kiwizucchinii Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better”	Escalation & Calibration	kiwizucchinii	/r/seduction	03/09/22 03:47 PM

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1	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? I asked him out a few weeks in advance then I asked when he’s free and he couldn’t give a date. Then a month went by and we still had no day planned. I just assumed it was rejection bc he also didn’t text me but he was busy. He still had free time though bc I saw him online but still nothing from him	/r/seduction	07/09/22 01:56 PM
1	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? The door is open for him to pursue me but I don’t think he knows. So how do I let him know?	/r/seduction	07/09/22 01:51 PM
1	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? How can I make space for him to intrigue me?	/r/seduction	07/09/22 01:49 PM
1	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? A month ago, I apologized and told him I notice I’m being confusing, I wanna put in the same effort he does for me and that I don’t wanna be just friends and he said that he’s not confused and he doesn’t see things going in a friendly way but I should talk to him more. Maybe it’s too late but I’m talking more now but he takes really long to respond. I texted him 2 days ago. When (or if) he responds, idk how to make things flirty and not in a friendly context, and idk how to show enthusiasm over …	/r/seduction	07/09/22 01:40 PM
1	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? I never said I have good people skills. I said I have people skills	/r/seduction	07/09/22 01:24 PM
-1	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? What can I do to show my interest in him and validate his feelings? What can I do to let him know that I accept his feelings and feel the same about him. The text that I sent yesterday was “so how was your summer?” Bc we had a tiny convo on Friday but I didn’t reply back after like 12 hours. We haven’t had a real convo since late June. I feel like it’s just too friendly and kinda does give off ‘I’m bored so I’m gonna text you’ vibes… On Friday, he posted something on his story after he hadn’t fo…	/r/seduction	07/09/22 03:29 AM
1	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? Would it be weird to ask him out again after I cancelled the first time bc he was too busy? (I didn’t say that’s why to him. I said I don’t wanna go anymore). And what if he’s still busy but only texts, then what?	/r/seduction	07/09/22 02:51 AM
-2	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? I said that bc it was a whole month and we haven’t even decided a day to go. So what do I do? Suggest another plan…? After he’s been delaying the first? I don’t wanna waste his time… that’s why I’m trying to get some advice. I’m really not trying to waste his time. Why would I do that…? That would also be wasting my own time	/r/seduction	07/09/22 02:41 AM
0	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? I already did that. But then I canceled it and told him I don’t wanna go anymore. I wanna continue talking to him like how we used to but I’m not sure how. I wanna just randomly text him like I do with my friends and talk about nothingness and laugh but he’s busy and I don’t wanna be annoying so idk what to do. I already texted him from yesterday but he hasn’t seen it yet	/r/seduction	07/09/22 02:31 AM
-5	I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing? I’ve never treated him like free entertainment. I asked him out and gave him a timeframe and what the plan is, that’s why he said it would be fun. Even when I told him I’m starting to like him, I said “it should actually be a date”. I have friends and hobbies… I talk to my friends everyday... and yes they are ppl I know in real life and met through school. Been friends from grade 2 to now,, 4th year of uni. Also, I have people skills… it’s hard to know if someone is attracted to you if they don’…	/r/seduction	07/09/22 02:10 AM
1	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better” It helps. It’s just confusing bc in the beginning he initiated everything. He sent the first text. He started all the convos and asked questions about me. He texted me everyday in the morning and evening. When I flirted one time, he put in so much effort and kept at that pace for a week and when he stopped I didn’t text him for like a week. When I finally did he replied so fast like “hi :)” but then switched. I think he thinks I don’t like him… Another time after I didn’t text for a while, I jus…	/r/seduction	04/09/22 03:35 AM
1	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better” What if I try and it works out? I wanna try but I’m not sure how. He said to text more and I want to but idk what to talk about	/r/seduction	04/09/22 02:30 AM
1	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better” I already moved on but idk how he keeps pulling me back… like example he hasn’t posted on his story in so long. I talked to him last night about someone looking like him. Then he starts posting selfies. But maybe I’m overthinking…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 11:51 PM
2	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better” Yeah. I’ll try to text him more and not be afraid to actually show my interest… I should before it’s too late anyways…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 10:13 PM
1	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better” The loss of interest is expected bc I’ve ignored him lots of times… like 5 times. Relating to the other comment, he used to text me like “hi :)” “yaaaa” and I’d be like “yeah” “oh” now he’s the one doing that to me. I already told him I’m starting to like him and he said “we haven’t talked in a long time though but text me more” and I texted once, he didn’t reply. I texted again, he replied but that was nerve racking for me. And I don’t wanna be annoying	/r/seduction	03/09/22 09:37 PM
2	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better” So how do I be equal on effort/return? If he’s dry now, do I put in more effort and hope he picks up my interest or?? But I’ll feel so weird doing it. It feels desperate and like I’m annoying	/r/seduction	03/09/22 09:33 PM
2	What should I do if someone says “idk what I want yet I have to know you better” He always responds it’s just that it’s so dry now…. Now he’ll be like “oh ok” “ya” before he would text me like “oh yeah cool, I like that. Sounds interesting”	/r/seduction	03/09/22 09:06 PM