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| 2 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Russian women are actually fighting but they're fighting against the batshittery and are getting real sentences. Women get lighter sentences in Russia all the time, especially if they're mothers, but it doesn't work if the case is political. There are women who sign contracts with the military but they do it for the money not because of some patriotism or propaganda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 06:40 AM |
| 4 | Let's make a list of content creators that make fun of male issues.Any objections? I really loved her Twilight video even though it's mostly abot women. For example, she makes a point that incels' need to feel loved and desired is expressed via disgust to sex work because in heteronormative society it's men who are expected to chase and love. It gave me a new perspective on a somewhat memey quote «I need sex, at any cost but free of charge» by quite famous Russian incel Alexey Podnebesny. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/25 10:01 AM |
| -1 | Let's make a list of content creators that make fun of male issues.I'd recommend Kidology, Tara Mooknee and Contrapoints to anyone who wants some feminist perspective that doesn't promote misandry. (At least from what I could see.) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?i hope young men start to think different.... What do you mean? Can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?I can't really debate the sources right now since most links seem blocked in my country (Russia) and I'm too lazy to use vpn. Most of the sources I could find state that the difference is 15-20x but maybe these are just averages, okay. It's not like I don't believe that testosterone impacts libido. It surely does in some way and our culture, all the gender stuff, stereotypes and anecdotal experience reflect it. But it doesn't have to stay this way, right? This may be a bit more nuanced but I als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 10:31 PM |
| -1 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?„From male puberty onward, the sex difference in athletic performance emerges as circulating testosterone concentrations rise as the testes produce 30 times more testosterone than before puberty, resulting in men having 15- to 20-fold greater circulating testosterone than children or women at any age” first non featured link on google search Your figures are kinda weird, even for the highest men's t level to the lowest women's t level. And even then, I'd argue that male sexuality is much more th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?males have on average 10x-60x more testosterone than females. This definitely impacts differences in libido and thus the differences in compulsive desire you’re noticing. Is it really a libido difference? All I've heard about testosterone (notably from Robert Sapolsky) makes me believe that it's more about compulsive (and impulsive?) behaviour in general. So maybe it's more like differences in self-control result in higher perceived libido for men? Edit: Testosterone level differences between me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 09:38 PM |
| 3 | How would you do better if you were a manIt's really pointless to argue who has it better. By quite the same logic male privilege is not really a privilege, it's just different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men?It may be about these conservative women that believe in strict gender roles i.e. men should be persistent and women should play hard to get. And heck, in some countries that's a pretty significant cohort of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Feminism was illogical at the start. It was about women's equal rights, which is a contradiction. Change this view.Gender roles, masculine/feminine boxes with qualities attributed to them are something more rigid than being smart or dumb. But i understand that there is (or was) a reason for that. And most of that reason, i believe, is in biology. Still it doesn't have to be this way. And as a materialist i think that the reasons why we would change it are also biological, it's just another part of our biology that we may reevaluate based on what we know about ourselves and the world around us. Someday in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Feminism was illogical at the start. It was about women's equal rights, which is a contradiction. Change this view.Now, look, someone is going to jump down my throat about discrimination but in reality, you can have two boxes that people put things in without those boxes being determinative. Just because parenting is associated with femininity doesn’t mean all women are built for it Just because height and strength are associated with masculinity doesn’t mean all men are built that way I hope that it wont be seen as jumping down your throat but i think putting people (maybe even peoples' qualities, like femi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:02 AM |
| 9 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themIn this case, most of the time, she is just leading him in to get services/attention Isn't this the whole difference between friendzone and friendship? If you allow the girl to use (abuse?) your interest and desire to form a meaningful (platonic?) relationship then that's partially on you too but she's also not (or shouldn't be, if that's your point?) getting 'the good role' in this scenario. Would you even want to date a girl like that yourself? If not then don't make friends with her either. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?I understand your yearning to be loved and desired sexually but i think you still wouldn't like to get raped. Even if you have fantasies about it or could somehow rationalize it this way in case it'd happen. It's still a traumatizing experience, a violation of very serious boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themMaybe you're somehow finding only women who are sucked into weird gender wars then? I'm actually not in dating right now (because i feel like I'm a bit young for it and also have hurdles like being at risk to be drafted in a country that's currently at war) but i have this fear that when i will start actively pursuing romantic relationships i will only find this type of traumatized (radicalized, hetero-pessimistic?) girls. Because i think that i will have more trouble dating conservative or apol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themI'm kinda perplexed, why did they get jealous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Can we agree on something to start building bridges over growing chasm?Already joined all three of these subs but again big thank you for your replies and your contentiousness in regard to these issues😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?Once you feel love/valuable (in the form of sexual intercourse) from/by someone who you can trust then you will probably start to love/value yourself too? Would you then allow someone to rape the person you love? Would you allow to rape yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:04 PM |
| 6 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?That's actually what i worry about. Population will decline and with it will decline/decay not just economy but institutions like democracy and science. I'm generally not pessimistic but this is a recurrent thought of mine, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Can we agree on something to start building bridges over growing chasm?After reading your comments here i thought that i really appreciate your input. Can i ask you for some links and sources and on feminism and equality that you'd recommend? Some books, YT channels? Your DMs are closed so here i am asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 09:42 PM |
| 5 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themThe obsessive girl meme actually represents this ick some men may feel. But i cannot remember any instances of men expressing it. And men do express their thoughts and feelings on the internet. If a girl approaches me i may feel some disbelief and overall flattered but never would that be an ick, unless she crosses personal boundaries. Edit: overly attached girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Need to Recalibrate Their Sex Drive: Breaking Free from the Skewed Game of ValidationIs male sex drive that different? To what extent is it determined by biology and to what extent is it socialization? Asking as a 20 years old guy who struggled (and probably still struggles) with porn, maybe there are some bad 'common sense' ideas about male sexuality that hurt men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 06:54 PM |
| 15 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsIncels despise Andrew Tate, don't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:28 AM |
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