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| 3 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age? | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | kittyxdaddy | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 07:23 PM |
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| 2 | “Do women like muscles?”Yes, you are right, I did get attention before as well, but it was less. I did date a couple of guys who weren't creeps, but all of my female friends are left with the impression that I'm the girl in the group that attracts creeps. Now, partially because I have changed how I look, I get more glances from random guys on a daily basis. But I have also learned how to drop hints to guys that I feel interested in - I've learned how to flirt as a woman and that gets me the guy I want almost every time… | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | “Do women like muscles?”It's normal to feel a bit ehh when rejected. I just try to switch my thoughts to, "hey, if they turn you down or are not contacting you much/putting enough effort, then they don't have the capacity or wish to meet your needs, so that means they're not your person, just move on". More like this has nothing to do with me and more to do with their compatibility WITH ME. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?I spoke about this with my therapist at length and she told me that after knowing me for 4 years already, she believes that I'm more suitable with slightly older guys. We discussed why dating older guys bothers me and I think I've been feeling more relaxed about that now. We also talked about the fact that many ambitious guys my age would right now be detached from girls, and I think she is right. A guy my age asked me out in April, saying we should meet in May, and as of now it's already June a… | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 01:28 PM |
| 6 | “Do women like muscles?”See, I totally get that. I used to have low self esteem and I thought I'm not really very pretty. I started working out and I'm in a really good shape right now (still have work to do, because I always strive for more, but I look the best I ever have). I'm starting to realize that I'm actually very pretty and it was just my mindset that made me think I'm not. But it wasn't my looks that started getting me dates - it was a change in my mindset, awareness and (the female version of) game. 2-3 mont… | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 08:06 AM |
| 20 | “Do women like muscles?”Mindset, energy, communication. I'm a woman in my early 20s and I really don't like too much muscle. Some muscle is nice, of course, but I DEFINITELY wouldn't go for aquaman. Some of my female friends have even told me that they don't like defined abs. I know toned guys that are immature and party animals. Despite being attractive physically, I would never go out with them, because they don't meet other requirements I care more about. I also know some introverted guys that decided to work out in… | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?What's a right way? | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?Well yeah I don't mean dating 23 exactly but what about 25-28? I feel like that's a pretty good age gap | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?Oblivious or not, I think if they felt attracted to me, they'd express it. I try to be as welcoming as possible and supportive of anything that can be interpreted as flirting. I am afraid that if I also am aggressive with flirting, that'd intimidate them even more and make them feel even less manly and competent | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?Thank you for the suggestion! Sounds like a great one! | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?I will pm you. | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?I meant gaining dating experience on my side. So far the emotional baggage and prejudice of my older partners has kind of made their relationship/sexual experience pointless.... | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?Honestly I want a relationship but I'm fine with casual dating too. I want experience too | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet / get interest from guys my age?It's more like... I'm starting to feel from what's happened to me so far that often the past experiences of older guys (or should I say the pain and emotional baggage from past relationships?) affect the way they see and communicate with me. It's making me a bit resentful and prejudiced - if they are in their 30s and single, they must have emotional baggage, the weight of which I would feel soon, or they must not be serious enough (just want sex with a young woman). (you can check my post histor… | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | NOT ALL DATING ADVICE FROM ONLINE IS HELPFUL (including from me)Just be yourself is probably the worst dating advice someone could give or come across. That destroys ANY space for growing and learning how to communicate better or generally improve yourself. It's so vague that everyone takes it the way they were already biased to. Also, are you the same person with everyone around you? Imagine treating a potential gf like you treat your mom or sister. Or your guy buddies. Yes, ridiculous. On top of that, men's and women's minds don't work the same. We are bio… | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 12:18 PM |
| 2 | I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful.Yes! I would've missed out on this, had you not reposted. And I'm definitely going to benefit from your post. So yes. Thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 6 | I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful.Hey, this is my first time seeing this as well and I wouldn't have if you hadn't posted it again, so it's working! | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 01:42 AM |
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