kipri Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
60	How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM?		kipri	/r/askFDS	25/12/20 01:38 PM
29	My Ex would switch between sob story and stud		kipri	/r/askFDS	26/12/20 11:24 AM
1	How do I cope with the shame of having been negged in my last relationship?	STRATEGY	kipri	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 04:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part! It even happens when they dump you. I was with a covert narc, he dumped me viciously. Two months pass and he calls me, messages etc. I block, he does it from new numbers. Guys like that will always feel like you abandoned them before they dumped you. They always feel robbed, even when they got their last word in and dumped you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 12:40 AM
8	How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part! This is nightmare. The problem with these narc men is that they bundle up all their unrelated misfortunes and unhappiness in this weird fixation on "the one that got away". If only I was with her I would be insert whatever they value. It has nothing to do with either woman. It has nothing to do with love (I don't think he can love). It is about men's urge to triangulate and put themselves into the position of judge.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 12:31 AM
43	We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡 '... closer to 2-3 months' .... more like 'overlap'. A classic monkey brancher. I would ask for some time apart to think things over and watch him monkeybranch to his next victim from a distance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 08:46 PM
18	A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was. I would even say never date a man who talks shit about one particular ex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/22 06:33 PM
2	How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM? You're right, I'll keep on doing me. It's true. He really was that archetype.	/r/askFDS	26/12/20 12:12 PM
1	How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM? Thank you, it is really reassuring to hear other people say it too. I don't feel like I can bring all of this up to other women irl. It's too embarrassing. There literally is no one, that's the joke. He is always the orbiter. Also, I know for a fact he reads way to much into friendliness that women express. I had the same thing with him in the beginning. That stems from being seriously attention-starved. He latches onto everything.	/r/askFDS	26/12/20 12:11 PM
2	How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM? Thank you, you too! :)	/r/askFDS	25/12/20 06:31 PM
7	How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM? Ugh, YES!! That is exactly how it was for me. I practically had to convince myself that he has some nice physical qualities. He would have never ever gone for me if I looked like him! I certainly didn't choose him for his looks and he knew that. I suspect that was the reason why he would compliment me really little and then started to neg me. Other guys that are attractive give plenty of compliments. I never saw that connection before this. Lesson learned at least. It's soooo mind-boggling to me…	/r/askFDS	25/12/20 04:36 PM
9	How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM? A huge chunk must have been the hormones from being physically intimate. The hugging alone was addictive as hell. I did have a very full life before him and didn't care at all about being single. In fact, I felt like whoever becomes the bf has to be excellent for me to invest time and energy into it. Somehow I accepted this though. Having sex for the first time didn't help either. I was under the impression that I didn't really care about sex and that I can totally live without it (this is in la…	/r/askFDS	25/12/20 04:14 PM
16	How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM? That's right! I totally fell for his stories where he always happened to be the victim, the one who was unfairly wronged ... Thinking back it was too obvious.	/r/askFDS	25/12/20 03:22 PM