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An incel by definition is someone who believes they cannot attract women this is a self fulfilling prophecy and sets the frame as that.
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:17 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:06 AM
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Lol how old are you?
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:03 PM
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Good post, heavily agree. I would go as far to say its not just her friends but social pressure in general. I’ve personally found girls likes are a reflection of social trends and other women in general even girls they aren’t friends. For example think of that celebrity that every girl has suddenly become obsessed with ie Pete Davidson. Tons of men wonder why hes become so popular when its obvious that girls only like him because other girls like him. 5yrs ago if I showed a girl a pic of him the…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/24 08:22 PM
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I was literally just thinking of this today lol how funny. I'm in my mid-20s though. I think it was hard for me because on paper I had everything I needed to succeed but I didn't live up to my potential, as opposed to someone who straight up just lacked social skills, they never had a chance, but I did.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 10:51 PM
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Personally for me I think the benefit of cold approach is to teach guys you can get girls anywhere as opposed to waiting for an appropriate time. Ex asking out that cute girl you saw at the grocery store vs waiting to go to a bar. However I think people glorify it and it should be use as a supplement to warm approaches ie social circle and hobbies which will net you way more girls in the long run. Edit: The Pua idea of grinding out 100s of approaches with a 2% success rate is extremely unsustain…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:04 AM
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This! People in these subs preach cold approach as a holy grail but it is by far the least effective. Approach 100 girls and maybe 5 will say yes if your decently attractive and have social skills which shocker most guy on here don’t. Imo cold approach should only be used to supplement your dating life. Even for guys who don’t understand women its far more effective to get friends who are girls and talk to them. Social circle, Hobbies, Dating Apps/Nightgame(clubs/bars), in that order. Nightgame …
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:44 PM
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Not my own opinion based on what others have said. I always thought I was avg and people were just being nice till one day I realized they weren’t. Low self esteem I guess.
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:04 PM
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Gotta respect his privacy
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:02 PM
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This is really funny because a group of girls all told him he smelled really good last week.
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:01 PM
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Lmfao that shit don’t matter. Source :me. My shit is way above avg and to my knowledge I don’t think it helps, if anything its a burden. He’s claimed his is avg to below.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:58 PM
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This is not my own judgment its confirmation from dozens of guys and girls over the years. I promise you its a fair assessment on both parts. Girls and guys both agree he’s average. Also if it was his looks no one would be questioning it.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:55 PM
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Both are confirmed from outside sources frequently. Not my own assessment
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:51 PM
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Yea Im not going to been thinking about my self respect. Its just crazy the difference between in person and texting. Yea that’s what I thought initially but she really wanted to meet me at the bar but hates date proposals
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:59 AM
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Good post not indian but im black and I’ve noticed the same thing especially growing up in a more white area. Second paragraph really resonated women will conform to their environment. Something I wanted to add was being a part of a friend group makes a huge difference your no longer seen as an outsider and a lot of prejudices fade away. A lot of racism is ignorance most people don’t have ethnic friends!
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:34 AM
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Or the women could just be boring. Most men and women don’t do shit. So why stay with someone who’s boring or isn’t bringing value to your life.
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:27 AM
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The thing with casual sex is its not fulfilling by itself and if you expect it to fill the hole in your life it won’t. But if you already have an amazing life it will serve as a cherry on top. This shit should be fun guys need to understand that. Not will you get more girls having fun but you won’t care as much. Also that way you’re not putting all the pressure on the girl to make your life interesting. You should go into thinking you want to meet interesting people not just women.
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:21 AM
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You’re not going to get a good answer on here Reddit is extremely biased and can be typecast into a very similar category of people. Even more so on this sub inparticular. Having actually lived in the real world women will say they prefer a low or lower body count but this is absolutely false. Guys who have low body counts have that for a reason. Women wonder why so many women have sex with him. Anything anyone else tells you is false they innately prefer it even if they say they don’t. You thin…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 03:45 AM
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Honestly any big city. Girls love the Accent shouldn’t have a problem anywhere. Miami is a go to but expensive asf and Idk your budget. Vegas, NyC , Miami good spots for sure, but all will cost you. Probably more variety in Vegas, and NYC but Miami will definitely be a good time regardless. Edit: Buy tinder gold and passport there a week or two before you leave and you’ll have matches. Put from UK and the dates your staying in bio.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:38 AM
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She'll only let you know if she's not attracted to you.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:58 PM
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Access to women. Went from a college town surrounded by women to living at home. Every hot girl you see becomes the greatest girl in the world and creates a scarcity mindset. Women naturally have an abundance of options just by existing. One of the hardest things is just getting the ball rolling. The difference in attitude when you know there are many more girls just like her is significant. The guys who do best with women were also the ones surrounded by them at a young age due to whatever reas…
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:56 PM
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Im going to play devils advocate and say if its not you its someone else. You saying no isn’t going to stop her from cheating. Either have sex with or don’t have sex with her its that simple. Unless her SO is crazy I see no problem.
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:49 PM
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Bruh you’re getting some horrible advice😂(mainly from women, men too. This sub is still as bad as ever. She wanted to have sex you gotta take the lead. All girls say that shit especially when they want to have sex .
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:27 AM
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And this is exactly why you don’t take womens advice on getting women
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:23 AM
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Yes definitely it helps. Humans are social creatures having a lot of friends, especially female ones means other people must like you. Proves your not a weirdo.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:30 PM
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Most important thing in college for getting girls is friends. Especially since you say you have zero experiences. Ask somebody who does have experiences. Pick a friend whose good with girls and literally watch him and ask him for tips , then most importantly actually practice. If you don’t have friends make some as many as possible. Join clubs, events, greek life if you’re into that. The more friends the better in college, this way your meeting people through mutual connections will make it much…
/r/seduction13/11/21 08:44 PM
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This ^ how do you want to respond. We’re not your guardian angels.
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:43 AM
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Before you go through with this im just concerned that this may not be the best option for your relationship. Not sure whos idea it was but very very few people can cope with a open relationship especially if one is getting some and the other isnt. If you guys talk and still feel this is the best option I’d take hollowdelgattos advice and have fun
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:39 AM
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Lmfaoo my first thought
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:36 AM
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Hobbies
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:58 PM
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A key that worked for me is to first befriend the most social person you can find and then say yes to everything. You might need to put most of the effort in a first but you’ll meet a ton of people as a byproduct
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:56 PM
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From what I’ve seen lots pf touching and eye contact
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:31 AM
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Not at a high number personally but I have a lot of friends who do. Here’s what they all have in common. They actively try to get laid but don’t care if they don’t. This means that they’re actually talking to multiple women and making their intentions clear but if the womens not feeling them they move on quickly. There looks heights ethnicity all differ drastically but The guys with the really high numbers all have one thing in common they are the most social people I know they talk to everyone …
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:05 PM
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This is dumb girls absolutely cannot tell lol. Stop worrying about dick size it matters very little.
/r/seduction09/10/21 02:02 AM
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This is going to be long but I guarantee you will get laid if you follow this. Sorry if this sounds like some cheesy guide but it’s genuine advice. Im going to do you a big favor and give you a guide I wish someone had gave me. These are things that I had to learn for myself. First and foremost grades and school come first. I’m serious. Focus on doing well in school. Second you left out a lot like your yr and how big your school, do you drink etc. One thing about advice is its hard to give if yo…
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:38 AM
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DMing is not a good place to start with no experience. Hard to give concrete advice without knowing more about you. I don’t know your experience with women, but I would just say first and foremost build yourself health( be in shape, eat well, exercise) wealth ( college, career, etc) then relashionships. ( Friends, hobbies, girls) I’ll give you generic advice. If your looks are shitty ( fashion, acne, haircut) or your socially anxious or you’re depressed or have no friends, etc , fix all of these…
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:28 AM
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This! Always wondered why women liked assholes and being treated like shit. It just turns out that assholes tend to also have behaviors that women desire. Like Confidence and Assertiveness.
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:13 PM
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Don’t shit where you eat, especially if she’s managing you?
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:11 PM
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There are a lot of factors you left out that are crucial to knowing if this is an actual viable option or if you’re completely wasting your time. First and absolutely foremost do you have a large social media presence with cool pictures? If not immediately scrap this idea because it will not work. You’re better of on a dating app. Even then if you’ve never dated a girl or are not used to talking to girls DMing them won’t make it easier. Any halfway decent looking girl has dozens of guys in her d…
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:06 PM
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If your friend says she likes you then why the fuck are you unsure. She’ll either kiss you or she won’t rejection is better than regret. The longer you wait the lower your chances get exponentially.
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:01 PM
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So much of this advice is awful, especially the one about making out in the forest. You should focus on being outcome independent and you got it right initially with just having fun. Don’t listen to these guys . Hiking is a great date idea because it’s something active so even if you don’t enjoy her company you’ll at least enjoy the hike. Have fun on the date, and escalate, touch her , grab her hand, whatever you feel, slowly push it further. Then just kiss her , do not ask her to makeout thats …
/r/seduction20/08/21 06:53 PM
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My friend who quite literally looks like he's 12 and has a baby face pulls the most girls I've ever seen. I've also been told I look very young and its never affected me. In fact someone asked me if I took my SATs recently... i'm 24. Take it as a compliment when everyones old and withered you'll look young asf. You're probably not getting rejected because you look like a kid but because of confidence and you sound like a victim, they can probably tell you're insecure about it, you should just la…
/r/seduction03/08/21 12:40 AM
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Nah it was just a guy talking about his experiences. and how building himself as a person helped him get women, wasnt really bragging. Was just interesting to hear I don’t subscribe to those bs courses and books.
/r/seduction06/03/21 05:13 PM
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Thanks dude this was it!
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:07 AM
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Great post just today I was beating myself up for not having had enough sex. A lot of guys here including myself are seeking sex and validation from women as a means to make them feel better about themselves and their lives. I havent gotten as far as the consistently sleeping with women part but it reassuring to know that not having sex isn't the end of the world. A lot of people on this thread need to hear this
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:11 AM
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where on li you from? ​
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:12 AM
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