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kkillah/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:47 PM
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so men are unhappy bc they would rather have sex 24/7 than be fulfilled through self growth and other connection filled activities that women do without sex involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:25 AM
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how is education gynocentric?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:23 AM
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its definitely society?? gender is a social construct and what you’re saying is sexist. men have feelings and we should normalize them being sad/anxious/whatever AND getting help from LICENSED professionals and not their significant others. men and women need to get their shit figured out on their own for the most part and no one should believe in a manic pixie girl fantasy. the fact that you believe its in biology is comical, as there is tons of information on when society decided to change the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 07:45 PM
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not really, as women usually have to change or be beautiful in order to win that man over. they don’t plan for prince charming to fix all of her problems or make her a healthier person, they just want to have him in their life usually. plus men write those stories, and men wrote superhero things too, so those are things written by men to be consumed by young women to force them to believe they need a man to rescue or save them and then they can be subservient to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 07:39 PM
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it’s a level of respect where they assume you know what you’re talking about but said a dumb idea vs. assumption you aren’t qualified at all AND you get your job mansplained to you instead of the random on off bad idea assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:35 AM
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im not going to waste my time on this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:16 AM
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both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 12:37 AM
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fr. women fought for the right to choose and be viewed as equals. not to only work or to only be housewives. we wanted the choice to be who and what we’d like to be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 12:36 AM
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women fought for the choice to work or not yk? you dont HAVE to work to be a feminist, and at the same point in time, being a housewife or enjoying it isn’t antifeminist. we fought to choose for ourselves and be on equal footing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 12:35 AM
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or bc men in charge view them as diversity hires. women do the same amount of work as men as well as unpaid emotional labor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 12:34 AM
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why are people not allowed to grow and change?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:36 AM
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yea i suppose the stigma hurts both sides. im j saying that we should start normalizing debriefing and learning so that men dont get so much performance anxiety and so that women aren’t so judgy and can be more able to participate more without being judged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:35 AM
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if men were open to actual constructive criticism and getting better there wouldn’t be an issue. but y’all dont want to learn, you just want to be told you’re the best ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 06:28 PM
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wdym? men view women as objects that give them what they want and trash them whether they do or dont. there are deadass no benefits to living w men bc they’re so insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:20 PM
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yea but the issue is if women put out for bf material right away, he treats her like a sex ATM when she wants to LTR. its backwards bc if we put out we’re whores and men will treat us like an object. women like having sex/doing sexual activities. we have sex drives. its j not our whole personality and decision making process also people grow and change. men are allowed to fuck and go for their whole life- if women do that they’re terrible moms and terrible wife/gf material bc they have no abilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:44 PM
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nice women are equally delusional thinking they will ever be able to cohabitate w men who see women as objects. they should just marry other women and use dildos and strap ons, its a way better experience anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:41 PM
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i’ve actually never had a ONS and i’m bi so i also date females but thanks for assuming ! anyways, if y’all didn’t punish women for putting out, we would more often. but men do punish women for having sex right away. thats why you have to wait for it women enjoy sex but we are socialized to be a man’s favorite warm cum sock. we don’t like this and we dont view relationships as purely transactional. men pump and dump every girl, how is someone supposed to know they’re more than a warm body?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:40 PM
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imagine calling women easy and sluts but also trying to bone right away... then when women wont put out bc they want to attract a partner they care abt they get called manipulative and trash. women are human beings as are men. each is unique and the status quo for one relationship is not the same across the board bc every person is different and dynamics are different. there’s a difference between hookups and actual attempts at LTD, which since men are so horny, women have to make them wait or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 06:20 AM
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they fuck ONS bc they dont care abt the man. they make bf material wait bc they care and men think that girls who put out are whores and easy. we play this game bc men are hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 06:17 AM
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if a woman puts out she’s too easy bc men are hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 06:16 AM
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yea which kinda sucks bc like i want it to be equal but i just dont think it can be 100% there yk? idk regardless, i think a lot of women would be okay w men being able to financially abort a child if it meant they could actually have choice over their body
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 01:39 AM
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i’d rather A. as a woman i have no issue w a man financially and legally aborting his child and responsibilities w it. i dont know how i feel abt a man wanting to keep the baby and a woman financially/legally aborting it tho bc she’d have to carry something to term that she doesn’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 12:51 AM
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yall are equally responsible for it. if you dont want to pay child support or think that single women w children are gross or whatever, get a vasectomy or BC. its so much easier to pretend its not your fault WHEN YOU HAD SEX TOO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 08:44 PM
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women needing men to take care of children isn’t a necessity anymore. since women have more opportunities for better education or careers, it’s no longer a necessity for her to have a husband to have a child. it’s typically because they want children but they don’t want to be married or they had sex and decided they didn’t want to abort. most people think marriage is a crapshoot so singles raising kids could potentially be a new norm. also don’t forget to ask yourself, why are men impregnating w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 02:50 PM
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STOP bitching then also no it wouldn’t, but keep jacking yourself off w the men are superior bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 05:03 PM
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we fought for choice and have it. now yall are mad that you dont have choice. who’s in the government? mostly men. who made the patriarchy a thing? men. who keeps toxic masculinity? men and a few women. who complains that women should go back to their old roles bc its easier? men. fight for choice if that’s what you want. stop pretending that women resigned you to our current society
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:42 PM
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women do too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:18 PM
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men made themselves into that role. you don’t have to do that. dont pretend women don’t hace responsibilities too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:18 PM
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it hasn’t tho bc there’s tons of statistics and backing to it... same with there being a wage gap depending on race
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:17 PM
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because we don’t have to. you can’t enable behavior and then complain it’s happening while pretending you’re a martyr. make men stop going into those jobs. women will fulfill them. stop pushing the patriarchy into our culture and forcing gender norms. boom, women won’t feel pushed into being in selfless jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:40 AM
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men also get paid more, so ofc they’d hire women bc they think they’re a cheaper source of labor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 10:13 PM
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why do you think only men do things in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 10:11 PM
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that’s bc society is too focused on external stimulation to have internal happiness. men have been using trophy wives and trophy lives for years and no one involved besides men were happy in that situation. live life to be happy for yourself and for self growth. not everyone can be world famous but you can do amazing things every day that just make you happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:37 PM
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that’s assuming men don’t harass when women are dressed modestly, which is simply not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:21 PM
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saying that slut shaming women is a natural strategy for humans since forever. humans do not act like animals 80% of the time and dating is no different. don’t pretend like men using power over women is natural or shit when we don’t do anything else by the law of animals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:30 PM
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you’re only proving my point by saying men aren’t animals. so stop pretending like that’s a valid excuse for SHITTY behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:26 PM
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i want men to stop excusing their behavior as following primal urges when it’s obvious that it isn’t. it’s lack of self control and abuse of power. by disagreeing w me comparing us to animals, you are only proving my point more that MEN are not more animalistic than women and that women deny most of their ‘animal nature’ in current society. so men can too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:25 PM
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what purpose do men serve then? half of the time yall willy out of child support or refuse to put a condom on. women are already responsible for like everything pre sex since men don’t have to be accountable for any thing that they do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:00 PM
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yea except lionesses typically have sex with all the males in the group for parental care taking, the alpha the most and he often doesn’t know abt mating w the lesser males. within the same pride, males do not fight over females. they will fight over position but they do not kill each other for sex related issues. they challenge the alpha but if they lose that’s the end of it. the alpha does not kill him, and if he bests the alpha, he becomes it. the deadly fights occur with outside males attemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 10:45 PM
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except if a pride has more than one male lions that take over (which is often the case as there are typically two lesser males that the females also mate with), the females mate with them all, just the “alpha” male most frequently so that none know which cub is theirs. yes other males come along and kill the cubs but there is almost always more than one male in a pride anyways. they’re just ‘lessers’. males in the bird kingdom who do mate are the superior or smarter genetics, there are other mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 10:44 PM
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women of other species have lots of sex too ? literally lots of animals do not care abt “sluts” bc that only exists in the human world. has anyone ever called a lioness a slut for having sex with all the males in her current pride? has anyone ever called a female bird a slut for letting a different male mate w her each mating season? what about girl cats or dogs? oh, no? so your comparison of human sexual behavior to animal sexual behavior is flawed and shouldn’t be used in such a broad sense. m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:09 PM
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cancel culture isn’t the issue. people are mad that they’re getting called out for their bad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:06 PM
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yes. i moved from a city to a farm area for college and it’s definitely weird to see the differences between college city students and farm students
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:00 PM
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we do know how to socialize, we’re also j stressed as hell w the environment and world we inherited. technology connected us to everything, we didn’t get baby filters or protection from how evil the world is. its easier to focus on working and trying to find a job than it is to date, but its also easier to not get hurt by one more thing to have flings or fwb. we have a lot of mental issues or disorders dude. chill w the ‘back in my day’ BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:58 PM
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bc of the patriarchy. taking dick is weakness and so being gay or bi is being a weak man. however, vagina is good bc men like vagina and taking control and penetrating. being penetrated is being weak
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:49 PM
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but it could be better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:59 AM
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lmfao at least you acknowledge it’s not equal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:23 AM
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and what if they changed and grew up? something you did as an 18 year old you may not do anymore but, the past is a predictor of future behavior right? you being stupid 3 years ago means you’re still stupid now. no one ever changes or grows out of bad behavior or poor choices. you are always the same exact person you have been since you became conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:42 PM
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so women can’t have any sex but men get to use and “practice” however much they want right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:39 PM
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comparing consensual sex in the past vs actual abusive people and abusive acts.... very different situations, but a good try at a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:37 PM
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sure bud. when men stop seeing women as sex objects or men are treated equally as sex objects, then we’ll talk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:08 AM
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gender roles exist to stop women from being equal and to stop men from having to grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:52 PM
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couldn’t have said this better tbh. thank you for saying it so eloquently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:29 PM
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i have been here for a bit as i wanted male opinion on dating but its like skewed bc of stereotypes
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:04 AM
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that’s wrong. im a woman and i would love a stay at home hubby if i earned more. idc how much he earns as long as he’s caring
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:57 AM
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yea, religion and personal morals abt being together without being married. they made my younger cousins go on dates with supervisors 24/7 and northern wisconsin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:45 PM
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i dont think marriage is for everyone, but i think its a ‘status’ in our society so people force themselves into it when they aren’t ready bc of society/parents/religion/whatever. my aunt and uncle forced both of my cousins to get married or get cut off with their first significant others bc they found out they were cohabitating without being married. both of my cousins have sketchy spouse’s imo and all i see is future divorce tbh bc they fight 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:12 PM
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plus you just genuinely care about their wellbeing and their emotions too. you do things to help their life be easier and make them be happy, which in turn makes you happy. plus they(if they’re good people) will do the same for you (not like the exact same thing as everyone speaks love differently, but their energy will be towards your happiness)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:11 PM
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id rather date a good and independent person than a rich one. idc abt money that michigan
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:43 PM
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i mean for women it would be more like tall women bc men dont seem to like taller women and its the same issue for short men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 07:28 PM
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i mean these things are fundamentally different but if thats how men read that then i have the info i need
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:45 PM
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i think men overestimate what dating means and every person sees it differently. to me dating means consistently seeing each other with occasional/moderate cohabitation and sex/romantics exclusive to each other. its not marriage or engagement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:01 PM
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no, i understood your point and it was what i was asking for- the male perspective on what you want to see there. and its nothing basically. thank you for your input
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:42 AM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:44 AM
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plus ive literally put my face out there on r/amiugly to prove a point to men on r/ppd which is ridiculous that i had to do that for credibility
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:12 AM
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okay. thank you tbh bc i read the ppd and trp and it j makes me feel very lost as a woman bc i dont want to have casual sex but i want to date? every time i ask for advice from males they basically tell me im asking for too much, going out of my league, not bringing anything to the table besides a vagina, and being too much of a prude w sex. like idk why everyone wants sex tbh. its j not that great imo to have unless you love them (but apparently that’s too much of a standard that i “shouldn’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:10 AM
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okay. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:55 AM
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i do... idk if you looked through my post history but i’ve only dated men within my league. i know im not above a 6 so i dont date above 6s. however that doesn’t change that when i match w men that are 6 and below, they still want to pump and dump (probs bc they’ve been burned being the nice guy tbh and are resorting to getting theirs first)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:54 AM
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tinder is called a dating app.... also if you use any dating app this is pretty much the experience. what do you want to read to get the message that someone isn’t looking to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:00 AM
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try using any other dating app... they’re all for hookups. literally, hinge, bumble, any of them. tinder is the one that’s used most so it has the best chance for finding someone tbh. even if im not using tinder, on my bumble/hinge profiles it says not looking for a hookup, yet i still get that. what do you AS A MALE want to read in a profile that tell you that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:59 AM
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i’m a 19F genuinely asking for what i should put in my bio if i dont want to be a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:45 PM
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why is saying you dont want a hookup a ridiculous thing to put in your profile? what do you want women to say on online dating sites to let men know that they dont want to have casual sex to avoid those matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 09:46 PM
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we act like we are better than animals and we have to control lots of other urges. women aren’t allowed to act like sex driven beasts so neither should men. take accountability for your actions and be a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:13 PM
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flirting=/= sexual touching, comments or advances
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:20 AM
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sorry, i thought i wasn’t clear so i was trying to explain my point better. not be rude to you. yea that’s true! i know lots of boys who call women sluts bases off their clothes and such but i also have experienced social circle stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:19 AM
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im not saying thats how men see it, im saying that’s probably why women get so unconsciously defensive about it. we are socialized that being a slut or being easy is disgusting, etc etc. even if men dont care abt random public dudes being creeps, we do bc we cannot be branded a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:09 AM
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it can be degrading if we’re talking and you’re staring at my boobs the whole time. it’s not subtle and we notice even if we dont say anything. also i’ve been touched without permission by older guys a lot, even when i’m wearing sweats or a button up polo so the idea that men won’t treat me like a cheap whore just will never click in my brain. i might as well wear what i find comfortable and what expresses my personality and aesthetic. being a more pleasant dresser doesn’t prevent me from being …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:05 AM
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that’s not an excuse to be an animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:53 AM
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i think its harder socially if a woman lets herself get labelled as a sex object too. if you’re a girl and you get labelled easy, its all over for you. versus you’re a guy and someone makes you to be a sex object, it’s manly and good. you’re being talked abt as a good experience outside the bedroom and that helps you. it does not help women, so that’s probably why they get so defensive unconsciously. consciously they could just be getting catcalled/dmmed a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:51 AM
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i mean if any man doesn’t wear a shirt outside or at the gym, no one bats an eye really. a woman might glance but most typically would not approach and make weird comments abt their body. if a woman goes out in a half shirt or a sports bra, oh god... the humanity... how can you dress in such a slut way and not be asking to be degraded and objectified by everyone who sees your skin??? don’t you know that only your husband is to see your knees? idk i think people should be able to wear whatever ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:45 AM
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exciting!! good luck, i hope you find them !!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:54 AM
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thank you as that is how i see it too. i hope you find someone that is your match too (or that you already have)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:50 AM
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i hope that NEVER happens to you or anyone you know. people deserve better and that behavior is absolutely disgusting imo. human beings are not objects and are deserving of the proper love and attention. people that use others need to get a therapist and realize their manipulative tendencies before hurting too many people. i haven’t seen that yet and i hope i never do or i might lose it on that person tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:49 AM
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i dont like that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:43 AM
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ig i forget too that i’m the opposite of calculations. i am an embodiment of my emotions and an external processor so i share a lot and i’m a very honest person. it’s interesting to think of how different we all are and tbh i’m not sure if it was a facade for masculinity’s sake or he just didn’t feel much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:43 AM
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whats the point in dating if you dont care at all abt the person you’re w?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:35 PM
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yea, you have a good point there too! im glad we were able to discuss it tho bc it def helped me understand
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:54 PM
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i broke up my last two relationships bc they wouldn’t share emotions. i want a partner who can discuss and let me in on their life bc i care abt everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:21 PM
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no one cares about anyone anymore in this transactional society
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:18 PM
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i suppose that is true as well
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:32 PM
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fair
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:15 PM
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lol okay. i was j curious hahaha. not attacking
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:56 PM
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would you do oral on a female who didn’t shave
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:34 PM
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its not healthy to sit in bad ideologies like that. a lot of people liked hitler but that doesn’t mean his ideologies were good or valid. bad things happen when people use scapegoats as those who often use hate speech do
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:34 PM
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its not abt censoring it, its more like creating an inclusive environment for them to further polarize in their own beliefs. i suppose if the intent is to educate those who use hate speech and what hate speech is i dont think that is dangerous. but a whole forum dedicated w hateful manifestos?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:16 PM
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hate speech is not acceptable and should have consequences
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:06 PM
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then hate speech would be allowed...
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:38 PM
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they affect how your taxes and money is spent tho??
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:44 AM
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politics affect every level of society, the basic human instinct. without it, society is nonexistent and anarchy. saying you dont care how the country is run is how people like hitler can become dictators. it’s important to pay attention and keep people in power in check bc the citizens and constituents don’t have the most power, but they do have a lot. riots, protests, stand ins, boycotts, etc. regular people can do a lot to change our society
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:01 AM
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the laws and regulations that get put into place by the people we vote in and the ideologies we support impact you. everything in politics affects micro, meso, and macro levels of life everywhere
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:59 AM
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being politically active and responsible means caring about how our society runs and our neighbors/businesses. if anything regardless of left or right it’s not a bad thing to care abt the journey this country is taking. how can one not care at all?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:58 AM
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why is the left the female pov?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:54 AM
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idk. anyone who has a sense of style is someone i find naturally attracted to. probs bc they stick out and probs bc being able to stick out means they likely know who they are/what they like/what theyre abt and they are somewhat confident
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:51 AM
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im telling you that a guy who dresses bad or normal will often not catch a woman’s eye. a man in uniform or eye catching clothes will
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:09 AM
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nice clothes (like matching or something that gives off a sense of style) will take a 6 to an 8. y’all are so obsessed w women hypergamy or whatever and then discount it when you can use it in your favor. women like confident men. express yourself however makes you confident and that will also boost you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:02 PM
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you sound like you have it figured out and i’m appreciative for you sharing your advice. it’s awesome especially since you’re giving an action plan for others to help take some of their unluckiness w dating into their own hands
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:00 PM
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nice clothes (like matching or something that gives off a sense of style) will take a 6 to an 8. y’all are so obsessed w women hypergamy or whatever and then discount it when you can use it in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:59 PM
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they don’t know how to cook and all they know is mcdonald’s, twerk, AND be bisexual. you forgot the important downfalls of girls born after 1993
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:56 AM
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they have a point that men often dont give women orgasms in the bedroom. thats not a point of hate, its a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:52 AM
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men are more often than not in prisons raped by other males. women engage in other social practices like being homosexual (even if outside of prison they are heterosexual) for things like attention, comfort, and companionship. men don’t do this behavior in prison and most prisons are one sex so. yes, female guards do rape males but a chunk of the rape in male prisons are by other males (prisoner or guard). also that is the one place in society where men are feeling the same lack of safety that w…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:39 AM
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you’re absolutely right. i’m not necessarily upset that i got ghosted, its more what do men want me to do to communicate with my behavior that i dont want sex and i want to date? i’ve found i don’t understand how to communicate well w the male sex and i wanted to hear from men how they interpret female behavior and how they make their choices on dating so i could get a better picture
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:12 AM
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i only feel disgusted when old men approach me to hit on me. it makes me feel a perversion or like something is off. idc if an ugly person tries to hit on me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:15 AM
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yes. i find all sorts of women attractive but i pretty much only like 2 types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:37 AM
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i would agree with this sentiment as a bi woman too. i find all sorts of women very, very attractive but i also enjoy male partners
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:16 AM
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except not? you compared a developed nation with stable economy and government to a developing world, with communist nations, uncontrolled social orders like riots and other crap, and very religiously entwined governing practices. aka something manageable with something needing a lot of help. women in developed nations, specifically america, want to be treated as equals. which they cant do if men make claims like ‘rape would happen less if men got more sex’ and then brand women who give sex easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:28 AM
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so by that logic, if you broke your leg you shouldn’t fix it to the way it’s supposed to be because there are people without legs or with busted legs that would kill to have a broken leg. it doesn’t matter that you can’t walk well or that it hurts or harms your quality of life because people without legs would BEG and DIE to have a broken one. no country is perfect but why is it so hard to ask to fix things that aren’t working ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:03 AM
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women are confrontational and their bitches and rude. men are confrontational and they’re strong willed and respected. women refuse to work for less and are fired bc they can find it elsewhere or are annoying to management bc no one else is complaining abt it. men do it and it works. he has a family to PROVIDE for. do you get it?? society reinforces its own privileges. i acknowledged that men have legitimate issues and dont have it all easy. how can you respond and say that women do this to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:14 AM
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yes, we can get our lives paid for, if we are hot and we laugh at everything and we are perfect housewives. which is a very degrading and mind numbing lifestyle. i’m sorry men don’t have that option and that women do and don’t want it. we want to be valued as an actual human being. i’m sorry if that’s privileged since we could choose to be trophies for men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:11 AM
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you can get more matches if you asked a female friend for help probs bc your profile needs help no offense. 90% of tinder profiles from men need help picking good pictures that actually highlight themselves instead of grainy, far away, group photos with weak bios. regardless is tinder your standard for relationship equality? men give love to get sex, women give sex to get love. yes, there are exceptions to that but if your on tinder everyone is p much a thot. i dont know why i have to explain th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:09 AM
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so i mean, if only men had sex then they wouldn’t be rapists? i get that for men and women sex is viewed differently but that’s kinda extreme to blame rape on a natural instinct like sex. i get that it can be harder for men to not have sex, but i think a large chunk is how we socialize men to need to be huge sex addicts and need to watch porn. ofc not all men do these things but there’s a very different culture for men and women surrounding sex. also you’re correct that males get raped in prison…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:16 PM
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i think both genders have privileges that the other does not and it doesn’t mean that either lives life on tutorial mode. men get paid more, men dont have to fear walking alone, men are less likely to be raped (especially in college (“Among undergraduate students, 23.1% of females and 5.4% of males experience rape or sexual assault through physical force, violence, or incapacitation” link )). women are able to flirt their way out of situations bc men think women are weak/dont know abt taxes/cars…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:19 PM
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i agree 100%. i try to look nice and put together for the compliments of other females. it makes the standard high and really feels like an accomplishment when you know they aren’t just saying it bc they want to have sex w you. plus as a female, i think the feminine figure is just attractive and so dressing myself up (even if it’s under-garments) makes me feel powerful and sexy vs wearing sweats. i will also wear sweats, but i wear nice clothes and dress myself up for stupid, menial tasks someti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:10 AM
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i mean when the movement was started with Elizabeth Cady Stanton.... they were pro equality and helped slaves get the right to vote/abolish the 3/5 practice/become equal citizens only to be abandoned by them after. however i will agree that lots of modern day feminism is VERY polarizing and extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:58 PM
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yes. it’s ridiculous to think that that is a solution. everyone needs to be skilled and it should be unrelated to gender. that’s what true feminism (which honestly could just go for a rename as equaltarianism or some shit that means equal since feminism is associated w pro women and anti men) should be about these days instead of trying to destroy men and boost women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:37 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:41 PM
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i think true feminists want strong willed kids in general, but now the idea of feminism has been so lost and washed away by so much BS that the crazies have taken over. if I have kids of any gender, i want them to be strong, free thinkers that know their value. i hate that people train each other based on gender how to mentally and emotionally manipulate the other. men are more than money and women are more than a wet hole. once we start treating people like humans i think shit might get better …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:39 PM
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no it’s good!! i love the enthusiasm honestly. it’s kinda sad to realize that we cause so much loneliness and harm to ourselves haha. maybe if we all try to realize these truths and stop using each other, as well as own up to our manipulative behaviors on both sides, dating can be some semblance of normal with actual benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:22 PM
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i was just curious. how does a woman show her value to a male beyond sex? what things about a woman make her a ‘high value woman’ or even just normal value? it seems men and women have VERY different definitions of value and i think clearing it up in generalities can definitely help these issues
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:18 PM
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its not that women are scared of being prudes, its that they are scared of being burned either way and so they decide to not have sex much which then scares her LTR away bc men want sex. however, if they have sex too early, they lose all LTR potential bc they’re easy. women struggle with when is a good time to have sex bc the second they screw it up, its over. and they can screw it up either way. women are the gatekeepers of sex bc they have so much more to lose from sex than a man does so it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:15 PM
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i mean it’s honestly a full societial self fulfilling prophecy if you think about it. women wont have sex with men bc they want to wait and are called prudes by potential LTR partners bc she ‘wont put out’. she’s scared abt being burned from putting out too soon so she doesn’t and still gets burned. after those relationships, she puts out easily in the hopes that she won’t scare her potential partner away and instead attracts all sorts of man whores and people she doesn’t want but can’t tell the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:18 AM
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what do you mean by not having a deep emotional connection from women? can you elaborate more on what you mean here? how do women show that to you so you can see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:13 AM
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are you responding to the OP or to all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:11 AM
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as a woman, i 100% support this and want to be seen as an equal. i do not like the power dynamic from my end with dating and i dont like the powerlessness that comes w it either. i just want to be a human being first that meets their partner or close friend but that’s not how any of it works... i wish there was a way to fix all of the engendered issues of our society so it could actually be equal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:02 AM
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the thing is im a woman and i dont have casual sex ever. and i try to lead an equal life- or i did until it made it impossible for me to meet quality men. i used to pursue men i thought interesting, i’d pay for my own food or all of it on dates, and i’d be open to whatever experiences and conversations ensued over the course of our dates. as soon as casual sex came up and i’d say no, i’d get ghosted by all men. if they’d ask id say something akin to ‘i want to be in a consistent relationship wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:34 AM
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they’re saying that women give during sex (women orgasm wayyyyy less than men in heterosexual sexual encounters and sex inherently is a losing thing for women bc of the possibility of pregnancy falling entirely on them with birth control and the social stigmas abt every single choice they may make w their body). essentially losing $20 on the males end for the female leaving is an exponentially smaller loss compared to being used as a wet hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:11 AM
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how do you want dating to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:54 AM
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it actually is a joke about height i think... like how some people will say they are 5 foot 11 inches but actually are 5 foot 9 inches in height...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:13 PM
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purge. there are no rules for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:33 PM
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purge rn aka no rules for a limited time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:03 AM
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women feel v disposable from my anecdotal evidence. it makes us keep our guard up and heighten our standards so this whole situation is a self fulfilling prophecy that both sides are contributing to and impacted by
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:01 PM
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disagree. i’ve seen lots of women (including myself) asking abt the ideologies and philosophies behind the male minds and actions. we often say why we don’t understand or how our minds differ and y’all will take it like we’re attacking you when 70% of the time we’re legitimately like why is that how you think that? i don’t understand. there definitely are some rude women just here to attack and vent but at the same point in time, it’s not a majority of the ones asking questions on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:38 PM
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right hahah. i didn’t say my race or preferences or anything sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:37 AM
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okay. thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:36 AM
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yea i mean idc abt a womans/mans(im bi) past sexual history so i was j curious what does it for you people who care. i have a low n count too sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:36 AM
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i meant w stable men. i didn’t clarify, sorry. ig i believe that if you meet someone and you vibe really well and the only thing stopping you from dating is her history from 10 years ago... idk i j feel like keep it in mind but if she seems like a different person idk why she deserves to be forced into the person she used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:11 PM
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personally, i really don’t care especially since it probably makes him better in bed js. and people grow and change. you cant decide who people are solely off their histories and not at all on their current actions. yes their history helps, but its not the only factor in the character of a person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:09 PM
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do you want a virgin or are you okay with a woman who had sex before you in a few different monogamous relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:07 PM
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betas and alphas make a self fulfilling prophecy of solo-ness for all involved. i say this bc im a 6/10 female trying to get with beta males and i’ve never slept with an alpha or whatever but the betas refuse to believe im genuinely interested in them and not an alpha. i have no interest in alpha males whatsoever bc they’re handsome pricks 90% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:04 PM
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just genuinely curious and not trying to prove some argument here: does it only matter who she has sex w? like if its a serial monogamist that dated a person for like a month, had tons of sex w them, broke up and takes time but later tried dating again, etc... repeating this cycle until they try to date you? or is it j women who sleep around w random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:01 PM
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i mean you wouldn’t as i dont consider chads an option and i would only commit to one if they’re my only option and i can determine they’re in it for me. i can’t sit and bitch when they leave bc they’re dating below their status and typically relationships with looksmatch and similar SES are the most sound on a foundational level so i would feel most comfortable there but if you play w the levels of each of those two things, im less comfy but still willing to try and fully commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:11 AM
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if he truly wants me yes, but i’m aware i’m not v attractive. i wouldn’t be mad if he decided to walk out after being with me for someone prettier bc that’s just nature. it doesn’t mean i wouldn’t dedicate my all to trying to keep that relationship if it was good. However, if the Chad is a user or not a nice person then no, i don’t care how attractive he is or how many other girls would fawn over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:52 AM
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from what i’m understanding from other male commenters, my proactive behavior in asking males i find interesting out and not letting them pursue me makes them think i want to have sex and such when i really want a date. this fits in line with what i see anecdotally in my life as almost all the dates i’ve gone on in college that i’ve pursued a male have ended in a weird sexual tension when i say no to going back to their place or having sex. i just dont know how to communicate to male partners wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:35 PM
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oof. okay. is there any way to change his perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:25 PM
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i suppose i wouldn’t be against that at all so long as we are exclusive and honest abt what we want. i dont care so much about the title of what we are it’s more just im getting tired of being used for sex and when i say no getting ghosted after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:49 AM
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thank you!! i really appreciate it! and dont worry, the nose ring was fake bc i wasn’t sure if i wanted it or not haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:19 AM
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i usually tell them what i want on the first date or before but yea we’re on the same page here. i wasn’t communicating in a way that was clear for males.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:59 AM
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i mean i really do just want a guy who is sociable and has similar values to me in terms of being kind, respectful, passionate, and loyal. i’m super into animals so if they liked animals that would be nice too. we don’t need the same hobbies or to be entirely the same so long as they’re open minded and willing to learn like me. idc abt height and weight is just as long as you look fit and like you bathe regularly im okay with that. i prefer people who look like they have a specific style or colo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:53 AM
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okay! thank you for your comments and everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:03 PM
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yea that’s kinda what im getting from this whole thread is that what i thought was clear communication comes across to men as me begging for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:01 PM
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it does for a lot of men that have replied tho but thank you for your comments and advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:00 PM
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okay. if you dont believe check my post history and go to the r/amiugly post bc it has full body and face pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:58 PM
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yea i am trying to be careful! the nose ring is fake because i wanted to see if i liked it but i decided i dont haha! and im super careful abt planning tattoos. i think i’m over the colorful hair phase for a bit now too and excited to stick with black but thank you so much for looking at my profile and giving me advice too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:33 PM
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that’s actually exactly how i seem to fall in love with people which is why dating apps are soo difficult for me to accurately read people. same with most in person dates these days which is why i made this post. i feel like i never even get the option to fall in love with someone i know over time due to the fact that everything is SO ridiculously fast and i’m not a Stacy or whatever for looks so I have to wait until men settle down. i think your advice will definitely give me a second or third …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:20 PM
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okay. thank you for your advice. this is in line with what a lot of other redditors are saying!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:07 PM
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i’m not trying to pretend i’m a total catch but i dont think im so unattractive physically and personality wise that i would have as much trouble as i do trying to find someone to date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:07 PM
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i can cook okay enough, im very artsy and crafty, im very fit and like to work out, hammocking and hiking are two of my favorite activities. i’m handy and can put together a bookshelf out of a pile of wood. i love animals and im always open to new experiences, learning, and other peoples emotions/perspectives. i’m very idealistic and straightforward in my communication methods(ie:you piss me off i tell you that what you’re doing is irritating me and if you continue to do it i ask for space to ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:06 PM
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okay! and ofc bc im clearly not having trouble getting women to be interested in me so it seemed clear that i j don’t know how to communicate what i want w males and i ought to j ask. the two genders are similar but they are socialized completely different in how to communicate and act so i can’t pretend ik how it is to be a male or how they think/act/etc. i think its much more effective to just ask others about their experiences and how they want to be communicated with. i appreciate any and al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:47 PM
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thank you!! i will
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:45 PM
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okay!! thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:21 PM
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idc anyways bc i have social media. one of the pictures on this has my ex who said the stuff in the post. i dont have pictures of the other guy up but lmk https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/comments/fxdeds/18f_needing_feedback/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:56 PM
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no definitely not! i mean i laugh at jokes and stuff but i usually dont talk abt super emotional things and i’ve never thought ask for them to help! ig i never thought about that bc it kinda forces them to meet up w me again and me giving them a simple thing to fix would give them a positive association w me and make them feel masculine. thank you so much for this advice!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:31 PM
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that’s what im saying is i can post couple pictures of us both for you to see. they dont pump and dump all the time, two led me on for three/four months and then dumped so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:29 PM
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i mean i know that im like a 6/10 so im not chasing chads or anything. i’ll post a picture if that helps this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:21 PM
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okay. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:13 PM
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3 but one of the 3 was a STR where after a few months i got dumped. the other two one was a friend and the other was a tinder guy after two dates
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:03 PM
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i really j want a social and semi attractive dude. like im chill w a looksmatch bc ik im not gonna get with a Chad ever and I have no interest in being with one. but thank you for your comment. every piece of advice helps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:01 PM
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oof okay. thanks for this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:00 PM
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how do i tell that they want that if they don’t treat me any different from other people? i’m j supposed to guess how they’re feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:40 PM
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i just is i j lol and okay thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:37 PM
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how should i present myself? what makes a man emotionally invested?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:35 PM
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okay thanks for the definition. and what a bleak dating world haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:34 PM
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okay. thank you so much for the advice!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:29 PM
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did you treat the woman you wanted for a LTR any different than the ones you j wanted for sex or no? is there anything women did that put them from the whore box to the LTR box or you had already known by the first date? is there anyway to know the lies? i actually was in a relationship where it ended bc i had a higher sex drive than him but he decided he’d rather be friends so im used to men lying to me abt things in a relationship. i j dont know how to figure out when/what they’ll lie abt bc i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:28 PM
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thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:09 PM
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okay. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:07 PM
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do you have sex on the first date? basically i need to have some amount of sex with guys and wait it out hoping they will choose me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:06 PM
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i mean i’m not j sitting here searching for a partner as my only thing. i have three jobs, am a full time uni student, and have tons of hobbies and a personality. i j am getting frustrated of being a glorified cocksock for men my age that try to ‘court’ me. what do i do? date men aged 21-25 for the hope that they’ll want to settle w me or?? j keep working on myself and hope that someone eventually will notice me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:04 PM
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i’m not scared of getting emotionally hurt by sex, i’m just getting fatigued of dating guys and realizing i’m a glorified c*cksock. i want some amount of substance in person before j having sex with them because i’m personally not in the mood to have sex with strangers. you think i should stop approaching men and let them chase me instead? how do i put myself out there so this happens? i’m fit, 5’10, a solid 6 or 7/10 attraction wise. i j dont know how to communicate that i want to do stuff but …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:01 PM
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how do i know if they want to pursue me as a possible dating partner? do i j allow dates without anything physical afterwards and let them ghost me like what’s happening now? personally i j see risk after risk for me to engage in casual sex and i’ve done it once and i don’t want to do it again. i j want a steady partner to have so what do i need to do in order to get someone willing to know me? do i j wait for them to get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:58 PM
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so i should j wait for males to be ready to settle if i want a m/LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:56 PM
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is there anything that i can do to try and make myself seem like a good LTR with the short term males/females that i’ll encounter? like in a STR is there ever a point where you’re w the person and you are j like wow i kinda want to date this person? how does FWB even work lol? do you j have sex when you feel like it and then nothing or are you actually friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:55 PM
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okay. thank you. if someone gives an ambiguous answer is that a flag that they’re j trying to mess around or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:51 PM
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both tinder and in person from work/classes/clubs/etc. i am a very straightforward person so i usually ask if they want to go on a date or something so maybe i shouldn’t do that anymore?? i feel as though i spread my types out a lot between nerdy boys and athletic types but i probably do pick a certain type a lot. i really j care if they’re able to hold a conversation and be social with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:07 PM
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is there any way for me to know this from their behavior or way they treat me if they pretend? also why pretend either way to be undecided if they put you in the ‘Madonna’ box? is it bc casual sex seems to be the better choice between a relationship and casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:03 PM
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is it entirely based on my looks? im pretty average so what do i need to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:43 PM
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when does it change for men to want a LTR instead of a quick fix? i’ve met lots of men that literally want sex on the first date and i j don’t want to do that. since i say no to us having sex as strangers, they pretty much stop pursuing all together but i’m not going to change my morals for that. when do men change from being hungry for sex to wanting a LTR? what makes them decide whether a female is meant for an LTR or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:36 PM
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honestly that’s really cool and i’m really appreciate for this knowledge bc i definitely want to read her findings!! also i would admit to treating the genders differently as a bi female and i think its bc i unconsciously fear men a lot from things they’ve done in my past or to my female friends or just things society tells me abt men. because they are shown to be ‘dangerous’ in a way, i think i unconsciously am probing them during dates to try and make sure they’re harmless in a sense so i defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:50 AM
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i agree as a bi woman. i’ve met the occasional obnoxious female but for the most part it feels a ridiculous amount easier for me to try to date with women. i dont feel like im being preyed on, thought of as stupid or a lesser being, i feel emotionally understood and like i’m mostly communicating in the same emotional language, and the bedroom is awesome since i dont feel neglected there. not to say i haven’t met good guys either but i definitely find it a lottt harder to feel that level of trust…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:07 AM
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honestly i’m bi and i turned mine to j females during quarantine bc the guys are so horny and aggressive rn. i cant imagine what a straight woman is going through
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:52 PM
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i had a friend explain this analogy to me before. the complete thing is that women are locks and men are keys. a key that opens many doors is a ‘master key’ and thus better than other keys. however, a lock that is opened by many keys is broken and not trustworthy. weird but a lot of people see it that way :-/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:52 PM
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both genders have ridiculous standards imo. as a bi person, i’m experienced w what both want (although i’m f, i still feel and hear abt both genders standards for a f partner and m partners too). it’s j human to want the best of the best and i think when people mature a bit they realize that some things are much more important to them in a partner than having a perfect person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:45 PM
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nothing. ig i struggle to see how our culture is natural selection when no other animal behaves how we do. even primates do not take slaves or murder entire other species unless they are competing for resources. we are influencers of our society and our society influences us, so idk honestly. it’s not as if humans that decide to conquer other places are in desperate need of more resources. it’s largely due to greed that stems from the money systems we created that we decided to do those things (…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:09 PM
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i was speaking more strictly abt the Americas but I didn’t clarify that in my original comment. You are correct that the Mongols and Ottoman Empire did similar things to the Western world once they had power, but it’s just reinforcing my point that human culture and society has nothing to do with natural selection and is more about whichever group decides to take control of the others and exploit them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:00 PM
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The Spanish imperialism is also western imperialism as Spain is apart of the Western world and culture. I’m not saying Native culture was perfect or peaceful or good? I simply was saying the claim that natural selection chose the way our society functions is false. Humans are mostly not influenced by nature’s cycles at this point in our development due to the fact that we control our food and populations. So our social culture is not a product of natural selection but more of humans going to war…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:57 PM
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i’m not arguing abt high n women, I’m simply telling you that humans are animals and MANY animals do not understand that sex=babies. they know that sex feels good bc of endorphins and so they do it again but the dont consciously know that sex=babies in x amount of months. Women in Indian trash camps are an example as are some aboriginal tribes from australia. im not even arguing abt high n count women w you, i’m simply saying that you’re wrong in thinking that everything knows and understands ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:05 AM
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thanks for answering my question. lets try again, ARE MEN ONLY SCARED OF HIGH N WOMEN BC THEY REALIZE THEY MAY NOT BE THE BEST SHES HAD?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:42 AM
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women dont need men or to be a housewife. also women dont care about men w high n counts so why does it matter to men? is it seriously because of the male image being so fragile wondering that they may not be the best she’s had in bed? then all of the people who are scared of having a high n count wife should realize they need to work on their self esteem. life and sex/relationships are a lifelong learning process. you might be really good at having sex one way but your partner likes something e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:38 AM
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i’m not saying humans cant figure that out now, i was simply refuting your previous point that it is evolutionarily beneficial (and always has been) for women to be monogamous. more males to give her offspring resources the better. even if they’re unsure if it’s their child. and yea sometimes kids did get killed if it wasnt theirs or there was fear but that was true for all animals. the society and culture of western ideas and philosophies has taught us and trained us that monogamous relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:36 AM
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what lesson are men learning? that they’re not the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:34 AM
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well that’s not correct actually. our societies change for the most part due to colonialism and western imperialism. these western cultures weren’t correct, efficient, or optimal. simply stronger than most native cultures and committed genocide, atrocities, and forced assimilation if necessary to promote their western views and values. nothing abt society is focused on human optimization, its focused on capitalism and efficiency of making money and corporate success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:27 AM
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essentially tho, this entire argument of women being aware of what they like and don’t like and them finding it through n counts isn’t actually abt being slutty. it really seems to be that men have a superiority complex and need to be ‘the best’. great sex w a terrible personality wouldn’t last long anyways. men get to sleep around w virtually no complaints from women so i don’t understand why its such a big deal for men. get over yourselves and stop being so fragile abt your image. no one is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:16 AM
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I mean consider other animal species, for example lionesses will have sex with brother lions if they’re ‘in charge’ of the pride. this is so that the males dont know which cub is theirs and will protect all the offspring. There is a lot of natural benefit for females in the animal kingdom to ‘sleep around’ with multiple males bc the males will all protect her child. The majority of animals are socially monogamous. AKA they have a partner and often the females have sex w other partners and produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:54 AM
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do you think that people who explore in their twenties never settle down? i find it hard to believe that people dont mature in that time to want a family. I think its dumb to assume that people who slept around for any gender are bad caretakers or parents
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:23 AM
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okay so i thought your comment was like women who are experienced shouldn’t have kids but i realize that’s not what this comment was so nevermind lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:30 PM
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why does that make them ‘not good for a family’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:28 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:16 PM
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would you say the same thing about the alpha males who sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:16 PM
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