kizzlahRP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Stop telling guys to get abs and build muscle No sweat dude, most people start in the gym for the idea of getting women. It usually changes when you see growth and you realise youre chiselling a physique out yourself and you're kinda doing this for yourself now and it starts to feel so much better. I'm impressed on everything you're working on, most people would rather sit at home in denial, but you've decided to work on yourself to be a better version, that's always attractive to people.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 01:16 PM
1	approaching girl at work Dude, if you're asking this question, then you gotta leave it for work. I mean without saying the age old cliche "don't shit where you eat". You've said you're are not a social person, you're better off upskilling outside of work with people that can disappear from your life, if anything goes wrong. Ya can't do that to when you work together. However, worth noting the more you upskill outside of work the better skills you will have inside of work. She at that point if you tickle her fancy, may e…	/r/seduction	14/02/22 08:15 PM
1	Do girls like Indian guys? Women like the certain mindset and energy in guys regardless of their skin colour. "then atleast I would stop trying so hard" it's not your skin colour that's the issue here. Girls aren't attracted to this mindset. You're already looking for a way out, this is the energy you exhibit. Why is a girl going to be attracted to a person looking for a way out at the first sign of adversity? I hope you apply the same logic to your studies and see how ridiculous it sounds. If you're struggling at a modul…	/r/seduction	09/09/21 10:05 PM
1	I(M16) am soon starting high school this fall, I was a bit introverted in middle school and I am working on that of course, but I never had a girlfriend and I am in that teen phase where all I want is to get laid. Help me, I don't want to have four miserable years of high school. Hey man, you're killing it then! Nothing to overthinking or sweat about. Obviously the current situation isn't great on parties, focus on your increasing on your communication and be prepared to be rejected. It happens, just like in code...rarely does it work the way you want it to the firs time. But you don't let it deter you, you move on and fix it. Same thing here, you get hit with a rejection. It is what it is, on to the next one	/r/seduction	23/07/21 12:35 AM
2	I(M16) am soon starting high school this fall, I was a bit introverted in middle school and I am working on that of course, but I never had a girlfriend and I am in that teen phase where all I want is to get laid. Help me, I don't want to have four miserable years of high school. You're in high school, the cause can never be lost by this point. But more importantly your personality is malleable, it's ever changing so there is never a point that you will be a lost cause in life, remember that. Now that's out of the way, my one thing to tell you to do is relax and breathe. You have your whole life ahead of you. continue to build your social skills learn how to talk well to everyone, men and women. Talk to all sorts of people at school and have the goal of having fun and no…	/r/seduction	23/07/21 12:20 AM
1	Rant: I only spin plates when my oneitis doesn't give me attention All i see is a severe lack of discipline. Fix it.	/r/askTRP	30/04/21 08:28 PM
1	What is your career and would you or wouldn’t you recommend it? Cloud IT guy. I definitely recommend if you get high enough. Only been in the field 2 years and already out earn most people my age (under 30). I chose my degree cause of BP attitude "do what girls do and i will get them" (psychology). IT is where there is a shit tonne of money. But I will mimic what the other IT guy said, you'll hang around autistic nerds so you have to do your best not to be one. Its worth noting I did sacrifice 4 years of my life to do this and i mean studying late nights, no…	/r/askTRP	30/04/21 07:18 AM
4	I notice some of us live alone and do about our business, what's a quick improvement you've adapted to get motivated especially in the mornings? Stop worrying about motivation, discipline is your goal. Motivation comes and goes. But if you can create discipline in your life you are set. Doesn't matter what mood you're in, when you do what you say you're going to do, you will achieve what you're trying to achieve. It's as simple as that. Life is what we make of it. Change your perspective enjoy the paradox of being happy with who you are right now, because who you are right now is constantly evolving and being a better version of what you…	/r/askTRP	28/04/21 12:16 PM
2	How should I get rid of this anger phase Be happy in your acknowledgement of what you see now. I completely disagree that anger never goes away, I was angry for a few months. Then actually what I realised was the changes that I was implementing showed evidence that it worked. I'm just happy I understand the game now and can use it to my advantage. My focus is now on myself not on the "wife" & "nuclear family" I desperately tried to pursue. Remember the Iron Rule "women are incapable of loving a man the way he wants to be loved" that dr…	/r/askTRP	28/04/21 07:07 AM
6	[UPDATE] I think my gf is cheating on me Bruh, i wouldn't even sweat it, it's her loss. The guy she left you for is a step down. These chicks are usually self-sabotaging and never actually sorting their shit out. No beef. Just try not to laugh in her face too much at work when her 4ft 2 lazy ass boyfriend can't pay for her food so she tries to come back to you. Edit: clearing up bad english	/r/askTRP	18/04/21 11:18 PM
3	Anyone Else Feel That Being RP’d at a Young Age is “Unaccepted” It's an interesting concept but what the issue here is HOW one communicates these thoughts. Yes there are some hardcore beliefs that RP talks about that would be difficult to discuss in a group setting, but if you know how to talk about these things to general society, you'll find most RP concepts are actually accepted. RPers want to talk about everything in concise logical/rational notions. But that's not how BPers or women talk. So you come across as weird/mysognistic and all the other terms. …	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 08:35 PM
1	I have become really desentized, cant process normal things and everyday conversations. I'm taking a lot of efforts but dont know what the fuck is wrong with me. No one can get you out of this except yourself. Only you can do this. Turn your phone off, it isn't important. Check out the rocky balboa quote that starts with "But somewhere along the line, you changed."	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 09:39 AM
8	In general, do women like bigger(buffer) guys? Yes. Go lift dude. There's a reason why everyone screams it on every post here. It's not just about getting your foot int the door. The gym and creating your physique is something you can't fake, it's why women want built guys in general. yes game is more important, but you're shooting yourself in the foot if you don't look aesthetically pleasing on a visual level. It's harder to game a chick if she doesn't like the body Infront of her. Also lifting gives you an incredible self-esteem boost, bre…	/r/askTRP	10/04/21 11:24 AM
84	I feel like I'm a kid when I talk to adults even if I'm 28; what to do? Get out and learn shit. IQ means nothing, there are many ways to measure brain power EQ/SQ etc etc etc. Also culture effects IQ scores. Leaders usually have great EQ levels, so take some lessons in public speaking/listening and debate. So you can engage in those conversations and look like a phenom. What is it the people you are looking to hang out with well versed in? Most 40-50 year olds i know, talk politics and pub/alcohol and im able to give great input into those conversations. Other poste…	/r/askTRP	05/04/21 11:32 AM
2	Any tips on flirting with older women? They're at the peak of their SMV and you're just not, so handle that accordingly to RM and sidebar. Essentially, their game is subtle covert comms, push and pull is your game, what your attempting to do is heighten their intrigue in you, this will create attraction as long as on the pulls there is a sexual element. If you vibe with the chick I'd roll into getting a number and getting logistics so you can flirt in person with kino/body language and showing your confidence, otherwise you end up as…	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 08:50 PM
3	How to respond to "I'm just focusing on my self and my career" bs? Not worth it. If you really want to bang her, Then swap instagrams, tell her to contact you when she's done finished focusing on her career, then carry on living your high value lifestyle with an abundance mentality, she will slide into DMs if she wants to fuck, if she doesn't and you're doing the above I doubt you'll even notice.	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 02:42 PM
1	How to stop being too gentle and submissive? What in the world, what insane work environment is that? It's not exactly professional. Move company.	/r/askTRP	30/03/21 10:50 AM
1	How to stop being too gentle and submissive? From what I've read, you hold no value in your own self-worth. You believe others opinions and validations are more important then your own. Sir, you need to hold yourself in higher esteem. You need to shift your perspective to one of "what if people don't like me/say bad things about me" to one of you cannot control what others think about you, you can only do things that you think is the right. It's as simple as that (easier said then done though). The way I achieved this is by not having a co…	/r/askTRP	30/03/21 10:12 AM
1	How to get smv high as a 17 year old I think it's just keep to the simple shit at your age, stay at the gym, be disciplined don't lapse. This will help in the future as well, as you keep and stay fit through your 20s and later by making it a habit. Joining a sports team at school is always good shout. Really give yourself to the group objectives and having an goal bigger then yourself. Also good to get a good bunch of friends around at school = invites to parties and shit most of the time. Dress better for the age you are. I know y…	/r/askTRP	07/11/20 12:13 PM
18	Was I stupid turning down a co-worker? Don't. Shit. Where. You. Eat. This question appears over and over again in the subreddit and the answer is always a resounding "no". The only time it's a "yes" is if you don't give a fuck about your job and can change anytime. There are bitches everywhere, not just at your job. Edit: Also, do what you want.	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 11:08 AM
3	Losing Motivation to Do Anything. How to get back up? Shit dude! Appreciate the post and the time you took out to write it. I'll definitely check the resources you posted. Always like to learn other avenues, especially stuff like this which sounds like it will be a huge improvement. Have a good day sir!	/r/askTRP	24/10/20 11:16 PM
2	Losing Motivation to Do Anything. How to get back up? This is a really interesting one dude have you anymore information on it? Only cause I listen to a lot of motivational speakers - eric thomas/inky johnson/Arnie etc etc who talk about don't sleep, - chase your goals. Something Arnie said has always stuck with me, little paraphrasing but essentially: People who claim say they need 8-10 hours sleep, "need 2 more hours in your day? Sleep 6 hours a night. How? Sleep faster" Reason I mention this because I do catch up sleep cyclically, and I'm wonder…	/r/askTRP	24/10/20 10:43 PM
29	Losing Motivation to Do Anything. How to get back up? This guy knows, and it is the only correct answer. “Self-disciplined begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you don’t control what you think, you can’t control what you do." — Napoleon Hill	/r/askTRP	24/10/20 09:19 AM
15	a very friendly, sociable, fun, but mentally deranged FWB (31) who has 25-35 sexual partners, including threesomes. 3 abortions, sex tapes, lesbian adventures, stripper friends, is there any chance she will become an LTR, or will she never be able to stop? "mentally deranged" "31" "any chance she will become an LTR?" HAHAHAHA, do it OP post results...	/r/askTRP	11/10/20 09:37 PM
2	Dumped by an HB9 and devastated. Abundance Vs scarcity mentality, it's like the first few chapters of the RM, Go back and read it. Develop abundance mentality, and this won't be an issue.	/r/askTRP	11/10/20 07:46 PM
5	Please knock some sense into me. Should I move out of where I lived with my GF? Leave. You don't owe her anything. Also you're a man, why are you leaning on your now ex for financial support? All you gotta think is it's her loss, wish her the best and don't see her again.	/r/askTRP	11/10/20 07:41 PM
4	"Women are less viable/attractive to date once they are past their prime eg 30s onwards" What do you think of this? I was told by a close RP'd friend, it's generally a bad idea to date women above 30. Unless you've known them a long time, and can confirm they aren't "fucked in the head" There's too much baggage, especially if they've dated a lot before dating you Obviously I didn't listen and at age 25, I dated a 33 year old. Let me tell you it was the craziest few months of my life. You could tell almost straight away that majority of arguments that were occurring were nothing to do with you but past conflic…	/r/askTRP	10/10/20 12:22 PM
5	Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why? Because we all hoped your question was rhetorical. Why did woman cut hair then regret it later? You can say that about any woman ever. It's literally a trope everyone has seen before. Woman with longer hair Woman: I want short hair Gets hair cut Woman: omg I hate it I want long hair Repeat. You know when the above doesn't happen for a woman in a relationship? When she actually cares about her partners opinion. Haha man sftu, this has nothing to do with investment in an LTR, your question was lit…	/r/askTRP	10/10/20 08:25 AM
8	Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why? She has a stronger frame then you. She cares nothing of your opinion and has shown you. Stop being a pussy and break up with her or be her provider. Choice is yours. But don't come to a question asking Reddit then say you didn't want an answer. You just look stupid. If you want somewhere to have a tantrum buy a notepad.	/r/askTRP	10/10/20 07:24 AM
16	How to text a girl you've never met IRL? This guy's cracked the Instagram code, love it	/r/seduction	09/10/20 10:48 PM
12	How to text a girl you've never met IRL? I agree, the argument falls down when you think people got together before the creation of dating apps.	/r/seduction	09/10/20 10:02 PM
40	How to text a girl you've never met IRL? Maybe he means ask as a comment, on said picture showing the mutual interest? Anyway Instagram is a numbers game through and through, hot girls with high followers are probably getting hit with unsolicited messages 24/7. Even being attractive valuable guy you'd need to get lucky to get seen. So what to do? My best friends advice was, try once to get her attention, and if you dont succeed? Move on. Also, Have an Instagram yourself that shows you're interesting. If she's read your message, she wil…	/r/seduction	09/10/20 09:57 PM
1	How early can you detect pregnancy? Haha! Legit "I'm already pregnant so we don't need to use a condom" I've heard that before...chicks are wafty	/r/askTRP	29/09/20 12:09 PM
1	Tired of girls trying to have sex with me(serious). You're 30 so your coming into your prime phase etc, it sounds like you've internalised the idea that pussy isn't your primary concern, do you have over focuses? I don't see it as an issue if you do have other focuses. Chicks not cumming from PIV I don't think is an issue (someone may say I'm incorrect here). Some chicks don't orgasm that way, or they only orgasm in a certain position for PIV. But if you not banging the same girl regularly, you'll never know I guess! But reading this sub and my o…	/r/askTRP	29/09/20 09:45 AM
2	Do I hide my books? If this is the case, hide them damn books, in my blue pill days I was complimented on something I did to a woman and in the interests of "honesty"/(being beta and wanted more appreciation) I told her I learnt about it from a web article. She fully freaked out about it. Just mimicking others in the thread they want "naturals". They want the idea you and her just "happened" and it was "magical" not that you just flicked the correct biological switches in her head. It's not a mans world in your sch…	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 07:50 AM
1	How to get rid of blackpill mentality at 18 yo Dude just relax, you're 18. If you've read into RP then you know your SMV increase hasn't even begun really. You're in the best position now to influence it. Focus on bettering yourself/lifting/lifestyle/becoming alpha. Enjoy the process it's a grind, but smile that in just a few years you'll be in the top percent of men, if you put the grind in.	/r/askTRP	26/09/20 07:00 PM