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| 1 | What are your thoughts on “the lightswitch effect”?Thanks for that! Had no clue. Also makes much more sense of the prophetic phrase of the "coming of the son of man" in what you've shown me, thanks, that always confused me! | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on “the lightswitch effect”?Okay read the whole thing. Core issue seems to be around "what is love". And, via proxy, "what is faith/fidelity" and thus "what is infidelity". There is a reason marriage vows are so... Thorough (til death do us part). Agape means (among other things) literally "charity" or "generosity". Faith means literally (among other things) "trust" or "respect". Ie, "ye of little faith" and only for lack of faith can a marriage be disavowed. So. Yes, naturally light switch effect is this, basically. It's … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on “the lightswitch effect”?Geez. Link doesn't work on mobile and I guess it's a unsearchable quarantined community. Can't engage with an argument if you can't see it I guess. Edit found alternate link | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else who has faired well in dating and just dabbled in RP noticing how difficult it is to try and help some of these guys?Ah yeah. 25 years ago or so I kind of resolved against the whole dating scene and whatnot. Too much work to do, my free time was my free time. By the time I had "adult money" there was a lot of other things I would rather do. Now I often feel I'm in uncharted waters and never know where I'm gonna get called "toxic" next for simply saying "no thank you". Like my decisions were already made for me or something. But yeah I admit I can be toxic when I feel cornered. So the whole "simp/incel" thing I… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/21 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Is anyone else who has faired well in dating and just dabbled in RP noticing how difficult it is to try and help some of these guys?Wait... Does society really see those who don't date as a problem... ? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Rage Makes No Sense To MeThanks for breaking that down. This is a truth that can easily turn ugly with misguided perceptions and hopes... Hence, "red pill rage". Unrealistic hopes and expectations being shattered... This is RPR. Yeah it can suck but isn't too bad to get over. I understand it. I had my own massive idols and ideals that took me far from Life/Jesus/Zen/Dao as well. RPR is in part, realising this. It does suck when you realise it objectively for first time and see an army of people calling you "misogynistic… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Rage Makes No Sense To MeCarrot and stick doesn't work if the horse doesn't like carrots. It's one of those carrots we were kinda conditioned to want (enGineEriNg oF cOnsEnt). Past a certain point in a "man's" "life" he begins to realize his faith and reality are 2 separate things. Also disillusionment is generally the best thing that can happen, if you are true to yourself. Edit Ideals as Plastic Defintions is key here. What's good for all isn't good for one and vice versa ([as a spiritual mirror,] my reward is with me… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | For the men in this group, what was the turning point in making you leave the redpill? When did you wake up and how long did it take?I don't have a car. All the gasoline slogans in the world can't make me buy gas. I won't ever forget red pill the same way I'll never live down my cringiest moments. You leave red pill the same way you quit playing last gens console. I still love a lot of the content producers you just won't see me raving about them. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Feminist create the nice guys they despise.Lost the moment. "Wait, it's all K/F/M" meme template came to mind but I discarded it as inappropriate. Black and white. Just got first tounge drum and studied theory. Did you know on piano C scale has no black notes? I made straight C's in high school. So, one sided is not always a good thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 04:43 AM |
| 10 | Feminist create the nice guys they despise.I can virtue signal better than the other bois | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do both feminists and red pill types seem to have an extreme dogma of non empathy and understandingThanks for those reminders. Been off base with them from abundance of talk. Appearance and reality. Yup. It's not just excuses becasue those also have appearances and realities that aren't always what they seem. Here is again the divide. TRP says use game (or, act tough/busy) to avoid the pitfalls of law that favors "empathetic women". Feminists have... Well I don't know really you tell me, maybe "all men are pigs" but that's outdated by a couple decades it seems. Point being to answer OP questi… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do both feminists and red pill types seem to have an extreme dogma of non empathy and understandingFrom your experience and my own keyword seems to be "excuses". The phrase "ENP" or Narcissist in general gets thrown around a lot but even that is flavored with the doubt of questionable self-reflection. Safest to assume we are all mirrors... Or preferably ponds as our reflections can get stirred up and we lose our tranquility... Or illusion thereof. In this, who is making the most excuses, justifiable or not. Or, what did Christ (truth) say in his defence when everyone gave false witness of him… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | As I get older the 40 year old virgin movie is more relatableHeh. "To stay or not to stay" - the non-dumb-ass Shakespeare or something. Yeah. I'm an auxiliary guy as well. When you know you are no one and it's nothing and everything is "made you look" (or vice versa), you are just left with a chip and hundreds of dips. 👆 username. So for me the word of god seems to elucidate more than anything. Humble and contrite actaully seems the best default module. This does not negate all other pretenses, but rather allows them to "do their thing". The whole... "Nev… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | As I get older the 40 year old virgin movie is more relatableThis is what I couldn't articulate when I saw it. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 02:40 AM |
| -1 | Do older men and younger women really like each other?We go together like old farts and air freshener | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I’m beginning to improve myself without TRP but can’t unsee itYeah that's bassically what I meant. Trust requires work. When it fails especially (forgiveness and grace and whatnot - fgw). In context of op (deleted already) yeah I meant trust as in turn a blind eye to RP. Innocent until proven guilty and then f/g/w as above. I always say I'll never eat burritos again... But hey probably not gonna happen. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | I’m beginning to improve myself without TRP but can’t unsee itOh no I stay far away from belief. It is the nemesis of faith. Faith means trust, belief means more hoping an ideal is true. Took me nearly 3 decades to really begin to realize that, yeah. I trust (have faith) that the neighbors dog won't chew threw all of the new outdoor furniture. I believe that the sun might rise in the west tommorow. Yeah not the same haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I’m beginning to improve myself without TRP but can’t unsee itFaith makes a lot of sense. Faith (synonym: trust) is the only way to make the "Disney dream" come true. And faith requires effort... Nowhere in any scripture does it ever say faith is an easy walk. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I’m beginning to improve myself without TRP but can’t unsee itPoop stinks and no amount of advertising is gonna make me wanna lick the toilet when someone is done in there ... And I just swore off potty mouth the other day. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about the school system treating boys? Basically as defective girlsLol I got punched so hard I almost lost a permanent tooth in volleyball once but didn't cry. There was a bit of blood and they just told the white boy to suck it up and return to the game or something like that haha. To this day I have pains when something bumps that tooth just right. I tried to be as passive as possible for similiar reasons. I was a "fragile white redditor" in somewhat/largely poor black schools, for a time at least. I remember at times a deep sense of hatred and hostility towa… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault.Ah yes the prison mentality. We have to ACT tough so a real tough doesn't mess with us. Meanwhile Jesus speaks of his acts being of the father. We are afraid of love we cannot escape bassically. Prisoner's dilemma. There's a rap battle going on somewhere suggesting that no one exists. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill, I'm Calling You Out.I don't understand how it's so seductive, more than anything. Gotta go a little over the top because fighting it any other way doesn't seem to work 😛 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Red Pill, I'm Calling You Out.Tired of being called an loser/incel when you wouldn't willingly touch another human with a 6 foot pole? Adopt the "I hate everyone equally" policy now! Guilty until proven innocent is the way to go! Think you are getting special treatmemt? Go back to your special snowflake island! Act now and we'll throw in a free first month of black pills! Once again, that's I hate everyone equally! Quickly while sanity supplies last! No substitutions, exchanges or refunds, results may vary, ask your doctor i… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 5 | What happened to love? Everything so fast and choosy nowAh yes, I'll have the adult happy meal | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 10 | What happened to love? Everything so fast and choosy nowAh yes... Relationships aren't fast food | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wonder if other posters are actually exredpillOh my, today on the internet some people disagree! Jkjk. Yeah, much of TRP (and other things I won't name) is/are LARP(s) at this point, of that I'm fairly confident. It really helped me realise that word (larp) and that most things in the world are just that, a larp/"rabbit hole". Sounds like a great analogy for "pointing to the cross". Early on in TRP it was nice (maybe through 2016 or 18 at the latest), felt like people sharing honest experiences and earnest life lessons. But as with anything… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Is it me or...Everything is a LARP! Wake up! (At least 50% Sarcasm) Edit I mean yes this sub does kind of feel like suicide nets outside a factory window I have to admit 😅 | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | I left red pill behind. Help me[23M] grow, let's brainstormLogic made flesh said it best, this world has no claim on what I am. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | I left red pill behind. Help me[23M] grow, let's brainstormRead most of it. No offense. The frantic sounding nature I can relate to... It... Really brought to mind the scripture "seek the first the kingdom of god and all these things added". One thing that took me far to long to learn. Trp is a perspective. Not reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/21 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes I feel a semi-irrational adjustment that *only* men need to change, it seemsThanks. Haha. Dao and final sollution. Spirit and letter of law. The map hits home for me to. Maybe the ability to tell what is inside and outside of us is the closest thing we can get to sovereignty... Who we are and who we want to be don't always have to be the same thing. Thanks for reminder. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/21 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes I feel a semi-irrational adjustment that *only* men need to change, it seemsWhoa thanks for that. That's almost exactly what I was sluggishly thinking. I agree we don't need to change until we have a "come to Jesus" moment and see ourselves as we truly are and decide then. Arbitrary change for the sake of "lawl u r so old skewl and that is toxic" leads inevitably to everything not forbidden is compulsory. The feel "when you give an inch will they take a mile" goes without saying. It's almost as if there are shock inalienable human rights or something. How dare I want to… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 8 | If you're starting to talk in circle in that one particular topic you're interested and try to make any nonexisted point for that topic, remember you're starting to ingrain or become part of the cult.This next bean burrito I eat won't give me gas... Edit if I could go back and say one thing to myseld would be; all pills are flavorings or perspectives on reality, and not reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 05:05 PM |
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