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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Vice Masculinity Debate, They edited out pretty much every Pro-Male Statementwhich dude? | /r/MensRights | 14/01/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.Thank you for the respect, I will try to extend it as well. I appreciate that this is based on my subjective experience and may not apply to others situations. Perhaps others had tons of platonic female friendships that were emotionally rewarding and still failed at dating. I can only guess that there might be other blockers there but that really helped me. I still feel like its a tremendous boon to have emotionally intimate friendships with women and a great help in improving your odds. Don't i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.If you interpret talking about your feelings and asking for emotional support as the same as men requesting acting out kinks and fetishes, I don't know what to say. My experience has been that women are happy to have a guy express his feelings and his emotional needs (using non-combative and empathetic language of course). I don't really know that I followed your last paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 11:27 PM |
| 7 | Q for men only : Can you ever see a woman as an equal?Yes. I see some women as inferior, some as equals, and some as my better. I have coworkers who i look up to and respect and want to learn from. Female role models I have: Ariel ekblaw Gwynne Shotwell Avril haines Rachel Carson Clara Sousa-silva Esther perel Julia Lorraine Hill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.when did I imply anything about guilt or sympathy or manipulation? willing to do some self-examination here to see if your claims have merit, and certainly I speak in blunt and crass terms, but I can't remember writing anything that to me implies that. I don't "convince them". I just tell them what my kinks are. Like listing a grocery list. Then it's up to them if they want to try it or include it in bed. If I say "I Like when women tell me my dick is too small and pretend it's the worst they've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.It seems as if you misread a lot of my post. My point was that women want to be submissive and want a guy to be their dom-robot. My point is that getting a woman to domme you is 90% of the time something that is a self-sacrifice for them. Something they do despite not wanting it. They are not happy to do it in general, but they will happily do it for me because I earn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.Never said to embrace kinks that are unpopular with women. Doing that shit probably hurts me with some women, but because I do the other shit right, women are _happy_ to do this type of stuff for me even though it does nothing for them. They are doing it for me not because it brings them any pleasure. It's incredibly difficult to get a woman you're dating or fucking to do MFMs. Show me a guy who is domming his gf and holding her up against a wall and choking her and I'll see a guy who is putting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.I actually can't get the women I sleep with to fuck other people. It's like pulling teeth. I have had the recurring problem of dating a girl, deciding I don't want something serious from her and just telling her I'll do FWB but not an exclusive relationship, then as we learn each other's kinks I'll mention being into threesomes or cucking and they literally will never take me up on it and just sleep with me and no on else. I had to get my physical/reali-life MFM threesome/cuck experience by aski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.Of course its fucking painful, but either you want it badly enough to change or you don't. either give up or not. I spent thousands of hours trying to learn game online, going to coffee shops and striking convos that ended up in a total of like 2 dates over years of doing it, went to bars alone or with guy friends and talked hundreds of tables of women on girls nights out that never panned out (I had probably 2-3 total one night stands in my life that came from meeting some organically at a bar … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD overestimate the importance of height, muscles, and bravado and underestimate the importance of emotional vulnerability (a form of confidence), showing empathy/taking her words seriously, fashion/grooming, and demonstrating wit and intellect. Also confidence looks diff. v than cockiness.I don't know what you are trying to tell me. It sounds like you're saying it's harder for some men to get women because of looks? Nothing in my post goes against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?I was talking about empathizing with her. It's so weird posting in a subreddit like this full of RPers. Y'all are all about the thirst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 0 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?Lmao not everyone is that thirsty. There’s a thing called empathy, try it sometime it actually feels good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?well as someone in tech, double sorry for the yikes dudes then. hopefully doesn't put you off all of us. maybe you can screen for people who seem like they respect boundaries with your pre-date texting somehow, not sure. that sucks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:30 AM |
| 9 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?People are definitely a lot more sexually frustrated, lonely (emotionally, physically, sexually), etc. Obviously does not excuse that terrible behavior. I wonder if you are dating different types of men now than you would have before, those numbers do seem awfully high. But it might also just be really, really shitty luck. Apologies on behalf of NYC men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Blackpill?Well it describes me. Who cares if it is a rarity, you can either choose to give up or keep fighting until you get there, giving up will just make you depressed whereas fighting for it gives you hope and happiness. And I actually think it's not that hard, the only reason it's a rarity is dudes give up too easily. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/20 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Blackpill?that's kind of the other half of TRP shit. half is 'getting girls' and half is 'im scared as shit of the possibility of losing one once i have one or being hurt, how can i avoid that pain'. the truth is that TRP is like that news channel trying to make you think there are pedos on every street corner and don't let your kids go outside or they will immediately die. its fearmongering. I don't know exactly what to say other than that when I had much less dating experience than I do now, I was worri… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Is Dating Women Worth It?this is just some bullshit people use to justify giving up. there are many people out there who started off getting literally zero matches but slowly improved their personal style, got better and better photos, wrote better bios, and were able to improve their results. all of the shit about how 10% of dudes are getting 90% of the action on online dating are fucking bullshit. there are tons of women who don't like or do hookups who only meet people for dating, have realistic standards, etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Is Dating Women Worth It?i would disregard above advice and focus on only two things: 1) make platonic female friends if you don't have them. 2) use online dating, figure out what is wrong with your bio or profile or your messaging incrementally, by getting feedback and help from female friends, pay a photographer to help you get good dating photos if necessary. having female friends will help you SO much if you have never had any. it will help you to see them as people not as a mythical beast which sounds like some bul… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 9 | Blackpill?blackpill is basically like saying 'life is hard, many things are unfair, some people are given a better hand of cards than others, fuck everything, fuck my life I am fucked because of ______". it's pretty easy to counter blackpill, you don't need to refute any bullshit about height or wealth or dominance, you can refute it while acknowledging tons of it is actually true and relevant. you just need to tell them that life is unfair and many people have it hard but despite that many people who hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/20 08:17 PM |
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