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i dont think the reason she had sex with you came from honesty lol. She was into you from the start. The kissing was obviously on her mind as well. That's always the way tbh. People have sex because they are attracted. How you actually choose to escalate is irrelevant
/r/seduction25/11/21 12:38 AM
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that probably explains it then.
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:52 PM
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give their attention to the same 2-3 guys Are they especially good looking?
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:57 PM
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looks are 10x more important than social skills/game if we're talking about banging girls. Without looks/her attraction, you don't even get off the starting blocks lol. Best game in the world will still be a rejection.
/r/seduction26/03/21 01:20 PM
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Sure he's fine. Seemed to slowly market himself less and less ever since he was exposed as yet another pua fraud who used actresses in his infields
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:47 AM
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what a cop out! lol There's no magical 'routines' that can make a girl like you OP Find girls who like how you look, and flirt. That's as 'advanced' as is possible. I promise you. I've read all the books and field tested it all
/r/seduction08/02/21 08:53 AM
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complete waste of money (UNLESS you are someone who literally doesn't know how to hold eye contact etc) There's no magic secrets to this. Find girls who like how you look - flirt. Try to close
/r/seduction08/02/21 08:50 AM
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south East Asia - yeah, pretty much. Don't get your hopes up in Poland and Russia, though (although still better odds than back at home)
/r/seduction08/02/21 08:49 AM
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This might have been an unpopular opinion back in the days of mysterymethod before youtube and stuff when it was harder to disprove all his 'theories' (which was really just marketing to make money selling his stuff to unnattractive men) But nowadays, i'd say what you have said is what the vast majority know now to be true Game is great. It helps you bang the girls who are into you by not messing it up. But yes, you're correct. You can't 'game'/'seduce' a girl who isn't attracted to you. No more…
/r/seduction07/02/21 04:10 PM
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i think there's lots of truth in this. Just don't know how one goes about getting a social circle with tonnes of young girls in it from scratch. People always say things like 'go to a dancing or cooking class' but like, for starters, I bet most of the females there are old women. And it also means doing something you're not even interested in (dance classes!) in order to hope to meet hot girls who also happen to think you're hot! Seems like such a long shot!
/r/seduction07/02/21 04:01 PM
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stick dick in. Don't cum in 2 mins. You now know how to fuck. You're welcome ;)
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:37 PM
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You mean some things seem to 'work' sometimes and not other times? If so, that's basically why 'PUA' has largely been debunked at this point and people have moved on from the old 'mysyerymethod' days where people believed 'Do xyz and she will magically become attracted to you' lol. Most stuff 'works' because you just happen to be her type. Lots of people think they pulled a girl because of their game when it was actually 'in spite' of their game. That's why numbers game is the only truism of it …
/r/seduction30/01/21 09:26 AM
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They're essentially selling you fresh air for $2k! It's about approaching girls until you find one that likes you/is attracted, and from that point, there's really no special verbal techniques you need. She's attracted. She'll do half of the work for you! Just talk about whatever and slowly escalate. These 'coaches' are just normal guys in a fake unregulated industry where you yourself could be a 'coach' tomorrow if you wanted too. You can't 'seduce' an unattracted girl. With or without paying '…
/r/seduction14/01/21 12:52 PM
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it's a bit like that in the UK. I personally approach strangers in bars, but on a night out, it's very uncommon that i'll see someone else do it. There could be 2 hot girls at the bar all night, and i'll be the only one to try my luck despite there being loads of other single guys there. (people tend to just want to hang around their social circles) And the reactions you get in general are a lot unfriendlier than they are in, say , the US where it's way more normal to approach strangers
/r/seduction28/12/20 10:06 PM
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I deleted mine a while back. Unless you're genetically blessed you're gonna be out of luck. In real life, of course you'll get rejected if you're not her type (despite amazing game) BUT, if you are 'borderline' hot in her eyes, you can game her from a 'maybe' too a 'yes' On tinder, every average girl is matching with the best looking dudes. (you ever seen an average girls tinder? I have!!! Mind = blown lol) Why would she go with some guy who's average looking when she can just swipe and bang the…
/r/seduction27/12/20 08:13 PM
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why'd they use a super hot girl and a kind of geeky, average looking guy (with a decent body, but face isn't great). Shame lol Also, girls have slut shame going on so need to gamed a little. But they still experience attraction the same. (That's why you have girls drooling over hot guys on tiktok and insta all day) They just act on it differently. End of the day, some game is usually required, even for hot guys. But if she's not physically attracted to you, game will not help you at all.
/r/seduction27/12/20 09:59 AM
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not just that. He basically conceded that 'game is just a tool to use on girls who like how you look' (that's what he said in his blog) I basically agree with him, but then, I think it's strange that he'd write books on game if that was his belief!
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:31 PM
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nah, tbh lots of young girls (like 18) react that way evne if your approach is perfect if they aren't attracted to you (i've even seen infields that show that from people like Vadeem of honest signals and Todd V and a few others). It's just what lots of girls do in order to not encourage you to talk to her since why would she want that if you're not her type I've seen that JulienRSD infield, too. It wasn't a bad approach 'on purpose' or anything. It was a solid approach as always (he has good ga…
/r/seduction26/12/20 10:47 AM
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most men look their best in their late 20's, i'd say. So that's when they can slay most girls the easiest After that can come wrinkles and balding/grey hair and it being harder to keep in shape etc, so most hot 18 year olds won't be attracted. Older women are less superficial about looks though, so you should still be able to hook up with hot 30 year olds (they exist and they're hot. Just not as hot as 18 year olds lol) Too young, and you tend to just look too babyish and demonastrate a lack of …
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:35 PM
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You need to actively learn from your failures and successes to see results unless you are spitting when you talk or soemthing, it's usually not a matter of doing something 'wrong'. You simply weren't her type. And that's fine. It's easy to kid yourself into thinking 'Ahh, that girl liked me because I said this', or 'that girl rejected me because i looked away for a second when she said x' etc. There's infinite variables. Not to mention that each 'PUA' competely disagrees with the next one about …
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:31 PM
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same here. Get this....literally like 95% of my lays have been form cold approach at night. (more situation than choice, though. If I had a good social circle with tonnes of girls in it etc, I'm sure I woudn't need to cold approach quite so much)
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:01 AM
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lol, that reminded me of last week, Erik Menendez (famous killer) was trending all over tiktok as someone posted a vid of him and realised he was handsome when he was young, and it BLEW up all over ticktok with thousands of 16 year olds posting like 'He can MURDER my pussyy!!'' haha.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:21 PM
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Pretty much. Game is all about helping you bang the girls who are attracted to you. If someone has zero game, he still might fail to bang the girl who thinks he's hot. (failure to escalate, failure to sexualise, failure to not bore her to death etc. She'll find a new guy she thinks is equally handsome instead) But as you say, it's pure marketing when people want you to believe you can 'convince' or persuade a girl into being sexually attracted to you using 'game'. Hell, even the dudes marketing …
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:14 PM
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A mixture of both I tihnk. On the one hand, if an older guy takes good care of himself and looks good and the gap isn't ridiculously big, she'll still be attracted. Like a good looking 40 year old could probably bang a fair few 21 year olds. But there's also some delusion on redpill forums and stuff where people think you can be some geriatric with one foot in the grave, and still bang hot 17 year old cheerleaders lol. Truth is, the ones that do that do so not because she's attracted (by his 'ga…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:33 PM
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ol. I tihnk this is something that 'mystery' (mysterymethod) invented to sell his courses and books and everyone ran with it! All the girls i've know , even sisters and friends and ex's etc are attracted to a man if she thinks he's hot and not attracted if he's not. People want to believe that women are blind robots lol.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:37 PM
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they're not actually 'attracted'. (like you're not attracted to an old ugly rich woman) But they're willing to get with you due to status as they get many benefits from it
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:22 PM
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Not sure what you mean If your post was about how you keep having the girls you're trying to pickup in bars stolen by chad, i'd say there's not a whole lot you can do about that (my wingman is a chad. It's freaking brutal lol. Never in your life again will you believe the 'girls don't care about looks' stuff!! haha) But it sounds like you're just friends with this girl? And it's more just about how it makes you feel like shit when you see good looking guys? Is it also how this female friend chan…
/r/seduction13/12/20 10:03 AM
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not so much advice. Just like, if i'm out with my sis and her friends and a guy approaches one of the girls and she ignores him, she tells me it was because he wasn't hot. If a good looking guy approaches her, then it's basically always a makeout, and if he has a bit of game, he gets laid I mean it's not rocket science. I think a lot of people get a bit brainwashed in this community and start to ignore all sort of logic and common sense lol. (like how female PUA coaches tell their female custome…
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:46 PM
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I meant just younger girls in general tbh. I'd say it's identical for both sexes (physical attraction comes first if we're talking about hooking up) Of course personality still matters if we're talking about relationships etc If she thinks you're not physically attractive or whatever, I know there's not special words (as you say) to turn her on and make her want to sleep with you (feel free to give examples that we can all test though lol) I mean, there's actualy female PUA sites out there too, …
/r/seduction12/12/20 08:30 PM
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Here's the thing, women will almost always be more concerned about your behavior/personality over your looks. Unfortunately, I don't think that's even close to being true (I think that's something that 'mystery' invented to help sell his courses and the PUA community just ran with it after that lol) Experience of myself and those around me (as well as talking to sisters and their friends etc) tells me looks actually come first (she needs to think you're cute for there to be romance, in the same …
/r/seduction12/12/20 08:12 PM
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She likely just wasn't into you. Not your fault/nothing you can do about it. Don't stress over it.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:24 PM
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They're not 10s in my book. Those are the kind of girls you stay away from, the ones that are all looks and Instagram stories but are hollow on the inside with basically no personality. I know what you mean, but we're visual creatures, and trying to not be attracted to them is like trying to not be hungry lol
/r/seduction05/12/20 08:49 PM
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Having money doesn't help. Most of these young girls can probably earn more from onlyfans than most professionally successful guys nowadays and aren't interested in you having money.
/r/seduction05/12/20 08:44 PM
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He's just a fraud like the rest of them. Played off the whole 'i'm a famous magician and there's TV crews filming be because i'm so famous' act. 'negs' will get you massively ignored by the hot insta girls of today (they don't need to chase your validation if you neg them if they don't think you're hot. They have thousands of fanboys)
/r/seduction27/11/20 08:41 AM
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my thoughts are, as long as it's legal, do whatever the hell you want! One silly argument against it is the idea that younger girls are easy to 'manipulate' into sex if you are older, but it's not true. We're not talking about 8 year old girls here who you could trick with reverse psychology or bribing her with candy lol. Most 18 year olds are out there posing semi naked on insta and considering opening an 'only fans' account lol. And just like a girl much older, ATTRACTION is still required. Th…
/r/seduction22/11/20 11:43 AM
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Don't know why you were downvoted. Depends where you are. In the UK, bouncers and bar staff literally ENSURE you aren't mixing with people outside of your group of 5, with a heavy hand. Cold approach has been impossible for months in the bars near me. Only on the streets after bars closing is where i've been able to try my luck
/r/seduction21/11/20 05:12 PM
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at night in bars etc (God how I miss them! Go away, covid!!!) then some sort of situational opener. A comment on something about her or the environment etc. Even a cheesy chatup line is better than introducing yourself, as long as you say it from a place of fun and you show that you are well aware that it's cheesy etc. For daygame, I think just being direct makes the most sense. Tell her you get that it's a bit unusual to just approach random person (this is known as a statement of empathy and s…
/r/seduction21/11/20 05:03 PM
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Best one was "Hi I'm fez" and her response was "And I care why?" and just walked away. That made me laugh because when I first learnt of 'game', all the advice for openers was to just go over and introduce yourself (american PUA coaches) As a Brit, I thought 'man, that just sounds awkward to just introduce yourself like that!'. I brought up my concerns in forums etc, but everyone was like ''Dude, game is universal. Just do it'. So I did it, and basically every single girl reacted in the way you …
/r/seduction21/11/20 10:26 AM
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i'd go as far as to say it's basically never your fault. Or very rarely. Only in rare circumstances where you done something completely uncalibrated or acted super weird (call it a complete lack of 'game') would it be possible that you didn't get the girl due to your own mess ups. Most of the time, a rejection is completely 100% out of your control. Usuually she's just not into you. Not attracted. You're not her type. And there's nothing you can do about that. All the negs and pushpull lines and…
/r/seduction26/10/20 10:57 AM
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it's never THAT bad here in the UK. 90% of the time (I approach in bars), the girl will just look at you with a slight look of disdain, and will do everything in her power to not really engage you. Just nod her head to your cold reads or give one-word -answers to your questions at best whilst looking away, no matter your 'game' (assuming she's not into you sexually of course). You can apply every pushpull line and all PUA stuff but it cuts zero ice if she's not into you From memory, my 'worst' r…
/r/seduction24/10/20 04:48 PM
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Looks, money, status, means nothing if you can't hook her genuine interest i think the bar is actually kinda low in terms of 'saying cool, interesting things' if she is really attracted to you and thinks you're hot. (there's a poster on a forum I could link you too who has proven this). Also I have 2 slayer friends who are both boring dudes, but they slay so much pussy as they are both extremely handsome men (no homo!) Conversly, i'm not convinced that 'game' can help if you're just not her type…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:57 AM
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Sorry, if there were actual techniques to manipulate women to sleep with guys they don’t want to, every dude would know and use them already. couldn't have said it better myself! Yet this is exactly what guys are looking for. And what many PUA's promise. And it's kind of the very definition of old school game in terms of banging the girls who are't into you - in 'converting' them from 'hell no!', to 'please bang me!!!'. Every guys dream and the PUA promise, yet pure fantasy. Funny thing is that …
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:42 AM
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I appreciate the intention, but i'm afraid that there's likely a good reason that the discussions don't tend to take that route, and it's basically the same reason that all of the PUA forums (there used to be loads) have all shut down due to lack of activity Basically, there really does seem to be enough proof now (with the invention of youtube etc that didn't exist back in the mysterymethod days) that lots of their ideas simply don't hold any weight. basically all just maketing (I won't even me…
/r/seduction20/10/20 10:04 PM
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it's the same as it is for us guys in my experience. Loads of young girls confirm this tbh. Looks first, and then personality.
/r/seduction11/10/20 09:58 AM
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i tihnk nah, if a girl isn't attracted to you at all, all the negs and pushpull lines (verbal game) won't help at all. i've tried lol
/r/seduction11/10/20 09:57 AM
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One of the things that still angers me to this day is that, when I firist got into this years ago and was looking for tips etc, everyone would tell me that it's the same everywhere. 'Game is universal' etc etc. I'd have saved so much time if people didn't talk out of their asses lol. I was forced to find out for myself I now know (having travelled to many countries and appraoched many girls) that basically 'game' as it's taught and most of the rules are basically US specific. A random example is…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:47 PM
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thanks. Yeah, i've already seen all of his programs. I know it all inside out I was just curious as to whether YOU were talking about something in particular/specific cheers
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:42 PM
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practicing the most important 1-2 things you have learned what sorts of things? Everything I read on game is the most obvious stuff that only edward scissorhands would need to 'learn' or 'practice' lol. (smile when she tells a joke, ask her questions, say 'hi' to open her, make eye contact etc etc)
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:18 PM
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Like she looked at me dead in the eye and then looked away...while I was talking to her. It stings but I always move on. I didn't do anything wrong and she's the one that was rude ha, that's like the reaction I get about 90% of the time from pretty younger girls where I live. Cold approach just isn't considered normal outside of the US it seems
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:21 AM
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thanks. Yeah, that appears to be the case. I'm gonna try a few more times (my town really is full of model looking girls lol) and then quit and save my ego a little!
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:41 PM
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This is actually a really interesting post and I know exactly what you mean lol. I'm someone who's only ever hooked up with girls from complete cold approach. so basically walk up to girl in a bar, tell her I like her and flirt, and 1 in a 500 might like me back and we hook up)= (watching 'infields' will help you understand this if you can't picture how that happens) but any other type of 'getting together' just seems alien to me since i've never done it Like, i'm always so curious 'how it happe…
/r/seduction02/08/20 02:47 PM
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holy shit. I'm in Crawley! Didn't think i'd see someone on this sub from here lol. When the bars get back to normal, we can totally go out here and approach together! tonnes of hot girls here, tbh. Although I consider it 'hard mode' based on my experience in gaming in other places!!
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:40 PM
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A lot of it is in the subcommunication, I think
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:30 PM
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