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This is like his 'Confrontational Chicken Lady' bit - it rails the shit out of her for trying to heckle him, hitting on her at the same time and explaining to the crowd along the way how you tease the shit out of a woman then end up fucking her. Comedy gold, red pill truth.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 03:37 PM
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Do it, but get into a place that does cocktails.. don't do what I did and waste a summer in a beer/slot machine/horse racing pub. Bartenders across the road with the cocktails were slaying all the vacationing pussy.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:42 AM
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Sorry bro. This isn't useful. Well, actually, it really, really is. But it's just so fucking funny to be of more use than side-splitting hilarity in the near future. This shit is gold. Anything with screenshots of lewd txt wins is auto-gold.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 06:49 AM
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AskTRP. Also the military is gonna make a man of him, hopefully he'll harden up some around the boys. I spent my late 20's through to a few years back chasing that hardening in rough industries.. he'll already be half way there by the end of boot camp.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 06:33 AM
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I'm loath to come across as preachy, since I tend to need 10 words when 2 will suffice, but whatever. I've followed it since I first read the Satanic Bible at 18 (36 now), and I've found it far more suitable as a 'code' to live by in this day and age than any other religion or philosophy I've come across. It's essentially a more 'focused' atheism, with it's own set of morals and mindset, rather than traditional atheism which is more freestyle (for lack of a better word) and lacking in structure.…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 03:31 PM
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Pick up a copy of the Satanic Bible by Anton LaVey. Perfect for where you're at now. It'll kill you figuratively and recreate you as your own god.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 02:33 PM
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No idea if this translates to actual results, but the premise is epic. It's also one of those posts that a Femnazi is likely to pick up and take back to the heard, make viral and scream to the heavens about.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:47 PM
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And start watching videos like this
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 04:38 AM
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Chad: "Come back to my place, I want to show you my amazing vinyl collection." --------------- NEXT DAY: Slut: "I don't know how it happened Karen, I swear - we went back to his place, I just really wanted to see the vinyl collection he was telling me about. Next thing I know, cum is dripping out of my ears and nose!
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 08:29 AM
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Perfect, thanks bro. Googling now.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 04:03 AM
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It's just clicked in my head as to why women will want to switch from phone to in person when a conversation turns to a fight and they feel like they're about to get dropped. Upvoted. This was a bloody eye-opener.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 06:45 AM
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Yeeeeah.. but nah. Trust, but verify.. otherwise you're liable to be the guy that falls for recharging your iPhone in the microwave.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 05:29 AM
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Do you have any more information about the jaw & tongue exercise? Does it have a name I can search? Interested in reading a bit more about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:01 PM
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Throw in a Mrs. Stinsfire and you'll be worshipped by men worldwide.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:34 PM
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This is a field report, not RP theory.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:33 PM
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I think what rpsheepdog is getting at is that you need a bit of work on spelling and formatting. ie. she was free and I did not want to go to a bar on a to game whatever goes out on a Tuesday night. Good story, good message, just need to put a bit more time into making it readable. I fucking adore the idea that if shit goes sideways or something interesting comes up, I can split in two minutes flat.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 06:58 PM
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There's a fair bit of history here.. what's changed is your RP awareness. Seems like the ONLY thing you can do is stick to your guns, hold frame, let the shit shake out and fall where it may. If that means you regain her respect, that's great. If not, you need to be working on an exit strategy.. playing all the cards you need so that the divorce/child custody hearings don't completely go against you. If it comes to that, the best advice I was given (and followed) was to write as much down as pos…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 02:36 PM
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If you can still get it where you are, Vat 69 is a good blended scotch for a fair price. For a bit more $, you can't go wrong with Glenmorangie.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 02:22 PM
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Definitely. I've read a fair bit in my 37 years, my only shortfall would be a lack of the classics, and more 'manual' type books that you can learn from (like most of the books on the RP Book List). So I tend to naturally use more exotic words where I find a use for them. What I've found is that if you do that naturally, rather than looking for more intelligent words then steering a conversation in a direction where you can use them, they're powerful. But it has to just roll off the tongue like …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 11:34 PM
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I'd be really interested to read a full post on Point 6 - your journey. Where you were before TRP, what you did, what you read, how you went from point beta to point alpha. Also keen to see how you incorporate spiritually and (I'm assuming based on your Jesus comments) Christian beliefs into this. I'm religiously Atheist and philosophically Satanist, so I'm interested to see how all the cables hook up to make the TRP machine work from the Christian perspective. Excellent post bro.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 11:30 AM
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Stop pre-apologizing throughout all your post dude, you did great. I'd wager better than 90% of guys here who never get this far. Good job, now build on it! And don't be afraid to post when you bomb on a date, that's just as education, if not more.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 03:19 AM
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It's not a bad idea to know your drugs, too. That's make for a useful post. I found Prozac killed my ability to cum, got real awkward when I started taking it in the middle of a relationship
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 06:35 AM
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It's not his fault, spell check should have corrected his grammar and punctuation.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 02:55 PM
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This is incel shit. Society doesn't hand you success like a government handout.. that's like saying that in the Stone Age, every caveman from the prime Alpha to the lowliest Beta was assigned a cavewoman and they all lived happily ever after. Your CEO of the big company was tasked with improving the company - when profits are way down, that's his fault. This recently happened to the CEO at the company I left 2 months ago. I could have listed 20 things he did wrong within his first month, well be…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 02:54 PM
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New to MTRP.. can't find the meaning of OI anywhere. What does that stand for?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/18 10:16 AM
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This is a pretty good post to measure up where you're at. I wouldn't have handled it quite as cool, and I definitely handled situations like this in the past like a little bitch before I found TRP.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 03:32 AM
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At least I can know I lay pipe against pro athlete competition. When this is the most important lesson you take away from finding out your smokin' girl is possibly getting a bit elsewhere, you're doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 03:30 AM
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Great post, we need more of this.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 03:24 AM
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Correct. Going back to early civilized towns where 'town sluts' were a feature, the awareness of disease and "shaming" weren't a biological feature, they were a social one.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 03:23 AM
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So proud of the women in my country right now. This is the face of the decline I'm enjoying.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 09:27 AM
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If you hate the 9-5 and you're not on track to get out of it by becoming self employed, you need to work your way toward something you do enjoy. Trust me, it's out there. I fucking love my job. The guys I work with are funny as hell, the work is great, I love the company. I'm even passively getting in shape just from the work. But it took several career and company changes over 18-20 years to land it, and until now I thought my situation was a pipe dream. And now that I'm here, I'm looking at st…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 04:52 PM
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Great FR, the firetruck opener is solid gold. Any tips on spotting Dark Triad women?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 04:34 AM
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You're infallibly correct. Everybody will now fall in line with your wishes immediately, and all TRP posts will be updates by original posters to reflect this.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/18 11:13 PM
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Game isn't what you're working on in Monk Mode, for the most part. Sure, you can work on that in tandem with all the other self improvement, but Monk Mode is about making yourself, as LiveAFTSOV said in his Monk Mode video, a person worth giving a fuck about. It's about building a proper foundation as a man. The point you're trying to make is against people staying in monk mode as a self-defeating excuse not to tackle their lack of social intelligence in due time. That's fine. But monk mode is t…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 08:27 PM
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Some people need the space away from everything to get their head straight - myself included. You sound like someone who thrives with people around him. The main point of your post could possibly come down to an introverted VS extroverted approach to self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 06:52 PM
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It's cool bro, I don't exclaim myself very often either.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 02:08 AM
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Same boat. It's generally reversible, and easier for men than women to reverse IIRC. Guys at work who've got it say it's no major deal, just ball pain - most came back to work the next day. Costs a couple of hundred at the most in my country.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 06:33 PM
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I know.. and we can also piss over brick walls. It's all so very fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 04:04 AM
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This will be my focus for the upcoming week, alongside saying sorry for shit I don't need to apologize for. Cheers for the post, OP.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 05:35 PM
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OP, check out a band called The Rules - they have really awesome lyrics. Track 6 on their latest album is killer, I think it's called No examples from fiction or lyrics.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 07:40 AM
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Haha bro, I applaud you getting in the protein and getting them gains, but please stop saying " i literally dont use jelly" followed by "one small drop of jelly".
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 05:05 AM
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Fortunately you (hopefully) never got hooked on MMOs. I wasn't a 'worst-case' in my 20's, but I'd have around 2000 hours in Lord Of The Rings Online and another 1000 in Guild Wars 2. That's about 1/3rd of an entire fucking year.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 02:30 PM
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15 bucks? I'd pay that shit weekly as an insurance policy, just for a number I can give out to a drama-prone bitch who needs to win. Here, woman, call this number and speak to my people.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:02 AM
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You sure you were 4% dude? That's pretty fucking low.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 04:04 AM
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Aw cute, OP thinks men will be allowed positions of power in 30 years.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 03:51 AM
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I'd be more impressed if you didn't even need to leave the hot tub.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:30 PM
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// strong sexual bonds and relationships people had prior to the sexual revolution. Did they, though? Just because women couldn't fuck around and swing branches as easily doesn't mean they weren't thinking about it. Women were women before the sexual revolution.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 08:48 AM
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I'm laughing right now. No idea how much frame or game you actually have, but you seem to have had the typical BP to RP transformation, including break-up, all within 6 months and possibly before you're able to legally drink. We old bastards are all glad we found TRP, but we'd be a whole lot more glad if we hadn't wasted a few decades getting here.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 09:39 PM
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Yep. If you keep failing to set boundaries with people, then eventually you'll have no boundaries and become a doormat. OP in the other thread should have told the guy, as he let him have his toy back, that he needs to mark his bench if he's using it, otherwise it's just a bench and bar that some guy is finished with. This situation might seem like 'nothing' in the gym, but if you start doing this where I work, you'll end up the weak little guy that gets pushed around by everyone in the room, ta…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 07:52 PM
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The old adage holds up, "the harder you try to get girls, the fewer you actually fuck. If you stop trying, it's suddenly easy". I can confirm this. I got laid three times as much in my second year, when I proclaimed that I was going to stay at home, knuckle down and focus on course work rather than partying every night.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 10:25 PM
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My father married my mother and my brother Not sure if something got lost in translation, but you might not want to phrase this in that particular way. I know that a steady sea never made a skilled sailor. Great saying, I love this. Glad you're not angry about your previous LTR. That indicates that you're no longer putting women on a pedestal, or are to a much lesser degree. Since becoming RP-aware I'm actually thankful for all of my failed relationships, since they were excellent lessons I can …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 08:34 PM
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In your particular situation it sounds like you could use some stoicism, particularly Negative Visualization. Buy or download a copy of 'A Guide To The Good Life' by William B. Irving. You have all the physical and mental tools to fix what you don't like about your situation, in particular you've identified that your problem is conversation. So go and fix that. You're also in a much more privileged situation than many here - if you don't see that now, you will once you read the book above and st…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 08:13 PM
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Fair call here.. unfortunately there's no way out of my situation (2 jobs) without leaving - just how it is. I've tried, laid the ultimatum down the previous night with management, no movement, so I'm leaving. Unfortunately I'm still left to deal with Bitch, who refuses to take on any extra burden while a lot of the rest of us do. On the fight thing, that's just how things are at this place, right or wrong. A lot of interpersonal differences have been settled this way. So long as the knives stay…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:55 AM
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To clarify, my responses were conversational and measured, not yelling or anything. Keen to hear how you think I should have acted. The other ways this could have gone IMO: Not saying anything, giving no reaction. This just feels like I'm backing down and afraid. Winning the verbal war - I have the ammunition on him, which I think would have turned the tide and shut him up. Going the physical route - would have won here, but only won the battle, likely ended up losing the war when it got back to…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:29 AM
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I don't even know where the pedestal came from, I'm pretty sure she has a fold-out one or something hidden in her purse and that she put it together while I was sleeping. Laughed my ass off at this.. perhaps the 10 liked your sense of humor. Glad it's working, but don't lose sight of the big picture. Work on your own mission, these women are just little treats to keep you on track.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:31 PM
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That's a narrative similar to 'A Boy Named Sue' by Johnny Cash. I get why someone might try to use that, but these days it's seems more likely to me to be a gamble that's more likely to send a child further down the bad path he's on. People don't generally just 'click' and pick up their shit when someone says/does this to them, it takes a long period of introspection before they'll turn things around. In the meantime, a lot of bad things can happen before they wake up. My own case is a good exam…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:26 PM
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Amen. Mine was a drunk who couldn't hold his shit together, more interested in rodeos, horses and booze than his only child. I eventually went on in adulthood to go spend time with him, only to get ripped off by him to the tune of several thousand dollars. After a few years of not being in touch (he continually dodged me knowing I was in bad shape financially and looking to call back loans at the time), I found out he was in prison for attempted rape of his step daughter. Even better, in recent …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 03:02 PM
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I'm not sure I follow on this one - I get self promotion when you're on the outside of a business trying to sell your way in, but how do you apply this in a job without being the guy who loves to blow his own trumpet? (Even if you do back the talk up with the walk).
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:10 PM
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In my book, believing in God counts as crazy. And you don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 08:50 PM
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My favorite joke encompasses this perfectly: What's brown and sticky? A stick. What's brown and runny? Usain Bolt.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 12:59 AM
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Mate, don't feel bad about the Crypto frenzy. You could have easily made a fortune. You could had wasted some disposable income. You could have also decided to take your $100 to $100,000 gains and invest the lot in a few new cryptocurrency ICO's hoping to buy a garage of lambos, and ACTUALLY lost a metric fuck-ton of potential returns. Owning 50% of what you used to own because of your wife is a whole lot sweeter than owning 0% of what you used to own because of a Crypto swing caused by an Asian…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:33 AM
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Okay - prolly a bit of a long winded spiel here, but whatever. So I work in a meat processing factory, not an office. Was switched to the day shift a while back had to prove myself all over again to a new supervisor and team. I set about doing that by looking at how everyone else damages their reputations around me, and making sure I never do that. First thing was just showing up. This company, and the industry in general, suffers badly from people 'pulling sickies' - not showing up at all or ca…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 03:08 PM
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Interesting story - wish I'd started on this path when I was as young as you. At this rate you'll fucking slay life. Something to add to your comment about Law 5. I initially approached this during a phase when I was jockeying for position among the other guys at work - acceptance takes a long time in my line of work. It's all fine and good being accepted as one of the pack, but in the end it's validation seeking and that's not why you go to work - you go to earn. I realized that you need to pro…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 03:14 AM
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Well played, and well handled mate. Question: UK has some pretty extensive CCTV watching everything. Given what happened here, does that bother you, or would you call it an asset because of these kind of situations?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 02:50 AM
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Hah, this is where it gets funny. Susan's boyfriend is the only one I saw smoking meth at the party. I can't confirm Susan using. Anyway, a while back Susan's boyfriend cut himself. No arteries, first aider was able to patch it up with those thin strips to close the wound. I've done this myself, same spot on the arm. At this point, wound closed, you normally go to hospital for stitches after doing a drug test (drug test only required when going to hospital for treatment). He declined, didn't eve…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 04:03 PM
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You've skipped my original post. I've never said she does meth herself, the friends do. She's never showed any signs, she's actually been quite pleasant. And with the protective gear we wear, she looks as attractive in the ass/tits department as the fat 50 year old guy next to her in line.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:52 AM
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The only pics on her page of them are a school photo, which I'm guessing the deadbeat custodian father decided to give her. Pretty sure she ain't posting photos of the supervised visits.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:50 AM
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I'm heading somewhere much bigger.. this place has a drug problem the size of bigger places in the size of a tiny one. It also has a major drought of decent women.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:48 AM
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The job's good, unfortunately it's infested with druggies who are very good at hiding it.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:45 AM
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I don't work with the boyfriend who I saw smoking it. Not sure if he's on it at work or if it's a weekend thing, apparently it's out of the system pretty quickly so he might be able to get away with that. There's one guy I work with who is a heavy Ritalin user, always tweaked like he's had the world's strongest coffee. Not the greatest guy to be around when you work with knives.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:29 PM
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Yep, and as I said above, this is barely vetting, but a useful exercise for me to internalize. If I'd bumped into her at the house party I'm sure I would have seen the crazy.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:23 PM
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These aren’t subtle at all. And it’s not exactly groundbreaking to tell us to use social media and ask around to get background info. Definitely, basic shit and really only first-line vetting - I'm not out there finding out about her upbringing, relationship with father and all that stuff you'd look for in a potential LTR. Like I said, old BP me would have tried to White Knight this. I'm still learning the more intuitive side of RP, calibration, subtext, being able to spot the little things. See…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:19 PM
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Check out 'Allen Carr - Easy Way To Quit Smoking'. Great book, gets rid of the mental brainwashing of smoking. Vaping is another good option, can either just enjoy that and stick with it, or cut down the nicotine in that which is easy.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:12 PM
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Bingo - I knew there were a name for it, couldn't fucking remember it.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:09 PM
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It might be different in other countries or scenes, but my number is around 300-400. Below that, I can believe you might have a shitload of people you know. Above that, I think you're adding everyone you met at every party you've been to, and you're hoping a few suggestive pics will draw some validation comments. 1000+ may as well be Instagram followers..
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 10:28 AM
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Cigarettes or weed? Since I quit, I couldn't get involved with a cigarette smoker, and I actually kinda judge the girls that were with me when I smoked and put up with that shit. Weed, I can't stand the smell/effects so that goes in the same basket. You're right - a girl that smokes through her prime years gives up the chance at still looking good without caked on makeup in her mid-late 30's. I think Stoicism highlights your second point in self control. I get that it's hard to quit, been there.…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 09:55 AM
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The concept is real in many places, but your 'discovery' and trademarking of it comes across like this.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 09:36 AM
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Since I'm leaving my job and the entire town soon, I'm actually thinking about doing this and making an extensive field report to show why you don't do it. Have a girl asking about me, I've already partially vetted her and know she's bad fucking news. It'd the prime opportunity to show in real time why you just don't do this shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 08:09 AM
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Well, I didn't want to start questioning their religion, but I'm pretty sure at least a few of these guys post wearing polyester, and I see a few posts made on Sundays. Why aren't the rest of these guys finding them and stoning them to death?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:23 AM
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If you're going to stick with some core RP aspects and disregard others, and don't have a better rational argument for that occlusion than religious views, then you should stop calling it Red Pill. Do what you do by all means, but if you're preaching against plate spinning, you're losing the abundance mentality which is vital to Red Pill theory.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 04:03 PM
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One statement with a clear ulterior motive doesn't make you Red Pill. In this case, it makes you an attention whoring little 'ranga.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:39 AM
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As per her words, she says she's not convinced that men need to be in charge. As per her actions, she's putting a man in charge. That observation is pure gold.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 07:37 AM
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I'm thinking there should be a sub where people can ask Red Pill related questions.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 06:29 AM
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I spent a while posting replies about this - it comes up in AskTRP all the time. What I found is that it's so situational. I personally work an environment where I have to keep my wits about me, and it's been an interesting journey. Some of what I've learnt in that environment is universal, but in another situation would either be overkill and socially unacceptable, or would get you into a fight. It's all about calibration.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 07:00 AM
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Bro, you only just figured out being a DJ is liquid pantie remover? I like to tell myself that I play guitar for the art and expression sometimes, but there's always a separate voice in the back laughing at how stupid that sounds.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:14 AM
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Are you that YouTuber that gets 1st spot in line for the brand new iPhone only to run out and smash it in front of everyone else in the line?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 11:10 PM
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This is an intensive task and I know I wont be able to do it continuously, so I decided to do it 5 days at a stretch. Overall if I have had a streak of productive 5 days I could maybe relax a bit This could perhaps be approached the same way as working out - start 3 days a week, and gradually work your way up to Elon Musk levels of productivity. After a while the non-productive (cheap dopamine) will fall by the wayside. I like this, will be circling around to it tonight when I have time to do so…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 02:26 PM
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Would be good if you could share any other red flags you spotted leading up to getting her into bed. Anything in hindsight that we can learn from?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 11:27 PM
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Can confirm. Dated one of these pieces of work, found out a few years later she admitted it was all for attention. I'll be damned if she didn't get it from everyone, too.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 11:24 PM
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Where does this fit in the grander scheme of things? Biology. That's it. Red Pill is a toolbox used to help men correct their path and fulfill their biological imperative. Don't try to shoe-horn it into a moral or religious framework, biology will win out and will still be humming along after humans and all of our morals and religions are gone. Mahatma Gandhi, used the Ahimsa ideology, of not hurting anyone, humans or animals, to gain independence for his people. It worked. He was one man leadin…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:41 PM
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This. The Psychology of Music article came up in my feed last night, and I immediately cringed. Study: Women More Attracted to Guys Who Play Guitar So many ways the data could be skewed one way or another.. this is an informal study at best. At worst, an attempt by Gibson Guitars to try dig themselves out of their financial hole by sexing up sales of Les Paul guitar cases.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:00 PM
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At least all that walking and extra hours working will help get him in shape a bit. That'll come in handy when he's walking to dates after the divorce.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 01:43 PM
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Anecdote: Recently fucked an older married woman, claims I'm her second. She was prattling on about how uncircumcised (me) feels 'so strange, weird, feel all that skin!'. Her husband was cut so it was a big difference for her. This was after sex when the boner had died down. She didn't seem to complain during the reaming. Also first time it'd ever come up, so either all the other women I've fucked had no problem with it, or uncut was all they'd know. I'm not sure if it's common here in NZ or not…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 01:29 PM
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I think discipline would go further than low funds for OP, I have a feeling he already has them buying him drinks if he chooses to allow them the honor. Great post bro. Your ego seems to be Tucker Max level, makes for epic reading.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 04:11 AM
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In my reeeeal blue pill days I accepted them, even LTR'ed one and bombed out of that in a blaze of beta glory. I think it came down to my own self-esteem.. it doesn't take much to understand how a guy would rather settle for a fat girl and not feel so judged when he's self conscious about his problems. It sounds like you've probably got some issues to square away, be it weight, muscle, appearance, dress, personality or whatever else.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 04:09 AM
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Isolation isn't being questioned with regard to the current string of discussion about pickup being psychopathic.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 08:48 PM
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Sure, everyone will need to memorize a few steps. I haven't studied PUA seriously. Read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss, looked into a bunch of his and Mystery's stuff, and a bit of early Tyler Durden (RSD) to see how his stuff presented versus how Strauss describes him in the book (coincidentally, labels him as very robotic, which I think is what we're getting at in using the term 'psychopathy'). What was apparent in their world at that time is that it wasn't about teaching guys to be naturally more…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 03:58 PM
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I think you're confusing 'Game' and 'Pick-Up Artistry'. Consider Ted Bundy, the serial killer, since we're using the term 'psychopathy'. Socially, I'm sure he had great game - by all accounts I've read, he was very likeable, attractive, plenty of girlfriends and eventually a wife. Active in University, involved in politics, outwardly appearing to be a functional young man doing well with his life. You could argue whether this was actual game or some more 'learned' behavior set that he had to emp…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 03:28 PM
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One of my plates is starting to get antsy Where did you get "just one person" from? That whole text stream is just two people trying to communicate what they really want while trying to hide that and put up socially acceptable fronts. Which is, in a nutshell, how communication plays out between men and women in this day and age. The alternative, and the fact that it just doesn't work, is why game exists. There was nothing wrong with the communication.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 08:52 PM
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Laughing my ass off here.. that text chain is gold. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 08:07 PM
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If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you. Take a step back, throw off any emotion about getting cock-blocked, and read over your post. Try to form a cold, objective assessment of who is acting as the beta is in this situation, and who is holding the frame.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 07:20 PM
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Just checked them out for the first time.. don't go there without a full-body condom.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 06:15 PM
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I feel like the old saying needs an update: 'Behind every great man is a great woman dissecting him, to see how he works.' Great job on the progress. Best part of this is that you see where you were, what you became, and recognize it.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 06:10 PM
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Did a Red Pill lawyer offer pro-bono representation for those that just can't get it through their skulls? "Don't Shit Where You Eat" isn't a minor afterthought.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 12:47 AM
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Small town + nightclub is always a winning combination, yet hard to find consistently. Pubs are definitely a sausage fest, that's anywhere the local blue collar go after work and anywhere showing rugby. Student cities are easier than others. As you get into bigger cities your game/looks/physique play more of a part, but there's still always a key for every lock.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:37 AM
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Things must just be different in New Zealand. Sure, I guess a really 'up-market' bar where people drink responsibly might be intimidating and hard to crack, but in general we're a nation of binge drinkers rolling out of work on Friday afternoon to pack the bars and get laid. Most bars with affordable prices are meat-markets that require very little game. Private parties are probably a little easier, but I'd definitely rate day-game as requiring way more courage and finesse than the bars here. In…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:36 PM
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Look happy even when your'e not. Don't let that bitch see she hurt you if she did. Someone here recently told me, 'Gods don't bleed.' Excellent thing to keep in mind. I made sure not to comment on her looks until she gave me a compliment (Been studying the sidebar, thank you TRP) I missed this in my reading, do you remember which sidebar post that was in? Nice work all around, bro. It's hard not to want to rub an ex's face in it when she shits on the floor, but there's ultimately a higher purpos…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 03:54 PM
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Her age will give you a marker of where she's at in terms of how AWALT applies. She's subject to AWALT like all women, you just haven't been bitten yet. For example: She has never cheated on me and always lets me know where she is going. That you know of. Not trying to sow seeds of doubt here, just being honest. I suggest you read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi - all will be applicable to you either now or in the future. There's a section called 'Navigating The SMP' which details how a woman…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 05:24 AM
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Red Pill isn't a philosophy. It's a social and gender psychology toolbox. You may disagree with an aspect of hypergamy, but awareness and handling of hypergamy is a tool in the toolbox because that tool is effective, backed up by much observation, testing, debate and refinement.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 10:42 PM
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More practically, I used to ruminate about all the shit I hated at work, and I hated my job for it. Once I assessed what I had total, partial, and no control of, I turned that around. My leading hand is always picking at my performance: Partial control. I know I'm doing an excellent job at high speed, so I drew a line with the guy and ended up winning a measure of respect and a lot of space/latitude. Turns out he's just insulted I found better ways to do his old job faster. My position is a than…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 10:36 PM
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In starting to read about stoicism, I think I've naturally picked up something like this. 'A Guide To The Good Life' talks about things you can control, things you can partially control, and things you can't control - and obviously putting the right amount of thought into each of those things. If you're doing that at a base level, if it's second nature to you as it's starting to feel to me nowadays (compared to 6 months ago), very little phases you.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 03:16 AM
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I've been watching this play out without realizing until reading this.. thanks OP. HB8 at a previous workplace that I can't game (DSWYE still applies in this case), dating a guy that has a thin frame, and pretty bloody average face. He appears to have some social proof, but he's way out of her league.. you see this in group photos where HB8 and her friends are all posing with their boyfriends. They're all around 7-8's, some 9's, he'd be a 4 at best. *Click* - It's the fucking sarcasm. This is wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 09:25 PM
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Working on a lot of things, TBH. Stopped drinking. Bout to quit smoking. Started lifting. Actively working on my wardrobe. Talking to people in every day life like the supermarket checkout girls. Not dodging social opportunities when they come up. Reading the books you see recommended around here. Delving into stoicism. Working on posture, walking and taking up space. Analyzing myself for weaknesses that I can work on. It's working a little faster than I expected. Feeling more confident, lifting…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:56 AM
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Relativity for the win.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:24 AM
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I'm wholeheartedly behind the ad campaign. And I'll wholeheartedly be reaming Mr. Neo-masculine's girlfriend while he's having a cry on the couch watching Oprah re-runs or Dove commercials. If a woman was behind this, you'd think they would be trying to make guys into men, rather than women. If a man was behind this, he's Red Pill and laughing his ass off as more competition drops off the radar.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:16 AM
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Are you sure it isn't you that's changed, in that maybe you're coming across a bit too cocky or arrogant with the gains? I don't mean that as an insult; it just sounds like the two groups that will get pissed with bad service first in a retail environment.. suddenly are. May be worth asking co-workers here, they're definitely going to be able to tell you if they're the kinda people that'll give it to you straight.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:01 AM
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Something to consider, OP - he's going to look to your relationship with his mother, consciously or unconsciously. That will form part of his make-up on dating and women. How you act around her (assuming you're still with her) is a good model for how he could start picking things up.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 03:40 AM
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He's not looking for a wife bro, and hairdressers are easy practice. ;)
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 02:11 AM
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Best piece of advice I can give you is for when you actually get there - work on your male friends. Look to meet other guys, have a drink, take advantage of any of the university social activities, build a solid circle of friends. The ones you make at Uni/College/Tech are the ones who will last a lifetime, and they're the key to your social life while you study. They're all there in the same stage of their life as you, most will also be new to the city, and you should all be looking to have fun.…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 01:59 AM
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Read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss if you haven't already. It explains how Tyler barged in on Mystery and Style's cash cow, and made his own cash cow out of it. He's not out there trying to help guys for the sake of it, he's stacking cash. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if he or someone else eventually tries to re-brand TRP into a commercial product.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 01:25 AM
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Interesting read. For a post like this, though, I think you'd be wise to back your statements up with sources. Second point - Definitely needs a source if this isn't your own personal observation. I'm in New Zealand, and I'd have to disagree that females veer toward less group-oriented activities. Field Hockey and Netball are dominated by women here, Softball, Basketball and Soccer are probably equally male - female, and women even play Rugby.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 01:22 AM
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That's out of the scope of 'Don't Shit Where You Eat', which is aimed overwhelmingly at workplace dating, and as I said, places like your gym - AT A STRETCH. It's trying to guard you against a sexual harassment complaint or worse. The environment is not conducive to healthy relationships and/or gaming. Plenty of people are set up on dates through their family. In some religions and cultural demographics, it's kinda the norm. IIRC, this is common in Jewish communities. OP did nothing wrong by, in…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 01:11 AM
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The first "friend" is a cunt. Find another male "friend" like him that you need to ghost, and set them up on a blind date. It'll be hilarious. If somebody acts like a cunt, never disappoint them by failing to treat them like one.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:01 AM
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Agreed.. dealing with most women today is much worse than starting a war.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 03:32 PM
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I was literally reading OP's comment about swallowing, thinking 'Surely.. no..'. Then.. your comment. It's vasectomy for me personally, soon as possible. Never wanted kids.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 03:30 PM
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Does he have an employment contract with his sister?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 03:11 PM
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I wouldn't call that even remotely shitting where you eat. Workplace, maybe places like the gym that are a daily part of your life that you don't want to ruin. At a long stretch, the place you get your coffee in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 06:05 AM
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Fuck me.. narrow escape indeed. I think I've had my head in the sand thinking that wouldn't happen where I live, but that idea is in the bin. Your sister is bloody ruthless.. that's some soap opera shit right there.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 06:04 AM
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Aaaaand instant qualification from her. :)
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:21 PM
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Sorry, I don't think I made my sarcasm clear enough. Stay away from MGTOW. Lift, read the sidebar, all-time top posts, recommended books. Go into Monk Mode with the aim of coming out a man.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:16 PM
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I can think of two different approaches: Call him on his bullshit and draw a line. "Listen, I'm doing this girl, if you have a problem then that's your problem, but don't pull this shit where you laugh at me from across the street. Stop being creepy." Ignore him and keep on doing you - bang this girl if you want, or not, just don't give him any kind of reaction. A lion doesn't turn around when a small dog barks.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:09 PM
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+1 for go carting. Gives her a bit of thrill, some competitiveness. Remember, "I want to go go-carting.", not "Do you want to go go-carting?"
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:17 PM
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Not explaining yourself.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:10 PM
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If you're taking the questions as a shit test, it's a perfect change to pressure flip. Call them out on being addicted to memes and inane bullshit like photos of the meal they just got overcharged for. Or pressure flip and amplify - "I prefer to stalk women in person, doing it online is just so impersonal."
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:07 PM
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Leave the group? Fuck no. Leave when you're good and ready, let this guy make a creep out of himself, sounds like he's doing a good job. If the group is expendable to you, fuck the girl, and watch the dynamic within the group and particularly this guy change - valuable learning experience. BONUS POINTS Walk up to him, tell him, "Bro, you know [that girl] you said was into you?" Then hold out your first two fingers and put them under his nose.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:03 PM
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Permanently? Welcome to MGTOW. You'll need to drop the self-improvement aspect though, those guys don't like being prodded to better themselves because it's a worthwhile thing to do. How 'low tier' are you - honest assessment? What are your weaknesses and strengths?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:51 AM
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Finish the sidebar material, only takes an evening. Then keep on with NMMNG, but make 'The Rational Male' by Rollo Tomassi a high priority. There's a bunch of stuff in that book alone that I think would have addressed most of your problems. FR's are great for bits of situational advice and confirming TRP, but the best information, I think, is Sidebar, followed by going through the All-time Top Posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/top/?t=all
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:28 AM
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Find another male "friend" who you need to offload, and set them up on a blind date.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:48 AM
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The big 5 - Deadlift, Squat, Rows, Bench Press, Overhead Press. Then add in assistance exercises AFTER those. The plan is more important - something like Stronglifts 5x5 or Starting Strength are good for beginners, I personally like Stronglifts. The mobile app is handy for tracking, rest timing and warmup too.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:35 AM
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Unless you're gonna be around her in person, this isn't even an LDR - it's just a way for her to get some validation from you while she's in between cocks. Anything beyond 'flick me a text next time you're in town' is you losing. Ghost her. On the upside, you can look at this exchange and study your mistakes. Read up on one-itis, and definitely lack of abundance mentality (acting like a bitch when she leaves you on seen, letting it get to you). This is only a failure if you don't learn something…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:21 AM
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my self esteem essentially depended only on getting the approval of these 5-6 assholes. That needs to change before anything else. All over TRP, you'll find advice and even rants telling you that you need to be dependent only on yourself for your own happiness. I think the same goes for self-esteem. You're pegging your self worth to how they treat you, when it should come from lifting, values, achievements, goals, and the like. One big issue here is that if you don't address this, you'll also al…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:14 AM
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If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it's a duck.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 11:43 PM
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You'd be surprised how much you can actually do each day when you stop making excuses, especially when the strength gains from lifting start kicking in.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 01:00 AM
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Solid advice, but if you're reading it, don't let it become an excuse to slack off. I've found that you can stomp much harder down the path to your goals if you really, critically assess whether you need a break, or if you're just looking for an out. Your mind has to be in the right place. Two examples I found for myself: 1: Skipping workouts. If you don't feel like you can work out today, despite having the time, drink two cups of black coffee, have a hot shower, and reassess the situation hone…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:25 PM
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Something valuable I can add: I've been among the hospitality crowd in a big city before, and in the scene where (if you have the correct 'hospitality trade' card, like a union card) you can go to a few bars that only let that scene in after hours. The one I used to frequent was open till 6am. Great scene, awesome for making contacts and friends, and a much higher quality of women.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 10:04 PM
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I was gonna say the same thing. It probably also continued to show OP's higher value in that he wasn't afraid of having the guy around, and the guy was clearly doing all the work to present himself as the beta.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 10:01 PM
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You're missing the point entirely, and it makes me wonder why you're here. Terminal cancer arguably isn't something you can control, along with any number of catastrophic events in life. How you face them, is. You can be a sniveling, whimpering victim in your last days, or you can face it like a man with frame, and at least die with some dignity.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 09:56 PM
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He didn't fail, you did. RP isn't a safe topic. Don't talk about fight club. If he was building a house and failing at every single turn, it'd be useless to give him instructions on how a joists work in the load bearing of a structure. You need to either give him the manual, or let his house fall down and encourage him to look for a book on carpentry. If he wants to come to RP, gently lead him there with a copy of The Rational Male. Don't drop to a knee and give him half-time coaching. If a BP w…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 06:41 AM
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Not sure if you've confronted her yet, but be ready for the whole, "He's just a customer at work baby! It means nothing, it's just my job!".
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 10:38 PM
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Speaking as the single guy who's 'old friends' are all married off and spawning, catch up with them from time to time, but don't treat them as daily friends. Unless you think you can game some of their cute friends.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:28 AM
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Something to help you on your way: Unplugging. The reading list.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:03 AM
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Yep, you haven't swallowed properly yet. The information is all here, but people swallow at different rates. You can still do the married with kids thing, but as is said here - LTR is Red Pill on hard mode.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:08 AM
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I think you need to do some reading, bro - Rational Male, for starters. You're the logical one, she's the emotional one. Don't swap pants. At what point in the relationship did you become RedPill aware - part way through, or did you go into it with some knowledge?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 06:49 AM
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This is the shit that bad 4Chan memes are made of.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 12:23 AM
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I think buying a copy of Rational Male is about the best you can/should do. To quote another user on here, at least you have plausible deniability. If he loves it, he'll probably find TRP. If not, you heard it was a good book.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:07 AM
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Sorry to jack into OP's thread but I'm in a similar situation. Happy with my plan, still working up to a max weight for some exercises and finding others nice and challenging. So I should be looking to get to a comfortable challenging max on all my lifts, stay there while cutting, then ramp up when I start bulking?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:48 PM
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You're rolling the dice on losing those friend, bro. It's a bit like having a sex fantasy about your mother (or theirs). Off limits.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:45 PM
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At least a few times... what - before getting caught?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:39 PM
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I don't think you're every going to teach your Dad how to become a man. Take him for what he is - a model for how not to do it. Then build your life around being the opposite.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:12 PM
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What's the plan for tomorrow, bro? Be specific. I'll give you the first one free: Setting your goals, strengths and weaknesses. Watch this then this. ?? ?? ?? ??
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 07:09 AM
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On it. Is the Improvement Pill channel Red Pill focused, or just a coincidental name?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:29 AM
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A quote immediately popped into my head halfway through this: “As they say in poker, ‘If you’ve been in the game 30 minutes and don’t know who the patsy is, you’re the patsy.'”
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 07:53 PM
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I can't believe nobody saw the first red flag: I work in the back so I don't associate with people on the floor too much. Don't shit where you eat. Doesn't matter if they work the front and you work on the roof in a secret compartment. Same company? Sorry, I'm gay/married/walking away from you. The only positive is that you saw a lesson to be learned, and appear to be absorbing it. I'm glad it didn't go ultra-bad with the girls going to management so that you had to learn the hard way: Don't shi…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 08:34 AM
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We need to start having Endorsed or Flair Points users vet posts being made to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:00 AM
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So.. only a fraction of the population is dumber than you?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 03:57 AM
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I've got a ways to go before I'm even close to my goals.. about a month of solid clean eating and 6 day/week lifting/cardio on top of a physical job. But that was enough for a string of compliments when I walked into my ex-workplace yesterday. Several comments on how good I'm looking, how are you doing it, the common opinion is the fat loss has started to chisel out my face more. The sarcastic bitch of the group was very warm and chatty which was a bit wildcard. Even two instances of kino from w…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:05 PM
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People don't throw pool parties because they're concerned everybody needs to take up swimming. Act accordingly. Definitely keep with the 'few drinks and stay calm'. Don't keep to yourself, but don't go in with outcome dependence. Think of this as sexual networking.. you get the green light to show off your physique along with your personality. Even ff you don't pull something today, there's definitely going to be some whispering among the brood. Women will remember the goods next time they see y…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:43 PM
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I'm friends with a girl I see as a HB9.5. She'd be an easy 10 in my eyes if she weren't so passionate about her Mormon faith (currently wants her non-religious LTR to convert when they marry). For others, she may be lower - she's older (mid 30's, 2 years younger than me) and has a kid (who's really cool, well raised, but still a dealbreaker for some). As a great philosopher once said, "Hot Bitch Classification is in the eye of the beholder".
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:38 PM
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http://images.nymag.com/fashion/models/alima/alima_profile.jpg Re-roll.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:24 PM
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Cucked by God.. what a lasting legacy.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:16 PM
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Where are you approaching? Sounds to me like the environment you're working in doesn't have any intelligent samples. A nightclub would explain all of this. I've watched YT videos and read posts/articles with similar conclusions, and guys deciding to switch to day game because of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 10:13 AM
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If you're still having problems swallowing, just wait till you get to college. Watch who the women are flirting with, who they're throwing themselves on at keggers. Watch their behavior and you'll see it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 09:55 AM
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Another angle on this to consider: I've picked up that shorter women feel their height is a negative as far as total beauty, and are jealous of the stereotype tall, long legged female frame. Was told this verbatim by an ex-girlfriend, and I've noticed tension and backstabbing by short women toward taller women. They seem to develop an 'edge' because of this, a little like "small man syndrome" you see in insecure short guys. Without a doubt, shorter women seem to be consistently more sarcastic in…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:31 AM
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I believe it's in the Red Pill Books 2.0 file, do a search for that. Off topic, Neil Strauss also wrote Marilyn Manson's autobiography, 'Long Hard Road Out Of Hell' - another great read if you're interested in the guy.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 12:45 AM
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In the sidebar: THE TALK - HOW TO TALK BACK Make sure you read Rollo's post linked at the top as well. Plenty of points there to figure out what you did wrong and learn from it. On salvaging the situation: If given a total absolute do-or-die ultimatum, retract commitment and treat the relationship as over but don't close the door fully... "Oh... oh I see... I'm sorry that it's come to this for you.... what we had was pretty good.... I know I enjoyed it a lot and I thought you were having a good …
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:14 PM
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Anybody PM him yet to find out how much he's charging?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:40 PM
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If you haven't read it already, pick up 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. He flies with Mystery to spend time with a friend in Serbia, and the gaming stories from the trip line up well with your experience. There might be some lessons you could pick up.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:35 PM
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Nothing he can do about that now.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:48 PM
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This is about frame. With correct frame, you're wearing the pants. No "always wearing the pants", you just wear those fuckers. The second you give 'em up to the woman, you've lost frame, and you're fighting from and exposed position.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 08:28 AM
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Uncle Vasya has commented, this thread is done. If that doesn't inspire you, go read this motherfucker's post here: Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women {NSFW-ish} Something of particular note that I fucking love: Once a sexual relationship has been established, you can take it farther. Remember the feminist professor chick? I would sometimes be called upon to attend faculty functions with her as her “CISGender White Penis-Carrier Companion Person”, or whatever shit is in vogue with the PC li…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:31 AM
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If you're really self conscious, go see a hooker. Seriously. You want nice hair? Go see a hairdresser. Want some semblance of sexual experience? Go see a hooker, preferably someone with class. Both take confidence and as such, are great learning experiences. Go into this shit having been laid by a pro, and abundance mentality will partially kick in when you're dealing with a 19yo deer who's never been fucked by anything more than a fumbling beta. Also, are you actually on the spectrum, or just u…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:16 AM
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This was one of the first questions out of the gate when I started working alongside a Muslim woman, I'm guessing late 20's, a while back. "So do you have a girlfriend?" This is pre-TRP. From memory I told her I was kinda seeing someone. It was an interesting situation because she's Muslim and I'm always interested in talking to anyone who follows Islam, particularly in my industry. That question was an aberration in what I was hoping would be a good learning experience (which it ended up being)…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:10 AM
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Enjoyed this post bro, upvoted. Something I've been interested in lately is building discipline, and particularly the concept of permanent discipline over fleeting motivation. Something I picked up from Jocko Willink's podcast. *How would you suggest, coming from a military perspective, that someone build discipline? * I don't care if you say something as simple as making your bed and shining your shoes each day - I'm curious as to how the military instills this in you, and how you'd go on to te…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 06:43 AM
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You sound like you know the science pretty well. It'd be a valuable addition to mention why you're taking coconut oil - MCT is a big part of why Bulletproof Coffee works.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 10:36 PM
1

Never experienced the 'keto flu'. Hell, first time trying Keto I had more energy than I knew what to do with.. almost meth-like levels.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 10:31 PM
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Can't really give you any advice on how to handle the last part with the phone/keys, but fuck.. you're in a golden position. I work with a lot of people in a room at my job - some are positive, show up every day (in an industry where people call in sick all the time.. it's a fucking plague on the industry), and handle their shit. The rest bitch and moan about EVERY. FUCKING. THING. They'd bitch about having a hole on between their ass-cheeks. This is a job. You're not there to make friends, you'…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:44 AM
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This sounds like a measured response, good job. There's a few references in TRP to mate-guarding, but if a guy is hitting on your date and she's clearly telling him to fuck off, you're the next evolutionary step of 'fuck off'. You just proved that to her. Just make sure it's always a measured response, and don't let the interaction alter your frame. Kick his ass then proceed like nothing happened as far as your date is concerned.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:33 AM
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Not often you find this on AskTRP, but I think this situation says that you're higher SMV than your "friends" and they're trying to climb. Response? Don't react when the little cubs start barking. If they have the balls to nip at your heels, put them in their place firmly in front of the woman, and keep your frame. The yappy prick who has to try negging his mates is automatically lower in value if he's going after a good looking friend of his. Let him lower his SMV, be stoic, but protect your re…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:25 AM
1

This. If you have to seek a woman's opinion, go to Youtube and check out someone like Coco Chanou, Gabrielle Moses or Negeen Dargahi. If you have to. If you want a better source, check out Alpha.M and Alex Costa. You're better off reading something from a Red Pill on what actually garners results in the real work. Logic over Feels: The definitive roadmap guide on how to actually dress well. Then adapt that into what you feel comfortable wearing. It's fuck all use to you rocking slimfit jeans if …
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:13 AM
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See Season 1, Episode 3 of Friends - "The One With The Thumb". ROSS: Hey. Oh, oh, how'd it go? PHOEBE: Um, not so good. He walked me to the subway and said 'We should do this again!' ALL: Ohh. Ouch. RACHEL: What? He said 'we should do it again', that's good, right? MONICA: Uh, no. Loosely translated 'We should do this again' means 'You will never see me naked'. RACHEL: Since when? JOEY: Since always. It's like dating language. Y'know, like 'It's not you' means 'It is you'. CHANDLER: Or 'You're s…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:03 AM
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This comment is why you're endorsed.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:59 AM
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I've been making a few posts about this kind of shit lately - see here: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8utu1z/constant_negging_from_alpha/e1jl46a/?context=0 Don't get physical with the guy unless he invades your personal space. That's simply losing frame, and even if you beat him down, you look weak. You might find that he doesn't 'understand' boundaries, and actually think's you're alright - but wants to push you with some verbal/light physical shit-talk. This is typical of guys that …
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:51 AM
1

Tell her until she starts acting responsibly, it's the ass, or the door. You've already answered your own question - if she wants to fuck around with this shit, then she needs to go.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:43 AM
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Tell her until she starts acting responsibly, it's the ass, or the door. You've already answered your own question - if she wants to fuck around with this shit, then she needs to go.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:33 AM
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I could give you plenty of advice that I found first hand, but the most important thing for me was not to wallow in bed. Get up at a (reasonable) set time, regardless. As soon as you're lying in bed feeling cheated of sleep, or just trying to hide from the day, you're falling deeper in. And lifting - Prozac pales in comparison.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:30 AM
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"Shut. Up." Remember that old classic in movies where the girl tells the inexperienced guy not to talk during fucking? Yeah, works in reverse.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:27 AM
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Christ.. if I'd had RP when I went to college, I'd be dead from syphilis by now. Good job OP - be thankful you're doing this shit young.. you've got all your 20's to go while before you even hit your sexual peak in your 30's.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:23 AM
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I almost wanted to slap you with a 6 meter run-up for saying that, even though you were mocking a woman with it. Upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:06 AM
1

It's never lupus.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 12:59 AM
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The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon I. Never say ‘I Love You’ first Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other women competing for his attention, and eventually prevailing over his grudging reluctance to award his committed exclusivity. The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love. Though you may be in love with her, don’t say it be…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:44 PM
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I think you know what you should do, you're just looking for some encouragement. Definitely stay the path if this is a lucrative one. 2-3 years is relatively short if it puts you up the ladder quickly. It costs relatively little to set up a home gym. Get yourself a power rack (preferable over a squat rack, speaking as someone who has the latter), adjustable bench, barbell and some weights. Then the gym is open 24/7, no waiting for equipment. Look for combat classes elsewhere - even if it's at a …
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:25 PM
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Simple - being a nice guy. Within about 48 hours of reading 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' and a bunch of similar posts here, and implementing it at work, everything changed for me. It sounds completely broken that telling a person 'no' will increase their respect for you, but that's how it works. I've always been able to hold my own around the guys I work with, talk shit and defend myself verbally, but I was also a yes man eager to please. Simplest example was my direct supervisor. He's a big, gruff, l…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:12 PM
1

Serious question: how much of the sidebar have you read? How deep is your understanding of TRP thus far?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:18 AM
3

They all seem to be more solo hobbies. Look at joining groups - a martial art, for example, yoga, volunteering. You're looking to meet people.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:54 AM
1

Read Mark Manson's 'The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck'. The point is that you have to care about some things. To paraphrase him, you only have so many fucks available to give, so you give them passionately to things that are important to you, and not to the trivial shit. The main paradox is that while IDGAF apparently gets results, we do the things we do (lifting, learning game, etc.) specifically to get a positive reaction from girls; therefore, we do give a fuck. We give a lot of fucks, actu…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:07 AM
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You need to get on that. Hobbies and interests, son. A Somewhat Comprehensive List of Hobbies and Activities
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:37 AM
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Yeah, I'm in agreement. Lips sealed. You're right too, about people dismissing it as "faking it" - that was a PITA for me working in a laboring role where the standard sick call-in was 'sore back'. Went through that shit for 10 years before I got a diagnosis.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:21 AM
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I've been going with 'Disposable Lighter Repairman', and sadly some women just accept that at face value. Great for filtering stupid.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 10:26 PM
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Yeah, should have mentioned I plan on the snip - never say never, but I hate children, don't want them.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:09 PM
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Until about 3 months ago I was always in pain, it showed. You end up explaining the reason to people. Do that long enough and it becomes a part of your personality. With all the changes in thinking that RP is causing, it's only just occurred to me that since I've all but beaten this, it's probably something better left unsaid when chatting with women.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:52 PM
3

LTR Game Part 3: Unicorn Hunter Checklist
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:49 PM
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When you get home, try 2 cups of strong black coffee. Alternatively, get up early and train before work. My experience is that it doesn't take a whole lot out of your performance at work.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:38 PM
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I think that's a result of talent, or lack of. Great music has traditionally had barriers to entry. Current tech gives everyone a route into the market that was traditionally closed off to only those with a record label's blessing.. so with the financial barrier broken down, all that's left is talent. And that could be said about countless avenues of creation. Every man and his dog has an eBook available for download, to the point where if you can get it for free, it's probably not worth reading…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 10:03 AM
2

You need to educate your conscious mind, and let the conscious mind have a bit of a sit down with the unconscious. Try reading these two posts, then reconsidering your one-itis with the appropriate firmware upgrade installed: Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy. Confessions of a fine dining waiter (response to Destroyer Chad)
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:28 AM
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You're still young, you're going to grow and meet new people that are on the same level as you. Just keep in touch with your old friends, and invest more in the new friends you meet. You don't have to drop anyone from your life. It's a little bit like being the unattached guy among all your friends that are marrying off and having kids. Once they start marrying and reproducing, they're going to gravitate to the others like them, and you're going to be the exception. So you go and find other guys…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:24 AM
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I can't think of the keywords I need to search the post (someone else might remember it), but there was a field report a while back from a guy who decided to show his misbehaving main plate how things are going to be by inviting a secondary plate over to blow him in his bathroom while the main plate was having a meltdown in the bedroom next door. Just saying. Not like it'll make things worse.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:18 AM
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Writing under the influence of Gentleman Jack - deal with it. This is shit-slinging, one area I think I do well in, and a great opportunity for you to grow into someone that holds their own in the male hierarchy. I've always worked with hard cunts in rough industries rather than office jobs, so I've had to simply sink or swim when it comes to this. I'd advise fighting fire with fire here, but you need to prepare. I've come to really enjoy shit-talking with people, but it's been a long road getti…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:08 AM
1

Shit dude, lift. After a few weeks when the lifting addiction starts to kick in, it'll be all the motivation you'll need.. it'll drive you harder than any supplement or medication. Go into monk mode if need be, come out jacked, make sure you run into your ex and rub her nose in it. Then go fuck all her friends.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:18 AM
1

What about dominance outside the bedroom? Think she might be testing boundaries, thinking you're losing the frame by not shutting her shit down firmly?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:06 AM
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I've seen the same within the music industry. Since I did my training, technology has grown to the point where any kid with a laptop can create a musical empire. Studios are still around, but not even remotely required for a band or artist these days. Avicii is a good example - all he needed was a laptop, headphones and Fruityloops. Same goes for Post Malone and a thousand other young creators.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 06:35 AM
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On the side of repairing this, how's your sex game? Have you read Sex God Method? Something in the DEVI (dominance, emotion, variability, immersion) model might be lacking. I might not be right on target here, but my first impression is that you might need to ramp shit up in the bedroom.. that she's not satisfied with the sex, and just drying up from dissatisfaction. Then acting out like a child. Give her a couple of nights of ultra-railing, leaving her speaking in tongues and leaking cum, and s…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 06:30 AM
4

Soooo.. Did the corset look good on you?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 03:36 AM
10

If you need to tell people you're getting laid, or that they should go get laid, then you're not getting laid.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:58 PM
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From that page: What I'm going to write here is an attempt to reconcile these two ideas and produce a sane way for a beginner to train more frequently and give the attention to the glamour muscles that they want, while also progressing in a correct, appropriate manner. Exactly what I was going for. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:41 PM
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That's left field for me - people seriously come to you and want to know your moral standing? That's fucked up. I can accept this if I were in a community that thrived on this, but I come from a place where every person chooses his own fate. I don't want to lead you one way or another, but damn.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:15 AM
3

My nigga. Prepare to have your back entrance invaded.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:07 AM
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Do people regularly ask you about your morals and how you lead your life? Or is your need for moral framework a way to gain validation among your peers? I don't ask this in a facetious way, but it seems that you might be holding your values up as a sign above your head so that you might be judged by them, rather than simply living by those values and being judged organically by your actions, as they are guided by your morals. The Red Pill espouses that we grow from wanting to impress you, to imp…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:22 AM
1

Last statement: I'm not interested in reading the fawning replies of guys either looking for a quick lay or a dose of oneitis. If a TRP beginner (or, god forbid - a MOD) owns up to a message sent to you, I'll be curious. It sounds like you're putting too much faith in your morals being the meat in the burger that comes in a Protestant wrapper. Let's try a thought experiment: What are your morals? Define them specifically. There are no right or wrong answers here by the way, we're just shooting t…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:31 AM
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My two cents - first impressions. No idea what "sugar babies" is (I'm a Kiwi), but here goes: My favorite comedians are Bo Burnham & Kyle Eschen You like Kyle Eschen? Marry me. my other wish is that I could afford to attend culinary school Not paying for that. I am obsessed with Jordan Peterson podcasts. Please tell me why (on our first date).. or you're supplicating to land a Red Pill. It is in my nature to defer to a man and his needs, so I will be available at your whims and fancies... This i…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:06 AM
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If you took the alleged "knife" out of the equation, I'd say fuck no. I used to avoid events where people I didn't like were going to be.. looking back at it now, I was being a little bitch. But you might want to see what this kid's like, whether you think he'd actually try come back at you in the future with a knife.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:28 AM
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Good read. Goes to show that LTR is indeed game on hardmode. I don't feel any resentment toward her though. Flip the script for a second. If he were a Redpill and she stopped working in the bedroom and keeping her attractiveness high, he'd be looking to demote her to a plate. He's assumed the game ended and he can relax now. The game doesn't end.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:08 PM
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Yeah that's one of the big draws - I'd take 4 PTO's and have 12 days off total. The other thing is that you get real shit done, if you're someone that enjoys killing your workload. God.. if I could go stand living in Australia again and living in outback shitholes, I'd pack my shit right now.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:45 PM
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Their minds work like this with wristwatches too, IIRC. I'm like any guy, hope that a $150 watch will cut it, but women seem to be born with auto-updating firmware that spots the top shit. Like Terminator-vision with a vagina.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:39 PM
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You'd be surprised how rewarding it can be. Used to work 12 hour shifts in the mining industry, 4 on / 4 off. I miss those days.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:34 PM
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Upvoting before I get to the end of this simply for using the word 'defenestrated'. My favorite word in the English language.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:02 PM
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Do you remember which specific one? I'm looking at samples now, seeing "L'eau D'issey", "Nuit D'issey", "Oceanic Expedition" and "Austral Expedition" among others..
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:56 PM
1

Shit missed that, thanks man.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:19 AM
1

I'm a qualified retail Butcher, also do some side-work in a Freezing Works boning beef. Butchers are respected where I live, there's a lot of art and hard work in the trade. If you're lumping Butchery in with being a gas station attendant, you're dreaming.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:18 AM
1

Meat-cutter is lowly? Are you talking about the girls in the deli slicing up champagne ham, or Butchers/Knifehands?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:05 AM
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Not interested in marriage or kids? Next her, bro. Then send me her number.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:54 AM
3

Vitamin D deficiency can cause lethargy. Regular people take it through winter months to help with lack of sunlight. I found it useful for a while in combating the chronic fatigue of my auto-immune disease. I also abuse the shit out of coffee in the morning to get me going, and in the afternoon after work to refresh and be useful between then and bed. Don't underestimate how long drugs can have an effect on you. Just because they're out of your system doesn't mean the long-term effects are gone …
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:52 AM
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You touched on motivation a little. Something I learned from Jocko Willink's podcasts is (paraphrasing here): 'Motivation is fleeting, you can't rely on it. Discipline is what gets you though. Discipline is getting up and handling your shit even when you don't want to and don't have the motivation'.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:25 PM
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I'm on it at the moment. Enjoying it, but looking to switch to Greyskull LP or a variant for the AMRAP. Oh the joys of getting caught up in which program is better..
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:04 PM
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Go get a coffee together, when you've both ordered, make sure it's to go. Then go walk around the streets, look at shops, people-watch. On foot together is great for being playful/teasing. Plus you're actually leading her physically, not just verbally.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:55 AM
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This one is the Connery Gold Standard: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcNGYRKBfHA
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:43 PM
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Start with some James Bond. Goldeneye has two great scenes: The early car race between Bond and Onatop. Nice example of dread - 'Who's that?' / 'The next girl.' The scene in the Russian sauna. 'Nuff said.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:12 AM
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Guitar-geekmode engaged. I'm gonna learn from this guy - hard to find accurate tab for that live version, he sells a whole tab/lesson package. Dropping down from 10's to 8's for this, hopefully make it easier to play vibrato on the chords/intervals. Working on 'Bold As Love' after this - really digging that clean Strat playing so much. I need to spend some time listening to SRV.. I have a friend that's an amazing blues/country player who idolizes him.. would be great to get up and jam some with …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 05:37 AM
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Have you tried offering Red Cross aid packages? A bottle of water, perhaps? If all else fails, malaria medication will seal the deal.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:49 AM
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Ive been learning John Mayer's "Slow Dancing In A Burning Room" lately since I started focusing on playing the Strat, with a view to being able to sit in a cafe and play a loop version of it (and other similar songs): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32GZ3suxRn4 The fact that it'll be able to melt quite a few women is secondary to the fact that JM's playing is brilliant.. really great stuff to chew on as a guitarist. This is my goal, my passion, my mastery. It's just a happy addendum that this sh…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:12 AM
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Been here. Anti-depressants take time to start working. You might get a placebo boost from taking the action to correct the problem, but lasting effects will take a few months. I frequently recommend St' John's Wort - it's a natural herb that many countries continue to prescribe at similar/higher rates than Prozac. Do some research on it and talk to your doctor. DON'T take it alongside other anti-depressants. Seems to me that you have your life in much more order than I did when I was at my nadi…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:36 PM
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This. By all means, ease into fitness so that you don't fall off in your first week. But don't stay on easy-mode. I started back in lifting a month ago after 14 years away from it - StrongLifts, empty bar for everything except Squats, I started with NO BAR for that since I needed to regain form. Even that hurt. A month in and I'm still doing it 3 times a week, about to add cardio in, starting to see results, and starting to get nearer to some challenging weight. Loving it. Right now is the perio…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 04:25 PM
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Speaking as a butcher, freezing worker and ex-miner/smelter operator among other jobs I've worked, here's my opinion: Give it a year, preferably two. Tell your father "Look, I currently don't like this, but I'm willing to put in the honest effort for 1-2 years. After that, we'll talk again about whether I want to stay with it." Within that time you're making your good money, you're exposed to real men and you should aim to emulate them, become one of the crew - one that is respected. You're expo…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:45 AM
1

I managed to stay in Keto drinking vodka and a diet mixer. Tested with strips before, throughout and the morning + afternoon after on a number of occasions. But I don't recommend it. YMMV.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:18 AM
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Anyone else have the Goodfella's double date scene in their head reading this?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 04:40 AM
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https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274
/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:28 AM
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JFC, this. If you run in social circles where this shit happens, you need to fucking stomp on it. Are you getting this from women, or men?
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:53 AM
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LMGTFY: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=how+to+dance+at+nightclubs&page=&utm_source=opensearch Start here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UagckGeQ_Cw If you really want to make a mark, find a few tracks that are hot at the moment, and Youtube the dance moves for them. Take some time to ingratiate yourself with the DJ and see if he can slip a few tracks in for you. Example from way back: LMFAO's Party Rock Anthem. Tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtaGmyqk9vY Live Example 1:…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 08:54 AM
3

Or which night out of the following one nights they could please politely fuck off out of the picture.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:10 AM
1

What about Alpha.M on Youtube? Ignoring the the inevitable loooong sales pitch on item 5 or 6 in each damn video.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 08:09 PM
3

Great write up. A few questions and thoughts: Scarves Seems an odd one to strike off the list, I would have thought they'd make the cut if a Turtleneck was in style? Maybe I'm out of touch. If nothing else you need a good pair of go-to blue jeans. The trend in New Zealand seems to be darker as you mentioned - the ol' blue jeans just don't seem to get the same love they used to get in the 90's - early 00's. Are they back? Chukka / Chelsea Boots WHYYYY must we wear these ugly fucking things? I hat…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 07:51 PM
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Correct. I'll give my eyes a day or two without contacts prior to putting in a new pair. Again YMMV - just because I can get away with it doesn't mean everyone will. Another thing - putting contacts in and taking them out is a bastard for me because I do it so little. Those doing dailies get used to it and can take them out without any problems.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:14 PM
1

I know SMV is a little subjective, but are there any posts or blog articles around that detail what characteristics you'd need to have at each stage of SMV value, so I/we could have a frame of reference for assessing our own?
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:56 PM
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Definitely. I've come to assume that everything I say will be reported back to someone, so the only time I give out information is when I want to experiment with how it change's a person's perception of me.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:48 AM
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Yep - it's funny how since I swallowed the pill, I've been tuning in to little bits of dirt I can file away, and even looking at behaviors to try and deduce things.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:42 AM
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Appreciate the comment - this is what I was looking for. "Trustworthy Beta Toilet"... you should trademark that. It's useful to me to have all this intelligence in the workplace, I can leverage that. I'm the trustworthy non-threat that is listening and watching, and waiting for the right moment to maneuver - which I've done successfully a few times this month. The people in the room that matter know my boundaries, so any perceptions they have of me outside of that.. no fucks. But in social situa…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:39 AM
1

I think you just cockblocked your new mate's threesome.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:53 AM
2

Arrogance isn't necessarily a bad thing. I only have disdain for the arrogant when they have nothing arrogant about. Back up your talk with the walk.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:20 AM
1

My eyes got fucked around by my auto-immune disease - every 6-12 months I'd get a massive case of Iritis/Uveitis. 14 bouts of it since about 2009, the last one cause a Bombay Iris (my right pupil is fixed at around 3mm, the left still works.) And yet when I go for a checkup last week, the optometrist is raving that everything is excellent, pressures are textbook perfect, and the Bombay Iris (to my surprise) is going to be there for life, but is nothing to worry bout since another clinic did lase…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:41 PM
1

St. John's Wort should start working in a week. It's not really an anti-depressant, a chemical designed to start changing things in your head slowing. It's closer to a natural drug that just comes in and does it's thing quickly. YMMV, but it's cheap and worth a shot particularly because it's helped innumerable people with so much less of a side effect profile. I get the feeling that you need a sharp shock of motivation from a really motivational person. If you're just sleeping through shit, try …
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:22 PM
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Depends on how your eyes take them. I use monthlies, and leave them in the entire month (yeah, yeah). My eyes handle them just fine, but I know people who always struggle with inflammation and other problems they can cause. YMMV. Definitely recommend them though. A good optometrist should have a 'club' kinda thing where you just make an automatic payment each week/month and they'll send them to you as you need them.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:45 AM
3

Blacksmithing, while you might find an 'ideal' situation, is kind of a dying trade. You might get lucky and get yourself into a workshop where they make movie props or something like that (think Lord Of The Rings movies), but it's not a typical career path. Woodworking - you could do a lot here. Carpenter, cabinet maker/joiner, making furniture. If you're interested in guitars, I spent some time learning Luthiery - VERY rewarding, very artistic yet technical. Among guitarists, a luthier who can …
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:42 AM
2

I have plenty of experience. I'm that guy teachers said 'has incredible intelligence, refuses to use it'. Originally I started out as a live Sound Engineer after 2 years study. That wasn't paying too well and I wasn't smart enough at the time to fix that, so I went after (relatively) decent paying labor jobs. Underground Miner Copper Smelter Operator Orchard Worker Retail Butcher Freezing Worker - Knifehand (Current). I enjoy working around hard bastards - you get to play in the male hierarchy a…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:29 AM
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I oversleep quite a bit most of the time. I get tired easily. Don't underestimate how too much sleep can drain you. Classic symptom of depression, and it's a loop that takes you further down the hole. Clean up your sleep habits, use SleepAsAndroid, no electronics in the bedroom, no caffeine/minimal water in the 2 hours before bed. Set an alarm, abuse coffee if need be. If you need to sleep more, have a nap in the afternoon. Just get up and start doing something productive at a reasonable hour. I…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:54 PM
1

Man, I was hoping by 'bird', you meant woman. Subsequent story was not satisfying.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:28 PM
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Seasonal changes can mess with you, they mess with me. The same goes if I travel to another country with a different climate. How long does it last for? And are you happy with your mood when you're not in these phases? You seem to have your life pretty well in order so until this were to become a year-round thing that starts affecting your job, lifting, social and/or sex life, I'd avoid anti-depressants without a really strong argument for them. I found after trying 3-4 different AD's that they …
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:39 AM
5

It's easy to be a good man in a good world. It's far more impressive to be a good man in a bad world.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 11:45 PM
3

Be around guys. For me, that's my 8 hours at work - I've traditionally worked in jobs around hard men and they act as a surrogate for no father figure. If you're making great money in a job that doesn't give you that, then you're gonna need to find it outside work - all the suggestions for MMA are great - especially the competitive nature. If you're interested in cars and any sort of DIY, there are usually 'Men's Workshop' type groups in most places - a sorta workshop where local guys can hang o…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 10:15 PM
1

Pilates is no joke. Used to do the Mari Winsor DVD's in my 20's and it kicked my ass more than once. I'd use Yoga more for stretching and flexibility, Pilates for core strength.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 08:48 PM
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Suicide has been in the back of my mind every day for around 15 years, along with one attempt that according to the ER team, I should never have survived. I cope, but it's been a cunt of a life living in pain for all the years so far that I should have been able to work hard and save and create a future. If I wanted kids, if I could stand having kids, I would want the best for them. In that case, I think I'd prefer adopting. We're overpopulated as it is.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 04:17 AM
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To go one further with your points against reproducing, I personally don't want to reproduce for all of the above, PLUS: I have an auto-immune disease that I'll pass on genetically, that condemns my children to a fucking painful life that I know all too well is a bastard of a deal. While you seem to be against the idea because it's against you (I don't disagree fundamentally), I personally don't want to reproduce because A) it put me at a disadvantage; B) it puts my children at a disadvantage; C…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 09:19 AM
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Can you describe exactly what you do? It's hard to give specific advice without knowing EXACTLY the type of work you do, but my advice right now is that the 'freelance' job title is (in your case) without borders, especially in the age of the Internet, and costs nothing to adopt. I had to show up to a club or studio to do my job, you just need a PC and internet connection. Right now you could be practicing and honing your craft. Creating content. Working up a portfolio. Creating a Youtube page t…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 09:06 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tall_poppy_syndrome I've always operated under the rules that if somebody fucks me over, I'm thankful. Thankful that they exposed themselves for who they are now and saved me god knows how much time and effort maintaining a relationship with them. Same applies here. The people you WANT in your life won't do this to you, so when people inevitably DO try to cut you down, smile and be thankful they just hoisted a sign above their head that says "I'M NOT WORTH YOUR TIME…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:33 AM
2

Best advice I can give is that it's not what you know, it's who you know. And how good those people think you are. I spent two years training as an Audio Engineer (diploma). Considered adding a third year in a different country with a prestigious Audio Engineering school to make it a degree, but decided I wanted to start earning. The degree would have helped, maybe, in getting work with a high-end recording studio, but I decided to try live sound. Moved to a new city thinking I was the shit hot …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 08:25 AM
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Aside from The Rational Male, what else have you read since you found TRP?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 07:40 AM
5

It sounds like you don't have too much time to devote to this - if that's true, it's a shame but that's life. Three things that help me: 1: Look for a philosophy or even a religion outside of Red Pill. Stoicism, Buddhism, something that connects you to the bigger picture. I won't inject my own preference here, just find something for yourself that you can identify with. Mine at least helps me define the type of person that I am, my virtues. Second: A good helping of Neil DeGrasse Tyson, astronom…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:36 AM
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I'm not real big on Tom Cruise, but I'll be fucked if he didn't handle this like a boss: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbOZsRdS3-g Came across this video in another RP article so credit to whoever spotted this interaction and incorporated it into Red Pill lexicon. You're in Cruise's place, SJW is spraying the water. Fuck the 4th wall, he's trying to sabotage a performance that you, as a student, are working hard to create for the audience. He's simply a heckler. Treat him like the heckler that…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:12 AM
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It sounds like you need to start doing some reading or looking for outside help in anger management, bro. Perhaps have a look at Mark Mansons 'Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck'.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:25 AM
1

Unfortunately he's gone pretty Black Pill with his current stuff since his Instagram girl got pregnant and fucked him over. The fun smart-ass vibe is gone.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:26 PM
1

I deal with this shit all day long. I work in a Freezing Works at the moment among hard bastards, all with sharp knives and sharp tongues. Previously I was a miner and smelter worker. More hard bastards. In my world, it's a game to make the time go by, a way to have a laugh, and under that, a game of climbing the hierarchy among your male peers. Shit tests among the guys to see who's strong, and who's weak. One guy, let's call him Cupcake, threw some uncreative insult at me in the locker room ab…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:13 PM
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Like Robatusf said, be glad you found TRP at 21. IF - IF you follow TRP to the letter, you're on a fucking excellent trajectory to win at everything in life, and early. That sidebar is your new best friend. Want to start killing off the need for female approval? Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8r1dpf/now_i_am_become_chad_the_destroyer_of_pussy/ My opinion on anti-depressants: never did a lot for me, paroxetine included, except yeah - blunt the emotions. You'll get far bet…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:38 PM
1

I went through a bout recently. You'd be surprised how much some social interaction can stave off loneliness. Go see a friend, family, talk to someone. Even just shooting the shit with the girl at the checkout can help.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:51 AM
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This is where you need to start picking up interests and hobbies. Search AskTRP for 'hobbies interests', there's plenty there. Get into weekly classes, groups and whatnot and you'll find your social circle will expand.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:38 AM
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Read 'The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck' by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:25 AM
1

Gaming dominated my life from early childhood through till the last couple of years. I'm now 36, and I wouldn't be surprised if I'd spent half of that at a computer. At my lowest point, I was putting in 50 hours a week on LOTR Online outside of a 45 hour work week. I won't bore anyone with details except to say that the Kinship (guild, clan) was my family, my social life, my love life. My Burglar was feared and reviled in PvP, revered in the Raiding scene. And that means NOTHING to anybody today…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:04 AM
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Can confirm. My ultimate BP saga ended with this.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 11:19 PM
2

Appreciate this bro.. Audible is pricey relative to my current financial situation. Thanks!
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:35 PM
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I volunteered for my local SPCA cat shelter in the past. Small town, only one girl worth going after (this was in my BP days so didn't do anything about it). But it led to a couple of friendships I still have today. Aside from cleaning up and feeding the cats, they can often appreciate some handyman work because they generally struggle financially and don't have great facilities. I'll be going back to it when I move to a new city, but I think this one is more for networking/social circle improve…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:16 AM
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I'm really interested in Sam Harris - I'm a pretty strong atheist and he's a god.. figuratively speaking, in atheist circles. JBP - Jordan Peterson? - he's the next guy I want to investigate. Seen a few pieces on Jocko's youtube account with him.. he seems really bloody interesting. Will add that to the list.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:53 PM
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I got into the podcast thing through Joe Rogan. There's some cool shit there, but I think I need to stop downloading what I think I'll like, and grab everything. I know what Russell Brand is going to say.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:51 PM
1

I have to admit I was riffing on a porno I saw as a kid which was nothing but guys shaving girls. Be warned though, the second time round I had to let her shave my chest before I got to go to work downstairs.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 01:40 PM
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We can learn some things from prehistoric man, but this isn't one of them. We lift because we didn't spend our life from an early age out hunting every day among predator-packed territory just to survive. If a caveman were here in 2018, he wouldn't be laughing at people in a gym. He'd be walking up to your Instagram slut, fucking her stupid under threat of violence, then grabbing her foo-foo dog and dragging it into an alley to cook and eat it. Try that - make a new post and let us know how it g…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 09:54 PM
1

So shave her yourself. I did this twice to a girl that ended up become a FWB for years and eventually the LTR that lead me here many many years later. She was also a flatmate at the time so not great form there, but whatever. Makes for a fun game, some great sexual tension in between make out and sex, adds some trust, and destroys that excuse for her in the future. Alternatively you could have left her arms where they were, scooped her up off the bed and taken her to the shower to do the job her…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 09:35 PM
1

I'm missing something here. Why does FWB care whether your other plates know you're fucking FWB?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:15 AM
1

Fucking hell, this looks helpful. Been looking for a good podcast I can listen to at work as well. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 11:36 AM
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