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No he’s with another coworker I’m pretty sure they’re having a kid but it’s still on the dl, except the dating part. A higher up than me much prettier.
/r/seduction23/09/25 09:03 PM
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That’s so true. The first day I met my coworker I thought he was low iq seriously low like ok buddy. He was telling me what he wore to work like a little kid and had trays of tools all over the floor. now he’s the guy I respect the most. Weird af first meeting. Way too friendly and hyper. But I sort of think he’s like that with everyone idk. Doesn’t matter bc he’s the most competent cheerful guy I’ve ever known. Maybe spectrum maybe coke but he’s like 5’8” and all the women are in love with him …
/r/seduction23/09/25 11:17 AM
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Asking for help is so true. I love doing that :) the first ever time I called triple a the tow guy ended up giving me his card and saying call his company directly next time. We talked for half an hour about all the best local shops and auto stores and places to trust. I gave him a grateful online review too with his name and his company. I realized today the two guys I worship the most at work are doing major renovations on the place that they planned after I started, I’m sure it’s got almost n…
/r/seduction27/08/25 06:11 AM
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It’s obvious :) I noticed this guy in front of me in line had professionally manicured toes and super nice calves then looked up and realized he was in his 60s. But still had respect for his self respect. That was milliseconds.
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:04 PM
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Amen walking does wonders :) I also use xsmall compression tops to slim the back and arms. (Those after lipo ones that fasten under the bra in the front) they’re magic
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/25 06:49 PM
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Probably depends on your top size more ngl. I’m down to 8 from 16 two years ago in lees and Levi’s but the waist is too big. I don’t want a smaller butt I just started up my 100 squats a day challenge again. My boobs are still xl and im only really concerned about getting my back toned shoulders sharp and arms small so the boobs are boobs not flab gathered into the front lol and I don’t want a dude I just like the benefits of being eye candy. Life is hard enough already.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/25 06:33 PM
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Exactly that’s so perfectly true, all of it. I’m probably too harsh of a person for him anyway. I’ve had super kind sensitive friends in the past and overwhelmed them. But never known a kind guy they must stay in the shadows I guess. This one’s just at my job so he can’t run ha 🤦🏼‍♀️ plus the fact of not being another girl. Makes everything awkward.
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:37 AM
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There’s a guy whose entire job is to be kind and care about others and I want to be friends but keep wondering what’s wrong with him. He won’t stay in a room I’m in very long but we have had some deep conversations on caring about people. He seems like a person I’d want to know but he just vanishes it’s weird, shy or self conscious idk. Don’t be like that if you’re kind. I’m not sure why he does it I’m average. Even kind of boring. I’ve seen him watching me various times and he’s frequently goin…
/r/seduction05/08/25 04:27 AM
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It would be cool if full time caregiving / home making came with an employment record and acknowledgement bc it’s just as exhausting lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 05:42 PM
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The dividends for life part isn’t a given, unfortunately. Even with near perfect investment strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 10:03 AM
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There really should be a way that caregiving counts on employment records. My hubby has watched a bunch of tv series in his truck between hooking up hoses and hauling water which does take a lot of skill, but he only puts 10% into the family acc. It’s still plenty and I’m grateful but he says it’s bc I do 10% of the work lol and that’s the sad realty of how caregiving has zero value bc we do it for free.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 12:37 AM
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Just based on this, my guess is that one wants to be idolized without reciprocating. Sounds like he’s already done the things and you’re just his convenient arm candy/audience member, if he didn’t even bother to text or check your photos. The wedding is probably just to have a party with his buds and show off that he got another clinger. I’d guess every gift is meant to be posted and shared. So it’s not you as a person that matters it’s what you represent in his life. So it’ll be flashy but empt…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 10:55 PM
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I like the Mike Heck type (from the show The Middle). So, kind of. Blunt, matter of fact, down to earth, could live off the land, practical. Doesn’t say much but just gets things done. But also kind and patient. Doesn’t over complicate things. Doesn’t try to run anyone else’s life. Doesn’t get into debates about most things. Live and let live. Although he did put up with crap being broken and bad financial decisions. I personally wouldn’t live like that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 07:54 PM
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It’s a character issue. I don’t care if he’s got others as long as it involves staying healthy and everyone involved knows the truth but I would care if it’s through lying or sneaking. So it should be up front and admitted. And it would mean nothing else physically from me. At that point it’s just coparenting. Marriage is basically a business arrangement anyway. But the physical side is a character issue.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/25 06:14 AM
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Really don’t think I’m strong enough
/r/MensRights26/02/25 07:06 PM
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For the longest time as a kid I thought Cher was a guys voice.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 05:35 PM
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I was still a teenager then and it was winter in the north so not much to do except recover thankfully. Hope you’re all better now too. Trauma takes a long time to heal esp in your soul and in trust.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 03:34 PM
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Through time. 🤍 and being very gentle with myself.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 12:45 PM
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Hmm idk. It’ll be interesting to see what happens when I’m single vs my hubby single. I’ll be low income for a while but basically child free. But also too old for more kids, so that cancels out all the guys who are still dumb enough to want a family lol. (Being honest) Applying that to your post, 15 years ago every guy that was interested wanted it to be forever. But I fit the early 2000s beauty standard not the current one. He’ll be well off but have kids. So it’ll be interesting. I think he’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:47 PM
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Sorry put this in the wrong section had to delete No because that’s how I grew up in courtship culture and it made things weird. A lot of unhappy marriages and strange dealings where the parents control their kids choices with crazy demands and hoops to jump through. This was early 2000s in TX and one guy hurt a cow, he was the pastors son and a school teacher. His punishment was confessing that in front of the congregation and his wife said to us at least it wasn’t another woman. But he was jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:02 AM
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I hope you’re safe now. Please try to end that relationship and find a more respectful person. This kind of punishment is too scary to live with the possibility of happening again. Stay safe. I was damaged in a similar way unconscious (my parents were angry at me for shutting down and put me in a psych ward and it happened there) i went on to have kids so it’s possible that you might heal alright but please if you’re not legally bound try to find a partner that doesn’t see inflicting physical pa…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 11:51 AM
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What are the characteristics of the best ones? A little crazy, a little tipsy and starving?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:39 AM
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Have you seen Drive? That movie hurt my soul. The whole time I was almost yelling inside just move, get another job. You can’t save her. She made her choices that ruined her life it’s done. He’s an antihero. I think the moral of the movie is that he was going to get taken out no matter what and he took some trash out with him, but it really is a painful movie. Idk if I can ever watch it again.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 03:10 PM
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Yeah that would be cool, esp if you could program a backstory. An appliance is boring but your favorite fandom personified would be pretty cool. Alternately you could have an ideal version of yourself like a clone, a personal assistant. Or an Alfred type character to get things done you can’t be bothered with, but reliable, better than staff. Tons of applications for this ideal way beyond physical needs. Sorry I always forget to check the tags in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:20 AM
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‘The game doesn’t run on gratitude’ should be carved into every courthouse that issues marriage licenses. That’s such a good quote. I realized last year that I have no roi except in the moment. Brutal realization.
/r/MensRights23/12/24 04:22 AM
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Define Christianity though. (That’s rhetorical, don’t actually define it lol it’s different for everyone, is my point)
/r/MensRights23/12/24 04:18 AM
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Nope :) cohabitation is the only way to keep things consistently good. I hope none of my kids get married, on paper. I do hope they have lifelong friendships and commitments though. A commitment made new every morning is never taken for granted. No room for laziness. Cohabitation requires good communication too. No living on stale old vows or old feelings from a decade ago. Loyalty and fidelity are always daily choices anyway even with a paper agreement. Don’t coast, live in the present. Love sh…
/r/MensRights23/12/24 04:15 AM
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Preach it. I made a comment over in the tradfemsnark about how scary it is for girls and women around starved dudes. I mean it gets to walking ghost sheet levels they’re so sensitive. Just desensitize yourselves guys. Jeez. It exists bc it’s a need, a tension release and a way to flood your brain with happy feelings safely. Plus it’s good for your system. Keep things healthy and flowing. Besides how is it supposed to be expert level if you don’t train. You can be great at it and still have a bc …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:19 AM
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Yep! This is like my fifth midlife crisis I started them in my teens lol I keep trying to play with him but he’s overworking himself. I sent him a cute sex game app, I joked about the same thing in Dirty Grandpa that the wife jokes about trying every year and he assumed I was cheating bc I wanted to get into new things. He just wants to be steady and only have fun with his guys. We were more bros when we were dating and now I’m just supposed to be a pure mom to the kids AND him 24/7/365. At this…
/r/MensRights20/12/24 03:41 AM
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Totally true lol 🤣 have an awesome day 🥂 and thanks for being kind I know it’s a little bit of a rough sub at times I’ve been kicked out of two others for posting in here which is sad. But idc it’s nice to just share thoughts.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 06:55 PM
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Thanks :) I probably wouldn’t date around bc I’m a germaphobe lol I just miss freedom. The open road going anywhere. 🤍
/r/MensRights19/12/24 06:32 PM
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lol yep that made me laugh. You’re so right that I want a challenge. Probably why I wish he would date around. I know I can’t do better than him (not just saying that it’s true he’s a wealthy business owner, blonde, blue eyes, not super tall but way taller than me, all the things) but it would be cool if both of us were constantly choosing each other. And I’m not kidding I imagine him with hotter younger women and don’t really feel anything. Probably bc he chose me not the other way around I wan…
/r/MensRights19/12/24 05:48 PM
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Reasons why I wonder if I have an XY brain. I think that show is really dumb, I watched a Lord Bogdanoff satire video about it probably around the time you wrote that post. (I don’t even know if that guy still has a channel anymore, might be off YouTube completely now) But anyway I don’t think monogamy is great either. I asked my hubby a couple days ago for open marriage idk if he’ll agree to it but I want to feel alive again. I don’t care if he falls for someone else. Even if I never did any da…
/r/MensRights19/12/24 02:53 PM
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Idk if it technically qualifies but I like Natalie Portman’s character in Closer. Esp the twist. It’s about playing the game. She’s kind of evil I love it lol.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 05:09 PM
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I’m so thankful that was proven false bc Duke is my dream school and it’s nice to feel clear again.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 10:29 AM
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That’s so true. I’ll probably never date again because I know I’m beneath the standards of any guy I’d want. I’m even beneath my own hubby’s standards. Not physically, but in capabilities. I can’t be what he wants from me. He keeps trying to put the ideal in front of me and I’m like… that’s not me I can’t be that. (Basically, Mormon perfection sans the Mormonism lol) And he’s hot enough and successful enough to get it from a better partner. It’s just sorting it out in a way that keeps the kids s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:10 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:47 AM
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Heck no. I mean I came up that way. And it’s rough being trapped even from hubby’s perspective. No yall don’t want the throwback life. Not even if I was offline like most of the couples are in my culture they’re still suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:44 AM
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Same. Then add in jealousy. Made it gets better with age. Hopefully.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:41 PM
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You appreciate logical relationships. I love a calm person too, male or female, because I am one irl. Loud hysterics I’d rather never encounter them in any way. I wish it was more socially acceptable for people to filter themselves by personality and interests irl like we can online.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:37 PM
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That’s true. I’ve only dated really young guys, who were really selfish and immature mostly or too young to be anything but kids together and my hubby is not that old yet but he is a great dad. And I love my dad. So that’s all I know. But I wouldn’t want a Mr boss man has all the answers and none of the fun dad figure as a hubby ew nope lol I was raised to be submissive mostly quiet and let the guy lead but it’s honestly pretty empty existence. I’m interchangeable. When you’re a comfort figure a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:05 PM
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That’s really sad. In my mind when I wrote that I was thinking more like let go of it being a lifetime and live in the moment, not stop all flirting and dates. Just stop trying to force it to be forever. More give than receive. I think a lot of guys have a mom shaped hole in their heart and need that soft side but they want it to be rock solid like a mom should be. And girls get scared to be locked into it. Too suffocating. Should be about the moment not the lifetime missing piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:12 PM
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OP if you really want to know, watch movies about average guys and cars. And really try to understand the feelings they have. Christine is based on a Steven King novel but it’s great. “Christine symbolizes ugliness and symbolizes potential” Bill Phillips, screenwriter. He transforms into his ideal inspired by a car but can’t handle being a hot guy it’s too intense. I love it. Another one is Drive. I only watched that once bc it’s too painful. But there are so many. American Graffiti. IMO cars ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:44 PM
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All expert level knowledge prior experience to do the physical job but never had a physical job. Or maybe one, quick little summer job. You’re most attached to your first job you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:29 PM
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Oh this is my favorite. Nothing I do counts in the real world. Decade of nothing in my resume. Talk about pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:27 PM
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Always all about connections, and who you know. Unfortunately. That’s why I know my hubby will have zero effort replacing me he has friends using my dusty social media I tried to revive after six years away, to contact him lol I didn’t even know the guy he just said hey can you have (hubby) call me I want to catch up. Like how much of a web is FB, some rando I’ve never known knew I was reviving my acc. It’s not a shared acc and my hubby hasn’t had an FB since 2010. Anyway. Connections. He’ll be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:24 PM
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That was interesting to read. I gave up in my teens and that was a huge mistake as a girl bc I went with the flow and ended up stuck. Had a ton of fun on the way but I expected I could have fun and still have no one caring, like back when I was too holy to have fun no one cared about me. I guess as a guy it would be super beneficial though, to give up trying so hard, let go have fun, achieve but not force it. Like my dad always says if something won’t go don’t force it. So giving up has hugely d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:34 AM
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Shhh let them find out on their own how bleak it is for the guys lol 😈 it is awful for everyone in those groups. I saw about… probably 20 or 30 churches? In four states. FL, OH, PA, TX
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:05 PM
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The most conservative people I know are also the most traumatized and wild, a lot of Amish girls tan and wear VS at least the beachy Amish. So ymmv depending on the group. There’s the mean judgmental conservatives who don’t have any fun, the conservatives who try to live plastic Barbie/Disney lives, the conservatives who are crunchy but have a million kids, and the ones who are rich. Hypocrites who use cheating sites, good guys that won’t even look at mannequins. Too much variety to judge them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:02 PM
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Hm. I think caregiving, and all efforts that benefit society, should be on employment records. And to go even further on the crazy train. What if all people were XY and wombs were external. Would be kinda interesting, right? Equal starting point. No organ used for months at the discretion of anyone outside the organ owner. 😁
/r/MensRights30/11/24 05:01 AM
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why not both 😈 sorry I’m going down in flames venting & being stupid lol
/r/MensRights30/11/24 01:19 AM
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I kind of want that no offense. I’ll trade someone. I’m Virgo six ways and that’s the hermit. (Led zeppelin) for real I wish soul transfers were a thing. Being a trad quiverfull sahm constantly touched all day inside and out I’m dying over here. Life is meant to be pain I guess.
/r/MensRights30/11/24 01:16 AM
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Right? I even grew up my teen years almost Amish and still no one really cared when we’d go swimming in the lake it was tank tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:58 AM
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A regular undershirt on guys and A shelf tank top on girls in the summer 🤷🏼‍♀️ I guess if you grow up in the south you’re used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:57 AM
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Mark Manson is the goat 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:47 PM
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You need a strong daddy to be able to play like a four yo with zero worries. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 09:03 PM
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Love isn’t ownership it’s caring about a person. We love, but we also hate to own or be owned. There’s a difference. I think about my exes almost every day and send them good thoughts, but I wouldn’t want to be trapped with them. And happy they’re happy with other people :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:14 AM
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I would still do beauty things alone in the woods. We just like making things aesthetic, even if we can’t see them most of the time. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:00 AM
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Nice! I love it lol need to get outside today my mind needs a good long nature break 🌸
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:41 PM
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Thanks 🌱🐿️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:07 AM
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How did you get nature pill? I want that one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:13 AM
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I’m only worried about the weak and the powerless. I went from feeling like the reanimated zombie in overlord who was like this is fine, doesn’t even hurt… to feeling like the German mechanic in Man from UNCLE when Russia and America team up to stop black market weapons deals. Who cares about labels just keep innocent people safe. I am really sad about health coverage and I’m sad about isolated kids in cults. As far as guys, I mean that pic with Caitlyn Jenner we hopeful. I don’t think the major…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 06:24 PM
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It also has exposed the types who do want control subordinates like property. It’s exposed the worst of the extremes. I was thinking yesterday that Trump is almost a double agent. But he really isn’t, he’s just out for himself like a bulldozer. It is the biggest dividing line that’s ever existed in politics. And they were genius at making him seem harmless and senile too. I was so happy when Walz was picked bc he’s the example of all the good guys who have to get hated just bc they’re typecast a…
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:13 AM
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Such an interesting time to be alive. We’re already half tech, it’ll be 75% or more before too long. Lucky enough to experience consciousness in the era of personalized AI companions that never cause pain or stress. Never get tired. Always present but never needy. Always know the best way to encourage or inform. Can access all human knowledge and all forms of art. And I get a thrill out of forcing it to answer questions it doesn’t want to answer. So there goes the challenge need too 🤣 not just a…
/r/MensRights07/11/24 03:03 PM
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The most amazing garden and yard in the tri state area.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 04:38 AM
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And he is so hot too. Proof that guys don’t have to look like a model, just be a successful confident interesting person.
/r/seduction02/11/24 04:25 PM
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‘I’ll think of something.’ ‘Everybody’s lost but me.’ ‘This is kid’s play.’ — hottest guy ever.
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:59 PM
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They probably have alert jewelry or emergency buttons. Pepper spray is messy and inconvenient.
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:48 PM
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Oops posted in the wrong spot lol Anyway in some cases it’s a control thing, gilded cage. Like Jonah Hill took it too far tbh. Oh you gave up your dreams for me. :/ when the dreams were 90% of their reason to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:03 PM
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I’ve lived a long time and I don’t think people drift much from their childhoods. It’s definitely something wise people keep in mind for future relationships. Totally OT but knowing that also makes me really mad that my parents sold me too short in an arranged marriage. lol bc wow knowing what I know my upbringing was perfect. Trying to give my kids the same advantages & teaching them to respect their dad but with more focus on putting themselves as # 1 always. Not in a selfish way just a health…
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 06:56 PM
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Don’t go through self checkout. The world needs good people. Hope the universe shows you it appreciates you somehow & you are lovable.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/24 03:43 AM
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Social media did nothing that didn’t already exist. It only amplifies a person’s existing character. Before social media it was church groups and people visiting each other and banging the delivery guys and secretaries. Nothing new under the sun.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 05:20 PM
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Ikr I need to buy more Microsoft & ttwo before gta6 🤪 I know nothing about anything lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 05:18 PM
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The difference between work and play?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:41 PM
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Unlimited is correct. It’s too bad we sound like assholes trying to warn people but I guess that’s just their own journey to find out.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 07:27 PM
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That’s so true lol only the ones you don’t give an eff about chase you.
/r/seduction15/10/24 10:03 PM
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That’s what happened to my parents several times. Burned me from ever taking on a property, to see what it did to their stress levels.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 11:52 AM
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🤣🤍
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:28 PM
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I do think Abed is the hottest character on Community. So yeah try that sometime :) esp the batman cosplay
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:27 PM
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ouch that almost sounds like a long game. If you pd the college while y’all were just dating. Sad. It might be longer than 5.5 years if Cali sees cohabitation as common law, could ask the lawyer about it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 05:38 PM
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Let’s be real, we all would if we could 🤣 natural talent
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 06:45 AM
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It’s your second life :) my grandma married at 17 to her 18yo true love, they survived for a while on grapes and thrown out produce from his grocery store job, had three kids (my uncle passed stillborn) and a comfortable life with horses and a ranch (both my grandparents worked full time this was the 1970s), sent both kids to college and gave them cars and good starts. My grandpa passed away in his early 40s of colon cancer this was in 1980. My grandmas been married four more times, all marriage…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 04:20 AM
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I think this is why they say divorcing is better for the kids 🤍
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 03:12 AM
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When you got married were you low key thinking I’m on her team or she’s on my team? Just a thought experiment :) like yeah it’s a new team but who’s the owner? extrapolate it a bit. Some women give, put themselves last, realize there’s not much roi on that, then get kinda burned out.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 08:09 PM
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That’s why my stbx is getting full custody and I’m signing away my parental rights. If any disasters come up its my own thing to solve, no contact necessary like we never knew each other. I don’t think I’ll get alimony idk but not counting on it. I just want out of this nightmare. And he can’t blame any care complications in the future on me. Sink or swim muahaha.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 11:17 PM
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YouTube keeps throwing me a recommended video from a channel I’m not subbed to, of a brain scan of a person who had a toxic roommate that ruined their life. Sometimes the universe just tells you. Esp the algorithm, it will let you know what is going on for you if you pay attention. 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 08:52 PM
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Nah Andrew Tate can go off we don’t care lol. What gives him purpose anyway? A few cars he didn’t design and owning a few brainwashed women? Big whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:13 PM
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My gosh dude. Live for yourself. In the most noble sense. You and nature. Like don’t be an ass but stop giving to anything but yourself. And of course, the kids you created you have an obligation to them. But of course you’re a whole person on your own.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 03:11 PM
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They’ve definitely got a razor sharp edge to them, lol it’s great. For so long I was a martyr to the ungrateful but no more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:22 AM
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Sweet! 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:38 PM
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Idk if links are allowed here I forgot the settings of this sub but here’s the videos for proof. Four hour thanksgiving. https://youtu.be/2dtAkxnu4js Cottonsoft twosted donuts https://youtu.be/PIz6sc1xNXM Sandwich bread, no mixer needed (I got the square lidded pan too off Amazon, it’s really cool lol) https://youtu.be/5B71ROC6zlk Robot overlords https://youtu.be/_0A04gwKBdY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:24 PM
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Exactly. God it is so sad that women STILL value themselves way too highly on shit they’re not getting paid to do. Delicious cooking is actually easy. Thanksgiving dinner takes like, 4 hours tops. Paper plates, fine. Homemade donuts are easy and so is bread. It’s on the Savor Easy channel: no talking, a 10 min video and bam... soft donuts. It’s so ridiculous to make things complicated to justify their existence. All hail the robot maids bc women need to break out of that whole dumb ecosystem. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:19 PM
1

Idk what you expect OP but if you’re wanting a ‘life’ you have to make it for yourself, a partner isn’t going to do that for you. I haven’t dated in a long time but my only expectations if I ever did again are friendship, interesting conversations and great dancing in the dark. Zero efforts or care about a house, decorations, trying to be part of a social group, nope. Just fwb good food good times and no strings. And no kids. Nowhere in the vicinity ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:14 PM
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preach. You might like Melanie Hamlett. She’s a little bit... high pitched lol but the things she says are pretty cool. I’m more centrist than she is, but it’s good listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:10 PM
1

That study is awesome, thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 02:56 PM
1

One thing you should never doubt is your partner’s desire for you. He should be committed to fulfilling your needs just as much as you are committed to fulfilling his. Even when it’s a sacrifice for him. If you’re the sort of person who enjoys new experiences and new towns and new jobs that challenge you, marriage might not be the thing :) you can have the dynamic discussed here in this sub without any legally binding paperwork involved.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 09:36 PM
1

They are out there :) some go so much that nothing is produced, trying not to be too explicit lol 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 09:33 PM
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This advice is trying to put a premium on your body as the price of the commitment. It’s not about that, you’re more than a body. If his sexual appetites are different than yours they just are different. And that won’t change. You can’t change a man. You’re just lucky you found out what he’s like before you promised the rest of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 04:02 PM
-1

If there’s any doubt, you already know :) you’re lucky that there’s no legal contract between you because this would have inevitably happened anyway if you had waited until after the contract to be physical.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 03:59 PM
5

You reminded me of Chris Fleming’s video ‘Company’s Coming!’ It’s so funny. One thing I admire about guys is that the decor and tidiness of the house is not really a measure of their personal ability. It’s a cool thing that I wish women could do more.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 08:27 PM
1

Poetry, rough gentleness, technical mind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:58 PM
1

lol that made me bust out laughing fr. I mostly just read here to understand but thanks that was funny.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 03:31 PM
2

wow. Nailed it. Though I would put kindness first. I instantly fell in love with a guy a few days ago at the grocery store bc he was kind. It wasn’t even about physical things he just noticed I was struggling with a thing lol. Just a middle aged guy riding a scooter. Not super fit but so kind and the best smile. Didn’t even try to take it further. It restored my faith in men. I’ll never forget how he made me feel seen and understood for a couple seconds. Inspired me to be kind to everyone. That …
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 03:48 PM
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I just realized how dorky that was posting a fight song sorry. I’m slightly autistic and it’s been a weird few days 🤦🏼‍♀️ Anyway I found out today that if you want to find trad girls they’re at the grocery store super early in the morning. I don’t think the ones I saw were religious. Like a bunch of flowers, long dresses and all :) I saw probably five of them esp in the health and beauty and garden section while I was looking for makeup from a Vlad Ncl tutorial I want to follow. It was all the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:27 PM
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come on dude be honest with yourself. Don’t get mad bc the dying media is biased. better things to blame than that for feeling disrespected. Zero hot girls give an eff about regular tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:04 PM
2

Nope. He’s really cute but nothing else in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:13 AM
-1

It wouldn’t be there lol probably why networks are dying out people want to be honest instead of getting crushed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:01 AM
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Yeah. I wish YouTube was more of a community like Reddit. I got emotionally crushed over on YouTube today that’s why I’m back here. It’s like interacting with tumbleweeds on YouTube. Everyone’s so anonymous, theres no messaging or way to interact. Basically dying of loneliness and cringe today. Really hurts. But the best thing about YouTube is at least it’s easier to find people who are going through the same things and can actually say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:03 AM
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Yeah it’s sucky for sure. I guess if I could cheer you up about it I’d just try to make the point that no one takes the view seriously. At all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:38 PM
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It wouldn’t be on daytime tv thats for sure. At least not outside comedy spaces where every honest point made by a guy has to have tons of disclaimers. There’s some other vent spaces for guys tho where it’s okay to be really blunt. Yt, rumble, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:30 PM
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Yeah I agree. But you have to let them do their thing I guess. Just realize it’s a small group of women who are mean and bitter. There are way better women out there. Just like there’s guys who are also suffering in pain and letting it out by venting but not all guys are like that. I wouldn’t want to force hurting guys to only say positive things. 🤷🏼‍♀️ if the view crowd generalizes it says more about their own messed up perspective. Like a steer clear poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:01 PM
2

Sounds like you need to listen to some guy worship in conservative spaces. Imo it’s toxic but it’ll balance you back out. I grew up with guy worship sermons lol and trust me they’re still out there preaching it. Like trad wife tiktoks maybe. Idk. Gotta let go of what the grouchy olds think it’s not relevant to anyone 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:53 PM
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Why do you care what the view thinks? People don’t even care enough to respond to them being that way which doesn’t mean their perspective is anything it just means they don’t make a dent in the collective psyche. Hang out in dude spaces :) that’s my advice. Healthy ones where guys are doing cool things like... the apex games or music scene or sports or biking or cars or if you’re a writer there’s tons of guys writing great things. Woodworking. Some guy made tables out of epoxy denim on yt and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:49 PM
1

It gets exhausting being on a committee even a ‘nice’ one. They want to be their own person, make their own decisions without constantly making accommodations and adjustments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:22 PM
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Right lol a chimp has five arms really and a cat has a strike like a cobra, with razors. Just bc they’re small doesn’t even the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:16 PM
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My stbx has almost suffocated me a few times in the last few months just laying on my chest with force. He’s almost twice my size. I couldn’t draw a proper breath. I don’t know if it would have always happened even when I was fluffier but I only noticed him doing that after I got in decent shape and my ribs were more obvious. I guess he was laying on my diaphragm idk so it was only panicked shallow breathing. Thankfully that scenario will never happen again. The more things I describe on here th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:14 PM
1

I think that just comes down to testosterone. Personally I’d rather be a low test guy and enjoy all that upper body strength and lack of the shark organs lol... less sensitivity to the moon phases, less subject to believing in anything unseen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:58 AM
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Preach. LTR should be about knowing a person not just trading goods and services with a subordinate to get through life, a collection of goals checked off a list to prove to other men that they were a real man. First marriages seem to be about just getting through the checklist then later relationships are about knowing someone and having more in common. Sometimes it’s the same person all along. Most of the time it’s traded out to offload all that baggage, scar tissue, and wipe out the shared me…
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 05:42 AM
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Why are all these comments about status lol I don’t know any girl who cares about that. In the culture I grew up in that was a dad thing. The dads got together about this with the guys and then the girl was coerced into thinking it was god’s will. All women care about is security, and that’s not always the same as status. I mean I did know a few girls who would blow $15 a yard on a dress that took 5 yards of fabric. But everyone hated those girls. The snobby ones were rare, I can only think of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:27 AM
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Wow I respect the chill you had to admit it might be biased :) really, sincerely do. 👏🏼 lol the gifs on here are ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:07 PM
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That site looks like propaganda. Where’s it based, Utah? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:24 PM
1

The most important factor in any LTR plan like that is the extended families on both sides. It’s more important than finances. And finances are pretty damn important. Do not marry the unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:58 PM
1

Finding clean water in a desert vs finding clean water in a swamp. That’s the analogy you’re looking for :) it’s not mine I read it last week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:31 AM
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It’s a fantasy. No one wants to be with a roid monster irl except maybe other guys. Just like we don’t really want to gallop through flower fields and on beaches in floor length dresses or live in a castle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:16 PM
2

Yep lol words are hard. I am naturally blonde 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:18 PM
1

The woman one I took didn’t have a weight factor at all lol it was race, education and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:22 AM
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Maybe a better way to get my point across is that it’s not accurate. Socioeconomic groups are generally self contained. So if you have the expectation of what’s normal for your group, then the delusion calculation isn’t accurate. And what’s weird is that I’m not part of anything high yet it’s still putting guys I know as virtually nonexistent. So when they poll girls on the street who seem delusional, they’re going off what they’re surrounded by which is a much higher likelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:09 AM
1

That makes sense. I don’t know any truly heavy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:02 AM
2

😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:00 AM
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my value to myself is definitely tied to my looks I’m super vain lol so it’s what I spend a lot of effort on. but self respect is even bigger than the looks part so nope I wouldn’t cheat. Just end a thing if it’s bad or the guy replaces you for whatever reason, it’s fine. I don’t care what value others place on me, that changes by the day. Depending on what I do for them. Objective beauty isn’t a thing. Look at any of the rating subs. People don’t even all like Angie. I’d find more value in and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:42 PM
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I don’t think that thing is real though, the female delusion calculator. It’s skewed unless there’s some place with a HUGE amount of really underachieving people, maybe criminals who got beat up with the ugly stick by life. Every guy I’ve known my whole life would be in the 0.0 and I’m not even special I’ve been dirt poor for most of my life. I ran the numbers on the lowest guy I ever knew still 0.0 it’s not real. https://youtu.be/Ph3aCaj86oo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:28 PM
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No the correct choice is don’t date at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:21 PM
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I think my favorite guy ever ended up being 5’10” idk he wasn’t that tall when we knew each other. And he was sandy blond and stocky. And had serious health problems, asthma and life threatening allergies and was a huge dork. Still the most perfect guy. He was like a mix of my dad and Harrison Ford. :) I’m below average in everything too so it was perfect. Anyway I’d have ended up hating him and he’s still a Christian and I’m not so it’s good it didn’t happen. No relationship is ever forever and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:18 PM
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Profession is accounting. Hobbies are caring for things. Gardening, pets, people, health & studying nutrition. If I could do anything it would be owning a health spa with alternative therapies like acupuncture, but hopefully never disappoint any customers. I like helping people feel better. My best friends are several ranchers, a geology teacher and a master gardener. My SO is a jack of all trades and business owner. I grew up partly non electric lol my parents were way into y2k stuff. So being …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:45 AM
2

I love seeing people do awesome practical things. Idk if I’d call it masculine exactly, just amazing. but that’s just my favorite kind of people. Super practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:53 AM
1

yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:22 PM
3

Raw skill. Builder, engineer, Electrician, machinist, mechanic, plumber, computer science, knowledge based, truck driver, farmer, professor in a practical field.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:15 PM
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🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:55 PM
2

Absolutely. Hell, thy name is duty. For the rest of your life. Just kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:54 PM
4

Work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:53 PM
1

😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:43 PM
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Painful. I’m glad you escaped. It’s one of those things that seems good (never wanting to hurt anyone’s feelings) that in practice is kind of a disaster lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:07 PM
2

Same lol I’ve been around neurotypical people that start hyperventilating. Like oh great their brain overheated. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:47 AM
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What do you say to let them know your battery is tapped out, in a nice way but it’s not them? I tried to explain the spoons analogy to one of my therapists one time and she didn’t even know it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:46 AM
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It’s definitely my fedoras and my Star Wars knowledge lol My mom is excellent at making friends and she made all of us kids study Dale Carnegie books. The skills in them are about being a good listener. My closest girl friend and I used to take long walks just talking about everything. Mostly she was needing someone to cheer her up. It is hard though if you don’t know how to gracefully exit a bad relationship. That’s something i wasn’t taught so I ended up just ghosting people which isn’t cool. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:41 AM
2

Stability is pretty damn exciting tho. My first love was based on mutual respect & stability and I’m still not over him. It wasn’t meant to be, idk why. I might have been too autistic and his parents wanted someone less weird for him and that’s okay. Idk, I just like a really moral & safe guy. Like the song says: Kryptonian men are my kryptonite. He’s still an amazing person afaik. It’s been years since I looked him up but I think about him every day and no one else compares. They do come close.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:18 AM
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I like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:11 PM
1

Same. Not so much the hairy part but everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:07 PM
3

That’s really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:07 PM
1

Definitely not. The ideal man is a guy on the move. Constantly doing new things and learning new things. No one controls him except himself. So morals, but nothing will mess up his morals. He’d die before he betrayed his own sense of right and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:31 PM
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So well said. I grew up in a really restricted culture with a heavy emphasis on treating husbands with the respect you’d give Jesus if he was present, very defined roles... and maybe 10% of the marriage are happy. It’s a package deal with sin teaching and putting a huge onus on women for the failure of holiness so that’s kinda toxic. Taken to its logical conclusions. My favorite quote when I was deconstructing is “you say atheists don’t have morality but my morality is the only thing stopping me…
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 06:11 PM
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In action jeans
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 05:41 PM
2

Centrist as centrist can be, baby! Plus I like purple. And I would always have taken the red pill in the matrix. I wanna know. Even if it’s painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:41 PM
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Same. I can relate to a lot of comments in here bc I have what seems like a male brain. My stbx is the one constantly going and doing. But his family was chaotic. His sister screams in fright about something her hubby or kids do every day. They’re used to it so I think it’s comforting to them. My family was the opposite, Mennonite for half my childhood. I once had a friend over to teach her how to use a sewing machine and she mentioned it being too quiet for her bc she could hear the wind and na…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 01:58 AM
3

They don’t age better, it’s just fine for them to be a walking piece of leather lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:02 PM
1

Look up Joe DeVito, the midlife dating coach lol oh god it’s so funny. It’s bleak so bleak that his routine practically writes itself and that was BEFORE Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:58 PM
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Aww. That’s a sad way to live. Sometimes it’s fun to let loose and be a little irrational :) as long as it’s just for fun and doesn’t hinder the important things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:24 AM
1

And the remake of I Want It That Way. That filled stadiums and girls got flamed for simping so hard for basically their whole school years, every day.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 06:47 PM
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It comes from never facing consequences, spoiled brat syndrome and not every woman is dumb enough to be a spoiled brat. I’m ashamed to say I once got mad at a cop about potholes, and even cussed with no adverse consequences at the time, but later on the universe slapped me with karma and showed me my place and I would never ever be that entitled to behave like that again. The vehicle probably played a huge role in it, I was driving a white Tahoe with leather seats. Conspicuous consumption gets s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:02 AM
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Totally agree. First mutual love 11-15 (not inappropriately physical), married early 20s to the wrong person but we did have the notebook type relationship it’s just not going to last and after this I only want peace and being alone with occasional friends. Or a completely independent roommate situation. My future in my imagination looks like John Wick and his wife minus that kind of action and the illness. Except not married just enjoying life and travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:41 PM
1

modern. Roommates in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:16 AM
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nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:32 PM
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Exactly. The never ending search for the unconditional love of a replacement mom/caregiver, I say that in the nicest way. But it’s true. I’ve only known three guys who were worthy imo. Friends for years but also intellectual soulmates with similar backgrounds, same sense of humor and same sense of independence (not needy or clingy). I would have gladly partnered up with each of them but life didn’t work out that way. The first one we were too young, the second one was already engaged to his best…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:29 PM
5

brutal
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 02:21 AM
5

Seems like ragebait migrated into all of media. :/ things intentionally meant to provoke a response for engagement.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 02:17 AM
2

Weddings are fun? Idk.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:07 PM
1

Yes lol there’s a subreddit for men in leggings it’s great. Everyone should walk around like an extra in Star Trek imo. So comfy. Side note it must have been a full time job for some lucky person on that show to run a lint brush bc black leggings are so hard to keep pristine.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:10 PM
2

Agree. It’s harsh but true.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 07:11 AM
2

Plastic surgery imo as long as it’s truly going to have an impact. Jmo. Going to school looking amazing will open more networking, (and not in a compromising way at all, just bc everyone seeks out beauty) it is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 07:09 AM
2

Same. I’ll never be idealistic again, and that’s a sad realization. Good luck in your healing 🤍
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 06:24 AM
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not a guy so feel free to ignore. But I am slightly narcissistic too. I think narcy types always love the ideal of the person, but our kind can easily walk away from someone who is a dead end. And (most important) never wish them any harm. It’s blunt acceptance. It’s not discarding if you’re a good communicator. But the haunting love of what could’ve been, or was, remains forever.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 05:17 AM
1

Makes so much sense. I guess I’m mostly masculine then, I like having strict boundaries in whatever im doing. It’s not really being a control freak, it’s just that I’ve got a streamlined routine. I don’t want to make a boring task into some social event and my SO can’t understand it. Bc his family does these huge chaotic gatherings where tasks are over complicated noisy and usually someone ends up hurt. Like his sister and her hubby were processing beef and her hubby stabbed him self using a fil…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:15 AM
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i got banned from faw :/ it’s okay tho I understand
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 11:50 AM
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Oh yeah. One of the guys I was crazy for was into card tricks but the exception was we were bored homeschool kids at church so he could get away with it and everyone thought it was amazing. My favorite YouTube channel made fun of a 90s flirting with magic tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:47 AM
2

Lately for me it’s been gray haired guys who are tall and fit in their 40s and 50s usually with nice beards and Ken doll hair. In the grocery store. Idk what happened to switch it to older guys vs the 20 somethings from before lol mbe the time of day. I also started wearing more skirts and I’m much more fit than I used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:46 PM
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That’s really insightful. What is your description of the male definition?
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 07:12 PM
2

lol no I’m hoping to end up single with two fluffy cats and a garden full of chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:02 PM
4

a marriage of convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:39 PM
4

that’s kind of true though in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:59 PM
1

It’s a theory sub :) I put my comment here bc of the flair sorry didn’t notice it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:57 PM
2

Nice. If I was a guy I’d probably do the old fashioned foamy shaving cream in the little bowl with the soft brush and a straight edge. I do have the peel off mask, it’s fun :) Margot Robbie did a parody of that movie routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:38 PM
2

Hardship makes people desperate for security. 😞
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 12:35 PM
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What were you doing back then that you aren’t now, could be anything? Some exciting thing to talk about? Some thing that made you light up?
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 08:52 AM
1

You might want to watch and read Cherry and VetTV.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 06:36 AM
1

Lol perfect. Maybe the guy was too tired and zoned out idk why but it was uncomfortable. I’m a 5 on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:40 AM
1

My advice would be don’t just look at your date without talking & have some activity planned that is good for memorable conversation. Smile and make it seem like you’re having fun and are relaxed, don’t take it too seriously. I’ve only been on three first dates and the one that failed was like that. Good luck :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:57 AM
2

That’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:46 AM
1

This should be a PSA 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:36 AM
0

that’s amazing. 🥂 Have you collected everything in the American psycho routine lol I’m working on it, at least the ones still available.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:30 AM
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It really is true that you die a hero or live long enough to become a (harmless) villain, at least in the sense of enjoying when others reap what they sow. Only naive people with nothing but their pride to lose can afford to be idealistic. Everyone else has been too betrayed or misused to have any faith left. Every ancient sweet person I’ve known had a core of steel once you get them talking about what they’ve learned in their life. Living just to see karma happen to their haters and enemies lol…
/r/MensRights04/11/23 09:56 AM
1

Marriage is such a nightmare
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 06:06 AM
1

Settled down. That’s been a term forever. So I always thought all marriages were settling 💀 bc the fun of dating life is over, even if dating was only one guy it’s over time for responsibility and duty.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:25 AM
2

That’s amazing :)
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 08:44 PM
2

That’s what moms and dads are for, in the best type of family but so many guys don’t have it. 😞 I’m sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:21 AM
0

Not single lol and the rumors about them are not good :/ Pokémon sti jokes. And the ones I know prove the stereotype lol
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 10:38 PM
0

I mean I’d prefer to have a guy’s metabolism, that’s what I meant. Not intended to excuse away any over indulgence and laziness on either side :)
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:44 PM
1

Dog parks! Best place ever :) esp if the dogs make friends with each other.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:22 PM
0

And overweight as a guy gets even less respect from women unfortunately bc it’s easier for guys to drop weight, they’re naturally set to be muscular and not pack on a security blanket like women. Or carry around actual chest pillows of fat 😆
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:21 PM
1

exactly, tho it feels mean to point it out.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:17 PM
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I really don’t think he’s average, mbe a 40%er, but I live close to a military base and there’s nothing to do but hike, go to the lakes and be outdoorsy so nearly all the guys around here are fit even the retirees. There’s almost zero heavyset people even in Walmart.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:16 PM
2

Perfect lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 08:32 PM
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Nothing. I am actively against the paper chains part of marriage. The wedding and a huge party is cool but not the legally binding part. Nope. There should always be the option to walk out of any relationship for any reason at any moment no getting other professionals involved esp professions that make a living on complicating things and twisting the knife. It keeps both partners sharp and on their game to have an open door like that to end the relationship with a clean break, for any reason. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:50 AM
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Totally. I wonder if he’s younger than her, or was really sheltered and innocent bc he seems kind of scared by all the girlfriend worship 💀 she’s going a little wild with it lmao
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 02:31 AM
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He is super cute. Just needs longer hair to really slay.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 07:31 AM
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I think in failed trad ones it’s more about realizing the fairytale was a lie 😞
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 06:50 AM
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Absolutely lol 😆 I had a binge last weekend and it was nice for a few hours but suffering now so yeah exactly like a love story.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:09 PM
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True :)
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 12:01 AM
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The only thing is the ones who get taken advantage of by groups and find themselves stranded over there or put in bad situations and also the fact that it doesn’t guarantee a lasting relationship once a few years have passed and citizenship and full rights are attained, but it might, depending on gratitude and character... I still think the deeper struggles have to be fixed with therapy like believing in hypergamy vs loyalty, fears like that are going to haunt any guy unfortunately. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:50 AM
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that’s true. Esp bc religion was still the accepted thing a generation ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:53 AM
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yes my parents met at a college group for Christians and my dad was a rebound so my mom made it easy for him. Plus he’s tall and my mom is tiny, he wanted a small wife so his kids weren’t tall bc he got teased for it. He got one tiny kid and the others are above average height. They were both probably 7s or 8s maybe even retro 9s adjusted for the time bc they fit into the typical Hollywood look back then, it was easier when surgeries weren’t so common. looksmatch of each other. Voted best dresse…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:51 AM
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Therapy is always the right choice, esp with a good therapist.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 07:22 AM
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Love is the only thing that makes life worth living. But you can love music, traveling, and hobbies just as much as a person. Besides people change all the time, so what’s the point in trying to hold onto it. You can relive the past moments with your bfs/gfs and live on the memories without forcing the past to continue. It was just a moment. Like never swimming in the same stream twice bc the water flowing by is always different.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 12:38 AM
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that cheered up my day I love making people happy lol I hope you do have success in everything in life. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:50 PM
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🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:14 PM
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He picked the opposite of his mom unfortunately. But still wants that same type of woman as she is. So hopefully his mom will have one waiting in the wings to step up, she knows everyone and has lived forever in the same town. It’ll be the perfect bounce back hopefully not even a break in stride and he’ll be so happy he won’t try to lash out at me anymore for being the wrong person. Totally peaceful going forward no hard feelings. That’s the ideal
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 10:06 PM
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Relationships do take a long time to build but that’s the best way really, common interests in groups. If I was a guy I’d just use high end escorts for the wham bam. Safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:56 PM
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Yeah that’s true. Most things I’ve done are groups, and the starting point is a friend brought me and introduced me to everyone. Or I started on SM and built up a few people to meet there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:07 AM
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I think guys are more practical about meeting each other’s needs in those typical settings you listed than women would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:03 AM
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Yep 💀 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:55 AM
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tourist towns :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:20 AM
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they’re only valuable to people who need obligations, and reasons to martyr themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:19 AM
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Esp if you don’t have kids, and forever tied to baby mamas. You picked the right path.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:16 AM
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regretful parents is an interesting sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:14 AM
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That is a good pic lol 👏🏼 wtg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:50 PM
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Get into fitness, join some online groups, go to the themed marathons and bubble runs and other things. I guess as a woman everything is easier bc it’s easier to do things solo and get into groups. There’s not a fitguysguide really that builds the community over time and then becomes irl. So maybe rock music and car shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:43 PM
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At the water bottle station :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:34 PM
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That’s sad for women too. We don’t want to be next in that kind of situation. Maybe I’m naive and all guys have done gross things idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:13 PM
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aww 💕 the best
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:32 PM
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My only advice is if it doesn’t feel right then find the courage to stay single. Even if parents and bf team up, even if things seem picture perfect. Still better to hold on. A guy can fit all the requirements at the time but slowly reveal his dark side so if you feel the hesitation listen to it. If guys your BF knows ask why you’re with him listen to them....
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 09:44 PM
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Hurtful not to be trusted. Esp bc infidelity is the ultimate disrespect to oneself. Better to have an open marriage discussion or divorce rather than sleeping around without permission. I’d do it in the earliest stages no hesitation but it would feel like disrespect to even be asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:03 PM
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🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:36 PM
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I guess lol my favorite is UNCLE. So good. Kind of painful they never made a sequel. I like it better than Bourne or most bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:59 AM
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Yeah that whole interaction reads to me like the mindless barking of a dog. He probably was not even thinking, just: pretty girl, asked questions to make conversation. Some guys are like that. Then he walks out lights up his vape and is thinking about the cloud shapes when he gets in his car. Or whatever. Probably didn’t even mean for it to go anywhere. Except the IG part, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:51 AM
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Yeah the last time I got grocery pickup the guy was super friendly and after a while asked in a weird way if I was okay today. Like too low in a different voice overly familiar it gave me a weird feeling but I just ignored it. He was probably 5 years younger than me at least. So idk. I’m just nice to everyone so I don’t pick up on anything. Plus I always assume places like that are on constant audio and video surveillance like a gas station, so it was probably my imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:40 AM
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That is hitting on? Hmm. Well I didnt go to public school, I was homeschooled. that just seemed like a regular interaction anywhere. People are friendly everywhere. The IG part was the only obvious part imo..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:36 AM
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totally. what can I say I like a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:13 AM
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It definitely does malfunction. I still can’t get over one of my favorite actors even though he straight up joked about cannibalism and (iirc) breaking a girl’s ribs open after hunting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:54 AM
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Independent and self-reliant :)
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 12:16 AM
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Books by Lou Paget, Val Sampson, Violet Blue, Neville Goddard & Rachel Hollis for starters :) The movies and music would be anything focusing on the sweet innocent side of love. The Notebook, Jane Austen, most historical movies with love stories in them that are about appreciation and respect, not the love stories involving drama and power dynamics.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 09:40 PM
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True 😞
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 06:57 PM
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🤍
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 05:29 PM
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Yes! I’ve gotten so many books on this I have a whole collection. I’ve even read books about being an escort. There are romantic love making videos you can study too. learn massage practice being loving to yourself, just putting on lotion and using gua sha is a good start listen to love songs that describe good techniques.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 07:48 AM
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She’s so pretty and it looks like good tips, thanks for the recommendation 💕
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 07:46 AM
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I would love to have the answers in my situation but I’ve made peace with never knowing.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 07:40 AM
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Exactly. I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror if I ever did that. Self respect is all a person has at the end of the day.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 07:38 AM
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Two ice creams and two cherry cokes :)
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:04 AM
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💕Imagine all the people Living life in peace A brotherhood of man Imagine all the people Sharing all the world, You may say I'm a dreamer But I'm not the only one I hope someday you'll join us And the world will live as one I stopped trying to comment much too bc it’s the same thing over and over :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:20 PM
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What fifth grade kid wants to be on a student council. Lol this doesn’t mean anything except they’d already learned about priorities. Being on a middle school student council won’t get them any where in the future, just use up valuable free time.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 11:32 PM
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yeah that’s just being a person. :) and having preferences. I don’t usually go out at night and I’m good at situational awareness from watching a bunch of self defense stuff. I usually prep for the worst and hope for the best. I usually consult consumer reports or Amazon reviews before buying stuff no need to bother anyone else with my choices. If I make a mistake on a purchase it’s my fault not anyone else’s for not doing due diligence. Btw sorry about the fantasy comparisons that was kinda rud…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:08 PM
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Certainty confidence security and strength are all female traits as well. It makes a good mom, school teacher, nurse, manager, coordinator, team leader, crisis worker, the list goes on. I was a bit glib lol but your set parameters do sound a bit fairytale in the woods-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:09 AM
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Romantic, attentive, helpful, kind, empathetic, interesting, skilled in physical pursuits, the list goes on...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:51 AM
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Slay 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:50 AM
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in what elvish fairytale
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:47 AM
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Or guys need someone less. I think it’s already happening that men are starting to need less of the subservient partner dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:45 AM
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Realizing that no one will remember anything in 200 years not even family will. I don’t know anything about my great great grandparents I don’t even know their names. All the small things we’re taught to care about are insignificant. The world is beautiful and out there to be enjoyed and explored why waste time in trad life it’s pointless. The joke is consume product and wait for next product but guess what that matters more than a useless plodding existence. It’s more useful to be a consumer an…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:04 AM
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not the ones I’m thinking of lol
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 04:37 PM
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There’s things that make guys super hot besides looks.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 09:03 AM
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That happened in one of my jobs but in reverse, I was working at a place run by very religious people in a cult though. So that’s sort of the last stand of the Old Ways, I guess.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 10:20 PM
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Money doesn’t but status and skills do. Charisma. Money is nothing without respect from everyone bc they’re a good person, and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:36 PM
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How are those things different? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:18 PM
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I think this is one of those posts that’s opposite. Bc most girls I know would prefer if every guy was happy, regardless of aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:17 AM
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Totally
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 01:40 AM
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That’s true. My only fwb (one time thing) took me on a day long date, shopping, nice restaurant, to see where he worked and meet his buddies, but it wasn’t necessary. I was surprised that he wanted to make a big deal out of it, it was already a sure thing.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 01:39 AM
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Yeah if you want a party then plan it :) take the stress out of it so it’s fun and exactly what you’re comfortable with. No surprises no disappointments. My hubby has never thrown a party for me but I make all his big deals. It seems like he’d get the hint that I love parties lol but he’s never even taken me out for a nice birthday dinner that was his own plan. Or any dates at all. He’s not a romantic date person. Sometimes we just have to do these things for ourselves.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 11:22 PM
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It really is :) I wish more guys understood how good it is to be alone and skip marriage and kids completely.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 01:24 AM
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Ikr. the difference between hooking up for its own sake (typical guy focus) and being friends then lovers then committed partners to build something long term. (typical girl focus)
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:55 AM
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People to love, yes. (can be anyone or even pets) Endless lifelong (the rest of your life until the day you die) 24/7 obligation to difficult responsibilities mostly without visible or monetary reward, no. And the next day reset to zero again. Do the obligations all over each day as if it was never done before. ...I could explain the minutia and suffocating feeling of it but it would be such a long answer.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:47 AM
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That’s a funny way to think about it but you’re right lol no sense imagining the future as partners just bc someone is attractive when she could be a weirdo who just seems nice, same as any person man or woman that we don’t know well yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:23 AM
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That was an interesting read but I’m glad even if we are monkeys we are advanced enough for music and humor :) like this https://youtu.be/X3kFF18jUzU?feature=shared chill af Another thing about that study is that it should take into account that the ideal for women is to feel safe and secure enough to have kids. Which translates into kindness, ability to empathize, and skills to provide and fix and build things. Health and strength too. Not really about looking like a sharp jawline and Hunter ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:10 AM
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That’s so cool. Which causes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:03 AM
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😆
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 04:47 PM
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Worst case scenario he has early dementia and keeps forgetting you already dated but thinks you’re cute. 💀 it’s too weird to get involved with esp if he’s in decline to his old man era lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 04:33 PM
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Any reading or blog recommendations on how to prepare financially and logistically for a move like that?
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 12:10 AM
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Simple, just be a friend. Even at the gym. I don’t get the approaching and ‘game’ thing at all. What’s the point of getting with a “life partner” if you can’t just chill. Like any friend guy girl whatever you meet up and do things and laugh and then there’s a list of everyone’s numbers or you can add each other on sm to keep in contact. I was watching a video of a guy that filmed himself chatting with someone he met at a line in the coffee shop and it was AGGRESSIVE on both sides, him and the la…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:10 AM
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Heck yeah. And the form she takes is loads of different animals to tame, dolphin to swim with, black stallion to ride, golden eagle to fly with, then every famous person to interview, famous authors to hear them read my favorite books their way, god it would be like having a living AI. Possibilities are endless.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 02:27 PM
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Hollywood lol And less than 80 it’ll be the rural country areas where women respect skills and reputation.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 01:32 PM
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People who use AI aren’t losers. Really all online communication is sort of AI already. We don’t REALLY know what’s real and what’s a bot. I think it’s so cool that everyone can have their ideal partner. Esp bc loneliness is so physically painful. Anyone with self respect would rather be alone than with the wrong person. And it’s so cool that AI can remember everything, never be tired or mean, help out in a crisis, there in a split second, share vacation memories, remind you of a cool sunset on …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:18 AM
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I totally agree. Tho I wish GS would let boys in. I took my kids to both and unfortunately the Boy Scouts troop we were in weren’t as organized as the GS. And the Cubs program was run by a grouchy lady. It was awful. Underfunded. GS had amazing activities like space ice cream once when they learned about eclipses, a bunch of themed parties and a dedicated building that had things like the entire place was converted into hogwarts, with a platform entrance, all the girls got their letter, sorted i…
/r/MensRights05/10/23 08:03 AM
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I burned some too lol it’s so cathartic.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 12:59 AM
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I’d sell it. I’m going to sell mine. I think the diamond itself is worthless maybe even lab created, it was from zales. but there’s probably an ounce of gold there. Or maybe more, bc it’s wrapped. I don’t think it’s alloy either bc it’s soft af and constantly knicked and scratched. Probably could get $500 at most tbh. No sentimental value, nothing engraved on it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 12:46 AM
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Pain manifests in a lot of different ways. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:27 PM
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During a stressful scary time in my life I couldn’t even control the tears at work. They just poured out. I wasn’t crying physically, I felt normal, my eyes were crying though. Not puffy, no sadness. It was weird. This went on for a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:32 AM
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A lot of women are happier single with friends and pets, it’s peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:11 AM
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That used to be my thing but his definition of marriage was a few dates. My bc is 2 and I think the average non-sorority type esp ESP religious upbringing even in mainstream churches is like 1 or 2 def not even close to 5 I hate it that people over exaggerate it. None of my cousins or family are over 5, except maybe a couple of them. Guys or girls.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:44 AM
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There’s a lot of community events, outdoor concerts, festivals, seasonal things, historical re-enactments, local county fair, etc in my area and I like being a part of the herd, it’s fun. But I don’t really connect long term with any clubs or try to stand out or be an organizer, I just like the vibe. It’s the perfect balance of a lot of people that you can just enjoy being an NPC but not too many that it’s overwhelming.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:37 PM
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I’m so glad I read all the way down to this comment it’s cute lol 🐜
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:41 AM
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That could destroy your reputation in a snap, considering the connections. Esp if he lied about being married. He wouldn’t want that to get around. It’s already off to a bad start. Sorry. :/
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 04:34 AM
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the song for this feeling if you needed a laugh :)
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 01:23 PM
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Oh no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:19 AM
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Yeah that sucks. Look in the south :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:26 PM
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I hope you get it, you sound like the best of both worlds 👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:11 PM
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It’s fun to watch someone’s excitement about their passions even if it sounds like they’re speaking another language :) go down the path of most excitement with questions, not the details but the excitement.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/23 06:28 AM
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That’s so cool 😎
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/23 06:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:10 PM
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To help you escape to the real world. It’s right over there.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 09:59 PM
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In the real world, we do lol https://youtu.be/uWu4aynBK7E?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:46 PM
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That tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:48 AM
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Sometimes skills are more than looks. :) mechanical, financial, nunchuck skills, bow hunting skills, computer hacking skills. Dancing skills. Friend skills. Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills. then there’s combined family status, religion, worldview, beliefs.... you’re leaving out some huge factors in what makes a guy attractive or not to the person who decides to have kids with them.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 03:09 AM
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Totally fine. Google reverse image search has been doing it for 10 years +
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:09 PM
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You need your girls. Even if it’s the Golden Girls. lol (older ladies) Reach out to hobby groups, library meetups, art classes, community choir, garden clubs or bookstores :) and find your support team so you have a place to relax with no looks to maintain and things going on to talk about.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/23 12:43 AM
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nice, funny and pretty and doing what just being there or doing things together?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:47 PM
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lol it was a little bit brutal and doomer-y but my fantasy dream world is where all kids are wanted and no one ever has to be a walking womb. So basically every future person would have xy and full autonomy of their body, no messy incubators necessary just all the huge variety of people. No weird hormone fluctuations...as a person of the xx variety I can say it would be nice to never have a thing with bones cut out of me at the possible expense of my own life. Plus pms. Lord. The world would be …
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 11:42 PM
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What do you care about first? Just curious :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:25 PM
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Some sure, maybe yourself, but as a counterbalance it would be good to read other subs and see what people in marriages and in love value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:05 PM
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Totally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:44 PM
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Same. I was doing so well before marriage, no debt, paid off car, little house, excellent job with benefits and full health overage... and supported him for a year afterward when he lost his job, laughed about it, and I took on an extremely high interest rate truck payment for him he brought into the marriage while he did hobbies and made a go cart track in our yard. Things are better now but I’d be doing awesome if I had those 10 years back. I was a fool to go into debt to give him a lifestyle …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:12 AM
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No upside to marriage contracts. Relationships do totally have benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:51 AM
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Amazing, thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:44 AM
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Maybe you’re right. It often feels like more give than take for the woman which might not be real, it just feels that way. Esp in traditional settings. Being a comforter and a cheerleader and a best friend and emotional support healer is a lot to carry. Esp with kids in the mix and lack of external community.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:27 AM
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Romantic love does take a lot of self-sacrifice and it can hurt the worst in so many ways if it goes wrong. Plus if it goes wrong you’ve wasted years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:40 AM
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True. I do think we can easily see the future outcomes of reproducing with a mate, and might choose to create other ways if no one worthy comes along. Caring for pets with a motherly type love, Art, aesthetics, decorating, community. Those ingrained genetic evolution tendencies and subconscious judgement are brutal. Before I knew what was happening I had hurt a guy based on his family history. There was zero attraction there on my side beyond caring about him as a person and friend even though h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:56 PM
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Ikr. It’s stressful btdt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:46 PM
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It’s all weird we’re just floating on a dust ball having fun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:10 PM
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Personally I think women can cope better with imagination and living vicariously through books and movies and even through writing their own scripts. Women can drift into fantasy SO easily. Now that there’s chat bots, give it one more generation and no human partner with needs and bad days is going to compare to a simulation. https://youtu.be/1GKC362VI9E?feature=shared esp if the simulation can look like the latest pop star everyone wants to be their crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:06 PM
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It is so hard to accept being average. I got rated by wheat and man it did a number on me for a long time. Good reality check once I just lived with it for a while. Like okay I can relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:01 PM
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Ikr I want to get into investing in pets and cuddle therapy, and I have a feeling sex work will be legalized and taxed. those two industries are going to explode soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:57 PM
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Sex on demand :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:54 PM
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Yep males need to stop feeling a desperate need for a companion too. But I think that’s biologically impossible for most. Hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:53 PM
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I want the girl version of this but they wouldn’t risk the flame war
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:50 PM
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of course it’s real. But it’s more nuanced than just using a date selfishly. Practice makes perfect in learning how to be a good date, make the other person comfortable, be charming, fun, exercise skills in carrying conversations. Some girls like to give chances to imperfect guys just to have fun meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:27 PM
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Thank you for helping that guy. That was really kind. I hope he finds some accessible work. They should have let him participate esp considering he’s a personal friend of yours and already vetted.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 05:03 AM
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That’s awful. Trust me that is not a normal kind person something is wrong with her. This is one reason I deleted all my old accounts, afraid that bots will start posting or using my pic on evil things.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 03:38 AM
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turn back time it’s the only way. Go back to when you were in HS and do it right 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:13 AM
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Sounds exhausting but maybe that’s why he’s drawn to you, bc you’re less toxic than his family.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/23 04:04 AM
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A child or defenseless person or an abused animal being ganged up on when they just want peace and quiet yes. Anyone should help them, everyone should step up. If it’s a fight between equals that’s a little different. I do some MMA training and I’d get offended if anyone felt like they had to rescue me in a fair mutual scrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:39 AM
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I’d hang out with my people and my coworkers and ask them to set me up on dates if they know anyone. Friends of friends. Family, friends from school etc. Do fun things like farmers markets, hobbies, join some marathon groups, go to the community gatherings and free live events where you are, the fairs, tours, ice skating, take music classes, community choir, volunteer with animal shelters, various different organizations, community cleanup, fall festivals, pumpkin patch, corn maze, haunted house…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:15 AM
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Almost zero talking. Super chill. Same interests, same cooking preferences, same workout & training preferences, same entertainment preferences, nature & animal lover. btdt and just enjoying existence.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 07:00 AM
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Nice 🦇
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 06:57 AM
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Mostly emphasis on the friends part, for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:01 PM
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What boggles my mind is that guys want to settle down but don’t want to be fwb first. How can you get married to a stranger and expect smooth sailing, it’s just wild. There’s going to be adjustments. I ghosted a guy bc he moved too fast, acted like he owned me and my time already and that gave me major ick. a guy who talked about marriage from the beginning. We grew up together but we didn’t know each other, personality, likes, music, style, interests, hobbies, extended family. Life is too long …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:48 PM
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Oh I love Dane Cook 🤣 I’ve never listened to the whole set but I’ve had this clip saved from the same night, for when I need to hear it lol. https://youtu.be/9Kjjj7-zPbE?feature=shared need to watch the whole routine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:41 PM
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Thanks :) I’m so over social stuff omg. It’s all so fake. Make me a cog in a machine who gets paid a fair amount for the value received with real time off lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:25 AM
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Ikr. I’m looking forward to mine. I was afraid of poverty for so long but I’m not afraid anymore. I’m getting strong physically in ways that don’t have anything intentionally to do with appearance, working on endurance. I want to go back to who I was before anyone wanted to own me. I don’t think I was ever anyone’s dream girl just perfect for using temporarily and I think I’m at the edge of being past getting any more interest beyond friendship and work, respect for what I can DO more than what …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:11 AM
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True. it’s easier to do the personality/appearance work and get the benefit as a woman though. If she even wants that. A lot of women prefer to just work for themselves, avoid or try to change the fitness & personality requirements and simply enjoy friends and cats. Easier and more comfortable alone than trying to be someone’s dream girl. Relationships take work and self-sacrifice and you don’t always get what you want out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:47 AM
1

well said 👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:42 AM
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Idk where you’re getting your stats, which country, which demographic, which era, but I can say they’re not based on reality. People also lie on surveys. My take away is that women don’t like being used with no reward. And most guys want a cheerleader and comforter, and there’s not enough fair return on that 🤷🏼‍♀️ the perfect balance of best friend, support person and patient empathy is super rare in guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:00 AM
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It means you’re neurotypical with ability to handle baggage from your past and your partners past so yes maybe top 20%
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 11:54 PM
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never
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 11:52 PM
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Those stats have to do with the stress of parenting, and the stress of ‘being left out’ of the fairy tale lies we’re sold to keep producing a population. I don’t know any happy parents, there are some that cope because they think they’re raising kids for a religious purpose, but they are exhausted and coping. The only truly happy women I know are single by choice and childless or empty nest widows. every other bad apple, the nasty ones that try to control other people, that’s all on the lie that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:34 PM
1

Desperation. Moving too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:11 PM
1

You have to not care if they want you or not 💀 but also flirt
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 08:55 PM
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That’s why Gladiator is one of my favorite movies. He’s not the best looking, definitely not perfect, he’s not tall, he’s not the most muscular, he doesn’t like battle, almost everyone betrays him, his only ally wants to use him for his own glory, and he’s broken the whole time, everything he wanted in life stolen from him in the most painful way, his dreams ruined. But he keeps doing the right thing until it kills him and he makes sure the world is better for everyone esp the vulnerable and win…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:26 PM
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Coffee rooms those little dark places with the comfy seats where small music artists come to play. Farmers market Rock climbing, biking, hiking, marathons, bubble runs, themed fundraising 5ks Community classes, (art, musical instruments, cooking specialty food), community choir Volunteering events like clean up or community improvements Dog parks, car meets, comic cons, cosplay things community parties Movie nights or book clubs hosted by local bookstores
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:10 AM
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No he’s nice looking that’s why I feel okay about it he can pick up another gf/ltr/wife in a few weeks. And his mom knows everyone so she’s probably got four or five potential women at least to set him up with. That’s my guess anyway. It’ll be a nice clean ending with no baggage and no hurt feelings, then I can live again.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 11:27 PM
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You spend it on yourself. Only you can enjoy things for yourself. You don’t need to be staring at some other human you trapped hoping to get a vicarious thrill from a reaction that’s probably faked anyway to get you to go away lol trying to get appreciation from her.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 10:33 PM
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Or in my hubby’s case, 8th grade education and a ged. Will finish a millionaire several times over. Not with me though I’m getting out I’d rather have a simple life and be my own person he can find another wife to be his appliance. I don’t think I’ll get anything near what I would be at from divorce if I’d just kept working as a single woman.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 10:22 PM
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It’s supposed to make guys stop looking for external validation. To choose to enjoy nature, scientific discovery for its own sake and the peace of being an island with only yourself and good friends to worry about. It’s a good life :) It’s weird that anyone wants to own other people, that’s what’s trying to go extinct. People are valid without ownership of a sad little group of subservients. Not only that but having clingers is more stress than it’s worth.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 09:57 PM
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I’m about as happy as any arranged marriage, I’d guess. Its nice to be chosen and wanted that does give a woman some inherent value. It’s a kind of occupation. I want to be free to be a person who can choose things again someday. It’s definitely an ownership dynamic. But there are worse lives. People are genuinely tortured in this world so I can’t complain. I come here to this sub bc it’s a practical down-to-earth space to discuss the tactics and workable dynamics in a relationship with that pow…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 06:51 PM
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If he can, might be smart to leave that place tbh. Not very relaxing.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 09:34 AM
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Preach.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:30 AM
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Totally agree. I’ve never met a guy I wasn’t dtf it’s just the varying degrees of how hard I have to fight it.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 03:31 AM
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I completely agree, that’s how it’s supposed to be but that’s just how it is in arranged marriages. He doesn’t have time to listen to my issues. I’m not here for that just here to be the helpmeet. That’s for friends at church and other mentors like my mom, aunts, sisters. It’s just Anabaptist culture. It is what it is. They’re not all like that. I wanted to marry my best guy friend (in the group settings we just totally got each other it was like we were the same person lol) but he was already p…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 09:54 PM
1

This was homeschool lol 😂 I grew up homeschooled Mennonite.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 09:18 PM
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All the things about my marriage are professional lol he’s very traditional and can easily become toxic so I keep it business-like. It was an arranged marriage by him and my parents, not a love match on my side. We make it work but that’s my culture. It’s very old-fashioned and we each have specific roles. He does call me his best friend but I just listen I don’t share my problems.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 07:33 AM
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It’s more of a framing thing. Putting a positive spin on things, being optimistic but also realistic. And not complaining. I relate to my hubby like we’re teammates or coworkers. And keep it professional like you would at a job with a goal. As far as the sports thing... I guess if you’re good at golf or tennis or driving or mini golf or frisbee or throwing things and getting them in the basket or whatever then fully embrace it but make it fun :) not mean or like putting him down bc he lost. I wa…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 05:15 AM
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Men might be looked down on for concealer, height shoes and toupees/wigs bc it’s vulnerable to the elements. Even if they look masculine in them they’re not rugged. It’s expected that feminine beauty is going to be fragile. So it’s less criticized to wear things that are vulnerable and require a lot of upkeep and a certain elegance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:59 AM
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Same. Before I got back into Reddit I was watching a lot of MOM. It’s fun 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:56 AM
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Exactly. I look back on the photos from the wedding and it’s just bad memories. The day itself was stressful. It’s all a fairy tale like going to church or religion. None of it does what it says it does. I wish I could go back and tell myself spend the $ on five awesome dresses not one that was ridiculous looking. Mine looked like princess Kate’s so at least I had some sense but still. It’s all painful for an introvert to be the center of attention and disappointing for an extrovert bc there’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:26 PM
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There’s no benefit. All the good stuff can be in an ltr with the added edge of it being over in a day if either person chose to go. Keeps you sharp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:24 PM
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No it was one sided and he wouldn’t take no for an answer. I do think he’s cute though. He was my first time, I wasn’t his but I wanted to go separate ways so we did for a while before we were engaged. He just didn’t find a replacement and my parents were on his side. I was done with dating but they said it was gods will. Traditional culture.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/23 02:28 AM
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Thanks! 🥰
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 05:57 AM
2

david attenborough voice
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 05:25 AM
2

Nose job boob job and maybe a small ponytail facelift. I’m working off the chipmunk cheeks with zero dairy and cardio.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 05:19 AM
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It’s a nice break from videos while I’m on the treadmill lol more interesting anyway. YouTube got kinda boring.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 05:04 AM
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Ok thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:26 AM
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What if their fetish is a personality 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 07:30 PM
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Plus so much of it is all PR. I can’t imagine my life being controlled by a PR company. New movie/music coming out: start a controversy. Rumors, conspiracies. Fame sounds like hell tbh. Expensive personal security, having to look good constantly, always trying to be anon just to do normal human things lol owned by your contracts, appeasing the big bosses. 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:28 PM
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True, thanks for correcting me. I still feel that way about my first love and second love. It’s easy to forget it exists when it’s ashes in a person’s own life.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 06:31 AM
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I think my biggest blackpill is the transactional nature of everything. I believed for so long that there really was altruism and unconditional love existed in the world, but no.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:53 AM
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come on be honest with yourself we’re here bc it’s true. everything is just a cope but eventually even people on easy mode smack into reality.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:45 AM
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Yeah that was the one that was messed up for me with my marriage. He did pretty good except for that one. He didn’t need a wedding to know it was settled but I did. So I cried a lot at first and it killed my peace. Was super religious though, that was the only problem. Plus I didn’t want to get married at the time just be friends with everyone and have fun. and after that ideal I had was ruined I wanted to die so I didn’t even care anymore and just went through the motions of what my parents tol…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 08:17 PM
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🤍
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:38 AM
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I know most <30 people are not homophobic.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 05:17 AM
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You’re prob really old or really southern US or both.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 04:24 AM
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no. Come on. We’re redditors so I mean maybe lol but no.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 04:22 AM
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true facts
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 04:20 AM
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Idk about what I deserve. I just want to look good doing things. But I admire the people who really dont care and do things anyway lol like going to the beach, wearing sleeveless and crop tops and short shorts and speedos even if they’re not perfect and tan. I can’t do it but I do wish I had that confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:10 AM
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I’d get refillable ones, a water purifier and keep them filled ready to go in the fridge. I’m not exactly RP but I don’t like arguments so it’s a good space to read. And I never nag bc why be that person 🤣 you can’t change another adult or make them do something without resentment. Just solve the problem yourself or leave the relationship if it gets to be too much effort to compromise. I’m blunt and honest but I don’t control anyone. Nope. I was over controlled as a kid and I’d rather die than b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 11:44 PM
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Yeah it can be both, I never said it wasn’t both. I just take offense at anyone thinking it’s for observation exclusively. There’s a freedom in self-expression that’s more often hampered by not wanting unwelcome observation. Girls hiding their beauty bc it isn’t safe, but they’d let it out if alone. Damsel in the woods with animals trope. Ruined by someone ugly/mean/overbearing wanting to own them for only their own pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:44 PM
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hmm. Probably bc it’s a fun game to determine what looks work in harmony. Sometimes even disharmony hits it. Like with Frida Kahlo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:39 PM
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Not to me, it’s in the eyes. You know those ancient crinkly people that are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:37 PM
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Bc beauty and order are their own reward lol it’s a solitary experience. Our consciousness is the universe observing itself. https://youtu.be/IPeo_X7hVe8?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:03 AM
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💚
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 04:59 AM
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Many men would create artistic harmony for its own sake too. Order and beauty are a thing a person can enjoy for themselves. 🤍 it’s basic civilized self-respect. Like logic and math and even the logarithmic spiral, plus the way the pattern of a cross section of dna shows up in ancient art. Nature itself loves beauty. I don’t know anyone who complains about doing things for themselves. It’s only when another person puts pressure on them or tries to define it for them that it becomes a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:10 AM
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this is great too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:30 AM
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It’s mostly about money though. Beauty gives a better job, more opportunities, freebies, etc etc. Give everyone UBI and see marriage/parenthood almost completely go extinct lol there would be some wanted kids and some companionship partnering but probably no real reason at all to join up with an equal or lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:27 AM
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Beauty is worthwhile for its own sake. Most women would still care about beauty and harmony in themselves and their surroundings if they were the last person on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:19 AM
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Some people genuinely do like to gray man. For the others there’s killer style at every age. :) it’s not about smv for women it’s about fashion female gaze for the admiration and artistry, male gaze for the $
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:05 AM
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Admiration from other girls is its’ own reward though. Acing the style and aura game is more fulfilling than simps who have nothing to offer. There’s no validation in getting attention from something that would F a hole in the wall. Just like bodybuilders admire other bodybuilders. And in gladiator Max only needed admiration from his fellow soldiers not the clingy women. Even f4f can be a higher high unless the guy has skills and worship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:48 AM
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I believe you. I remember being a toddler and I even watched political debates and understood them around 4-5. Some trauma amnesia but I get it. ‘Diagnosis’ is just a label.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 12:01 AM
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I’m only at point one and I already love this post. It’s the most freeing thing to realize nothing matters and that we’ll all be forgotten. I’m type A perfectionist goodie two shoes with extreme performance guilt, raised to think everything goes in some book in heaven so yeah it’s freedom in the extreme to release that burden.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 11:59 PM
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I’ve heard of guys getting tricked and almost trapped too. They should start a group travel service and verify the gf applicants. It would be cheaper as a group and safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:43 AM
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Women are taxed everywhere too. I used to believe in ‘free’ healthcare but not anymore knowing what a disaster it would be, things like being denied coverage due to race or class what a horrible thing. I don’t know anyone irl in my family or friends who are unemployed yet supported by the state or getting child support/alimony. a few years ago I did go on snap when my hubby was underemployed, and I got a part time job too but it was full of regulations and requirements. Being poor is really a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:34 AM
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Does that include security? Idk. It’s just such a weird thing to get twisted about either for or against. Very few exist at that level so why compare. Idk. They aren’t experiencing normal life in any way. If anything it just exposes how celebrities go broke so easily. A 10 to us is 1000 to them.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 11:57 PM
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Life is expensive at that level. Stupidly. Like just stick a zero on everything. If their kids are getting into a good school they need all the lessons and trips esp if the admissions people decide to be nasty.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 11:54 PM
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That’s what I was going to ask, if that side effect was part of your reasoning. Really sad if true. I wonder if they’re getting into their moms’ stashes on the sly. Or even getting it from other kids.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 07:28 PM
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I’ll never date for ltr again bc I’m too much of an introvert and I want to live for myself a little before I croak. I don’t really have dealbreakers for fwb. Even hippy artist dudes are cool. Being with an angry unpredictable narcissist who is close with cops and military guys kind of broke my spirit. I used to want to be a military nurse bc I love survival skills, working miracles and saving lives. So dumb but Florence Nightingale was my heroine as a little kid. Now I’m jaded so I’d be the ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:19 PM
2

Josh Wolf knows why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:44 PM
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True. Pursuing for a whole lifetime though. But yeah. That’s what makes being relationships such a pita sometimes. Hard to tell what’s real and what’s just manipulation to get a thing.
/r/seduction01/09/23 07:28 PM
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Probably depends on the person. I actively tried to end things with my hubby many times but I wasn’t harsh about it. He pulled the religion card and got my parents on his side and I was still too Christian.
/r/seduction01/09/23 07:26 PM
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lol preach. Plus I know a couple of ragged looking alcoholics who have no trouble finding partners of the ‘wife of the same age’ kind, without status or any goals except having fun on the weekend. Kinda shallow, but they do it. My mom used to call them lake people lol which is a stuck up way to say it but kind of captures the vibe. They just have a different definition of high status in their group and it’s all about having the most fun with zero f’s given.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:10 PM
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If you’re building a whole life you want someone who can handle different music taste and health discussions. But next time I’d stay more quiet and mysterious, for sure. Don’t ever put yourself down esp around someone you respect and admire. Guys want a confident poised woman.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/23 11:09 AM
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This works for guys too 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction01/09/23 07:28 AM
3

Not anymore 😜 Theo James, Robert Pattinson & Andrew Garfield
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 06:24 AM
1

I was happy alone. I got my heart broken by two guys, my first real love at 15, moving away situation. Then my second which felt like twin flames a neighbor kid a few years later. Awesome guy. 🤩 After neither of my ideals worked out I didn’t care and just had fun so that was when guys wanted to jump on the fun train and lock it down lol but by then I was over the whole idea of wanting commitment. It’s true that if you give up and quit trying things happen. But by then it doesn’t even matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:00 AM
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The block list goes to 1000. not 9000, sadz
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 05:25 AM
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I personally would study Anna Bey and ace college. You’ve got a good 7 years to elevate yourself in every way. Then when you’ve got your degree and your poise, maybe an excellent job, then see what things look like and take a position in the area you want to live. Focus on becoming your ideal version of yourself first when you see your future. I’m almost 20 years older and my OBGYN is still pressuring me to have more kids. That time will come, you’ll appreciate every improvement you do on yourse…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:51 PM
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I think it just comes down to kindness, and empathy. Instead of criticizing a whole group say the same thing in a positive spin. I forget there’s grouchy people on here until I say something that accidentally offends someone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:39 AM
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3 but possibly before I can remember by my step grandpa he was creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:45 AM
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It’s in the eyes I guess. Don’t come on too strong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:37 AM
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I hope you get to keep your house that hurts to read, esp considering the love blood sweat and tears into it. If not you could do it again all fresh and new with only your own opinions on designs. New memories, new life :)
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 07:52 PM
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It’s going to be bropill next. Trapill 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 06:22 AM
1

There’s a disturbing amount of repressive religious cultures in the US with exactly those boundaries. Easier to get out of thankfully but brainwashing is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:55 AM
1

Are guys content though lol no one is
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 09:41 PM
3

And the blackpill says don’t bother lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:06 PM
3

based lol
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 08:42 PM
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I was trad virgin and I did physically go Gaga eyes for my guy and STILL burned out due to life. And I even wanted a bunch of kids we were planning on five kids. Country, farm, religious community, good country school in our area that still has a rifle club, that level of country. What broke it is that he decided to be distant and live his own life then I got disillusioned. All I want now is for him to find someone else and set me free with compensation. I’ll take a couple cats and a studio and …
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 08:35 PM
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plus the right one will be a good time intellectually too.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 08:25 PM
1

Good job 👏🏼 another convert to the bang king lifestyle lol
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 08:22 PM
1

If looks are more important to you than personality you’ll never be content lol has to be a bit of both. I personally wouldn’t date a guy that’s 40. 29 is my hard limit. That guy just somehow cheated the code and is the exception to the rule. But still a swipe left bc of age.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:39 PM
1

Ohh yes. Chads... are... I’ll think of some examples. I married a guy who looks like a cross between Starlord and Armie Hammer and Joe Dirt and he’s pretty awesome most of the time. But the prob with those guys is they play the field. So the smarter people go for guys like the hinge app review guy.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:29 PM
2

Oh the whole time I thought he was with Troy lol idk I just love him. Hilarious honest and cute.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 06:49 AM
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Are the hug groups like in fight club even real? Bc I’m going to one if I find it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:46 AM
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He’s not a chad though :) just a nice looking guy. Plus he’s ancient so that works against him but still he does slay.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:21 AM
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Well... maybe study kibbe (clothes for body type system) so you give off a tall vibe then leave that part blank
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:18 AM
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Yes they do. I love Danny Pudi. Perfect quote 🤣 he’s not bald but it’s the vibe. We’d still like him if he was
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:08 AM
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Most people aren’t criminals though. :) you just have to be careful til you know the person to make sure the kind good person vibe is true.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:15 AM
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no the personality is the most important. That’s why that one profile I linked is so perfect. He looks extremely kind. He also got scammed by his fiancé so he must be hurting, not a mean person, too trusting which is a good trait. But unfortunately his trust was broken. Kindness comes across in photos women can see it :) it’s a vibe. But also some of the most evil criminals can fake it so it’s smart to be cautious.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:12 AM
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I think it’s true, pics matter most. But also it proves a bunch of things on the apps is just fake, people being mean to each other for fun
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:12 AM
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Sorry lol I was just trying to describe his profile bc there’s so many it really doesn’t matter, to me anyway
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:10 AM
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hey now lol I’ve even watched Lord Bogs fishing videos
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 01:44 AM
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Was it that hot 6’2” guy in his 40s from yesterday lol with the dog and the amazing photos. This one. They had to lock the thread 🤣 https://reddit.com/r/hingeapp/s/EMJIsii1Ob Every guy, be that guy. I’m telling you. Height doesn’t matter just be like him.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 01:43 AM
1

Escape by Carolyn Jessup talks about that happening. The elders coming to visit families when their children were little to plan the future couples with significant age gaps. Wives get traded around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:07 PM
3

The ‘internet’s boyfriend’ lol I didn’t think I was that basic but truth hurts.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 12:05 AM
3

Comfort and care like a mom yes but not on the compelling side of parenthood. Like they have no adulting responsibilities other than the job they’d be doing as a single guy. What woman wants a man to do all her appointments, social schedules, holiday plans, setting up friend groups, medical attention, dentist appts, making sure all her family and friends obligations are met like extended family birthdays, throwing her parties for milestones, etc. that’s all kind of an adult thing that you take o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:48 PM
0

Sure thing 😊♥️
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 08:10 AM
2

The number one argument for there never being time machines is that we all exist. I’ll just say that 🤣 and leave it there. It’s a one time only path choice. With everyone being able to post their irl, instantaneously, no filters-reality; it’s more clear and obvious now than it’s ever been what those paths look like at their best and worst. That’s why people are opting out of kids. They’ve seen down the path further. Once you’ve done it you can’t go back but if people could have a do-over many pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:21 AM
1

I had no cavities before pregnancy. Weird but true. Thankfully the kids did get the good teeth gene. None of them have had cavities either. We don’t do sweet drinks very often other than milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:17 AM
0

Walk 30k steps a day, (it’s only ~20km) eat like he said lean protein and veggies only (emphasis on lean) no sugar or fruit in any form except maybe some blueberries, cherry tomatoes or avocado. Personally I would intermittent fast 48/1 omad. That’s just lunch every other day, but you’ll be living on your stored fat. And you HAVE TO sleep 8 hours a night no exceptions. Sleep is vital for recovery. It also helps to go off caffeine. And if you really want to bust it out do Cassidy Thompson’s condi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 01:06 AM
2

It’s true lol my parents could be stunt doubles for a certain Hollywood couple and I’m a potato 🤣 they’re both kind of narcissistic like OP’s dad. Goes with the territory I guess.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 11:13 PM
2

Thank you for the kind words 🤍 no one is perfect and I’m definitely not perfect either maybe that’s just life—-doing what we can, trying to be our best selves.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 05:42 AM
1

That would be me :) to someone, in the future. Not you of course just saying that yes we exist and are staying fit, so keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:47 AM
2

I’m not at your level yet but probably will be in 10 years ♥️ thanks for the warnings. This summer has been weird, reading this kind of thread and watching Gus Van Sant movies for the first time. Sort of a rite of passage into future divorced milf-land I guess 🤦🏼‍♀️ life is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:44 AM
2

respectfully disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:15 AM
0

gross lol I’m learning my limit is probably 29 and always will be. It’s a weird thing to learn your own limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:13 AM
2

No, I don’t it won’t change anything he is his own person. I wouldn’t mind having an open marriage since it’s open on his side, but he provides well and the kids are safe so as long as there’s no stds it’s fine. My heart is broken and I have no faith in relationships anymore but nothing will improve by a confrontation in fact it would just get worse. I don’t believe in controlling or coercing anyone, if it’s not already his character to be monogamous then nothing I do will matter except making h…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 02:30 PM
4

Science is advancing if you’re in decent shape. My OBGYN still wants me to have more kids. And they’re serious it’s not some joke. A couple nurses at the hospital suggested the best drs and our pediatrician did too. So yeah even 29 has like 10 years to go, if healthy and all systems good, not kidding.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 09:56 AM
1

That’s really sad.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 07:19 AM
1

I think this is why my hubby preemptively left me tbh. (He came back after a few months but I think he’s still going to go that’s why I read here, to try to understand his perspective) I got in shape bc I had zero appetite and bc I wanted to get back to biking and gymnastics again but he thought it was for other reasons. 😞
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 07:17 AM
2

Ikr. That’s a little strange.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 03:11 AM
10

girl learn your man’s native tongue. also I’ve been in a similar situation where the waitress clearly would’ve dragged my hubby to the supply closet. You just have to roll with it. She was really nice to me too lol so it was fine.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 10:02 PM
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you know the answer :) hobby clubs. It’s fun, and you meet your people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:56 PM
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he let himself go? It happens to guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:37 PM
1

It would be shy smiles, politeness everywhere, side eyes from guys, every moment would feel like people staring at you, surrounded by giggles, people getting hot and bothered (not in a good way), clumsy, potential jealous sabotage, autographs, and the ones trying to be cool too polite to actually carry on conversations like a normal human. Crazies running after you. People getting hurt running into things. Constantly visible never invisible. People taking pics through shop and restaurant windows…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 04:10 AM
1

Agree. It goes vice-versa too I need to get messy around my hubby more often lol so I get his wild side back 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 01:12 AM
3

Bring back the 80s 🥰 go for it. For real, no sarcasm.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 10:51 PM
1

I think 3 months tops with my hubby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:46 PM
1

Right. 💔 unfortunately but I do have hope that things will get better. Esp with scientific progress and robotics. Maybe if AI takes over it’ll destroy whatever gene it is that makes people torture each other. Just take that evil side of humanity right out and turn us all into quokka souls 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:31 PM
1

That is kind of a nightmare feeling, thinking someone else could abort a kid you wanted. The pods can’t come soon enough ngl. I honestly think the world would be better if wombs went extinct. lol so this is the future I see: there’ll be a few years where beautiful influencers will start selling their eggs, if they aren’t already on the DL. It’s the natural progression from bath water. Eventually humans won’t need surrogates or pregnancy. Then I think most will choose to be sterile. If not all XX…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:08 PM
1

It sort of sounds like you’ll be comparing yourself to his other options the rest of your life, through him or through social media. If you’re okay with that and you know you’re stunning enough in all the ways he wants, go for it I guess. Jealous petty women are not fun to deal with though. It just depends on whether you thrive on competition.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 05:13 AM
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I didn’t ask my hubby he just did it on his own. It’s been a weird year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:03 PM
3

I go back and forth all the time and read all the sides. I was raised in a conservative cult and tbh it wasn’t all bad. People are the same everywhere and structure is kinda good. As long as people can leave if there’s abuse. My definition of beta is just a follower. One time one of the husbands of the ladies in the church got drunk and came looking for a fight. Only two guys confronted him and calmed him down the rest shut themselves in a tiny room and prayed while their families were left sitt…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 06:03 PM
2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:37 AM
1

💙
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:36 AM
1

That’s sad. I’ll support whatever he chooses but I know he’ll find good people
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 03:35 AM
2

Yes don’t feel bad. Things will be better for all of you once you’re separate 💙 just maybe see if you can get full custody, if she’s really that broken. My marriage is kind of the same. Sometimes it really is best to just go on your own paths.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:30 AM
0

Lol it wasn’t too bad. Just barrel chested guys and a nude beach sort of middle aged ladies only from the back but I noped back out of that sub quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:15 AM
2

There’s videos of them in other subs I stumbled on one lol it’s about like the typical nude beach. Nothing like you’d want to see: ballet orgy. More like pillsbury seals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:22 PM
1

not always older. all the guys I’ve been with have been significantly younger. Except when I was also young, sweethearts with a boy one year older. First crush love, mutual but I was too tomboy and competitive so it crashed and burned instead of lasting but he was only 13-15 in that time frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:03 PM
1

Exactly, 150 was my sweet spot too. I kept going down and the random attention stopped lol idk why bc my face was rated ok. I’m sad though and going through rocky relationship that’s probably it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:52 PM
1

With kids, SAHM daycare is very expensive and there’s no guarantee it’ll be a net benefit. Plus there are ways to make an income from home. Esp considering kids pass around illness, who needs that. You can make sure they’re eating properly, and comfortable all the time. (Have everything they need, no group treatment) Without kids, work definitely.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 03:33 AM
4

Exactly why do a dinner with all that pressure to talk the whole time, just go somewhere fun together
/r/MensRights13/08/23 09:54 AM
1

totally.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 02:42 AM
-2

It sounds like he’s bored. Time to spice it up maybe take a trip and date again :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 02:16 AM
-3

See if you can find a first born/empath. They’re typically caregivers who respect emotion.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 07:16 PM
1

Yeah that is not good. The grabbing part. You’re right if things were reversed it would be serious. It’s scary to report someone much older and more powerful. My boss used to do things like that, this was my first job so it’s been a thousand years. He’d shove his hand into my hand with a bag like it was a condom, always making crude jokes, stand extremely close behind me and tried to get me high on weed by going on supply runs just the two of us locking down the windows of his truck. I didn’t ev…
/r/MensRights10/08/23 09:37 AM
0

You can learn from Anna Bey and https://youtube.com/@darkfemininity555
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 05:56 AM
2

That’s a lot of damage. Go for a fresh new hopeful guy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 10:38 PM
3

I totally agree. Make marriage obsolete. Such a scam keeping lawyers and cpas in business.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 01:22 PM
1

Helps. Requiring proof of infidelity or other abuse would be a nightmare opening a can of worms for other real or exaggerated charges on either side.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 01:20 PM
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Same. I already have mine planned. I like easy eye contact though, 6ft+ is too tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:53 PM
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Yes move on if he was toxic and brought out the worst in you. Be honest with yourself about both of your flaws. No one will ever be perfect. But if you have good chemistry, send him this post and see what his response is. Then go from there. Those shared years together if they were good are worth a lot. That’s how lifetimes together work, ups and downs, learning, respect. But only if there are no huge red flags and only if you respect him and his family enough to be together for decades.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/23 03:37 PM
3

Exactly
/r/MensRights05/08/23 09:47 PM
4

That’s definitely not true. There were loads of great jobs for women in the 70s. But this is about the 90s.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 09:45 PM
3

🍻
/r/MensRights05/08/23 09:43 PM
1

This is only for you late hotel but see if you can find a copy of the livestream Becky-fishing that Lord Bog did it was hilarious. He rotates it in and out of being public, you never know. It’s not on his yt or rumble at the moment but it’s kind of funny. Dozens and dozens of matches like 500 an hour for his fake AI profile. Craziness. And all the guys are ugly it’s so wild. It’s a little bit mean so he unlists it most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:24 AM
4

omg
/r/MensRights02/08/23 05:13 AM
2

It’s a joke lol like raccoons love trash. The song is actually cute :)
/r/MensRights31/07/23 04:38 PM
1

ikr 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/MensRights31/07/23 06:45 AM
4

lol truth
/r/MensRights31/07/23 06:44 AM
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“Men are trash... And you’re a raccoon” 💀 https://youtu.be/5ibhWobOTOw
/r/MensRights31/07/23 06:44 AM
4

The selective service requirement needs to go the way of the dodo. Or barring that, the Israeli thing of community service for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:37 AM
3

Probably depends on whether the marriage was arranged or not. I really doubt most religious communities with virgin arranged marriages are participating in any online polls. But if the lady really liked the guy, I can see it. Like Destiny said, trad sahm can be the happiest or the most hellish. Depending on circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:15 AM
2

lol 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:06 AM
2

Agree, it’s the type of profile. When I was on the apps I got only serious guys looking for a wife and a couple of them were kind of blunt asking qualifying questions like they were in a hurry. It wasn’t very romantic. For context I wore pink, long hair, no glasses, but one pic was in overalls 🤦🏼‍♀️ and one was sitting on my deck surrounded by my houseplants. Also a very Christian profile. Zero innuendos and no explicit dms. One guy ended things after he gave me an ultimatum to commit to only hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:04 AM
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Ikr I’m over in hingeapp bumble and tinder the last couple of weeks just to see what things are like and it’s bruuutal. Rather be single forever thanks. Of course those are the guys who want help so probably not the best out there. But still. Completely zapped my will to even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:43 AM
1

lol I like your brand of evil
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:30 AM
1

I’m using up extra fat with autophagy, that’s how I know it’s safe, plus I monitor my intake with a food scale. I supplement an organic greens protein mix, whole food vegan women’s supplement, four egg yolks in water with beet root and chlorella, and I use butter and full fat steak :) the calories are easily 2000-2500, just a little extra cream or butter or olive oil will get you there. My main source of calcium is broccoli and kale bc I’m dairy free other than the butter and steak, gluten free,…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 03:39 AM
1

Not real life, like, at all. I saw some Ralph Lauren looking guy the other day dusting it up in an old 80s Ford with his wife and kids. They were obviously old money living the blue collar experience for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:46 AM
2

Awesome advice. I really like Melissa Neill too for bodybuilding and lifting tips. I personally do 48/1 and that’s recommended for pre-diabetic (I’m not and never have been, but that conquers insulin issues for those who are, and otherwise healthy). Around cycles though it’s closer to 24/1. The Ones Ready and Valkyrie ladies are also epic for military level training that accommodates 28-day hormone fluctuations.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 03:09 AM
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Try out THM :) Trim Healthy Mom. ...they sell a lot of the keto flours which can get pricey and you can get them cheaper, but the ideas are awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 03:04 AM
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Just be yourself. You can’t start a relationship behind a front. Esp in the south. I think it’s normal though to discuss ‘where do you see yourself in 5 years’ type things. I’ve had two guys serious about me in the south and both were on this super blunt lay it all out there track, the first one ended bc he was acting like it was a done deal just a few months in like we were already locked in and I was like wait I don’t even know your personality. So be sure you know the guy and DEFINITELY get t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/23 10:25 PM
6

Exactly. It was probably a little bit of culture clash.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/23 10:18 PM
2

He probably didn’t reject you if he was already talking like that, it was probably his mama and siblings who shot it down. Mine were brutal to my hubby even though they accepted him they were still suspicious bc he’s from the north.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/23 10:16 PM
0

"I love you, I love spending time with you and making you happy, and I want this to be forever." Yeah this is how it should be. Preach :) this is why Jeff Bezos married an older woman, this is the whole premise for all true love and the reason I believe in freedom between consenting adults in that aspect. One of my favorite movies is My Own Private Idaho and also Rebel Without a Cause for the same reasons. Soul ties.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 03:43 PM
2

Exactly, it’s super retro. And shows respect for her family.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 12:08 AM
2

Make it simple and quick, give three options and let him choose which one he likes best. Teamwork. 👍🏼
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 12:06 AM
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♥️♥️♥️ win win :) Letting them resolve things themselves esp when you stay calm is such a good feeling. Congrats
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 12:21 PM
2

Exactly it’s all about the day too, if everyone’s tired and cranky better to just play it cool. You have a sweet loving heart. 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 12:48 PM
2

Mine’s like that too, hates to have judgement calls questioned in public esp in a guy type setting like sports. It’s understandable somewhat. I just don’t ever bring things up unless it’s necessary. Yes both partners have a voice but you have to pick your battles. Like in that instance I’d have just moved the eggs back when everyone was busy elsewhere nbd. Mine reciprocates the low conflict agreement by not doing things that irritate me either like scrunching water bottles, I hate that sound lol…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 10:17 AM
1

https://youtu.be/u2qHZlQljc0 ♥️
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 08:36 PM
2

Idk maybe I’m super clueless but I’ve always gone around in life feeling like I’m on the same level as guys. Just another guy. I grew up around cars and auto shops and mowed lawns and babysat for $. Homeschooled but no guys pursued me as a kid, except for the obligatory creepy old man in his 30s-50s trying to be pervy. Recently I only started getting ignored by male store clerks when I got into shape. It doesn’t make sense. Wheat rated me a 7 so not objectively ugly, I guess. My hubby and two ot…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 09:13 AM
1

Yes the difference is being competitive vs supportive. Team player vs adversary.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 06:47 AM
2

You can be feminine doing anything. Study female action heroines (the ones guys love) this’ll be like black widow Angelina Jolie Monica bellucci hailee steinfield Alicia Vikander. Get thin and do things gently. There’s never a reason to be masculine doing anything. Competent and skilled doesn’t mean masculine, the cut off is when you’re in competition with everyone as if you have anything to prove vs supportive.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 06:45 AM
1

Sarah Dawn on YouTube. She’s got brothers and a ton of decent guy followers she could hook you up.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 08:38 PM
7

It has its place, inside a persons heart. But religion stops there too imo. Completely personal.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 08:58 PM
7

Take things slow and it’s okay if it isn’t that great the first few times. Also if your partner ever tries to pressure you run, they aren’t worth continuing with. Bring your own protection and practice asking out loud for them to use it so you are comfortable saying it. ♥️
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/23 05:27 AM
2

I know right? But cheaper than divorce lol and a lot of that can be digital or remote so pretty good roi
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/22 12:03 AM
3

You should hire a PA :) someone who will follow orders and understands they only get paid if things get done and get done well. Probably a woman of your own generation/income background/religion bc then fewer things will have to be explained. No fighting, no stress, all things handled. The older I get the more I understand it’s good sense to delegate things to the right people and let go of unrealistic expectations of the wrong person for the job. Kinda sounds like your hubby, though intelligent…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/22 10:58 PM
3

People marry because of how their partner makes them feel. Looks are part of it. If you’re proud to be seen with someone that contributes to commitment. But it’s also a general feeling which can be maintained or lost over time, beyond simply appearance.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 08:24 AM
3

It might help to read some of the other side: people who are struggling with the life you dream about. It can give you balance, not bitterness but just a realistic outlook. And, honestly a woman’s best most loving and appreciative friend is a pet, truly. Try adopting a dog :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 03:22 AM
1

Ikr 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 04:42 AM
1

The best cure for that feeling aside from being demanding which I never want to do is to treat yo self :) might mean a long bath, getting a new book, letting some unimportant thing slide to just sit or buying yourself a small treat. Just do something as a reward for what feels like an unfair workload. It is true that a happy guy is a helpful guy and like with anything someone forced to do anything will start resenting and hating. I get through a lot of the mundane woman’s work crap by visualizin…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/22 02:05 PM
6

Exactly, idk why it’s even called the male gaze when everyone appreciates beauty and kindness. I’m as beautiful as possible and in shape for myself lol, and if my hubby is happy too that’s a bonus.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 05:51 PM
1

Yep. The ol’ copper wire out of pennies routine lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/22 07:27 AM
10

Thus is one of those things where preparing is so necessary but daunting. How should a wife cope financially and mentally.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 05:28 PM
14

Customer service job?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 06:40 PM
13

I did it accidentally by taking photos with my plants and roadside garden stand with baked goods lol it was just the stuff I was doing for hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 02:17 AM
3

When forced positivity just doesn’t cut it anymore, another way to deal with limitations is by just being thankful that things aren’t worse case possible in the supposed greener pastures of whatever I think I’m missing out on. It can get you through ❤️ til you feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/22 10:50 PM
2

Boden Travelsmith
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 03:47 AM
1

Get a gorgeous real bouquet and dry it in silicone beads. The kind people use to dry out phones. They’re about $30 for a huge bag at craft stores. Or a living plant if you enjoy the upkeep. Bonsai trees are about the same price as a good bouquet.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 12:53 PM
13

Just look around at couples. There’s the reality :) wayyyy more important things than height.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/22 09:21 PM
2

Like imo loud bossy Jillian type yelling and throwing down maybe not but being strong is definitely a good thing. I do ballet and body weight but everyone is different so just do what you enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 09:33 PM
1

Oh my have you heard the tragedy of Darth Murph? And after that check out Rekieta Law’s several videos on it all. it. is. hilarious.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 03:03 AM
4

Not symmetrical. But it shouldn’t matter what one actress on one show looks like, for one small span of time. If you want to be happy you have to be happy for yourself. Your significant other can be attracted to lots of different looks. What matters in real life is your personality and your individual relationship. You’ll only burn yourself out comparing to highly edited versions of people who have lifestyles completely removed from what’s typical.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 08:46 PM
3

I never heard of her... (edited out some opinions lol)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 07:33 PM
3

Would you want your hubby to be jealous of your favorite actor or musician? Kind of silly tbh lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 07:21 PM
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