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klj799/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 09:58 PM
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Valuable post, the first thing you fuck in a woman is her mind
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 05:34 AM
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I'm not against the concept of marriage and how it helps a family and all of that but I'll be honest and say that from all the stories and real life examples I've seen when the marriage goes to shit and the woman keeps the kids and takes half your shit, then was it worth it, I know men who are paying for the house their ex wife lives in whilst she fucks whoever she wants and keeps then away from the kids and all sorts of stuff like that. I really struggle to find something that wants to make me …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 04:25 PM
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Couldn't have worded it better
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 03:48 PM
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I don't see why there's so many people saying negative things about this post, I completely agree with it. I go to a club once a month and everytime I've managed to get girls because I'm so direct and can read signs, but it's mainly because I'm so direct and forward, no magic words or you buying a £800 shirt to stand out will help you, I also do nofap and use my sexual energy to make me feel superior because 95% of the guys in their are too scared and can't stop masterbating so I use that to my …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 11:06 AM
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I agree, I've told him failure is good because it shows your brain that nothing bad will happen and you become stronger from it because you just don't care but he's still afraid to even approach
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 06:35 AM
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I literally said this to him yesterday, I saw he wasn't ready for approaches and told him it's best to improve on himself and he'll gradually get there, thanks
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 09:41 PM
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I've tried helping him and he joined the gym this week but his motivation for most things fade, he's still too shy for cold approaches and doesn't want to do nofap, he feels he simply can't do it
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 09:51 AM
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I have left him alone and he came back the next day saying he got nothing so I felt bad and set him up with girls and he even failed that, but now I'm leaving him to figure everything out on his own, I went cold to do cold approaching today and he was nervous and wanted to see me do it so i did and I left him alone and he still couldn't do it, he can't do it even if he is alone. He will have to learn the hard way and overcome his fear and insecurities
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 09:40 PM
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I'm currently outside with him and he hasn't even attempted a cold approach, he feels inferior and shy and is now buying a £300 jacket because in his head that's what's stopping him, pathetic I know but I'm going to focus on myself and keep on improving
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:26 PM
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Thanks for you advice, I won't let him interfere with my progress
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:24 PM
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Everyone's pretty much telling me the same thing and I agree, it takes a lot to tell yourself you're a loser and then start working from there, everyone has to take risks and make themselves uncomfortable to grow. I thought there would be another way to help him that I didn't try but to be honest like I said I set him up with four options and they all went to shit because of him, now if he wants to change it will be because he's sick of looking at himself fail all the time and I'm going to put m…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 02:22 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:31 PM
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You're right, it's up to him
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:36 PM
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I've told him he looks alright and to believe that he does look good, it helps when you feel good
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:34 PM
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I'll continue working on myself but I know he's going to come down the line and ask for help, same happened with me telling him to get a job, after 4 years he got one and it's low pay and shit
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 10:51 AM
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Has a few problems with his dad but I've had a lot worse and managed to overcome it, he just has no drive to do anything and it comes from how he lives, especially wanking and escorts
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 10:50 AM
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I understand, thanks for the advice, when I said we are the same, sorry I meant we were on the same level about 5 years ago, both shy and timid and didn't have any game, there was this hot girl at college that could use us at her will because we didn't know any better but after seeing the content and actually taking it in, we saw what was going on and dropped her and I carried on learning to pick up signals from girls and get better in general, he resorted to having long distance relationships w…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 10:48 AM
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After all my help with him at the club and telling him to stop wanking, start going gym, stop using escorts and get a better job, he had a short burst of motivation and 15 minutes later he said he's going to an escort and I just gave up on him. I said use your pain of failure to better yourself, punish yourself now by not wanking and force yourself to cold approach and get girls naturally, he calls me last night and says he met the same escort he always goes to again, I don't know what to do any…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 10:44 AM
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Thank I'll get him to do that
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 10:40 AM
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You're right, you need to be well rounded in everything
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 10:38 AM
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Maybe I didn't word it correctly, I use it as an example for him, I'm giving him a live presentation and then tell him what I did wasn't hard and I had a basic conversation and then escalated it. I don't laugh at him, I genuinely want to help him and just make him observe because I believe it will benefit him
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:56 AM
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I don't take the piss out of him, I just approach girls in front of him so he sees it's not scary, and I also put him in situations to get them, I don't have any bad intentions for him, but it's hard to watch him act that way. I tell him exactly what I said to the girls to so he sees it's nothing extraordinary. If he's going to continue walking 8 times a day, visit escorts and not do anything to.improve his position then I'll force him into the situation do he cab actually have some experience, …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:17 AM
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You're right, I've tried helping him because he's a good friend but all I can do is be an example to him, I'm still looking to improve in other aspects but I'm happy with the progress since I see in him what I used to be
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 11:41 PM
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Thanks for the explanation, I never considered he would get envious on a bad level, he says he respects me
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 11:11 PM
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Can you explain the beta gene, I haven't come across the term before
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:49 PM
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His family is life is decent compared to other people I know who don't have his problems, I'm trying to force him into these situations and he gets shy and walks away
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:37 PM
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I never thought this was a woman hating club and I think it's only fds users who would think that way, he also wants to spend a lot of money to visit a girl he's been talking to online for over 2 years but that would been 8 months worth of his wages saves since he's in a dead end job
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:34 PM
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Okay thanks bro, I'll leave him to make himself comfortable
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:32 PM
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I understand your point, it's just it'd strange how he can know what he's doing wrong but won't do something about it, how can I motivate him to approach women, I'll do it yet again in front of him tomorrow but I doubt it will change him
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:22 PM
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You decide what's best for you, but just never forget people's nature
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:00 PM
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I'm being honest and it's not to make you feel bad, I'm just direct and don't care for sparing feelings. You seem pussy whipped, also with that many partners she's more than capable of replacing you when she feels like it, it seems your feelings are clouding your judgement and you're ignoring a massive amount of red flags, the fact you say she has a great family changes nothing about her and everything points to you wanting to focus on things going well even if it means ignoring the obvious red …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 09:36 PM
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