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| 4 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereWhat if life has no meaning? Don't fall into protestant work ethic or measuring people by wealth either. There's so much joy to have that can be sex or other things, why reject it?. The problem with redpill isn't sex, it's why and the whole misogynistic pseudoscience based on toxic masculinity. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 11:30 AM |
| 8 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsMGTOW is bad at its' core. The idea of men liberation is great but that's been done by men's liberation movement by taking from feminist theory and experiences and understanding male and female problems have the same source. MGTOW is an antifeminist bullshit that doesn't actually tackle men's issues, it just blames everything on women like they were the ones calling the shots. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How to go to a restaurant as a sex god/red pill alpha male breederI don't mean introverts because that's not the same as being shy or awkward, nor do I mean physically unattractive people. You can be an extra extrovert and still shy, suppresed. However an unconfident try-hard making people uncomfortable (I think it's called neediness in pua/redpill lingo). Physical attraciveness might influence this but that's not what I meant, especially if being attractive gives confidence boost. Some people I met were literal virgins and literally cringey when around women,… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How to go to a restaurant as a sex god/red pill alpha male breederWe'd have to define what success means to avoid confusion. I was referring to what I've seen in clubs, which wasn't a lot but seemed ok if the baseline is drunk dude in a club (most "normal" men seem to be cringey or too afraid). If we define success as anything more like sex or relationships then I also have my doubts about everything, especially influence of their teachings on mental health. I certainly didn't follow them to see if they "pulled" or whatever beyond making out with drunk girls. … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | How to go to a restaurant as a sex god/red pill alpha male breederHis friends are acting somewhat needy by the sound of it. I'd say they were acting... normal? I'm always nice to waiters and waitresses whether I want to fuck them or not. I'd also apologise for my friend if I somehow missed that (supposed) sexual tension between them. he acted non needy and vulnerable by behaving in a manner that was true to himself in some respect, He wanted to watch the game he was more interested in the game He faked it all by repeating to himself "her opinion doesn't matter… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to go to a restaurant as a sex god/red pill alpha male breederI'm not exactly sure what the moral of the story is. Those guys are sleazy and rapy, maybe their infields are "morally questionable" and footage might be fake (kinda hard to check it personally), but they do approach themselves. I've had a dubious pleasure of watching 2 of them in action on bootcamp (Julien and Max to be exact, not being a part of bootcamp myself) and truth be told they and their "studends" seemed to have lots of success compared to most people (including me). They're also capab… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Think The Main Reason Is For There Being Incels?Contrary opinion to contrary opinion: We've had bad and unsecure times which produced nazis, fascists, nationalists etc. - that wasn't really the peak of what humanity has to offer. Our societies are realtively peaceful in terms of not waging war where we live but they're overflowing with other important issues which we (as society) fail to address. Our societies might offer more safety from hunger (unfortunately not for all) but they certainly don't offer much more "mental" support or stronger … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | What Do You Think The Main Reason Is For There Being Incels?I think none of those answers is enough by itself. It's definitely an influence of social media, seduction coaches, right-wing propaganda acknowledging their problems and offering answers. Sometimes it's a bit genetic, though it applies mostly to those with actual disabilities, not someone sad about being 5'8'' and with mostly average face. It's definitely a mix of personal issues and issues within our culture, the two are very often intertwined. Their experiences are also valid even if their pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Eilliot Hulse ???Dude is a total fraud with pseudo-scientific knowledge. MAybe sometimes he says something interesting but what I've seen is 90% about some bullshit without solid evidence or his personal experiences/views presented as ultimate truth. It's not worth trusting him on anything for that reason. edit: I mean he talks about how we need alpha male mentors, how there's a right and wrong way to be a man, how some unsuccesful men "reek of effeminacy". This is a pretty unhealthy RP bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Ugly men have a right to be angryI'm just saying it's different and not always easy. It's easy to say "just don't care" but if someone already has that fear internalised it's not easy. Sometimes it might have actual real-world consequences. Some peolpe will cope with that pressure and some won't. I'd say most won't just like most women don't cope well with the opposite pressure. We're very social animals so it's only understandable that our environment has a huge impact on us. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Ugly men have a right to be angryEmotions don't need to solve anything by themselves to be healthy. They influence us in certain way since it's their evolutionary purpose (ie. you get angry and want to do or smash things) and we can make use of it if we're aware of what they do to us. The same anger may push someone to hate women and stay angry, or be used in a healthy way as a motivator to hit the gym, therapy, fashion advice etc. Or we can get angry at specific shitty women hurting others for no particular reason. The problem… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Ugly men have a right to be angryAnger is healthy as fuck. It might be illplaced if we see the reasons in wrong places but it's ok and healthy to be angry. At least as long as it's actually anger and not hiding behind anger when in reality it's sadness, pain or anxiety. It's ok to be angry that we've been dealt a shitty hand by nature/god/universe/whatever and I'd say we should be angry at society (or rather certain norms, not people in general) which creates such huge pressure to conform to certain expectations. A healthy ange… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Ugly men have a right to be angryI'd personally insist on using the word "right". I think this is a better phrasing because we're often taught to deny those emotions as something that men shouldn't feel, like we don't have the right, like it's something wrong and even disallowed. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Ugly men have a right to be angryLet me just preface my comment by saying how it's all just my personal opinion. It's interesting that ugly men are both pressured into doing and not doing those things. It may vary by location (cultural differences exist) and of course orthodontics are now something relatively mainstream for all genders but... But men using skincare, or worse, some sort of makeup are labeled gay and not in a nice way. Dieting is mostly about muscles rather than simply loosing weight. Fashion for men is meh - it … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider Mark Manson's writings to be a more trustworthy or healthy outlook on life and realtionships? TRP, or more specifically PUA, has hurt me and since then I've been VERY suspicious of any dating and even life advice but I've noticed you have Mark Manson's posts in your First Aid Kit.Thanks. Makes sense to be skeptical of him and anyone in surrounding industries. I don't expect too much and I don't like his theory of social status being the main force behind attraction (sounds like somethieng influenced by alpha male pseudoscience bullshit) but it's good to know he has some valuable posts without too much bullshit. I don't really expect definite answers, I'm trying to move past that. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider Mark Manson's writings to be a more trustworthy or healthy outlook on life and realtionships? TRP, or more specifically PUA, has hurt me and since then I've been VERY suspicious of any dating and even life advice but I've noticed you have Mark Manson's posts in your First Aid Kit.You've spelled out exactly what I tried to convey. I've kinda mentioned that I'm currently in therapy so I get to work on myself a bit and it made me question such things. Why do I think I need to be X or Y? And I find that I do have deeply ingrained and unhealthy ideas about relationships or what I need to be. Neediness and being worthy (so pretty much what PUA is about) have definitely influenced my beliefs and I think I don't even realise their full impact on me. Although purely logically I t… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider Mark Manson's writings to be a more trustworthy or healthy outlook on life and realtionships? TRP, or more specifically PUA, has hurt me and since then I've been VERY suspicious of any dating and even life advice but I've noticed you have Mark Manson's posts in your First Aid Kit.Sounds reasonable but a bit more like counter to old-school PUA. I've noticed that in recent years PUAs have gone "natural" while still retaining lots of fucked up views and pseudoscience. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/20 06:17 PM |
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