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Do you know any good FRs?
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:12 PM
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I thought they would if they were better. I’ve seen a lot of unattractive men be with more attractive women and you know it’s fair play, but I do know they work hard to attract such women and with obesity rates rising and men spending more time inside playing games and watching TV, I would’ve thought that men who are fit, confident, interesting would have women clamouring to be with him so they would chase him. However, the consensus in this subreddit is that you still have to initiate and you s…
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:14 AM
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It’s not just gonna be on the outside, I’m currently in therapy and becoming more confident and gaining better self-esteem and I realise I do want to be with someone, but I’d like it if they’d make the first move. I’ve seen one of my friends who’s okay-looking have a woman literally seduce him and they’re now together and she’s also okay-looking. I’m fine with any woman doing it but it seems that not a single one will but they will receive it well but it’s always a game, I’d rather a woman came …
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:10 AM
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Oh lol
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:22 PM
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Why did they call you big bird?
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:13 PM
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But according to so many in this subreddit and a few of my friends that leads to being friend zoned, which is almost always the guy’s fault for not doing anything
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:34 AM
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What do you do about proximity and emotional intimacy?
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:33 AM
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Yh it’s kinda funny, but it was weird she went with a less attractive guy than me if she puts her pussy on a pedestal
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:35 PM
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so you think she could sense I wanted that into her? I thought these girls just don’t care as long as the guy is hot
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:34 PM
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I never understood why some unattractive girls aren’t into attractive guys? Do people below your level prefer people on their level? Does this mean it’s best to stay at your own level and go up if you can? Because women below your level will be weird?
/r/seduction06/11/19 04:04 PM
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Down for this
/r/seduction03/11/19 11:54 PM
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Lol that would work if I wasn’t 6’4”. Also, I need to read their lips to understand what they’re saying in loud environments, talking into my ear means I won’t be able to hear them
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:35 PM
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But I literally can’t hear them unless I can lip read, speaking into my ear doesn’t work
/r/seduction31/10/19 07:12 PM
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But I guess the problem is that I’m finding it hard to get to the point of dating so I need a book that is as good as that for dating and instead for picking up girls or meeting them and getting with them and all that
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:25 PM
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How long is a stare when it comes to them being attracted. If they look at you a lot does it mean they like you? Or does it need to be at least 3 seconds stare and that means they like you?
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:24 PM
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How do you know when a shy girl is interested in you?
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:19 PM
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So what do you read for the time before she’s slightly interested in you and going out with you?
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:16 PM
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OK, I’ll assume it as that and approach them They live on campus, but I missed my chance to so I live off-campus on my own in a studio so that’s the main reason I’m having trouble making friends since most people seem to make friends with their flatmates at this time
/r/seduction30/10/19 11:32 AM
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I know that is true, it’s just that I’ve met a lot of women objectify guys horrendously saying stuff like “ew that guy is ugly” towards a stranger and it was weird. I’ll respect women more from now on. Tbh, I definitely think it’s my looks. I’m very tall but I look more attractive facially when I’m sitting down but not standing up as the bottom half of my face isn’t that good
/r/seduction29/10/19 03:26 PM
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I think I could be needy, what should I do about that?
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:46 AM
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They say the same things about guys, so I can’t imagine they must that offended by it
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:45 AM
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I go to a UK university, and most first years live on campus in halls, which are basically shitty little flats in the university. There are flat parties, but I haven’t made any new friends at uni to go to these but I’ll try. What should I do to make more friends like this? I’m 6’2” and muscular, but most girls I meet are really short and seem intimidated. But if you’re telling me this means attraction, I’ll try with them. I’ll try that book
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:44 AM
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I have friends, but I’m looking to make more friends in my year as they’re all the year above me and it’s been quite hard so far. Last year I had more success in all aspects of my social life. What do I do?
/r/seduction28/10/19 05:50 PM
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I do want to improve my confidence and be better at taking the lead. I wanna do that more, just talk to women and have fun with them, but I never get to go to parties. My friends only wanna go out clubbing or just chill and drink so I haven’t really been to any house parties this year so far. What else can I say to get to know them romantically or sexually?
/r/seduction28/10/19 03:05 PM
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You are so right, I really want to be like this. I want to be confident and strong and independent with high self-esteem
/r/seduction19/10/19 01:48 PM
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Wow, that’s insane to think a about. So are you saying that by having a positive, confident energy, people will be attracted to me and some women may even chase me? How did you keep this positive, confident energy once you found it? I get it occasionally but not often.
/r/seduction15/10/19 10:28 AM
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Wow, that last woman sounds crazy So when you say you meet them and they stay close to you or cling to you, how do you even get them to want to do that? Only one woman ever did that and she was crazy before I even met her and it was really weird, but there’s been cute chubby girls that I’ve liked who smile at me all the time but they never stay close or cling or even talk to me unless I talk to them first. Also how did you get them to game you and what did their game look like? My friends say I’…
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:05 PM
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Do you approach these worst-looking gals or do they approach you? How do you start dating or fucking or whatever?
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:11 AM
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I don’t escalate much and I do dance without saying anything because I can’t hear in the clubs
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:09 AM
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How should I become a good dancer?
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:57 PM
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So lifting weights make you attractive? Also, should I go to all the groups and clubs to get laid?
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:06 AM
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So when should you start finding women to fuck and/or date? And when is it easiest?
/r/seduction29/09/19 09:27 PM
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Any tips or things I should say or do?
/r/seduction04/09/19 04:11 PM
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True they do, do I need to be fit to get them? Also, how do you get pretty, slightly chubby women? I’m ok with them but I don’t know how to get with them
/r/seduction04/09/19 03:53 PM
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I’m reading it, tell me what kind of texts you sent
/r/seduction11/06/19 05:10 PM
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So, what did you do to improve things?
/r/seduction08/06/19 01:37 PM
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I am tall, though, does that mean I can get to top 20%?
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:05 PM
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I get plenty of matches, just no dates, plus they don’t tend to be attractive, although sometimes are. How many dates do you get from Tinder?
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:02 PM
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Of course, I’ll do those things, it’s just that it’s really hard to get dates on Tinder and it seems like you have to be the top 20% to get dates on Tinder often, like once a week or every other week
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:58 PM
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Oh, really? So that would bump me up to the top 20%?
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:52 PM
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Well, you’re buff, so a shirtless pic will definitely land you a woman, she may or may not be attractive, but she’ll probably say yeah to a first date. I’m not speaking from experience but from what people on this subreddit have said
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:45 PM
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Really? 50 shades of grey? So, should I read it or watch it? Will it really help me find fwb? I’ve read that book, I’ve also heard No More Mr Nice Guy is another good book, do you recommend it? I’ll try to do that, thank you
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:37 PM
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OK, that sounds like you became successful, does weightlifting help? How did you become more confident? I’m looking for fwb, do you have any advice about that?
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:09 PM
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How much before? What kind of women? What did you look like?
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:02 PM
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Do you go up to women in clubs or bars and get to know them then ask them out? Have you tried Tinder? Also, are you ok dating fat women?
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:01 PM
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OK, thank you, I’ll do that
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:00 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:00 PM
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I know, but I would’ve thought being buff with an average face would bring you up to the top 20%, so I’m surprised it doesn’t.
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:20 PM
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I’ve never been called creepy, one woman called me beautiful, women seem to like hanging with me for a bit and flirting, and we sometimes kiss then they get bored and walk away. Maybe I’m too slow to flirt. I am sometimes socially awkward, there have been times I wasn’t and it was going well, then it falls apart. I remember one time taking a woman into her bedroom but then she didn’t want to, and it confused me because we were vibing and flirting a lot beforehand and she seemed to want me to go …
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:19 PM
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If my face is a 5 or 6, would lifting bring me up to the top 20%?
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:11 PM
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I mean, my face is like a 6, would being buff bump me up to the top 20% I will do that, it’s just that often I see that “80% of women go for the top 20% of men” and it makes Tinder harder since I’m not from a huge city like London, so I was wondering what I can do, especially since it seems like a large proportion of women choose to date through Tinder or friends, but not really from bars or clubs.
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:11 PM
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I’m 20
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:08 PM
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Do you have high standards? I’ve heard that lowering your standards helps a lot
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:32 AM
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Did you date women and have sex with them before you stopped being and shy, and what about after?
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:32 AM
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OK, I’ve heard mindful meditation helps these problems, I’ll try it. Any other advice?
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:30 AM
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What could I do about any of those 5 things?
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:22 AM
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I brush my teeth with whitener toothpaste, I have good dental hygiene, I use only coconut oil in my hair as I have curly hair. I do have bad skin and eczema around my nose. Is that it? What can I do about my energy?
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:54 PM
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It’s been every woman so far. I think like a needy person, how do I make moves and stop being needy?
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:53 PM
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So, what should I do about it?
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:06 PM
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So, what do you do about it?
/r/seduction26/05/19 12:20 AM
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How do I do that?
/r/seduction26/05/19 12:20 AM
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How so?
/r/seduction26/05/19 12:19 AM
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What do you mean family-related?
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:02 PM
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