| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 166 | Everything I thought I knew is wrong | MINDSET SHIFT | klepz100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:12 AM |
| 15 | Definitely emotional abuse | MALE DEPRAVITY | klepz100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Need some advice please | klepz100 | /r/askFDS | 01/12/20 08:26 PM | |
| 2 | self-worth, self-care and goals | MINDSET SHIFT | klepz100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Boy you got me fucked up | NICE FOR WHAT? | klepz100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 06:18 AM |
| 0 | i thanked him | SHOWER THOUGHT | klepz100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:46 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How would you describe “lady game”?You'd be surprised how many guys are completely oblivious to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 08:35 AM |
| 24 | my red flagsHow they treat people who can't help them and how they react to other people's good news. Those are so important. Also, whether their generousity/helpfulness is sincere. Some people only give to get something back or help because it benefits them in some way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/22 05:50 AM |
| 12 | Understanding the difference between bare minimum and HVMJust want to say that posts like this always make me smile, I'm so happy for all you ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 01:29 AM |
| 12 | All those men that you've made a first move on in the past never wanted you.Ugh I hate that answer too. Like I would spend time with someone I didn't like if that person was doing literally anything I told them to, paying for anything I wanted, and providing entertainment with their efforts at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 11:16 PM |
| 45 | "policing of emotions"?Our feelings do not matter to them. The only time they care about how we feel is when they are using them against us to validate their bad behaviors and mistreatment and abuse. Try to talk to ANY LVM about something he did that hurt you. He will completely invalidate your feelings by blaming you for causing him to be that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 02:31 AM |
| 16 | "Not all men" and intentional trauma triggersI agree. Especially here in the US, there's such a weird stigma with mental health issues. They promote awareness, but it's like only some mental health issues are acceptable. Depression and anxiety are generalized and minimized or severely often in correctly over medicated. mood and personality disorders are largely ignored unless you're bipolar then there's meds for that, but if your cluster B you're fucked. Narcissistic PD means you're the epitome of evil and borderline means you're a manipul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:35 PM |
| 88 | "Not all men" and intentional trauma triggersYup. I was diagnosed with BPD and one of my triggers is being ignored, especially when I'm texting someone, it induces an intense fear of abandonment and I start on a downward spiral of desperate people-pleasing, begging, pleading, empty threats and just a whole lot of embarrassing, humiliating behaviors. I end up degrading myself to the point where I lose just as much respect for myself as the other person. I've made the mistake of telling men how being ig ored affects me, asking them to please… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 08:04 PM |
| 8 | This level of betrayal from the person supposed to love, cherish and hold you sacred.He'll end up having some sort of health issue that brings up his medical history. The truth always comes out at, especially at the worst times, so hopefully it's when he needs her to give him a kidney or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:57 PM |
| 15 | I don’t have lunch with my colleaguesThere's a difference between being friendly and being polite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:54 PM |
| 143 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?I broke up with an ex over something like this. When I first started listening to hip-hop, I was really into Kanye West's first album. My ex HATED rap/hip-hop (and black people I finally realized) do I would only listen to that music when I was alone. One day, he was leaving for work and I noticed he hadn't left yet and was acting weird. When I went outside to see what was going on, I really couldn't believe what I was seeing. He was had broken every single one of my cds. He was seriously throwi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:54 AM |
| 12 | The Scrotation PlaylistHotline Bling by Drake. He's mad because the girl is no longer sitting at home by the phone waiting for him to call? She has new friends, is going out, has built up her confidence and obviously stopped calling the scrote who was using her and stringing her along. It's pretty funny when you realize he's whining because she's happy without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 05:47 AM |
| 243 | Women who have high body counts because they want to, or because of the amount of promiscuous men who lie about their intentions?You hit the nail on the head hon. I went thru a phase, a "ho" phase, where I was promiscuous and gave myself to numerous men who were just using me. It wasn't because I'm a "ho." I've been called a slut, a whore, told that I'm addicted to sex and can't control myself around men. None of those things are true. What I was, was lost. I was chasing something but I didn't know what it was. I didn't know anything about love, how to identify it, how to accept it, how to give it. All I knew was what lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 06:54 PM |
| 8 | Even tho you know they’re LVM and don’t want to be with them…You're not alone. I'm going in circles right now. I don't want him because he is LV but I'm very hurt because he could be HV, and he will be for someone else. Keep reminding myself that it's not because I wasn't good enough, we just weren't right for each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 11:45 PM |
| 29 | Such simple words but definitely something I needed to see today.This is a hard truth to admit to. I'm still rationalizing and keeping myself in denial about what the situation is between us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 12:27 AM |
| 55 | Vetting Strategy (US)Thanks for sharing, this is so important!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 51 | What Do You Ladies Think Of The Following Films? | My boyfriend dislikes all of them, but I do find it a bit of a cOiNcIdEnCe that all of them ~happen to have~ female leadsCruella was so so so good!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Shower thought: Society literally had to coin the term ‘gentleman’ in order to accentuate behaviors that show a minimal level of consideration and respect towards women. Also, it indirectly shows that the vast majority of ‘other’ men don’t care about such values.I've never really thought of a gentleman as someone who just opens doors and puts his jacket over a puddle so you don't get your shoes wet. It's not about the actions, it's about respect. My brother-in-law is a true gentleman. He has real respect for women and he shows it by being thoughtful, considerate, and understanding. My BIL has been thru hell with my sister, they've been together for 10 years and have 4 kids. My sister cheated on him once, his response to that? He told her he was sorry th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:36 AM |
| 90 | Instead of matching their energy, give them less.You're absolutely right, it's not just a slow race to nothing, it's a waste of time and energy. I don't want to spend my time with someone who doesn't do shit for me and I don't want to do shit for. I like to treat the people around me good, I like being thoughtful and helpful and affectionate. I'm not gonna stay with someone who doesn't appreciate who I am, who actually makes me want to downplay those parts of myself. If he's not gonna match MY energy, that's fine, I have myself, my kids, frien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 22 | One of my most important strategies in dating:damn if that doesn't sting. to realize how little you're worth to someone you put such a high value in... i'm starting to see things clearly and it doesn't make me sad as much as angry, frustrated because it's not just him or me to blame, it's all of human civilization for thousands of years that made this a sad reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 06:31 AM |
| 21 | Things My 86 Year Old Mother Says About Men and RelationshipsMy aunt told me something similar. "Dicks are great but men sometimes aren't. Get yourself a dog and a vibrator." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Everything I thought I knew is wrongThank you all, I really feel the support and love coming from each of you! I'm quite proud of myself today, I worked up the courage to stand up for myself and I ended whatever the hell it was I had going with the latest LVM. He wanted me to drop everything and go spend the night, not even an offer to pick me up. So I told him that there are things I want in my life and if he's not going to provide those things, then I'm just wasting my time. I'm gonna stick to it, too, I see now how I was allowi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:04 AM |
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