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Save this comment and if you put in the work, you will laugh your ass off in 5-10 years about what you just wrote At 22 you dont know shit and are just getting started
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:44 AM
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So what is the caliber of women you attract? Because honestly, having standards, unless im super horny on long dry streak, I would never fuck those in your pictures. You are what you attract and if your goal is to get trashy slutty easy women, then its probably a good guide
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 06:00 PM
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You need therapy yesterday
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:05 AM
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I'm surprised at all the negative answers here. Looks like you choose one video/argument he said you didn't like and then you build this terrible image. He's very good speaker and story teller, so even if you never agree with him you can learn that. Other than that he is very good at spreading redpill awareness and content to people in easy to get way. I wonder if some of you guys made even 1% of his success at being able to spread the knowledge and improve life of so many men
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:42 AM
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I did similar thing to you 9 months ago. No regrets, I will not tolerate blatant lies to my face. Of course it will hurt for a while, but you put yourself first. You have boundaries and self respect. You will grow from this, keep going, good job
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:12 AM
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Thanks man, i feel exactly the same
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:40 PM
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Whats the problem? Enjoy it now, dont think about it too much, dont put her on pedestal
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:46 AM
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This thread is almost daily in asktrp. Just shows you that no matter what society tells us, its hardwired in our DNA to look for women without past. You can fight with it, pretend you dont care and sooner or later you will probably stop caring, but biology is telling you to not ltr those women
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:18 PM
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For me it's a kind of test. If I dont react negatively, she may try to trap me being pregnant. Stupid shit to joke about, never had any girl do it before like this via text, i mean completely different thing is some light banter face to face
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah its normal. Now she says you will be always together and she will love you forever. But if you break up with her later she will do a light switch effect and say you were abusive, she was never happy in a relationship, you are not attractive to her and she deserves better etc
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:17 PM
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I lived in Dubai for few months. It's one of the hardest if probably not the hardest place to date girls. It has the biggest male to female ratio. So if you move to whatever normal place you will have it few times easier. Dubai is also a long city, with few main parts, so yes if she is like 10 miles away she will not bother to drive on her own, unles she is super attracted to you. So you can put more effort here You cant really outplay those high smv guys. This city has people with huge status i…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:28 AM
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She has 2k followers on ig and said to me she is kinda addicted to ig lol. During texting she was very nice, asked me lot questions, phone call went great, she was very excited, agreed happily to meet me. That's why I'm surprised today after flake. But you are probably right, she is used to guys simping or kissing her ass and requires a lot of validation, my normal behaviour for her was probably seen as lack of interest. Pandemic and online dating in a nuthsell
/r/askTRP27/04/21 07:08 PM
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That's honestly what I think about it, I dealt with some high interest girls before and they would never flake, rather confirm herself and they cant wait to see me. But just some learning experience, maybe I can do it better, so decided to ask here
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:52 PM
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It was online so different story
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:50 PM
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2 weeks sure, but it was less than 2 days. So i can flip the script and say - if she was really excited to see me, shouldnt she show some interest after setting the date? I initiated first, talked to her, said I want to meet and get to know her, got her phone number, called her, talked some more, set the date. All of that by myself was showing interest. And after not initiating yet again after setting the date she thought i lost interest. Or its just BS excuse, I dont care really, just learning …
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:49 PM
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You want 10s? Instagram and high value social sircles
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:33 PM
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LMAO this shit is comedy gold
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:57 AM
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Lol this is easy. She wants to hook you emotionally again with sex
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:48 AM
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The best time to plant tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now. Im 26, after having similar thoughts to yours started my ig year ago (so your age) and no regrets. Our smv is only getting started and will keep going for at least next 10 years. You dont have to spend time there liking thots or whatever. Post some cool pics, follow few people and get it going. Or stay in bottom 80% and never rise to the top. Your choice
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:02 AM
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People here will tell you no and i was like this for a long time too. But the truth is yes, its better to have good Instagram than no ig. It goes like this: good Instagram > no Instagram > bad Instagram Name me few popular high SMV people without ig. Almost impossible. This is one thing trp is very slow to understand (i was stubborn for a long time too), but times have changed and building your profile and essence online can be a great tool. It can help you to connect with many people in differe…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:52 AM
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80/20 rule turned into 99/1 on dating apps Also, there are way more guys on these apps in all ages. A lot of girls get burned by top chads and never come back to apps, meanwhile these guys continue to smash for years. Everyone is getting better pics, paying for app, competition is rising and rising. Guys aged 20-40 or even higher, all competing for 18-25 on apps. So your average 22 year old chick is overwhelmed with attention and has more males to choose from than her mother, grandmother, aunts …
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:16 PM
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You did good. If you are potentially looking at LTR like your life partner, can you imagine being with somebody who you cant even trust where is at? Like whats even the point Also, if nothing happened she would be begging you for a second chance, bombarding your phone, doing everything she can. The fact that you didnt hear anything from her and the guy didnt want to be involded - it tells the whole story
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:13 PM
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Most girls think they are 8-10/10, you will NEVER hear any girl rate herself lower than 7/10. So yes, they live in pure delusion with zero self awareness
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:09 PM
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Once again dude, you 'tried' meditation, forcing your mind and body yet again to do a new, different task. Have you tried doing fucking nothing for a month? You will not see a difference after few days. Im not talking out of my ass, because when I was in my late teens and early twenties I was a sportsman training A LOT. Few times a week doing my sport + gym + matches. Also studying, learning other shit. Only now when I look back at it with different perspective I see i was overworked most of the…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:10 PM
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I never mentioned drugs and alcohol. But he should take a break for a month or so to see if anything changes, trt is a lifelong decision so taking a lot of rest is worth a shot. And from what he writes it seems he is doing a lot, his body can be under huge stress and pressure, so its underperforming.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:44 PM
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So you are working massively, eating strict diet, grinding all the time. Have you tried, you know, having some fun? Go on vacations, get some sun, meet new people, do fun activities, have sex, sleep more, eat whatever you and your body wants, even fast foods. You may be under huge stress and your body is sabotaging itself so maybe you will stop all of that. Take some rest, eat whatever you feel like and see if anything changes, if not - go for trt
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:13 AM
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You never meet a girl who is 30+ saying that all her friends are guys. Usually because she passed the wall, guys who were orbiting her for few years either gave up, found someone else or are no longer interested. So that alone can tell you something, she can only get friends with a power of her pussy and looks when she is young in her 20s. Its very short term. If she doesnt have any close female friends this is a big red flag and means there is something wrong with her, you just dont know yet wh…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:05 AM
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In my opinion the way she handled it is the best way possible. People here tell you to break up but she sounds like a keeper. She 1. asked about you if you are safe, taxes etc and then 2. continued living her life the same way. This is a very good sign and she looks like a good girl. Talk to her a lot about it and my advice is for both of you to forget this money for a very long time so it can slowly sink in. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:58 AM
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Honestly man. You may earned a lot of money but will probably lose it in a future, the way you handled this situation you sound like an idiot. Sudden wealth is not easy to deal with psychologically and you decided to just show her numbers on bank account? Really 0 IQ You put her under massive problems. She may feel not needed. She may think why should i work if i make so low it cant compare. Maybe she fears you will leave her. She maybe asks herself what to do now in life when you dont need to d…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 11:33 PM
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Give them 5 years older than they look with a smirk and watch the world burn. Dont be an autist this is easy opportunity for some banter
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:13 AM
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I agree with you. My comment was more to this part: „It was the slow realisation that this shit isn't as easy as it was before that bought my confidence crashing down. I know how it feels to walk into a party feeling good with my head high and gaze forward and therefore be desired by the girls, I also know how it feels to walk into a party and be a wallflower. Automatically assuming that they were attracted to me often actually wasn't the case any more. From there you enter a negative cycle that…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:51 PM
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So kinda how all girls feel after hitting the wall
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:31 PM
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Exactly this, its never been worse on tinder. I did the same thing lately with a girl from tinder during ONS and she started swiping for fun when we were cuddling in bed. She swiped left 99% dudes and i was really surprised cuz some of these guys were really attractive. Whats more, most od the time she never checked second picture, only first and swiped left. Out of these 1% she swiped right, all were matches, she was very very surprised when it wasnt. This is eye opening experience
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:22 PM
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Usually what happens to real 10s is they literally cant find a guy and settle their entire 20s. Because they feel everyone is beneath them and few top celebrities 0,0001% guys dont commit. Check most models, singers etc they are lonely and only get a guy after the wall. Also some top 10s girls have actually low n count, because they dont need to validate themselves with sex. They know they are hot shit and every single guy will fuck her. The average-cute girls are often most slutty cuz they need…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:01 PM
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This is typical on tinder. She was just looking for attention, no desire to meet you. So she cut it the last moment possible Dont double text her, she can actually reach out after few days when she sees you are not thirsty. Had this scenario few times
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:02 AM
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Haha exactly
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:50 PM
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That is one of the most butthurt response i have ever seen. You should have writtten „Ok” or „K” or nothing at all. This is slut from tinder, in 2021, dont expect anything more than this. Women are flaky and doing 180 with their feelings in a second. Get used to it
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:47 PM
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This is my experience, but everyone is different. If i like a girl, she is attractive fun to be around, then nothing changes after i nut. I want to cuddle still be there etc If i was only very horny, then after i want to get rid of her.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 10:24 AM
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/thread
/r/askTRP02/03/21 10:05 AM
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Whats the reason for this comment? You are completely wrong
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:38 PM
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Loneliness. After certain age people get comfortable and stop improving. Most people. I never stopped and with trp knowledge out of nowhere i became far ahead in life than my friends. We have less and less in common It gets lonely at the top. Its actually my biggest goal for this year or even next, to find likeminded and similar guys to me
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:53 PM
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And i wasnt looking for a gf, texted her 2 times in 2 weeks span for total 10min, not clingy at all
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:45 PM
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Sucks man but this is just reality. I recently have this problem too. Be it first date, everything was amazing, she was super excited entire time, then texting after wants to meet again. I schedule she happily agrees and she ghosts me. Or another one we met few times, have amazing sex she cum often and during our time she is very very happy. Then she is busy to meet but say she really wants to and is very excited to meet again. Few days later i try second time she is busy again but she promises …
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:06 PM
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I did and after she was even more attracted to me. She saw it as me opening to her, trusting her, having emotions. Sex and everything was even better later. But here is the thing. I didnt cry because och im shit, life is hard and i suck or whatever. I cried because i am ambitious, had some problems to overcome, decisions to make and kinda needed to get it out of my system. So our bond increased after this situation. I would say if a girl cant stand you crying and opening to her, she is rather no…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:37 AM
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What you said about one final heartbreak leading to TRP is kinda true, but its journey you have to take on your own, stop asking us about permission. If you had 2 more girls texting you, calling and asking for your dick would you think about all of this? Thats the state of mind you need to have before getting successful ltr if thats what you want
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:42 AM
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They all lie about it and its probably higher than 20. Thats why its always safe to multiply by 3. No trust = no relationship, break up and move on, talk to other girls and get some abundance. You LTRed bar slut with tattoo and high n count, so dont be surprised when she acts like one. You called her good girl because she cooks, cleans and have sex with you? Yeah, every single one can do that
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:19 AM
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True, it was a long way for me to overcome this
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:48 PM
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Yes, I'm fit healthy and quite strong, but don't look like I lift yet
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:23 PM
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Very Catholic upbringing, which fucked me in the head for a long time. I was scared and stressed to have sex, intimacy, I had guilt of masturbacy. Also wasn't active socially. 3 years ago I moved out and started living alone, thinking for myself, slowly discovering redpill. At the start I didn't trust it, but slowly were reading more and more. Around 2 years ago, I managed to get my first FWB and she unblocked me mentally. I was never ugly, am tall, so there is that. Was very skinny with shitty …
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:49 PM
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2 years ago at 24 I was basically a virgin, with very little experience. In last 2 weeks, during covid lockdowns, I had sex with 5 different women. Go figure
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:32 PM
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Used to have it, but I changed my mindset. You see, we all deal with what we were given. Our genes, upbringing, family. But when you are adult, you start to see things by yourself and want to change. Be proud of yourself, that despite all this bluepill shit which we were all fed our entire life - you managed to change. You wanted more, you saw how things really are. In past you did what you thought at that time is best thing to do. But you saw your mistakes and evolved. Most people never look cr…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:19 PM
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Bette Male
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:26 AM
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Bette Male
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:22 AM
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Say it with a smirk, definitely the best response
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:09 PM
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STOP RESPONDING TO TROLL When will this guy get banned ffs
/r/askTRP21/12/20 02:55 AM
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I am 26 and my life is only getting better every year
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:23 AM
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Its not really weird or unexpected for me
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 03:30 AM
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Great comment, but not sure OP is able to do it, he is too emotionaly invested in this girl to behave like that. Better cut it off and start living life again
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:45 AM
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I mean, dude, if your gf will lose interest in you because you enjoy spending time with her while being able to do all your important stuff, what's even the point? You say she likes you, you like her, stop overthinking
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:25 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:44 PM
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Perfect advice OP needs but will probably ignore
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:38 PM
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Maybe I was lucky in life, but I have few guys in my life I can call good close friends. I know them for 5, 10 and even 15 years. Im 26 I would say after discovering trp I was like you for some time. But realized friendships are important and I invest in them. I dont shove redpill down to their throat. Rather they started asking me how I did this or that and am successfull. My goals and life plans are different to many, which can feel like drifting away, but I do my own thing, stay humble and ca…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:22 AM
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The more redpilled and self-sufficient I became, the harder time I had with my mother. She kept trying to break my frame, because she is used to that with my dad. She mostly gave up, but I can still sense anger because she knows she can't manipulate me by anything
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:39 AM
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Wow this is so true, when I look at myself 1, 2, then 3 years ago I can't believe how much I changed and improved. Close friends notice it a lot. Even though these were for the most part small daily steps.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:33 AM
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I would never be able to LTR a chick if I didn't trust her. If you constantly meet people lying to each other, or don't have any close friends who are honest with you, then I suggest you to try to meet higher quality people in general.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:50 PM
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Saving this, great post
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:49 AM
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Look at this guy post history and stop responding to troll
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:36 PM
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I do exactly the same as this guy, that's why I made this topic and enjoy his answers. Flakes are reduced to zero after good phone call. I also get to know them a little bit, see if I will enjoy the date, if they have some sense of humour. A lot less wasted time and if she's willing to have a call with you she is already investing which is good.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:47 AM
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Good idea to add intention, thanks
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:39 PM
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Consider making it a separate thread, lots of good info
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:37 AM
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I dont know if all of you just come across shitty people in general. Or cant vet them or both. I have the opposite experience and when I shared my vulnerability their attraction and our connection increased. Or when I was injured my ex took care of me doing everything she can, during which she still wanted to fuck etc. Just my 2c
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:45 AM
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Yes I was like this. And slowly changed things, they are not perfect now but much better. Hit up old friends, ask them what's up. Invite somewhere. Never say no to any invitation you receive. Join new hobbies, new activities. Be interested in new people, try to get to know them. The amount of effort you put in will determine your results. Be high value, have something to offer to other people and they will want to keep you. Do it like its your second job now and focus on it, ask yourself honestl…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:31 AM
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Find a girl with very high interest in you. Tell her you have low experience. She will be okay with that. Practice with her kinda fwb thing. Then you are good to go. Girl with very high interest won't run away if you tell her this. She will actually be happy to teach you. If you are "pretty good looking, tall, lean muscle etc" you won't have a problem with finding one.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:48 PM
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I also edited that comment and added some more. Good luck man
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:00 PM
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Yeah I was almost the same as you. So do what I told you and what worked for me, just push through your anxiety. Be selfish. Cum when you want, understand sex is also about your happiness. Don't care if she fucking judge you or not. Who cares? You did what you wanted and are happy, you fullfilled your biological mission. Soon you will almost forget about it and perform normally with more experience. Kick this thought out of your mind that you are less of a man if you cum quickly. Or she will lau…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:55 PM
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It's only a problem if you make it a problem. Tell her she was so sexy that you couldn't resist yourself. Also, can you have second session later? I almost always want to nut quickly on first fuck, but then after some rest I can get a proper and long second session. Make her cum with your fingers, then put it in, cum as quickly as you want (she won't care), take some rest with her, cuddle etc and then fuck her good second time. This is the thing that works for me. Also, you can try to masturbate…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:28 PM
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Read about Alpha Widows, or watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qqj2FsdXyRY
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:44 PM
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I would never ltr a chick if I didn't feel I'm her best. But you do you
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:24 PM
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Only read the title, break = break up. Thank her for time together, next and move on
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:06 PM
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Unironically tinder, but it's super rare and numbers game, luck and knowledge how to look required
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:34 AM
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I have the same thoughts sometimes, especially when I know my prime is way ahead for me, but for the girl it will be downhill
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:27 AM
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You should always look at her mom to see how she will end up like. Recently I was dating a girl and saw picture of her mom in the same age, her early twenties. They look identical, very thin, feminine and attractive. And now her mom in her 50s looks like a fat monster, not gonna lie that really made me think
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:14 AM
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They spend hours and hours in social media taking to orbiters. Smartphone is like their third hand. No wonder they are master at this shit. You can become good at everything you put hours into. That's why you should text as little as possible
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:48 AM
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Wtf man? You got great response and instead od looking what you can change you are entitled. That's exactly why your ltr is loosing respect and attraction in you, because you dont want to improve yourself, instead you try to find problems in others
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:35 AM
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Recently I was dating a girl for couple weeks. Then discovered she lied to my face about one thing multiple times. Soft nexted her, she was bombarding my phone and wanted to talk. After few days we did, she wanted to come clean and said she lied to me also in other, more important things. So I nexted her Moral of the story is, if she can lie to you in this small kinda insignificant thing, you can bet your ass there are more things that you have no idea about.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:29 AM
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Is this asktrp now? People realizing what is literally written in sidebar and getting massive upvotes?
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:13 PM
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Why is this downvoted? 100% true
/r/askTRP13/08/20 09:22 PM
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I broke up with my gf around 7 months ago. She blocked me on FB. We havent talked since around 6 months. I saw Im unblocked 1-2 months ago lol. After I read your comment Im wondering if this will happen and she will reach out
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:06 PM
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Redpill is marathon, not a sprint. You will have ups and downs. Compare to yourself and be a better man than you were day/week/month/year before. As long as you can see your mistakes its all good. In next interaction focus on one part, for example today I will be confident. Next time today I will charming. Today I will be funny etc. Baby steps and keep going
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:45 AM
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Alpha widow or she is just not ready emotionally to date another guy. Happens if they were together for a very long time
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:35 AM
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So much this, had similar ex, glad I broke up with her. OP you are missing out a lot of fun
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:59 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:27 PM
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They may have legitimate reasons and not have time during week. Nothing wrong with that when they counteroffer. Lunch date also sounds more 'relationship' type, than cheap drinks. I would bet that's also their goal, to filter guys interested in sex. It may or may not be the case. Imo you are overthinking, agree her counteroffer if you want, decline if not. Thinking 'you are in her frame bro' is more beta than accepting and not giving a f.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:49 AM
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I saved that post for future reference and it's no longer there - it got deleted. Why though?
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:59 PM
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How did you find her? Your age and her?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:46 PM
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This is the best answer
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:39 PM
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She compared me in terms of my potential to a 17 year old girl, which is kinda accurate in terms of SMV chart. I wrote a long post because I'm still learning and it was first time when I heard direct redpill truth from woman. So just wanted to ask. I can enjoy conversation with a cool and intelligent person, who I don't want to fuck. I know it can be hard to grasp for some only sex oriented folks out there
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:38 PM
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Are you trying to attack me or what? I didn't make even one move on her, won't invite her again etc. So we just had a casual conversation
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:21 PM
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It was always like this, but now it's less than ever. Hundreds years ago you could be born as slave and die as slave, no options to change. Now parent have influence on you up until you're 18. But then you can move to whatever country you want, work whatever job you are able to do, make new friends and connections, fuck hookers if you are ugly and have money etc. So stop looking for excuces and work on yourself
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:52 PM
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Can be, but I have friends and we are comfortable telling truth to each other. When we are tired to hung out, angry et each other etc we say it clearly. Clear boundaries and there are no problems
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:57 AM
17

Find better friends, there are people who don't feel the need to lie
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:48 AM
17

You sound like entitled kid, not a young man. She canceled one meeting and you behave like it's the end of the world. Focus on other stuff and grow some balls
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:33 PM
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She exploded at me and said if I mentioned it again "she is done" And you still stay with her and want to "save her"? She doesn't respect you. You are her beta, break up and move on Btw watch how she losses most of her additional weight in few months after break up
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:15 PM
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Again the same kind of thread? Seems like people here love to bitch about how all women are terrible. Watch how this topic get 100 comments and all of them say basically the same stuff. Its every single week lately
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:59 AM
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For me this is perfect monk mode time
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:30 PM
1

English is not our language, but he is definitely saying more like the second. "Yes yes you are all right I should do this and that but you are wrong and dont understand me and my problems, you want me to act like asshole, so I agree with you to get you to shut up" - it definitely feels like this and my mum is basically banging her head against the wall having this conversation with him again and again. So I guess I should leave this alone.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 07:00 PM
1

Too keep it short. The reason I asked is because I met with my parents today. And he told us (me and his wife/my mum) about his recent problems and how he wish he would be more assertive like us, he wants good for people and they use him etc. My mum basically tells him all the time to kinda be more Alpha and stop being nice guy (ofc not using these words, but I see what she means). So its like if my mom read this book she would fully support it, at least I think that. My dad on some level unders…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:45 PM
1

Seems like they did. I would consider posting it in official sub, it was a good read
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:42 PM
1

I get that, but it would be better suited in redpill sub in my opinion. Rule n1 of this sub is "Posts must be requests for advice OR clarification"
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:33 PM
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Ok, but what is your question? This is asktrp sub
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:19 PM
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Take some time for yourself, if you try to hide those feeling they will come back later with stronger force. Deal with your break up now by yourself, don't be dependent on others
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:10 AM
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This is spot on. I ended my first LTR 3 months ago at 25 (she is 1 year younger) because she started pushing like crazy for cohabitation. I was like why so fast, we know each other for a year, ltr for half year, we have time. What you said is 100% true, I have a lot of good long relations with other men, whereas she has problems for such with other women. We understand better how to make and keep good relations and know it requires time and patience as you said.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:54 AM
2

Redpilled as woman? Or redpilled by our trp side? Redpilled women goal is to build a relationship, usually through marriage. What you say sounds like she is very close to unicorn. Then why any high value man didn't take over her in last 10 years? You said she is from foreign country, that probably says a lot about her fucked up past she had to run away from and now is on her best to lock you. Anyway man, it's your life, if you enjoy her company as much as you say here, then try it.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:41 PM
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She is in her early 30s, she will try hard to lock you down by living together and/or next having kids/marriage. If you are ok with that go ahead
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:31 PM
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Cant believe its coming from a mod. IF he is considering her to be a future mother of his children, which she is also mentioning, then everything matters and he is absolutely ok to have his rules
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:27 PM
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I finished ltr last month, we knew each other for almost a year, were exclusive for half a year. But she started so hard to push for more and more that it was an absolute turn off for me In my opinion, whenever you think of breaking up then you should do it. Do you want to be with someone that you are not ok with her past? It wont stop bothering you and its totally ok, you can have your rules. Dont ask us here for permission to break up, dont waste her time also if she wants family that much. Bu…
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:07 PM
1

Glad to hear that, yes I should listen to my gut
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:37 PM
1

She wanted even earlier, but now she is living in her place till the end of January and have to move. So her pushing for that got way worse because she wants to move in with me, instead of renting yet another room somewhere (she can't afford more) and I live alone
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:37 PM
2

Hi Vasiliy, thank you for all the contribution to this community, it's really great. Fortunately I use my condoms, so I'm safe here
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:34 PM
3

I live in non-cucked country and yes, you are right
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:33 PM
1

True, it's unfair in my opinion if I just keep her along, while she can maybe create a life she wants with someone else. It sounds like your scared you can't replace her I'm not at all
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:32 PM
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Yeah that's the one perspective I have and can't say it doesn't feed my ego that she is so crazy about me, because she is. And I don't want to hurt her
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:31 PM
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Bad relationships are usually started with this type of quick overall investment when you guys haven't dated for multiple holidays together or been tested with more complicated life scenarios Yeah I feel the same, it's way too quickly for me
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:29 PM
1

Thank you I needed to read that, my gut was trying to tell me the same. I often explained her behavior before with "It's because she is so in love with me" which is true, but when I heard she wanted to live in the same fucking building, just in another flat, I lost my shit and considered it's not normal
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:27 PM
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Yeah the only reason I said it very straightforward is because I got kinda scared when she told me what she was trying to do. Before that I was always more playful when this topic came out but never lied to her and said the same, maybe she thought she can change me or sth
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:24 PM
1

Get more rest, get more attractive girl, get more comfortable with one girl so you dont obsess if you fail once or twice because she will be ok with that.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:52 PM
1

Dude I lost mine one year ago week after i had 24 birthday. Did it a lot of time since. So stop stressing about it and it will happen, good luck
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:33 AM
1

Did it, went good. She even said that the fact im with her is best birthday gift. Thx for advice
/r/askTRP08/09/19 12:47 AM
1

That's the thing, with my best male friends we regularly say only happy birthday to eachother or dont even acknowledge it and everyone is ok with that. I honestly dont care even about my own birthday and dont want gifts. And exactly what you said, i only give good treatment if deserved, dont want her to see it as my weakness or else she will be able to exploit it. So you think i can only send this message and its ok?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:50 AM
1

Its not even about that. You can soft next ltr and its normal, search it or read sidebar my friend.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:37 AM
1

While it's true it can send mixed signals into the future, i want her to be able to connect the behavior and consequences.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:35 AM
1

You definitely can soft next ltr, buddy
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:30 AM
1

Can I ask where are you from?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:10 PM
1

Thank you for all the responses, I appreciate that a lot. I'm still trying to make up my mind, she knows that, she is trying all she can do in her power right now so I won't dump her. Now, she's either the most manipulative person I have ever met, or a really good girl who was lost during her puberty for one moment, after a guy who was first she ever went out with, kissed etc, dumped her. She tells me she wanted him just to break her hymen and nothing more ever happened, she is not even sure if …
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:01 PM
1

Ok so she cheated on you later, but did she lie to you about her past etc?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:40 PM
1

How was she acting innocent and how did it turn out she is a whore?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:35 PM
1

So, let's pretend I'm an idiot here. What would be the signs to look for that she is putting a facade?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 07:47 PM
1

If what you are telling me is true, then I'm the stupidest person on the planet. Her family is religious oriented, I met her parents and 2 older brothers, both married now. They were kinda protecting her when she was younger. She had very good values in her life, that's why she is like that now. I know we are only two guys on the internet not knowing eachother, but believe me when I say this: she had absolutely no fucking clue about anything sex related. Period. This thing I wrote about in this …
/r/askTRP25/08/19 07:26 PM
1

Ok dude I don't care if you don't believe me in this. She had absolutely no fucking idea about anything sex related. How to suck dick. How condom looks like. How sperm looks like. Nothing. If you don't believe me - ok, your turn. I can't convince you in this here.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:50 PM
1

Apart from one guy who "almost" put dick in her for few seconds, I am. I'm sure about it and I'm not stupid
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:46 PM
1

I know it's hard to understand for some of you, but she didn't. Yes she didn't have a dick for almost 24 years. She is very very tight, had no idea how anything sex related works. And I'm not fucking stupid. If you don't believe me then not, this part of my post I'm sure about.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:43 PM
1

And the reason is?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:36 PM
1

What's the horseshit I'm falling for? I don't put them on pedestal, it's just my country and I know people from west and usa, it's much different but still AWALT I know. I've read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:35 PM
1

Apart from this one "encounter" she was. I remember our first times, she had no idea how dick looks like, condom, how to fuck, oral, nothing.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:32 PM
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Been there. This is her lifetime opportunity. She sees you as her chance to have her cake and eat it too. That's why she is so submissive etc. but it won't be for ever. Also, you will NEVER be in peace with her past. You will keep thinking about it. Enjoy your time, dont put kid inside her and dont get too attached, know its going to end.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:04 PM
1

I never saw it this way, my perspective on my journey has definitely changed now. Thank you
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:46 PM
1

I feel like I'm reading about myself, had exact same situations as you, PM me if you want to talk. Solution which is helping me right now? Find girl who is very into you, is very patient and you trust her. After being virgin for way too long due to religion reasons, I am regaining my confidence in sex with her and I'm getting better and better every single time. All my fears, ED problems etc are disappearing. In this situation, going full RP won't help you and actually your problems can keep get…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:51 PM
2

Good luck to you brother also, so many men are suffering and grinding like that by themselves
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:55 PM
2

Thanks, wrote PM to you :)
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:53 PM
1

Whatever the case understand that whatever you’re feeling is temporary and IT WILL PASS I will start saying this to myself and hope this is the case. Thanks for your tips and I have started meditation already after all comments in this thread
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:33 PM
1

i also felt that nihlistic numbness. it’s been a transition, between intellectual understanding vs realization of the spirit. i’ve been so accustomed to the social constructed mask and prison, and now that i am out of plato’s cave, i find myself missing my shackles. Exactly what I feel. enjoy the transition, this too is the path. you are now free to create your own values and importance, as opposed to the nonsense society pushes onto us. Can't say I enjoy it right now, but hope I will be able to…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:31 PM
1

but it's this assurance that's plaguing me with lack of meaningfulness in life through the grind feel the same and the one thing im looking for is a bigger mission than my current one - a bigger one that i can truly call my life goal - my true mission also hope I will be able to find it decided to go to Europe for a week for the first time, am leaving next week so hoping a breath of fresh air will do me some good and give me some motivations Be careful with that. I went solotravelling backpackin…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:29 PM
1

Rebirth is painful but necessary. Thank you for that, hope this is the case for me.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:24 PM
1

True, I was challenging myslef a lot. I got money, had more than all my friends for some time and found out it doesn't make me happier at all. Now that I lost most of it I'm in ever worse state. Sometimes I wish I could live in different times. When there were wars etc., maybe that's stupid, but the idea of bonding together with other men, fighting for mutual purpose etc sounds fantastic for me.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:11 PM
1

That's true, I broke free from these things thanks to RedPill also, and felt like I had nothing to catch myself into to regain balance and life meaning. But I guess I'm slowly getting back to myself, thanks also to amazing responses in this thread, hope I will be back stronger
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:06 PM
1

I'd also recommend visiting a shrink, sometimes it can help. What is shrink? Also the quotation in the end is very smart and useful in my situation as I feel I'm getting tested all the time lately by life. Thank you for that, will remember it
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:00 PM
1

No, never did
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:56 PM
1

Your comment is incredible, I feel like you saw straight through me. Thank you a lot, I read it couple times and will do it again in future when I need it. Wish you the best!
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:55 PM
1

I do think about it and it destroys my mood completely. All the things I made wrong in life, time wasted etc
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:31 PM
1

I tried meditation couple times, but never really got seriously into it for longer time and regularly. Maybe that's actually what I need, will start it
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:30 PM
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Pretty much how i look at this. If they know you have other girls, dont let them meet your family or talk about future together etc then that's just all on their mind that they imagine you will commit.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:25 AM
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This is actually one of the best comment i have seen on this topic. So fucking true
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:49 PM
3

Used to have similar problem, my advice is to find girls who are really into you from the start, but it's not that easy, depends on your SMV. Best 2 plates I have right now (2 and 4 months) were girls who superliked me on tinder and were really into me from the beginning. So our first date, we met close to my place, went for a walk and then i invited them over. Just like this, no drinks etc. The rest is obvious and they keep coming back to me. They are really cool girls, not fatties etc, I find …
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:24 PM
3

By travelling. Was walking a lot daily and not eating enough = boom, weight lost. That's the secret, move your ass and eat less
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:04 PM
1

You can't do anything, I was the same. At 23 I was being able to grow my first facial hair, at 24 I'm more handsome than ever, girls tell me this all time. When i was younger nobody ever told me that, so prepare for it later
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:50 PM
11

Just checking in as a Polish guy to tell you that translation is pretty much good, the important meaning is preserved. Hmu If you need sth more to be translated
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:39 AM
1

People will tell you you should have agreed and amplified. Maybe yes, maybe no. In the end of the day, do you think you made the right choice kicking her? You said yes, but then again you made this thread, so something is making you insecure Girls are addition to our life not a goal. If you no longer had fun with this chick then you made the right move and dont overthink it. Even if these were probably shit tests i can totally agree with you and after longer time of such a stupid talk i would pr…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:24 AM
1

Hmm maybe that's true, didnt look at it from this perspective. Guess it was pretty obvious for me and her that we would cook together. What would you say now?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:46 PM
1

I checked my test couple times in last months, it came with 550-750 scores when lab range is 250-840
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:04 AM
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I edited my comment :)
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:54 PM
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Great question man and i feel i can help and give advice. Im finishing college and have yt channel with almost 300k subs. Have better income than i think all my friends in college but there also negatives points in it and a lot of risk. But im really short on time now, will be back in a few hours and write more or you can pm me and we can talk.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 12:41 PM
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