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Thank you 🙂 all of this was great to read. The sibling dynamics are so hard for me to navigate as an only child. As you can see in my post my older 2 are 3 years (and 12 days lol) apart so I can see the tension building between them as my oldest enters puberty. I do my best to stop things in their tracks between them but as you said, once I'm out of ear shot I can never rally know what's being said.
/r/RedPillWives03/05/22 06:23 AM
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The whole sibling dynamic thing is so very difficult for me to navigate. I'm an only child myself and grew up with only one or two close friends. My husband has 2 half siblings (one from mom (sister)and one from dad(brother)) He didnt live with either of them full time and I'venever met his brother. He's not close with either of them now, we do see his sister though. I played with the neighborhood kids and had school friends but none that followed me to adulthood except for 1. I really do consid…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 06:18 AM
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I think your very first sentence is my sticking point. It is unclear to me if he is 100% on not having more children. His words on the matter haven't been that clear to me. I will have to talk with him about it one last time so I can know for sure. Thank you for the advice. I always find it hard to see the HOW of a thing, the WHAT comes easily and then I get stuck on the how.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 08:34 PM
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I just got a new Taste of Home cookbook at Sam's Club last month. It is titled "5 Ingredient Comfort Food" I also got one called "Light and Easy Weeknight Cooking" I've tried a few recipes from the 5 Ingredient one but none from the Light and Easy yet. We also did Hello Fresh for a few months so I always make sure to keep the recipe cards of the meals we liked so I can re make them.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 06:20 PM
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Together almost 12 years now. Married for 10. We have 3 Children ages 10, 7, and 2. We currently both work. Right this moment we are both on nights so we don't see a whole lot of each other. We MIGHT get one night off a week together. We spend want little time we do get together watching a show like the new Marvel one called Moonknight or some other superhero show. Every now and then I can get him to watch something else with me. a lot of times I will stay up till he gets off work at 3 am (I'm a…
/r/RedPillWives01/05/22 07:40 AM
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I've been listening to The Empowered Wife and Facinating Womanhood for the Timeless Woman on repeat at work and trying to really internalize the concepts and live more in line with my ideals. I'm trying to figure out how to apply the concepts to my current situation. My biggest desire at the moment is having a 4th and final child. I've voiced this as a request in the past "Can we have one more baby?" Which is always met with a quick stern "No." I want to not want a baby because I don't want him …
/r/RedPillWives01/05/22 05:33 AM
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My husband has a ton of baggage from childhood that he has never unpacked he just put a lock on it and threw away the key...and this definitely affects our marriage and his emotions (or lack thereof) it is really tough being with someone who doesn't connect emotionally. I'm here for the kids, and because I love him, and I know in his way he loves me too. I'm ok with the way things are now. I've accepted it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 11:19 AM
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My hubby is happier to have me home too I can tell even though he won't say it outloud. Today is my last day of work. I'm actually able to get most of my housework done in just a few hours. It's been overwhelming to catch up on everything (and I still have quite a bit to catch up on) but overall I can see it wont take me more than a few hours a day to keep it maintained which is exciting...Because I have definitely never felt that way in the past!
/r/RedPillWives08/08/20 01:55 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives23/06/20 02:24 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives23/06/20 02:23 AM
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Oh thanks! 😊
/r/RedPillWives22/06/20 09:56 PM
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Thank you😁
/r/RedPillWives22/06/20 09:56 PM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives22/06/20 09:55 PM
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Thank you! I always go to this shade no matter what sometimes its darker or lighter but always this dusty mauve color. This one is a super old lip stain but I have it in some cover girl super stay matte too.
/r/RedPillWives22/06/20 09:55 PM
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I lurk on your posts on MRP I've always wanted to comment but I know I'm not "allowed" to be there. You remind me a lot of my own husband. I'm in a very similar situation as OP...husband and I have been together for 10 years, 3 kids together, dog, both of us working full time on opposite shifts, I suck at being feminine because I have shyed away from it for so long. I've stifled so much of his masculinity over the years and have tried to be in control where he should have been.
/r/RedPillWives28/05/20 04:10 PM
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You're only 2 months in. This wont last forever! The breastfeeding will get easier (I promise!) Before you know it your little boy will be walking and talking and eating more table food than nursing. I'm typing this comment out to you as I hold my 5 month old boy on my chest for his morning nap. For a month or two now our baby has been going to bed between 7 and 8 at night. After he goes down I get our older 2 kids to bed and more often than not hubby and I have sex. I had to "just do it" around…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 12:20 PM
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It would depend on how well they handled their autism. If they cant deal with loud noises or things that get out of their routine really bug them probably not. Kids dont keep quiet and they dont stay on a good routine or schedule usually. (At least. It without some fight.)
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 02:54 PM
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My husband always insisted on paying...even when we were "just friends"
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 05:06 PM
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Yes it is! He is always the one trying to get his friends to "man up" or to get them to hang out. He has the desire to work out. Gyms are still closed here (stupid COVID Quarantine). He actually just ordered a weight set (on his own, I said nothing about it) so he could lift at home (hasn't come in yet). We have worked out together in the past, that's definitely not for us he wants to go a lot harder than I do. Any men he has tried to get to go with him puss out with excuses. I'm looking into a …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 11:40 AM
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I had thought about that. None of my husbands friends have traditional relationships...the handful that are in LTR or Married are quite a lot like him. So I actually shared a couple of TRP/MRP links with my husband since I lurk on MRP mostly and Horns of Apathy reminds me A LOT of my own husband. I believe the biggest factor in my husband's beta tendencies lie in his poor male examples growing up. His mother married and divorced 8 different men throughout his childhood...2 of them she married tw…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 10:51 AM
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Thank you for asking this I'm in a bit of a similar situation. I want to follow your thread and see what people comment.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 01:40 AM
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We are home together only in the evenings. His days end earlier than mine (he's home by 4:30, I'm home by 6) bit it leaves very little room for either of us to accomplish very much of anything and you youngest is a very needy baby. He demands a lot of attention so setting him down to try to get anything done is rough. He's usually crying. He doesnt nap alone very often. And not reliably enough for us to get into a decent routine.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 08:30 PM
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I'm sure a lot of women here who are just starting out or struggling would love to read what you have to say.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/20 08:20 PM
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We have never paid for daycare. We currently work opposite days so one of us is always home. He works Sunday, Monday, Thursday and I work Tuesday Wednesday, Saturday. We work alternating Fridays. Currently we both work at the same place. In the past I worked part time jobs around his hours. We relied on family members (my mom or his grandma) to watch our children if there was an overlap. Now it's just the two of us. My mom used to live with us but she just moved out in March after 4 years of liv…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 08:07 PM
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That's awesome! So glad he's enjoying having you home and you are happier and healthier! I hope you get to continue to be a homemaker ❤ I wish I (28) could instill the confidence that my husband (29) could support us on his own. We've been trying to keep up with people 10 years older than us for SO long. So I do kind of "have" to work. But I also don't. We just need to scale back our lifestyle significantly. How do I show him we could do it? We have 3 children 8F, 5M, 5 months M. I have ALWAYS s…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 09:50 AM
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If you go with a wig please learn how to wear it well. I work with someone who wears a wig and you can tell it is a wig...so much so that everyone calls her "Wiggy" or "Velma". Its honestly so sad because you can tell she really cares about her appearance.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 06:13 PM
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I honestly might have overestimated the price lol this was bought 8 years ago...I remember it was too expensive to pay for out of pocket so we put it on a jewelry store charge card, I think it took a year to pay off. I wish I could post a picture of it. My wedding ring is just a plain white gold band.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 04:15 PM
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My ring was like $500...we picked it out together. It's small and I'm ok with that. I'm not a jewelry person. We got engaged very young (we were only 20) so neither of us had much money.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 05:26 PM
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I think this is weird. I've had men comment on my appearance. Most of the time it's good. Only sometimes its "you look tired" and that's usually because I look tired lol I think you're just surrounded by a bunch of jerks.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 10:25 AM
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I am new to RPW...I dont think my DH really has TRP mentality, we have been together for 9 years hand have 3 children together. I need some help with this concept...I dont want to be equal...but I do want things to be fair. We both work outside the home at the same place (we are essentials so we are still working) . He is a supervisor and I'm a regular employee so he makes a bit more than I do. I'm expected to handle ALL of the domestic responsibilities. He cares for the children while I am at w…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 11:56 PM
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Advice: Offer advice when asked for it. Parental rules: ask if "xyz"is ok for the child to do. Gifts: experiences are better gifts than "stuff" (I dont remember the gifts I got from my grandparents...but I do remember going on vacation with them). My mom lived with me for 4 years...she was a full time baby sitter (widowed and works full time and doesn't do much else) she just recently moved out to her own place and sees the kids once or twice a week. I go visit her once and she comes to visit us…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 06:02 PM
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I want to try to open up some honest communication with my husband. I've just stumbled upon RPW very recently and there are a lot of things that resonate with me. I may make my own post later to elaborate. In short I feel like we dont even know each other anymore (9 years together, 3 children) amd I want to get to know him again.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 06:43 PM
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