it must be their money).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 05:53 PM
2	This shit really effected my self esteem and I don’t know how to get back to normal again Ah, i see. Thank you for digging thru your post history to find and share this with me!	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/24 04:54 PM
1	This shit really effected my self esteem and I don’t know how to get back to normal again Ah, i see. Thank you for digging thru your post history to find and share this with me!	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/24 04:54 PM
1	This shit really effected my self esteem and I don’t know how to get back to normal again Ah, i see. Thank you for digging thru your post history to find and share this with me!	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/24 04:54 PM
1	This shit really effected my self esteem and I don’t know how to get back to normal again Wait can you share it with me please?	/r/ExRedPill	21/06/24 04:01 PM
1	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating They're not confused. I literally said in my post that the young men aren't relationship material, and that they know that (this is a part of their frustration on dating apps). You seem to be the one conflating the two things. I haven't said what you seem to think I'm saying and neither did those women. I've stated this repeatedly. We seem to be talking past one another so not sure we'll see eye to eye here even though we're not saying super dissimilar things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 10:33 PM
1	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating So you admit that it is happening (aka they're not delusional) but you think that it's not important/relevant? That's fine that you feel that way but that's not the same as the women describing this trend actually being delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 09:58 PM
1	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating You just conflated two different qualities here. Hot and rich are not synonymous. I'm not sure what your point is. You listed: Average women and Hot rich dudes, then Average dudes and Hot (not rich) women Lots of normal looking rich dudes date/partner/marry average looking women (Elon Musk & Grimes, Zuckerberg & Priscilla, Bill & Melinda Gates) Lots of normal looking rich dudes also date/marry "hot" women (Bezos and Lauren Sanchez, Trump and Melania, Serena Williams [who is independently rich an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 05:47 PM
2	Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for them You just did the meme here aka "You criticize society, and yet you participate it one, interesting"	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 05:21 PM
1	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating Where is the delusion, I literally said in my post that older women reported younger men soliciting them to mess around and not as life partners lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 05:17 PM
13	Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for them This is a huge hot button topic right now, please don't act dense This is partially why the US is trying to ban and buy TikTok (#5 or #6 app in the WORLD atm), they literally don't want China having all this precious data bc the US is used to being the Big Boi on the block	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 04:08 PM
0	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating Googling SSS and gender exemptions or "women and the draft" might help you answer this very random question	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 03:25 PM
3	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating It was coined by the expat community in Asia from the sources I see around 2017-18, not American women. The relationship between the observer and subject is literally stated within the term itself. Notice the phrasing /back home/ implying that the subject is being observed outside of their home country. You don't call where you currently are "back home" because you're already home. You use the term "back home" when you're away from home or interacting with someone who is away from their home. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 02:33 PM
0	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating I've heard of women partaking in sex tourism and in their Eat, Pray, Love era of hooking up with foreign men to get their groove back. But women don't need to go abroad to find husbands, finding a husband isn't the issue for most women Finding a husband that means their standards is the issue for most women. Another commenter on this post said it best. Men are looking for A WOMAN (just one single woman who will tolerate them). Women seeking romantic love (not green cards or money) are looking fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 02:25 PM
7	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating So you admit the scenario isn't realistic or even happening, glad we agree The entire topic is bait	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 07:21 AM
7	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating I'm from the Caribbean lmfao Marrying a loser for more freedom in your home country makes sense (i.e. Rose and Big Ed from 90 Day Fiance) American women divorce for freedom or to rid themselves of a man-child. Its not for money, plenty of former trad wives end up destitute after divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 07:18 AM
13	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating Who do you think has access to the man in your hypothetical scenario? Is it your average Jane at the sip and paint or Paisley who's a legacy student at Vanderbilt and summers at Nantucket and who also has a trust fund Pbffr	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 06:28 AM
2	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating And the ones who don't know that they're losers so??	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 06:09 AM
7	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating We know from the nursing and geriatric care professions that women are the least likely to be alone in aging and death. If women are alone, men are alone-r And that's why I said that the demographics are having different problems. Young men are complaining about not getting enough sex while you claim older women are being used for easy sex. Older men aren't being used for easy sex either. But women are always called upon as sexual partners, our sexual currency doesn't really drop with age due to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 06:02 AM
18	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating It's meme'd bc its ridiculous and unrealistic and vapid. Women tell jokes, too. We can do jokes, humor, sarcasm, banter etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 05:55 AM
2	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating I never said that incels were passport bros, ever I'm first gen, my family is from the islands and I have backpacked Europe solo 2x and been to Iceland, China, and South Africa along with a dozen other countries (check my post history lol) Where have you been? I know what women in Mexico, Japan, Vietnam, Thailand, Philippines and other common passport bro countries say about the foreign men who move there to find wives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 05:51 AM
5	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating I don't know if this is true. Older women report being solicited by younger men routinely who wanna mess around etc (not be life partners) and have solid established friend and family groups Theyre also dealing with delusional men in their 40-60s still "figuring out what type of relationship they want" or who think they can still have kids or want to have young wives to have kids with even though they'll be dead before their 30th bday Imo they're not having the same dating troubles, but in fact …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 04:40 AM
19	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating It's just a meme. No one wants to date a coke head alcoholic who works 80 hrs/week	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 04:36 AM
9	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating Yes 💯💯💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 04:35 AM
15	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating Women abroad know that passport bros are losers who couldn't score with their own women. They even have phrase for it "LBH" or Losers Back Home A man who have to leave his own home country and social customs just to find partnership with one single woman who would tolerate him...it speaks a lot to his persona and outlook on life if he moved specifically to date a different population of women (who oftentimes have less agency and financial resources than him, and who may or may not be more compli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 04:34 AM
12	american women are sabotaging themselves in dating Securing dates is not at all the same as finding lasting, longterm life partner material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 04:29 AM
2	The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchy Why specifically would men be quitting their jobs again? And in this system where women choose to date down, will men also be dating down to maximize their partnership chances?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 03:58 PM
3	The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchy THAT PART	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 03:56 PM
8	The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchy This part lol I'm like, "Somehow he found a way to blame male sexual desires on women"	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 03:56 PM
1	The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchy Being the "cause" or reason behind a thing is different than /creating/ an entire sociopolitical ecosystem over a thing One is an action/actor and the other thing is being acted upon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 03:54 PM
-2	Describe the average man dating experience ? 2x/month seems healthy/normal if you live in a big city and are actively trying to be sexually active and have new experiences with new people And yeah, if you're hitting the refresh button every 14 days, it's definitely gonna take effort. I tend to have more long-term fwbs/rosters I'd get too exhausted pursuing someone new every 2 weeks 😭😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 11:09 PM
-2	Describe the average man dating experience ? Is this really true in the age of dating apps etc? "A hookup"? One single hookup?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 09:58 PM
4	Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one? What if I told you that your opinion and experience is subjective and not the objective neutral truth of the universe lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 02:53 PM
3	Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one? The cashier didn't decide who paid. They just gave her the illusion that her input mattered. Remember she Venmo'd him back afterwards. Sometimes you just choose the path of lease resistance and "smile and nod" for nosey people to preserve your sanity. It's a non-issue tbh. That cashier decided for them as long as you choose to believe she decided for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 11:36 AM
9	Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one? Whats sad about it? They chose a path of lesser resistance after a nosey stranger entered and commented on their life. That person and their comment was insignificant to their life so they treater them as such and did whatever they wanted when they had a private moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 11:19 AM
–	Why do straight women love gay men for the same reasons they dislike straight males? Women actually love straight men despite the fact that straight women's #1 killers are straight men. And yet we bend over backwards to partner with yall repeatedly even against our best interests. Women are still giving Nick Cannon random ass babies knowing their kids are gonna have 28.675 half siblings. Nick Cannon is not insanely rich and clearly needs mental help and yet women spread their legs for him. Don't say it's just for money, because it's money and a lifetime of headache they're signi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 11:00 AM
2	Anyone else (all genders) get torn between wanting to be a slut and actually having something serious with one partner? Yes, are you me? But jk I honestly just wanna be a literal cum dumpster slut for my ONE person. I think many people want that at the end of the day. I just wanna give it up every day multiple times a day for that special person tbh. It's exhausting having to maintain fwb relationships etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 02:22 AM
4	How do I not internalize "all men are trash" content online? "Green flag behavior" or "green flag husbands" is a tag that talks about women's positive experiences with men	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/24 11:34 PM
1	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man Have you shared your source yet? I've seen a few folks ask	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 03:38 PM
1	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man 30% of male users are married are you kidding me 😭😭😭😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 03:27 PM
–	Are Situationships and Friend Zone the same thing but gender swapped? Only if both parties agree to this metric	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 03:25 PM
–	If men who hide their baldness are considered unattractive, are women who use bra pads considered unattractive as well? Women with small breasts are still actively sexualized and desired. There are entire subs dedicated to small breasted women. Men aren't sexualized the way that women are, so I'm not sure baldness is the proper comparison here. Small penis would be the proper comparison imo (which is also sexualized, even though there is way more degrading language for men with smaller penises) Small penis subs and men who are proud of their small penises or who enjoy the fetish scene still exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 08:02 AM
1	Women put the bar higher for men than most would want for themselves. You literally read one reddit post on a random day and then decided all women want the traits listed in that post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 08:12 AM
2	Would you prefer a society governed by Islamic law and norms over the status quo? What principles of the laws you cited do you feel would resonate most with rp men? Just wondering your top 3 since you introduced this wacky sneararo	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 08:11 AM
2	Women put the bar higher for men than most would want for themselves. Okay so one person with a Reddit account wrote this and now everyone else needs to defend/debunk it?? 😭😭 It's bullshit, just scroll lol (like I should have w this post tbh)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 01:33 AM
2	Women put the bar higher for men than most would want for themselves. The 6 traits you listed, where are you pulling these traits from? What woman has said this? Does she speak for all women? What is with this weird ass scenario you're shadowboxing??	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 01:10 AM
1	Women put the bar higher for men than most would want for themselves. What does lowered inhibitions mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 01:06 AM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Most men who are promiscuous date promiscuous women It sounds like they have found a population who likes them according to the scenario/perspective you've shared here so I'm not sure what your point is the original comment in replying to presents a different premise	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 08:10 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait I'm not sure where you're picking up whining, I'm pointing to the fact that the math doesn't add up. Why do manwhores reject woman whores is the question I want answered. I don't know what you're talking about with women shaming virgins so I can't comment on that. I think women would find a guy waiting for sex to be endearing and an easy lay bc you could blow his mind v easily. It'd be such a huge ego boost as long as he's presentable, sane, courteous etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 07:52 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Where did I say that? I didnt say that men are wildly successful, I said that they have a hoe mindset. Being open to sex and actually getting sex are not the same thing. Men would accept way more sex if they were offered it. I'm not pretending that they have opportunities or offers all the time. But when those opportunities do present themselves, they jump on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 07:49 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait You misread. I said I AM okay with him having casual sex. And if he wasn't okay with me doing that we wouldn't be a compatible match as the person below expressed. Instead of trying to control all women, try finding women that share the same values as you and are compatible. Women should never put all their eggs in one basket for 1 man esp while dating seriously. Too many risks and too many liars to commit so early on. It's not reality to pretend that that's a part of modern dating. Everyone sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 07:48 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Have you ever stepped onto tinder or feeld? Bumble even has a seeking "intimacy without commitment" category now	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 07:42 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Where did I say this? My post is specifically referring to men who have and are seeking casual sex. I also think it's disingenuous to act like most men would reject casual sex if offered. I'm not sure that's true. My post literally says "Men who are whores"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 07:41 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait See you don't want a relationship lol You can view women as sex objects all you want, it doesn't mesh well with western relationship and dating practices for true romantic relationships, which people engage in to find love	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:25 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait At least for women it's just a phase. Men act this way as a lifestyle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:24 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait You see it as disrespectful because you believe you are entitled access to a woman's sexual attention. You feel disrespected because you believe you are entitled to physical acts of sex just because you invested attention into a woman. If you believe your romantic interactions should be that transactional, just find a sex worker. It doesn't sound like you want a relationship, it sounds like you think men should receive sex from any woman they invest in emotionally and make the object of their ro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:23 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait You can act on your carnal desires respectfully. The fact that you cannot imagine consensual sex between two people without one party being degraded or seen as lesser is truly the bigger issue here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:18 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait As a woman who dates seriously while fucking casually, I'm okay with my male serious and casual prospects doing this. Why do you care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:13 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait No you want to be a cool ass person who is clear and transparent about just wanting fwbs/casual That's literally it. You don't need to act, pretend or add any element of deception or toxicity here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:08 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait I dont understand this. Men who are whores want to conquer and plunder countless women, but only virgins. Males whores deserve virgins and female whores deserve shaming??? Make it make sense. Men who have casual sex: I want casual sex with women Women who have casual sex: hey Men who have casual sex: not you. boo you disgusting whore	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 05:58 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Medal for you, correct 🏅	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 05:54 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Exactly, it sounds like he is seeking out casual sex with relationship minded women instead of seeking out casual sex with fwb minded women	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 05:47 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Just make a Feeld account and say you want casual sex, are you near any big cities? Meeting folks shouldn't be that hard if you are presentable, sane, courteous and good conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 05:46 PM
2	You struggle with dating because you live in a large city Whats the correlation between cities and girls being less attractive? Never heard this one before. Edit: I'd assume the opposite since there is more access to gyms, salons, wellness activities	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 06:00 PM
11	Ugly = Creepy False. I've had rich men do shit that sent a shiver up my spine. Everything in my body told me to stop interacting with them immediately. He was not ugly. He was just so supremely creepy (he kept asking to see pics of my mom).	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/24 06:11 AM
6	How to spot a red pill guy easily on a convo? Just dealt w a few on dating apps earlier today. They may mention wanting a woman who is "respectable" (I asked him to expand and he said that meant "a woman who is reserved, has good morals, respectful and non-combative"). Ask what they mean when their profile says vague things, people are always telling on themselves. Lots will also say that they want a woman who is active, despite they themselves having zero active hobbies or photos of them being active. So they mean fat bitches need not appl…	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/24 06:33 AM
8	Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from? "I spit game"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 01:33 PM
1	Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from? Hehe they don't like facts lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 01:32 PM
2	no idea exactly what happened with my (28f) ex(28m) and I. Are you upset that you're single, upset that you're still hung up on the relationship, or upset at the loss of the relationship? I'm not fully understanding.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/23 06:47 PM
2	Genuine question 💯	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/23 03:47 PM
3	Genuine question Its about effort. They're putting in effort and want a partner who will match that. You're looking for excuses to play women because you basically had a depressive episode and stopped putting effort into your appearance (like a lot of other people during covid). Just make sure you're only pursuing women based on personality tho, okay? Since appearances don't matter here 😇	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/23 03:45 PM
1	Exredpillers, did your game change the more you liked someone? and it what ways? Thats so good to hear! I feel like the regimented and static nature of these tactics really stunt the ability for natural conversion to flow. It can be tricky to move at a natural conversational pace when you have a hidden agenda tbh. Even unconsciously the person is picking up tells and signals that you're letting off. Most conversations won't be the most enlightening one of the week/month/year. But the feeling of connecting with someone naturally and genuinely (no bullshit, just common sense a…	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/23 05:30 AM
1	RP claims women live life on easy mode Why are you mad that you got served with the same exact energy you dished out lol	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/23 10:08 AM
14	Dating hack for men Women have mental health issues and struggle w social skills. Neither of those prevent us from acknowledging personhood in men. It's the misogyny.	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/23 08:47 AM
4	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching Are you arguing that women not initiating is comparable to men executing mass murders? I made the exact opposite point of what you deduced btw. Just read their manifestos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 09:33 PM
0	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching W peace and love you need to delete #3 Signed, All Disgruntled Male Mass Shooters	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 04:28 PM
1	CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage. Do you think that maybe no women look like marriage material due in part to the fact you are not particularly inclined to marriage or no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 07:03 PM
1	CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage. Are you sure you're marriage material my guy? Thats my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 05:47 PM
1	CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage. Right but either you knew she wanted that when you married her or you agreed to it as her partner who decided to/happened to impregnate her. Or your financial circumstances made it so that it had to be done, one parent will not work bc it made financial sense in your household or was a personal preference idk Tell me where you were duped?? Your marriage didn't work out and its normal to feel bitter about it. But no one tricked you at any stage of the agreement. Even if she was working, you'd sti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 04:21 PM
3	Ngl, the unfortunate popularity of the manosphere has made dating EXTREMLEY for me since I don't listen to that B.S. 💞💞💞	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/23 02:33 PM
3	CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage. When custody is 50/50, why does one parent get comped by the other? That's a question for the courts, I'm sure there are 10s of 1000s of pages of legal doctrine and precedent, but I'm not a lawyer Do you think that the working dad somehow has fewer expenses than the non-working mom in terms of child support? What is this working and non-working scenario you've introduced? Do you wanna talk about gender, income, job status, expenses? You've introduced a new factor here. This fairytale land where …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 03:11 AM
1	Women look at the men they are dating glass half empty, while men look at them glass half full Not sure I fully agree w this but why is what happens at the earlier stages of dating relevant exactly? Like even if this were true why does it matter? Either they break up in which case who cares, bad couple/match Or they stay together and it doesn't matter, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 02:04 AM
4	CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage. ...do you know how expensive children AND childcare are? Do you think people should be able to sire children and then...not take care of them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:22 AM
3	CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage. "I've had sex with over 50 women" x "marriage has been dead since women _______"	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:21 AM
7	How to get rid of envy/resentment towards women? Thanks for typing this out, great reply.	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/23 05:53 PM
8	Do you guys even like women? Why? Just because there wasnt a word for something before doesnt mean that it didnt exist. Also, words change over time. A word used in the past was probably "self-worth", decency, or self respect. Stepping stones to a concept like self esteem. Aka "any man worth his salt, a worthy man does X." You would be seen as worthy by others for performing in whatever gender prescribed way was relevant at the time. Also, this all cropping up in the 60s wouldn't be coincidental. The world was becoming more inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 05:44 PM
0	Do you guys even like women? Why? So they're projecting that hateful men are projecting? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 05:40 PM
0	Do you guys even like women? Why? They're saying you can't produce super hateful rhetoric unless you also have a large degree of hate or contempt for yourself. This tracks imo So you don't need to be a mindreader. Because they're already telling you how they feel about themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 05:40 PM
1	Do you guys even like women? Why? Can you explain your those at the top versus the bottom point more?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 05:24 PM
3	Do you guys even like women? Why? Yeah its our bodies and your desire to be a parent doesn't trump our desire to not be parents AND not cook a baby to completion and break our bodies getting the thing out. You have the right to remove a parasitic tumor and so do we. Women got the right to vote in 1920. White men have been voting since 1775. And white men decided that women don't need to enlist for the draft, so don't blame women lmfao These shelters exist because women are more likely to be KILLED from intimate partner violence …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 05:23 PM
13	Why do red-pillers think that relationship is some kind of a war or a battle where you have to strategize and beat your enemy otherwise you'll lose This was so evident in the "I wouldn't let my girlfriend be my landlord, but I can be her landlord" thread that presented the scenario: would you move in with your homeowner girlfriend if only her name was on the mortgage? A few sensible guys said "yeah ofc I love her and we're saving $$" but a lot of guys didn't like the scenario	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/23 08:00 PM
3	Why do red-pillers think that relationship is some kind of a war or a battle where you have to strategize and beat your enemy otherwise you'll lose Good analogy	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/23 07:57 PM
1	Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ? Do you know how expensive childcare is? It can be pricier than rent/mortgage in some states depending on your situation. Easily. All of the perks that exist in the SAHM scenario exist in this scenario. So why wouldn't women be open to it? Would you be open to being a SAHD, OP?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 02:40 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? I said this is why women don't like cold approaches. You don't know what you're gonna get. Its a mixed card. You may be sane but the next 5 men who solicit us might not be. At LEAST every 1/10 men will act aggressively/rudely if you don't accept their advances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 03:52 AM
0	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? I listed 4 categories of men who are difficult to get away from in public. You're choosing to hyperfocus on 1/4 for some reason. Whats not clicking? What part do you not understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:52 PM
0	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? ...I didn't say you said it was okay. I said this is what women experience and in these settings its hard to get away from men like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 06:42 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? For some reason some men would rather listen to men about how to approach women instead of listening to women, who are the ones being approached all the time and can tell them what they're doing wrong. Wgo and hardheadedness. Can't explain it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 06:12 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? No, these places are weird because like everyone else, we're there with an objective/task. So we oftentimes can't leave/get away if you're creepy, aggressive, socially incompetent, or can't handle hearing the word "no."	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 06:01 PM
3	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? 🏆🏆🏆	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:59 PM
1	Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sex So you men who have causal sex not feel powerful, too from that lens?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 03:34 PM
5	Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sex If it doesnt happen enough because less women are interested in causal sex compared to men. Men might be open to casual sex and/or a relationship etc. But most womens interests rates in causal sex are less than men. The risk for casual sex is also much greater for us and the societal shaming for being sexual falls solely on our shoulders	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 03:33 PM
12	Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sex This is just false and wrong hahahah I promise you some women care more about dick size, proximity, attentiveness etc than looks Also I've had double digit fwbs. Only 1 was incredibly hot. Average women are fucking average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 03:29 PM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? Also, I'm not saying all men are nerds, I was just giving examples of things men spend money on that some might seem frivolous. I could have said Steelers tickets and Coors Light memorabilia but idk anything about sports and beer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 10:32 PM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Ah. Gotcha	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:22 PM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? Enjoying and consuming media is...devolving? Also, do you think all animes are marketed created for children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:21 PM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? Its literally the exact opposite in my experience. As an adult you get to invest in your childhood interests and hobbies. A bunch of crazy Pokemon bidding happened in 2021 and 2022.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:20 PM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? You're old enough to pursue a masters so I assumed you knew what Gundams were. Sub it with "rare Pokémon cards, anime figurines, and FunkPop dolls"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 09:09 AM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? Then what would you call gundam collections and anime body pillows hehe	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 08:36 AM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? You operate within the agreed upon boundaries of conduct while in a relationship. Because you're not just representing yourself anymore. Your actions reflect onto your partner and how people perceive you them and you in the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 08:35 AM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? Wow, this take is so nuanced /s 🤩	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 08:34 AM
–	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? Phuckin freely, but this works for all genders	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 08:33 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? I reject your premise, and I'm saying even if it WERE true, if you were actually arguing in good faith, you'd examine why. The roots are still patriarchal. And you're the one who wants to die on this hill, so you should at least examine why these women you seem to have so much contempt for act the way that they act. Who looks at the supposed end result, complains, then staunchly declares that they refuse to examine things from the beginning? Its not a debate or argument in good faith. You're lit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 07:40 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Why might women historically be drawn to economic attractiveness? Get your head out of your ass and open a gender studies book lol No idea what correlation you're attempting to make between woman earning pay and eligible bachelors Women date down literally all the time, its just not always in the realm of finances PBFFR	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 07:27 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? "We shouldn't value womens discretion" "women are way too emotional to be trusted" This is why you're single and struggle in your relationships with women, btw. Women are just people. Women make decisions with the same exact neurological structures as you. You're acting like we're brain broken meanwhile you sound hella brainbroken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 07:25 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? The fact that you think men are not emotional and furthermore that that "fact" makes them more rational and therefore more equipped to problem solve...the premise and baseline assumptions I reject fully lol Have you met men lmfao Yeah, lets give the nukes to the emotionally stunted man babies who cry at sports games and can't even remember their kids' birthdays. Oh, and they can't stop trying to sexually assault anyone whose skirt happens to land above their knee. Btw their insurance rates are s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 07:13 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Yeah are are you still ignoring the historical context of this +25 year study? If you're in the US, this shit reaches all the way back to the US Constitution when only white landowners could vote. That's our starting point for personhood in the US. That is who has historically always been a person alloted inalienable rights a throughout US history (I don't know other nations histories). So we need to start with white men in 1787 if you're in the US and start examining WHEN different demographics…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:45 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Hm. This rationale falls in line w some peoples ideas about dates. I sometimes see women saying that whoever asks the other person out should pay, which transparently still favors women as not paying due to dating traditions	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:36 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Wait womens mating strategies are incompatible with familial success? Its the men going block to block to deposit sperm 🤣🤣 Even if a woman tries her DAMNEST she cannot conceive again whilst pregnant. Women are literally on the bench for 9 months if impregnated. They cant do anymore damage. Men are benched for 15 mins and can therefore do a lot more damage SINGLEHANDEDLY as free agents lol A woman fucks the entire block and has 1 child, maybe twins. A man fucks the entire block and has 30 kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:31 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Wtf is there a factory producing more people like you out there somewhere 😭😭🥹	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:07 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Yassss King I'll pay my rent in blowjobs, head scratches, homecooked meals and pantyless summer dresses please tyyyyy adds lingerie to cart 😘😘😘 In all seriousness my brother has done this for his gf in med school for like SIX YEARS. I was like, "Damn, maybe I should raise my standards" lol my brother does not like to spend frivolously	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:06 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? The power structures they've created, invested in, and upheld certainly do 😖 Can't lie I do love 🍆 tho so imma fake fan 🤧🤧🤧	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:02 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Wait whats the 'that' you're referring to, I'm lost I think	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:00 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? You can say that people dont like to put themselves in compromising situations, but men oftentimes expect women to concede in this realm to prioritize and protect male egos and male personal comfort at their own expense. There are men in this very thread who have voiced oppositiom to this sceanario saying that they'd never let themselves be put into this situation and their reasoning is all centered around power, however, very few of them choose to use that word. There are men saying, "I'd never…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 05:59 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Is a feminazi anyone who disagrees w you or...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 05:50 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? What "laws everywhere" are we talking about again? Cite your sources for the class, don't be shy. Also there are men in this thread expressing exactly what I've said, just from a mens pov-- take a scroll	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 05:48 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? I love how yall give your literal musty opinions and always claim its objective "truth" lol never gets old Never heard these stats about men leaving relationships before but I think the prevalence of single parent, female led households probably speaks otherwise Women are more selective from the jump, usually if we're upgrading its because men arent actively parenting/helping to run the household and your competition is. Also, men are more likely to leave committed, but aging and terminally ill …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 05:43 AM
–	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Are women "literally" hypergamous or is it that women didn't have the resources, rights, or power to be single property holders until the mid 1800s 🤔🤔 And now with a college diploma equalling what a GED meant in the 50s, women are more educated and able to step into their rights, invest, and own in inherit property that they were literally BLOCKED from doing for millenia? Men only have more resources because they've had MILLENIA to acquire inheritance and property purchasing power, as well as LI…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 05:39 AM
1	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? The premise of the scenario doesn't make too much sense with that background, does it? Y'all love to act dense lol Also the scenario is that you're doing this to split costs and bills, implying you want to spend less money on housing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:26 PM
4	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? The voice of reason and common sense 🏆	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:14 PM
2	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Smells like projection lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:13 PM
3	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? In what universe is your partner asking you to live in their house with them a sign that they don't see a future or shared future goals with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:13 PM
3	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? So if you were a homeowner and had a gf of say, 3 years...you wouldn't ask her to move into your house with you? You'd expect her to live at home with her parents?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:11 PM
2	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Baseline assumption: women are unhinged Write that down!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:10 PM
1	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Glad someone was honest and outright said it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:09 PM
1	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? What do you mean? Why would you "not worry" when living with the mens family? The scenario isn't about living with families. It's about romantic couples living together as a pair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:09 PM
2	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? The rules aren't being changed. It's clearly a scenario where the woman is the homeowner and you aren't. Its called a hypothetical question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:07 PM
5	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Its because men want the power to trap women financially and legally and to have the power of the head of household. Many don't want partners. They want live-in bang maids. And most would never put themselves in a compromising position willingly where they might not have the power or finances to leave someone. They're self-conscious, have low self esteem, and are insecure so they need to have that power over their partners to feel like they've got something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:06 PM
3	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? I could write several dissertations about mens emotional and fickle nature, as well as sexual strategy. PBFFR	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:01 PM
2	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? I think what you actually mean is: "As a man I prefer to have the power in the relationship, and I would never willingly wield that over to a woman, especially not in the realm of my accommodations. But I expect women to do this for me."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:00 PM
2	Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant? Define "expectations to do things I don't enjoy" pleasw	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 04:58 PM
1	Does a man with a high body count impresses you? Hmm, with all the baby mamas, children in multiple households, and secret families/wives....we def care about their pasts lol	/r/ExRedPill	14/06/23 06:06 PM
1	I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill content Wait, are these female friends you made organically or are these women in your friend circle because they are dating your other male friends? Bc imo that is a different type of female friend. That wasn't quite intentional or sought out friendship.	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/23 08:01 PM
1	I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill content 🫂	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/23 07:58 PM
3	I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill content What's the worst thing that happens to you if you try therapy, btw? Oh wait, it's nothing. Literally nothing. Maybe a few wasted hours and $$s. What's the potential reward? Becoming a better and healthier version of yourself who is more self-assured and introspective. Gaining a better understanding of yourself and your outlook, learning about your potential blindspots, areas of needed growth, and having a trusted connection with someone Low risk, high reward. Give it a try. And btw, women like m…	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/23 07:55 PM
3	I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill content This isn't relationship anxiety. This is a personal insecurity and a self-worth issue. All of your fears, everything stated here revolves around the premise of you not being good enough to maintain a woman's attention. Get into therapy ASAP. You make A LOT of false and toxic assumptions here, and I can def see the redpilled roots. The idea of a woman leaving her partner because she makes a higher salary...is that the kind of partner you'd even want? It's not. It's also not realistic. Please put …	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/23 07:44 PM
0	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? Read OP's last sentence. It clearly doesn't apply to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 02:34 AM
0	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? What does my seller profile have to do with my personal life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 02:33 AM
2	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? You seem like the type of disillusioned person who should not be giving advice on this specific post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 02:18 AM
1	The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signalling Plenty of women like hairtmy chests, a bit o' fluff and belly, and strong powerful thighs and arms. Beards are also ideal and attractive for man women. BFFR. Lots of women like Dad bods (this ranges from Nick Offerman to Chris Pratt btw).	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 07:50 AM
8	Should a man; get himself together, date the women who would never give him a chance, and then settle for a wife who appreciates him? Or should he find someone he adores to marry first? Should a man get all of the dissatisfaction out of his system? YUP	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/22 07:05 PM
5	I'm so sick of hearing RP whiney men bitch about "waiting for sex" or the "male sexlessness epidemic", as if they are entitled to sex to begin with. I feel like this is the most nuanced perspective I've seen on this subreddit	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/22 08:53 PM
3	I'm so sick of hearing RP whiney men bitch about "waiting for sex" or the "male sexlessness epidemic", as if they are entitled to sex to begin with. Blame, as Brenee Brown explains regarding the clinical perspective, is "the discharging of pain and discomfort". It is, in essence, a coping mechanism for people who are not resourced enough to begin the process of taking responsibility for their suffering, so the response to being overwhelmed is to "offload" some of that "pressure". Blame effectively does this - it makes someone or something else responsible for circumstances we may feel powerless to change. Damn, wow!	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/22 08:50 PM
3	I'm so sick of hearing RP whiney men bitch about "waiting for sex" or the "male sexlessness epidemic", as if they are entitled to sex to begin with. male sexlessness of the bottom 20% of men is justified because 100% of men were never meant to pass on their genes. I'm dead, I love this point	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/22 08:49 PM
1	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous I screenshotted the guys, no presentation yet!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 12:29 PM
1	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Yeah but most women don't wanna meet irl with someone who can't put any effort into crafting a bio. There are entire groups and forums dedicated to discussing womens experiences on dating apps on multiple social media platforms i have a presence on. Obviously, the most vocal and likely active women are on these forums. If a man can't even give a damn enough to promote and sell himself am I supposed to trust him to give me an orgasm or be a good communicator or potential love interest? Nah. Why w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 02:10 AM
0	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Yeah I hate that shit. Blank bios go left unless you're incredibly hot (not A&F, all american boy hot, either my own brains version of hotness lol) and even then you go left 60% of the time bc we likely aren't going to match anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 12:44 AM
2	The average man have no represantation in romance movie that target women Eternal Sunshine, Scott Pilgrim Versus the World-- I'm thinking manic pixie dream girl tropes? Idk	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 11:59 PM
-1	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Dude establishing a hoetation is hard and theres lots of trial and error even if you possess a vag :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 11:56 PM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... Yeah the fact that its even a debate for you to get involved in the problem. A room of 9 women, hell even 3 women would say something and stick up for the 1 girl getting harassed by one guy. Why wouldn't you get involved? There are 8 other men aside from you and the abuser. 8 other men who can intervene and say "this isn't right, stop." and yet all too often men act powerless when these scenarios play out in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 07:43 PM
6	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Yeah but why does this turn into womens fault. These threads also devolve into aggression towards women for having countless options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 07:37 PM
2	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Tinder, Bumble or Hinge? Pick your poison. I'm commuting so I might not be able to get to this now. I'm sure this could be a ppt presentation tbh lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 07:35 PM
2	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Where is this 80% number coming from? Also my standards differ from lots of other women I'm fairly certain. I know certain standards of mine are much higher and also much lower than other women as I'm open to both casual sex and a serious relationship at this time. I'm also only want to be fwb with folks who have similar values with me or who appear to be high libido. Its a lot lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 06:38 PM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... Yeah thats weird tbh its sad that that girl didn't have family and friends around her that could recognize the signs or that she could disclose her situation with. She needed people around her to protect and shelter her. Its nice that you two did that, but very different from the example above. Also thats how abusers work. They isolate you from friends and family and wear down your self esteem. You literally have been trained and conditioned to feel useless and unlovable without them. Its a tact…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 06:35 PM
1	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Yeah but it makes me wonder if these men are in these forums complaining about 1-3% match rates. Its so astoundingly common, it boggles my mind. Like why even download the app, it would appear that they're just there to look at girls? Idk	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:41 PM
2	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Line 1- all facts!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:38 PM
2	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... Agreed, just outlined a short formula above about the 9/10 men who think women are overgeneralizing them as creeps and how their complicity enables future bad behavior from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:35 PM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... Btw, we walk away thinking "men are jerks/useless/not worth the time" because while only 1/10 men in the room harassed us: 2 looked away and acted like they were deaf/mute/blind 3 just watched and looked embarrassed for their sex 2 looked like they would harass us in a different setting if given the chance 1 thinks that post-attack is the right time to try to cop our # MAYBE 1 spoke up to try to help diffuse the situation So it is not just the men who are actively being oppressive, entitled, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:34 PM
4	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous This is the first time I've heard a guy agree with me/concede on the point that right overswiping leads to inflation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:26 PM
1	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Women avoid for all sorts of reasons including mistrust of apps, fear of jeslously/competition, bad past dating app experience, taboo of meeting thu a "hookup app", concerns for physical safety and sexual health (what if a guy is lying about how many girls hes sleeping w) There are so many reasons why there are less women on apps. Men can already act creepy, entitled and overtly sexually inappropriate in person. Now imagine encountering that but your aggressor is behind the safety of their own p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:25 PM
1	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Imo you are assuming here that women rate men the same way that men rate women. I am constantly seeing women lower their standards to be with men and its honestly stunning to still see men complaining that we should lower our standards even further.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:21 PM
10	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous I never understand this point. Ive heard countless guys say that they swipe right on everyone but then they bitch that girls get 100-1000 matches a day. The problem has always sounded like mens standards and behaviors to me. Its literally yall inflating the market and providing us with the luxury of excess choice through over right swiping because yall dont care and your standards for choosing to engage with women are often low and superficial. Then you whine about getting lost in the crowd and.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:20 PM
4	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Hehehehe trueeee	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:11 PM
4	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous I would say a good 20% of men on tinder have blank profiles. Meaning pics loaded but zero text. I instantly swipe left on stuff like that. Women have a lot of shared instant red flags which might sound really arbitrary to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:11 PM
3	I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this? Yup.	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/22 10:15 PM
12	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been Do supermarkets and fast food restaurants prey on hungry people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 05:17 PM
1	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been It wouldn't be hard for her to find a husband...plenty of strippers, escorts, sugar babies and phone sex operators are partnered... I think a guy would be looked at strangely if he said he was seeking rub and tugs at the local massage parlor (trafficking is more likely in that situation). But meeting up with an appropriate provider in a consensual setting? Who cares-- obviously there is a market of available clientele because these women are making money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 05:16 PM
3	Curing Sexism Society. Lack of seeing the men in your life value the women in your life growing up. Your parents not explicitly teaching you to value women and what that does and does not look like.	/r/ExRedPill	30/10/22 06:12 AM
1	Can you tell when you've encountered a "post-wall woman?" What are they like? Fair point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 04:47 AM
2	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Yeah I'm saying that in extreme cases men act violent out of entitlement. Thats why I specifically said in "extreme cases" above	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 03:57 AM
2	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. I didn't say that men snap more than women do, I said they are more prone to violence when they do snap in extreme cases, which you appear to agree with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 10:25 PM
3	I was played and cheated on by the “trad” women the red pill claimed were the best women to date. Glad you saw the light, friend. The preying on broken and disillusioned men is 100% correct.	/r/ExRedPill	26/10/22 09:51 PM
2	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Okay but women have bad dating experiences as well. And they don't do what men who have bad dating experiences do. We don't have female Elliot Rodgers posting manifestos online. That is because there is often a degree of entitlement that men feel they are owed something sexually and romantically from women and society at large. Men literally mourn and rage because they feel they have been denied something that was promised to them. And in more extreme cases they then get violent. Women do not ty…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 08:06 PM
1	Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they want So zero force. Gotcha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 03:16 PM
3	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Cap is not consent lol Its literally work or die	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:41 PM
1	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Gov mandated gfs, I'm dying	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:41 PM
-1	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Usually we're saying that they're entitled because there is something in the language they are using that indicates entitlement. No one is mocking anyone for wanting love, intimacy, and affection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:39 PM
1	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Yup	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:37 PM
1	Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they want You likely wouldn't try to marry someone who has different sexual values w you. Just like how you and I disagree on sexual values. You seem to think your insecurities about measuring up to other men your partner has slept with is universal for all men. I think its common, but not as universal as you are acting. I do lots of tinder and bumble dating. I've never once had a guy ask me about # of people I've slept with. I have dated and am open to dating Dad bods and most women I know do as well-- w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:32 PM
3	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. See, you just did it! You just did the dehumanizing thing. Women are giving you their opinions. But you're labeling our opinions as "talking points" as if we're some sort of monolith. You're literally complaining that you don't understand women and then FIGHTING actual women for trying to explain shit to you. And then you sit there and wonder why you'll never understand 🥺 Listen. To. Women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:07 PM
4	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Lol I just decoded what you actually said above. Great tactic, though. The calm rational male always keeps his cool tips fedora	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:04 PM
3	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Well you clearly haven't ignored me, so you're off to a great start already. There's nothing compelling to say, your argument is shit and even most of the men here don't agree w you	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:03 PM
3	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Cosigned	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:59 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Its men giving them that attention and following them on social media so idk how your logic is to blame women for that. Take it up with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:57 PM
3	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. From the way you're describing women, yes, it does come off that way. You sound like a loser who has never left the basement based off of the conclusions you've presented here today my guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:56 PM
3	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. This is a very charitable analysis of men. Most of yall are just thinking w your dicks actually, which you are well aware of. You're just repeating dumbass manosphere talking points. "GUYS I CRACKED THE CODE-- WOMEN ARE ILLOGICAL AND OVERLY EMOTIONAL AND ITS ALL THEIR FAULT. THERE'S ZERO WORK TO BE DONE ON OUR END, THEY'RE THE BROKEN DUMB IDIOTS." smiles proudly Grow up and quit with the Andrew Tate talking points. You sound like a 12 year old. If women are so illogical then get out of line and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:55 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Why does any universal phrase exist. This is such a weak argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:50 PM
0	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Height totally matters for men as well, are you kidding? A lot of men would be slighted and less masculine dating a significantly taller woman. Have you ever seen those couples where super tall men pair up with super petite and short women? My theory is bc it makes them feel even taller lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:49 PM
4	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Confidence is really the most attractive thing. If you feel and act like an ugly ducking, people will also subscribe to that. Every girl I know has slept with a guy who they normally wouldn't because they were funny, charismatic, passionate, or the life of the party. But sure, srop trying completely and then complain about how impossible things are lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:44 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Cosigned	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:39 PM
0	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Cosigned	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:39 PM
4	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. who hurt you	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:39 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. You seem to view women as a foreign species that is completely seperate from men. So of course you're having trouble dating women-- you don't even see us as human. Plenty of men are fickle, flaky, and indecisive. Girls get ghosted after makeout sessions, sex, amazing dates. Please join reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:38 PM
1	Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they want Inbalance? What the hell are you even talking about? Adults dont care about that shit are you f-cking 5 years old? Jfc. Feminist spaces def care about women's actions lol the left is literally always eating itself 3 is your opinion Idk men get Dad bods and No Shave November. Its up to MEN to create body positivity in real life and online. That's what women did. For themselves. Its up to MEN TO DO IT FOR THEMSELVES.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:08 PM
1	Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they want Does that make it any less shallow?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 12:45 PM
2	Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they want Does that make it any less shallow?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 08:30 AM
-2	Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they want No ones sexual history is anyones business. Get tested regularly and have safe sex. There are conversations about older women being predatory towards younger men. If you were actually in feminist spaces you might be aware of that. The body positivity comment is just...your opinion, congrats. Dont even care to about your opinions about ethnicity. Height, yes the current beauty standards can benefit men, too. Should we call it glorifying height and men are trying to shame women into accepting thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 04:23 AM
1	Ned Fulmer cheated on his wife- Final nail in the coffin for the 'Pick Better' narrative Last sentence: "Is it still his wife's fault for not choosing better?" That was the prompt you provided to "the manosphere."	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 10:59 PM
2	Ned Fulmer cheated on his wife- Final nail in the coffin for the 'Pick Better' narrative How did you manage to blame him cheating on the wife?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 05:12 AM
1	Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way around Your point about men perceiving politeness = interest is 100% correct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 05:04 AM
4	Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way around Women get approached by men a lot more than men get approached by women. So yeah, we're tired. And no one owes you niceness. You are not entitled to nice interactions from anybody, esp if you are interrupting their day. Men interrupt women's days a lot more than women interrupt men's days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 05:02 AM
4	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? Yeah, but before GIFS and videos existed or were even commonly accessible Playboy and Hustler mags were flying off the shelves as top sexual literature for men, or maybe just top mens magazines in general aside from like Sports Illustrated mag I'd imagine	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 06:20 PM
4	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? I like this take!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 06:18 PM
2	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? Yes & yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 06:17 PM
15	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? YES. The seperation between physical & sexual attraction is real!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 06:16 PM
3	Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right? That too, its such a dishonest argument. We've literally seen footage of soldiers' mothers breaking down on camera over the loss of their sons. Obviously the war is real and the effects of the loss of life are real and salient. Posting young women vs dead soldiers is disingenuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:26 PM
7	Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right? You already get extra benefits and privileges inherently by being male. This is why words like sexism and misogyny exist. To describe systems and concepts in society designed to benefit men. Also insert evolutionary biology answer about human gestational periods, human child development and breastfeeding averages for adult human women. Add in legal studies about parental custody arrangements rates and you get the gist about why women aren't inscripted into combat. Btw, are you also advocating fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:51 AM
0	Are women happy with the current state of dating? Note: Dating apps are NOT completely safe (for anyone). Plenty of people get unsolicited dick pix, experience online harassment, and even stalking. I understand you have an argument to make and its definitely a safer alternative to other forms of dating. But its also a lot easier to end up in conversation with an unvetted psychopath.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:50 AM
0	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Honestly so many men are committed to these false narratives and realities that they've created in their heads about what women have done, what theyre owed and what they deserve, etc. So much bitterness they've developed over non-real things. I agree, its not worth the time and energy to convince anyone anything. Just live life and enjoy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:18 AM
2	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him? Why is his goal to have lots of sex with lots of different women? Like why is this goal specifically important to him jw	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 05:02 AM
3	Young women encourage toxic masculinity Paragraph #2 is wrong imo. And maybe confirmation bias from my perspective. Perhaps its your experience, but it doesn't ring as truth at all based on my experience. You seem to think that women think masculine men should treat them like shit. Therefore slighted men adopt toxic viewpoints to...treat women like shit in the way they "want" to be treated like shit by mirroring "masculine" men??? Like all I see is a weird negative feedback loop here. I dont know any men who treat women with good self…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 03:20 AM
2	Man's view on IUDs jw, did your wife use to enjoy receiving flowers or pricey/flashy jewelry? Are y'all short on cash? Are there any external factors that might have led to a response like this?	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/22 04:30 AM
1	Field report a few years after I filed for divorce not me being a self-professed ball drainer and personal shopper :')	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/09/22 04:27 AM
3	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women At least you're willing to admit it you said "relax" in spite. That's more than most folks can yield to. I don't understand nihlism. It is just "we;re on a floating rock through space so none of this matters anyway?" I should research this separately but philosophy stuff is kind of boring to me aside from the cave allegory shiz. I know there's good shiz there but I refuse to engage lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 04:19 AM
-1	Tinder is effectively broken already. I didn't say "what are asking OP". I literally said that I fail to see the point of these studies and what these studies (not you, OP) are asking/suggesting/positing. Citation: "I fail to understand these types of studies. We already know that men tend to swipe more indiscriminately on dating apps. Is the complaint that women don't swipe as indiscriminately as men?" I was asking you to examine your position a bit as posting in a pilled forum about dating on tinder is kind of inherently complaini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 04:17 AM
1	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women In short, I posted the question bc I wanted OP to answer (insert "Answer for your crimes, OP!" meme here). I was confused at your comment because I had assumed you had replied to me to defend OP's honor, ya know? Instead you said something really different and egalitarian from what OP said. I'm asking OP to internally investigate and challenge why he thinks it's women's responsibility to be chaste without holding the same expectations for men (big ask, lmfao). And you're over here giving him ans…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 04:05 AM
4	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women What makes you think I'm...not relaxed. You broke down my comments point by point and I...replied in turn. Weird. Yeah of course men shouldn't give a shit about what other people think (and maybe no one should) but they...do. So no solutions found here tonight. Back to the drawing board.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 03:55 AM
1	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women wait what's fuckzoning? like someone ghosting after using then for sex? Also if women are more likely to get "fuckzoned" by men then OP needs to be giving his speech to OTHER MEN. Not women. Do y'all blame men for getting "friendzoned" by women? Not really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 03:50 AM
-1	Tinder is effectively broken already. Woman: starts 1 single sentence with "I feel" Man: "you went off about your feelings" I know that my opinions are not facts, hence leading with "I feel." You don't need to reiterate your point. I understand your point and I disagree with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 03:46 AM
4	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women I didn't say or insinuate that men are socialized due to TV so I'm not sure where that's coming from. I think this happens in home and school environments from a young age. Sure, domestic violence is complex. But men are still the main perpetrators of it, so what's your point? I never said that the factors you listed were not reasons or contributors to the statistics. You're agreeing with me and justifying the agreement through your reasoning, which is fine. I wasn't talking about "beta" identif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 03:38 AM
2	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Okay, that's what you think. That is not what OP said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 03:34 AM
2	Tinder is effectively broken already. Your lesson is that tinder is useless for men. My lesson is that swiping indiscriminately is ridiculous and not fruitful. It looks like they swiped indiscriminately in the study and women had more matches, but thats also because men tend to swipe indiscriminately. So of course all the indiscriminate people matched with one another. Women do not just choose men based off of looks. Women do not swipe indiscriminately irl. There should have been a decent profile to accompany these "average" attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 03:30 AM
1	Tinder is effectively broken already. I didn't assume anything? I said that I failed to understand the point of these studies. Your comments were, "for the average man...its basically useless...its broken" + "happy hunting." Seems like a complaint. Also, are women prey to he hunted? I feel like these surveys tell us things we already know and tend to solidify the concept in mens minds that womens standards are too high or that women are too picky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 03:25 AM
3	Tinder is effectively broken already. I fail to understand these types of studies. We already know that men tend to swipe more indiscriminately on dating apps. Is the complaint that women dont swipe as indiscriminately as men? How do we take into account the different types of behaviors that men and women exhibit on dating apps? My guy friends all joke about how they just swipe right continously without reading profiles. Even my male friends who claim to want genuine romantic connections don't read profiles. Even the ones who just w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 02:11 AM
9	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women I didnt say that men should be mindreaders. I'm saying that men as an entity seem to think the "absence of no" = yes (because it benefits them to think as such). Obviously a man can be confused about signals. Men are human beings. But men are also socialized to feel entitled to womens bodies and to intentionally ignore women's boundaries. Thats why domestic violence, sexual assualt, groping, molestation, and cat-calling happen. Obviously any gender can be an offender. But men are disproportionat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 12:25 AM
14	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Guys do understand hints. They just feel entitled to womens time and space and know that they can sometimes get what they want when they push boundaries. Because they care more about their wants than your discomfort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 07:03 PM
2	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women The girl should be clearer (except women deal with the reality of physical violence for rejecting men every day) but Raphael should also understand that the absence of NO ≠ YES.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 07:02 PM
6	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Why would you only teach girls not to have sex in the first month without having the same expectations for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 07:00 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Sis why u think im a male	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/22 04:28 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory I listed 4 different things in agreement with OPs comment. So if you discerned "rage" (1/9) when I agreed with 8 other things...can't help you, sis.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/22 04:18 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory sis	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 05:27 PM
5	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory YES! THIS IS THE ANSWER. yes. Insecurity, entitlement, rage, and revenge. So common.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 02:49 AM
1	I don't want just fuck hot women anymore, I want to pair bond. Okay. Plenty of women want that, too. Whats your point?	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/22 05:28 AM
1	Does a man with a high body count impresses you? Women don't feel the same societal need to plow through men tbh. Also a woman bragging about a high body count would be slut-shamed to high hell. Think about how sex workers and anyone working in any proximity to the sex industry is labeled a slut (OF girls, strippers, Hooter's waitresses). Women are not rewarded societally for being sexual. It is considered morally loose for women to be sexual and morally fine for men to be sexual.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/22 02:57 PM
4	Women need to give men more chances for a while before ghosting them out forever... This is dumb as fuck to aim at women because all people struggle w dating, personal interaction, conversation, etc. Men LOVE to tell women to lower their standards and honestly it's tired as fuck. I'm sure there are a bunch of partnered people and happy couples that you've observed in your life. They all made it through the minefield of dating, so obviously this shit is not impossible and I'm sure most of them did it without lowering their standards. Learn from your mistakes and get better. Don'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 05:39 AM
14	Does a man with a high body count impresses you? No And men say that to impress other men, not to attract women. They're also lying. And even if they weren't the reality of that would be psychotic.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 05:24 AM
1	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? Okay but why would they be sexually incompatible with a women who has slept with more people than them? Literally please explain how, definitively. What is the basis of the sexual incompatiblity? How is the conclusion that they are sexually incompatible come about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 08:34 PM
1	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? Great bc I was tipsy typing lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 07:18 PM
1	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? Okay. But the issue is WHY are men in the example you provided looking for that specific type of woman. Your point seems to imply that women who are experienced in their twenties don't want LTRs at the same time men their age do...or something? It doesn't even make sense. Its literally just male insecurity about not matching up to the last dude. If you can't commit to a LTR because you know your GF has had other sexual partners in the past then you're literally just insecure and once again, want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 07:15 PM
5	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? An experienced guy wanting a virgin is a hypocrite seeking "unclaimed land." He is looking for an conquest. An experienced man looking for inexperienced women is looking for someone to mold and manipulate. I dont think anyone has a problem w inexperienced people wanting to be with inexperienced people. The issue is that they want to lay stake in "virginal" or "uncorrupted" territory that they then lose interest in shortly afterwards in sight of the next conquest. Its predatory. Its literally say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 04:26 AM
2	Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. How does this statement add to the conversation? Rhumel just said that above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 06:09 PM
3	Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. I wish more men could see this response. A lot of women are really accomodating and open-minded for someone they like a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 12:42 AM
2	Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. I'm a literal footseller so theres no need to discuss the importance of accommodating mens kinks to me lol I am constantly telling men that they should disclose their kinks. Most aren't a big deal and more women than one would think are VERY ACCOMODATING. Men will be happier finding someone in the same kink community as them and women are happy when they can please their partners sexually. I hear a lot from men who have closeted their own kinks and are miserable even though they love their wives…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 10:30 PM
9	Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. Hmm, this is a good point! I have high libido for a specific person, not men overall. I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 09:57 PM
2	Generational differences in hotness standards Yess! Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 09:52 PM
2	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? I didn't say that I didn't understand the dictionary definition of the words you used. I said that I don't understand what you mean, what your argument is, why you feel how you do, or what you're trying to say with the words you used. You have a typo above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 08:53 PM
5	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Idk what you're saying	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 01:21 PM
–	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? They just don't see woman as human beings. Point blank period. They don't recognize us as fully sentiment beings with our own thoughts, amibitions, priorities, goals, faults, distractions, etc. It feels like there is very little desire to emphasize with and understand women as people. Men seem very focused on their own quests, checking off their boxes, finding what they want, and not interested in being interesting or fully formed people for the women that they claim they want to attract. I see …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 02:36 AM
4	I always wondered this about redpillers... Oop, that too lol	/r/ExRedPill	04/07/22 12:12 AM
1	What is your advice for a 35 year old virgin? For additional context, OP has also said that he isn't sure he's ready for a longterm relationship. Hes 35. That would likely be a huge red flag to a lot of women his age. LOTS of women are looking for long term stable partners starting as soon as 25. So OP is could in theory be like, 10 years "too late" for the casual dating scene. He's not because there are plenty of 30+ single women, but in theory lets say. His current dating pool IS restricted to available women his age who are also not look…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 09:03 PM
1	What is your advice for a 35 year old virgin? OP could be a virigin for 1000 reasons but it feels like you're trying to insinuate something else here. I'm not being paid to be here-- if I didn't think OP was genuinely attractive I would have just...not commented. See how that works? Its fine if you don't think OP is hot, but I do and I said what I said 💖💖💖 Also, you're asking a Black woman this question. I grew up in very white areas and didn't realize I was considered hot until I moved to a large, diverse city bc in my hometown no one was …	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 08:30 PM
3	Why are men in redpill are obsessed with women? YES 1000%.	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 05:08 PM
2	I don't want just fuck hot women anymore, I want to pair bond. Also, if you have close relationships with women as you mentioned below, than you do have chemistry with women. You have something about you that makes women want to be around you which means you've figured out something that 90% of RP'd men have not. Its either your humor, personality, wit, something that allows you to have close friendships w women. I don't know if I believe chemistry can be inspired but I think it can be organic Were you pretending when you made friendships w your female frie…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 05:04 PM
2	I don't want just fuck hot women anymore, I want to pair bond. When you say, "never be loved ever again" does that mean you had a past situation that didn't work out?	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 05:02 PM
1	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women Jealous prude 😇	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 05:33 AM
2	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women So well said	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 11:06 PM
3	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women I am so glad you are away from that relationship and your body is literal goals! I'm tryna get like yoouuuuu You didn't deserve the shit he said to you.	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 11:04 PM
2	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women Omg yess!!! 1000% percent agree.	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 11:02 PM
8	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women Hard agree	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 11:01 PM
5	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women I think you make a great point about control stemming for fear. You've given me something to think about and I think I agree! In addition: Only weak men are attracted to weak women. Rp'd men reveal this about themselves all the time without realizing it, even though they're obsessed with looking not weak. The majority of men openly looking for a weakwilled + pliable + submissive partners are looking for someone to exploit and manipulate. End of story. They are looking for easy prey. People who a…	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 10:59 PM
1	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women Why are my panties wet rn? 🥵 But also, thanks for posting +1	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 10:50 PM
3	Former Redpiller here (17m) Your uncle probably just hates himself and his life and sees how full you are of light and potential. Misery loves company. He tried to indoctrinate you while you were young it seems. Glad you're seeing the light at the end of the tunnel with his mentality. He definitely noticed that you were getting attention from girls your age and threw a hissy fit about it. Kinda gross considering you're still kids, he shouldn't be worried about your business like that	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 01:21 AM
9	I don't want just fuck hot women anymore, I want to pair bond. You're also the first poster I've seen (I'm v new here) that understands that you cannot attract women that you want a genuine relationship with by pretending to be someone else. You can not. You need to be yourself to find someone who is compatible with you.	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 01:12 AM
5	I don't want just fuck hot women anymore, I want to pair bond. Oh god rollo tony is such a fking clown. Glad you learned some valuable lessons here.	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 01:10 AM
2	What is your advice for a 35 year old virgin? My comments on your rateme got deleted but thats fine, I was thirsting pretty badly You're literalllly hotttt holy shitt	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/22 10:11 PM
2	What is your advice for a 35 year old virgin? YOU'RE LITERALLY HOT, I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW 😭😭😭	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/22 10:03 PM
1	Women outnumbering Men in college. I actually love this comeback hahahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 09:59 PM
-1	The average men does not want the average women (in the US) It kinda sounds like you're the type of person to say it, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 08:51 PM
2	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? Pretty sure gay for pay is one of the the top male porn categories and some straight pornstars have opened up about that fact that they do gay porn for money in documentaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 12:36 PM
1	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? You also dont have to project your limited beliefs and worldview onto me and come to the conclusion that I'm "just acting" and yet here ya are. Im not claiming that my friends are attracted to bums, I said that money is not the only thing that women in my friend group are looking for when dating. Our statements are not in disagreement with one another so its interesting that you found a point of contention there. "A provider is attractive" can be true WHILE "money isn't everything women look for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 01:17 AM
1	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? Why would anyone put on an act in an anonymous forum? None of us have to be here commenting. Why act?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 01:15 AM
1	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? I'm not saying why you do YOU think they're less happy. Your answer being: they told me so. I'm trying to ask WHY do you think they're less happy, as in what factors in their lives as women contribute to them being less happy than men in the same economic bracket?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 01:08 AM
1	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him Wdym? Did you even read my post? I didn't want more, so obviously being offered more was unappealing to me. We were two people who agreed to have sex only. His feelings voided that original agreement. And he was my friend, not a shameful thing. Also we had plenty of sex and our libidos matched. I just didnt want to take advantage of my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 12:28 AM
2	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? Those aren't partners. That's a man with his sugarbaby. And the reverse does exist, women are just not as flagrant with their displays. Cougars/sugar mamas definitely exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:08 PM
1	Is pro-female bias biologically ingrained in us? Or is it cultural? Holy f-ck	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 04:22 AM
0	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him I am very romantically inclined and can attach very easily. Just not to him because I was looking for sex only and I was under the impression that he was as well. During this time period I had like 6 other tinder flings and no one else got attached the way this guy did. It had to stop, it was hurting someone who I had grown to care about. And the chemistry wasn't right ultimately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 03:39 AM
2	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him I wasn't looking for a relationship. If I was looking for a boyfriend, different discussion. I was not looking for a committed relationship. I literally did not want or need more. I wanted and needed less while he needed more. Which is okay, but it made the arrangement incompatible. He claimed he wasn't looking for a relationship either, but a relationship was what he ultimately grew to want. There's nothing wrong with that, but it made us less compatible. We only agreed to meet up for sex. I da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 03:32 AM
-2	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? I don't know what type of women you aim for, but very few of my friends care about income as long as the person they're dating has motivation, drive, passion, etc. Me and my friends have our own incomes so currently we care about whether or not a guy is a tender lover, would be a good father, knows how to cook or fix things around the house. We are looking for men who know how to divide labor equitably around the house. I think a lot of women would be willing marry a man who treats them well reg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:49 AM
2	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him So, women fuck chads AND betas according to this example? - And during the same time period where gestational timelines align? - And they both look similar enough to pass each others' kids off as one anothers' in this unrealistic (let's be honest) sceanario?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:42 AM
2	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? Why do you think that rich and attractive women are less happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:18 AM
3	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? oteReplyGive AwardShareReportSaveFollow level 3anonymous- pretty sure the "provider" in that fantasy wants to come home to a clean home, food on the table, pantry full, and likely wants to continue his legacy w a few jrs	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:16 AM
1	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? lmfao, right! Women are living life on easy mode, yet they chose to choose to be men every time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:15 AM
3	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? Men make money on OF, too, their audience is just primarily other men 🤠🤠🤠	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:13 AM
4	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? I think she's more likely to get raped and victimized by the men around her, but sure, a Cinderella story could happen and any attractive poor person might try to use their looks to get ahead if possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:12 AM
-6	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? An attractive rich woman will be able to hoe around just like a regular girl, but the population of men who she can actually look up to and respect will be miniscule. You can flip this around for men, too and the sentence is still true, "An attractive rich man will be able to hoe around just like a regular guy, but the population of women who he can actually look up to and respect will be miniscule."	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:10 AM
5	[discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man?? your last sentence lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:09 AM
1	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him He was short but I've dated shorter men before. Like 5 diff guys who were shorter than me lol. I don't care about body type that much esp for casual sex and fun dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 01:16 AM
9	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him I'm not talking about "the one" when I say "the right person." I mean that we shouldn't try to force shit that isn't for us. You shouldn't be interested in someone who thinks that you're cringey and desperate when you're expressing genuine romantic or sexual interest. You want someone to match the enthusiasm that you have. Getting your dick wet shouldn't be degrading.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 12:28 AM
3	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him I just made an argument above about how this wouldn't be advantageous from a genetic perspective so clearly that is still my stance, honey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 12:11 AM
3	Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west? Men can still compete til like 45 whereas for women it falls off at around 35 ??	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 12:10 AM
1	Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west? You said that men are able to compete until they're 45. I'm asking if you personally feel like you are in competition with men in their mid-forties. And "why or why not" you feel however you feel	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 12:04 AM
1	Women are attracted to men with social intelligence, which is why you can't understand women's struggles If you mistake normal friendliness for flirting, then no, you do not understand when someone is trying to flirt w you. That being said, sometimes people, specifically women can be excessively flirty for fun and to tease. That is definitely a real thing that exists and occurs and can be confusing to anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 11:56 PM
2	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him I just explained why a woman wouldn't even want to date a chad in the first place. It's not advantageous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 11:47 PM
2	Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west? What's the breaking news here-- that fat women hypothetically fuck? That men have "lower standards" than women? Your argument is FAT = BAD but here you are providing evidence against that. Yes, fat women are on the market. Yes, fat women have sex. If you listen to fat women talk, you would know that many of the men who denounce them in public are pining for them in private. The same thing happens to trans women btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 11:44 PM
1	Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west? r/MensRights Do you feel like you are competing with me in their mid-forties? Why or why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 11:39 PM
1	Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west? AntiFeminismAU Better off without idolizing OTHER men** bc that is what they are truly doing	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 11:37 PM
5	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him Do you know what happens when catcalling by randos goes wrong--when we don't react the way they want us to, or if we ignore them? Encounter the wrong guy and you end up raped, assaulted, dead	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 10:52 PM
8	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him sarkington Sex w a different girl every other day is sex addiction and maladaptive and you shouldn't be jealous of someone who makes their body a living petri-dish for STIs. Also most women don't like have sex with strangers so this seems really exaggerated. It's funny how men will try to use evolutionary excuses to frame why men should cheat, or why they feel one guy gets all the women etc but fail to see things from a woman's perspective. Most women don't like sharing. Hoping onto community di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 10:39 PM
-2	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him what	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 10:29 PM
11	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him It's not. And the "right" person won't think that you're being too desperate. Even if you are just seeking sex, the "right" casual fling won't think you're being desperate bc ideally they want to hook up as much as you do. When you worry about coming off as desperate, you start to come off as desperate. You have to do what feels right, normal, and natural to you. No bullshit xx-hr waiting periods. No bullshit negging. Just talk to people when you want to talk to them and don't when you don't. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 10:28 PM
5	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him They didn't mention sex so we wouldn't know, would we?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 10:22 PM
8	CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject him Yeah-ish w/ caveats. I was physically attracted to a fckbuddy, but not seeking a relationship as I was still getting over an ex. "Hookup only" (said in cuter way) was clearly stated on my Tinder profile. After ~3ish months of weekly sleepovers I knew that he wanted more, having sex and touching started to feel icky because I knew it was beginning to mean more to him than it did it me. Knowing how he felt and continuing to have sex would have just been using him. So we stopped but I know it was p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 10:21 PM
1	I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a life And from a fellow 27 y/o, we are still very much young. You're gonna wish you could kick your knucklehead self for saying this when you're 83. But suicidal thoughts and ideation is no joke, I'm not a medical professional so I can't offer help there. Have you ever called a hotline for resources before?	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/22 12:20 AM
1	I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a life One last thing, it is evident from your language that you seem to kind of despise yourself. You don't sound happy with yourself and the list you've constructed speaks to the negative self image you harbor. You're asking someone to endure your company when YOU don't even seem to be able to endure your own company. How does that make an ounce of sense? You want people to find you attractive when even though you don't find yourself attractive. You have to work on your inner self before you can even…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/22 12:18 AM
1	I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a life Do you want to change? If you want to change, you will. If you don't, you won't. Change is scary. What we know is comfortable. You're going to have to abandon the impulses you've developed and lean into what is uncomfortable. You haven't said, "I want to change. I want to be a different person tomorow than I was today. You are in a downward spiral of rumination. You need to pick your head up, get out of your room, and actively be a different human being today than you were yesterday. Go for a wa…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/22 12:05 AM
1	(About PUA,not sure if it's redpill))Every 1,000 years, 75 per cent of the genetic information is lost. After 6.8 million years, every single base pair is gone, Why do men care so much about getting laid, being alpha and spreading their seeds? Ty 😇 💕hehe	/r/ExRedPill	16/06/22 06:26 PM
2	(About PUA,not sure if it's redpill))Every 1,000 years, 75 per cent of the genetic information is lost. After 6.8 million years, every single base pair is gone, Why do men care so much about getting laid, being alpha and spreading their seeds? I dont have an opinion here but maybe its bc so many RPs base their mental hierarchies about chads, beckys, sex, etc off of claims about evolution, strength, domiance, spreading seed. Like saying human men are ape brained so obv they feel entitled to sex and status and women or harems the way male apes do (which nature than equates to lots of offspring). I feel like these arguments are also used to denounce "loose" women. Women who are "used up"/have had lots of sex are evolutionarily more dange…	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/22 03:26 AM
1	Since I left the redpill, it’s been extremely harder to be in a relationship. Unsolicited thought.... With those RP tactics you attracted Insecure people who were in many ways activated by your distant and unpredictable ways because its how they're used to being treated in relationships. Basically you were acting like a chaotic negging fuck, so you attracted Insecure people who are used to chaos and needed validation from external sources. Secure people are...secure. They don't need that. They had their needs met growing up and they themselves internally have everything t…	/r/ExRedPill	12/06/22 04:20 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? Journal Yeah, so the fact that these men are meticulously logging their interactions with women is creepy. This is what I meant when I said that women can tell that you are not looking to interact with them in genuine ways. Men who are running around logging this shit, trying to talk to a bunch of different women with the same rehearsed lines and scenarios (pretending to ask for direction to eventually tell someone that they're cute) it's giving very much predator v prey. Women can tell. Women c…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 05:29 PM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? I think this is false. To me, that's like saying "there's no such thing as a common televangelist belief." The market that the PUA has constructed and the consumer base that the PUA community has attracted inherently assigns specific beliefs and mindsets to the community. You can literally see the same toxic advice and beliefs in viral PUA and "dating coach" vids online.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 05:21 PM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? I am honestly not sure what you are complaining about. You said yourself that you have not tried to approach a woman or expressed attraction to her, ever. Yet you claim to not understand female sexuality. But how could you understand something you've never even tried to do before? It sounds like your confusion could be coming from conflicting information or trying to implement techniques from PUAs.You identify as having "zero success with women" but it moreso sounds like you're frustrated that w…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 05:08 PM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? Wait, so you've never approached a woman in your life, ever (and I don't blame you, it's hard!) but you're convinced that Mystery is the best PUA ever. But you don't even have a shred of personal or anecdotal real life experience where you've but that belief to the test? If you believed his word was as true and effective as you say, wouldn't you be eager to try it out? I've also heard this critique of rp'd people before. An overwhelming feeling of loss and rejection, even though many do not even…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 03:11 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? there's no such thing as "what pickup artists say". Do you not see the irony is saying " there's no such thing as "what pickup artists say" and then going on to recite what your fav pickup artists says for a whole paragraph or...	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 03:06 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? I got 3 mins into the video you posted and clicked out. What you and other rp'd men see as logic and formula resembles borderline schizophrenic ramblings to normal women. The fact that a man has attempted to analyze, deconstruct and develop a formula for human interaction is CREEPY. The fact that you don't understand how that is a turn off is concerning. Men like you in the RP community claim to want "genuine connection or interaction" with women, but you go into interactions with women as if yo…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 03:05 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? The root of all of this though is that you do not view women as people such as yourself. You see women as a foreign, alien species to decode and decipher. This is not the case and the men selling you the snakeoil make a pretty penny off of your insecurities. I'm curious: do you seek out social scripts for your interactions with men? If so, what resources do you use? And have they been successful in the past? You seem very married to the idea that PUAs have the answer and will lead to your succes…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 02:06 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? I don't think that men understand that PUAs are not your friend. They are salesmen preying on your insecurity. They are not on your side. No one wants to be insulted in any sort of interaction. But if this "PUA" was successful at a drunk beach party in Thailand (edit: Brazil?) thru all his ramblings then good for him I guess?? There is no 3-second rule. There is no 3-minute rule. There is no formula. And back to my base thoughtL Your basis of assumption is flawed.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 01:59 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? I didn't say that he was mocking pick-up artists in the video. The example at the time stamp I provided was a TikTok video of someone satirizing tactics that PUAs explicitly instruct men to perform. You don't need to explain what a PUA is to me-- assume I have the same set of knowledge that you do unless I ask for clarification (aka don't mansplain simple shit on exredpill community, c'mon now) further edit: your "awesome and recognized" experts are self-titled as such within your rp'd community…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 01:56 AM
1	I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out! I'm confused. You say you're demi and seeking a bond, but you have a fixation with virginity loss. Wouldn't you care more about having a loving relationship and partner overall compared to sex? Like, wouldn't finding a fulfilling relationship take priority over a concept like virginity at this time in your life? Edit: You can also have fufilling relationships with casual sex partners, but since you're seeking a mutual (I assume) bond it sounds like you would prefer relationship > just sex.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 01:35 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? So I just said that women are not sets or collections of sexual switches. And that interactions are not Black+White. You didn't really engage with my point except to reiterate your past views. Edit: I am saying that I believe your basis of assumption is flawed. So going into interactions with that basis of assumption will always render negative results. I also don't see what this copy+pasted blurb has to do with my comment about trying to create formulas and hack dating	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 01:30 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? In addition, would you want to be approached like this? The manipulation tactics are sad and tired. They show women that the man they're interacting with is insecure, malicious, and desperate.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 01:13 AM
1	where are the women who don't care about gender roles Lots of bi and queer women and femmes don't give a fuck about gender roles. There are plenty of straight women as well. As a baseline, women care about having a partner who is safe, attentive, reliable, affectionate, equitable, and dependable. Notice how none of these traits are correlated with gender. Also, out a million women, 35% is 350,000 women. So, like, by your estimates, A LOT of women actually don't care about gender roles that much. Multiply according to your country's population.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 12:56 AM
2	In what ways to redpillers sabotage themselves? Thinking that their is a formula to "hack" human interaction Think that this formula will allow them to "unlock" a prize or "reward" --> that they are now "owed" something from a disingenuous interaction they had as a means to an end.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 12:51 AM
2	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? You are clearly looking for some sort of formulaic hack. But human interaction is not that black + white. You seem really deep in the lingo with this talk about "sexual switches." It's not healthy to engage with yourself in such a hyper-analytic way, or to think about your interactions with women in that fashion. You are a human being. You are not a collection of sexual switches. You are varied and multi-faceted. You should have interests, hobbies, friends, meaningful relationships in your life.…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 12:40 AM
1	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? They don't get women. They SAY that they get (or "bed" women), but if they don't. And even if they did they're definitely not mentally stable women their own age. The PUA community has been really successful at marketing to and convincing men to believe that their tactics work. That does not mean that the tactics truly work.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 12:36 AM
6	Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality? they don't work. just because a pickup artists claims something works and wants you to pay to learn more (buy courses, e-books) does not mean it works. I find it so strange that men get dating advice about women from men that act like used car salesmen.	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 12:34 AM
2	I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW today Women are responsible for rewarding the wrong men with sex Who are the wrong men? Please define "the wrong men" for the group. If the "wrong men" are having sex with right women (can we assume there is a right woman?), why is the onus of policing or punishing the "wrong men" being put onto women? Are men able to identify the "wrong men" the best? If so, how are the "wrong men" continually permitted access to the "right women?" Sex is not a "reward." Sex is a mutual connection between two consent…	/r/ExRedPill	08/06/22 11:56 PM