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Discussionkingplanet/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:12 PM
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Discussionkingplanet/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:05 PM
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Discussionkingplanet/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:45 AM
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Discussionkingplanet/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:33 AM
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you are avoiding the comment and trying to reduce it. i’m interested in having a discussion, not a straw man argument. read the other comments. i’m not talking about one situation, i thought i made that very clear. i’m not willing to rewrite everything i’ve written so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 08:12 PM
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how am i judging them? i said i feel unsafe. is feeling unsafe judgement? i don’t confront people about it. i don’t wear a t shirt that says “if you stare at me you are a bad person. it just makes me uncomfortable. if a group of gay dudes who are physically stronger than you start staring at you without stopping, and i mean purposely staring at you with the intention of you noticing, wouldn’t it make you a little uncomfortable? i wouldn’t call you judgmental or entitled for that. you are on a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 08:00 PM
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how is it entitled though? why are you comparing my comment to other people’s? and your discrediting my thoughts because they seem tame, or because you think i’m sensitive? wtf? how is it entitled. i mean yeah realistically it’s a free for all in terms of socialization, but i would rather just be ignored. how am i being a thought police? did i once they “you are not allowed to stare at me”? where is the entitlement coming from? what do you mean by entitled? edit: what i’m saying is that you usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 06:19 PM
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yeah I mean i don’t feel entitled, i don’t think. of course we can have thoughts about whatever, but have you ever just stared at someone even though they look back at you multiple times, look frightened and uncomfortable, yet you keep staring for your own pleasure? that’s what sounds entitled. “my eyes have a right to look at you any way i want, and there is nothing you can do about it, and that’s what brings me pleasure” obviously it’s not a crime. but i know for certain that if i’m looking at…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 05:40 PM
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no dude. if i found someone attractive but they kept staring at my after i indicated i wasn’t interested i would be equally freaked out. i mean old people. random employees. i mean situations where it is obvious that i’m not looking for sexual attention and they do it anyways. i’m not talking about some guy my age that i don’t happen to find attractive. that wouldn’t bother me. but the staring. even when i’m visibly uncomfortable. i said league because they know i wouldn’t be interest, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:50 PM
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lmao ok? what’s your problem? i’m not down to talk with someone who is arguing in bad faith. have a nice life edit: your coming off as aggressive and not very understanding, or even really interested in a conversation. your just trying to shoot what i’m saying to the ground. but this was a question for women and i gave a heartfelt response. not my fault that you refuse to look at life from another persons perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:37 PM
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romance isn’t only about sex. if that’s in the forefront of your mind when your interacting with someone then you probably don’t like them for who they actually are. friendships are because you like spending time with the person. best friendships are when you really decide that this person is particularly special to you. then if you find them attractive and it seems like they find you attractive then it can become romantic. you can be friends with people you want to have sex with. people do it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:38 AM
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could you explain the comparison? what’s your point? are you going to cop out from replying by putting me in some box?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:35 AM
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yes but if there are exceptions then the claim can’t be universal. theres always exceptions, it’s not so black and white. there’s a reason why men say “not all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:57 AM
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sexual advance is waaaaaaayyyyy different than romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:56 AM
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i’m not asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:55 AM
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attractive and compatible people don’t make sexual advances towards others. you just become friends and get close (if things work out). i would never date any man who made sexual advances towards me. i don’t want to be approached based on what physical pleasure another person thinks by body could give them edit: life isn’t like the movies. i don’t know why so many people think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 11:30 PM
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i am a sexual woman. the unwanted sexual attention traumatized me. i was sex repulsed for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 11:29 PM
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you clearly know what being a woman is like. no need to waste anymore time here. edit: “your mental associations are not anyone’s fault but your own” i could say the same for all of blue pill and red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 11:25 PM
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alright. you’re obviously not trying to have a conversation about this. i wasn’t trying to be insulting. i don’t know why you’re trying to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 11:24 PM
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“sex doesn’t mean as much to me because it feels like everyone wants to fuck me-and when they do wanna fuck me they want to bend me over so i’m on my knees. who wants to be fucked/dominated on their hands and knees? fucking can’t mean taking power over another for me. it means submitting. and i don’t like it. i wish i had a choice. i don’t want to be degraded but it’s so hard not to because of how people think of sex. i wish i could feel powerful from my interactions with people but i feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:20 PM
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i see what you mean, that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:14 PM
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do you consider cat calling pedophilia? do you consider strangers staring at you licking their lips pedophilia? i don’t have high standards. i really really don’t. but when you choose to not engage with someone romantically and then all bets are off and they just stare at you with no regard for how it makes you feel it makes you feel like meat. out of my league probably wasn’t the best term, but i didn’t know how to describe it properly. i mean the bus driver. your teacher. some man sitting on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:12 PM
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i am a woman, saying that sexual attention can cause sexual repulsion. why do so many straight guys get freaked out when men try to flirt with them? because it feels like someone is trying to DO something to them your really just going to say “false”? this post was a question for women lmao. i am a woman and i am telling you that sexual attention is not inherently good. it’s not my fault dude. sexual attention has always meant bad shit is about to go down, or i would be treated with less respect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:08 PM
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sexual attention does not equal pleasure/ a compliment when you feel like you are seen as a piece of meat, or cattle. they just want to bend you over and fuck you. not make you feel good. a lot of people are into degrading women. it’s not nice being on the receiving end. edit: sexual attention means someone wants to treat you like shit for their own benefit. sexual pleasure isn’t so easy as a female, so it’s easy to associate it with pain and abuse. so when someone is giving you unwanted sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:38 PM
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i mean old people. men who are 50 when you are 13. sexual attention can feels violating when you feel like everyone thinks of you as prey. it doesn’t feel good. it feels threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:37 PM
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i don’t know how i’m going to be able to have a baby and have a job. will they continue to let me work? will i be able to have a flexible schedule? will all the child care fall on me because i’m seen as naturally suited for it? if i do most of the child rearing, how will i dedicate myself to my job? a person can only be stretched so thin i feel like women are expected to work and have children and it’s a lot. i’d rather be able to have a job, but it sucks that it’s my body that will produce the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:35 PM
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but women are suppose to be the sexy submissive ones. it doesn’t come naturally. it’s all a performance. a lot of women feel pressure to fake an orgasm for their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:29 PM
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i’ve commented this elsewhere: it feels like they always want something from me. when we break eye contact i can see them looking at my body. it feels like people think of women as zoo animals. one time i was on a bus eating chocolate and i could hear a conversation between a father to his son, something along the lines of “see, women have a very special relationship with chocolate. it’s almost like a drug to them. it releases the same endorphins they experiences when they’re in love” like wtf? …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:28 PM
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because they love the person? and maybe want to be apart of a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:24 PM
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let’s keep it civil, i’m just trying to discuss. i was pointing out that you are saying “if women really did have these responsibilities, men wouldn’t be so mad at women” that implies that women should have these responsibilities, and that it’s their fault for not caring about these responsibilities that cause men to be angry. i’m really trying here, but it sounds like you are saying: if women did have these responsibilities, then men wouldn’t be angry at them. it sound like men are angry becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:21 PM
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you are literally saying that it’s women’s fault for the problems that men here have. “if they did have these responsibilities as you claim, then we wouldn’t be here in the first place.” you are assuming that women should have these responsibilities. i’m not talking about purposely leading someone on. i mean hanging out with someone and then rejecting their romantic intentions and being accused of leading them on when the girl just just wanted to be friends. i’m talking about being pressured int…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:00 PM
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and now you are blaming women for men’s problems. lmao. you just said they didn’t care, and now your saying that “well maybe men wouldn’t be so mad at women if they didn’t act like sluts/didn’t blue ball/ didn’t lead on” so which is it? is it not women’s responsibility because they don’t care, or is it women’s responsibility because they don’t care and thus the existence of redpill/blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:41 PM
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i mean i’ve never seen the name/term “henrique” and i don’t really know what it means. and chad doesn’t necessarily mean white, or any race. or maybe it does, i’m new here so i’m not sure but we all know that Tyrone is a predominantly a black name, a name that is typically used as a black man stereotype. kind of like a “karen” but usually more stigmatized. and we all know that “welfare babies” are also associated with lower class black people, not necessarily, but i’ve heard it in that context m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:57 PM
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yeah i agree it’s not fair that it isn’t an option. but it isn’t an option because people just don’t see contraception as a mans responsibility, so there’s no funding for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:49 PM
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yeah women actually care a lot, until they’re older and they realize it’s not their problem. when i was a teenager, i was extremely concerned about this. most of my friends were too. it takes a long time and adulthood really to realize that social norms aren’t set and stone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:47 PM
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that wasn’t a cop out, i know it seemed like one. it helps hearing that your not white. associating “welfare babies” with the local “Tyrone” seemed a little off putting, but i think i get where your coming from. in a way, welfare does incentivize having a child without a partner, but i feel like this would be mitigated if there were more job opportunities for single mothers, flexible work schedules, and free childcare. a lot of women can’t afford birth control, it’s usually not covered by insura…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:45 PM
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i’m not going to lie, this sounds racist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:39 PM
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you really think it’s that easy to live at poverty level with a child? most single moms struggle to stay alive. welfare makes it so that they aren’t homeless. you really think women choose to be single parents a majority of the time? that shit is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:29 PM
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yes but there isn’t one. so men use condoms. but women struggle with getting men to wear condemns. so then they are forced to take birth control which fucks up their hormones edit: thus it becomes the woman’s responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:23 PM
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the only way to prevent birth declines is to socially support women who have children
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:22 PM
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yet men have sex too, so why is it all the females responsibility? it’s female responsibility not to give blue balls, not to lead people on, not to be prude, not to be a slut, have full responsibility of reproductive health (birth control, abortion)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:21 PM
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how are single mothers treated? edit: why isn’t there birth control for men? you guys always talking about birth declines, but the only way to prevent that is by giving support to single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:17 PM
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you are putting all of the reproductive responsibility on females. you are proving that the post is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:15 PM
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see, if you look up “declining birth rates” all the studies point to women’s education and the fact that most women are choosing to have kids later on in life. i’ve never seen anything about “female promiscuity”. the solutions are to give women more opportunities to have children while having a job, free childcare and whatnot. i’ve literally never seen a single article that said “women’s promiscuity”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:03 PM
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lmao classic sid_insidious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:47 AM
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like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:25 AM
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but if females are being promiscuous, how does that lead to a decline in birth rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:10 AM
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it’s because woman’s favor isn’t because on how women are viewed, it’s because of how men are viewed. men are viewed worse than women are viewed positive. both genders prefer women because they both have an aversion to men. even with less gender roles men (and women) still associate men with violence, aggression, and intimidation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:56 AM
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hey man, sorry if i’ve been curt in my replies. it’s not my intention to argue in bad faith, sorry if i gave that impression. but i really did read the wikipedia article this is the background to the study you sent me: “The authors supposed that the positive general evaluation of women might derive from the association between women and nurturing characteristics. This bias is suggested as a form of misandry/'benevolent misogyny', the latter being a concept within the theoretical framework of amb…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:17 PM
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yes but the study shows that in more equalitarian places there are more positive views on men. in the criticisms it makes clear that the “woman is wonderful” phenomenon is due to “women is wonderful when”... and the when being: not in masculine roles and not in charge. the study shows that people of all genders like women more when they are in submissive roles and aren’t in charge, whereas when men are in charge people of all genders dislike men more because they associate them with intimidation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:14 PM
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ok so it got removed again because it wasn’t an “open ended” question. idk. but here are the results (based on my interpretation) 4 preferred approaching, 1 said neither, 5 preferred being approached. this is +/- 1 bc i had to interpret their answers, and the last one said both so i gave a point on both sides. u were right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:06 PM
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look at the criticisms of the study
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:02 PM
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yes but the point is that if it really was so egalitarian, there would be more positive views towards men. how do you know how “decently” egalitarian it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:50 PM
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“In more egalitarian societies, people have more positive attitudes towards men than in less egalitarian societies.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:35 PM
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lmao take 2: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/ippoii/which_do_you_prefer_being_approached_or/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:32 PM
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cool, i made the post https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/ipp9y8/which_do_you_prefer_to_approach_or_to_be/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf i’ll answer your other comment soon i gotta go do something. i’m really curious to see the results edit: i’ll look through old posts too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:12 PM
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“According to a new survey from Match.com, of 5,000 single men and women, 65 percent of guys have been asked out by a gal” “Women seem on board with taking the relationship reigns, too, because the survey also found that 56 percent of vixen-type ladies reach out to a dude following a first date and 40 percent say they initiate sex with their partner (which is a 14 percent increase from 2011's results of 26 percent).” https://www.quora.com/In-the-United-States-how-many-women-actually-ask-guys-out…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:01 PM
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things are changing. there will always be people stuck in the past. wanna make a friendly bet? let’s make a post in r/askwomen and ask if they prefer to do the approaching, or to be approached. i suspect the majority will want to do the approaching i’m down to be wrong, i won’t be a sore loser. i’m just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:58 PM
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i’m not south american. my family is white. it’s not a cultural thing. my mom just didn’t want her last name to die out. she is really proud of it and she’s made a good name for herself, she just doesn’t want it to be lost edit: i’m from the us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:46 PM
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my birth certificate has 2 last names. but when i sign up for things i only use my dads. it has a better ring to it. i have 2 official last names. lots of people do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:44 PM
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i’m a girl (conventionally attractive) and i’ve only gone out with people i approach. i know it seems hypocritical, but people who approach me seem desperate. it seems like they’d approach anyone. whereas i am really picky. so if i choose and they are down it’s better than me being half-down and not knowing what they were looking for in the first place. i trust my choice more than a slew of people who choose nearly anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:41 PM
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i know i’m not in this discussion, but i was born with two last names. one is my moms and one is my dad’s. I like my dads last name more, where my siblings like my moms last name more. i like having the ability to choose which name i want to go by
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:37 PM
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what is the enormous in-group bias women have? women are not a collective. men aren’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:36 PM
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most modern women prefer to do the approaching. it offers them more agency and choice, even if it’s more likely to be rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:33 PM
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i disagree. i don’t know women who use FDS in real life. it’s kind of a radical internet thing. my female friends have all approached their now romantic partner. well, not approached per say. they approached with the intention of becoming friends, and once they were friends for awhile they confessed their feelings. i did the same in my relationship. i don’t think it’s women walking up to strangers and using pick up lines, but women initiating a relationship of any sort that may or may not lead t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:31 PM
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did i say “life is haaard”? you said feminism has beaten femininity out of women. i wholeheartedly disagree. who are you to say what femininity is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:54 AM
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does woman up mean liking degradation? what is your point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:47 AM
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such cry babies for not wanting to be degraded? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:05 AM
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no, we’re just not into being owned and sexually beaten
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:05 AM
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maybe she was watching it for the novelty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:59 AM
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do you fantasize about your girl friend when you watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:47 AM
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i don’t put any effort like that. i don’t wear makeup or feminine clothes. i’m feminine because of how long my hair is and my face shape and that’s all. i wear loose clothes without showing skin. i don’t flirt. i really can’t express enough. i see how males treat their friends and how they treat me and i get jealous. i just want to be treated like normal, like a dude. sex doesn’t mean as much to me because it feels like everyone wants to fuck me-and when they do wanna fuck me they want to bend m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:51 PM
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i think narcissists act dominant. which confuses me why guys get mad when they fall for the “dark triad”. you can be confident without being arrogant, there’s a balance. like being self assured but open minded and having some humility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:07 AM
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why not just confident in yourself? why confidence from domination in lieu of their being a potential submission?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:57 AM
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i don’t think confidence is dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:48 AM
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yeah i guess i’m not trying to say one has it way easier than the other necessarily. that’s probably an unfair statement. there are a lot of ways to have it easy. and honestly i’ve had a lot of really negative experiences and it’s hard not to “woe is me” and think anything would be better than what i have. idk thanks for reading
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:38 AM
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yeah. and it feels like they always want something from me. when we break eye contact i can see them looking at my body. it feels like people think of women as zoo animals. one time i was on a bus eating chocolate and i could hear a conversation between a father to his son, something along the lines of “see, women have a very special relationship with chocolate. it’s almost like a drug to them. it releases the same endorphins they experiences when they’re in love” like wtf? i can hear you. you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:25 AM
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Freud said all human beings are bisexual you should learn about the greeks. “straight” wasn’t a thing. every greek guy had an older mentor who was also his lover. you had to learn how to be pursued in order to pursue Plato? bisexual Socrates? bisexual Pericles? bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:58 AM
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why? i do not like being looked at in a sexual way whenever i’m interacting with someone. i don’t want to be treated like a girl. i don’t like people knowing i’m a girl. it’s weirdly embarrassing. which is fucked up. it changes the whole dynamic of the interaction immediately. being treated like a guys may sound shitty to some but i really feel like i would prefer being treated like a guy. i just want to be left tf alone. i know a lot of guys don’t want that but i don’t like being chased. i’d ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:33 AM
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oh interesting! i see. i think this is why a lot of women hate Pickme’s, because they enforce gender stereotypes and ways of interacting with women that self aware woman are put off by. i feel like a lot of the reason why we have resentment and frustration towards one gender is because people in our gender fuck things up, if you know what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:29 AM
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lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:20 AM
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there are people who would fuck a literal piece of ham. that doesn’t mean everyone would be down. people prefer likable, relatable people to spend their time with. it’s just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:08 AM
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there are always fucked up people though. that doesn’t defeat my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:04 AM
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lmao what? why did you link this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:57 AM
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oh i see. i didn’t see the “only”. my bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:17 AM
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cool i 100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:15 AM
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well maybe it’s different tastes based on the country and culture. i don’t think these women were “virtue signaling” by saying they find a murderer attractive. that doesn’t make any sense did you read all of the comments on the post? a husband commented saying that when his wife found out she was surprised because he was attractive this literally proves that attractiveness and wealth does not equal sexual or relationship success. it is personality https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailydot.com/un…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:11 AM
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would you equate a person who has a high n count looking for a virgin to a player
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:06 AM
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have you ever met a woman that prefers a high n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:59 PM
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geez 50,000$ is kind of a lot for a young person. like that’s career salary. i don’t know anyone who expects a full on career unless they are older. i don’t think women in their 20’s expect that, at least i don’t know any but then again i have no idea how old any of you are.. so it may be appropriate? idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:56 PM
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he spoofed his location to italy. lmao. who would match with someone a whole ass continent away? i say he’s attractive because when i first found out about him, i thought he was attractive. i guess just my opinion though. maybe also some other people https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/26jpl0/i_think_elliot_rodger_is_hot/ edit: like that’s why the story was so intriguing, a seeming attractive guy is out of his mind frustrated that women don’t find him attractive, en…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:50 PM
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hate from women? yeah i agree. changes the standards of what being female means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:46 PM
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i agree. but how are women causing it if they are the ones getting an abundance of options that they didn’t ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:37 PM
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why is female domination weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:02 PM
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if he didn’t hit on girls, how was he being constantly rejected and mad that no woman was attracted to him? and google says 5’9”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:21 PM
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fair point. but this can be equally frustrating for the female gender though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:19 PM
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i mean women didn’t choose to be born women either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:17 PM
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what do you mean “frame”? my point is that material qualities take a hard second place to personality, and yeah mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:17 PM
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i feel like i’ve been on the receiving end of “game” without enforcing it. just being confused. it feels like they test your boundaries and how close they can get to sleeping with you. i know women can play games, but i’ve personally experiences a lot of confusing social situations that i did not like, all because they were trying to like subliminally suggest that i wanted to sleep with them. isn’t dread a game? i’ve always associated “having game” with men, because men like to be “players” of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:15 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.indy100.com/article/women-higher-sex-drive-men-study-research-7900696%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:09 PM
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he wasn’t short, he was 5’9”!! most women are 5’4”! have you listen to his retribution thing? boy oh boy did he try to get girls lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:07 PM
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i know women who get pissy if they haven’t had sex 2-3 times in a day! see that type of stuff i don’t personally understand. but there are some crazy horny women out there seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:05 PM
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have you never met a woman with a high libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:04 PM
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where are you taking the quote from, i can’t find it. could you explain more what you mean? my point was that it’s not always so material, or else Eliot Rodger would have been up to his ears in pussy. but he wasn’t. i think it’s because he presented himself as very aggressive and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:02 PM
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it could be that they think your trying to embarrass them, but i really think that’s just a misunderstanding. or the women you work with are annoying. some people just suck i don’t think i’m the only one though. slowly more and more women are becoming like this. i’ve even started to change my friends minds and challenge their perception. i just want people to be genuine and stop playing weird games with eachother. hopefully some day men can know that it’s possible to find someone who loves them …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:59 PM
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if women weren’t horny like men, why do sluts exist? they have for allllllll of history. until frued, it was scientific that women had the same libidos as men. ancient greeks were always pissed because their wives were insatiably horny. that’s actually been the main thought about women literally until frued: that women were beastial and insatiably horny, constantly luring strong willed men towards temptation. women were associated with animalistic instincts, whereas men were associated with rati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:53 PM
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whoa! i think it’s the complete opposite. i hate it when men assume i can’t lift stuff. it’s a major complement when they think i can! what human doesn’t like to be strong? it can be embarrassing though when i can’t, but it’s really nice when they give me the chance! i love being treated as one of the dudes. this is why i was so sex repulsed for years, because everyone always treated me like a prey animal, and it was creepy. i could never have a genuine discussion or debate. the reason i have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:49 PM
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can the same logic apply though? if the women men can get for sex are inferior to the women they can get for relationships, then the men women can get for sex are also inferior to the men they can get for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:43 PM
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could you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:35 PM
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oh, i see. i agree. i think that’s also where the whole “women sleep with men with highly masculine features, vs looking for feminine features when looking for a relationship” can apply too i think when you wanna hookup you don’t care about personality you just care about physical appearance and tell tale signs of hyper sexuality, but then they obviously aren’t relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:35 PM
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i’ve personally met a few men who have a different interpretation. most women just begrudgingly accept it, but then when they do it it causes a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:29 PM
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so then why is what men get out of sex inferior to what they get out of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:27 PM
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how would you define a top tier man? attractive, wealthy i assume. but what about Eliot Rodgers? he was conventionally attractive, had rich as fuck parents, yet he was still mad because nobody slept with him. couldn’t it be a personality thing? i think top tier is more of an attitude than material qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:23 PM
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do you think it’s a problem if the man is a habitual user? i know guys with some fucked up fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:20 PM
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do you think that men desire a companion, someone they can feel safe and intimate with? or just a pocket pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:20 PM
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do you think men have the same problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:15 PM
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you don’t think that women are aware that they are used for casual hookups and not sex? i don’t know a lot of women who are not interested in a relationship with what you describe as a “chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:12 PM
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i see what you mean. some kinks you can’t unhear!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:09 PM
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“what they can get for sex isn’t what they can get for relationships” could you explain what you mean? i might just be dumb and not understand the phrasing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:07 PM
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i see thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:06 PM
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could you explain your last paragraph? it seems like your saying that women, like men in terms of porn, are curious—so it wouldn’t be an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:52 PM
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so then why are they angry at women? should they be mad at other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:48 PM
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who’s he? what i’m asking is this: if men provide the abundance of options for women to choose from, why are they angry that women have an abundance to choose from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:46 PM
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i agree, but my comment was addressing the “crux” of the issue with women having an over abundance of options—if they do, isn’t it men’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:41 PM
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200 is not 500. also how do you reply to my second comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:39 PM
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well then why are they angry that women have so many options, if they are the ones providing all of the options? you can’t have your cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:36 PM
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yeah that wasn’t my question though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:33 PM
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i’ve never had a guy show me the porn he watches. that would be awkward. i’m talking about a girlfriend watching her own porn with her fetishes, without ever sharing the porn she watches. would it bother a guy if she did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:23 PM
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maybe if guys didn’t like every instagram picture they saw? aren’t guys, by going after every living female, diluting their choice in the mix? if men were more selective then women wouldn’t have to be so selective
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:21 PM
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women are given an abundance of choice because men are not selective in their choices. if a man likes every single picture of a woman he follows, and every man is doing the same, by logical necessity men are creating a system that keeps them out by being so careless in their selection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:18 PM
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that’s what happens when you try to hit every ball, you’re giving girls a lot of options that dilutes your attempt/attention. men need to be more selective and then women won’t be so selective
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:15 PM
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what average woman gets 500 likes? the girls i know only get about 30, and the really really attractive ones get 50-100. who the heck has 500 instagram likes?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:14 PM
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lmao that’s your take away from this. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:35 PM
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this is all such a vicious cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 03:49 PM
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could you explain what you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 03:46 PM
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i know what you mean. i really really do. it doesn’t make a difference if your beautiful though. just more chance to exploit and objectify you. realizing you are always going to be seen as prey. a lot of men think they are all the fathers of philosophy for some reason. but the person who created existentialism (Sartre) was married to Simone De Beauvoir, who was a better philosopher than himself. she tested against him in university she placed first but she had to be second behind Sartre because …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 03:27 PM
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i’m not into FDS. so i don’t think like that necessarily. or at all really. the self help is nice but it gets a little aggressive and i think they sensor what can be posted unfairly i followed it for a few weeks but stopped just because it was kinda boring and repetitive. and i tried to post something that i felt was totally appropriate but i got permanently banned from participating with no explanation. when i asked why they muted me. weirded me out. i did read the handbook and it’s mostly abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 07:24 AM
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pretty sure it’s not. could you find a quote or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 07:05 AM
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is that all you think of relationships? providing pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 07:01 AM
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what do men prefer in casual encounters vs relationships. i assume it would be the same. when you intend on casually hooking up you look for someone with signs of being hyper sexual, but then that preference changes when you are trying to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 12:56 AM
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yeah but that doesn’t mean any woman is going to be ok with cheating. it doesn’t matter what biological argument you trot out. you could make the same argument that women are opportunistic maters, which is why paternity confusion is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 12:54 AM
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honestly, and idk how much i can defend this, but i feel like women usually date or have casual sex downward, generally. women do a lot for their appearances. they coordinate outfits, wear makeup, are often on diets. they wear clothes to accentuate their features. i think most women have casual sex upward because the attractive guy (that she’s fucking upwards) isn’t interested in a relationship, because he knows he’s attractive and can just have casual sex without getting into a relationship mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 12:49 AM
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this is so full of assumptions. i do not agree with a single part of this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:41 PM
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yeah but sexual attraction doesn’t mean anything if it’s just with anybody. sexual attraction can’t be the only foundation of the relationship if the man is constantly trying to sleep with other people. what would be the point in being with them? it wouldn’t matter if the husband was still attracted to the person he is cheating on, the relationship and trust are gone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:40 PM
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lmao i do not know a single woman who thinks like this. if he cheats it just means he doesn’t love her wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:46 PM
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wait sorry i misunderstood the phrasing. so why is to different then? if it’s both because they don’t have feelings for eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:46 PM
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what? if you love a partner a lot you want to cheat more? how does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:44 PM
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when your trying to get into a relationship, do women find it appealing that you’ve slept around?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:19 PM
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doesn’t cheating mean a lower level of commitment? how would a man who cheats not be fundamentally flawed in staying loyal and in loving with his wife? if he’s had a bunch of sex before meeting who he was settling down with then the woman would be worried about the mans sexual satisfaction as much as a man would. nobody likes being compared. nobody likes to be second best. the man would be more likely to leave because he knows he can get some outside of the house. and the woman would be unhappy …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:18 PM
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why do people always say women can’t help themselves but cheat but then post stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:35 PM
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i agree that it’s mutilation, as any surgery is mutilation. they have different degrees of impact on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:13 PM
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but it’s still with the intention of removing the females ability to have sexual pleasure. not to help the female in any way. circumcision is for cleanliness, to prevent buildup underneath. but in modern times we always are able to clean ourselves, and parents can just tell the boy how to do so. both are old and unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:12 PM
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yeah, circumcision is still fucked up and kinda barbaric tho. it’s weird and wrong to want to change what your child’s genitals look like. i hope people stop doing it in the future (as long as parents are really good about instructing their boys on how to wash under their foreskin when they’re like 3)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:49 PM
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i agree. it doesn’t prevent men from being able to have orgasms like FGM does. and often times FGM isn’t just taking the clitoris off, but sewing up the vagina completely closed, where the man later has to painfully insert the penis after it’s been cut open again for intercourse on the marriage night. but i do think it’s fucked up to change a persons genitals when they are a baby. they can’t give permission and the operation is basically useless and very very painful for the baby, even if they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:25 PM
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no not basic female nature. not hypergamy. shallow people reinforcing negative expectations. i agree that they are toxic, the ones who enforce it at the same time condemning it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:12 PM
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i know what you mean. i feel like comfort plays a large role in sexuality though. you could be having sex with the hottest person in the world, but if you think they are manipulating you or threatening to you in some way- or even if you just don’t give a fuck about them- the sex isn’t fulfilling honestly. like you have to fantasize just to get through it and “preform”. i don’t know how malleable sexuality is in other people, i really think it’s a case by case basis. i think a lot of people think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:21 AM
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i mean, it’s the same for men who break up/don’t date someone because she doesn’t have big boobs or whatever. they are shallow people. i personally wouldn’t be friends with anyone like that, and i don’t know anyone like that. not to discredit your experiences though. i do relate to being “punished” for not the fitting the mold. and hating the people who made me feel like i had to fit into a mold in the first place. but fuck those people. they don’t deserve love. everyone isn’t like that i swear.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:48 AM
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i agree. i think toxic masculinity mostly refers to the toxic-ness the man feels himself by feeling limited in some ways. i don’t think either gender is necessarily better at handling their emotions than others, but men are particularly taught (i think) that it is shameful to show them, which can be disadvantageous to the man himself. it can be hard not to take masculinity to the extreme though when you are taught that that’s the best way to interact with the world and women in general, and espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:33 AM
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yeah i’m listen examples of ways “toxic masculinity” or the way men are told to behave from birth are manifested, and how they’re ultimately harmful— men have a harder time getting in touch with their emotions, which can sometimes lead to anger issues and resentment towards women because of how they are expected and told to behave. it is not bad to have male attributes. bravery, courage, loyalty, and strength and all wonderful qualities in both genders. but when it’s enforced in one gender it le…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:47 AM
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how are people recruiting women? you have to do a lot of school to get into stem. nobody is being funded or plucked from a crowd. they are just hiring them. there’s a lot of bias in stem towards women- particularly along the lines of “women are more interested in people whereas men are more interested in things” so they used to not hire them, and would hire men instead. because of this bias women haven’t been hired for stem jobs for a long time, whereas now that’s changing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:43 AM
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it’s the expectation that men are unemotional and always want to dominate. it’s a fixed point that is rigid and doesn’t speak to individual personalities. it’s the expectation that men are always supposed to be hard and ready to go at the drop of a hat. it’s the assumption that men don’t like to cuddle, cry and be held and comforted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:08 AM
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if women are naturally unsuited for certain tasks, why would you need to prevent them from doing them? if it won’t work out it won’t work out. but i don’t think that’s the case. society always has to have an adjustment period when a social revolution happens
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:56 AM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:19 AM
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what ‘more’ did they want? they just didn’t want their whole lives determined by their genitals. why is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:28 AM
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i mean i can’t speak for all women but yeah. i’d rather be with someone who was a great and attentive father who made sure the home duties were equal so that it wasn’t all out on me, and it wouldn’t matter how much he made. i don’t think women care as much about money anymore because they can make their own. most married couples i know only have a shared bank account for rent and mutual household stuff, any thing they want outside of that they use their own money. women don’t expect their husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:42 PM
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honestly yes. making more money does not necessarily equate to working more hours. and women often get the mental load of children, housework, and having a job. if men were more active in the domestic sphere then they wouldn’t be so burdened with outside and inside work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:32 PM
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38% of women earn more than their husbands. you overestimated your statistic. it’s 62%, not 70%. in the 90’s only around 25% of women earned more than their husbands, and its still increasing. more job opportunities now, less sexual harassment in the workplace and actually being seen as a human being who can get a promotion instead of a sex object allow for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:25 PM
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married men are typically less depressed than single men. whereas married women are typically more depressed than single women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:15 PM
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everyone is becoming unhappy. everyone is depressed and has anxiety now. i think women are happier now than you think they are. men die faster than women. widows and old women have been fine without men for all of history. most of the time they were at war and lived by themselves and carried on the husbands business because he was never home. single moms are very common, a lot more than single dads. women have been able to take care of themselves and other human beings for ever. they give birth …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:14 PM
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i think women often play the role of peacemaker in relationships. and men struggle to keep up with household work and basic responsibilities because “women are just better at it/i’d make it worse if i tried/ i just don’t notice that type of stuff” men let their anger flow and women have to pick up the pieces. so when a woman is done she is Done but when i man is done he probably feels guilty about ways he could have fixed things if he had been as attentive as her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:37 PM
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ok, what is human nature then? power struggle fueled by mutual suspicion? how is that “darker than what most people think”? that’s just political realism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:00 PM
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how do the laborious social norms that once existed protect people from exploitation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:21 PM
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without any “objective” source for sleeping at night? my point was you need to think for yourself, not search for an “objective” happiness . “objective” happiness is pure pleasure. it’s hollow, empty and cold. i’m talking about being your own person. being self aware. not being a doormat. is this “objective” source what you see in the movies, what the protagonist does to feel awesome? that’s herd mentality if you want an objective source of happiness just do drugs. saves a lot of time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:19 PM
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how was patriarchy fair to women and men? do you know what patriarchy means? it means rule by men how is that fair to women??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:14 PM
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a lot of guys only want to fuck and not to date. isn’t that gate keeping affection?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:12 PM
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now is so so recent tho. like just because things changed 2 seconds ago within the grand scheme of human history, it doesn’t mean the effects are fully felt yet or fully implemented. people are still racist, but “segregation was so long ago, they’re free now”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:11 PM
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and it’s always obvious when you are the one being disadvantaged by the other. people can feel unfairness and oppression even though they aren’t “called out”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:05 PM
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i’m talking about being a good person who is able to sleep at night. if stepping on other people’s heads is what it takes for you, then to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:04 PM
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it doesn’t look smart from the outside it’s cheap and lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:56 PM
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yeah, radical/extremists offshoots are pretty common in any ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:31 PM
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society isn’t an excuse for putting yourself in a hole once you realize it. it’s like blaming society for racism. sure there’s really poor representation of anyone other than white, and people who hold racist ideals are usually in power, but once you realize this it is no excuse to just follow the crowd once it benefits you. you have to think for yourself, not be spoon fed someone else’s fears and ideology blindly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:29 PM
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idk.. i think most people in relationships are genuinely in love with each other.. what evidence proves otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:27 PM
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i mean, if a woman says she’s the nurturing type but society doesn’t let her do that anymore, then yeah i’d suggest a dog. OP is making a claim about societies restrictions on something he naturally wants to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:18 PM
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can’t he just join the military then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:32 PM
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haven’t women’s outlets been repressed too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:31 PM
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you can’t feel accomplished because your ancestors dominated people. that wasn’t you or anyone you know. women want respect to and have been fighting for it for a long time. just because women want respect doesn’t mean that men can’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:28 PM
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ooo! no please! please tell me. we can DM if you prefer. i would really really like to know. absolutely no judgement i swear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:52 PM
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what’s the big plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:27 PM
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what do you mean manipulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:25 PM
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i mean, maybe it’s a phase in human history that is necessary for development. i feel like things always settle after awhile after movements or revolutions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:18 PM
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yeah but i don’t think the other gender has a “nature” per say. i think it’s really dependent on circumstances and their environment. idk if this will make any sense- a lot of animals start mating at different times, whether it be spring or fall, but it’s not because theirs some biological clock in their brains that fire off, it’s the way their bodies have taken in information about the world and where they’re situated in time. it’s about where the sun is and if that means “time to reproduce” to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:17 PM
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what do you think the psychological impact of “yas queen” culture is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:12 PM
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i think most people don’t necessarily want something biologically. i think when communication breaks down in a culture and were no longer able to understand each other and how to interact that we start looking to biology to describe what the other person is thinking as a defense against uncertainty, if that makes any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:08 PM
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when did you notice that you hated women? no judgement seriously i’m just really curious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:05 PM
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i know what you mean. see i kinda had the same thing but opposite— because i was so logical and pragmatic i couldn’t see men as wanting anything other than sex from a woman. it’s a scary reality to live in. almost like 1984 and you feel like the only one who is actually aware of the underlying systems at play. but then i learned that sex isn’t everything and that men really crave affection and love. but because of how fucked up our society is men aren’t allowed to ask for a safe place in a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:17 PM
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alright? lmao. if you always assume people are lying to you then you will always be right. but what’s the point in “being right” if you are unhappy and feeling alienated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:08 PM
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asking a women if she is hung up on her ex is not being a controlling misogynist.. it’s a perfectly normal question. why would you want to date someone who was in love with someone else. and it’s a little rude to ask a person if any gender what their body count is if you are planning on judging them. if a guy knew i wouldn’t like his answer he would probably lie to. and i wouldn’t blame him. the reason slut shaming is a thing is because for a long time men got to have sex with multiple women and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:06 PM
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yeah i mean among strangers who don’t have any reservations about killing and murdering another stranger. but in a relationship, if i was with a partner who wanted to sleep with other people then i wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with them. i wouldn’t want to feel like the only thing preventing them from cheating is my rules. i want them to want to be there, otherwise it’s meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:02 PM
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most women don’t have an orgasm from ONS when they wanted to bc the partner was selfish. so they didn’t get what they wanted. or the guy implied he was looking for a relationship when he was only intending to use her for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:00 PM
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don’t men try to convince women they aren’t looking for sex when they are? or using dread to give some sort of false impression? a lot of people manipulate and craft their image for their benefit. it’s not unique to women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:59 PM
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yeah but the reason why women feel ashamed and want to erase it from their minds is because they also didn’t get what they want. they felt like they were scammed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:58 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:56 PM
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how is it bad or incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:55 PM
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just because some people use others for pleasure it doesn’t mean they represent their whole gender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:55 PM
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well a majority of men, by the same argument, can be just as bad. that’s why you have to choose carefully the person you want to be in a relationship with. you can’t help that there are shitty people out there. where are you getting the 85% percent from? I just looked it up and only 66% of people have had a one night stand. and the average men has had 7 ONS whereas women have had 6
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:54 PM
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if you get scammed by a pyramid scheme of course you have to own it. it still sucks though. it sucks that you were gullible enough to be manipulated. that doesn’t make someone who was scammed a bad person. women who feel good about the experience have no need not to own it, because they intended to have a ONS. why would they feel guilty if it was an awesome experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:51 PM
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well i don’t think as monogamy as an obligation or a rule. i don’t want to have sex with anyone other than my partner. i don’t need there to be a rule not to. and he doesn’t need it to be a rule either. we just don’t want to have sex with other people, that’s why were in a relationship why would you want to have an empty relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:48 PM
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well then just don’t have sex with those women then? why does it matter what they do with their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:42 PM
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geez are you implying i’m a whore? lets just debate, cmon. i don’t know any woman who uses FDS and i personally think it can be really limiting to women and men, and pretty closed minded. the women i know are excited to pay half the bill, they want to feel equal. they don’t want to feel like they are being bought for sex ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:36 PM
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ok i see what you mean. i’d say the same for a guy tho. if i met a guy who has had sex with over 10 women it would be a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:34 PM
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why is it bad for women to have sex with people but men can? what the hell. we are human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:33 PM
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yeah but it matters why the person is doing it. why rigidly stick to the “rules and obligations” if there is something wrong? you can’t just have an empty relationship. and i’ve never thought of relationships in terms of “rules and obligations”.. that sounds terrible. i can promise you that most people withholding sex in relationships is because there is a deeply rooted issue that the person is dealing with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:32 PM
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where are you getting this information? it may have been consensual but it can be manipulative and coercive and uncomfortable. they feel bad and want to erase it because they felt used. nobody likes feeling used
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:28 PM
1

would it be fair if i said that if a man is broke he is worthless? because i don’t think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:26 PM
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ok? no need to be rude...how do you know what women feel on an instinctual level?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:25 PM
1

could you explain this thought process more clearly? i’m really not seeing how your getting from point a to point b here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:24 PM
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how would you define a mans worth? determining someone’s worth based on their bodies is fucked up. seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:23 PM
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hence some women who equate men’s value to money and status. it’s a vicious cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:22 PM
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that’s cuz you are equating women’s value to sex. if you do that, then women will to. hence power games and transactional stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:21 PM
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if they delete sexual experiences from their minds, could it be because it was a negative experience that they don’t want to remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:21 PM
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that fact that there are rapists in the world, does that mean all men are secretly rapists? people are all over the place. i don’t think sex work speaks to all women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:20 PM
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why is having sex with people mutually exclusive to being a mother figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:19 PM
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why would a woman withhold sex? that’s doing herself a disservice. women like sex and feeling close. both people suffer from withholding games. dead bedroom problems are usually a lot of complicated than a power game, there’s usually years of resentment from poor communication and lack of conflict resolution, so one partner just isn’t attracted to the other partner any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:18 PM
1

? i’m a woman though. why would my friends from childhood lie to me? that doesn’t make any sense. why do you rely on your speculation more than an actual woman? i didn’t have sex with my partner for months until after we started dating just because i was nervous. i didn’t want him to feel like he had a chip on his shoulder for “taking me”. i just wanted to feel comfortable. what women told you this? this all seems so far from reality honestly i just don’t understand. i wouldn’t try to rope a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:15 PM
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some women aren’t attracted to women? you have to be attracted to the person your having sex with. i’m a woman and i’ve never withheld sex as a form of manipulation, and i’ve never met any woman who does that. why would you want to have sex with someone you don’t like, and are actively trying to manipulate? sex is suppose to be intimate and enjoyable, not a scary game :( i think the women that do use sex as a form of manipulation have been told all their life that they are only valued for sex, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:35 PM
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plus a lot of dudes on dating apps are assholes and are only trying to fuck, like, they make it clear in the messages
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:39 AM
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isn’t this what dread is trying to emulate though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 12:32 AM
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i don’t know if dead bedroom problems are usually because someone’s angry per say. i think there’s either built up resentment from poor communication and lack of meaningful conflict resolution, or there’s a difference in libido. the first problem can be handled through therapy if the couple is willing to do so. kids and work can get in the way as well, which can also be helped. a difference in libido makes it so both parties are unhappy, even when one of them is sacrificing. in that case i agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:55 AM
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that isn’t a healthy way to “get over” being mad at someone. that’s your opinion. the healthy way is communication. a lot of people don’t feel comfortable being vulnerable with someone they feel has hurt them in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:36 PM
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“men like kindness, women like assholes”- that isn’t a claim on moral superiority? https://www.google.com/amp/s/fivethirtyeight.com/features/how-many-republicans-marry-democrats/amp/ there’s the article for reference. the chart was not intended to shock, and i’m surprised you got that impression. i was explaining why there’s a slight (3%) discrepancy between male republicans and democratic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:02 PM
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i dare you to try to define either pill without talking shit about women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:52 PM
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oh? “the absolute hypocrisy of the female sex drive...as a black man with (mostly progressive values i would never consider marrying a trump supporter...women do not value kindness like we men do, they wanna fuck assholes” also, women aren’t the only ones who are into the “dark triad” personality traits. that type of personality is attractive because they are narcissistic. narcissists are disagreeable but equally likable to both genders. everybody likes self confidence, nobody finds pandering at…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:44 PM
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OP didnt choose this lady because of her morality. he chose for the same reasons- she was beautiful. what’s the difference. everybody goes for beautiful people, man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:20 PM
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sex is a form of affection. one of the most intimate kinds of affection. why is it seen as manipulative if you aren’t comfortable being affectionate with someone when something has happened, like they hurt your feelings or something. why would you want to have sex with someone when your mad at them???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:36 PM
1

yeah, and we could also just enslave everybody to ensure our perfect comfort. listen to yourself. you know that what your saying isn’t good for you or anyone else. controlling people isn’t the only way to protect yourself. you don’t think women worry about the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:08 AM
3

“experience highest sexual satisfaction” how could this be recorded? what sexual satisfaction do they have to compare to if they were only with one dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:19 AM
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LMAO you edited it? it’s too late man just take the L
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 04:17 AM
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“only one in 10 women experience an orgasm during one night stands” men don’t care about women’s pleasure during one night stands. why wouldn’t women avoid them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 01:47 AM
1

the problem is that they present their ideology as “facts of human nature” when its far from it. it’s fear mongering and scientifically untrue
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 01:41 AM
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“happy you finally for laid” lmao
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 01:36 AM
1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/One-sex_and_two-sex_theories lmao. ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:16 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/One-sex_and_two-sex_theories#The_one-sex_theory_2 why are you people arguing without knowing what the hell your talking about, shit is embarrassing to read ...honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:57 AM
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thank fuck SOMEONE knows history this place is a god damned wasteland
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:55 AM
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y’all are such fucking idiots. OP is correct, jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:53 AM
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