kitecurbkicker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Against their will: secret shame of men raped by women "Unwanted sexual contact" too.	/r/MensRights	03/07/21 08:44 PM
2	Woman sentenced to 64 to 102 years for raping multiple boys on multiple occasions. Notable for the severity of punishment. Lot of us former victims don't deal with the memories that well, or it brings up a whole lot of emotions. Might be cool to find a survivor group, but honestly, I haven't found a single thing for male survivors.	/r/MensRights	02/07/21 02:00 PM
25	Am I in the right to be upset about how I was treated at my wife's OBGYN? Yeah, that's pretty normal treatment. Just wait for the birth; you will be ignored, and probably asked to leave. If it's a boy, the doctors and nurses will endlessly pester/try forcing you to have the boy's penis cut, too, and there will be plenty of sexist comments against men, guaranteed. Why? Because nurses generally hate men, and I have experienced it way too many times.	/r/MensRights	01/07/21 11:55 PM
72	That poor bastard. Be careful lads Someone needs to warn the husband of impending deception.	/r/MensRights	01/07/21 06:51 PM
9	Girl kissed me without consent and i could do nothing about it. This is why I never close my eyes completely. Also, I suggest calling it out and making a scene. Ruin her night and let her know that what she did is not acceptable. It starts with kissing, but if she's allowed to continue, she'll probably (if she hasn't already) move onto drugging and raping of men.	/r/MensRights	25/06/21 04:25 PM
19	Apparently I'm not allowed to be friendly to female co-workers. This ties into constantly sexualizing men, and projecting a stereotype that men only want sex 100% of the time. Women are not seen as this, though I have seen women be vastly more harassing in the workplace than men. If a woman hits on you, just leave the job (my experience) because turning her down will result in retaliation, either by lies, or if she's a boss, your job will become terrible or perhaps you'll be fired. If you say yes, it will be even worse when the breakup happens (and it most l…	/r/MensRights	25/06/21 03:44 PM
4	Well well well, this is violation of my right! Sleep is probably a good idea, and I hope you're able to calm down prior to doing so.	/r/MensRights	24/06/21 08:34 PM
3	Well well well, this is violation of my right! Oh, every time I had a chance to, because I not only grew up with it happening from a grandmother, I also had school teachers who were that way, and later drugged and raped by an ex schoolmate. Not one single person ever cared, despite reporting it. I was given psych evals and publicly called a liar, and the police just laughed at me, saying men couldn't be raped, and to get out of the station before they charged me with something. Literally, there is NO help for male rape victims in this countr…	/r/MensRights	24/06/21 08:31 PM
4	Well well well, this is violation of my right! No, you were banned because they looked at your other posts and saw you posted here, therefore auto-ban, because they don't deem your opinion valuable, or see you as a worthwhile human, because your views do not lock-step with theirs. Same old song and dance of censorship. For what it's worth, I can first-hand state that women DO rape men and boys with impunity, and the victims have absolutely zero recourse, because nobody cares if a male has been raped except the victim. Even sharing is invitin…	/r/MensRights	24/06/21 08:10 PM
1	Equality of outcome shouldn’t matter, only equality of opportunity Lotta shitty people. I've had it happen once from spurning a female boss's advances. Never found work in that area, and had to leave. May also have had it happen due to the last company I left, and the project manager being an open racist, as well as reporting him for wage theft. I dunno. Haven't found "work" in two years and switched over to making a go of my own business, all in a pandemic. But yes, it's a shit tactic.	/r/MensRights	19/06/21 04:21 AM
5	Equality of outcome shouldn’t matter, only equality of opportunity Mostly definitely there is. Men being front-of-house in food service is extremely rare. Men in any sort of caregiving position even moreso. Tons of sexism from what I've seen, and that's excluding the propensity of female coworkers to flirt and then cry foul when the guy doesn't respond how they want. Seen it happen, and not to just me. Spurn a female boss's sexual advances, and just go find another job if possible, because black-listing is a real bitch.	/r/MensRights	18/06/21 12:05 AM
2	Equality of outcome shouldn’t matter, only equality of opportunity People go where money is, and are most often unhappy in their line of work. They make choices out of desperation for survival in a capitalist economy. Putting all blame on them is disingenuous. Equality of opportunity would mean that anyone could, and would, achieve the type of job they want, and work toward. The problem with this model is much of modern society seeing simple jobs as unworthy of a living wage. See any minimum wage or part time job, and most will argue that it's only for teens or…	/r/MensRights	17/06/21 11:43 PM
42	Why is men getting hit in the groin comedic and socially acceptable? Getting kicked in the groin can cause damage to the blood vessels surrounding the testicles. This leads to blood pooling and poor blood flow to them. It's called a testicular varicocele. Usually affects the left one more, due to anatomy, but can harm both testicles. They overheat from the pooled blood and poor circulation, which produces defective sperm, increasing chances of birth defects or not having children. Then we have pudendal nerve damage, which affects the whole penis and sensation. Ev…	/r/MensRights	13/06/21 03:35 PM
10	Why is male genital mutilation a forbidden subject in a lot of subs like it's no more than annoying background noise? Learn about the foreskin, its function and purpose. Speak out and teach others, and condemn the sexist double standard that protects girls but not boys from cutting. Bloodstained Men has billboards and a campaign. Maybe stand out with a sign condemning it. Literally spread the word of how evil it is. Even in the face of threats and attacks, keep on spreading the word. That's all anyone does.	/r/MensRights	13/06/21 03:22 PM
2	How to respond to r@pe jokes about men? I just glare at people who make those jokes and ask them if they'd laugh the same way if it were a woman or child. I usually follow it up with my own stories of abuse, with good detail, and ask them if they think it's funny, and would like to experience such things while being told that they deserved it, don't matter, or to hear jokes about it. It gets them thinking. Most men don't come forward, so male rape is seen as a mythical, victimless crime or show of cosmic justice. But when a man steps …	/r/MensRights	12/06/21 04:02 PM
26	Mum 'had baby with boy she sexually abused at golf course' Let's not forget the psych evaluation that lets her off the hook entirely as "unfit for trial," and then she gets more "counseling" and is otherwise free to rape other boys, but...yeah, I'm thinking similarly as you.	/r/MensRights	09/06/21 06:37 PM
2	Men seem to suffer in silence so much. Thank you for detailing that. It's proactive, and I believe you are making a good difference for the world and others with that approach. While I recognize this is a men's rights sub, I relish meeting people who care about others in general, and aren't afraid to speak plainly. Thank you again. :)	/r/MensRights	08/06/21 11:49 PM
13	Men seem to suffer in silence so much. Do you have any ideas or plans of action to take in order to start making the change?	/r/MensRights	08/06/21 04:06 PM
10	Feminists groups call for funding to be allocated so that it gives "women and their families priority access to shelters, housing, adequate healthcare, and food supply" in the event of natural disasters Ya know what else impacts one's ability to live full reproductive lives? Not having a working dick thanks to RIC. "But women love it." A man's body is not his own, and he's really just a sperm donor for the woman to use for whatever she wants until he's no longer capable, at which point she'll dump him. Seen it happen to others and myself in the past, especially when it comes to sex. Can't orgasm from sex? Numb? Must be the man's fault for being a man.	/r/MensRights	08/06/21 03:52 PM
6	This is degeneracy at it's peak Beards and baldness go together like peanut butter and jelly.	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 08:18 PM
6	This is degeneracy at it's peak Ah, gotcha. A little edgy today, so I thought your reply was another precursor to ad-hominems and personal attacks.	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 08:17 PM
17	This is degeneracy at it's peak Yeah, I feel the same for the misandrists. Let's not forget them. This is a complete stalemate of an argument, and wasting time. My experience is that feminists hate men, almost universally. Not all, of course, but most. Been groped, raped, called a rapist for having a penis, had no real bodily autonomy, and laws that don't protect me. But sure, feminism isn't the problem when it minimizes these issues or the proponents personally attack me. Either speak up, or you're part of the problem. I spea…	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 08:15 PM
7	This is degeneracy at it's peak Your point?	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 07:42 PM
22	This is degeneracy at it's peak Then perhaps the vocal majority should also speak up, instead of complacency. Silence is a polite way of agreeing. IF a person disagrees, speak up. It is, and has been, that simple. They don't speak up, which means they quietly agree.	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 07:42 PM
27	This is degeneracy at it's peak Found the narcissist!	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 06:04 PM
38	This is degeneracy at it's peak Because it is misandry.	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 05:55 PM
4	Wife hit me and was let go from police Record audio, video, everything possible. Even if it's running 24/7, record it all. Have something on you the whole time. At the least, audio is useful, but I've no idea if anyone will listen to you anyway.	/r/MensRights	31/05/21 11:06 PM
13	Many women get frustrated when the men they flirt to don't get the hint. In today's age, many men do get the hint, but don't act on it because the consequences and stakes for misinterpreting it are much higher and severe I've been too busy to notice any flirts. Only once did I ever respond that I wasn't attracted to my boss after she hit on me. I was fired the next day. Never again.	/r/MensRights	28/05/21 08:31 AM
8	UK: Drunk woman, 37, 'sexually assaulted boy, 15, by squeezing his nipple and grabbing his genitals at train station before telling him "It doesn't matter, it's a bit of fun"' In my experience, very much so. Boys were told they were lucky, or if it was a bad experience, that they deserved it, and should be glad the woman didn't cut off their penis. Girls were usually afforded protection from predators. It wasn't universal, as I distinctly remember a male teacher who was known to "date" his students, and it was accepted, until one girl filed a complaint, and then all hell came down on him. Boys had no protections from male or female faculty. It was that simple, especia…	/r/MensRights	27/05/21 01:08 AM
6	UK: Drunk woman, 37, 'sexually assaulted boy, 15, by squeezing his nipple and grabbing his genitals at train station before telling him "It doesn't matter, it's a bit of fun"' Yeah, that's a normal, everyday thing women do in America, with the exception of nipple squeezing. I wish I were being sarcastic.	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 10:18 PM
11	Concerned about the rising number of single homeless men in my city Not in the UK, but I dealt with homelessness a number of years ago. It stemmed from chronic unemployment. The cause of that unemployment was a job caused injury that blew a disc in my back, pinching my spinal cord, preventing my leg from working normally, as well as severe pain. I spent 3 years not really walking. The US has "protections" for injured workers, but my boss covered it up, technically through a hospital friend, so the worker's compensation claim fell through and I received no treatm…	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 10:10 PM
2	I showed my sister a post from this subreddit and she told me I was the most sexist person she has ever encountered. Advocating for men’s rights isn’t sexist, just as advocating for women’s rights isn’t sexist. True, it came across as an abridged description. Perhaps they talked, maybe not, and yes, the OP may want to give insight to the specifics. With that said, I have very often experienced similar reflexive statements as the OP briefly detailed if trying to discuss with people in general, and will stand by my decision to stop talking to people who baselessly accuse. I appreciate your response being thoughtful and respectful.	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 03:04 PM
2	reverse the genders and people lose their minds. Actually did call the cops on her when she tried taking a 10" chef knife to my dad. They blamed him. I disowned her in adulthood and she is now dead.	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 02:52 PM
97	I showed my sister a post from this subreddit and she told me I was the most sexist person she has ever encountered. Advocating for men’s rights isn’t sexist, just as advocating for women’s rights isn’t sexist. If she's going to accuse, she may as well explain her position, like a rational person. If she can't grant that modicum of respectful behavior, might as well just carry on in life and leave her in the dust.	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 05:39 AM
1	“A man in a room full of women is excited a woman in a room full of men is terrified.” I genuinely don't think you do understand, but debating with you isn't productive, so thanks for your input.	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 11:54 PM
2	“A man in a room full of women is excited a woman in a room full of men is terrified.” It was far more than fucking two. I only mentioned those two. I want justice, but not even the legal system gives a crap about men. I'm not alone. Most just ignore it and move on, or follow what they're told, that they're so lucky that women want them, or didn't cut their dick off. I don't owe anyone anything, and after literal decades of that, anyone who says to move on is complicit and accepting of rape. Period. That's a binary choice. At this point I don't care about apologies. My bitch grand…	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 10:39 PM
4	“A man in a room full of women is excited a woman in a room full of men is terrified.” I grew up sexually abused by a grandmother, and have had women lie. One claimed I made her pregnant when we never had sex, and I had proof. One individual woman is plenty predatory. Maybe not all, but too many.	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 10:04 PM
8	reverse the genders and people lose their minds. The mother is a narcissist. She puts her values above all else and refuses to budge, especially with not talking (antisocial behavior) when she didn't get her way. Very petulant. My mom was the same way. I was never allowed a lock, and often woke up to her screaming at me, throwing things, water in the face (rare, until the roof rotted over my bed and I routinely woke up to rain), hitting me (slaps and punches, sometimes a board), raw meat once. Sometimes I slept naked and suspect she would "che…	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 01:59 PM
9	Deer men, if a girl says she's been raped, stay away. Fun fact: if a guy claims he's been raped, girls will also stay away from him. Doesn't matter if it was childhood, woman or man who perpetrated; nobody wants a damaged man. He is valueless.	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 06:44 AM
25	“A man in a room full of women is excited a woman in a room full of men is terrified.” Absolutely a "hell no" from me. I would never feel safe near a single woman, let alone the only man in a room full. Even as a young teen, if I was around multiple women by myself, sexual harassment would happen, and as an adult, too many women are plenty comfortable with trying to grope a man in public, and they'll scream of being harassed or assaulted if I remove their hand or raise my voice to draw attention. No, women are predators. Not all. Too many.	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 06:17 AM
18	Patronizing and talking down to men about their mental health is not helping and often comes across as rather hateful (which turns away many men in the process). Let's work with men, not against them. I know a guy who was suicidal, and had another attempt (cut short) a few months ago. He tried seeking help, and let me know the runaround he gets. He was told that little exists for him, because he is a man, but to call a phone number to find "resources." He called that number, they told him they couldn't help, but to call a 2nd number for "resources." He tried that number. They did the same, and gave him the number to the 1st place he contacted. So, he received no help, because literally none e…	/r/MensRights	24/05/21 11:32 PM
20	Circumcision without a medical reason on a male infant who can’t consent is child abuse. Yes, it should be considered child abuse, but it isn't, solely because the child is male, and we have social norms and indoctrination telling us that it's OK, that it's no big deal (we hear this from literally day 1 in America). Someone who functions, but isn't functioning normally would be seen as having an handicap. We do this for people with missing limbs, or even, say, a finger. They're considered handicapped. But when a little infant boy has 80% of sensation removed, and 50+% of his skin, t…	/r/MensRights	24/05/21 02:46 PM
4	Circumcised men of Reddit, how do you feel about it? How is permanent body modification without consent, done to infant boys literally every day not qualifying? If a boy dies once every three days, is that not also oppression? Not having a choice over one's body or life is oppression, and it affects men daily. Sadly, it's so normalized that people would rather a boy needlessly die, or lose function of his body, to placate their own idea of uprightness. In my state, women are fully protected. Men aren't. That's sexist oppression.	/r/MensRights	21/05/21 01:36 AM
7	Circumcised men of Reddit, how do you feel about it? There is no harmless circumcision. Healthy tissue is needlessly removed, without anesthesia. Studies exist, showing permanent brain changes, signs of PTSD, and profound nerve damage. Loss of 80% sensation is significant. Any time a pro is mentioned, it's usually a generalized claim of hygiene (yet women have more folds and don't have this happen). HIV study was severely flawed, and the claimed percentage decrease was relative, not absolute. 0.1 vs 0.05% chance is a 50% decrease, but both are sti…	/r/MensRights	20/05/21 02:38 PM
2	Circumcised men of Reddit, how do you feel about it? Did you have a periah style performed? I have questions as to how people reconcile the documented differences in circumcision from Abrahamic style and the periah, where significantly more flesh is removed. Likewise, to my understanding, laws exist to allow a ritual nick, either if the man was cut, or if the infant had an older brother who died of circumcision itself or complications. Clearly, this was known to be harmful, potentially deadly. If cutting is only possible, why is a nick accepted? T…	/r/MensRights	20/05/21 02:29 PM
6	Circumcised men of Reddit, how do you feel about it? Some of us deal with chronic pain directly from the procedure. I was angry decades before any movement existed. Nothing went wrong with mine according to doctors, but nerve damage is a very real thing. Imagine someone cutting off your lips and then saying you can kiss the same, and that protesting it is dangerous, or men aren't harmed. A 2007 study confirmed a 70-80% loss of sensation, all of it fine touch and temperature, during circumcision. The resulting glans keratinization worsens the resul…	/r/MensRights	20/05/21 02:24 PM
1	Can men take small PP plastic pollution seriously now? That seems reasonable.	/r/MensRights	23/04/21 07:48 PM
4	Can men take small PP plastic pollution seriously now? This is something I've heard of before, and that, statistically, men are becoming more "feminine" by way of smaller penises, potential for growing breasts, and overall weight gain. This happens because of plastics (more specifically phthalates) as well as some foods being pushed as beneficial. Dairy often has higher amounts of estrogen, and soybeans are pushed as healthy foods (also high in estrogen). Plastic packaging simply worsens the situation. We also have (in the US, at least) significant …	/r/MensRights	23/04/21 08:23 AM
11	This subreddit is about mens rights, not judging women Bitterness comes in waves, so the so-called "shitting" will come and go along with it. Meanwhile, let's not forget how many men come here with their experience, their stories, thoughts, ideas, and personalities. They're taking the time out to voice it, positive or negative, and this is a place for such venting. It is also seemingly very rare on reddit that such a sub exists or avoids being trampled by man-hating individuals. I'll also stop being bitter when my dead grandmother's body is exhumed …	/r/MensRights	23/04/21 06:03 AM
15	Feminist “equality” in rape crimes If I were British, I'd jump on this, even if it is ignored. In America...we get nothing, not even petitions. Men do not matter, and can't be raped according to the law (at least in my experiences). Besides, even if the law allowed for it, the fucking police won't believe it, or will arrest the male victim and accuse him of lies. Men don't have justice, protection, or a right to live, in my experience and opinion.	/r/AntiFeminists	23/04/21 05:56 AM
2	How feminism is hurting mens rights I've never had a feminist express concern at butchered male genitals. I've not once heard a feminist complain about job injuries or deaths which strong affect men. I've yet to hear a feminist congratulate a father for doing anything, or even existing. Usually it's absolute hatred. I just hear nothing positive from feminists about men. I'm told that I'm a rapist, have the world at my fingertips, and that every single system in the world is tilted toward me. Me. A man. I grew up sexually abused, f…	/r/MensRights	16/04/21 08:08 PM
1	Do girls or even women know that there are essentially two types of penises: showers and growers? Women like to humiliate men for their penises. It's nearly universal in my experience, and if they don't outright humiliate men, they disdain the look of a penis, especially a normal one that escaped infant mutilation. This has been near absolute in my experiences. Men are so often reduced to their penis size and libido, yet also ridiculed and hated for it. Because women hate men. Period.	/r/MensRights	16/04/21 07:30 PM
1	Concern for the future This is always a concern. The best you can hope for is to find a pocket of at least marginal sensibility in order to either find someone with whom to have children, or a chance for adoption, as well as a social system that doesn't automatically ostracize and exhibit prejudice against him due to his genitals. Some of those places exist, but they're becoming fewer and more diluted over time. Blame the internet, but shielding from that would be impossible. The best option is to avoid having childre…	/r/MensRights	16/04/21 06:56 PM
1	How to ACTUALLY Make Women Safer. #NotAllMen In my experience, women have largely been the aggressors in public, perpetrating anything from calling me a rapist because they were angry that I didn't let them go first in a checkout line, to groping me because they felt like it, or trying to shove cleavage in my face for a higher tip at a restaurant. Many women like to employ men for protection, but refuse to help the men who protected them, because chivalry and self sacrifice from men is expected, while women give nothing positive in return.…	/r/MensRights	06/04/21 02:05 PM
1	Amy Schumer Says, "Anyone who is not a feminist is insane" Women were allowed in the military, not disguised as men, in as early as 1917. Specifically it was the Army Nurse Corpse, which is actually considered military duty. That was 104 years ago, so yes, women did join the military officially back then, but not for combat. Contraceptive pills did not exist until 1960, when they were approved for use, but didn't gain popularity until 1962. Prior to that, it was a man's responsibility to have a condom handy, and many men carried one in their wallets (a …	/r/MensRights	06/04/21 01:16 PM
1	Anti "Not All Men" post on r/feminism comparing men to ticks. This is unbelievable. The comments are even worse. My suggestion (having parented as well) would be to value him as he is, not what he could be. It starts from birth, and I have my theories (backed by studies) that the devaluation starts, and permanent brain functions are altered by RIC performed on boys in the US. What better way to say to a boy that he has no value than to amputate part of his body without cause or consent? Some people are evil, because they want to be. Narcissists abound, and being aware of them is necessary, but when we gene…	/r/MensRights	16/03/21 07:18 PM
1	Anti "Not All Men" post on r/feminism comparing men to ticks. This is unbelievable. The comments are even worse. Isn't the call to boycott women, and then one coming forward to say "not all women" precisely the inverse situation between feminist claims that all men are rapists, with some feeling a need to interject? The entire premise is an inversion of the other situation that caused it. One extreme statement with a piling of people in agreement elicits the opposite reaction. I do not think these methods work, and as much credit as can be given to you for being the "not all" person, it is still a futile e…	/r/MensRights	16/03/21 04:32 PM
1	What are the actual statistics on the gender breakdown of child sexual abuse perpetrators? Stats will be misleading and certainly incomplete and inaccurate. To me, I see women perpetrating far more, and have had 3 different ones through the years. The worst was a grandmother, but also female school teacher, a male principal, and later a female ex schoolmate. In trying to report these things I was ostracised by family, threatened regarding the principal, had my education ruined when coming forward about the teacher, and was laughed at by police when trying to file a complaint. Even if …	/r/MensRights	11/03/21 02:45 AM
2	Can someone explain to me how every day is international men’s day? Sure, let's start having some men only holidays, like men with black lung, or male workplace death day, or male forced genital cutting, or just plain old kill men day? I'm being sarcastic, but really, maybe we should start pushing for such recognition.	/r/MensRights	09/03/21 12:58 AM
3	Here is what happened when I confronted a double standard MensLib had when it came to genital mutilation, MensLib is an absolute joke and embarrassment I don't visit that sub, but if you do, now you have more accurate information to bandy with those who would think FGM is always worse than MGM. Both are horrible.	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 03:18 AM
10	Here is what happened when I confronted a double standard MensLib had when it came to genital mutilation, MensLib is an absolute joke and embarrassment Untrue. A sensory study performed in 2007 proved that the most sensitive spot on a circumcised male penis is the scar line, and that it is less sensitive than the least sensitive spot on a normal penis. The conclusion was 70 to 80% loss of total sensation, almost all of it being light tough and temperature. The glans is not sensitive to light touch, and is, according to a test that I forget, about as sensitive as the heel of the foot. More recent research is also linking circ with ED and ejacula…	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 01:25 AM
1	Why do people on this sub act like some men don't contribute to hurtful and incorrect ideas about men? Interestingly, in that post, several members directly rebuked the OP. Sure, people may be allowed to make posts, but if it's garbage, the group tends to call it out as such. That post is a good example, and this main post, for its vague generalizations, has been calmly rebuked as well. I see a trend forming.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 02:34 AM
1	Do you think male children are treated disposable when compared to female children? Aren't male children also more prone to being on the receiving end of physical violence?	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 01:02 AM
1	Why do people on this sub act like some men don't contribute to hurtful and incorrect ideas about men? That's one specific quote. It does not say women face no problems, just that they're goddesses. The person is stating an opinion on Male suicide with a snarky statement after. Still, it does not claim one is immune. I interpret it as a lamentation of their own situation. Could more specificity be used, and less snark? Sure, that's always welcome, though I fail to see the quote support your claim that men are denying responsibility. No blame is placed on women, but the opinion that women are trea…	/r/MensRights	21/02/21 02:59 AM
1	Every Man I know has at least one emotional, physical, financial or even sexual assault story. Every. Single. One. OK Narcissists. It's possible the poster associates only with rape victims in order to make that claim. However... I tend to think people are, in general, abusive and selfish. We often take those we love for granted, and abuse them. Relationships seem equal parts love, duty, and trauma bonding. As for their claim of being harassed when they go out, I can confirm that men have it happen regularly, too. When I was younger, random women walking up and shoving their boobs in my face, grabbing my dick, or trying to …	/r/MensRights	21/02/21 12:37 AM
1	Why do people on this sub act like some men don't contribute to hurtful and incorrect ideas about men? The idea in this sub, from what I've seen, does not downplay men, but has shown that men need help, and that women are equally guilty. Likewise, I have never seen posted here the quoted phrases you have mentioned. Would you carr to cite some examples? It would lend considerable credibility. It looks like a baseless accusation currently. What specific comments here blame women in your opinion? In my own postings, I have prefaced with my experiences, making it an anecdotal claim. Specificity is re…	/r/MensRights	21/02/21 12:27 AM
1	Social Justice class in high school It only takes one teacher, one false accusation, to ruin your reputation and future. Even if you do nothing wrong, or if they victimize and bully you, know that you're on your own in that sort of class. Not worth the failing grade, effort, or potential damage. As someone who was straight up sexually abused by a female teacher, and it was covered up and I received a failing grade for the class, and also prevented from attending college ever, I can tell you that you will be screwed coming and goin…	/r/MensRights	18/02/21 08:41 AM
1	Harrassment being covered up with 'flirting' and people ignoring the differences. And more random waffling Having grown up with a grandma who did it to me for years, the family knew, and didn't care. I had a school teacher as well as a principal (different times in life) sexually abuse me, nobody cared. Was drugged at 19 by an ex schoolmate. Nobody cared. When women rape or sexually abuse, the laws don't recognize, the police don't care, and trying to get mental help when one is borderline homeless poor is not going to happen. My issues were deemed "too deep" for a group therapy, or they would laugh …	/r/MensRights	16/02/21 09:47 PM
2	Fathers do not have rights when their baby is born. That happens, too. I wouldn't trust a hospital to actually follow the parent's wishes when it came to that. I haven't said it, but...good on your for keeping your son whole. Nobody needs to have cut genitals from birth.	/r/MensRights	15/02/21 01:30 AM
2	Fathers do not have rights when their baby is born. It's a money-maker for the hospital. They charge to do it, and then sell the skin. One friend told me his experience, and was totally ignored, despite being married and listed as the default reference. Instead, he was ignored by everyone except the midwife, who had to relay his orders, because his wife wasn't responsive. He said they kept slipping in the paperwork for his wife to sign, and ignored him until the last, when they pushed hard for it, and he threatened to sue them if they asked again…	/r/MensRights	14/02/21 09:56 PM
1	Fathers do not have rights when their baby is born. Even married fathers don't have rights, as a hospital will defer to the mother first and ignore the father, often kicking them out of the delivery room or, at least, shoving them in a corner and ignoring them. If the mother signs consent to mutilate the son's penis, father has zero say. It only requires one parent, and the hospital will choose the mother. Seen it happen way too much. Scream "my body, my choice" yet go cut an infant's genitals. Hypocrisy. The title should really be changed to "Fa…	/r/MensRights	14/02/21 08:05 AM
7	I’m turning 18 soon and I’ve been dreading it for so long. I have to sign up for the draft just because I was born a man. The fact that I’ll be denied financial aid if I don’t do it is insane. No one talks about this issue enough. Has anyone else felt the same way or have any advice? Oh, it's not just financial aid. If you don't sign up, you can be arrested, fined $250,000, and serve five years in prison, plus it ties into the right to vote. Here is some history on the selective service, voting abilities, and the like. https://nymensactionnetwork.org/2018/11/rights-with-responsibilities-voting-and-selective-service/	/r/MensRights	14/02/21 07:55 AM
12	Sexism Factsheet; comprehensive list of discrimination Some more info could be added. Male-only draft registration, which dodging is a criminal offense. Straight up sexism and needs no study. Genital cutting. Women are protected at state levels now, and formerly at federal levels (removed due to equal protection clause of the constitution). Boys are cut without their consent, or a medical need, often at birth, and the issue is covered up or supported. Yes, it is argued that FGM is worse (the worst types are), but multiple types exist, and the most c…	/r/MensRights	03/02/21 05:47 PM
1	Title IX and the Pandemic Oh, I once had a female friend who talked to me about that with her boyfriend. She said yes, they got further into things, she didn't like it, said nothing, and later said she was raped. I had to press her for details because she knew what she was doing, and tried ruining the guy's life because "he was bad at sex." She is no longer a friend or in my life.	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 08:03 PM
2	Title IX and the Pandemic I grew up with a grandmother raping/abusing me, had it happen from a school teacher (female), and an ex-schoolmate (also female). Believe me, it happens, and is fucking buried under mockery, laughs, and a judicial system that won't recognize women as perpetrators. Let them have it all to themselves, and when it crumbles, they'll have nobody else to blame. I realize my statement was rather sardonic and slightly tongue-in-cheek, but really, let women have at each other and see what chaos ensues. T…	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 06:44 PM
2	Title IX and the Pandemic Just make an all woman's college, call it "fully diverse," and bar all males from campus. When the rapes continue and escalate, then they can fully conclude that it's the women doing the raping.(In my experience) that's exactly who's doing it, and more especially, getting away with it because the law does not recognize male victims as possible (unless penetrated).	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 06:04 PM
4	Indian woman charged with sexually exploiting her teenage son Can confirm this happens in the USA, too. Little boys are called "lucky" and left alone in their trauma, because society doesn't care about them.	/r/MensRights	06/01/21 08:37 PM
3	Indian woman charged with sexually exploiting her teenage son There's a chance that you would be the one charged if defending yourself, and if she became pregnant, you have no rights to child, but would very likely be on the hook for child-care, too. Been drugged and raped (sleep erection she used) before when I was younger. The law doesn't recognize it, and the police don't care at all. I was not the only victim of the one who did it to me, but she got away with everything, while I was berated and called a POS for "lying," when trying to get STD tested...…	/r/MensRights	06/01/21 08:36 PM
4	Male Circumcision, a parent's perspective. The medical professionals did not volunteer information to the parents who didn't ask, while the child suffers. Massive failure all around, and as bad as that parent feels, they'll NEVER feel as bad as their child will. It's great for regret parents to come forward and, hopefully, deter new parents from cutting their children, but it won't fix the damage they caused.	/r/MensRights	06/01/21 08:31 PM
2	The original post speaks for itself Statistics love to argue that, but in my experience, I agree with your statement. Too few men come forward, and those who do are marginalized and ignored, if not outright mocked and threatened.	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 09:46 PM
5	OK cupid data: men 5900% more likely to be expected to pay the bill on first data I would think this poll indicates the social indoctrination that is still considered normal. I don't believe men are necessarily eager to pay the bill, but may believe it's status quo.	/r/MensRights	09/10/19 06:41 PM
2	The original post speaks for itself This reminded me of a memory: Years ago, I knew this boy, new to the area and our school. We were probably 10 or 11. The girls of that school would go around punching and kicking the boys (full on swings like this) because "boys can't hit girls." One girl enjoyed kicking him in the balls every day for a couple weeks. He tried going to the teachers (a few of us did), and it was dismissed as "girls being playful and flirting." This boy said it wasn't right, and stood up for it. I was right beside …	/r/MensRights	09/10/19 04:19 PM
9	Straight women should be jailed at 18 and take an exam of being a decent human being to get out. -That wouldn't sound right for 40k people now, would it? Telling it in this mirror-reversal fashion won't win any favors, either. Taking this type of content on with a "fight fire with fire" attitude only results in more fighting and less winning or understand (and coming away respectfully). With that in mind, let's take a mental stroll along the winding road that I like to call "what was written": They have an issue with straight men. I have no context as to why, and it's not explained in this tweet, so it can easily be called generalize hate speak. …	/r/MensRights	09/10/19 03:39 PM
2	Forced Penetration - The law says that women raping men isn't a thing. Is that right? It may have been a real article, but I'm unsure. As an aside, there are cases of men being forced to pay child support for children not even theirs, so the American system is, to put mildly, fucked. The one below is apparently real. Statutory female on male rape case, and the boy had to pay child support when he was of age, including back pay: https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/	/r/MensRights	09/10/19 06:33 AM
1	Forced Penetration - The law says that women raping men isn't a thing. Is that right? Or if she raped the male, and there was ejaculation, so she became pregnant. What if they kept the child? Now the man is potentially on the hook for child support, and in America, can go to jail for not paying it, so the rape victim winds up going to jail, and losing their life and future if this happens. Does it? It certainly can.	/r/MensRights	09/10/19 06:24 AM
1	Men and women are equal. Also, men are uniquely bad when it suits them. Equality of outcome because gender is a social construct. Kill all men because they are simply bad people. The first describes attraction, which is almost always selfish. Imagine having a child, and them doing something pretty horrible, and it requiring a punishment, but you are loathe to do it because of loving them, regardless of what was done, while arguing that they need to grow as individuals, which punishment is supposed to cause. That's a form of unconditional love. However, I don't see that often between parents and children; they prefer to treat their children as property or free labor, whic…	/r/MensRights	07/10/19 08:23 PM
2	Boys lined up for their penile mutilation In America, the vast majority of routine infant circumcision is for non-religious reasons. I've encountered plenty of parents who claim the child is theirs for the making of decisions. Then come arguments of cleanliness, disease, preventing masturbation, insanity, or other issues are either completely debunked, or mostly, and RIC is not suggested by any health organization that I'm aware. I cringe when I hear mothers claim it's their right to cut their sons, or the whole "look like daddy" argume…	/r/MensRights	07/10/19 08:05 PM
1	Men and women are equal. Also, men are uniquely bad when it suits them. Equality of outcome because gender is a social construct. Kill all men because they are simply bad people. There is selflessness and unconditional love, at least in my experiences. It is very rare, and often goes unnoticed. In general, yes, I would have to agree that most people are selfish and lack unconditional love. What experiences have you had in order to arrive at this conclusion?	/r/MensRights	07/10/19 12:31 AM
1	Men and women are equal. Also, men are uniquely bad when it suits them. Equality of outcome because gender is a social construct. Kill all men because they are simply bad people. I say you're trolling because you are trying to invert what I said, in an attempt to ask me about my own sexism, instead of asking the simpler question of "what could have caused you to have such a view." Getting to the heart of the matter often provides far more insight than trying to place a proverbial mirror in front of someone. I justify my generalization because, out of the thousands of women I have interacted with in my life, I can count four who actually showed selflessness and unconditio…	/r/MensRights	07/10/19 12:01 AM
1	Men and women are equal. Also, men are uniquely bad when it suits them. Equality of outcome because gender is a social construct. Kill all men because they are simply bad people. Oh, I don't try to defend my sexism. It's going to exist, but I speak my mind and mind experiences, which have been contrived as sexism and summarily ignored as statistical outliers, so ultimately what I say doesn't matter, and is anecdotal. Besides trying to mirror what I said back to me, do you have any experiences to share, or is your post simply an attempt at trolling?	/r/MensRights	06/10/19 10:49 PM
1	Men and women are equal. Also, men are uniquely bad when it suits them. Equality of outcome because gender is a social construct. Kill all men because they are simply bad people. I had similar issues years ago, was called a deadbeat and the fiance' left me after finally getting her (first) job ever, while attending college. I had previously paid everything myself (like an idiot). Women are only after one thing: resources. They do not have love in their hearts, or anywhere else in their bodies, for me. They lie, cheat, steal, and manipulate to socially degrade a man, with an intent to destroy, then moving to their next target.	/r/MensRights	05/10/19 03:50 AM
4	'I want patriarchy to fear women': Mona Eltahawy says the time for being civil, peaceful and polite is over \| CBC Radio I find the interview amazing in that she justifies genocide because "three women are killed every day because they are women." She stated prior that the women are killed by former lovers. I would think logic dictates that is not necessarily gender-biased. She also noted assaulting a man for touching her. Funny. If a woman decides to grab my dick, I'm supposed to like it, and applaud her for "choosing" me, due to the stereotype that men only want sex. She justifies male death because men have die…	/r/MensRights	05/10/19 03:04 AM
1	Boys lined up for their penile mutilation Some tests claim no loss of sensation while others do. The prepuce itself is full of "Meisner Corpuscles" which are fine-touch sensors, similar to those in the fingertips if I'm not mistaken. I've read numbers ranging from 16,000 up to 100,000 (varying sources), but with an average of 20,000 nerve endings. This is what's removed in circumcision. But, it's not about the boy, or the man he'll become. It's all about society or women. The male is disposable and doesn't have rights to body autonomy. …	/r/MensRights	05/10/19 02:17 AM