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He's trying to say that those women accused men of desiring more traditionally feminine women while they do the same with obv reversed roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:39 AM
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Astonishing comment. If I were there I would surely deserted and wish all the other guys do the same. Then dear Svetlana would have to deal by herself with the Ruskies. Equality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:24 AM
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Expect it's almost all made up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:58 AM
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They're wrong and that acritical acceptance of anything, the massive showering of attention to anyone of the other sex, is exactly why they've (well, we) such an hard life, on average, dating. It's a simple market rule, the goods more in demand cost more. As men we make the demand, thus we're able to lower the costs if we want to. How could it be possible? We just need to accept the possibility that, for instance, we may not have sex this month, year etc, and that we may not have a gf this month…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:57 AM
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As always in this kind of subs you fell in the same error anti male discourse fell into: generalizing. You've the kind of bounds you deserve. Maybe you're too much of a normie to be able to meet un-normie actually cool women. Have you ever thought about that? There are plenty of women that offers meals and drinks and rides to their male friends. Planty of women that offer advice and solutions to the problems you bought to them. Plenty of women that can keep secrets and don't like to gossip. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:06 AM
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I would say that to an extent this is true here in Italy as well. Obviously less in big cities and more in rural areas and smaller cities. Especially but not only among young people being somehow comparable in "objective look" seems quite important, especially in regard to what others would think (friends, family, even strangers).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:33 PM
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I'm Italian and basically all my female classmates had sex in middle school (so around 13/14 yo). At the time that happened more with older boys than with us, they peers. For reference I had sex for the first time at 17yo with my first gf that already had sex years prior that our first time. I think tho that today this dynamic changed a little bit because I don't think is so frequent anymore for very young girls to have sex with older boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:25 PM
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Yeah, that was I meant. You explained it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:42 PM
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Also western culture has and has always had like the least significant father role of almost any culture It's funny because actually the opposite is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:40 PM
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Interesting. In European/Western culture fathers have a relevant role in their upbringing of their children and on average men feel this duty and know they they could be less able to protect their offspring after a divorce. Other men could be involved and there is a certain danger in that so they want to be there at least until they're adults. Mothers instead know that their children will be with them anyway and that divorcing will not affect their relationship with their children. They'll chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:23 PM
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Lol preferences are a reflection of the culture in which someone lives, they don't reflect some obscure and immutable and timeless genetic "truth". This kind of innatism is so outdated is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:52 AM
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She said some. Which means maybe 4 out of 10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:57 AM
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This would seem reasonable but the problem is that those women for whatever reason viscerally hate men. They want them there, miserable and lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:56 AM
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What are you doing there?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:50 AM
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Uncomfortable? LMAO! I can assure you that it makes me feel all sort of stuff except uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:56 PM
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What does it mean to fuck like a porn star? As always even in this topic there are a lot of nuances. Do most men need their women to want/enjoy the worst, most brutal, depictions of sex you can find in most porn? I highly doubt it. Do most men would love their woken to be sexually expressive, naughty, voracious, proactive, uninhibited, high energy, prone to a certain raw, even brutal, intensity? I'm more than sure most of us would strongly agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:21 PM
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It depends on the span of time we're talking about. For instance 10 in a month? 10 in an year? 10 in 10 years? I would consider 10 in a year a promiscuous person (10 in a month more like a human nest riddled with STD)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:33 PM
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I do it for myself. I just desidered to feel my body more. You know, all the muscles. To feel stronger and more grounded? You know, heavier. I also like the rush of dopamine you can feel while doing deadlifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:38 PM
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Dichotomies are stupid af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:13 PM
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Very nice and comfortable, thanks for asking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:47 AM
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Trying to enlighten some mofos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:46 AM
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I'm not even sure that's true. I saw all kind of men having success with women. Even gay men are able to have women lol. So basically what I'm trying to say is that almost everything people complain about here is bullshit. I'm not saying that women aren't shallow because they are! Most people are shallo, regardless of their gender! Water is wet, what a surprise! To obsess over things you read over the internet - a place where people go to puke their worst thoughts and where the worst aspects of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:29 PM
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You don't seem to get it. I'm not suggesting you to replace wet dreams about all those hotties that don't notice you with wet dreams about combat zones and ancient wars. I'm instead suggesting to be like those ancient heroes in spirit, which means to be brave, mentally and physically strong, adventurous, cunning and resourceful like them but in out environment, in our daily lives. Is your mission to fuck as much women as possible? Great, go for it! Master the art of fucking loose women! Do every…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:20 PM
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It was just an example of how men of past societies didn't give two shits about what women think. We still glorify those men from the past because they are exemple of virility. I doubt tho that men of the future will make movies about total losers that waste their time whining because they can't have Leonardo Di Caprio's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:56 PM
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Do you think that I was suggesting to try to be an actual viking or a samurai? If the answer to this question is yes then I've a very cool bridge to sell to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:50 PM
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Couldn't be you that make them act that way, chief?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:40 PM
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I wonder if maybe women that enjoy being fucked by strangers in swingers clubs could mmm I don't know not be the best pick for the highest self-esteem of the month. Just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:37 PM
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So what? Who the fuck cares?! Why people here seem obsessed to be seen as physically attractive by random women? You guys sound like a stereotypical woman with bpd or histrionic personality disorder. How exactly what those random women wrote on the internweb affect your daily lives? How many hours do you think samurais or vikings wasted daily dwelling over how much women desired them? The answer is zero. Being that neurotic over a perceived attractiveness or lack of it I believe is like the leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:22 PM
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Cool but it's not a lifestyle, it's just a minor sexual preference. Being a prepper or a soldier or a religious zealot are lifestyles, liking bimbos or bulky guys aren't one. You are surely entitled to do that but it's not difficult to understand why your specific selection gets so much hate by a lot of men (me included, no offence). In a way that's a lifestyle and one which is possible only thanks to a very specific cultural conjuncture where there are still enough men interested in accepting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:54 PM
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I'm not exactly sure how that could be a "lifestyle" lol nor I've ever heard about "strong men" as some sort of sociological group. Are you talking about the dudes that partake in strength athletics? From the way you phrased things you sound like one of those women that like to enjoy the perks of a liberal feminist society and the perks of a conservative patriarchal society and none of their downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:42 PM
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Are you one of those anti feminist patriarchal right wing women? A trad wives or something like that lol? Because this is exactly how those bunch sees things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:50 PM
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Being so preoccupied with female attention it's not really masculine lol. "Will I catch the attention of my dominas' eyes? Oh God, I surely hope!". Who the fuck cares? Bros before hoes! And lifting is good on itself. It's good for your body and especially for your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:42 AM
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It's not an opinion, it's an self evident fact. What you wrote is appalling and clearly shows your true colors. What or who I am can't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:53 PM
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This is disgusting and the fact that is still there totally means that there totally is a double standard thing going on here which is equally disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:50 PM
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Hello, I would like to let you know that you're disgusting. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:48 PM
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It doesn't make much sense. Many serial killers had a lot of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:26 AM
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Obviously they aren't cucks, they're in fact pimps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:00 PM
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Again with the men are x, women are y fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:04 PM
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Listen, I followed radfem on Tumblr for a while. They wrote totally different stuff, have totally opposite arguments and beliefs. They're mostly lesbians which believes in self segregating to be left alone by men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:13 PM
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Embittered common women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:37 PM
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Radfem are anticapitalist and usually socialists/communists. Women of FDS usually brag about their careers and are all about diamonds, pricey dinners, money and stuff like that. Not at all radfem (which by the way advocated of gender segregation so they don't need any advice about dating men)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:36 PM
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Yeah, it's more than likely that. Extremely sad tho m
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:31 PM
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How she explains that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:27 PM
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Yeah, I can agree with that. I just think that there are other and better ways to learn how to understand and do those stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:42 PM
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Quite the opposite. In patriarchal society everyone had to marry as soon as possible. People were kinda forced to marry (even homosexuals, you know?). And there wasn't much space for promiscuity. By the way weren't talking about cavemen but just how things worked until very recently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:52 PM
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Do you seriously think that most men desired to have the luxury to be with "hypergamous" and childish women? Ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:50 PM
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Idealization and then devaluation are hallmarks of quite a lot of personality disorders. That doesn't put those men in a good light, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:48 PM
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I've a question for you. What does it exactly mean to be or feel like being a man? And a woman? I'm asking what do you think it means not the general definition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:45 PM
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In fact I do believe that, yes. I, for instance, belive I'm both and can do both. I've to say tho that I don't think that's common. I also believe that for various reasons (which I can explain if you're interested) men and women aren't and can't be equal nor can have - on average - the same experiences and bring in their life the same knowledge on regard of what we call here "an high body count" but contrary to what most men think here I also believe - albeit on a lesser degree - that men as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:27 PM
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In some countries now even if there is no marriage but only a relationship men still have to pay if they split
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:16 PM
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The experience that matter here is the experience in being capable to stick to something even when it's difficult and not satisfying, the one about sacrifice the your personal needs and desires for something greater not the experience in fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:11 PM
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Which are a tiny minority among men so they're a statistical anomaly and thus doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:05 PM
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This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:55 PM
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It's just stupid stuff teens do regardless of their sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:50 AM
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Exactly right. People here have the need to explain with an unifying theory human behavior, is somehow reassuring to all of them to delude themselves in believing that there is a rule that governs the apparent chaos in which we live. Someone could say that this is just the old religious sentiment dressed for this new age of mass atheism lol. Truth is: there is no rule, guys. A rather obvious and easy demonstration of this is the occasional post/comment (here and in other subreddit dedicated to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:40 PM
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Haha good one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:12 PM
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To me is this whole (foolish) need to overgeneralize a phenomenon so complex and so personal like this one that doesn't make much sense. Women want this, women want that: non sense, really. I can understand that it could be somehow a funny subject but don't pretend that it has some degree of objectivity. We aren't ants, therefore there is no hidden rule to discover. People are complex beings often unpredictable and almost always apparently contradictory. Other than it uselessness this kind of di…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:11 PM
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The Schrödinger' man (according to the RP community): in order to attract "females" he has to be at the same time college educated and with a solid career and a felon with an anti-social personality disorder lmao (in both occasions he has to be tall tho, no exceptions)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:39 PM
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Rich men don't find their women on dating apps lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:55 AM
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It works with insecure people with a low self esteem in need of external validation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:02 PM
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Cummo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:53 PM
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Very nuanced and totally realistic view /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:46 PM
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Yes meme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:47 PM
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Detract from the whole sum gay men, masculine lesbians as straight men in search of an inspiration before counting lol. I never met a women which ever express an hint of interest in abs. In tall men? Sure. In long hair? Yeah. In big dicks? Obviously. Abs? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:20 PM
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What? That women are so helpless that the only way they have to not be raped is being hyped up by their parents? This is so far from common knowledge than I don't know what to say to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:49 AM
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Ok, your reasoning is one the worst excuses for Inflate egos and unhealthy narcissism I ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:44 AM
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That woman didn't drive me to tears, just shamed my when I cried in front of her. Indeed it was truly painful. Thank you for your kind words, I just wrote this in order to let you know that this is something a lot of men experienced but maybe are too ashamed to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:16 AM
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As always in this kind of circles there is a certain difficulty in understanding the complexity of our fellow human beings. We're driven by biological imperatives, by our innate gregariusness which then makes us conforming to the general consensi among our peers, by the education and values our family gave us, by our unique psychology which is made by our past/truamas and so on, by the culture we live in, by the mental state we're in in a precise moment. In this sense the mere observation of cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:13 AM
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Exactly. They might have been shamed by their parents in regard to their sexual desires or been educated to see sex in a negative way. Sexually and emotionally healthy women don't fantasize about being raped just as sexually and emotionally healthy men don't fantasize about raped them. Which doesn't mean by the way that people that have these fantasies are mentally unwell and/or need to feel guilt about them. But it's important to say and repeat that this "all women secretly fantasize about bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:54 AM
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It hurts to admit that yeah, so far this is my impression as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:36 AM
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Hi, so far it is my experience as well. I was even shamed for crying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:32 AM
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A lot of women do that as well. I have known them. They can see a guy as dumb but hot and thus just use them for sex. Basically all this gendered stuff is stupid. Men and women are just humans which have the exact same goals, emotions and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:19 AM
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Lol. Who said this bullcrap, Jordan Peterson?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:16 AM
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Perfectly stated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:16 AM
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Most women don't like abs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:14 AM
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Ok, Nietzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:35 PM
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Imagine thinking the amount of sex someone has is an indicator of their quality as a person. Are you guys aware that this kind of discourse exists only since the so called "sexual revolution" of the 60s of the last century? Propri Prior to that people were supposed to have sex only if and when married and sex was totally a private matter which was totally unspeakable in public. Sex and especially casual sex is an obsession of the Western world that we caught so so recently. So yeah sex is, or be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:16 PM
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Personally I think in this kind of discussions the only factual things are exactly anecdotes lol. Broad theories are usually a way of coping and not much tied with reality (which is far more complex and contradictory). Even what I wrote is just a form of venting which while I still believe that has some merit I also recognize that it's highly dependent on my way of seeing things, my values and yes, experiences. So yeah, I think the middle ground is trying to see if these experiences differ from …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:38 PM
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Why is that? You can refute my arguments which are broad and thus relate with all the society or you can agree with them. I stated multiple times that it's not just something I experienced directly but something I see on a general basis while dealing with couples I see or know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:24 PM
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She don't got a point. If those women want to go beyond the simple dating phase then they will have to deal with the fact that not all of them can have a stable relationship with the kind of men they are interested in. There isn't enough for all of them (same with reversed roles). Usually that realization come in their 30s which is another thing a lot of "Red pillers"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:20 PM
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Not on purpose, no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:14 PM
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I think you totally got my point. A lot of men just accept that thing as normal and while doing so, at least in my view, they are doing a disservice to both their fellow men and to women. To women because women absolutely can do better than this and enabling their entitled behavior prevent them to grow and to men because in a way put all of us in a position where it's kinda expected to act that way (even when we don't want to)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:06 PM
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No, you're right but that is a clinical condition, I was talking about something less medical and more cultural, sociological. In a sense we're living in the worst possible scenario, basically we're right now in the middle of the road, not anymore in the patriarchal past not yet in a truly equal society. So we've new roles and rights for women but at the same time some of their old rights (liked with their past submissive role) still persist. So in this sense sometimes women today can have their…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:55 PM
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I don't know if you were joking but I always found mute/deaf women somehow attractive. Maybe that's why!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:58 PM
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As I said I saw this thing in action not only in my past relationships but while interacting with couples I know as well. That's why I think is widespread. But I'm not denying what you're saying, on the contrary. I'm not a doormat tho, not at all. Just an empathetic person that truly want to put my actions where my mouth is, so to speak. So I tend to willingly give my time and attention to someone I care for so to help her solve her issues. But, at least in the past, I wasn't always able to let …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:57 PM
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Ok but I don't understand what depressed men have to do with this. Surely a depressed person would do the exact opposite, like shut up for a second and just lay there in his bed. And I wasn't talking about venting but more about the constant demand for reassurance. Things like "do you think I'm fat?", "do you see me fatter than literally yesterday?", "do I need to call again my friend which didn't reply to me?", "do you believe that my boss will fire me because today I enters in the office one m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:43 PM
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After a while being again single I just remembered - interacting with women and couples - how draining can be to have to cater and pander to the female need for emotional reassurances and validation. It may be a cultural thing (as always say here I'm not American and thus things may be different there) but here most women demand (or take for granted) this kind of emotional labor by their bf and sometimes even friends. And no one talks about that and it's crazy. Sometimes having a gf basically en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:48 AM
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Women which say this mean that they want the guys they like to be friends first not that any guy can try to have them if he just tried to be firstly friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:30 AM
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How you put it, it sounds like "how is the better course to build the perfect vegetable garden" or something like that. Human connections have millions of variables and can't summarized and then built just following generic rules and guides. For some sex can be fundamental in order to know someone, for others can be less important or even not desirable with someone they don't know much. There isn't a rule. To me it's all down to preferences and chemistry between the two. If that couple is meant …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:37 AM
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I couldn't have said it any better myself. Surely humans in a way are designed (thanks to evolutionary processes) to learn, search and follow patterns and to rely on them in order to navigate through space and time. But we know that this is a cognitive bias as well. We assume that what we've seen is a pattern, we assume the reasons behind the previous assumptions but we often don't know that for a fact. Sometimes something was in fact predictable and part of a pattern, other times it wasn't or i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:58 PM
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Humans aren't fish either. There are invariants/patters in human behavior but there are a huge number of variables as well. So it's pointless to try to underline general rules like: 1) if a man then 6 foot tall at least 2) if a woman then cute childish face 3) when young women like to fuck around a lot with criminals (lol) but then like to find a provider which needs to be a submissive loser that collects Lego etc. As I said there are a lot of variables that make clear that the truth is way more…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:09 PM
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This. Empty words never helped anyone but of course they don't cost anything so people like to throw them around a lot. Instead actually helping someone costs something and thus few like to share what they have (eg a lot of friends and acquaintances) with the less "fortunate". I always was under the impression that meet new girls through friends was easier than trying to do that by yourself. Recently I had to change my mind in that regard. There is a lot of gatekeeping going on and is astonishin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:01 PM
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I can't agree more with you on this. I've to say tho that there is a distinction to be made: urban Vs rural. I'm not American nor I live there but I'm pretty sure this distinction is true here in the EU and there as well. In urban environments people tend to be more promiscuous and thus it's not at all uncommon to see guys going out every we and almost every time being able to hook up a different girl. This is true obviously mostly for twenty something and surely conventionally attractive dudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:54 AM
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I love breasts too but I don't agree with you on the personality disorders' issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:44 AM
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China is a social darwinist nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:58 PM
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Social conditions change human dispositions. Certain gender roles and evolutionary traits are still the same but other things are definitely changed. For instance I think today in western society men are more inclined to feel depressed than women and that's because we know that we ren't at the top of the ladder anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:59 PM
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While reading your comment I was thinking this sounds a lot like personality disorder...well, I wasn't disappointed. Keeping tabs on people and reappearing after awhile people's lives are kinda typical of these type of personalities. No judgment on my part, just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:47 AM
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Being used as an object by some drunk frat bro that hates you because you're idk fat is not "eating an overcooked 100 dollars steak" is a degrading experience that affects the psyche and the emotion well-being of the used person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:59 PM
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I'm not a woman. Sorry. By the way if you don't understand that being used for sexual gratification is not that great I'm two time sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:32 PM
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I'm in my middle thirties
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:36 PM
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Most relationships don't start with a friendship. Some do. It could be a great way to start a solid relationship, I agree with you on this but I don't think that could be the only way. While there are emotionally healthy adults involved depth is something built over time, through curiosity, intimacy and a shared life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:26 AM
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For most of history "traditionalism" was about both members of the couple working. Most people were farmers and in that environment women work too. So today if you want to have that kind of family you can try to "return to the land". Buy a small plot of land, do permaculture and stuff like that, buy animals, sew etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:43 AM
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I'm a man and I tried everything sex related in LTR. Maybe it's a generational thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:56 AM
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Firstly we need to stop speaking in absolutes. It's not all women but a lot of young naive girls. Big difference. And I don't need to believe it because I knew and know women, I had relationships with them, I spoke with them and thus I know for a fact that so many women naively misinterpret men's attentions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:33 AM
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Have you ever had sex with someone clearly not that into you? How was it? Satisfying? If you're truly a woman the answer more than probably will be a strong no. Most women need a little bit more than just two or three strokes and a pair of titties in the hands to call a fuck satisfying. Otherwise most men would seen as sex masters and not awful partners unable to make a woman cum lol. And usually when there is this "not that into her" element going on men don't do much for her other than bust a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:21 AM
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Never said all men. For instance I never done that. But I know that a lot of men don't have much empathy for women especially if said women are seen by them as easy ("sl"ts" and so on) just because they agreed to had sex with them. Again it's just common sense. You just need to have some real life experience in order to know that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:15 AM
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Why don't you understand? I never paid a woman for sex. I find that awful and degrading for both party involved. It doesn't do anything for me. But it's still better than being hate fucked by some frat bro. Jesus Christ, is not rocket science!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:07 AM
-1

Are you a man? If yes did you seriously never heard one of your pals (or just a random men) saying something like "yesterday I fucked that uggo haha. I had to put a bag on her head to do it but you know sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do"? I'm a straight man and I heard this kind of things so many times. Are you truly believing that, for instance, at the clubs when they night is almost over the dudes that weren't able to hook up the girls they liked then turn their attention to the one the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:05 AM
0

There is a huge difference between being young and naive (many young girls) and old and experienced as a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:59 PM
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I agree but it's a conscious choice and there is at least a modicum of power in it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:58 PM
1

Actually I'm not (at least not that young). I totally agree with what you said in regard to actual love versus infatuation. I know the difference. But what you described is more akin to an arranged marriage than to an organic love which usually grow from a common infatuation to something more profound over the course of time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:57 PM
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If you don't understand the difference between being hate fucked and a mutually respectful and pleausrable intercourse I'm sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:53 PM
1

Who said otherwise? I'm trying to let these guys have some empathy for women for once. Naive girls hate fucked by the generic "Chad" aren't lucky "because sex, duh!". That's the way a pimply teen male sees sex. Basically a porn where the only thing that matters is "bust a nut". Most women, especially the younger ones don't see it that way and most importantly are aware of how men can damege them physically so they need more than just being aroused to enjoy the act. So yeah, there will never be "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:52 PM
0

Most women don't know that these men with whom they hooked up with despise them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:40 PM
-3

It's worse because in paying there is some power while in being (usually without the knowledge to be) used there isn't any. Furthermore paying a woman sometimes is an act of spite and hate as having sex with a woman you don't like just because you can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:38 PM
6

Yay, what a fortune to be hate fucked by some stranger. Women are so lucky! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:28 PM
4

Unironically this. Most guys have to break the cycle. It's like an addiction which makes us way more vulnerable, weak and manipulable. And which of course makes women way more powerful than they would be otherwise. If men want to rebalance things with women they first need to be so desperate for sex and just, as you said, focus on enjoying themselves. But, as you can see, most people don't agree with this. It's too hard for them to just stop being like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:27 PM
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It's the whole routinary aspect which is implied in your words that I find weird and discomforting. It makes love seems like a job or like working out when I prefer to see it as something inexplicable, unexpected, simpler and less common
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:06 PM
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Not at all. Just think this kind of mechanization of something I would like to see as unpredictable and rare is very sad. But to each their own, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:39 PM
2

Oh ok, that makes sense. Thank you for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:45 PM
1

Can I ask you something? How does it possible to "date" for two years? After some months it's a relationship or it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:36 PM
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I seconded this. If you aren't able to understand when it's the moment to kiss then it means you're totally clueless and well even as a man if a woman asked me if she could kiss me I think I would seen her as extremely goofy and awkward (which aren't criminal offences but surely not the most appealing qualities). Ask for kisses regardless of the gender is usually seen surely as respectful but clumsy so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:31 PM
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It's similar with the left and billionaires. Poor people are certainly bitter that they have to struggle with rent while others drown in money, but a lot of leftists wouldn't want to do all the evil things that you need to do to be a billionaire (pollution, union-busting, lobbying, exploitation of the third world, ...), they want to live in a system that doesn't reward people for doing this. Maybe I misunderstood this piece. If so I apologize to you, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:34 AM
1

And yet I just compared it. You can compare things that have differences - that's actually a necessary condition for a comparison. You words, not mine. I just tried to explain why, outside a plain of mere speculation, you can't compare these "things"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:28 AM
1

You lost the second part, dude. P*ssy is attached to a human being which, unlike natural resources or money, has agency and thus will be always able to not want to have anything to do with you. So no, there will not be the socialization of p+ssy at least not in this part of the world. But you can see if ISIS still accept applications
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:06 AM
1

P*ssy is not comparable with money and resources. It's attached to a human being, you know? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:56 AM
1

Don't get me wrong I was like that too when I was 20 something. There is a lot of peer pressure involved and young people are usually so confirming. For us males it's also some sort of challange, a competition against other males in order to feel among the winners, you know? Winners and losers and surely a lot of hormones involved. The sad things is seeing girls starting more and more to act like these young men I'm talking about. And then we're here today having truly cynical men and women, afr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:54 AM
2

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:42 PM
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Do you want to follow the lowest part of yourself or do you want to strive for something better? In other words do you want to be able to numb yourself with meaningless shallow casual sex (keep in mind that most often than not this kind of sex is just one or even both persons objectifying each other, which is something that does effect negatively our psyche) or do you want to be able to have meaningful and deep relationships with women? Would you be proud of yourself while saying out loud "yes I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:11 PM
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Still props to you for have been true to yourself even while facing a lot of peer pressure. I'm sure you had way more valuable and cherished memories thanks to this than a lot of other more easily impressionable persons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:56 PM
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You summarized precisely the whole scenario. Men orbiting in this kind of discussions are usually bitter because they weren't able to do exactly what you described (being promiscuous and enjoy quick easy causal sex as the other bros out there) and in that bitterness they seem unable to see that most girls didn't benefit that much from these dynamics. It's true tho that sometimes girls become effected so much by this whole shebang that they as well feel like it's normal and good for them rejectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:42 PM
1

Yeah, pretty much this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:42 PM
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I've to say that in my experience I probably saw more women than men simping (in real life tho, online is different). On average we're talking about young women (20 something) with clear self-esteem issues and unresolved trauma and bad coping mechanisms (worst of all surely is sexual promiscuity which doesn't do much other than exacerbate their self-esteem and self perception issues). Usually there is a lot of idealization involved, sometimes friend with benefits dynamics and the dudes involved …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:41 PM
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Probably just creative writing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:16 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:03 AM
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As almost always is not about being male or female, this is just how insecure with low self esteem people work regardless of their sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:44 PM
0

That's blatantly false
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:26 PM
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That's the internet. Out there that guy can do whatever he pleases in regard to his relationship and no one would care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:22 PM
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"lol bye"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:24 PM
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Yeah, I spoke from experience and I know that it's a fairly common thing. Truth is, there isn't a rule but surely for the average Joe the better path is just have a personality and try to actually connect with someone of the opposite gender on the premise of something they've in common (which could be anything: an hobby; a life experience, good or sad; their field of work and so on). For less experienced people (especially if male) being just there is useless because well, having magnetism and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:11 PM
1

See, online dating is like the hardest mode of dating. So if you weren't able to score points irl I would suggest you to give up on OLD. There is a chance, on line, to bond quite a lot over time that then when finally meeting there is already so much going on that all the other elements fall in the background. But you can't achieve that with, for instance, tinder which is made in order to have the least convos necessary to decide if there will be a one night stand or not. OLD are for players or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:07 PM
1

Haha true dat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:53 PM
2

Wow, you must be really frugal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:51 PM
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What about trying to talk to women, hold on, in real life? Like in places where you can chat easily and/or where you can bond over a mutual interest? I know, sounds crazy, but give it a try
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:48 PM
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And you think these women could give you a good picture of that? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:59 PM
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It's totally fundamental to not do that How what to marry a vergin? Besides pedos, of course lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:33 PM
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Haha ok! Ah, btw, how does that freedom sounds like? I assume farts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:54 AM
1

Good for you! Delusional and with progressively congested arteries, what a remarkable achievement!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:37 AM
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Nah, I think I'll stay here, thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:49 AM
1

It's just sad that this place is so packed by FDS followers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:47 PM
1

But that behavior doesn't have anything to do with gender solidarity. I don't think it stems from a place of solidarity (and I wonder which type of strange solidarity would have been the one about something so personal and shallow like attractiveness, even more when directed to someone that never asked anything to said person nor seems distressed). I think is more like a form of mobbing based on shaming from women against men they don't perceive as threatening and thus easily attackable and at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:37 PM
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Ok but that wasn't the topic discussed here. The topic was, quite clearly, the female behavior I described: women that approach other women that they don't know in order to say to them that they're more beautiful than the men they are with. A behavior which I find bizarre to say the least and surely extremely toxic. Could be call it toxic femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:00 PM
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Not much quite frankly but it's ok. It's not up to me to decide what others find interesting or debatable and what not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:20 PM
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I think that you're purposeling misinterpret my points. Which it's not that strange in a place where a lot of users just try to score point for what they perceived as their team but at the end of the day how cares
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:19 PM
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Thanks man. You're definitely right. I've to improve in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:38 PM
1

Exactly. The point is some women preach all the time about how men are shallow and shitty to them and then act like that against dudes they didn't do anything against them. Obviously women as a whole aren't responsible for what some women did but most of them then forgot about this when ask all men to be accountable for what some men do to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:24 PM
1

No cuz they know that even if when more than annyoing men tend to not hospitalize them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:17 PM
1

Which is true. But I didn't ask you guys to explain this to me because I already know why men don't do this kind of stuff. I just wanted to share an anecdote (obviously in itself irrelevant) ad an excuse to discuss gender relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:01 PM
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I'm a man I know that stuff. Maybe I'm not able to express my self clearly idk. The point I was trying to make is that I never saw a man complimenting another dude and then proceed to say to him that he deserves to be with a more good looking woman exactly in front of said woman. I was talking about this very specific scenario not anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:36 PM
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The whole point is: most women like to bitch about how men (even strangers, you know the whole cat calling stuff and so on) are awful to them but then a lot of then like to act that way because they know they've a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:28 PM
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But she didn't make fun of me at least not directly. She complimented her and then pull some kind of "sisterhood" thing like "come on girl, you deserve better" but totally out of the blue and on astonishingly shallow premises. My point is I don't think men give a shit about "uplifting" their fellow men while throwing down random women in order to do that. Granted that that idiot were totally drunk but as the saying goes in vino veritas so she definitely thought what she said or at least she sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:26 PM
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Could be that, idk. Maybe it might be worth mentioning that that woman was there with his man and thus maybe she felt covered enough to be a fucking b*tch to a total stranger without very low risk of be made accountable for that. I also think that could be relevant to say that on average men (and thus me as well) know that they can't say much to stranger women in a public place without risking of being seen as "bad guys" and cowards that attack a woman. That's why I was catch by surprise and did…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:19 PM
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Last night I was the "victim" of an interesting phenomenon which I believe happen only to men (and which I believe is totally unfair and worth thinking about). I was out with a female friend of mine and then a very drunk woman ask for the lighter, I gave it to her and said to her that we already met in several occasions. She said she didn't recognize me because she's always drunk then start complimenting my friend, how beautiful she was and stuff like that. Then she asked her "why are you with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:53 PM
1

Do you ride a car? If yes did you make it by yourself? I don't think you did. This forum, a car, any kind of tool belongs to the people that use it way more than to the ones that originally made it. Especially here on the web, a tool which a ideal core that in time becomes the embodiment of decentralization, of a borderless, free, reality that belongs to everyone in this world. In that sense calling reddit a place by Americans for Americans it's not only factually wrong (where here is written th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:27 AM
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These two things aren't comparable. The US ain't as any other country. Right now is the hegemonic power and that, sadly, makes its things, culture and so on universal. You guys made us living in your nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:49 PM
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Never and do you wonder why? 'Cause imperialism. You guys have your own empire (at least for now) and with that comes things like the colonized being somehow able to use the language you use. Which then makes use able to have a say in your stuff and so on and on. Pros and cons in being the head of the Empire
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:47 PM
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Oh dear, if only that was true! Sadly Americans forced their ways down our throat so much that nowadays younger generations are basically yankee wannabes so. Now we're here to stay and we "keep on rocking" as we please in your "free world" ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:42 PM
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*of the UK, thank you very much. Besides that, as I said internet doesn't work that way so, who cares lol. Stay mad, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:39 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. We've common ancestors, we aren't their direct descendants. Besides that what you stated as a historical truth is in fact false, monkeys or not. For most of our history as a species women didn't have a say on their life so surely they weren't able to sell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:23 PM
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Women (or kids for that matter) didn't prostitute themselves. During the course of history and universally they were forced to do that by men either their family members or because they were slaves. Especially in the past it wasn't up to them to chose anything, especially something like that which was seen as a sentence for life. So yeah, don't use this kind of false argument as a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:04 PM
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Mmm because internet is a universal thing? You know www which means world wide web
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:58 PM
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Reddit is not American because well the internet is universal (you know, www = world wide web). So it doesn't make any sense in this context to use a world like "foreign"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:57 PM
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Yeah, bro, but I'm sad to say that I was mildly sarcastic. In fact I think the picture you depicted is more than anything highly simplistic and stereotypical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:48 AM
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Well, it seems that you've already figure it out everything, so idk what to say to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:35 AM
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It's so much more complex than that. This kind of biologism doesn't explain like at all people. People like you that think that way it seems like they never set foot outside their own home. Do you ever met people? Women and men come in any shape, form, character and inclinations. Data shows that women for instance are nowadays better than men in doing school. So how they can need to be stimulated or they get bored easily lol? Comparing being attracted by nice bodies (and even that is a complex u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:31 AM
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Wolf-whistlers in a way have that too. In less liberal/politically correct societies some women even lament the disappearing of random expression of desire like wolf whistling or compliments. Men that have that kind of attitude sometimes even believe that they could achieve something doing that (not always, just sometimes). But I agree that the virtual environment can make even the less cocky among men feel free to dare, to be able to express their horniness. And yes I believe what you said is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:13 PM
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What desperate men think to achieve simping for women online? The truth is what is happening now online is that basically wolf whistling relocate from the streets to the web with, for the less tech-savvy, a certain naiveté that let them misinterpret certain online interactions with a side of compulsion (like commenting reveling photos and so on)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:55 PM
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Dating socialism or what it was normal in the western world prior to the so called sexual revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:51 PM
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But it's not true. With all the due respect this kind of determinism is ridiculous. Women aren't an hivemind nor men for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:46 PM
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Firstly it's important to say that romantic relationships can't be the same thing at your age (assuming that you're truly 16yo) and later while being adults. Kids have to learn a lot of things about themselves and the world around them and relationships are definitely a safe and sane way to learn these. So, talking about rr between adults to me they entail more or less the same things you promise when you get married (at least in catholicism you've to take a vote). So loyalty, fidelity, be there…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:31 PM
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See? What you described is the contemporary (very American) concept of friendship and romantic relationship. Hanging out and stuff like that. Very low profile, if you get what I mean. I see this stuff differently (maybe it's a cultural thing idk). Friends are the people that truly know you, that there will be there for you no matter what. The others are just acquaintances (the people with whom you just hanging out with). In order to be friends in the full sense of the word you need a lot of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:53 PM
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What do you mean with "can"? Technically you can have sex with anyone, even with animals lol (luckily there are laws against it but it's not psychically impossible). What I'm trying to say here is that genuine friendship and sex doesn't go together but if people like to pretend to be friends while fucking what can I say? I see that you're 16yo. I think today there're more confusion over this issues, everything is more blurred and I also think that this can be a problem but you do you, I guess. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:12 PM
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Maybe you didn't understand what I was trying to say. I don't have anything again the term it's just that I don't think that the thing you defined exists. Simple as that. I can get that others think differently but yeah, to me that is not a friendship and by the way platonic and sexual are mutually exclusive so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:00 PM
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Short answer: no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:07 PM
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Can I disagree with the usual definition of a concept or it is idk a crime? I don't think that FWB are "friends", I utilized here that label only for the sake of clarity. As I said "fwb" are to me just people agreeing in using their bodies reciprocally in order to gain a steady amount of sexual gratification without any intention or desire to see themselves as and share anything more than that. It's like calling poker night friends real friends. They aren't real friends they're just people with …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:35 PM
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Obviously I don't know you and how do you feel and surely if this works for you then great, more power to you but I also want to add that there are conditions like vaginismus which made penetrative sex painful for women. They can be psychical or/and psychological and I think that at least in some aspects women can overcome them and thus being able to enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:20 PM
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As I said in multiple comments here a romantic relationship has both lust/attraction therefore sex (which is the psychical expression of these) and commitment (to form and maintain said bond/relationship). A friendship is commitment to a mutual bond without the lust/attraction part. Fwb is lust/attraction and thus sex without any intention to form and maintain any bond between the parties involved. In a way is more of a business kind of relationship with two parties agreeing in using their bodie…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:15 PM
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It's hard to know for sure but it seems plausible. I would say tho that this stems one own sexual history and feelings about him or herself (like not feeling good with themselves and their body) more than with sex in itself. Sadly a lot of people have given up sex too prematurely thanks to low self-esteem and/or past ugly experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:41 PM
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Yeah, I'm sorry probably I mixed up your comment with what OP was saying. By the way if someone is asexual then I can kind of understand the whole dynamic but otherwise I don't think is so common to not want to have sex with someone we're in love with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:06 PM
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So everything people that sexually desired each other do expect penetrative sex. No offence but why don't you just admit that you specifically have some issues with that instead of judging what is almost universally seen as the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:31 PM
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Lust >??? >marriage I never said this tho. I said that first come lust which imply that there is attraction, then flirting, quite a lot of kissing and then yeah, you got it, el secso. After that you aren't married with a psycho like the poor Jonny. If don't just fuck and then boom married. The lust for your newfound partner doesn't detract you from doing other things as well with that person (like talking, doing stuff together, enjoying each other's company, all the precious daily little things)…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:23 AM
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Can you give me some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:21 AM
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First is lust then come the love (sometimes). You can't skip the lust or try to underplay it because, maybe idk, you don't feel comfortable in that department
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:48 PM
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Silly dichotomy (as any dichotomy really). People don't start a relationship if there is no mutual attraction. If there is mutual attraction then there is sex. Attraction and sex are like the basics. Communication and commitment is what you build over these foundations. In the past it was the other way around and still in some places they do like that but they had and have sex nonetheless and sex that can very well be awkward and sometimes even forced (on women). But no couple (except for the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:45 PM
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Why don't just be friends then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:38 PM
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Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:42 PM
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I just focused on men being proud of themselves and more concentrated on quality over quantity. If women will face rejection more and more surely it would make them less overtly cocky as thus more similar to the average man. But you're right the scenario presented here is very specific and not applicable to society as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:15 PM
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Excellent news! If that is true and enough widespread it could balance things out between the sexes. It's been ages that I advocate for men to be collectively more nitpicky and less sexually opportunistic. On the long run it would benefit all, more self-respecting men and less women with artificially inflated egos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:02 PM
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Thanks, man. And you were absolutely right about that. Poor impulse control and a lot of maladaptive coping mechanisms in action in that kind of scenario. No wonder people don't like to hear this stuff, we all would like to think that emotional and sexual consumerism is cool and legit but the truth is that it is not cool nor legit and partaking in it is detrimental for anyone involved (consciously or not)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:55 AM
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FWB as a precursor to a relationship is a better indicator that a woman is feminine and submissive with a man, as she is giving access to herself sexually without requiring anything. Ugh...but in a way this is useful. Liberal women and young girls would benefit to read this type of things and then maybe reconsider their approach to this kind of relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:41 PM
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Sadly today it seems like this is the default option for young people. I think on the long run it makes things worse for all of us and this is one the reasons why young people are so dissociated, broken, cynic and most of all afraid of intimacy. Showing a deep interest in someone you're dating is seen as lame or even creepy (given that fact you're Italian you would understand what I mean with "un accollo"). So you end up with people afraid to admit even to themselves that they like someone with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:36 PM
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I suppose then that it's a cultural difference. I can't do much about it. By the way I don't think is that enlightened, relationship wise, to focus only on the here and now. Someone's past actions can say not everything but many things about someone so it could be useful to ask. Keep in mind that this is not my approach at all. I never asked anything nor judged but in retrospect I'm not sure that my approach worked that well for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:42 PM
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Mmm, it's more complex than this. For instance there are buff men that like chubby women and chubby women that like buff men and buff men that instead like buff women and biff women that like them back. The only thing that is objectively delusional is when conventionally ugly unkempt people pretend to date conventionally hot people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:36 PM
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It does have an effect in most men self identification and in how they place themselves in their hierarchies. Low "achievements" in that field sometimes equate to low status or even to questioning the guy identity (at least until a certain age then no one cares). But more importantly, as I said, it affects how the men see themselves and that, sometimes not always, could affect their relationship with women. In that sense I can say that many women are interested in men's body count and not always…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:32 PM
1

Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:18 PM
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What all of this have to do with you and your relationships? I never talked about body count either, so what? I just illustrated how I think men operate on a subconscious level probably since the down of time. Observation doesn't equate to endorse the observed phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:17 PM
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I would add that we don't necessarily need to stick to this symbolic level. If we want we can try to change it with now visions and meenings. There were time, not long ago, when in the western world being faithful to their spouses was the way for men to bring honor to themselves. But it was in a way a brief, fragile, interlude. Then we returned to the previous state of things with the so called sexual revolution (which was a way for middle class men to being able to access more freely and withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:31 PM
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That's a good argument. For most men approaching a woman is a sort of a test of courage. In that sense while doing it we're trying to overcome our fear of rejection and most importantly potentially being ridiculed (and thus losing our dignity, honor and so on). It this sense is even a laudable act. Since the down of time we compete between ourselves in order to achieve this scarse (more valuable than ourselves) "resources" called women. While to women men aren't at all a scarse resources, we sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:14 PM
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If I'm into big boobs do I need to have a pair myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:02 PM
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What a shitty goal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:55 AM
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It's Italian (from a very similar Latin word) lol. It's just means not married. For the man the word is celibe (same origin). We use them in bureaucratic contexts like on on our ID. Married instead is "coniugato"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:36 AM
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People here always seem to forget or ignore something while discussing this topic. An high body count (or working in the sex industry) are basically synonymous with mental illness. A woman doesn't do neither of these things if she doesn't have already mental health issues. So it would be better to not date the highly promiscuous girl nor the escort but the second one could have been brought to that path by some wrong turns in her life (in that sense in order to be an escort she didn't need to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:58 PM
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Women do that too. I'm not sure why you just mentioned men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:06 PM
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Yeah, you're right, different sides of the same shitty coin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:36 PM
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Only shallow people are so iper focus on this kind of shit. Stop giving them power amplifying their voice. Just go out of your home and see that bald (meaning shaved well kept men) men don't have any problem whatsoever with dating. Only self-conscious people have that kind of problem because well, they aren't confident but rather anxious, uneasy and sad which are the true things women don't find at all, in any shape or form, attractive. But acknowledge this would meen for a lot of people that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:26 PM
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Bingo! I believe that them and the red pill type are made for each others. Both have a totally cartoonish and stereotypical view of the opposite sex and try to convince themselves through proselytizing and echo chambers that their house of cards is legit and not the paranoid delusion which truly is. The major difference tho is that FDS don't punch down other females and themselves as much as the red pill guys like to do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:19 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:11 PM
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What's your impression then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:39 PM
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Wait what? Fairness according to the dictionary is the quality of treating people equally. When you're designed by nature to prioritize your own (offspring) over someone else (in a world of finite resources this is how basic human nature operates) then you're like the opposite of fair. Archetypically men are fair because man is culture where woman is nature. And culture is among other things the act of ruling (since the down of time a male occupation) and to administrate justice which ask the ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:00 PM
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You see, fairness is a learned trait, it's not ingrained in the human nature. Humans are opportunistic by design and even more the female of the species which are highly pragmatical beings. For a society to be fair you need strong regulators end enforcers. It's cultural and you've to put a lot of effort in order to, in a way, indoctrinate people into being fair. It could obtain that through shaming as in the old patriarchal society or a collectivist mindset like in Asian or communist societies b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:55 PM
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Me neither, not irl at least. But here yes, in some of these "my bf is mad at me because I've an high body count' type thread where other female users said things like" 30+ is not high, I slept with 80 guys and I'm 25". Surely it can be all lies, it's the internet after all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:45 PM
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No it's more "you're a wallet/security net for when I'll need a big house and stuff that I'll not be able to pay by myself" Vs "you're just a flashlight". By the way women are absolutely able to see men as "just a dildo" so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:37 PM
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To me this sound more insulting to the girls that said that than to the object of their comment. They practically admitted to being super shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:35 PM
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I may be totally different, I didn't put much thoughts on this subject but yeah from what I read here and there it seems quite spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:28 PM
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True and that's because it hard for them to understand why the average Joe can't find a proper mate. In fact is so hard to understand why that when confronted with this fact people try to find an answer which usually goes from "it's your fault" (heard a lot and with good reasons here) to "its nobody fault, focus on other things and when you'll less expect it it will happen I'm sure" (the favorite in real life) to "it's women' fault" (the usual pov here)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:53 AM
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I don't spot any error
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:46 AM
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I never asked and usually I always assume the better (wrong choice but whatever) from the people so I never worried about the body count. But I would certainly not be pleased if then I would have to discover my girl to have been with idk 20+ men. Damn, it may be a cultural thing but here I read of women with a b county of like 100? From my cultural standpoint this is absurd. I want to make it clear that it doesn't have anything to do with any insecurity or religion belief nor, I believe, sexism.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:42 AM
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So are you saying to me that in Spain everyone fuck all time without any hassle? Damn, if that's true now I know why all my fellow countrymen chose to do their Erasmus there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:26 PM
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From where you come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:35 AM
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Maybe you seem uptight, haughty, contemptuous and that elicit in some men a desire to dominate you sexually. It definitely can be a dynamic at play. Other types of energy can instead elicit other types of desire like being cuddle or even dominated by the eons woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:57 AM
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This guy over here is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:46 AM
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No, never. In my country most girls are kinda obsessed with the idea to look/be indipendent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:16 AM
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For the million time that's on fucking tinder! Not in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:12 AM
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And this is where you guys are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:09 AM
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I just have a good laugh, that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:40 PM
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I don't confuse anything. The sub suggests that there's a dialogue and well, I was interested in it but surely quite a lot of posts and comments here seem focused on reinforcing false assumptions over basically one single issues which is: "why (hot) women don't come in droves to me or my friend Josh which I think is totally gross?" because they're shallow 1) but it's good because generic evolutionary reasons made up on the spot" or 2) "end stupid thanks to socialmedia and feminism which gave the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:02 AM
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I'm sorry for them if you think they're shallower than the average man. Or maybe they're that shallow but that's just because you attract/like the type. Not all the women tho are like that. You guys are the male version of the resented and lunatic feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:48 PM
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Being insecure, paranoid and resentful doesn't seem the best way for someone to attrack others toward them. Circular thinking and self fulfilling prophecies will do nothing for you. Try stop complaining and start actually live your life without wasting your energies dwell upon this kind of thoughts and you'll see how your life will improve
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:39 PM
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Lol ok, there is no point in this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:25 PM
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Then ask men to stop "fucking" women which use a lot of makeup to cover up their perceived ugliness or start using makeup yourself. Just stop complaining and do something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:22 PM
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Demonstrably false. There are a lot of women which doesn't work they way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:19 PM
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Finally someone who gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:15 PM
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I strongly encourage you to stop believing every bullcrap you read online. Are you aware that a big chunk of the people that you can find online are fucking weirdos and, even more importantly, thanks to anonymity a lot of people said ugly things online just because they want to blow off their own insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:14 PM
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Even if that's true it works only in a specific scenario while purposely fail to acknowledge the myriads of reasons for a woman to be attracted to a man. Ask any therapist and listen to what they will say to you. Women (especially women, more than men) can be attracted to someone for almost any reasons. They can like someone even because he's ugly! Because he doesn't care about how he looks or because he choose to don't conform to the status quo and so on and on. The only reason why a lot of guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:11 PM
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If you're mentally sounds you're able to understand if the other gender see you as attractive or not. It's not like not being sure if your dick is huge and that's because, well, if you're an straight man you didn't see that many fully erected dicks to being able to be sure about that. While you can for sure say if women on average are into you at least sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:52 PM
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Exactly. The guy here is judging girls for what he have done with them as if he was somehow different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:48 PM
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I know that the scenario can't be truer that this. I've been there and done that and I speak with women and girls. I know how things are that is precisely why I called bullshit on this. Because everyone knows how this things work. Today regardless of the gender people use people for their sexual gratification, sometimes mutually sometimes less so, period. We achieved equality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:44 PM
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So are you trying to say that you don't know how you end up between their legs? Like one moment you guys are at a pub or something and the moment after boom you're between their legs without being able to say why. You didn't do anything? You didn't be sexual or even flirty in any way? No making out, no touching? Come on, dude. I want to belive you but you ain't helping
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:41 PM
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What can I say, it could be. But he said to be 27yo then a millennial (as myself, albeit older), right? I know a lot of people of that age and they aren't naive or at least not that naive. Maybe he just phrased his question in a weird way and he truly just wanted to ask why girls are so into ONS. That would be totally legit. Back to what you wrote, I find it interesting but I don't know if I agree or even if I understood properly your thoughts (I'm referring to the innocent and feminized bits). …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:37 PM
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Which seems pretty weird. It's a credible scenario only in romcoms. I mean, you cannot care about your look but still be aware of the simple fact that women find you that attractive. Which is not hard in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:13 PM
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How old are you? Because this could makes some sense only if you're idk 16 or 60 lol. Or maybe just divorced after being married from 18 to 30. Hooking up like that using dating apps is more difficult than hookup in a club or even in your own circle of friends and there is no way someone that managed to be enough tinder-savvy to successfully land several one night stands didn't know that yeah, young girls can be slutty/down to fuck that easily. But if you insist ok, sure, we believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:50 PM
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Come on, the whole post reads like some kind of "how do you do fellow kids?". Like he's some kind of a super hot older millionaire end up using those dating apps all the young kids talking about and then discovers how this young generation of women can be slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:46 PM
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No offence but I call bullshit on this. There is no chance (or a very thin one) that someone that can land so easily that amount of casual sex waste his time on this sub and, more importantly, are that clueless about this specific subject
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:20 PM
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It's the West, lol. It seems that for you guys there is no way a young woman can be attracted by an older man and well, again, I'm not in the US, maybe there everything is different but here there are women which are truly into way older men than them and it's super common for 20 something to be with 30 something men. So, yeah, it's just a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:19 AM
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You seem to be above average in the reading comprehension depertment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:44 AM
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I live in Italy and yes here women have to be thin, apparently. I live women with curves so I'm not happy about this and always wonder why a lot of good looking guys choose to pursuit very thin women. This means as well that there aren't that many voluptuous women here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:17 AM
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What you described is pathetic but doesn't have much to do with that funny arithmetic which seems prevalent in the US where you can or can't date someone based on how distant you're from her/his age. Being adult means being accountable for your actions, 20yo or 50yo doesn't change that fact. If a 20yo woman (because it's always about women) decides to date a man much older than her she has all the rights to do that and maybe face the consequences of her decision, same thing is true for the older…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:14 AM
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Young women *which have a serious outlook on life. So not all young women but the ones which have that mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:01 AM
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Or maybe I'm just right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:51 PM
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Curiously enough in my country men on average seem to prefer very skinny looking women (which doesn't seem too healthy). Just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:13 PM
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Wow, so rude. What about my anecdotal experience contradtics your anecdotal experience therefore you're wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:10 PM
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They're usually not correlated. More the intelligence less the confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:42 PM
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The intelligence bit is less discussed but totally true. I've this theory that a lot of smart women prefer to date stupid men because they're easier to manipulate/have the upper and with them. It doesn't have to be a conscious decision, it very well be an unconscious thing. These women study or already have a degree, they've successful careers and like to feel the smart one of the couple, to be right about things and to belittle their "silly brute"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:39 PM
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True dat. I knew several below average guys dumping totally well kept pretty girls because they weren't idk perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:08 PM
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Short ≠ ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:51 PM
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I'm a short guy and I had relationships, dating and even hookups and mostly with women taller than me. Being short doesn't matter? I will never say that, because sadly it's obviously false. Being short can prevent someone to have relationships or even be married? This is also obviously bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:36 PM
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There are even totally ok looking girls virgin in their mid-twenties
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:32 PM
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If both can buy a beer then they can also date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:29 PM
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I saw that a lot, actually. Sure I'm not in the US and that could be a factor but yes, younger women that 1) have a more serious outlook on life (meaning they want a stable relationship and not hooking up every we) and/or 2) are disillusioned about guys their own age, definitely have relationships with older men because they've a home and a good job. Surely the guy can't be a total nerd and her a model but the average looking with commonly attractive yes, it happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:27 PM
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Super quick rebuttal. Cognitive shortcuts are useful, indeed. We couldn't operate without them and still a lot of times they're wrong. Cognitive bias. Trying to find subconscious trends in a gender is a dangerous path which most of the time takes you to the land of delusion and circular thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:24 PM
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I would start with stop talking about women and men, as it they're some kind of teams with identical values, beliefs, attitudes and so on and on. Which women we're talking about? American women? European women? South American women? Chinese women? I suspect you were thinking of North American women and then yes given the fact that they massively vote for the Dems, we can say they're in favor of immigration. But for what I know this is less true with poor or working class women, even the foreigne…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:07 PM
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Perfectly summarized. Being violent, "went primal", is a way to express dominance which is in tune with our most ancient and beastly part. Other mammals do like that, mating seems to be always forced. The most vigorous males subdue the females. Probably in prehistoric times humans acted in the same manner and a part of that still live in us. Only through culture we can grow out and surpass these parts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:37 PM
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Because men can have children even when they're like 60yo while that's unfortunately not the case for women. Since time immemorial for this exact reason men have married women way younger than them, while the opposite didn't and still doesn't have any practical reason in itself. Other than that, even if it's a sad and unjust thing we've to say that somehow women are bound to their children while men...not so much. Successful men are somehow (evolutionarily) driven to have a huge offspring with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:27 PM
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Finally something that doesn't immediately reek of paranoia. I think this theory seems correct and it's probably the biggest factor in the difficulties a lot of men have in finding a partner. There is no enough women and that's why the ones that are here can manage to be so picky without face any real repercussion. They've a huge, huge, crowd of men from where they can pick and choose: younger men, men of the same age, older men, locals or foreigners. We're not in the desperate condition of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:16 PM
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Same. All the things you listed are valid in my book as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:57 PM
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To me it's something way more complex to describe than personality + look (I wouldn't even take into consideration money, status and other silly stuff like that). It's a sense of belonging. It isn't something new, quite the opposite. Is like Ulysses seeing again the shores of Ithaca. It's finally recognize that you're home now and thus you can rest. In order to feel that the other person's personality is not enough. It's more about how said person is with you and with you only, what you both are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:56 PM
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You're a lucky man, I sincerely envy you. I'm happy that after all these years you guys are still together. This gives hope, ty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:43 PM
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I'm more than sorry for what happened to that guy and it's a tragedy that he took his own life thanks to these beasts. But I've also to say that this doesn't prove much. I didn't say that women are angels unable to do anything wrong I just belive that heightism is something we've to thank other men for, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:32 PM
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I don't have anything more to say to you man. It's totally in your own rights to continue to blame women for something that's totally men's fault. Fathers teach their sons this kind of bullshit, they then go to school bullying shorter children. Girls only follow through
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:30 PM
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No, I don't think that. Males start with that dick measurement contest while being litteral children, way before hitting puberty. As always it's part nature and part nurture. Nature can be corrected by nurture but in order to bettered males' life we need to get rid of so called toxic masculinity (which is exactly this kind of shit that red pill and so on always complain about)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:22 PM
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This just show who are the true culprits of the whole "omg women are soo lame! They're obsessed by height!". It's men's fault, heightism is just toxic masculinity and not much more that that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:52 PM
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See, when I was very young I was kinda like a lot of this guys here. I was closed in myself, I avoided everything that could have contradicted my self-defeating beliefs regarding my worth as a man and what women thought of me. I loathed myself and sank in self-pity while being resentful of women. It was a self-fulfilling prophecy. Circular thinking, you know? A lot of people here just try to find new reasons to believe in what they already see as absolute truth. They're wasting their lives doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:05 PM
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Being big, tall, sexually, emotionally (not have/show feelings) and physically strong are exactly that. OP is right, these are signs of toxic masculity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:51 PM
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First time I was shouted by a woman for this was truly shocking for me. Probably the first time I felt kinda used/objectified
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:39 PM
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Seeing people in a sexual way doesn't equate to objectifying them. Desiring someone (for their body, the way the act and speak and be which made them sexually alluring) it's not at all the same as seeing said person as an object (which then can be used and abused)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:33 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. I'm from Italy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:55 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:47 PM
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I just tried to say that if you (you in a generic sense not you specifically) want to understand if a guy has good intentions that may not be the best indicator. But sure I can't deny that a man (or a woman) that just want to fuck probably would not pay for your meal nor do anything nice for you. As a rule on first dates I always paid because I prefer to not have debts with strangers, because I like to be old fashioned and because most of the time I asked to meet and thus it's only common courte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:20 PM
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I wouldn't call it an apology because I didn't do anything against you. It's just - I believe - common human empathy for another person (doesn't matter if male or female, white, black or blue) which suffered something awful, an injustice. It may be a cultural thing (I'm not north American) but I don't even think that I'm an exception (nonetheless I appreciate your kind words). I also believe that the engineered animosity between men and women is a shame and something we've to fight and dismantle…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:16 PM
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Collective identities are a byproduct of this sad era and something we need to try to dismantle. A man is not all men and a woman is not all women. So obviously a woman can love her man while don't like other men. There is no contradiction here. The only point that could be "problematic" is if said woman hates men as a concept, as a collective entity (for the simple fact that they're men) instead of just not liking some of them for specific and real reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:05 PM
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Are you aware that there are a lot of very rich sociopaths and that true sociopaths (rich or poor) know how to hide their bad intentions anyway (meaning in this instance pay everything)? Retrospectively trying to find signs ("red flags") of someone inner intentions or true nature (so to speak) is, most of the time, just a trick of the mind not a true indicator of anything. Maybe a guy don't want to pay for the meal because he believe in equality between the sexes or because he don't have enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:00 PM
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I don't think is true that don't want women to provide widespread sexual/sentimental access to ~90%. Men want access to sex with the women they like for themselves and, maybe, for their close friends. There is no male solidarity, especially now. The thing with everything is talked about here is that we could say that, on average, there is a female block which have even some support from a good chunk of the male population (other than from, of course, the institutions) but there is no male block …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:37 PM
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Ok, I don't care lol. I usually write my comments for anyone that could be interested in them not for the specific unknown person I may reply to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:17 PM
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For instance I would say that it's prevalent among women the belief that having sex with an unconscious man (drunk or just asleep) is fine and dandy sooo. There is a lot of women that think violence against men is nothing to think about, almost always condoning it and even laughing about it. A lot of women think that conning, deceiving and using men is totally legit and they'll chat about this kind of stuff and give high five to each other because men deserve this. These aren't fantasies or some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:07 PM
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You made a very good point here. I wouldn't say that it confirms that but it may trigger an anxious response over the issue of self perceived value. I'm not sure tho that dynamic is inherently linked with being a woman, it seems more linked with certain kind of psychologies (the anxious, neurotic, kind)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:55 PM
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This is bullshit. What you said I saw it in female circles as well. Very rarely I saw women being empathetic with men they don't care for and a lot of times I saw them cheer one of them which made something bad to some random guy. So stop with this kind of misandrist bullcrap. Women, especially today, for the most part aren't an ontologically diffent entity from men. It's an in-group dynamic not a gendered one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:47 PM
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The only Radfem/TERF talking point they've is anti pornography (which I understand and agree with). They aren't anti capitalist nor are militant lesbians advocating for female self segregation. They resemble more libfem just anti porn and sexual promiscuity. From what you said it seems like they maybe are truly TERF but hide their less popular beliefs in order to lure naive younger women in their circles
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:34 PM
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I don't know all of this it's just a cognitive shortcut on my part. In the past I briefly dated a girl which at one point said to me that sexually she was into girl but mentally/romantically she preferred men. Not by chance the sex was awful given the fact that, well, she didn't enjoy to have it with a man even if she typically had relationships with men. The whole point of this brief anecdote is that I don't have much experience with bi women (this label is not at all common in my country) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:38 PM
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And why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:50 AM
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Frankly I don't know. It seems a shaky identity. Honestly right now I wouldn't like to deal with someone which might wrestle with her identity or that still have to figure it out completely. Other than that I could find myself questioning what where her reasons for liking me in the first place (I don't know if bi women have the same tastes or stereotypes straight women have in regard to men)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:30 AM
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They can't be radical feminists because 1) radfem advocate for communism and these women at FDS clearly don't (they're obsessed with success in the capitalist market, with money, diamonds and shit like that 2) radfem belive men to be enemies and thus don't want anything to do with them. While FDS very much want to have relationships with men, the thing is that these men have to be rich and subservient to them. As I said they aren't true feminist just bitter, resentful, women. They don't have an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:29 AM
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Nope. No feminist would think things like "I'm a queen and I deserve a rich men that buy me a lot of expensive stuff and maybe then I'll think if he's worthy of my precious vag" lol. They're only losers and/or bitter childless middle aged women which resent men for whatever reasons. Many of which are also clinically mentally ill. Some unfortunately are younger women which were lured there by some disappointment and now these harpies are brainwashing them in being delusional and bitter as well. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:14 AM
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FDS aren't feminists just the female version of the more rabid Redpill/Incel types. They just hate men and blatantly reinforce their paranoia with manipulation and brainwashing not unlike real cults
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:30 AM
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In places like Russia women have to marry very early with men which that mostly don't give a shit about them, like to drink a little too much and are legally allowed to punch them senseless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:45 PM
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I think this is just a FDS trope tho. It seems to me that the less delusional dudes here would just like to feel attractive to the other sex. Which doesn't mean only casual sex but casual sex too. It means being able to choose and to live this part of their life relatively carefree as - they feel - the average women do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:42 PM
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One of my ex was, at least she said that, into fat hairy guys. Basically the "bear" stereotype but with a nerdy side. I'm not fat nor hairy by the way lol. In some countries here in Europe is fairly common to see men with huge bellies and long beards having very attractive women to their side. In a way it's normalized because it's not being fat thanks to junk food but being fat because you've to eat all the good stuff your grandma, mom and gf cook for you. In those places men can look that way a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:35 PM
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There are women that when they're with each others like to point out the typical stud, the hot guy. They laugh and make comments, sometimes even engage him in some awkward conversations. This is how girls like to act even when they're older and well it's what men do too. It's a way of bonding under widely accepted premises. It's like talking about soccer in Europe or football in the US. Probably some of them don't even like that type of guy but don't want to ruin the fun or stand out too much so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:29 PM
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One dude here tried to explain it to me while resorting to cite only movies. That's how some are deluded. Movies ain't real life, guys. Movies are the product of the fantasy of other dudes, nothing more. Women aren't a monolith that works like ants or other animals. Sure, there are common traits which are somehow shared even with men (anyone likes well groomed, kinda successful people, only psychopaths think "well, I'll go outside and find my poor confused and highly disfunctional junkie") but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:15 PM
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I was speaking about shy, quiet, reserved duded. Qualities that aren't usually associated with this alpha crap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:32 AM
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There is no alpha, stop with that crap. Introverted good looking guys are hitted on by women all the time (I saw this happened irl)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:29 AM
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I knew women that like bold men, other that don't like athletic physique but instead love fat men or skinny men. I even found some of them which preferred short men over tall men. Usually women say they don't care but these even had a preference for shorter men (they were short as well). I also heard some women say that they don't like a dick too big (it's painful for them) and I never ever say a single woman pronounce the words "symmetric fece" in my life lol. I see ugly as fuck dudes being lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:28 AM
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Narcissism in this sense is a personality disorder. Personality disorders usually overlap and have common traits so, for instance, narcissistic personality disorder (more men with it) and borderline personality disorder (more women with it) both have in common the usual three elements: lack of empathy; poor reality testing; projective identification. Abusive behaviors are consequence of these elements
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:06 AM
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Sounds like someone that need to do a lot of therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:51 AM
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Divorce should be allowed in the sense that anyone can choose to stop the relationship but alimony for the most should be out of the picture as well. In our society women have all the tools and rights to be financially independent so men don't have any responsibility to them. When there are the needs of children to be taken care of judges have to protect the man as well and thus accept that he can give to his children less than before because he now have to find a now house and so and so forth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:48 AM
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You didn't specify if you were referring to the bi part or the turbo slut one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:35 PM
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So now even don't like to be with iper promiscuous people is bigoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:20 PM
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Unfortunately yes, that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:56 PM
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Haha yeah but I think that is way more true for FDS where they're clearly delusional in that regard while Redpill men are usually more open about their situation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:36 AM
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Thanks. If the virus was created in a lab then it was an human action not a cosmic one but pandemic as a whole surely are a way to balance things here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:28 PM
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I actually don't think that lesbians are an evolutionary phenomenon. I still don't have a definitive answer about that (how could I?) and I don't think scientists have it either but I suspect - as other said here - that percentage wise a lot of self identified lesbians aren't truly that (meaning they didn't "born that way")
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:18 PM
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Are you sure about that? Especially now after a pandemic which spreads its deadly wings allover the world we've to understand how easily big chunk of our species can be wiped out from this plan of existence. In the last century we had two world wars which killed millions and millions of people. Sure we grow and we affect the planet but I believe that the cosmos has its ways to take us in check
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:12 PM
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What I wrote at least makes some sense and in fact can be demonstrated looking at other mammals. By the way humans are both a product of evolution and of culture so even if (I underline if) lesbians don't make any sense evolutionary speaking that doesn't imply that they can't make sense from a culture standpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:01 PM
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Evolutionary speaking gay men were a way to weed out of the mating competition some men. From an evolutionary standpoint lesbians don't make any sense, are in fact dangerous for our only evolutionary purpose which is multiply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:23 PM
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I've and had female friends and well they were and are friends of mine exactly because I didn't and still don't find them sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:19 PM
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Nature, nurture. You can't have one and not the other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:09 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:40 PM
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Empathy doesn't mean being able to read other people's mind through observation/intuition. It means feel what they feel. People with personality disorders aren't able to do that in a "normal" manner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:34 PM
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Honest answer: I started hanging out with more successful and extroverted guys. I found more courage and strength through unity, so to speak. Male solidarity but yes, being in the "squad" as well (meaning sometime in a way hide behind them, let them open the road and then follow through). Conform to social norms: for instance learn how to drink or even how to take drugs. Experience "scary" places with them like clubs and parties. And another totally different thing: have female friends and hangi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:29 PM
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It's not a part of their DNA lol. It's just a social construct
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:14 PM
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I don't what you to tell me anything. It was just a statement. No one needs porn nor porn are in any way useful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:12 PM
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I don't want to say what what you're saying is not true because it is but it doesn't need to be like that nor all women are like that. For instance in Scandinavia there are men which are stay at home dads. I think the US are a little bit over the top on these issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:12 PM
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It's just an habit, please. Even I used to masturbate to porn. Recently I started to feel bad, like depressed after it. I then decided to masturbate with the only aid of my imagination, even thinking about women I know and find attractive (which I think is how women actually masturbate the most). I discovered that is way more pleasurable and intimate and sometime it even gives you some sort of powerful feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:09 PM
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How? They can earn an equal amount of money or the guy could earn slightly less without any problem whatsoever. People here sometimes seem to not know anything about the real world. Real people aren't that brutal or shallow lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:06 PM
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It doesn't help in the slightest with "dry spells" tho. It doesn't make you more confident or relaxed. Do you know that you can masturbate yourself without the aid of porn, right? Just use your imagination lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:04 PM
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She doesn't need that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:01 PM
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Being overly bitter towards the other sex, is another
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:00 PM
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Very different environments. For instance here no one expect meybe poor people from backwards part of the country got married before 30+ yo nor have kids prior to that age. In most areas parents are enough lenient and let their children have relationships and sleep together with their SO in their own houses. Most aren't "sexphobic" and prefer their children to have a SO instead of dating, being outside too late at night and so on. This lead young people to have a certain degree of experience and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:37 PM
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Again a lot of assumptions and broad statements. Maybe these things are true in North America but I can assure you that here are way less obvious. You're talking in gendered terms where men are heartless horndogs while women are naive victims. I don't think that's true nor acceptable. In my life I saw a lot of people broking up after like 6 to 8 years at age 26/28. So waaay more than three months lol. And no, I don't live in Saudi Arabia, they weren't forced by anyone. Here you don't have to cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:01 PM
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Can I ask you why lesbians aren't real 99% of the time? Genuine question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:13 PM
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Is it not true then that lesbians couples see on average more violence than both straight and M/M couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:24 PM
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That's generally true for both men and women. With settle down are you implaying marriage? Here it's really rare for people under 30 to get married. If you just mean to be in a serious relationship then I don't agree with you. I believe it is fundamental for young people to have the mental/social space in order to experience that kind of relationships. For starter these are the best wall against hookup culture and all the damage it inflicts to both sexes. Other than that relationships are a grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:13 PM
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This is kinda true. It were rich men to want legal divorce in order to being able to exchange their older wives with new younger and hotter ones. Women back then didn't have much of a voice so it were men, rich men with rich men interests, to advocate for it. That's the reason for all the clauses that protect women and their children. Rich men could obtain their divorces but they have to pay the price - that was the reasoning. Poor families were deemed not interested in all of this by virtue of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:00 PM
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This is probably one the worst places to look at in order to understand the issue. You don't know who these people are, how old they're: two fundamental info you've to know in order to put the things they said into prospective. Young (high schoolers and college-goers) males with poor or no social skills living in the western world are meant to be obsessed with what all the media are talking about: be popular; have a lot of matches on tinder; have a lot of casual sex. Here in the other side of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:46 AM
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This is just your own perception (altered by your own personal experience) of this issue not the "truth"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:31 AM
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I didn't say "anything that contradicts my opinion = fake" just "viral = fake"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:06 AM
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Short answer: yes and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:00 PM
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Thanks. You've to take into account that the human identity is made by "nature" (which is not natural but shaped by evolution) and by nurture (which is this case means by society). It's very complicated but we can try to summarize it like this: until very recently the total division of labor between men and women was strictly enforced and thus the "nature" of both sexes remained basically in tune with their evolutionary history. We've also to say that basically until the French revolution all wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:32 PM
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I've to disagree with your statement. Even from an evolutionary standpoint it didn't work like that. Men were shaped to be creative, rule breakers and shapers of new solutions and concepts. How do you think our forefathers managed to even create these tools you're taking about? They had to be creative, to dare imagining new possibilities through trial and error which always meant risking their own lives (for instance to discover how to find new paths in the wilderness and how to kill feral and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:25 PM
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Which is exactly what is happening right now. It's epidemic and out of control and one of the biggest reasons why dating and relationships right now are a complete hell (for mentally and emotionally sound people, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:48 PM
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Going viral = fake
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:45 PM
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Romanticism was ideated and crafted by men. The whole courtly love concept was an invention of male troubadours in South France and Sicily. They created the veneration of women and the consequent need for men to prove their worth and love to their ladies. So of course men are more romantic than women. Men are ontologically idealistic and abstract, while women are pragmatic and concrete
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:45 PM
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The comparison doesn't make much sense. Coffee is actually not that beneficial health-wise while sex is an essential part (the physical) of intimacy which is much needed in order to be psychologically and emotionally sane. Denying the need to be touched is actually detrimental to our society. Surely we can't grant sex to all because in order to do that we would have to force someone to have sax with someone else. But at least we can refrain from deny the suffering of the sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:08 AM
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If people think sex is a need, well then sex is a need lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:58 PM
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My point is that until very recently women practically didn't have a voice, didn't have agency over their lives nor a role in society expect for the one of being wives and mothers. It was indeed a patriarchal society where women were totally dependent on and subjected to men. Obviously not everything was black and white, it was more nuanced than that but on average and legally speaking it was basically like that. They didn't have a voice so much that even their thoughts on themselves were coined…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:48 PM
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Women didn't gatekeep anything. Men gatekeep their sexuality (their fathers and brothers, then their husbands "till death do us part") in order to prevent infighting between men and to ensure productivity (during the Middle Ages a lot of people end up unmarried and childless because their parent were too poor to pay for their dowry). Until very recently fathers had to approve the man's proposal to just date their daughters and in some societies parents choose their daughters' future husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:22 PM
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Chemistry doesn't have anything to do with rational things like compatibility, values and what both want from life. We speak about chemistry when both people feel a rush of euphoria while together. Both start to think about them doing sexual stuff, to feel the need to touch the other person and to know that said person want the same thing. It's laughing and being at ease with each other. Less experienced people and/or people with low self-confidence might don't feel this kinds maybe because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:30 PM
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Judge "based to a bunch of photos on Facebook and the testimony of Megan's best friend Backy I declared Mike Quebecois to pay alimonies to her for the rest of his life" Seems a little bit hard to believe but who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:50 PM
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Ok, OP said tho that in Canada they apply this stuff even to couples than never lived together which I find hard to believe (even for the Canadian standard)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:39 PM
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Not celibate protest but deny attention, stop warshipping and be thirsty. Basically what men do in places like Russia. By the way your made up stats are the thing that doesn't make no sense here. Most men can absolutely have options lol. You guys obsessed with this subject are just circle jerking and try to accept the reality which is that for most of us if we can't land a gf it's kinda our fault too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:12 PM
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Can you explain to me how this can be possible? What is the legal explanation to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:59 PM
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I refuse to believe that in Canada you've to pay alimony for having dated someone. This can't be legal, come on. Alimony are linked to marriage precisely because marriage is a contract with clear rights (admittedly almost none today for the men) and duties. There is no contract nor duties or rights in dating so who can they force someone to pay to maintain someone else to a social status that said person never contributed to in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:43 AM
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Think about this: almost all men stop pandering to women in social media. No more thirsty comment on Instagram, no more likes on provocative photos. Even here there are subreddit engulfed by women fishing for compliments, for their daily dose of ego-bust and extra confidence. If men in the West World would start to collectively have some self respect (online and irl) then women would resort to trow themselves at the average Mike for a crumb of his attention
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:34 AM
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This. The stupid 80/20 ratio is total bullshit. That 20% of men date (have sex with) only their equals not what they could obviously see as lower then them. Besides they've other thing to do other than fucking hundreds and hundreds of average looking women. The easier and obvious truth is that the average man have access to the average women. As you said, the ones that whine about not being able to, are at the bottom of the barrel and thus in no way average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:12 AM
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If enough men would stop to be beggars then consequently on average men would have more options and success with women. Men need to break the cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:06 AM
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It's not creepy, it's legal and normal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:02 AM
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I don't live in the US. Here the only girls that do this kind of stuff are the ones addicted to cocaine lol. Besides that I'm wondering if these successful women might risk their career doing that sugar daddy stuff. I would believe so but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:39 PM
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Spot on. The patriarchal society was the result of men's will to stop fighting among themselves in order to mate and a direct way to improve productivity. In fact during the Middle Ages a lot of people (both male and female) didn't manage to marry and have a family (usually because their families didn't have the needed resources). After that being married become somehow socially mandatory with men being favored by legislations and social pressure. That was why basically all men back then had the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:37 PM
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Women that have successful careers prostitute themselves for having more money that the ones they already have? Seems unbelievable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:29 PM
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Everything you said is correct but lack vital nuances. For instance especially among young people using/have easy access to drugs can easily make anyone way more attractive to girls, even the uglies and the awkwards. Other than that there are a lot of girls into alternative stuff (from music - like punk or metal - to anime/manga) which not always but frequently are not so much into the commonly popular kids. Both elements (using drugs, attending alternative crowds) can be useful for the less loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:23 PM
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It's partially incorrect to equate the role men and women have in sex. Practically and psychologically these aren't the same. Except for rare cases on average men are and have to be more active and aggressive while performing sex so even if said woman says that she would like to put a paper bag on the man's head she will still be the one which is fucked (passive) by the other. That fact only just could make the man confident in himself even if he know that she despises him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:43 PM
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Point is I don't think is a quality to have a lot of money, at least not a quality of the character. As always there are a ton of shades between two extremes. In this case between: financially ruined and successful. Everything in between is fine in my book. Let skips that part and be focused on things that truly make couples stick together in good and in bad times!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:33 AM
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Shared expenses usually come with a affirmative decision to live together (or after a marriage). If you want to protect yourself from possible negative consequences I would say go living with somone that can pay for his/her half. This is fair. More than this (vetting someone in regards to their financial status) I think is adding elements that have not much in common with the premise (being soul mates and so on). Point is: relationships are indeed a risk. Any new road in this life is a risk. Wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:55 AM
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Personally I think money can enter the picture only when there are shared expenses. Before that I don't care and seems strange that others do. Relationships to me have to do with finding a soul mate not a business partner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:26 AM
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Maybe I don't explain in a sufficiently clear manner. I wrote that women are equal now therefore they don't need men as in the whole human history prior to the second half of the last century. I also wrote that not me personally but the ones that believe in that theory could argue that deep down many women could be influenced by that evolutionary trait/historical conditioning that mede them search in a possible mate a source of security which not all the time goes hand in hand with what they tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:43 AM
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I'm super short and still I had gfs, one night stands, women hitting on me and so on. With this I'm not in any way trying to say that heightism is a thing because it is, it's just that things are more complicated than that. But sure, being short today means starting from a point a clear disadvantage. No one can deny this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:29 AM
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Men don't do that because - from an evolutionary stend point - men never needed women in order to survive. At worst they needed other men (as in forming a tribe) but surely not women which they just could forcefully took from other clans/tribes. Instead women, in order to stay alive, always needed protection from men. That need for protection - for themselves and their offspring - tho didn't always match with their feelings and instincts (attraction). Until very recently women couldn't work so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:08 PM
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So just saying "well, 80% this 20% that" made them magically start getting laid? Wow, I absolutely need to use this magic formula then lol The sad truth, I believe, is that this kind of arguments are just pseudo rationalizations used in order to justify to themselves a reality to hard to accept. The average woman can have shallow unsatisfying sex (with a good chance to be objectified) more than the average man because 1) men are more dangerous to women than women can usually be to men - basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:58 PM
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There are men that are very socially awkward and literally have no idea how to interact in a group setting And this is way they can't get laid and explaining to them an economic principe questionably distorted in order to let them feel better with themselves will not change that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:13 PM
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Or, you know, that person can have mental health problems which are a tad more complicated to perceive and then deal with than physical issues. See, this is why dealing with relationships nowadays is so difficult. The ways in which almost everyone here are talking about them made it clear that they see them as transactional in nature. This for that. A performance which, if it seen as subpar, has to be terminated and replaced with a new and more satisfying one (as with any other form of transacti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:12 PM
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It could be a form of manipulation and even emotional abuse. In that sense yes, it's equivalent to cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:58 PM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:27 PM
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For God's sake Tinder is not real life!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:08 PM
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Haha wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:07 PM
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How thinks that way lol? Cooking, cleaning? Are why talking about an housemaid or what? Other than that again with these false dichotomies! There are infinite shades between a perfect look and a girl which, let say, doesn't have the look as her forte, come on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:01 PM
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It's all about nuances, my dude. She was very clear and reasonable in her reasoning. People (men and women) want to be seen as sexual beings but in a cool, human, respectful way not in an objectifying, demeaning, way. There is no dilemma here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:41 PM
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Excuse me, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:51 PM
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Cultural highly specific to a place and a time fetishes exist. Beauty after all is a social construct. I'm just a person so my pov is meaningless in the grant scheme of things but for instance I'm not particularly fond of the physical characteristics of Asian women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:07 PM
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Big mistake in your reasoning: Isis and Taliban are two different animals. What you said is true for Isis not for the Tallis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:18 PM
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Can I disagree with you or it's forbidden? If you're from there I will take your words for granted, I promise. Otherwise I'll continue to believe that statament is bonkers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:01 PM
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That's true for Isis which have among its ranks a lot of young Muslims from the West which they lored in with the promise of a lot of sexual slaves. That worked with them exactly because these dudes lived in the West and thus were influenced by porn and socially awkward doe to their origin/diversity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:56 PM
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How? The Talibans aren't at all an army of incels. Please. If you're an "incel" there you're basically dead. It's a totally different world. Talibans were poor Afghans living in Pakistan. Religion was the only thing they had because yeah, they were poor as fuck (as almost anyone in that part of the world). They didn't become fighters in order to have wives, they could find poor women like them. There is no "dating game" there lol, nor "hypergamy". In short Afghanistan and the Talibans don't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:51 PM
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You described how things were when we had a true patriarchal society. Back then there weren't "alphas" or "dating game". If a man disrespected a woman her family (father and brothers) would have tried to kill the poor bastard. You had sex with someone's daughter? Ops, now you had to marry her or else. True, in that kind of society men were at the top but have the duty to protect and respect women. Now we're equal and thus men don't have anymore to respect nor to protect women. It's all against a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:30 PM
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Exactly. I'm not into red pill and stuff like that but I find it interesting so, from time to time, I like to read about it and one of the things that surprise me the most is this black and white view of the world where it seems like men are either the sitcom idea of what a super dominant man looks like or the revenge of the nerds. That's not reality lol, there are a lot more shades. One of these is not particularly attractive dudes with a charismatic personality and a life, things that made the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:12 PM
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Which is a totally bonkers statement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:29 PM
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This is a total delirium lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:27 PM
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Not true. We're programed to like people that look like us. It's an evolutionary tool useful in order to survive. That's why babies cry when they're face to face with someone with totally different facial features/color from the ones of their parents
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:04 PM
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True. Usually the ones that dwell more on a topic are the ones with more issues with it. If you've always had good experiences with the other sex you would not have the need to overthinking about the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:58 AM
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I don't think any research could have been about something like "intuition". Is it measurable? I don't think so. All that stuff is at best an admixture of nature and nurture. Personally speaking a believe in Jungian theory: we all have both a feminine and a masculine part. Only bad things happen when we deny one of the two in ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:21 PM
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What this have to do with anything? These ladies are just victims of a silly ideology which, by the way, is not universal. I'm European and here is quite common for men to have younger gf/wives. I had myself gfs much younger than me. No biggie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:17 PM
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Ok, maybe I don't understand what do you mean with weak. Cheaters, junkie, mentally ill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:36 PM
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I knew a guy once, he was really tall and not at all ugly looking nor poor but indeed he was a 26 or something virgin. And why ha was that? Because he was super self conscious, anxious and overall strange to the point of being a total creep. He acted all "m'lady" and was a nice guy prototype. Writing poems and stuff for girls he didn't even know. Obviously girls mocked him without marcy because he emanates creep vibes all round. In a way he choose to be like that (as almost all nice guy complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:22 PM
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Why then I personally know (and you surely do as well) a lot of "weak nice" guys in long commited relationships (no, they're rich or something)? Yeah, because this over generalizations are bullshit. Women aren't like an animal species which have the same thoughts, needs and povs. Some women find overconfident men threatening and scary or generally unpleasant douches and prefer totally different type of men (without judging them with your terms, weak, nice - as if it's a bad thing - and so on)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:08 PM
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Women can have misogynistic views as well lol. By the way in our world (the Western one) almost anyone is still a little child. We are not much more than a product of our time and environment and this time/environment want us (and made us) to think and act like that. It's not a stupid men versus women thing, we are all victim of the same dynamics (late stage capitalism, consumerism, mass narcissism)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:00 PM
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Yeah, by men that wanted them to be exactly that, frail little children to own and command. How curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:54 PM
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Are women little children? Please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:48 PM
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Bingo! Someone got it. All that "women are clueless" bs, well, that is misogynistic. They - as any human being, really - might not know the true unconscious reasons behind their actions and thoughts but they surely know the conscious part of what they do, think and like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:47 PM
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That's not necessarily true. It's true when the woman that gives the advice is not a true friend to the advised, meaning she would feel ashamed to say things that quite clearly could make her look in a bad light (eg "I like guys that treat me a little rough"). However she would be truthfull and upfront with guys she really know and bonded with. And even there she have to see you as an equal in order to say what she truly think otherwise she'll say to you nice but fake things in order to not offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:34 PM
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