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We sidestepped the entire naming after a relative issue by using his initials (which are same as his dad's). We felt this was a way to create our own naming tradition while appeasing any potential family issues. You could offer to use his mom's initials (or dad's if a boy). This allows monogrammed items to be passed down and creates a connection while creating a unique identity. My own middle name is a version of my grandmother's so that might be an option too. Sit down and tell your husband how…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 04:40 AM
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Being a stay at home mom is no more a job than being a father and provider in of itself is a job. You are part of a whole, a family unit. In our home we have only three rules. Rule number one is "Be part of the family" (rules two and three cover other basic concepts). Being part of a family means that you do your part not because you get an allowance or praise, you do your part because it needs to be done. Everyone in our home has run a dishwasher, pulled weeds, swapped laundry, walked the dog j…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 06:28 AM
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"if they can’t make small decisions, how can they be relied upon to make larger ones" Your comment here is something I wish to remark upon. Please do realize that my perspective is that of an older woman who has been married over twenty years and been with my partner for over twenty-five. Making choices does not conflict with being feminine. Your permanent partner should create a framework for you to live within. These are the large life choices. You should have a voice and input, but he ultimat…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 10:11 PM
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Hi there; came from a difficult upbringing myself. It is a bit of a challenge to overcome a primary bond's (parent or whomever raises you) damaging actions. So, I really "get" it. Secondly, my husband is gone a lot. This means I have to "switch" modes in a manner of speaking. Am different when he is away versus when he is at home. First off, you need to figure out when to push back, to pick your battles. If you have been bullied for a long time and are now just finding your voice, you will have …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 04:24 PM
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My own personal experience is that I read The Surrendered Wife and began to shift my perspective quite some time before my husband and I ever discussed it. Before we were married we discussed the dynamic we wanted; a traditional old-fashion home. Putting that into practice was a lot more difficult than imagined. The early years of our marriage were such a power struggle. When I found myself taking him to task for loading the dishwasher wrong (instead of thanking him for helping me) I knew I was …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/15 05:43 PM
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I have this book. It covers a lot of different techniques. A few different approaches to enjoying it (and pardon my being blunt here please); one is to use a toy or manual stimulation of some sort when you give oral. The purpose of this is to "train" your body to associate physical pleasure from this act. Secondly, spend some time with your SO really getting to know his penis. There are certain areas that are more sensitive than others. Do a question and answer session with him where you lick or…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 02:58 PM
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Marriage is a contract between two people. First you need to identify why you want to get married. Secondly what benefits marriage gives you. With regard to benefits, the obvious is tax ones. Most couples do gain a tax advantage by filing as a couple. Not sure if you plan to have kids. For me personally I would not have kids with someone unless I was married to them. That is my deal breaker, you need to figure out yours (and why it is a deal breaker). Some lesser thought of marital advantages ar…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 06:23 PM
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Thank you. He's been retired for a few years now, but still "deploys" for long periods of time (he just left again on a 12+ mo situation). I know for some people daily contact is the thing and it works for them. For me, because he is in and out a lot it is just easier to get into my groove. His job is such that daily contact never was an option. Heck, when we first met it was snail mail and landline calls. Those eight years will zoom by for you guys!! After retirement life gets really interestin…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 03:44 PM
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Hi there. Been married almost twenty years this May. My husband and I met while he was active duty. He's retired now and travels a lot for work is gone for 1-18 mo at a time. First off, these are my experiences. So mileage may vary for you. Daily contact is a no. I realize that this seem counter-intuitive, especially when you are missing someone, but it actually makes things worse. Daily contact doesn't give either of you a chance to settle in and get into a routine. My husband needs his head in…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 03:22 PM
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Oh, I like that, girls puff!! Am going to use that one :-) It is funny in our home the few times I have farted, the boys totally giggle and tease me about it because it rarely happens (and I deny it). I try to be fun about setting a good example for them. Cannot imagine discussing poop at work. What a strange world we live in. Have an awesome weekend!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:55 PM
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I do not understand the need to act like a man in front of your partner. In our home I deny, deny, deny lol Have explained to my husband and boys that girls don't fart, we simply have excessive body winds on occasion (yes they really know I have body functions). My boys are older and my eldest the other day was commenting on how gross some of the girls are at his school burping and such in a competition. And to be funny Why Girls Don't fart My stepfather gave me great advice when I was a young g…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 06:44 PM
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That is a considerable time to be apart, but it isn't an insurmountable obstacle. Would you be able to travel/meet every couple of months? My husband has taken positions for extended periods of time and a visitation schedule has helped a lot. Planned time together is important. Also managing your life while apart (not expecting a constant stream of text/skype calls) is important. I have a state of the household email that goes out once a week. We video talk every two weeks. This allows each of u…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 09:45 PM
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You are 26; have you considered putting your education on hold? One thing to consider is having children. If you plan on having them will you continue to work (or have full-time work)? My husband is retired military and now does contract work all over the world. Sometimes we move with him and other times we (the boys and I) stay put while he is away for months at a time. When we were dating there was a serious talk regarding whose career would take precedence. We also discussed separations and c…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 08:41 PM
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I'm married (coming up on twenty years in a couple months), and my husband was military so a lot of time apart. There comes a time in all relationships where one of you will say the sky is green and the other will say purple. It is important that your partner hears what you have to say. However, you have to decide who ultimately is captain. Who is the person who will be the final say in the relationship. A relationship will not work if there is a power struggle. Period. You have to trust him to …
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 05:47 PM
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