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kittenegg25/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 03:38 PM
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Sadly, nobody cares- unless you are not straight :(
/r/MensRights02/06/23 08:23 PM
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Really?! That's absurd! My husband is super manly and he was just talking about this last night. He says it is one of the most manly things you can do. He is right. These other boys are wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 08:21 PM
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Not acceptable. He must end the friendship. Edit: Adding... Am I just being jealous Yes, you are being jealous. Why is that wrong? Envy is wrong, jealousy is different. You have every right to be possessive of YOUR man. God himself is jealous. "For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God" - Exodus 20:5. There is nothing wrong with being protective and possessive of what belongs to you. This includes your man.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 02:56 PM
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Not at all, good for you. I would just be really honest that being religious is new to you and that you’ve left behind you a not-very-virtuous life. Honesty is key. He should know the truth about your past. You can also let him know you have repented (if you have genuinely).
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 02:02 PM
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LEAVE! Just leave. I was also born and raised in NY (on Long Island). I moved to NC where I met my very conservative, traditional husband- he is the best husband in the world :) We've since moved to SC. The men are so much different. I am so glad I moved and found my incredible husband <3
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/23 06:07 PM
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No. I think you should end things now. You cannot (and should not) avoid these topics/conversations. They are very important. Unless he does a 180, this is not a good man for you. God bless you <3
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 05:17 PM
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Totally true! Gender roles are proper, "equality" is not. I agree it is so unfair that women want equality only when it is convenient, but he solution is not actual equality, it is going back to gender roles. I realize this is a huge benefit for women- I am thrilled to be the home-maker/baby factory lol, and I do feel bad my husband's role is less fun. We could have it so good as women, and just be grateful that we have the huge blessing of having the gender role that we do as women.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 07:51 PM
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Yes! This!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/23 06:29 PM
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Wow it’s that simple. Thanks!!!
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:48 PM
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I'm 36 weeks pregnant. My husband is circumcised, but we are NOT circumcising our son. We are very unfamiliar with this retraction business lol. Can an uncircumcised man give us any guidance? He won't be able to retract until he's older- so should be husband teach him? Should he be told that that will happen eventually but not to force it but just...try every once in a while? Or will he just know? Does it happen slowly over time? If so, how long?
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:24 PM
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As a woman who used to be a normal attractive girl who looked "hot" but is now very traditional and modest- I can tell you the hate from feminists is WAY worse for the latter. Feminists pretend to support other women flaunting and being sluts, but secretly hate them. This ends up in a somewhat tolerable fake, condescending sort of attitude. However, if you are anything like a trad wife and people notice it (or God forbid you discuss your traditional opinions), everyone hates you. Honestly, liber…
/r/MensRights25/04/23 08:06 PM
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It's not her husband, it's her boyfriend. The action would be to break up with him and consider this moving forward when finding a new partner.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 08:53 PM
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You're welcome :). Don't let society convince you that that is something you should just accept. I struggled with this for year. I tried everything to not care, or to at least cope. The only right way to deal with it is by being in a fully committed relationship where all of your sexual energy is given to each other. Sexual energy includes looking at other women.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 08:13 PM
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Unpopular opinion: Spouses should only be looking at each other with a lustful eye. Just because it's normal, doesn't mean it's right. My husband believes this whole-heartedly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:59 PM
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Break up with him NOW. Be honest about why.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 08:45 PM
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Yes. There shouldn't be a secret drawer. I wouldn't "snoop" because I know my husband has nothing to hide. I go through his things for whatever reason (looking for something, organizing, etc.). I mean, would you care if he went through your drawer? I wouldn't. The problem is that you felt the need to snoop- that is a problem. It is a shared problem. It should be discussed, but obviously the fact that you actually DID find something impacts that discussion dramatically. Whether you should/shouldn…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 04:55 PM
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Gross. Definitely approach him. I can't imagine a situation in which this is not a deal breaker. I suppose if he says he forgot he had it and throws it away immediately and is very sorry, he can be forgiven. Don't let anyone tell you you should accept something like this. He is your man. he shouldn't be having sexual or romantic feelings for anyone else. Requiring this is not insecure, it's normal. Society is abnormal for saying otherwise- don't listen. I also struggled with being a jealous girl…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 04:19 PM
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I'm an engineer and my husband never thought of my career in the way you described. instead, he saw it as I must be smart AND that while I am nurturing (which he knew not from my job, but from communicating with me), I am far too introverted to enjoy a nurturing job. Furthermore, he knew I am interested in nurturing only the people close to me- hence my interest in starting a family- but don't really care to nurture outsiders lol. Point is, I think what you communicate will speak louder than wha…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 05:34 PM
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It is my belief that lusting for another woman is cheating. If you believe so too, don't let anyone tell you you should tolerate this.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 08:37 PM
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As a pregnant woman with a husband who is obsessed with my belly, I disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 04:50 PM
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Yup! When it’s a man being sexually immoral, it’s misogynistic and sexist. When it’s a woman, she’s sexually liberated and confident.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 06:15 PM
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Idk I love being objectified by my husband LOL. In all seriousness, I think the issue is that feminists (and now basically all of society) has redefined the word "objectify" to include anything they find offensive at the moment. As a Christian, I believe showing off one's body or lusting for another is wrong, but it is not about sexism- it is about morality, modesty, and commitment. Both genders drop the ball on those pretty bad, but I would say women do much worse. It's ironic that they are the…
/r/MensRights21/03/23 01:17 PM
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No kidding! Well, I believe God is just giving you the right morals but you're mistaking it for your own voice lol. I'm glad you have those proper virtues- very good for you!
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:42 PM
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I hear you :/ First of all, as an attractive woman myself, I can guarantee this whole outing is just asking to get attention from men. I think many married women do this sort of thing to boost their self-esteem by getting attention from men. It is really not fair to put your own desire to feel "hot" above your marriage. I consider this unfaithful. A married woman should be esteemed by her husband. Any esteem (of this sort) she does not receive from her husband, she should not receive at all. Tha…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:29 PM
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You are not wrong to set these boundaries at all. Although, I think this entire situation is inappropriate (sure I'm a bit of prude of a married woman myself lol), so I may not be the right type of person to give you the answer that aligns with your views.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 07:52 PM
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First of all, not sure where you are getting that the economy was worse in the 50s. Didn’t want to get intro hat argument, but that’s just false. Nonetheless, I said it is much harder to families to survive on a single income since then, which is absolutely true. The issues you bring up with the 50s lifestyle are certainly true and awful (which I did mention in my original comment, but again, this is NOT because men were working while women stayed at home. Men generally did not get depressed ove…
/r/MensRights06/03/23 04:47 PM
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What is the relevance? And how was the 50s system misandrist in your opinion?
/r/MensRights06/03/23 02:36 PM
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I didn’t say all are. But many are forced to if they cannot afford to lose their job and cannot work from home.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 02:34 PM
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I am a married, pregnant woman and an engineer. The industrial revolution pushed men into working away from home. However, us women were still able to stay home and be mothers. The 50's housewife thing was silly and women got depressed because of their lifestyle, not because they were staying at home. next, feminism pushed us women into the workforce. The result is that we all work half as hard, for longer hours in a saturated job market, making less money (relative to the cost of living). In th…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 09:51 PM
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I'm a conservative woman. You won't find too many female left wing men's rights supporters because the left is pretty anti-man. I hope you come to find your party's agenda more clearly in the near future. It is so important that men stand up for themselves, including in the way that they vote. Don't let them trick you into believing they are the good guys because they claim to be supportive of the things that seem empathetic.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 09:34 PM
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Sun dresses! My husband loves me in a sundress. In the winter I wear a winter dress (often with tights or thigh-highs) for an outing and just things like sweaters and well-fitted shirts for casual wear.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 09:56 PM
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Yes! This was so me at 23! So sorry to hear you are going through this, it is really hard. You should use this as a growth experience- I hope it encourages you to date maturely and responsibly. I don't just mean being virtuous, but be very upfront about who you are and what you are looking for. Many guys will likely run (or slowly walk away because they like you but are afraid of commitment). But keep at it! Don't be ashamed of this way that you are feeling. You are already more mature and smart…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 03:18 PM
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My only friends are from church (aside from my husband and unborn baby lol. I love my church friends. I've never had a better friend situation.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 05:35 PM
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Please give Jesus a shot. Let God fill you with joy so you realize what you look like does not matter. Then have beautiful children and teach them the same <3
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/23 07:57 PM
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I don't think the answer is to stoop to the level of a modern woman. You might find a wonderful, loyal woman and ruin it because you let society poison you with this idea that it's morally fine to date one person at a time. This really should be assumed without discussion, but we know that that sadly isn't reality. I think people should get that straight right from the beginning. If a woman does not whole-heartedly agree, you should end it right there. I get that you don't want to be the one com…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 03:58 PM
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I quit when I met my husband because I felt like he secretly didn't approve (not that he indicated it at all). Later I invited him to do it with me (edibles). We ended up loving doing it together, especially talking about God. We are also very conservative Southern Baptists. I quit before I got pregnant, but he will do one once in a blue moon when we're just hanging out together. I think I can relate to you because we also were never addicted and can just stop at any time because it's not a big …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 05:49 PM
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NO!!! No offense, but that is so absurd! I recommend a good Christian man who will value who you are, and only value what you look like because you're YOU. I swear I know my husband's mind on this and I am sure he loves my face because I'm me, not because I am pretty. I never would have thought I would believe something like this, but I swear, if you find the right love, you will have this! He also won't want to look at other women, all he will want to see is you. I pray you find this. Being ugl…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 02:09 PM
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That is absolutely disgusting. You should sue them, these companies ought to be sued for sexual harassment directed at men for a change.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 07:44 PM
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I actually like the idea of just being available to him whenever he wants. This makes me more into it :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/23 08:21 PM
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I'm an engineer and my husband is a lawyer. If I had not gotten an engineering degree, we'd probably have less money starting off, but we are planning on moving toward a more traditional dynamic, making my degree useless lol. Without my job, I can focus on continuously carrying, birthing, and raising our children while maintaining our household and cooking every day. I think the issue is not that women want to marry up, it's that they want to marry up so their husband can be the breadwinner whil…
/r/MensRights23/01/23 09:21 PM
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The issue with 1950s wives (and likely why they ended up on horrible over-prescribed medications) is that they did not have enough to do at home and were honestly not very productive (in most regions). Now it would be an even lesser load with advancements in technology making it easier to cook and clean. What we should go for is a Mom who stays home, rears the children, homeschools the children, and contribute to the homestead.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 07:42 PM
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Terrible. Meanwhile, it's always the female teachers sexually grooming male students.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 06:12 PM
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Just emphasize how much of an ugly, stupid, loser the guy is. I think men secretly just want to be reassured this way when they're jealous. Just insult the guy as bad as you can. I mean the guy you slept with, obviously lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 08:06 PM
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Wife-of-a-lawyer here! I think it really depends on he path he choses. My husband chose real estate law (and not his own firm) to avoid making his career the center of his life and having plenty of time for family. He works 40 hours a week. His job is pretty flexible. He works from home two days a week. He changes his schedule around when we have something going on, as do most of the lawyers in his office. Based on the experience his colleagues have had, owning a firm seems to be nice and flexib…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 09:43 PM
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I've always been asked by the guy and then he pays because he is asking me out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 04:39 PM
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I basically don't mother my husband at all. I think the only thing I do is kiss him when he gets hurt, but I think we see this as me being sweet, not being all concerned about his poor boo-boo lol. I try to make him feel like he doesn't need me to take care of him and that he is the one we depend on to keep us safe. I do household things to make his life easier, but nothing that makes him feel like he needs me to take care of him. Definitely no nagging. Let him make his own mistakes (not showeri…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/22 04:33 PM
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Our main fight against this is practicing and teaching Christian values :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 09:24 PM
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I am crazy, I would be authentic lol but I so understand not wanting to. Have you considered just not having a personal relationship with any of these people, or do you feel that that is important to your work (will actually make you more money)? Edit: Punctuation.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 08:20 PM
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I don't know, but honestly, I understand both types of people. I am married to a wonderful man, I'm quite attractive and very fit, I'm smart with a good job as an engineer. Still, I would totally agree that too many men are concerned too much with looks and just want to date a "young, dumb, hot chick", and I have nothing to be bitter about really, I just see this as an unfortunate truth. On the other hand, I think probably a larger percentage of women are guilty of just wanting to use men for re…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/22 08:56 PM
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Yesss! Being annoying s a wife is like the ONLY thing I have ever had in common with my mom lol. It is painful to see myself being annoying like her. I don't know why it is so hard for me to not be annoying.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/22 06:32 PM
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Leave the past behind. Move on, stop being promiscuous, Jesus will forgive you, and a good man likely will too.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 02:57 PM
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My husband and I met last year when we were 26, but I am 9 months older than him lol. I felt the same way you did back then! Just stay strong and make good choices. Show men of interest who you are, and they will see the beauty in you mostly for who you are, but also the way you look.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/22 03:14 PM
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This is true, but I definitely think this is a matter of correlation, as opposed to causation. My husband and I DID live together before we got married, and I can tell you now, we will never get divorced. I think the reason for this is that the statistic is swayed by couples who have very high moral standard, such as Christians. This is especially true for those remaining abstinent until marriage. Those couples likely make up a large portion of couples who do not live together before marriage, a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 01:09 PM
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If you know where it is, show up. If not, find out where it is and show up. If it just friends, say you were in the area and happened to spot them and thought you'd stop in and say hello. If it is her, well, God help him. I'm so sorry, but I am pretty sure it will be. Praying for you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 03:21 PM
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I would be honest and tell him you'd only be willing to take that risk and make that sacrifice if he were to marry you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 08:23 PM
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Yea but I have heard/read the words "roast beef lips" like maybe 3-4 times in my entire life (I'm 27) I totally agree nobody should be making fun of that, and that that sort of insult IS about how God made us and not a sl*t joke, but I still say that is pretty rare. I feel like jokes about vaginas are usually just slut jokes, but not an actual attack on the vagina. For example "I bet that sl*t has a loose p*ssy", where the insult is clearly to call her a sl*t, not to actually make fun of her bod…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/22 08:24 PM
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Ohhhhhhhh man that is HARSH!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/22 08:18 PM
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Yesssss love this example! Great point. I feel bad for her too, but why would she raise her hand when he's asking about large sized vaginas? LOL. If this happened today, the comedian would get canceled. On the other hand, a comedian can make small penis jokes left and right and nobody would care!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/22 08:02 PM
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Yes, but how often do you hear that? And how often do you hear it meant to insult someone for the way God made them instead of being promiscuous or gross? Sometimes, but way less often than small penis comments. Absolutely agree. Leave the genitals alone lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/22 07:34 PM
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THISSSS!!!! Same with penis size. My husband is...blessed. But I swear if I had a husband or son who had a small penis I would literally cry all the time seeing how small penises are always made fun of and ridiculed and literally nobody cares. If people were making fun of different vaginas all the time, there would be a huge movement to shut it down.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/22 07:27 PM
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I think you misunderstood. I know these things are good. The point is that I am questioning the internet as a source of information because of how often I see terrible advice on the internet (i.e. anti-breastfeeding).
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/22 04:58 PM
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I'm so sorry. I pray for your little Pea AND for your next baby. I think you should do your best to keep going through the pain. I know, it must be very hard, and I cannot even imagine, but the sooner you get back up and keep trying, the sooner you will have your next baby to fill your heart back up, and the sooner little Pea will be able to look down and smile at his/her little brother/sister <3 God bless you and little Pea.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 02:31 PM
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Thank you! Yes I am on that one. So basically, I have noticed weird pregnancy "facts" that have made me suspicious. It seems that a lot of what I find on google is more concerned with the mother than the baby. Here are some examples: - anti- breastfeeding advice (i.e. I keep stumbling upon so many articles discussing the dangers of breastfeeding when I am looking for info on breastfeeding. - my sister is 9 days ahead of me and her doctor told her to wean herself off of her antidepressants over t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 01:11 PM
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Thank you! I pray for good health and happiness for your growing family :) Good idea!
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 01:53 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am praying I got pregnant on my honeymoon last week!!! Have you been dirct with her at any point (i.e. "(her name), that is really inappropriate, that is too personal of a question"?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 07:20 PM
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