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| 1755 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY! | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | kmblue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:50 AM |
| 35 | Dear Black Ladies and other WOC, please don’t take this L | SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY | kmblue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | This is why we vet. This horrible situation this woman is going through with a horrible future MIL and a fiancé who aided and abetted the MIL is why we vet the man AND his family. | RED FLAG 🚨 | kmblue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:47 PM |
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| 41 | Mother in laws that prioritize their son in laws over their own daughterIt’s a cultural thing in many communities, including the black community. It means that when there is a buffet meal, a woman puts food on the plate for her husband, sons, basically a man first. Then she makes a plate for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 27 | Pretend you can't cookHappy cake day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 228 | Protect your wombI can hear the reeing from the scrotes at this post but it’s the truth. Our wombs are sacred, only those who have been found deserving through consistent vetting deserve a chance to even get close. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 05:31 AM |
| 17 | The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasyThis sounds like a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 43 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:Because its the one field where a man who really hates women can really inflict maximum pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 02:27 AM |
| 5 | FDS is BACK!This made my day! I really missed FDS. I don’t always comment but this place has been so important for my self growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:48 PM |
| 57 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenHe plans to make her the 4th ex to have his kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 63 | I don’t really have words for this one.This this this! They get aroused at the idea of being the woman being abused in porn. I just can’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:36 PM |
| 46 | I don’t really have words for this one.This happened in a relationship I was in. It’s so insidious yet you aren’t allowed to kink shame. Dude was training himself to turn into a sissy/femdom sub but it’s my fault he’s not attracted to me? GTFOH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:33 PM |
| 100 | No, an abuser does not "lose control." He is perfectly in control of his faculties when he is abusing women. He knows exactly what he's doing. The first time an incident like this happens, walk away, block and delete, and never look back.This was my father. He did this to my mom and his kids. If he was angry, watch out for everyone’s stuff except his stuff. When he died, I enjoyed trashing his precious stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:37 PM |
| 15 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceThis is disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?It is weird. Like I don’t get why at all? Mind games are for punks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:51 PM |
| 12 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?I’ve dealt when guys like this. He’s tripping and trying to play mind games to get you to chase him and beg him for a relationship. He really likes you or thinks he has something good in you to use but he doesn’t want to put in the work. This game allows him to make you be the pursuer, if you fall for it. ETA: whenever I get messages that my reply hit 5+ upvotes and then I see it’s gone down, I know I’ve hit a scrote’s feelings. Die mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 11 | Public Displays of DisrespectIt’s a power play. It’s abuse to break down your boundaries, make you feel like you did something to deserve being treated like that. None of these men who do that actually plan to leave unless they have someone else lined up. They just want to make you feel like shit for their own ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 22 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂This is why I love FDS so much 🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 55 | Let’s talk about sexThis fixation on tightness is because of the death grip used when they masturbate to porn. They can’t come without it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 5 | “There are just some things about FDS I don’t agree with.” *** My journey to the truth.Rule 34 is that porn can be created about anything on the internet. It's depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 13 | Reproductive StrategyThis this this! I see so much reproductive abuse at work that it's scary. 95% of the men doing it, society considers "good men". We must protect ourselves if we plan to deal with men sexually and romantically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 06:21 PM |
| -8 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgAs someone who was in the kink community before it went mainstream, this is correct. It is absolutely correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 121 | First inviting me to hangout with his roommate and play Mario cart for our first date and then this.... GodBlock him and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:12 PM |
| 14 | Posted on r/unpopularadvice... they went OFF. Find the perfect comment! 🤡Well, dating should be to find a husband/mate. If a man is poor, he doesn’t really have the money to support a household. So, he should be working to earn more money by leveling himself up. It is okay to be elitist because this is your life, ladies. You have to make sure you take care of yourself and make sure your life is good. That means if a poor man is not for you, you vet him out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 9 | Never need a lvm in my lifeTwo broke girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:03 PM |
| 9 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!I included the vibrator because there are too many men who won’t even touch sex toys because it’s your fault if you don’t cum while he’s jackhammering. They think sex toys are emasculating. After a guy got me to gush with piv with careful use of his fingers on my clit before finishing me off with a hitachi while he was thrusting in me, I’m team toys with sex lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:21 PM |
| 13 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!If I had money, I would give you an award for this post. If a man can’t make me cum when we have sex the first time, he’s useless for me. This doesn’t include piv because piv is a crapshoot for me. It’s 50/50 if I cum from piv the first time. But dude better be willing to make sure I cum from his fingers, mouth, vibes, etc. but then, you can sort out the guys who give bad sex just by kissing before sex. If his kisses suck, his sex sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 70 | We need to stop with the myth that dating is sooo hard for all men and that men will treasure you because your attention is rare. 🗣 THEY’RE PLAYING ALL OF US AND THIS IS HOW!This is the truth. These men complain not because they don't have women interested in them; they want to have their choice of HVW as well. They feel entitled to HVW, pickmeishas are way too easy for them. They want to be able to play their games on everyone. So every rejection they get, they feel like the world is ending, even though there are 100 pickmeishas in their DMs thirsty for a snap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 8 | Don’t text firstI felt like that in my last relationship which is why I never text/call/anything first now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 14 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!Oh that sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:16 PM |
| 26 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!I’ve learned for my own vagina, 7-10 inches with girth work best with clit stimulation. I’m also relatively tall for a woman so I like men taller than me. They also tend to be in proportion so I get the correct dick size as well as the height I enjoy. There are women who enjoy smaller dicks. I can do a smaller dick if it’s girthier than normal for its length. But i know what my body likes and I go with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:06 PM |
| 148 | Never let them get comfortable!They only say that single people are more likely to die sooner because of loneliness and obesity because the category includes single men. Take men out and the statistics look so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else completely okay with being single forever?I have no problems. I like my sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 5 | How Burnout Became the Norm for American Parents, Especially Millennial Mothers.I work at the management level in the childcare field and I've seen how breastfeeding has become the new front of the mommy wars. It's annoying and I've had so many new moms break down in my office because breastfeeding wasn't working for them. I had to tell them, damn the critics and feed your baby formula. Find a formula that works for you and make sure your baby is healthy. I literally keep sample shake and go bottles of formula in my office because I've seen too many screaming and undernouri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 2 | How Burnout Became the Norm for American Parents, Especially Millennial Mothers.The only reason this was somewhat sustainable before Covid was because a lot of the work got farmed out: preschool, daycare, nannies, housecleaners, etc. Covid has basically changed the game because depending on their income level, certain supports aren't available or are less available. Now, it's obvious that your LVM ain't and won't do shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.If it is okay with you, I'd love for you to do a basic reading for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 35 | Guy plans a fun day for his wife’s bday for her and their friends. Asks them to send a short vid saying Happy Bday. This isn’t asking for much and actually sounds like a fun day for everyone, but scrote is mad that any effort at all is being put into her bday and would rather play video games aloneBingo. This is all jealousy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:37 PM |
| 85 | Breaking up with the best boyfriend I've ever hadI’m so proud of you. It wasn’t going to get better, odds are that the longer you stayed with him, the facade would come off and you’ll see that he was just another LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 36 | Broke: financially, spiritually and mentallyThis has been my experience. It’s a very, if he looks at you, try to get him to pick you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:39 PM |
| 11 | Myers Briggs/OCEAN Test Anyone?I’m an INTJ-A which instantly confuses the men who rely on this stuff because women aren’t supposed to be INTJd lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:27 PM |
| 51 | Loser gets caught masturbating on his family's couch. Tries to explain to his scarred 16 year old sister that it "wasn't his fault"I just want to throw up after reading that. It makes so much sense and this dude is probably into incest porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 44 | "nice guy" that's "not good with money"... i wish to god I'd read this 20 years ago! she NAILS it! i married a man-child exactly like this and it took me back over a decade. but i am a queen (and raising another one) and my life is back on track now!This was my father. He was able to keep decent jobs now and then but he was always willing to quit and dream about making it big. My mother worked and made enough that he was able to fuck around and do nothing but become a bitter narcissistic drain on everyone. These men are narcissists who refuse to deal with reality. They are bigger, more important than they really are and whoever tried to puncture their sense of superiority is evil and mean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 9 | The vetting FaceTime is the perfect alternative to the coffee/walk snooze-fest and avoids those "awkward dinners" to "keep it casual" - but LVMs won't go for it.I’m not dating due to the pandemic but when I’m ready to date again, I’ll definitely bring up video chatting instead of going for coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Happy cake day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 15 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.Men: if i FEEL it directly insults muh penis, it’s automatically bad. Me: it wasn’t even about your personally. Like she’s going to fuck you anyway. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 5 | Do You Like Yourself When You Are Alone?I love myself. I love reading, listening to music, cooking and baking, working out, and just enjoying the peace and quiet. I think I will live by myself for the rest of my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Dear Black Ladies and other WOC, please don’t take this LIt’s funny that I keep getting notifications that this post has hit 25 likes to see that it’s always below 25 when I check. This post really did hit a nerve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 7 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Lib feminism assumes that all women have the privilege to fuck up and not be too hurt. Lib fem believes all women are of high social class. Lib fem will help you ruin your life, especially if you aren’t wealthy and privileged enough to bounce back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 29 | Just stumbled across this monstrosity. Why do BDSM people need to advertise their toxic relationships to the world? Also, why do all "dom's" look like this crusty LVM?This is bringing back bad memories. During my time in the kink community, there were 10 of these ugly scrotes to one attractive guy. I can’t believe I let some of these dudes touch me. I’m going to be fucking sick 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 19 | Collage of my ex- this was so cathartic and made me giggle loadsI fucked a guy back in my kinkmeisha days and when I went upstairs, I saw the bedbug treatment stuff. I quietly went home and threw the clothes I was wearing in the trash. I was never happier that I just took my keys and phone like I was that night | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:07 PM |
| 17 | Dear Black Ladies and other WOC, please don’t take this LIt is. He was sentenced to 50 yrs in jail for a murder charge, she led the fight to get him out and now they are married. According to Twitter, they met when she was underage in a prison ministry started by her church. She’s 31 now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Dear Black Ladies and other WOC, please don’t take this LIt doesn’t say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:20 PM |
| 50 | Dear Black Ladies and other WOC, please don’t take this LShe started an Abolish Prison movement just to marry a former prisoner who she knew when she was under 18. He is some years older than her. According to her wiki, her now husband was sentenced to 50 years in jail when he was 16 for an undisclosed crime. She took 2 WNBA seasons off to free him from prison and now they are married. For BW especially, there is a pressure to marry any Bm who wants you, no matter how LV or NV he is. Don’t be like her and pick a possible LVM or NVM from prison. He may… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 180 | Saw this post on twitter earlier. It’s so true. LVM would rather convince women they don’t deserve their high standards than aim to meet them or alternatively date women with lower standards.It's a control issue. They want to get the woman who wants and knows she deserves more and knock her down so that she's under their control. It's all about their absurd egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 61 | May the fires left by Michael’s errors light your path. 🤣😂🤣😂Welp... that sucks for that scrote. The fucking audacity to do that though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:11 PM |
| 22 | My ex(44M) called me(25F) too young and mental because I wasn’t open to his sexual desiresYou're not dumb, he used his years of experience against you. He seduced you and created a web that an older woman would have seen from the beginning. I'm glad that you realized he wasn't shit and left him instead of staying to try to make it work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 10 | Don’t do it sis.Never sign a lease with a boyfriend. Never move in with a boyfriend who owns their house. Get married and have a joint account that is used specifically to pay the mortgage to make sure there's equal equity. If you don't want to get married, it's best just to live in your own place or live with roommates who you aren't dating. Even if you date women instead of men, it's best to still get married before moving in with your significant other. There isn't a man out there, LVM or HVM, who won't get … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 10 | Don’t do it sis.They really have infiltrated this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 8 | Don’t do it sis.Agreed. Some of these comments have me going 😲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 16 | A man's actions tell alot about his fetishesThis. I’ve been there. It’s a control tactic. He also may have a fetish for feederism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:32 PM |
| 89 | Thoughts?I need some brain bleach because what in the flying fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:57 PM |
| 26 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesI just got laid yesterday after spending over a year celibate and it was one of my top sex experiences I ever had. The dick was clean, not too long but girth was amazing. The best part though was that we were on the same wavelength when it came to dirty talk and he wanted to make sure i came. I’d say he was a good 8.5 inches with a larger girth. I couldn’t wrap my hands completely around his dick and I have larger hands for a woman. I’m looking forward to fucking that dick again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Do NOT reply to male PMsI consider myself relatively lucky I don’t get them in my PMs. I’d still block and delete if I did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:29 PM |
| 18 | What is your experience with “women’s intuition?”You avoided a narcissistic psychopath. Your intuition saved you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:57 PM |
| 10 | What is your experience with “women’s intuition?”OMG what a fucking asshole. I hope you get everything you want in your divorce. This is the kind of man who should never marry. He knows what kind of turd he is. He knew he shouldn’t marry but he did. I hope his dick rots off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:55 PM |
| 19 | What is your experience with “women’s intuition?”My intuition hasn’t failed me yet. I’ve made arrangements to go out with guys and my intuition told me to stop and not do it. Every time, something has shown me that I was right. Not just for dating though, for jobs, friendships, etc. I just cut off a good portion of my own family because they have officially become scammers and my intuition told me to avoid them because it’s going to end badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | NEVER AGAINI love my sensor gel pillows. They are relatively flat due to how they are made but I love them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 11:04 AM |
| 59 | In Memoriam 💔😢I'm absolutely heartbroken. He was a great actor; his roles generally told a meaningful story. I forget where I saw it, it was either twitter or instagram, but he said his big break was delayed because he wouldn't just take any role. The role had to be meaningful for him to take it and he chose not to take roles that, in our words, showcased LVM traits. The roles he played exemplified HVM traits. Rest in power, Chadwick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Attachment styles are really important to take note of in yourself and the men you dateI’m actually more dismissive avoidant. I tend to attract the type of men who try to love bomb their way into love. I also have a pretty nonchalant personality/emotionally unavailable in general so I’m like the white whale to those types because i get turned off by too much love and attention anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 18 | So sad... The comments section is full of women saying "RUN" but OP is only listening to the 2 men who commented saying ThiS iS tOtALLy NoRmAL!She’s just looking for someone to help justify seeing him again. She doesn’t care that he’s using her as a human fleshlight, she just wants someone to help her excuse it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:47 PM |
| 41 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.This is total queen energy to the core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?I'm working on me: getting my weight down, getting my money up, managing my stress. I like romance to be in my romance novels. I enjoy the fantasy world of good romance novels and the world of eviscerating bad romance novels. That's as close as I want to get to dating, men are not worth it right now in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:49 PM |
| 13 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Same for me. I was an awkward teen and the hell I got from boys made me very cynical. I used to have friends in college tell me that I was mean and too picky but whatever. I've been treating men like the trash many of them are except for my 30th year on earth. That year was an aberration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Don’t let them fool youThis is my dearly departed father to a tee. He got his hooks into my mother and never let go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:26 PM |
| 15 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Yes this! They want to control you in every way and if you have just a smidgen of independence, then you have to pay for that. They are very abusive in the nastiest, most insidious ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 23 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?I spent a decade dating these types. I used to feel weird because I’m tall, black, not skinny, and not from an upper middle class background. But I was attractive to them because I checked boxes off on their list of women to bang. Fuck them all with a covid-19 infested screwdriver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 28 | Although I’ve not been in an abusive relationship myself, I have just read ‘Why Does He Do That’ by Lundy Bancroft and I AM SO GLAD I DID. ***FYI, ‘therapy’ does not fix abusers, it can make this behaviour worse.***That book is a must read for the ladies of this subreddit. But he is so right about this: an abusive man isn't abusive because of his issues, he's abusive because he's learned that being abusive gets him exactly what he wants. Therapy can't help that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:12 PM |
| 26 | FDS theme tune? @ninanesbitt , she makes amazing music!This is my new favorite Tik Tok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:06 PM |
| 27 | I can't believe this woman got gaslit by reddit when her NVM bf was more worried about food than her injuryIt’s sociopathic as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 132 | I can't believe this woman got gaslit by reddit when her NVM bf was more worried about food than her injuryHer boyfriend ain’t shit. Like the food is more important than a fucking burn on her hand? The bar is below hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 18 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedAnd then he'll blame you when you call him out for anally raping you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:18 AM |
| 53 | Vetting strategy: How to read between the lines, use power of deduction to read motivations/possibilities and how to make educated guesses.Yes, all of this! I’d also add that all men, especially LVM, twist their language to test your boundaries early in the meeting process, online and offline. Even if you share the barest minimum information, they will take that info and try to find a boundary to test. Men lie but they don’t lie well and just by reading between the lines and waiting, men will give up the whole game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:28 PM |
| 60 | I Cannot Fucking Believe This Pickmeisha Made Me Agree with Joe Rogan. Dr. Debra Soh claims there is "No Such Thing As Porn Addiction". How Much Does the Porn Lobby Pay for these Researchers to Pretend That Porn Has No Effect On People?......... I'm agree with Joe Rogan. I don't know what to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 19 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you?Once in college. I was in my 5th year of college and he was a guy who had moved up there to look for work. I slept with him once and I was skeeved out because he was so smug afterwards. He was acting like he found a lottery ticket: a young Black woman who was about to be a college graduate for him to live off of. He was an older, dusty, shorter than me, black dude. I ghosted him. When I was finally forced to see him face to face, he told me that he fucked me with no condom. Jokes on that ass, I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:29 PM |
| 8 | Living with a “High Value” single man: the observations of an FDS noviceThis guy is emotionally unavailable and is only "attracted" to emotionally unavailable women. However, because he's stunted, he's useless for any kind of real relationship because he truly doesn't want to open up to anyone. He's into this woman right now because she's been refusing him. Give it a couple of months, it'll be over because emotionally unavailable men cannot keep up the facade of being interested in anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 25 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.Ew. I feel the need to rant about onlyfans. These women are selling themselves for way too cheap on that website and it's annoying. I hate all sex work but I hate onlyfans the most right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:30 PM |
| 27 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"I’m stealing “indentured sextitude” This reminds me of a situation I almost entered in a year ago. Dude was looking for a FWB, I was still struggling with being a pick-me so I was looking for a one night stand. I shared that with him and he got so offended, all because I didn’t want to be his friend aka bangmaid on his schedule. Never do FWB. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:47 PM |
| 14 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"FWB just means that you’re a placeholder at best, a vagina that he just wants to fuck at worst. Either way, it’s all bad. It’s not worth it; he’ll come out of it with sex, nudes he will share with his friends, and gossip he will share about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:45 PM |
| 40 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?She's right about that line where she's still single until that marriage license is signed. No marriage is legal until the license is signed, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 30 | Men don’t see beyond their own pleasureI've been stealthed. It was the worst experience of my life. It resulted in HPV and a miscarriage. All because he felt like he couldn't get a nut with it on. Fuck him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?I feel you become I'm the same way. before FDS, I used to get depressed at making matches during OLD but no dates/productive conversation/getting ghosted. Now, I'm just working on leveling up and I'm not worried about being validated by a relationship too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 10 | girls are out here with standards lower than the 9th circle of hellI'm losing interest in a guy because all he does is send inane texts like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | They want us to be legbeards so bad, but we're not: FDS Humble Brag / Femcel Theory Debunked!I’m still happy that you shared this on LSA and that I joined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 14 | And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women.Sad thing... he still looks better than most men hjs age 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?I always got called thunder thighs by the first boy I had a crush on. I still have a love/hate relationship with my thick thighs but fuck him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 13 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.No one asked you to post your devil’s advocate statement on this very true post. So yes, pickmeisha vibes. And pickmeisha vibes =/= to pick me but hit dogs holler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 41 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.Okay... but this has straight pickmeisha vibes that you posted this on this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about how Chip Gaines is a low value male?Wow. What a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:17 PM |
| 12 | She had me in the first half 😂Oh I wish I could insert that gif. I was ready to roast her lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 56 | I can't even get a text back? Best believe she deserves all of this.He better give her all the damn bags! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:27 AM |
| 8 | [Copy & Paste] Dread Game DebunkedYup. I had a guy flirt with other women in front of me when we were dating. He was so surprised when I dumped him that night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 11 | Hilariously true! Of course men in the comments are having temper tantrums over this, how straight white (even though race wasnt mentioned) males are the most opressed etcI need to find the original post lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:01 PM |
| 29 | No matter how much chemistry you appear to have over the phone do not be fooledI agree. You have to see them in person and how they act in person to even get close to dating. I do like how The Rules tell you to make phone calls 15 mins or less and to not immediately call or text back. It takes away that frantic frenzy away from “will he call back? Does he really like me?” There are many men who love to waste your time by any means necessary and will do it by constant calls, texts, if you let them figure out the way you like to be contacted the most, they will use it to the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 09:07 PM |
| 13 | Another Kinkmeisha abused by her “amazing”🙄 boyfriend.I’ve been involved in kink and he’s going to try to kill her. He’s already told her that he was thinking of killing her. She needs to exit immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 13 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beI hope this pickmeisha and her scrote never reproduce because I would feel so sorry for that kid, especially if it's a girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 11 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!I love how I’m getting notifications for comments from scrotes but our mods aren’t letting them post. Stay mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 19 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!Quality Men are like unicorns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 05:37 PM |
| 88 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!I should have saved it but it was basically bitching that women have it so much easier online dating and shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:33 PM |
| 213 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!And I got my first dm from a scrote because of this post lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 6 | I just dropped himThis is all the truth. These ugly men know they are ugly and don't have anything to recommend themselves so when they get a woman so settle for them, they can't wait to show out. It's like they do shit to drag you into the gutter with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:08 PM |
| 11 | ❤This meme is the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:05 PM |
| 15 | I’m Fed-Up at How Dangerous Shared-Housing is for Women and How Society Gaslights Us About itMy brother was the same way when I lived in apartments with roommates. Now, I'm living with my mother to cut costs, especially in this post-covid 19 world and I'm glad she's happily man free. Like, so many don't understand how good it feels to come home and not have to worry about a man, strange or known, being in your house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:26 AM |
| 16 | I’m Fed-Up at How Dangerous Shared-Housing is for Women and How Society Gaslights Us About itI hope he's burning in hell. I want the worst for this jerkoff in the afterlife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:24 AM |
| 40 | Why do people judge based on just clothingI don't judge women, I judge men on what they wear. Most of the time, women put some kind of effort in their appearance. Men don't and they expect you to fall over in love with their appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 12 | Porn is the fast food of sexYup. Most men are practically worthless and then their porn-sick dick makes them totally worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedEthically Nonmonogamous: I'm a cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:11 AM |
| 1 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡I used to love this series as a teen/young adult but I always saw myself as a Charlotte more than a Carrie. Carrie was a damn fool when you really look at her actions with a critical eye. Every man she was with, she pursued in some way. They were all LVM and you could say she was a LVW in the way she allowed herself to be treated by Big. All four of the characters made bad decisions with men by Carrie was the pick-me of the group. Also, btw, how do you get flair? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:31 AM |
| 3 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.This is the same as telling a man that you love them first. It never ever ever ends well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:05 AM |
| 5 | She had us in the first half nglIt started out as Queen shit, middle went pick-me, the ending redeemed the whole thing. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 12:55 AM |
| 87 | Funny that he is treated like a God in Hollywood and nobody is calling him outI need to go find this clip. DiCaprio is a creep of the highest order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | been there and trying not to do thatThis just strikes me as someone who knows they are worth more but isn't quite ready to admit that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 06:19 PM |
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