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| 2 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101It really depends on who you're talking to. You can say cheesy lines in a serious way to romantics and in a joking way to flirty women. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101Several, which is why I suggested it. But i don't think you need any help manipulating people as a sociopath, lol. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 05:37 PM |
| 3 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101What would you suggest? | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 03:43 PM |
| 4 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101Wow. Are you 12? Is this how you prove your point? | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 03:21 PM |
| 0 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101I dig that. I've learned a lot from this sub in general. I know my answers will be downvoted so I usually don't reply at all. Sometimes, though, I feel like saying things I know work. The subtext here is that giving answers that show respect make the girl comfortable, and based on body language she will probably change her mind. That's what we do, we change our minds. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 03:17 PM |
| -12 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101Aren't you trying to get with women? | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 03:05 PM |
| -23 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101Let her know that's ok, and you hear her and respect what she says. "I can understand that, I just want to get to know you and have fun while doing that" | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Approached a girl at the gymThis is awesome, and you are awesome for being so kind and smooth! Good luck with your next attempts. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 01:09 PM |
| 7 | Approached a girl at the gymNah, even if the guy is unattractive to me it's still nice to get a compliment and be respected when I say no. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 01:07 PM |
| 3 | How can I get my confidence back with women? Haven’t done anything with a girl in at least 3 yearsHad a guy friend like this. I had to stop being friends with him because he was monitoring my actions so closely it was creepy. A year or so passed, he asked me out and we dated for three years. You are not being her friend by doing what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I get my confidence back with women? Haven’t done anything with a girl in at least 3 yearsI don't have advice for you, but if I went out with a guy and he told me that he'd taken a break from dating for a few years because he broke someone's heart and he wanted to make sure that didn't happen again that would be strong evidence to me that he puts thought into dating and I would like that about him. Conversely, if a guy told me that I make him anxious by just existing and that my opinions are enough to make or break him, I'd get out fast and look for someone more comfortable with them… | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | She says she likes me but somethimes she ignores my texts and we barely meet.I like you: you're a nice person. You make me feel comfortable. I can tell you anything. Versus Speechless, blushing spaz. I can't think straight when I'm around you. I like you and that thought is distracting. You have two options: tell her, don't tell her. My opinion? Don't tell her and work on finding more friends. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 03:08 PM |
| 2 | I cannot look at a girl the right wayYes, we are also humans just like you. We can make good friends. You can consider us pretty and not attractive at the same time. Treat us like people, please. | /r/seduction | 21/10/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | My anxiety over being a virgin is affecting my interactions with women, my friendships, and my grades.All my boyfriends have been virgins up to age 25. It's not a big deal really, because being a virgin is not the trait that determines your value to women. We want you to listen to what we want in bed and make us feel comfortable, sexy, and desirable. The internet can teach you these traits fairly well until a situation arises when you can start practicing those skills. There are tons of dudes that are not virgins that really really suck at having sex despite lots of practice and multiple partner… | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Would this work for picking up girls?Tell her friend ( when girl you like is not around )that you think the girl you like is really cute, then ask if she thinks you guys would work out. Let that stew for a bit. They'll probably be talking about you and looking over at you and laughing. That's a good thing. That most likely means all of them are excited/embarrassed. After that tension has built up- over a day or two, come back to the group and ask for her number. At 14, some girls, usually with older siblings, are cool about it and … | /r/seduction | 26/09/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.The obvious answer! Why did I have to scroll so far to find it! | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 03:14 PM |
| 3 | How to Kiss a Girl and Build Massive Sexual TensionThe article is actually pretty good, even if just a refresher. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 03:08 PM |
| 11 | How to Kiss a Girl and Build Massive Sexual TensionProbably because there isn't much romance in a thought process that follows; I just want to make sure you're a healthy specimen before I invest my acquired energy with the underlying subconscious understanding that any potential offspring will have the greatest possible chance at success. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Building up Kissing Confidence - The Cheek Brush10/10 would like to be kissed this way. Also, would turn away if: hands are dirty, breath is bad, stinky in any way, I look up and just see a giant mouth coming at me instead of eyes first. | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Girls reading seddit, what is your impression on our experiences and what we go throughlolwut? | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Girls reading seddit, what is your impression on our experiences and what we go throughI sometimes have qualities I look for in a date, but it seems like they don't even matter when I finally meet a guy I'm really into. Like I prefer to have tall guys, but the awesome guys I end up dating usually aren't that tall. Doesn't even matter if they're cool. Edit: as long as they're cool, the height thing doesn't matter | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 03:33 PM |
| 11 | Girls reading seddit, what is your impression on our experiences and what we go throughYes! Getting a better understanding of the male perspective has been very helpful for me too. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 03:22 PM |
| 41 | Girls reading seddit, what is your impression on our experiences and what we go throughAlso female! I agree with /u/lightergait! It's really cool to see y'all giving each other motivation and working to be better, happier people. I also think its fantastic that here you have a place where inexperienced dudes can come and ask questions. I've commented around here now and again, and my perspective is usually taken well. I laugh pretty hard when someone replies to me with 'yeah but girls only really want blah blah blah'. I've given dating advice to a few people based on what my femal… | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who crave attentionThey probably are all insecure. The confident girls can be found hanging out by themselves. (Or they are older, with more responsibilities) It depends on what your goal is. The hive mind can work both for and against you. If you want sex, you're in luck in this situation. All the details of any encounter with any of these girls will likely be shared with the entire group. If you're a good lay, its possible that more than one of these girls will have sex with you. If you want something more long … | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | I am [20/m]. I was her crush (19/f), and after sex she is not talking to me!Agreed. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | I am [20/m]. I was her crush (19/f), and after sex she is not talking to me!Maybe tell her that you feel like there was no closure after the party and that you would like to talk to her in person over ice cream or something about how she feels - but if you dont care about her feelings than dont engage her in any conversation. Definitely dont call a crazy girl a liar, that's just putting gasoline on the fire. If she wants to know details about what she doesn't remember, emphasize how much fun she was having, how she was beautiful when she was laughing, how she made you f… | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:53 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who are afraid to approach a super pretty girl.True. Being approached by an interesting or mysterious guy can change those stakes. A lot of attractive guys are super boring or self involved. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Handsomeness Hacks: 52 ways to look more attractive fastDeodorant is good to wear as long as its not too strong. I do like to be able to smell a guy's natural scent and don't want fake scents to overpower it. I can usually tell what brand of deodorant a guy buys based on smell. DO CARDIO. I don't care if you have muscles if you don't have stamina in bed. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | More often than not women pick men upWhile I haven't read this book, I use a few of these body language cues to make friends in social situations. Guy or girl, people are more relaxed in general when you do things like mimic their movements, make sure areas are non-threatening, and moderate your eye contact. Ultimately, the more comfortable a person is, the more he or she can focus on enjoying the experience rather than feeling self conscious. As a female, I'd say if you're having a conversation with a girl and she uses some of the… | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | 3 Ways to Pick Up Women (and Approach People) Pt 1 of 2So many words for about two real sentences of advice. To sum up the video: create a neutral situation to talk with a girl and be funny at someone else's expense. | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 10:30 PM |
| 1 | 3 Natural, Playful Ways to EscalateOr you could just say 'come over here' and have a space ready for her with your arm out. Then you're bold AND she gets a choice. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Throwing a partyWelcome to my house, thanks for coming. How's it going? Who are your friends? I'd like to show you[some awesome trinket/game/personal item] in my room. If the party goes well, meet up with girls later, then Hey remember when [this crazy thing] happened at that epic party I threw? | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | "You Don't Owe Women Shit", Excuses, & Other Techniques That Have Worked So FarWell let me tell you, we appreciate that. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months!Why do you have to be reminded that women are also human? | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What would be the point of not telling me she has a boyfriend?This! Thank you. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you SHOW attraction?Well that would work on me, because then I get the chance to say something if I don't want to be kissed. Of course, some girls are turned off by the loss of spontaneity. I guess that's the 'play it by ear' part. If she's in to you, though, it could be a romantic bridget jones moment. | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 05:15 PM |
| 8 | How do you SHOW attraction?-I was thinking about how pretty (you are) (your eyes are) (your mouth is) (your face is) -I want to kiss you sweep hair behind ear slowly | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 06:21 AM |
| 6 | How do you SHOW attraction?Yes! I agree with everything here. It's no fun to be out with a guy that won't look me in the eye. | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 06:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm fed up of being the guy people only go to for help/if they need something. Help me be the guy people want to be around.Stand up straight and look people in the eye when you speak to them, and smile. These are the easiest and fastest ways to become more approachable. | /r/seduction | 16/06/14 03:08 PM |
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