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/r/MensRights08/09/25 03:27 AM
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Piracy is actually currently helping to reconsolidate streaming, because it hurts the traditional studios (ex. Paramount, Warner Brothers, Disney) more than Netflix. Put another way, it's helping in a small way to secure Netflix's total domination at the end of the Streaming Wars. It isn't going to help bring back midbudet movies. If midbudget movies were your jam, then you should check out A24 and Neon. They are nearly the last ones in the US making and distributing such movies.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 10:58 AM
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If it makes you feel better, some of us youngin's know it was the so-called "greatest generation" and "silent generation" that was in power that passed no-fault divorce, not you guys, and that you were among the first to be screwed over by it. Unfortunately, "boomer" has become a byword for "old" detached from its original meaning.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 10:51 AM
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Fight Club is probably the biggest poster boy for flopping at the box office, but becoming profitable later on the back of being rediscovered as a cult classic and generating serious DVD sales. Midbudget movies have mostly gone away with the decline in physical media sales. They always relied on the "long tail" of revenue to eventually become profitable. Unfortunately, the streaming modal doesn't provide a long tail of revenue from secondary sources after the primary source of theater ticket sal…
/r/MensRights18/07/25 08:05 AM
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Depending on what country you live in, there are free hotlines you can call. The US has: Warmlines which let you offload problems to a listener: https://www.warmline.org/ Suicide and Crisis hotlines for acute distress: https://988lifeline.org/ https://findahelpline.com/ Also you'd be surprised how much insurance might cover. Make sure to call them and ask what mental health coverage and benefits you have before assuming anything.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 02:11 AM
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They passed No-Fault Divorce in 2020 and enacted it in 2022: https://www.gov.uk/government/news/blame-game-ends-as-no-fault-divorce-comes-into-force At this point, men in the UK would be better off marrying under islamic law than british law. Better a Sharia Court than a Western Family Law Court.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 12:40 AM
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Nobody but someone totally insulated from problems in their own society on account of their wealth, would ever prioritize foreign policy over domestic policy.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 12:35 AM
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Of course it will change. Change the people, change the place.
/r/MensRights06/03/25 10:13 PM
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Are 1.4 Million American Women Using OnlyFans? What We Know The outlet went further, saying that 2 percent of American women aged between 18 and 45 are creating content on the platform. So about 1 in 50, if those estimates are accurate.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 05:33 PM
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They even did it to their own military: RAF 'pauses job offers for white men' to meet 'impossible' diversity targets
/r/MensRights03/03/25 05:27 PM
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Notice how "men's progress" is never a phrase used in the gender discourse.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 05:25 PM
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red: the emphasis on self improvement is good, but the overemphasis on sexual gratification can lead to unbalanced life priorities and dissatisfaction black: nihilism breeds depression and other psychological ailments
/r/MensRights16/02/25 02:36 AM
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The True Romantics It is men who are the real romantics. It’s men who are the imaginative ones when it comes to romance, and all in an effort to provide a woman with the romantic experiences she says she wants. Romance is what Men perceive it to be for women.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 01:35 AM
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Fathers Rights are Mens Rights.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 10:56 PM
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Those places frequently backtrack that "reform" due to the high profile cases of immediate and recurring recidivism.
/r/MensRights03/02/25 11:06 PM
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DailyMail is a right leaning tabloid, so it's going to be less sympathetic to the murderer than the journos from certain other outlets.
/r/MensRights03/02/25 11:01 PM
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The Republicans restored due process for college students accused of sexual misconduct. The Democrats undid it at the first opportunity predictably and unfortunately. Education Secretary Betsy DeVos Issues New Title IX Rules To Protect Free Speech, Due Process for Accused Students Biden Administration Guts Due Process Protections for Students Accused of Sexual Misconduct: Under the new regulations, Title IX investigators can deny students access to the evidence against them.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 09:05 AM
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As analysts survey the wreckage of the 2024 election, there is one group of young voters that have remained fiercely loyal to the Democratic Party: young college-educated women. Democratic support from college-educated black women goes back, of course, to the 1960’s and civil rights legislation. But young white college-educated women only began enthusiastically backing Democrats during the Clinton campaign in 1992 with the party’s fulsome support for women's rights and the cluster of issues arou…
/r/MensRights17/01/25 10:06 PM
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You may not be interested in the culture war, but the culture war is interested in you.
/r/MensRights10/01/25 01:23 PM
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This might give you a smirk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HB-0XaqoeGo
/r/MensRights08/12/24 09:52 PM
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Neither traditionalists or feminists are our friends, but at least the traditionalists are not misandrist. I'll take being thought of as a useful resource over being thought of as an enemy. Both factions can hurt us, but only one of them wants to hurt us as a goal unto itself.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 09:38 PM
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Because it's the BBC, of course they had to entirely conflate "women's rights" with "gender rights". It's not as if there's an entirely different gender out there...
/r/MensRights20/11/24 07:29 PM
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National Post is a canadian newspaper, and it can't have entirely escaped normie notice when back in 2012 feminists and other "counter protesters" assaulted and accosted university students who wanted to hear Warren Farrell speak about men's issues such as the lack of domestic violence shelters for men. Arrest, assaults overshadow “men’s issues” lecture
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:44 PM
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Precisely. Women's bathrooms will be for women, men's bathrooms will be for anyone. "Did you just assume my gender?" will apply to men's bathrooms, but not women's. "We deserve privacy" will apply to women's bathrooms, but not men's.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:21 PM
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The worst thing that can happen to an identity group is the leftists noticing that it exists so they can classify it somewhere on the "oppression" scale which can always be revised later of course.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:18 PM
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We should care that the Republicans are proposing legislation that doesn't offer equal protections and equal application of the law for male bathrooms.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:16 PM
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Important to point out that the recently proposed republican legislation on bathrooms doesn't seem to apply the law equally to male bathrooms and offer equal protections and privacy under the law to men and boys in their own bathrooms as it would to female bathroom goers.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:14 PM
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Not always true. The traditionalists will also throw men under the bus in the name of "protecting/supporting women" due to their gynocentrism, and indeed do that much much more regularly. An example is how in the US most Republicans recently voted against adding women to the draft.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:10 PM
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Feminism is not just a symptom of misandry, it's an outright source of misandry. The "patriarchy theory" that feminism pushes as an orthodoxy and dogma of history, classifies men and boys as eternal "oppressors" to legitimate the dehumanization of and discrimination against men and boys. Feminism is inherently misandric because it is inherently ideologically misandric. While there are sources of misandry outside of feminism, feminism should not be treated as merely an outgrowth of misandry. It i…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:02 PM
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Please don't give up hope. Men's issues are more openly discussed as a legitimate matter in many circles than they were 30 years ago when Warren Farrell and Christina Sommers were talking about these kinds of things but were dismissed out of hand. The zeitgeist is changing for the better, just very slowly. While substantive reforms are still distant, politics is downstream from culture. The 2024 election in the US may even be considered as a turning point, because it's the first time that politi…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 04:14 PM
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Something like 3 million already left Ukraine, while Ukraine bans men from leaving the country. How many women of fighting age are left anymore? How few volunteer to enlist willingly? When the war is over, ukrainian men are likely to be way less sympathetic to feminist demands for "equality", AKA women getting the privileges of men without any of the responsibilities.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 12:49 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2022_Russian_mobilization
/r/MensRights19/11/24 12:45 AM
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Shonen characters from Japan actually generally feel like real male characters with depth, such as having dreams, imperfections they can overcome, masculine mentalities and characteristics such as courage and confidence, etc. I struggle to think of well written male characters in recent anglo media, but I can think of tons from recent japanese media. While this is true of comparing works from any genre and any medium (books, comics, video games, series, movies, etc.), it's particularly striking …
/r/MensRights19/11/24 12:31 AM
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That's assuming that justice is blind. The sentencing gap points to other possible outcomes.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 12:20 AM
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Both are female supremacist and misandrist. "Fourth Wave" is just more arrogantly blunt about it and more visible online for all to see. "Second Wave" and "Third Wave" had plenty of authors and figures that argued for things like "drastically reducing the male population" and "all sex between men and women is rape of the women". "Second Wave" and "Third Wave" organized to change policy to openly discriminate against men and boys such as the Violence Against Women Act giving funding for domestic …
/r/MensRights09/11/24 12:14 AM
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This is taken from the official 2024 DNC platform: https://i.imgur.com/3R7BMUh.png All the democratic messaging targeted at everyone but men is coming from the fact that men don't exist at all in their policy agenda. If more men are picking up on this and responding appropriately (as suggested in the video), then good.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 11:39 AM
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Both parties fail on men's issues, but it's wise to always vote anyway. Increasing the male vote will allow for politicians to take men's issues a little more seriously and more publicly than they otherwise would. It doesn't even exactly matter who the votes go to. Just increasing male voter participation would catch some attention, especially from the electoral data analytics industry.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 10:51 AM
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Want policy changes? That's politics.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 10:48 AM
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And even if the UK were to invoke anti-terrorism powers and laws to fight rapists, that would still exclude going after the rapists of men of boys, because under UK law, rape against men and boys isn't criminalized or defined legally. And even if the laws were to change to finally define and criminalize rape against men and boys in the UK, there's little doubt that the UK government would fail to take it as a serious issue and fight against it seriously.
/r/MensRights19/08/24 01:53 AM
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Sergey says his mother’s desire for him to join the war wasn’t because she wanted money. “In fact, it was because she needed a reason to be proud of me. She’d always had issues with that.” When Sergey tried not to engage with his mother’s questions, he says, she became “hysterical” and started berating him: “It’s your duty! You’re a man! Come on — you don’t even have a good job right now! You’ll make some money, you’ll be a hero, and your son will be proud of you!” Sergey asked his mother if she…
/r/MensRights18/08/24 09:17 AM
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It has nothing to do with men's rights while Rowling publicly uses an incident from a sporting event to opportunistically demonize men's rights by name??
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:16 PM
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The back-breaking laborious jobs are relegated to men. The nice office jobs are slanted towards women due to discriminatory hiring practices, women-only job fairs, and women-only grants for tertiary education. It is absolutely a gendered issue.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 06:57 PM
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Over half of psychology studies fail reproducibility test
/r/MensRights18/06/24 02:32 PM
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Human trafficking is a right's violation.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 01:02 PM
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Yes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shanghaiing
/r/MensRights05/06/24 06:25 AM
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The Honey Badgers are still going strong. https://www.youtube.com/@BadgerLiveStreams
/r/MensRights05/06/24 06:14 AM
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Also important to remember: Ukraine has forbidden men from leaving the country, but lets women leave freely in unlimited quantity. Imagine what other countries and personalities would say if this situation was the reverse. If women were being forbidden from fleeing for refuge while mass rape is being practiced by an invading army?
/r/MensRights05/06/24 12:46 AM
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The Menu: Life Without the Opposite Sex by Aaron Clarey
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:11 PM
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"Liberation for me, but traditional obligations for thee."
/r/MensRights22/05/24 10:01 PM
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This erasure might negatively effect the self-esteem and self-identities of the boys (and girls) at this school. Having one's sex become a naughty word might impart feelings of being ignored and being viewed with suspicion.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 09:13 PM
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Not when they're sedating themselves with video games and other distractions on their screens.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:12 AM
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The legacy of english liberalism, including heightened belief in and support of egalitarianism. The english Kings not being above the law of the land by tradition and popular sensibility. The english aristocracy working in professions that the upper classes of other societies found to be "dirty", such as trade and commerce. "All men are created equal". It's no surprise that consequently inherent differences between men and women is more popularly and vehemently denied in the anglosphere than any…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 09:58 AM
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I doubt the surviving men of the Great Depression and WW2 felt terribly "privileged" for their sex. "Privileged" for being alive maybe, but not for being men.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 03:11 AM
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Meanwhile the Girl Scouts still exists as a girls-only organization. Male spaces continue to erode to nothing, which has negative effects on male socialization.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 11:13 PM
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Better Bachelor is more MGTOW than MRA.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 07:24 AM
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Of course there will be decline. The decline is now locked in with nothing anyone can do to prevent it. The lack of a replacement birth rate for multiple generations in most developed countries, has created inverted population pyramids, and that is an unalterable fact with numerous consequences. Take Italy as an illustrative example since they are slightly ahead of most other developed countries in their process of population collapse: Population pyramid of Italy Italy's working-age population d…
/r/MensRights05/05/24 07:00 AM
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It's not men's responsibility to have children to save societies that discriminate against their own men and boys, especially not with the high risks of being divorced, having their children stolen from them due to not having default joint custody, and having to pay for it all through alimony, child support, and an unfair split of the assets. If such societies want to survive, they need to make a meaningful place and fair arrangement for their men. If they don't, then the men of those dying soci…
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:06 AM
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Don't die for societies that hate you.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 08:47 PM
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After Winter comes Spring.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 03:17 AM
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You can call Warmlines for free, and have someone to talk to: https://warmline.org/warmdir.html
/r/MensRights03/05/24 03:16 AM
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Call your insurance and ask how much they'll cover. You might be surprised with the answer.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 03:11 AM
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Just make sure you're not isolating yourself.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 03:06 AM
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Lethargy and emotional numbness are symptoms of male depression. You should consider therapy, and should definitely make time, even if you have to force yourself, to do activities that bring you joy and interest you. You need to rediscover beauty in living. Life is more than your current tribulations. It can be so much better if you let go of what you can't control, focus on what you can control, and embrace the best life that you can. Make every day count. Even the simple pleasures of a quiet d…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 02:52 AM
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Extend this wisdom even further. Don't rely on other people for your own happiness. If you find joy with others, just understand that people change, or move away, etc. This does not mean one should be a loner. One should absolutely try to live a rich social life. Just make sure you're your own origin of happiness, and that you have your own activities that bring you joy independent of other people.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 02:47 AM
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We had a child we she claimed was mine but now said wasn't. Always do a paternity test.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 02:44 AM
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While the original report has been taken down (though a copy has been linked below), the best I can put together with what remains on the internet is that a non-profit organization called "Diverting Hate" received $700,000 in government funding from the Department of Homeland Security to conduct some research into the possibility of "redirecting traffic" from red pill/manosphere sites to other man-oriented sites that "Diverting Hate" deemed..."not hateful." This was done under the claim that red…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 02:22 AM
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"Incel" has mostly just become a derogatory word for "virgin" and is frequently used disingenuously as an insult against those that openly question and deride unfair and discriminatory advantages that women have over men in law and culture. But incel forums, like feminist forums and MGTOW forums, can attract some individuals who seem to be obsessed with the opposite sex and want some kind of revenge fantasy on them. That is not healthy at all. Mostly all the above is just internet brainrot thoug…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 12:45 AM
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Despite men having zero reproductive rights, and being horrifically exploited and abused because of it (young boys being ordered to pay child support to their adult female rapists), there will still absurdly be men stupid enough to fight and die for such an evil society.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 08:14 PM
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Traditionalists are fine with men being exploited to further their precious "civilization". Leftists are explicitly and overtly misandrist because they have fully bought into the false feminist narrative of history of "men oppressing women" and so they overtly aim to discriminate against us as "equity for past wrongs". Neither are our friends, but I'd still rather not see the people who actively want to hurt us as a goal unto itself given power, where there's a mutually exclusive choice between …
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:56 PM
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Since this is being classed as "child support", that also means wages can be garnished for "failure to pay" the retroactive billing, and also possible imprisonment for "failure to pay".
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:36 PM
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The Republican-led Kentucky Senate voted overwhelmingly Tuesday to grant the right to collect child support for unborn children, advancing a bill that garnered bipartisan support. The measure would allow a parent to seek child support up to a year after giving birth to retroactively cover pregnancy expenses. The legislation — Senate Bill 110 — won Senate passage on a 36-2 vote with little discussion to advance to the House. Republicans have supermajorities in both chambers. This legislation will…
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:38 PM
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Yeah, both parties fail on men's issues, but it's wise to always vote anyway. Increasing the male vote will allow for politicians to take men's issues a little more seriously and more publicly than they otherwise would. It doesn't even exactly matter who the votes go to. Just increasing male voter participation would catch some attention, especially from the electoral data analytics industry.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 03:39 AM
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If a single father did the same thing, he would be looked at as a danger to his own children, and separated from the children anyway.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 04:54 PM
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Organized Religion has all the problems of any type of organization, including corruption, nepotism, inefficiency, etc.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 01:59 AM
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Right now, fewer men are enlisting in the armed forces of western countries, and enlistment quotas are not being met without aggressive forced recruitment laws (eg Ukraine). The numbers of men applying for jobs with high mortality and morbidity rates is diminimishing. Atlas shrugged. Don't die for countries that offer you nothing and discriminate against you, brothers.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 06:15 PM
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Unfortunately, it's not a word in the majority of people's vocabularies yet.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 07:11 PM
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Traditionalists aren't really pro-men of course, given their pro-marriage stance with simultaneous refusal to discuss changing the laws governing marriage to be more fair for men, but this tweet-thread over pension policy isn't an example of their tendency to push for male disposability for society's benefit like they do with marriage and war. There is a simple and crude arithmetic that is driving pension programs in the developed world into insolvency, derived from increasing expenditures and d…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 04:06 AM
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Bad things happen on every day of the year.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 05:03 AM
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Lesbian relationships have higher rates of rape, physical violence, and stalking compared with straight relationships (lower) and gay relationships (lowest). http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/cdc_nisvs_victimization_final-a.pdf Therefore there could be an outsized effect compared with the population size, if those rates on various forms of sexual and physical violence are indicative of whatever the rate on homicidal violence is.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 04:59 AM
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Reeves has said nothing that Warren Ferrell or Christina Summers didn't already point out decades ago in their original research on these topics. Richard Reeves is just the approved voice for this message among the liberal left. The liberal left (and also the conservative right to a lesser extent) spent decades ignoring these issues and egregiously shooting the well-meaning messengers on these topics. Now that the sociological and economic aftermath and consequences is reaching nearly catastroph…
/r/MensRights11/03/24 03:37 AM
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According to Gillette, striking up a conversation with women and grilling lunch with friends. DO NOT do these unforgivable monstrous abhorrent things and definitely pay $4.00 USD per razor cartridge instead of learning how to shave with a double-edge safety razor where the blades only cost $0.10 USD.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 03:31 AM
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Yeah this probably isn't true. Young male and female brains are developing all the time. Different cognitive faculties just develop at different rates and developmental periods for each sex. For example, boys develop hand-eye coordination sooner than girls. That's great for being able to practice hunting and engage in rough-play sooner, but less useful for practicing multiplication tables sedentarily indoors.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 03:25 AM
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Every society stands on the pillars of its exploitation of its men, whether in labor or war.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 08:30 AM
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my alcoholic father and psychopath mother You might find some meaning from the song Camisado, which was written by Ryan Ross, the band's then lyricist and lead guitarist, to channel his own pain and childhood trauma from his alcoholic father. You're not alone at all. I checked my genetic makeup and realised I suffer from sensoric neuropathy - Sometimes I really don't know what to feel, how I feel. Sometimes touch is burning, sometimes pain is soothing. You might seriously want to look into BDSM …
/r/MensRights10/03/24 08:28 AM
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Mastering the Art of French Cooking Mastering the Art of French Cooking: Vol. 2 https://www.youtube.com/@FrenchCookingAcademy Get these, practice, and you'll thank me later.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 07:40 AM
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Before the invention of the clothes washer, clothes drier, dish washer, vacuum cleaner, etc. it was a much harder job. Would the feminist movement have ever taken off if the women's sphere of the domestic hadn't been automated, causing women to look for meaning elsewhere, namely in the men's sphere of labor?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 07:37 AM
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I've heard from relationship councilors that working women grow to resent stay-at-home-husbands, and the relationship arrangement has all kinds of difficulties such as less sex and greater chance of divorce. In particular, Suzanne Venker has talked about this issue at length, because a lot of her clientele are couples where the women make more than the men, which can put pressure on the men to quit their jobs to deal with the home front instead of the women. I don't blame any men who would dream…
/r/MensRights10/03/24 07:32 AM
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My favorite date night is making a home cooked meal and watching a movie together. Doubly so if she can cook as well and we make a two person potluck. You don't have to marry to share your culinary passions with other people you care about.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 07:22 AM
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Humans are social animals. No one is biologically and evolutionarily built to be alone. Maybe men can tolerate solitude better than women, but there is nothing healthy about it.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 05:16 AM
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Vasectomies do have a reversibility rate, but a man should only get it done if they are totally sure beyond a doubt that they don't want children because the reversibility rate is not 100%.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 10:43 PM
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Don't wish to be something you're not and can never be. Wish to be the best possible version of yourself, and work towards it. Make it so that the people who are troubling you today will be firmly in your yesterday and forget about them.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 06:16 AM
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It's self-destructive to give up on every type of relationship and live totally alone. One can give up on romantic relationships, as long as one has platonic and familial relationships, but to give up on every type of attachment is extremely unhealthy. It's not just bad for your mental health, it can also endanger you by depriving yourself of any kind of fallback in case an emergency happens.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 01:31 AM
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"You are not your job, you're not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You are not your fucking khakis." –Tyler Durden Male conspicuous consumption is to impress women. Take away the women, and you take away the consumption.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 09:08 PM
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TBF, Israel is one of the few countries where women are conscripted alongside men.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 09:07 PM
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Israel is one of the few countries where male pacifism makes no sense. They're surrounded by hostile populaces that want to genocide them. In that context, there is no choice. The choice has been made for them. It's not like in certain western countries where men can jokingly but truthfully assert that invasion just means being ruled by an out-of-touch elite that hates them ... so nothing would change...
/r/MensRights04/03/24 07:37 AM
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Hamas was believed to have between 30,000-40,000 fighters before the start of the war. Israel claims they have killed about 10,000 fighters, which means Hamas retains 20,000-30,000 fighters in cells and units on paper. Israel claims that 22 of 24 of Hamas's organized battalions have been degraded to the point where they have lost combat competency. In short, Hamas can be expected to still be capable of guerilla warfare, but has likely lost all operational maneuver capability.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 07:31 AM
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Your bodies, your choices, brothers. Don't ever let yourself be pressured into a vasectomy by a partner. Don't listen to lies floating around that it can always be reversed or that there no complications or risks. No one who truly loves you would ever try to coerce you into going under the knife for their own selfish convenience. Only get a vasectomy done on your own fully independent and totally self-assured decision making. Only get it done if you are 100% sure you will never want children, an…
/r/MensRights04/03/24 05:41 AM
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Those are collegic fraternities (aka "Greek Life"), which are social clubs. There are also academic fraternities that tend be national or international. Fraternal orders recruit outside of educational circumstances.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 10:04 PM
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Fraternities that are organized as orders often with awards, offices, and rituals. They have local chapters called "lodges". Fraternal orders tend to perform community charity, provide for mutual benefit between members, and/or be social clubs. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_order Prominent examples include The Elks, The Lions, and The Oddfellows. All of the aforementioned fraternal orders have 100,000s of members and 1,000s of lodges.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 06:03 AM
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Like The Menu suggests, you could join a fraternal order, a hobby club, or sports. Or you can find something on meetup.com.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 05:45 AM
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For anyone here who is feeling down on themselves because of a lack of romantic love, you can find happiness and meaning in life in other places. Please read The Menu: Life Without the Opposite Sex, which offers a lot of suggestions for fulfilling hobbies and activities.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 05:07 AM
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Women's average salary: 6,026 gross Lei Men's average salary: 5,804 gross Lei
/r/MensRights02/03/24 06:16 PM
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Being a virgin isn't that bad of a thing. Mainstream popular secular culture and media obsesses over and exaggerates how good and important sex is. A lot of sex can be mediocre, especially with newish partners who aren't clued into and experienced with your particular likes and dislikes. The real loss is the lack of emotional intimacy and the joys of experiencing genuine love, both giving and receiving. Romantic love and erotic love are vital experiences for a well-traveled and fulfilled life. P…
/r/MensRights02/03/24 02:42 AM
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You might be interested in this data point on the sharp decline in the marriage norm across the western developed countries: https://i.imgur.com/coPTCZd.jpg
/r/MensRights02/03/24 02:22 AM
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Utah senators unanimously pass bill to decriminalize polygamy (February 19, 2020)
/r/MensRights02/03/24 02:16 AM
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"Patriarchy" is just men being mobilized by their women to serve women.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 08:36 PM
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A ~60% forecasted marriage rate for those who would be 45 years old in 2050, seems implausibly "optimistic" on current trajectory. Once the marriage norm is gone, the changes in mating behavior can be expected to go from gradual and partial to sudden and absolute. There will be pockets of highly religious anti-modernist communities like the Amish who will continue to have a marriage norm, but mainstream society can be expected to see a more significant decrease in the marriage rate than forecast…
/r/MensRights01/03/24 08:01 PM
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Historic and Forecast Ever-Married Shares by Age and Sex: https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/figurelyman-w640.png
/r/MensRights01/03/24 07:49 PM
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Income can fluctuate over one's life. A wife planning to divorce can quit her job a year before filing to change the calculation for alimony. There's no way to divorce proof a marriage, and there's no way to financially proof a divorce. Just don't get married full-stop until the laws and circumstances change to become fairer to men.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 02:23 AM
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Who will care for them if they come back disabled and disfigured?
/r/MensRights28/02/24 05:30 PM
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"Equality" is equal rights, never equal responsibilities. Women get the rights of men while incurring none of the concomitant responsibilities of men, whereas men get none of the rights of women.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 05:26 PM
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The UK Conservative Party ("The Tories") polls so poorly among the young, that the UK Labour Party has little to worry about going into the medium term future. This proposal is probably not over electoral concerns, but is more likely being made for ideological and culture war reasons.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 09:12 PM
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A great test to see if something is bigoted, is to replace the groups mentioned, and reexamine how the text would be seen in "polite society". If the response would change, it's bigoted and there's a double standard.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 06:42 PM
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With human trafficking, people tend to think only about the sexual trafficking of women, but the phenomenon of criminal organizations forcing young boys to do dirty work for them is far less discussed. The reason for this practice is because juveniles can't be charged as adults, if they're caught. In american urban gangs, the slang name for such boys is/was "shorties".
/r/MensRights27/02/24 06:37 PM
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Boys from broken homes tend to do far worse than girls, including in education and economic metrics. Combine that with the primary and secondary education system being less attuned to the best learning methods for boys. Then combine that with the imbalance in tertiary education scholarships, with there being far more scholarships for women with far higher totals being spent to subsidize their tertiary education than men receive, and you get outcomes like young women making more than young men ov…
/r/MensRights27/02/24 06:27 PM
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Younger women now earn at least as much as or more than men in 22 metro areas
/r/MensRights27/02/24 06:17 PM
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Are they going to make it even and also train women influencers who will teach other women how to "properly" discuss and treat men and boys with respect, kindness, and fairness? No?
/r/MensRights27/02/24 06:10 PM
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Studying medicine and engineering are pretty good bets for a genuinely meaningful ("I saved their lives", "I built this") and high income profession. I wouldn't write off of all of tertiary education. Just don't study dead-end academic nonsense, and be willing to make the tradeoff of your time for money and accomplishment.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:55 AM
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Men have finally woken up and have realised that a MGTOW lifestyle brings them more peace and happiness than being in a relationship with a woman. The high depression, suicide, and friendlessness statistics for men would make it seem that much of the decline in IRL courting is not a conscious willing choice on the part of men to embrace a "MGTOW lifestyle". Huge numbers of lonely men are not living their "best life" while consciously forsaking love and romance with the opposite sex. A lot just s…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:51 AM
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Christian marriage was de facto abolished across the West in the 20th century with the adoption of No Fault Divorce, anyway. The traditionalists worship an institution that no longer exists. If they want to reverse the laws and go back to Fault Divorce, then fine, but in the mean time, they shouldn't harshly condemn men for not wanting to marry under the current oppressive divorce laws and with the anti-male bias in the family courts. I would respect that stance much more than "Lie back and thin…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:30 PM
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Traditionalists treat men like cannon fodder for their "glorious society".
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:19 PM
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None of the "Lie back and think of Rome" traditionalists ask the question whether these societies deserve the loyalty and self-sacrifice of the men they are failing and offering nothing to.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:18 PM
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Use meetup.com to find people who share your hobbies and interests, or use it to find some new hobbies and interests.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 08:42 PM
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For the first time? Louann Brizendine's The Female Brain and The Male Brain were published in 2006 and 2009 respectively, and they were summaries of bodies of previous research.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 12:59 PM
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There are pack animals with cooperation and even friendship between males, such as wolves. Solitary animals or herd animals have different dynamics. I think there are good reasons to think that human male psychology is closer to that of pack hunter animals, or else the word "brotherhood" wouldn't exist, team sports wouldn't exist, and military units wouldn't have cohesion and self sacrifice among their members.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 01:32 AM
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Men can perceive a battery of quarrels being brought up in quick succession as a planned attack on them, and would then become defensive and might consequently feel like it's a betrayal depending on how sensitive the matters are. I hope this helps you understand your future partners better. An alternative track to try is to bring up immediately that there's a talk you want to have with your partner, but that you will wait for a time when they are less stressed and have less on their mind, and th…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 01:23 AM
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Climate change is mostly only going to be "hell" for very specific regions, mostly near the equator. If one lives in the far northern or far southern latitudes, then an increase in average temperature is more likely to be locally economically advantageous, such as with having longer growing seasons. And in a world of ongoing demographic collapse, starting a family shouldn't really be guilt inducing anyway. One person having some kids is not going to move the needle in a world where literally mos…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 01:03 AM
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Many if not most singles aren't having a lot of sex. The stats on sexlessness for both sexes among the younger generations have been increasing for years, although more pronounced among male singles than female singles.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 12:55 AM
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Many of the men who fought in the World Wars came home traumatized and suffered with night terrors for the rest of their lives, and many of them never told their wives what they saw, had to do, and lived through. They confided instead in male friends and acquaintances at bars under the anti-inhibiting influence of alcohol. Men of the past generations knew that their wives were not their everything, but were instead a very important something, in contrast to the modern romantic ideal. One is bett…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 12:43 AM
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The Graduate (a coming of age story at young adulthood, not childhood) The Outsiders The Catcher in the Rye The Adventures of Tom Sawyer Harry Potter
/r/MensRights14/02/24 09:26 PM
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They just want to exploit men for their own gain, not help us as a goal unto itself. The political left is no better than the traditionalists that scold men to marry under the current divorce laws but categorically refuse to advocate for the change of the laws to be fair towards men and children.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:40 AM
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Men should go into high paying medical professions, if they can cut it. But only to work like women and do minimal hours at the high hourly rate or relatively high salary compared with hours worked. Work to live, not to live to work. There's no reason for men to work themselves to the bone for families they won't have, and frankly shouldn't have under the current divorce laws. Having a high income without needing to work overtime, and having that long term job security due to numerous factors, i…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:48 AM
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Companies like Evite and Paperless Post offer templates for hosts. (One reads: "I'm better off bein' with my besties! IN MY DIVORCE ERA.") Evite saw a record number of divorce-related invitations last year, according to the company's senior marketing director, Olivia Pollock. They're up 22% since 2019, though they remain a small share of overall Evite events. ... U.S. nightclub chain Howl at the Moon has also seen reservations for divorce parties climb, up to 30 in 2023 from about five annually …
/r/MensRights06/02/24 02:13 AM
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Always wear a condom that you brought yourself (to avoid using a tampered condom with holes poked in it), and always thoroughly clean the condom out in a sink with hot water after use (to ensure that the sperm can not be taken out of it and used against your consent).
/r/MensRights06/02/24 12:56 AM
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"The United Kingdom is the land where everything is policed except crime."
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:05 AM
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This is an older article, but it remains evergreen: https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2013/07/20/forfeiting-the-patriarchal-dividend/ This subject is also expanded on in Aaron Clarey's A World Without Men: An Analysis of an All-Female Economy.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 04:17 PM
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Richard Reeves has said nothing that wasn't already said in the MRM multiple decades ago. Among the political left, he's just the acceptable face for a truth that they have callously denied out of hand, until only the last second before the consequences of countless ignored issues reach catastrophic proportions. They're acting out of rational self interest for themselves, not genuine concern for us men.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 03:56 PM
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